>>15347653
I try not to yell, but being naturally competitve and under exam season stress, I may end up a little high strung, so I apologise for just plain raging if it happens.
That said, I don't see how telling you how to play equates to being unfriendly. I mean, I get it if someone's going like "you're a fucking moron for not doing X, Y and Z", but otherwise, why should you consider them mutually exlusive? If anything, being friendly in this sort of game should cover giving each other advice on how to play so you can get more enjoyment out of doing reasonably well instead of being shitstomped. I try to give advice like that and not be dickish about it.
Likewise, on being "too serious", I understand what you're trying to get at and agree that yeah, you're in the wrong place if you're not playing a silly 2hu mod with no competitive system at all to have fun, but I don't think it's call to act like the game doesn't matter at all because I don't enjoy getting stomped because nobody cares about winning. I might just be strawmanning here, but I hope you get what I'm saying. Playing for fun and playing to win are not mutually exclusive.
As for banning Touhous, it's because the game is stupidly unbalanced and some things are just not fun to play against, like Aya "Oh you picked me off and would have a kill if I were any other hero but since you can't 100-0 me in the span of a single CC let me just press R and get away scott free" Shameimaru. And again, we're playing to have fun, so how is trying to remove, or at least mitigate, the unfun stuff a bad thing?
Also, regards >>15348223 , I don't understand people's problem with him. He's great fun most of the time, in my experience, and generally only gets upset with you if you're doing something really stupid or it's just a shitty match. But I guess mute him if he gets too worked up for you, whatever.