Why is virginity so meaningful in Japan?

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Anonymous Fri Sep 11 18:22:52 2015 No.14081197 [Reply] [Original]

Why is virginity so meaningful in Japan?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 18:25:39 2015 No.14081208 File: 201 KB, 349x525, 1420631278498.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14081197 Why is virginity so meaningless in America?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 18:31:47 2015 No.14081236 Please stop thinking Japan is anything like your Japanese cartoons.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 18:35:02 2015 No.14081250 Why is virginity so meaningful to otaku?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 18:35:16 2015 No.14081251 Are you talking about 30% of Japanese men having wizard credentials?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 18:36:33 2015 No.14081260 Insecurity and fear of being compared to other men.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 18:50:33 2015 No.14081322 >>14081236 It's not uncommon for couples to start fuging only after a year or so of dating.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 19:00:13 2015 No.14081354 because used goods are disgusting

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 19:11:36 2015 No.14081396 >>14081197 >Taking an eromanga seriously.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 19:24:18 2015 No.14081444 >>14081250 This dude gets it

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 19:27:50 2015 No.14081454 It's funny that just a century or two ago someone would be asking the opposite.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 19:33:19 2015 No.14081481 File: 359 KB, 1500x1338, 1287679980768.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14081197 It's meaningful period.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 19:41:06 2015 No.14081521 >>14081322 That's because jap men are cucks. I've dated 3 jap girls in Tokyo. Fucked the first one on the third date and 2 others on the second date.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 19:46:01 2015 No.14081536 Purityfags are the worst.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 19:48:35 2015 No.14081548 File: 109 KB, 1280x720, 1428975365888.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14081536 Slutfags GET OUT

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 19:53:51 2015 No.14081570 >>14081536 who femanon here? ;))

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 19:55:47 2015 No.14081584 >>14081197 It's meaningful worldwide, and Japan is a part of the world.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 19:57:14 2015 No.14081593 >>14081197 It's only meaningful in fiction, because that's where all the purityfags retreated after the world was stained.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 21:11:29 2015 No.14081842 any virg girls ITT

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 21:20:13 2015 No.14081875 >>14081521 protip: japanese chicks who date gaijin because they are gaijin are gigantic sluts and have banged every gaijin they could get their hands on before you met them. your aids, enjoy them.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 21:21:35 2015 No.14081882 >>14081521 >on /jp/ >fucked anyone lmao keep dreaming you fuckin sperg

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 21:25:40 2015 No.14081892 >>14081875 protip: white dick is superior to azn cuck manlet's micropenises. Azn girls literally hit on me for being white because they want my semen to improve their gene pool

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 21:42:50 2015 No.14081965 >>14081536 Kill yourself

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 21:46:39 2015 No.14081983 >>14081197 because people don't have sexual intercourse there. Instead they just masturbate and refuse to talk to the other gender. Because they simulate activities that would monivate people to have sex: Cuttle clubs, and host clubs.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 11 22:05:54 2015 No.14082096 >>14081875 They are just like ordinary japanese women, then.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 00:25:24 2015 No.14086891 >>14081208 Because sex is great and people want to enjoy their lives

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 00:57:22 2015 No.14087014 I really don't get why people think virginity is a desirable trait. Do neckbeard really delude themselves to thinking women will never love a man until they meet them?

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 01:19:07 2015 No.14087077 >>14086891 used goods detected

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 01:26:17 2015 No.14087095 >>14087014 Somebody had to be first. >>14087077 Come up with a better answer, then.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 01:28:26 2015 No.14087103 I don't give a shit as long as she stays faithful to me after starting a relationship.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 01:33:15 2015 No.14087116 >>14087103 this

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 02:55:31 2015 No.14087355 >>14081892 I dunno they've got those immortality genes right? I woudn't want to fuck those up.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 03:54:58 2015 No.14087497 >>14087103 Faithfulness is a two-way street, otherwise it doesn't work.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 07:00:31 2015 No.14087906 >hey people i eat other men's leftover from trashbin it tastes good~

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 07:50:21 2015 No.14088018 >>14087906 So, if you ever had sex even once in your life, no girl will ever want to be with you again because you know, ewww, they wouldn't eat the leftovers from another woman's trashbin. Makes sense.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 08:15:44 2015 No.14088075 >>14087014 Because virgins are more faithful.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 09:15:43 2015 No.14088197 >>14088075 In your autismal delusions yeah.

Anonymous Sun Sep 13 18:45:36 2015 No.14090146

>>14081197
Virginity has been valuable throughout history and still is throughout the world; it is only due to the pervasive nihilism in Western culture that it is considered worthless (and yet people cannot connect this "it's all good do whatever #yolo" irresponsible and self-indulgent attitude to the failing of relationships). Not considering it meaningful is a deviation from the norm and there is suffering for it.

Virginity is usually associated with youth, naivete, innocence and purity (not being 'corrupted'). Most girls of the media are school age, where the audience is either pining for something they relate to (nip schoolkids are not as sexually active as their Western counterparts) or, if older, what they won't find in the adult world.
>>14087014
Why do people generally choose a new product over something used if they had the ability to purchase either? There are exceptions but the rule is that people will generally prefer something they can make and call their own over something that belonged to and was used by others. Humans are objects as well as subjects, that is an inescapable fact, and sex *does* matter. It is a fact that couples who married as virgins fare better than the opposite.

These "neckbeards" aren't deluded of anything, they hold to romantic 'ideals' involving love and sex in spite of the reality. You also make no distinctions to infatuation and love and that they do not necessarily lead to sex but that's another symptom of the nihilistic climate, just like our friend here >>14088018 is confused as to think men and women are the same. But hey, if you need to rationalize the ridiculous, go for it. That's how you thrive in a world where everything is cheap.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 18:57:18 2015 No.14090187 >>14088018 >men and women are equal nice meme

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 20:26:09 2015 No.14090474 So, are lesbos virgins? Like all those lesbian type characters in those all girl shows that have gotten popular to make, because fans can't stand guys to even be present in their anime.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 20:27:29 2015 No.14090482 >>14090146 >everything is cheap. You can buy a fictional virgin for $75 at the eroge store or download one for free online.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 20:32:55 2015 No.14090501 File: 222 KB, 600x400, 1367077035585.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Fucking a slut is far more enjoyable than fucking a virgin. You're all fucking deluded troglodytes.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 20:50:25 2015 No.14090570 >>14090501 Not if you're S.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 20:55:50 2015 No.14090600 >>14090501 Instant gratification tends to be enjoyable, in the short term. Unless you plan to fuck sluts your whole life, it's terrible in the long term only seeking quick rewards.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 21:07:00 2015 No.14090663 >>14090501 Enjoy you're AIDS

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 21:10:18 2015 No.14090677 >>14087014 >Do neckbeard really delude themselves to thinking women will never love a man Do normies really delude themselves to thinking any women actually love them

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 21:12:48 2015 No.14090685 >>14090570 Being M is a lot better than being S. You too in time will come to realize this.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 21:16:51 2015 No.14090695 >>14081536 I'd london you if you weren't a slut

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 21:59:15 2015 No.14090824 >>14090685 But why.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:01:47 2015 No.14090833 >>14090685 Inflicting and receiving pain both seem bad to me. Pain hurts. I've had enough pain in my life from my parents. Otherwise, all of BDSM is good except for the S&M part.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:07:54 2015 No.14090851 >>14081197 Natural human behavior (not taking 'spoiled goods' is a claim to your dominance and not letting other men step all over your 'property') + history of arranged marriages + christian influence that made sexuality weird and taboo

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:12:05 2015 No.14090863 >>14090851 >Japan >christian influence Reminder Japan censoring its porn is its own doing.

Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:14:19 2015 No.14090867
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>>14090685
Incorrect
Being an S can be quite more enjoyable than being an M, and this is coming from a previous M

Realize that sadomasochism is the true path and one of the most important factors is pain itself, both giving and receiving. Look inside yourself and realize that you crave pain. Realize that many other people are just like you and also desire pain (and to be submissive).
If you are a true masochist, you should desire to serve people. If most people want pain and to submit, the best course of action to bring others pleasure and be useful is to give them what they truly want.
You are doing a needed service with sadism.

Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:15:57 2015 No.14090876
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>>14081197
>implying western values are homogenous
>Not understanding that some people genuinely want to save their first time for someone special
>Being too jaded to realize that some of these people get their wish

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:16:50 2015 No.14090878 I wonder if anyone else on my university campus could possibly be into BDSM without the pain. Pain is frightening, and I'd want to trust someone too, before letting BDSM happen. >/jp/ blog culture

Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:18:24 2015 No.14090883

>>14090876
>Being too jaded to realize that some of these people get their wish

It's pretty crazy to think that there are people out there that get married to their first and only love and actually live out a healthy and love-filled relationship throughout their lives.

I wonder if it's common among more religious groups

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:33:21 2015 No.14090920 >>14090878 Pussy.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:34:55 2015 No.14090924 >>14090920 Being beaten by your parents does not condition you to enjoy pain! I think the masochists here probably have had really cushy upper-middle class childhoods.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:35:57 2015 No.14090926 >>14090924 What about the sadists then?

Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:36:08 2015 No.14090927

>>14090883
My mother and father were each other's first partners and married, had two children, and remained commited to each other until the day my dad died in his mid 30s. They met when they were 16 and ran a hairdressing business together for nearly 20 years. My mum then spent 9 years living alone because she felt too guilty to "replace" my dad by filling the hole in her life with someone else. Every relationship since has been short and messy.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:37:58 2015 No.14090937 >>14090926 I have no idea. That idea also scares me. My parents are sadists. I know they're sadists because they're bullies. I don't feel homesick at all.

Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:40:34 2015 No.14090949
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>>14090927
That's sad because it seems even in a perfect relationship, something has to go horrible wrong...

As if nice things are meant to be taken away....
Why did he have to die so young?

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:42:41 2015 No.14090954 Because only betas think it's worth anything, and japan is full of betas

Anonymous Sun Sep 13 22:51:50 2015 No.14090987

>>14090949
>Why did he have to die so young?

Because he vomitted in his sleep while lying on his back and he choked on it in his windpipe. There's no way to know if he was aware he was suffocating or if he was asleep through the whole thing, but I'll never forget the way mum screamed the next morning when she woke up and realized he died. She was absolutely beyond reach by either my brother and I for about two days and my aunt had to care for us. Even now my brother, whose older and remembers more, cannot talk about any of it.

When the coroner suggested dad might have been sick due to chronic stress, my mum blamed it all on my paternal grandmother, who used to harrass dad in public after he banned her from looking after my brother and I because she used to pick favourites and pit us against each other, something she did with my dad and his siblings when they were children. I can vaguely remember being carried out of a supermarket by my dad once as he ran away from grandma who was shrieking at us in public when we bumped into her.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:01:09 2015 No.14091021 File: 276 KB, 748x720, 1337273969790.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14090501 you're right

Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:04:49 2015 No.14091034
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Purity is valued in literally every society except some backwards tribal ones; it's only recently that it'd even be inconceivable for an unmarried girl to be a non-virgin. Thanks, jews.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:04:52 2015 No.14091035 >>14087014 >>14090677 this

Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:10:51 2015 No.14091054
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I'm curious as to how many virgins or just inexperienced girls you guys have actually been with.

I took 3 virginities in my life-time (don't take it as boasting, i have a questionable taste in women anyway, slowly feel like i'm turning gay too), and comparing them to just some whore i fuck every now and then, they're uncomparably worse. Seriously, it's fun the first time cuz you know you're gonna be special for this girl for the rest of your life, but after a while you realise it's barely enjoyable for both of you, and she's just gonna stand there with her eyes closed moaning, not in pleasure, but in pain until you get bored.

Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:11:23 2015 No.14091059
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>>14090987
I feel you, dude.
My Father passed away last year from what I would attribute to chronic stress as well, in a rather "Death of a Salesman" fashion.

I don't feel up to blogging about it, but thank you for sharing your story. Let's try to take it easy in our lives so that we won't follow a similar fate.

Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:18:05 2015 No.14091079

>>14091034
A lot of Western Society's ideals on purity and marriage happen to come from classic Judaic customs and culture. Which also draw from ancient Semitic and Aramaic cultures.
This just shows how deluded and corrupted your viewpoint has become.

Please actually read the bible before you start making accusations.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:18:25 2015 No.14091084 It isn't. It's only important in otaku culture, and even there it's a relatively new thing.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:23:07 2015 No.14091099 >>14091034 Yes, anon. I'm sure everybody throughout history were pure and chaste and never had urges or fooled around or anything. No, it's clearly only in modern society that sluts are a thing.

Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:23:12 2015 No.14091100
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I think that virginity is meaningful not only in Japan and not because of culture. I am virgin and I think that it would be awesome to share my 1st time with another virgin as well. It would be something completely different and unique for both of us.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:24:16 2015 No.14091103 >>14091054 Guys here are thinking long term commitment wise, not just fucks or sexual conquest. If you want to enjoy yourself in the moment, of course you choose the slut or the whore.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:27:19 2015 No.14091114 >>14091099 Promiscuity existing is one thing. Promiscuity being normalized is another.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:32:13 2015 No.14091138 >>14091099 >Book of Hosea The Ancients tried to warn us about bitches and whores. We didn't listen

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:33:10 2015 No.14091143 >>14091138 >The Ancients >not referring to the superior Greeks OK man Greeks were all bisexual and fun, unlike your monogamous-autism jews.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:48:20 2015 No.14091222 File: 457 KB, 1280x960, 20130126 - 1252.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14081197 I am a 27 yro male virgin. Does this mean I am very meaningful?

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 13 23:49:36 2015 No.14091230 >>14091222 your trips are meaningful

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 00:40:46 2015 No.14091501

It's a statistical fact that virgin couples last far longer in marriage than non virgin degenerate scum do.

Just look at how shitty interpersonal relationships have gotten since things like the sexual revolution and feminism. It's snowballing out of control because children are being raised (often by single mothers) by parents that aren't very stable themselves.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 01:09:20 2015 No.14091624 >>14091501 >Just look at how shitty interpersonal relationships have gotten since things like the sexual revolution and feminism. finally, something to pin my complete lack of friends on

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 01:23:35 2015 No.14091682 >>14091501 >It's a statistical fact that virgin couples last far longer in marriage than non virgin degenerate scum do. Can you link your source for this? I tried a few searches but couldn't find anything.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 01:23:57 2015 No.14091684 >>14081842 > any girls ITT Fixed it for ya

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 01:34:58 2015 No.14091727

>>14091501

The problem is you're doing the whole 'correlation = causation' thing. Many people choose to remain virgins until marriage due to religious beliefs, the same beliefs which also condemn divorce. Your claims are just farcical as those who claim arranged marriages are the best things ever for similar reasons.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 01:35:03 2015 No.14091728 >>14091682 you didn't try at all

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 01:55:09 2015 No.14091800 >>14087497 How does that make me any less right?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 02:16:01 2015 No.14091878 having sex with a non-virgin is like having sex with a used condom

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 02:16:57 2015 No.14091881 >>14091878 I bet you throw away your onaholes after using them once.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 02:29:06 2015 No.14091914
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>>14087014
>>14088197
It just wouldn't be a virginity thread without angry fujoshits lashing out over the fact that some people don't find their promiscuity attractive.

Cry me a river, bitch. Head on back to >>>/soc/ with the rest of the brainless "progressive" cunts.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 02:37:04 2015 No.14091920 >>14091914 >fujoshits >promiscuity Are those two terms an oxymoron of sorts?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 02:38:07 2015 No.14091922 >>14091920 He's probably thinking about your average con slut.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 02:55:00 2015 No.14091942 >>14091920 The average yaoi fangirl/'weeb' girl actually tends to be really slutty. They aren't quiet shut-ins like male otaku, contrary to what anime or VNs might lead you to believe.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 02:55:06 2015 No.14091944 I bet none of you nerds ever wore a Fundoshi.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 02:56:38 2015 No.14091950 >>14091942 So you're saying I could go to these cons?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 03:13:09 2015 No.14091977 >>14091942 American shit girls aren't fujoshi. Fujoshi have unattainable standards and want superfeminine pretty boys while looking like trashcows themselves. They are more virgin than normal otaku.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 03:18:40 2015 No.14091989 >>14091054 You're literally shit if that's how it turned out. Only had that happen once, with a bit of a sperg. Sex has TWO threads, just so you know.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 03:19:51 2015 No.14091993
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>>14091977
>more virgin than normal otaku.

There isn't a female alive that could pull that off, no matter how hard she purposely tried. No matter how repugnant she is, there's always a group of thirsty assclowns more than willing to fuck her. The same cannot be said for neckbeards, regardless of whether or not they have unrealistic standards.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 03:31:22 2015 No.14092011 File: 84 KB, 740x592, a2d6003a44461d68a42ddda0fec583b9.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >/jp/ - normalfag sex stories great board

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 04:01:13 2015 No.14092063 >>14091993 It doesn't matter if they want to fuck her, she doesn't want to fuck them.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 04:06:50 2015 No.14092073

>>14092063
It does matter, for the point you're making. You're making the claim that one group of virgins is "more virgin" than another group of virgins. How do you figure, though?

I'd argue that the group that CAN get laid (fujoshi) are less "virgin-like" than perma-virgins that can't get laid whether they like it or not- your questionable definition of TRU-fujoshi aside.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 04:17:24 2015 No.14092085

>>14092073
People who have chosen to be virgins (and it's not even rare in Japan, papers won't shut up about herbivore males) will stay virgins even if the situation changes, whereas involuntary would probably give it up given the chance.

Though I imagine that most parents have tried to set up their fujoshi daughters by the time they hit thirty.

This whole argument is fucking stupid, though.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 05:18:58 2015 No.14092203 All these piece of shit worries need to leave

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 05:33:24 2015 No.14092241 >>14090501 Why would you want instant pleasure over long lasting morality?

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>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 05:39:33 2015 No.14092259 >>14091100 Haha ciota.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 06:10:00 2015 No.14092303 >>14092085 Fair enough.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 07:15:15 2015 No.14092397 >>14091728 So you don't have a source?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 08:02:36 2015 No.14092485 Regardless of the politics, the sexual revolution and intro of modern birth control was only like 50 years ago. Why are people so surprised that not every culture has fully adjusted yet?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 08:05:38 2015 No.14092489 >>14092259 Thank you for your substantive opinion about me.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 08:06:21 2015 No.14092491 >>14087014 I think you're the deluded one. Desparate neckbeards are pretty much the only men who would marry a pretty slut without reservation if they got the chance.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 08:08:00 2015 No.14092496 40-year-old wizard in training to become an archmage reporting in. It's great to possess knowledge no-one of you will ever have.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 08:10:27 2015 No.14092500 >>14092496 Why are you wasting your time on /jp/ wise old man? Go fuck up the world with your powers or something.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 08:19:16 2015 No.14092516

>>14081197
>>14081208
Why do young Japanese save their earnings and live frugally to prepare to retirement, while young Americans max out their credit cards and end up working at a gas station when they are 75 because the social security isnt enough to cover the rent? Different culture.

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>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 08:51:04 2015 No.14092576 >>14091914 actually both those posts are me and I'm a 25 year old male who's been on /jp/ since the split.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 08:51:52 2015 No.14092580 >>14091993 I think you're "more virgin" if you decide to be it by choice. You've given up on 3D entirely after all. If you're involuntarily a virgin you're still a pathetic wanna-be normie at heart.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 09:06:00 2015 No.14092606

>>14087014
Pump and dump a woman enough times and they basically end up too jaded to love. I know plenty of women who are like this and they are relatively young and havent even been with many men. Honestly love itself is really just a delusion for virgins.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 09:08:00 2015 No.14092609 >>14092485 Man landed on the moon 50 years ago.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 09:08:40 2015 No.14092612 >>14092573 Okay.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 09:08:49 2015 No.14092613 >>14081208 Americans became dumb wiggers.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 09:10:47 2015 No.14092621 >>14092576 >/jp/ since the split. What split?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 09:13:54 2015 No.14092628 >>14092621 the split from /a/ ya doofus

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 09:14:10 2015 No.14092630 >>14092621 He's probably talking about when /jp/ was first created.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 09:25:07 2015 No.14092655

>>14081197
Having non-monogamous sex has actually shown to mess with your hormones in a way that makes you less susceptible to what should otherwise leave your partner imprinted inside of your mind. Aka love.

During climax you receive a whole cocktail of hormones, who among other things leaves an imprint of your mate if you have sex.
Repeating this process with the same mate strengthens said imprint.
Repeating this process with different mates instead weakens each individual imprint.

And that's not all. The receptors for this process are numbed bit by bit each time the process takes place. Making you less susceptible to the chemicals and less capable to carve strong imprints. No matter if you engaged in the process with one or several mates.
But the person who engaged with just one mate should have already carved a great imprint that can later be nurtured over a long life.
But the person who fucked around with multiple is likely to never even having gotten a strong imprint, while greatly having reduced the chances of ever getting one.

Slutting around fucks with love. And it doesn't matter if you are male or female.
Whores are not reliable partners and are less inclined to love and be loyal.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 09:25:48 2015 No.14092656

Its hilarious how butthurt non-virgins are whenever they are looked down upon. Face it, unless you were forced, you had a choice to abstain and save your virginity or give it up for sexual gratification. You might not value it, but other people are free to disagree and prefer someone who chose differently.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 09:38:47 2015 No.14092704 >>14092609 And there are people out there who think the NES is the latest in technology

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 09:39:47 2015 No.14092708 >>14092655 Source?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 09:49:50 2015 No.14092738 >>14092655 Doesn't that theory implies that you are also fucked if you decide to masturbate?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 09:52:57 2015 No.14092743 >>14092738 I dunno about just plain masterbation but certainly for porn, so even the pure NEETs here are all probably too fucked to form a monogmous bond with a real person.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 09:53:34 2015 No.14092744 >>14092738 Supposedly the brain can tell the difference. But who knows. If you put in enough effort perhaps you can fool it. And with the age of VR who knows.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 10:00:45 2015 No.14092760 >>14091059 Yeah I hear you loud and clear. Sorry about your loss bud. That said I get the feeling I've inherited my dad's capacity to worry. I can't help but feel an untimely yet mundane end is waiting for me somewhere down the line.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 10:22:07 2015 No.14092804

>>14092708
It seems fairly common sense to me. However the implications are not so obvious.

It also makes me wonder about the genetic part in this. Is it for others more natural to seek multiple partners, because of differences in libido, or the hormones associated with bonding like oxytocin. Human is among the exceptions to practice monogamous behavior in mammals (wolf and beaver are among the few), it does not seem like it's very easy for most of us: we may still fantasize of sex with others. Also the goat-time-to-ejaculation study comes to mind.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 10:23:10 2015 No.14092807 >>14092655 Don't suppose you can link us the study? I'm interested in how the dendritic pathways are affected by this if it is true.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 10:24:13 2015 No.14092810 File: 994 KB, 500x280, 1386919421552.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14092656 >tfw forced to give it up I wish I was more brave and assertive.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 10:43:21 2015 No.14092865

>>14092708
>>14092807
I don't have the studies that I am actually thinking of. But if you check the references for
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasopressin
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oxytocin
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biological_basis_of_love
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love
You can find studies suggesting the same general thing. The claims may differ some but it's generally understood that these things are what determine attachment and the forming of bonds. And like most compounds you can be desensitized to their effects just like with other chemicals. Supposedly.

Be free to not believe me. I won't claim that I am expert. I have a friend who studied and got into medicine and that person linked me some articles and spoke to me about the subject. So it looks to me like it's likely like that somehow. But it's not as if I am an expert. I am an unemployed drop out who has been a NEET for what is pushing towards a decade. Be free to shoot down all my claims if you can, and if you can back it up I might learn something. But that's the rough understanding of it that I have now.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 10:51:33 2015 No.14092883 >>14092865 Thanks for linking me to Wikipedia instead of an actual valid study. That sure helped.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 10:57:16 2015 No.14092893

>>14092883
I chose to link to wikipedia because they link to several studies instead of just a few. A lot of them have differing opinions and conflict on certain points. So I figured it would be better than linking just a couple of studies.
The studies are linked among the references at the bottom of the wikipedia articles. But whatever.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 11:43:11 2015 No.14092982

>>14081197
Because otakus are pathetic people with 0 social skills and, as such, remain virgins. Since they are worthless and virginity is something that defines them (or, at least, they think it does as everybody who has never had sex and thinks it is a big deal), so the people who want their money act like it is an important trait so they can get their money. Supply and demand, really. Virgins want to feel special and important just for being virgins and people with a brain supply that illusion in trade of money.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 12:46:57 2015 No.14093174 >>14091920 SJWs are often incapable of having sex due to the fact that ponos in vagoo is misogynist and girls are only allowed to use strap-ons on men.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 12:51:04 2015 No.14093188 >>14092655 >not knowing that group relationships are the truest form of love Stay mad, normalfag.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 12:55:45 2015 No.14093207 >>14081197 Friendly remainder that women retain genetic information from all their sex partners in their blood .

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 12:56:41 2015 No.14093213 >>14092982 Fuck off retard

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 12:57:35 2015 No.14093214 >>14092606 this

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 12:58:16 2015 No.14093217 >>14093207 That's really sexy, and reminds me of how the schoolers in Evangelion have angel genetics

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 13:03:15 2015 No.14093227 >>14093213 He's right you know.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 13:04:46 2015 No.14093231 >>14093207 The correct term is Microchimerism: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Microchimerism

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 13:22:07 2015 No.14093279
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I refuse to associate with unvirgins on more than cordial terms.
Recently, two girls and one guy wanted to discuss lewd things with me, but the moment they mentioned they weren't virgins I lost all interest. I don't have a virginity fetish or anything, but I feel like I can't openly discuss my fantasies with people who have actually had the real thing, which I suspect it's pretty different.

And of course >>14081260
It's only natural to want to play on an even field right? Specially when you are the one where more expectations are put.
Virgins should be reserved for virgins only, sadly most virgins only care about "losing it".
Actually, I'd probably be more comfortable with a turboslut who has fucked 10000000 men than a girl who's only had a handful, but still a virgin is better.
Society is just gross.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 13:25:36 2015 No.14093286

>>14091682
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1741-3737.2003.00444.x/abstract

I believe these also have some data on it
Kahn, J., & London, K. (1991). Premarital sex and the risk of divorce. Journal of Marriage and the Family
Whyte, M. (1990). Dating, mating, and marriage. New York: Random House

Research citing the Teachman study may be worth looking into
https://scholar.google.com/scholar?cites=7150440919217704575&as_sdt=2005&sciodt=0,5&hl=en

And here's one from a conservative think thank if you like somewhat biased sources
http://s3.amazonaws.com/thf_media/2003/pdf/Bookofcharts.pdf

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 13:28:36 2015 No.14093299 >>14092500 He came here to bully the wizard apprentices

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 13:33:13 2015 No.14093309 File: 30 KB, 400x400, 1430792101856.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14092655 Can't make a ho' into a housewife

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 13:36:41 2015 No.14093317 >>14092883 Wikipedia has sources listed

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 13:36:58 2015 No.14093318 >>14092655 This shit actually sounds very plausible. It would explain why I've never loved anyone, real or fictional, at least.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 14:09:43 2015 No.14093416

Virginity implies a willingness to hold out for the right man, so the idea holds that if you are partnered with a virgin and you take her virginity, then she is bound to you in a manner which no other man can be.

In real life, this varies entirely by the person. While this rule was true in the past, previous cultures, both Western and Eastern, held that women who rejected this rule were essentially worthless, and would receive punishments varying from scorn to death depending on the situation. Coincidentally, frustrated virgins also hold that women who reject the sanctity of virginity are essentially worthless, or at least objects of indifference.

I think some virgins may possess a sense of entitlement in this regards, especially if they are narcissistic. However, I also think that for many, its just the idea that they would have to degrade themselves, either by lowering themselves down into base women or something similar, to even hope for a companion, which would probably be unfulfilling. They don't see any good reason to not hope for the improbable.

If you crave steak and starved for 30 years in want, why go after chicken, which will only whet your appetite?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 14:30:06 2015 No.14093466 >>14093416 The propensity of humankind to make life more difficult and/or miserable for themselves and for others never ceases to amaze me.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 14:47:24 2015 No.14093519 >>14093466 I think its pretty simple. By controlling one's ability to enjoy life, you hold power over them.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 14:50:29 2015 No.14093528 >>14093416 I think you're forgetting that, for many virgins, sex and companionship just aren't that important?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 14:56:01 2015 No.14093544 >>14093528 This thread is about valuing virginity. I don't disagree with you, but those people would not be the ones voicing a preference for virginity outside of a fictional realm.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 15:16:45 2015 No.14093604

>>14081197
the only thing that bugs me about this argument is that otaku can't discern the difference between promiscuity and not being a virgin
that aka, if you have a boyfriend, you are a slut who has done a million guys
there was that one mangaka who implied the girl in his series had a past boyfriend and it enraged otaku to the point of destroying the manga and threatening the artist. things like that are stupid because it doesn't allow for a character to have any relationships or dynamics.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 15:41:12 2015 No.14093686

>>14093604
>it doesn't allow for a character to have any relationships or dynamics.

To be fair, those kind of otaku despise mutable relationships or dynamics in romance. Because it reminds them of real life, where such concepts hinder their already unrealized relationships.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 15:45:18 2015 No.14093693 >>14093686 right, that was a typo. I mean those kind of otaku prevent characters from having real relationships besides high school first love whatnot.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 15:48:52 2015 No.14093699

>>14093693
Not really, they just prevent you from making money off the work, unless your story is appealing enough to break out of the otaku market.

It may not seem like a difference, but honestly otaku are just easy money, with the main cost being that you must pander to them.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 16:40:16 2015 No.14093805 Would you rather be the first person to see the top of a remote mountain peak, or the thousandth?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 16:48:07 2015 No.14093833 >>14093805 The thousandth, because it means I have more friends who have participated in the experience, whom I can then talk to and be buddies with. Would you rather be the one and only person to beat the next Touhou game? I wouldn't.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 17:14:48 2015 No.14093927 >>14093833 The only one? No, of course not. The first, though--there's prestige in being the first. Pride. Bragging rights. You don't get that when others have done it before you.

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 17:24:31 2015 No.14093969

>>14093927
I must say that this fascinates me as well. I'm someone who tries to consciously deny any experience of pride, but I do find mystery in being the first to see something (like say another planet).

In the case of a girl it would be knowing that this is the first time she experiences such closeness and being the one to see that, and hopefully pleasing her.

However the whole deflowering thing is disgusting to me and I'd hope the girl had already masturbated to get through that.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 17:42:30 2015 No.14094034 >>14090685 >Being M is a lot better than being S. And soon she will humiliate you by comparing you to other guy, and proceed to fuck them and says they are better than you. Enjoy you cuckold, cuck.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 17:43:46 2015 No.14094041 >>14090851 >christian influence >christmas is an actual fuckfest

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 17:44:26 2015 No.14094044 You shouldn't judge a civilization by comic books.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 17:46:32 2015 No.14094051 >>14094034 I'm not sure you really understand what the M is short for.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 17:47:47 2015 No.14094057 >>14094044 >you shouldn't learn ancient cultures from hieroglyphs

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 17:59:53 2015 No.14094118 File: 1.74 MB, 800x480, 1442267993070.webm [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >Glad you don't care about my past, anon! ;)

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 18:00:31 2015 No.14094121 >>14094118 what made you think anybody would want to see that

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 18:02:11 2015 No.14094131 >>14094118 I honestly though that was Anita for a second.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 18:08:39 2015 No.14094177 >>14094057 We don't have better sources for info on Egypt but we do for Japan.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 18:18:35 2015 No.14094248 File: 26 KB, 419x296, 1399494499335.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] kuso thread.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 18:30:19 2015 No.14094314 any virg girls ITT?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 18:49:15 2015 No.14094402 >>14090146 Well said.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 18:51:12 2015 No.14094408 >>14094248 I want to take Ran's virginity!

Anonymous Mon Sep 14 18:56:58 2015 No.14094429

What's really laughable is the recent trend of idealized male virginity in otaku circles. Male virginity was never worth anything and was always ridiculed except in very few cases like ancient German war bands and a few other warrior societies.

I blame feminism.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 18:58:32 2015 No.14094434 >>14094429 >I blame feminism. You can blame all of otaku culture on the fragmentation of traditional society.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 19:04:45 2015 No.14094453 >>14094434 >I blame otaku culture. You can blame all of feminism on the fragmentation of traditional society.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 19:10:48 2015 No.14094471 File: 64 KB, 545x369, 1410113363660.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14094408 There's no freakin' way that that 2hu is a virgin, nerdlord.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 19:17:57 2015 No.14094493 >>14094453 Chicken and egg problem, maybe.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 19:53:38 2015 No.14094599 File: 29 KB, 1305x227, mudslime on culture.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14094429 "Male virgin" is an oxymoron in some cultures, like that of the mudslimes.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 19:56:25 2015 No.14094608 >>14094599 Huh Makes sense at least

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 20:00:50 2015 No.14094615 >>14094599 >The word virgin comes via Old French virgine from the root form of Latin virgo, genitive virgin-is, meaning literally "maiden" or "virgin"—a sexually intact young woman It's actually the same in English.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 14 22:12:55 2015 No.14094950 File: 88 KB, 889x960, 247XSDb.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14081197 How could this be hard to understand

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 15 14:05:41 2015 No.14097400 bumping this very important thread

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 01:23:56 2015 No.14099235 >>14081197 It's not. /thread

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 07:28:56 2015 No.14100464 File: 125 KB, 481x681, 1369436590334.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14090876 Thank you dude you brought my faith back

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 18:09:02 2015 No.14102743 >>14100464 I hate that picture.

Anonymous Wed Sep 16 18:16:47 2015 No.14102765

Holding unrealistic, romantic expectations is a sure way to lead an unhappy, sad life for most people. Not saying "true love" doesn't happen, but it's so rare, I wouldn't count on it. Chances are way higher you'll encounter either a bitch, or a virgin who is just a virgin because she has some serious psychological issues. If you're really lucky and find the true "pure maiden" who wants to stay virgin until she marries (or a similar committed relationship) chances are she will most likely reject you because she also has some standards and expectations.

You have either the choice to become a spineless beta faggot who puts up with the whole shit, or don't give a fuck and stop giving women too much value.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 18:28:43 2015 No.14102797 There is literally nothing wrong with being a slut. Sex is fun, get over it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 18:43:42 2015 No.14102831 >>14081208 Individualist society wants to have a lot of sex so who doesn't is not part of the society and is considered a loser

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 18:57:09 2015 No.14102856 File: 36 KB, 640x480, iron E.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14102831 An Individualist society wants you to act like everyone else or you aren't part of it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 18:58:15 2015 No.14102861 >>14102856 Aint that ass backwards

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 18:58:58 2015 No.14102862 >>14102765 I smell bitterness and resentment.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 19:00:47 2015 No.14102869 >>14102797 There is literally nothing wrong with being obese. Food tastes good, get over it.

Anonymous Wed Sep 16 19:01:24 2015 No.14102873

>>14102765
I'm a 32 year old virgin who just thinks he will one day meet someone with whom it will just click immediately, without any unnecessary "bribes" or games having to be played.

The problem is that I spend 99% of my free time inside, on my computer. Honestly if you go into activites that interest you and be a person who people actually like to talk to (e.g. not antisocial, though I guess with some couples that is the thing that clicks), you will eventually meet that someone.

Just taking it easy is the thing. It's fucking hard though.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 19:10:42 2015 No.14102908 >>14092606 Spoken like a true normfag.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 19:12:53 2015 No.14102916 >>14081197 What's the source of all this de-virging, anyway? Who is doing it? Classmates? Lawbreakers? Do they wait until college and then lose it immediately then? Someone's gotta be first, and it probably isn't always some true love situation.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 19:14:54 2015 No.14102924 >>14091079 Oy vey!

Anonymous Wed Sep 16 19:18:48 2015 No.14102940

>>14102862
You smellt wrong. Getting all this bullshit out of your head which was planted over years non-stop isn't a pleasent thing and I can understand if some people here get defensive over it, but it makes your life much more enjoyable. I chose to never place a woman above any interest or goal in my life and I'm definitely happier since I made that conscious decission. I saw too many poor bastards being ruined by some romantic ideal meme.

>>14102873
Just don't fall for women and their act. They're cunning and know how to exploit lonely chaps. Think twice, or better trice before topics like marriage or pregnancy get raised I wish you the luck.

Anonymous Wed Sep 16 19:19:08 2015 No.14102942

>>14093604
This, if a girl just had a boyfriend she was committed to but broke up because he was a faggot I don't really see a problem, apart from the idea that someone already drilled the hole which is a bit disgusting, the slut implications aren't there and you can't really blame her

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 19:22:51 2015 No.14102957 >>14093604 >there was that one mangaka who implied the girl in his series had a past boyfriend I think it was the execution of the plot point more so than that she had a boyfriend in the past.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 20:39:24 2015 No.14103219 >>14102940 Ah, I get you. I actually agree that is the way but I can't be too lax on this issue. It's how I am.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 16 20:46:25 2015 No.14103243 >>14091079 Those customs the Jews reserved for themselves, while they encourage degeneracy among the goyim. Multiculturalism is encouraged in the West while Israel flogs the Muslims surrounding it.

Anonymous Thu Sep 17 19:55:34 2015 No.14107889
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If she's a kemonomimi, does it matter if she's pure? Like the kind that goes into heat sometimes. Would you only take pure virgin animal girls or is one who had to satisfy its desires okay?

Come to think of it, people tend to prefer puppies and kittens to older animals, don't they?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 17 20:25:41 2015 No.14107961 File: 326 KB, 547x800, 1386191314942.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14107889 It's better to raise her from a young age to establish loyalty and obedience

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 18 01:32:26 2015 No.14108739 >>14107961 Yeah. With my dick.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 18 01:36:15 2015 No.14108748 >>14081197 >>14081208 No hymen no diamond.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 18 01:44:12 2015 No.14108778 >>14108748 You do realize that the hymen can be broken by things other than sex, right?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 18 02:00:21 2015 No.14108825 >>14108778 Yes, but those are exceptions, even if they happen to be the majority of the cases. Although there are false-positives, how else am I supposed to know for certain?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 18 19:54:27 2015 No.14111691 >>14108778 For instance, dildos

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 18 20:03:14 2015 No.14111719 >>14111691 For instance, tampons

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 18 20:24:42 2015 No.14111789 >>14111719 No, just dildos.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 19 17:34:56 2015 No.14115473 File: 283 KB, 701x431, 1438559117562.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Japan is a 3rd world country in some ways.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 19 21:06:25 2015 No.14116168 >>14093833 >whom I can talk to and be buddies with Heh, that was a good one.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 19 21:08:43 2015 No.14116175 >>14094950 Has the thought ever occurred to you that maybe some men indeed prefer to have 7 penis touching than none? Stop judging people.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 19 22:15:04 2015 No.14116419 >>14082096 majority of Japanese people don't have chance to meet gaijins.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 19 22:48:43 2015 No.14116520 >>14102869 ８８８８８８８８８８

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 19 22:50:28 2015 No.14116529 >>14116419 i will give them the chance ;^)

Anonymous Sat Sep 19 23:44:40 2015 No.14116683

>>14102942
>if a girl just had a boyfriend she was committed to but broke up because he was a faggot I don't really see a problem
>the slut implications aren't there and you can't really blame her
I disagree with this. A girl who had a partner and was in any way committed to him enough to lose her virginity then break up with him loses a lot of value in my eyes. I think it's an obvious sign of being not only naive but having a lack of intelligence to make good decisions. I treat it as a warning sign to never get involved with said girl seeing as you'll be taking on significantly more risk by doing so.

Besides the obvious biological and mental concerns that will arise the main thing that pisses me off about the whole virgin/non-virgin topic is how people falling under either act, especially women. If you think you can just have sex with anyone and expect nobody to change their opinion about you, you clearly don't have a grasp on reality. I've seen numerous women act like they have some sort of superiority to others by being non-virgins, but the second a single person calls them a slut they flip shit. In my eyes a woman who has had sex with a few people is worth less than a woman who has had sex with thousands. Simply because of the likelihood that the woman who has slept with thousands probably thinks of herself as a slut who probably really enjoys sex. She's honest about herself rather than a girl who has had a few partners will deny that she's a slut until the end of time while trying to pretend she isn't just a stupid bitch who can't make decisions and stick by them. She'll probably try to make up numerous "explanations" as to why things don't work out or something like it's not her fault or the like. Men sometimes do the same shit but a guy won't try to use being a non-virgin as a status or insult unless he's really desperate or otherwise severely lacking in other perspectives aka insecure. cont.

Anonymous Sat Sep 19 23:58:01 2015 No.14116713

>>14081197
Why is virginity so meaningful for men in general?

My male friend is really obsessed with my virginity and gets really anxious whenever I say something that sounds like it implies that I've had sex (I never did) or that I'm about to (not a chance either), even though there's nothing between us.

Anonymous Sun Sep 20 00:06:55 2015 No.14116732

It used to mean a lot in the West too, going back at least as far as Rome's Vestal Virgins.

As to /why/, it's probably because sex is seen as dirty, and therefore virgins are pure and untainted, which feeds into human's general preference for cleanliness.

Anonymous Sun Sep 20 00:07:47 2015 No.14116735

>>14116683
I'm not trying to play the blame game or be misogynistic since it is certainly possible to have things happen outside of your control and cause problems even more commonly in relationships. I knew a girl in junior high who went through some shit because she thought she liked a guy only to be dumped by him right after having sex. The guy then went on to spread nude photos of her around the school. He was a giant piece of shit and I knew this since I was acquainted with him myself but even so she made a pretty shit decision. Though having known her for a while I knew she was aware she fucked up and ended up regretting it but being able to move on. She never told anyone though it did end up as a rumor spread by the same guy. She was pretty popular before hand but after all this shit happened she was a loner for the last semester. Really a fucked up situation altogether.

Same reasoning as a couple anons previously said. Virgin or not there are obvious views about each one by a majority of people. Simply enough virgins are seen as more pure and there's a higher chance of finding mutual affection in someone who has only been close to you alone. People who have had sex with more than one person as seen by most people are sluts or loose and don't have any shame or the like. So when it comes to animu girls most people probably would prefer them to be virgins unless it's mentioned straight up that they aren't. It's all about expectations. If you expected to win 20 million dollars from the lottery after hitting the winning numbers only to be left with 1/100 of it after taxes and other bullshit you'd be pretty pissed off. Though if you went in with the expectation to get nothing let alone win and walked away with even 1/100 of the prize you'd be elated.

Everything said I'm a virgin myself with no desire to lose it. I'd rather wait for the one in a million chance to find what I want. Whether or not he/she is a virgin couldn't matter less.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 20 00:17:02 2015 No.14116755 >>14116713 >even though there's nothing between us. You're being a cunt to him and you know it, you know perfectly well he likes you

Anonymous Sun Sep 20 01:08:31 2015 No.14116865

>>14116713
>even though there's nothing between us.
Dat nigga be thirsty.

You need to stomp on his balls and let him know you two are friends, and that's it, that way if he doesn't want that, you can both stop wasting your time.

Pray he isn't a masochist though, otherwise that creates even more problems....

Anonymous Sun Sep 20 01:20:40 2015 No.14116895

>>14116735
if you understand that the situation can be out of someone's control during a relationship, why do you see females as having lost value when it wasn't their fault?
>they made a shit decision
you are aware people can discover another person's flaws AFTER the relationship right? what do you expect? for everyone to enter a relationship and it be perfect all the way and everyone gets married without dating anyone else?

Anonymous Sun Sep 20 01:38:55 2015 No.14116950

>>14116895
It's complicated and people have different hormonal setups, libidos and all, but it's definitely possible. Both my little sisters did this and they have good husbands.
I do think there is a lot that can be done by just being thoughtful, natural and not forcing anything (often done for the purposes of getting sex ASAP).

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 20 01:42:35 2015 No.14116961 >>14116895 Nah nigga guys would probably not wait longer than a month for a girl to put out. If she can't hold out that long she's a slut.

Anonymous Sun Sep 20 01:47:14 2015 No.14116974
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>>14081396
>>14081882
>>14087906
>>14090187
>>14090876
>>14091143
>>14091138
>>14091920
>>14092810
>>14093188
>>14094041
>>14094057
>>14094118
Just who the hell are you quoting?

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 20 02:00:28 2015 No.14117021 >>14081197 Why should I care?

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 20 03:49:12 2015 No.14117329 >>14116974 nice meme

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 20 12:19:24 2015 No.14118474 This thread is autistic as fuck. Quite possibly the most autistic thing I've ever read.

>>	Deez nuts Sun Sep 20 12:21:44 2015 No.14118479 Mhmm

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 20 14:49:45 2015 No.14118925 >>14116713 Tell him directly to cut that shit out. If he persists, end the friendship.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 21 00:03:57 2015 No.14120864 >>14081536 I am in agreement with this notion.

Anonymous Mon Sep 21 00:11:15 2015 No.14120891

>>14116755
>>14116865
I already made it clear with him that I didn't like him that way. If he didn't care about just being friends, he could leave any time.
>>14118925
I don't know. It's annoying and kinda sad to see, but I don't think it's worth ending the friendship.

Anonymous Mon Sep 21 00:29:01 2015 No.14120966

>>14116713

The non stupid answer, i.e the one to your actual question, is that boys are raised to value the purity of things. It's more important that its real rather then a helpful illusion.

A girl that hasn't had sex yet is "pure" and due to being a female in his eyes, therefor needing your purity to be protected. This isn't even patriarchy, but more of the dominate/sub roles in a relationship. Men are raised to be the dominant one in a relationship.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 21 01:32:22 2015 No.14121144 >>14081208 Why it shouldn't?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 21 01:33:50 2015 No.14121149 File: 6 KB, 399x55, Untitled.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 21 01:33:55 2015 No.14121150 >>14090146 literally tl;dr not joking

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 21 01:34:54 2015 No.14121155 >>14121150 seriously like it's even conveniently broken up into paragraphs for your reading pleasure and you still struggle with it, I mean come on

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 21 01:45:21 2015 No.14121175 >>14121155 Did you seriously think I'd read whatever comes out of your ass? I'm not wasting my time on /pol/ and neet shitposting. I'm leaving to the nice japan pictures thread. Bye, faggot.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 21 01:46:55 2015 No.14121179 >>14121175 you'll be back they always do

Anonymous Mon Sep 21 05:34:35 2015 No.14121679

>>14102873
That happened to me and it was incredible. Still a virgin, due to anxiety from many years of telling myself i don't want and can't take part in coitus, but I met a wonderful person who became my close friend and admitted to falling in love with me.
If you want a genuine and real relationship, you don't have to sacrifice very much; you just have to be in places where you'll meet new people, and be a little bit outgoing. Eventually someone will love you for who you are, but you can't be picky about what kind of person they are, or what kind of relationship they've had in the past.
Starting a relationship without any effort like that can attract any type of person.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 21 05:57:21 2015 No.14121736 >>14121679 >but you can't be picky about what kind of person they are, or what kind of relationship they've had in the past. If I can't then I'd rather not have a relationship.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 21 11:31:26 2015 No.14122760 >>14120891 >I don't know. It's annoying and kinda sad to see, but I think I can still get some favours out of it. Fixed

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 21 11:33:22 2015 No.14122767 I remember getting into an argument with everyone in my high school english class because I said that the main character in the scarlet letter deserved to suffer for being unfaithful.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 22 02:18:56 2015 No.14126245 >>14122767 Those sluts should die.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 22 02:27:20 2015 No.14126257 All non-virgins should die.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 22 02:29:27 2015 No.14126259 >>14126257 what about your mom?

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 22 02:29:57 2015 No.14126261 >There isn't a female alive that could pull that off, no matter how hard she purposely tried. No matter how repugnant she is, there's always a group of thirsty assclowns more than willing to fuck her. not in Japan

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 22 14:11:21 2015 No.14127911 >>14126259 His mom is either a boomer or a gen x, so yeah she should.

Anonymous Tue Sep 22 17:15:34 2015 No.14128562

>>14120966
>is that boys are raised to value the purity of things
No. Stop with your retarded "people are taught to do so" bullshit to explain phenomena that occur across several cultures, if not all of them. When you have a phenomenon like this, the explanation for it is most likely biological.

Men have much lower assurance of genetic parentage than women do. Woman give birth after all, so they can be 100% certain that the child is theirs. Men, on the other hand, can never be sure (we're talking about the era way before dna tests), but what they can do is maximize their chances.

Women who have slept around are risky. The woman you'd mate with might already be pregnant, or they might be mating with other men at the same time. Virgins pose a much smaller risk, and the chances of passing your genes are higher than with the woman who sleeps around.

The man who has no preference for virgins will more likely end up raising a child that isn't his, while the man who has a preferences for virgin will more likely pass on his genes. If this happens for thousands and thousands of years, it's only natural that the preference for virgins manifests in most of men, regardless of their culture, upbringing and whatnot.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 22 21:21:14 2015 No.14129751 >>14128562 If the mate is your mate, you can just have more kids with them. People didn't spend most of humanity only having one kid all their lives.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 23 16:10:04 2015 No.14132418 What does sex feel like?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 23 18:23:42 2015 No.14132921 >>14132418 it feels pretty good on ur dick

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 23 18:26:22 2015 No.14132930 >>14081197 >Japan It meant a lot in Rome (before Christianity) and everywhere that was following an abrahamic religion. Onlyn recently did feminist whores start trying to say it's worthless.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 24 19:47:38 2015 No.14137609 >>14090146 Found the Virgin

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 24 19:56:01 2015 No.14137638 File: 22 KB, 220x248, Virgo.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14137609 The Virgo.

Anonymous Thu Sep 24 19:56:47 2015 No.14137640

Emphasis on virginity in Japan is more than likely something they gleaned from the west after the Meiji restoration. Like many new traditions developed during the restoration it's like a bad parody of the original western sentiment. Similar to modern Japanese notions of decency and modesty.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 24 20:00:34 2015 No.14137661 >>14090146 Isn't it strange how most religions have a belief that's always something along the lines of "don't be a fucking retarded degenerate" and they're all steadily losing power? I think an apocalyptic purge is in the near future.

Anonymous Thu Sep 24 20:07:21 2015 No.14137691

>>14137661
We should be so lucky. More likely things will just continue in a downward spiral while the political elite keep talking about how great everything is. They'll keep on smiling and bragging about how awesome the future is even as our nations start to crumble around us into squalor and poverty. Just look at the EU.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 24 23:52:58 2015 No.14138615 >>14091222 No, it means you are loser by normie society standards. It only means something when you are a cute girl apparently

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 02:00:21 2015 No.14139017
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I am married with another jay poster and we have sex often.

I don't know why you bastards think that sex is so evil, not like we stopped fapping or having fetishes because benis in bagina, if anything having sex is just something else in the list.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 02:02:54 2015 No.14139019 >>14139017 >I am married with another jay poster and we have sex often. What's the point in lying on /jp/ out of all places? I don't get it.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 02:05:09 2015 No.14139026 >>14139019 want a pic of our room, smartass?

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 02:12:08 2015 No.14139048
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>>14090146
You'd think you would prefer buying something second-hand you actually want and find desirable than some cheap looking and plain just because it's new.
The logic between married virgin couples doing better together it's simply because once you eat only one thing, you won't know how the other one can taste and won't feel curious about it due marriage restraints. Oh wait, no, actually, I have seen a lot of religious people cheating on each other too.

Stop theorizing something that should be part of your life as a human being and glorifying virginity just because you can't get arsed to have sex like a normal being or simply because your religious beliefs or morals can't stop blinding you to something it's supposed to be simple and natural. You disgust me more than any other virgin or denegerate that had sex with over 10 people;

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 02:15:12 2015 No.14139054 >>14139026 Sure, why not.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 02:33:14 2015 No.14139112 >>14139054 he doesn't want me to take a picture because it's too messy. too bad, it will be keep being a lie in your head.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 02:35:43 2015 No.14139122 i can't believe this thread is still alive

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 02:48:49 2015 No.14139175

>>14139048
We're speaking of products being the same, not different (pretty slimy tactic on your part to devalue the virgin by calling her cheap looking and plain, but very typical of your kind). The new thing would be as appealing as the used thing, possibly moreso because there are more advantages to it than simply being new. Generally speaking (as mentioned, there are always exceptions, subjective experience, whatever), the rule will still apply and people *with the ability to choose between either* will prefer the new thing.

Religious people cheating does nothing to refute anything said. Many of them don't even believe extramarital sex is wrong. That you bring this up is just another poor attempt to make things equal, and meaningless. Same thing liberals do when confronted with harsh realities like black crime rates.

Platitudes, armchair psychology, feelings. Try harder next time, memester.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 03:11:19 2015 No.14139240 >>14081197 Look at her fucking nipples

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 04:01:58 2015 No.14139368

I just feel that treating the pinnacle of human intimacy as "it's this thing you do cuz it feels good" is really shallow and devalues it almost entirely. I don't really care about "purity", I've just never met someone irl I've wanted to please sexually. Not that it means much coming from me tho since I'm a fucked schizoid who for the most part finds the thought of sexual acts terrifying/revolting.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 04:32:42 2015 No.14139524 >>14139122 It's like saying "I can't believe I'm on /jp/".

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 04:50:14 2015 No.14139605

>>14081197
because the stigma that come with it. "Good" asian parents are always looking after their daughter so they won't be sullied or sleeping around with random guys.

Virginless girls are thought to be "naughty" uncontrollable girls. Anyway, such stigma only happen in family that still hold traditional value or backward belief. I think pre-marital copulation are more accepted now with women contribute to working forces too.

TL;DR: Women that work and earn their own money have a say now than then.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 09:02:44 2015 No.14140198

>>14139175
I did not call virgin cheap looking and plain, just look at the facts, if you are going for a nice looking, intelligent girl with similar interests, there is a good chance she is not a virgin unless she's religious or a huge moralfag or simply someone who can't interact very well with other people or just underage. When you cut down to your options, you are left with plain girls, fujoshit, autistic and girls with 0 self-esteem, which leads to bad lifestyle and life choices. No wonder you are a virgin, regarding it way higher than it actually is when falling in love or simply interacting with the opposite sex is not a exact formula where virgin = wife material. Another reason is that you call someone with a different opinion "your kind", but that goes unsaid from a bitter virgin from no less than internet.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 09:05:00 2015 No.14140202

>>14140198
Forgot to mention that religious or huge moralfag null intelligence due actual intelligent people being able to interact with people and thus build relationships; Your usual "I don't have friends but I am smart because all I do is studying and [insert hobby]" is just plain autism.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 09:12:07 2015 No.14140219 >>14140202 Sorry for being autistic. I forgot that being autistic isn't socially acceptable like fucking other guys in the ass or sucking cocks in broad daylight.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 09:23:50 2015 No.14140245
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>>14140219
I just think it is terrible for you narrowing your options to simply "virgin" when there is so many things to choose in partners. It's not a feature, it's just a consequence, most virgins are still it because they lack opportunity to have sex with someone they regard safe and/or attractive and not because they are disgusted by it or are "pure and angelical" like your everyday 2D girl.

But yes, not interacting with people is autistic, using extremes as example is autistic, both in the literal meaning of the word, since autists can barely use common sense. You don't need to suck cocks in broad daylight or fuck other guys in the ass to simply function and interact with other human beings, just don't forget that mating and bonding with the opposite sex is part of it. Oh well, what to expect from this board when it comes to common sense, especially in this field, I am the retard one here for simply trying to put some sense into you. Your life, your choices, but don't reach 40yo feeling like you could have tried something once or twice before saying it's shit.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 09:30:56 2015 No.14140266 >>14091079 JIDF pls go.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 09:43:51 2015 No.14140309

It's only natural for virgins to invent excuses to seek out other virgins, having sex for the first time with a person who already had it is simply degrading.
I lost the occasion in high school by not being a part of society and everyone else didn't, now my experience will be that of an high schooler while my partner will have already passed through it and will have the experience of an "adult".
I lost the loop and can only associate with people who also did, and as time goes on my disparity from everyone else will only grow larger.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 09:44:18 2015 No.14140312 File: 151 KB, 500x500, 1324254250373.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14140245

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 09:45:40 2015 No.14140319 >>14116175 C U C K U C K

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 09:49:47 2015 No.14140332 >>14116713 L O N D O N O N D O N

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 09:54:02 2015 No.14140347
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>>14140319
"I am a little special autist snowflake and I would rather think of humans as objects than beings with a soul and a life. My special needs are superior than anything and no woman is too good for me. Disgusting women having sex with men that aren't my special self. Ewww, will rather stick to my 2D and stay virgin than touch disgusting 3DPD who had sex before."

Have you ever wondered why women find you disgusting?
Tip: It's not because of your looks or tastes.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 09:56:19 2015 No.14140349 File: 585 KB, 900x980, 4ab950e92bdf2125dfe85d3299020b80.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14140312 Fuck this shit, this is now Yuuka thread. I wish she humilliated and crushed the balls of every single virgin in this thread.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 09:56:58 2015 No.14140350 >>14140319 >>14140332 See yourselves out.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:04:35 2015 No.14140376
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>>14140347
I'm not a virgin. In fact I suspect at minimum 25% of people here aren't. You didn't say you don't mind experience though did you? You said you'd prefer a woman taking seven dicks over none. So yes ewww, the idea that you get off and enjoy the fact is icky to me. You honestly sound like a massive faggot trying to cold read me and generally sounding like some sort of submissive fuccboi with no sense of pride whatsoever.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:05:28 2015 No.14140381 >>14140347 >>14139048 Why rename your meme images, do you have to go that extra step to being more obnoxious?

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:12:34 2015 No.14140408
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>>14140376
Don't put words in my mouth, I said I would pick my preferences over not my preferences, even if the first was not a virgin. You disgust me trying to mimic my post style. You sound like someone who jumps in bandwagons and has no personality (either underaged or simply someone who hasn't reached maturity) with the usage of the term "fuccboy" and attacking me simply because you can't argue against facts, if we are gonna play the cold reading game.
Yeah, because my pride is so fucking fragile I need to solely fuck virgins who don't know nothing else about sex (so I can be an unexperienced beta and she won't notice) and nothing else because women are garbage and I am too special for them, no matter how flexible the preferences of one can be.
Stop projecting when you say I have no pride, your mascunility is one of a boy and I can see why. Please and do a favor to all women in the world and kill yourself or stick to 2D, attempting any sort of interaction at your point is foolish.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:23:57 2015 No.14140433 File: 212 KB, 1280x1024, 52443429_p0.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14140349 Including you?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:25:02 2015 No.14140437 >>14081208 Kosuzu a cute.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:29:58 2015 No.14140450 File: 1.73 MB, 1689x2625, 8fc4784faf3116f3bf33e35a7278c290.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14140433 I am not a virgin but she can bully me if she wants. Or I could just lie, but only god knows what she would do if she found out.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:30:56 2015 No.14140452
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>>14140408
'maybe some men indeed prefer to have 7 penis touching than none?'

Granted you may not have been talking about yourself there fair enough but that doesn't make passing judgement less valid or something. Preferring used to unused would hint at a cuck like personality.

Mimic your post style? What the hell are you even on about? What's your post style? All this coming from a guy that was so keen to call others autistic too.

Once again you don't know anything about me for all you know I could be a shut in or a fairly social sort that skims /jp/ from time to time for the VN and Kancolle threads. Would you have preferred I said bitch nigga, pussy, shell of a man... et cetera. It all means the same thing. There's no sense trying to come across as mature on an image board.

What facts? What have you said to me that is anything but an opinion?

For the most part women are garbage to be honest. I hold most of them in the highest contempt although perhaps not for why you'd imagine - there you can call me a sperg now. That's irrelevant though.

I have fucked both virgins and non virgins and virgins are better. It's harder. It's a challenge. It's like coming first in a race. As a human being it feels good in a base animalistic way. Man loves to hunt, compete and conquer. That's all I mean by it and that's why I think you lack pride, why I think you're the kind of guy that doesn't mind coming last as long as he still gets his ice cream.

>doing women a favour
I don't suppose you're that sjw I've seen shitting up threads from time to time? Also were 2D real it would be superior to be honest.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:32:55 2015 No.14140459 normies get out

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:36:09 2015 No.14140472 >>14140452 tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:38:08 2015 No.14140477

Virgins are the ideal to me and if possible, I would always try to get a virgin as my life partner. I'm fine with those who only have sex within a relationship though. Cheaters are a no.

Casual sex could be a tricky issue. Deep down I don't like the idea of having sex purely for pleasure at all.

The view toward virginity in the modern Western world is a little bit fucked though. Virginity shouldn't really be viewed as something embarrassing and people shouldn't have any sort of pressure that they need to lose their virginity, even when they aren't ready.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:40:06 2015 No.14140484
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>>14140452
There you go, you are an animalistic man, simply wants to fuck a virgin because that's like winning something. Well, guess what, the virgins you fucked probably hate you now and the only thing you earned is being able to boast about it in imageboards and some cheap pleasure. Being competitive means shit in sex world nowadays, unless you are a blatant normie and looking for numbers and plain pleasure, which I highly advise you to just fuck non-virgins if that's the case. Finding a signicant other is more important than seeking a virgin, that was my point since the first post but you failed to get it. Seems like the autistic one here is me, huh.

I am resting my case, you are the kind of person that thinks that women are like meat fleshlights and then you start dating this girl that has nothing in common with you because 10/10 qt virgin and seemingly sweet. And then you are happy with that until the day you find out she's not all of that simply because you overlooked her personality and simply focused on her sexual traits, rinse and repeat.

Bye.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:40:39 2015 No.14140485

Nothing wrong with having a preference for virgins.

Nothing wrong with not being a virgin.

Nothing wrong with being a virgin.

There is something wrong with being a weirdo that gets hung up on virginity as a concept though and won't accept a partner that isn't "pure"

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:41:29 2015 No.14140490 Women are beasts compared to me. I shall not lower myself...

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:42:40 2015 No.14140491 >>14140490 You're a beast too, that's why they don't want anything to do with you.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:44:12 2015 No.14140494 File: 313 KB, 1000x1000, 10039291.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14140450 You'd get eaten.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:46:09 2015 No.14140500 >>14140349 Yuuka is also a virgin

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:47:35 2015 No.14140504 File: 125 KB, 494x393, 53f03cac08948d35fed85c330435e11b.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14140500 Maybe in practice, but she probably masturbates using her umbrella.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:50:55 2015 No.14140514 >>14140472 I'm English, force of habit I'm afraid.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:51:26 2015 No.14140515 >>14140504 >>14140494 >>14140450 >>14140433 >>14140349 >>14140245 Refrain from posting Yuuka in kuso thread, please.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:53:56 2015 No.14140518 File: 745 KB, 1500x1025, 1389312776307.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14140515 Do a thread then.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:54:29 2015 No.14140519 300 posts and I never got source for OP's pic

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:56:02 2015 No.14140523 >>14140519 It's from 1294590603623.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:57:25 2015 No.14140528 >>14140519 Found the source in 5 seconds. Good luck.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 10:57:45 2015 No.14140530 >>14140523 No bully.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 11:08:41 2015 No.14140551 >>14140528 Well, it took ten minutes, but I found it. http://g.e-hentai.org/g/571281/ff8c9d6f9b/

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 11:23:06 2015 No.14140582
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>>14140484
>probably hate you now
Who cares? Seriously what kind of faggot are you?

I didn't come here to boast I only mentioned it because you pressed me on it. I dislike the implication that I'm some sort of pump and dump guy too. If things conclude with a girl it's because they went sour not because I've taken her virginity. Nor am I merely a pleasure seeker, I think it's degenerate. Maybe you think it's autistic to love the thrill of climbing a mountain just to plant your flag on top but I think it's something very human. This said the fact that you said 'being competitive in the sex world means shit these days' shows a fundamental misunderstanding of what being competitive is about. Who gives a shit if it means shit? It's not about doing things to please other people it's for your own sake. What's more I'd really love to hear more of your knowledge of the 'sexworld'. I don't look for numbers either, I'm disgusted everytime I add to my tally, it makes me sad at how easy it is - not just for me for anyone.

Woah hold up were you saying you'd be okay with a significant other on 7 or more dick? Is that what you were saying? Shit no buddy. 2 or 3 is the max on that count. If you want the significant other to be around for any meaningful amount of time that is.

I do not think women are meat flesh lights if anything I think of them as taller children. I hold women in contempt because more often than not they have no personality. More often than not they are easily swayed vapid cunts with no real passion or interest in anything so the idea that I'd find one with similar interests is laughable and even if they did I wouldn't want her to. In case you hadn't noticed we're browsing /jp/ after all and you ought to know all to well how cancerous girls like that can be.

Who do you even think I am? I'd never date a girl I didn't even think is remotely interesting. I've only fucked ones I didn't like as a disgusting moment of weakness. I'm just realistic.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 11:28:32 2015 No.14140597
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>>14140582
>I dislike the implication that I'm some sort of pump and dump guy too.
>I've only fucked ones I didn't like as a disgusting moment of weakness.
>I'm just realistic.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 11:36:32 2015 No.14140624
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>>14140582
>I'm just realistic.
>the idea that I'd find one with similar interests is laughable and even if they did I wouldn't want her to.
>even if they did I wouldn't want her to.
>I'm just realistic.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 11:41:00 2015 No.14140639

>>14140597
>I dislike the implication that I'm some sort of pump and dump guy too.

In that I wouldn't begin a relationship with a girl just to end it after having sex with her.

>I've only fucked ones I didn't like as a disgusting moment of weakness.

I never claimed to be pure. I'm a degenerate.

>>14140624
>I'm just realistic.

What's wrong with knowing what you want? Girls that like anime, vidya, /jp/ related stuff are usually the kind you want to avoid. I'd rather somebody I wouldn't be constantly criticising, that could teach me new things and be able to challenge me.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 12:22:13 2015 No.14140771 File: 410 KB, 120x150, autism.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14140639 >I'd rather somebody I wouldn't be constantly criticising,

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 12:25:52 2015 No.14140784 File: 877 KB, 900x1346, Don't touch me casul.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14140771 >Having time for plebs.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 12:26:29 2015 No.14140790 [DELETED]

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>>14140582

>I dislike the implication that I'm some sort of pump and dump guy too.
>I think of them as taller children.
so the idea that I'd find one with similar interests is laughable
I'd never date a girl I didn't even think is remotely interesting
>I'm just realistic.
>I'm just realistic.

hahahaha I won't even bother, Jesus... You are a clusterfuck.

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Anonymous Fri Sep 25 12:29:09 2015 No.14140804
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>>14140582

>I dislike the implication that I'm some sort of pump and dump guy too.
>I think of them as taller children.
>so the idea that I'd find one with similar interests is laughable
>I'd never date a girl I didn't even think is remotely interesting
>I'm just realistic.
>I'm just realistic.

why can't I hold all this contradiction

just stop, just stop dude

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 12:35:12 2015 No.14140823

>>14140797
>>14140803
Okay let me put it like this. Girls that have interests like me usually can't cook, don't look after themselves and don't know how to dress themselves. Now as a result I would critical about their lack of exercise, culinary ability - baking doesn't count - and lack of fashion sense. Hence why I wouldn't want a girl into some of the nerdy things I am.

>>14140804
Earlier I'd said it was rare. As in there are interesting women that exist. I was being general. Doesn't mean I don't think most women are shit. Doesn't mean some women aren't. What's not to understand?

I shouldn't have said realistic anyway but I was running out of characters. Essentially I was saying as somebody had earlier in the thread that it's foolish to pin your hopes on high romance to to think the best of people, at worst it's delusional and self destructive.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 12:38:12 2015 No.14140829
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>>14140823
nobody is giving a shit about your posts anymore since you contradicted yourself several times in your statements, just stop trying to back it up, it's getting cloudy on your side, just quit posting and get out

autistfuck, do you realize how much of an autist it takes to get called autist in /jp/?

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 12:42:37 2015 No.14140843

>>14140829
I'm merely defending my position. That and I was explaining what isn't actually a contradiction if you actually put things into context.

Call me an autist all you will. I'm probably more normie than at least 75% of you.

If you want me to stop talking stop responding, I'm only defending myself here.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 12:49:31 2015 No.14140866
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>>14140843
Defending yourself from people calling you degenerate? Defending yourself from your own lifestyle and trying to give a million of excuses just because for you, women is garbage and you can't help but pump and dump when they are different from your exact expectations?

Just get out, please. Your kind is not welcome here. virgin or not, it doesn't depend at the amount of sex you have but on your mindset, which is rotten to the core. You can't help but labelling people since your own personality is the one that is labelled, manufactured and bought, just like every human garbage, if we can call that a human, of course...

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 12:52:25 2015 No.14140887
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>>14140823
>Now as a result I would critical about their lack of exercise, culinary ability - baking doesn't count - and lack of fashion sense.
>Hence why I wouldn't want a girl into some of the nerdy things I am.
>it's foolish to pin your hopes on high romance to to think the best of people

>>14140829
It's easier to simply pick apart his arguments by exposing the contradictions. It's like Phoenix Wright, when you've exposed one contradiction the defendant will whip up more to try and cover himself up. All you need to do is keep knocking them down by quoting them. You don't even really need to add any additional commentary.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 12:54:46 2015 No.14140898
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>>14140887
You know what, I thought the same, it's so stupid, this nigga's arguments sound like they were premade and not coming from an actual person, it takes a lot of emptyness to contradict yourself so much in the same statements, even.

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 13:10:36 2015 No.14140954

>>14140866
I called myself degenerate did I not? I said I don't pump and dump and that's true there was no contradiction there as it was in response to his accusation that I find virgin girls defile them and move on which is not the case.

You make it out as if I go out looking for women. And I never said having lots of sex was a good or bad thing. I never even said I was proud of the sex I did have so I don't see where you're going with this sanctimonious angle.

'labelling people' what are you even talking about right now? 'Manufactured'? Yes I'm standard model Edge Lord 001 while you're the advanced tier model Holier Than Thou with the thinks he's going to bumb into the 'one' on the other side of his bedroom delusion.

>>14140887
I am actually a pretty decent cook, I run on a regular basis and I have an interest in fashion. So of cours I'm going to be critical. Or are you trying to this is another 'contradiction'? Because saying it's silly to still believe in Hollywood romance isn't the same as saying I'll just go out with anyone.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 13:14:45 2015 No.14140968 >>14140954 alright, just move on with your life, we gave up on you, nobody cares about your opinion anymore, just fuck off

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 13:19:34 2015 No.14140989 >>14140968 What are you actually all so mad about? Have said something to offend you?

Anonymous Fri Sep 25 21:55:19 2015 No.14142831

>>14132418
>They say.. that you can lose yourself. Everything. All boundaries. All time. That two bodies can become so mixed up, that you don't know who's who or what's what. And just when the sweet confusion is so intense you think you're gonna die... you kind of do. Leaving you alone in your separate body, but the one you love is still there. That's a miracle. You can go to heaven and come back alive. You can go back anytime you want with the one you love.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 25 22:36:50 2015 No.14142982 >>14140954 >So of cours I'm going to be critical >>14140843 >I'm probably more normie than at least 75% of you.

Anonymous Sat Sep 26 22:05:12 2015 No.14147350
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Giving up purity for pleasure in the moment is just shallow. If you keep your virginity, you maintain your "purity," but giving up for a reason that only amounts to "I wanted to feel good at the time," just sounds stupid. Why not just masturbate? I mean, that essentially what it amounts to. You could make the argument that sex feels better, but if you're a virgin, you wouldn't be able to tell the difference anyway.

When you imagine love, the real, pure love, the one type that doesn't really exist, you imagine it beyond everything else, right? Closer, more warm, more meaningful, etc. Sex is an act of bringing the body closer to the mind for a few moments, at least that's how I think of it, and that act means a lot more if you have that experience with real love behind it.

Not that I'm dissing non-virgins all together, Kana is moe. Just sluts. And the act of holding yourself back for a reward does make it feel better in the end. Like, drinking cold water after running a mile in the sun or some shit. If you take breaks every 10 seconds and drink several gallons along the way you're really just a pansy who couldn't put in effort.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 27 01:13:22 2015 No.14148099 >liking virginity >being atheist Pick one. If you like virginity, you are a jew.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 27 01:19:01 2015 No.14148117 non-virgins get out. Otaku culture isnt for you.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 27 01:23:50 2015 No.14148139 File: 443 KB, 995x1514, smsl.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>14148117

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 27 03:35:30 2015 No.14148617 >>14092883 >being in denial this much

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 27 04:14:15 2015 No.14148694 >defending non-virgins Kill yourselves out of /jp/.

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