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Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 11:54:35 No.11424795 [DELETED]

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How do I become a calmer person?

I'm always on edge. I'm always mean. I'm always angry, always aggressive, always violent. Someone says something and others don't really care, while I get enraged. I can't relax. I want to relax. Everything bothers me. My mind is too active and I can't stop. I'm also horny all the time.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 11:55:04 No.11424803 Post the "do you even lift" one!

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 11:55:04 No.11424802 Me too. That's why I don't have any friends. I ended up seeing a shrink, but the best they can do is give you mood stabilizers which don't really work.

>>	None !AhaniayRkI Tue, Sep 17, 2013 11:56:04 No.11424807 File: 655 KB, 1341x1000, 14628430.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Benzodiazepines.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 11:56:32 No.11424805 ゆっくりしっていてね

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 11:56:48 No.11424806 >>11424795 Sounds like you need a good dicking ;)

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 11:57:18 No.11424808 I could give you a hug if you want!

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 11:57:33 No.11424809 File: 75 KB, 380x380, 1342796675523.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>11424802 I don't want their shitty jew drugs. I'd try heroin before that.

>>	None !AhaniayRkI Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:00:18 No.11424816 >>11424809 Anxiolytics and mood stabilizers really do work. They do have their side effects, but they do what they say on the tin. (In my experience, anyway.) I wouldn't be so quick to say no to them.

Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:03:34 No.11424825
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If you masturbate A LOT you'll lower your testosterone and energy levels. Otherwise, try to see everything from the perspective of a third-party observer, and it'll make you less emotional.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:05:20 No.11424832 >>11424795 This is a clear lack of activity. Take up a sport or another activity like that and exhaust yourself.

Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:05:20 No.11424833

>>11424816
I was already addicted to benzos. That was possibly one of the worst choices of my entire life and I still think I have permanent albeit mild brain damage from the entire ordeal.

I've taken "mood stabilizers" before on isolated situations. I hate them and any drug they try to push to change your behaviour. I'm serious when I say I would sooner drink, use cannabis, or opiates before that. If I'm going to do mind-altering drugs that are going to damage me it's going to be on my terms, not there's with their drugs.

>>11424805
ゆっくり

>>11424825
I do masturbate a lot.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:07:50 No.11424842 Get the fuck out. >>>/adv/ >>>/personal blog/

Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:08:05 No.11424844

>>11424832
I know this is the correct answer, there's just nothing to do.

I need something to take anger out on mainly. Sometimes I feel like just going around and breaking everything and punching holes in the walls for no reason other than I have to much pent up energy and it feels good, but that's not a realistic solution.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:10:35 No.11424847 File: 149 KB, 380x380, 1342794007787.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>11424842 Sorry. I was going to post on /adv/ but it's basically just yahoo answers.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:10:35 No.11424849 >>11424842 Calm down. No reason to get agressive.

>>	None !AhaniayRkI Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:11:36 No.11424853 >>11424833 Ah, I'm sorry to hear that. I've never had a bad experience with benzos myself, but I suppose it might just be because I haven't tried to get off them yet.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:12:50 No.11424856 >>11424795 That's telling me nothing, what are you doing when you are aggressive? Are you mad or do you fuck with other guys?

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:13:51 No.11424858 >>11424795 It's called puberty. It'll be gone in a few years.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:13:51 No.11424859 there is REALLY no reason to get angry :^)

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:14:21 No.11424862 >>11424844 I remember reading somewhere that venting your anger out like that is bad for you, even if it's in a controlled environment. Not sure what the reasoning was though.

Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:17:06 No.11424868

>>11424853
>I haven't tried to get off them yet.

I feel bad for you. You might be one of those really lucky people, or I guess you could really slowly taper off, but I'm serious, when someone says this I feel disgusted knowing what's going to happen.

>>11424856
Fuck with other guys?

Are you trying to trick me?

>>11424858
It should have been over by now. I was much more docile back then.

>>11424859
(-︢ ̱-︡ )

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:18:21 No.11424869 >>11424862 When you take care of $URGE by doing $ACTION you will unconsciously grow accustomed to doing $ACTION whenever you get $URGE. That's why punching stuff to get rid of your anger is bad, since that makes you punch stuff when you're angry.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:20:21 No.11424872 >>11424869 I wouldn't get as $angry though if I run breakShit() every once in a while. It would be a fair tradeoff. I think sex would be a better outlet to be honest.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:24:51 No.11424879 I feel the same way, OP. Except I'm not horny all the time, but do masturbate a lot (it's kind of obligatory)

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:27:05 No.11424884 Tell me stories of your daily life OP, it sounds like it'd be fun to read.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:27:05 No.11424885 The world is never going to end, no matter what the fuck happens. Cuss a lot.

Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:29:37 No.11424889

>>11424844
There is.

I live in a pretty remote and shitty area with nothing much happening around, until one day I found this group of elder people that go for 2 hour walks through the forest every Monday morning. They had an ad on the local journal and I happened to read it one day (something I never do) and it said it was free and open to everyone. I said fuck it and just went one day.

At first I didn't talk and tried to distance myself from everyone, until I helped this old guy that inadvertently slipped on a wet leaf. He thanked me and we started to chit chat, saying it was pretty rare to see young people go for walks and I sort of explained to him my NEET situation over the weeks. He helped and introduced me to other people of the group. I made a good friend and he even invites me to his house sometimes (he had some problems with his computer once).

I think that helped me open up a lot and release some stress. It made me realize that even if you're an antisocial fuckup NEET like me, you can still "do" something.

Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:35:06 No.11424898

>>11424889
That sounds nice.

I live in a bit more of an urban neighbourhood. There's too many people so everyone is very distant. I always kind of wanted to live in a little town where everyone knows each other and there's a lot of nature.

>>11424884
I sit on a computer 90% of the day excluding the time I sleep. It's not interesting.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:40:37 No.11424913 >>11424889 >good friend >invited you over to fix his computer

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:41:09 No.11424917 File: 1.88 MB, 1280x720, [Elysium]To.Aru.Kagaku.no.Railgun.EP18(BD.720p.Hi10P.AAC)[61B0E0A9].mkv_snapshot_02.56_[2013.07.24_11.40.22].png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>11424889 falseneet failnormie awakening to his true nature

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:42:39 No.11424918 >>11424913 That's what friends do. They help each other out, Anon.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:43:54 No.11424922 File: 62 KB, 493x500, 302414917_c7f034a761.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I wear my fedora and pretend I'm ハンフリー・ボガート-san.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Sep 17, 2013 12:44:24 No.11424923 File: 252 KB, 600x727, 1366698947913.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Is there something wrong with the post timers? Is it going to stay like this forever? >>11424917 failnormie, heh

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