/jp/ - Otaku Culture

[Anonymous No.]

how long can you last?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yRi68lb2nSQ&feature=youtu.be&t=9m40s

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>>10901639
I watched the whole call. The guys are dicks to him. Especially the "You'll die a virgin" part.
They shouldn't be allowed to be "therapists" without the necessary skills.

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>>10901651
the truth is meant to hurt

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>>10901639
This is agonizing to listen to. The way he starts to laugh when he says his parents turn off the wifi at night so he doesn't stay up all night. Wtf he's lying through his teeth about going out.

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>>10901639
Oh one more thing. I met a guy like this today. He looked like he was around 40, but probably 34. I hate to say it, but he's awkward and just not enjoyable to be around. It's like talking to an dorky weird 12 year old who still wheres Micky mouse watches.

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>>10901639
I feel sorry for him. He sounds like a nice guy.

He actually sounds like what I imagine /jp/ to be like in real life. I'll bet he talks some mean shit online.

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>>10901891
>He sounds like a nice guy.
No he doesn't. He sounds like a loser with no life, no interests, no emotion, no feelings, nothing interesting, nothing to say.

Nice people aren't pathetic. Nice people are enjoyable and can match emotions and feelings with actions. Losers are not nice. He was living the definition of a loser. All of you NEETs are the exact same way if you don't get out into the world and do the same in the end. I'm sure NEETs here have more personality and ideas on life, but you need to apply them to become independent in life to live.

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>>10901903
>He sounds like a loser with no life, no interests, no emotion, no feelings, nothing interesting, nothing to say.
that's a pretty cruel thing to say, makes you sound hardly like you're the life of the part either.

most adults can understand that not everyone gets to be strong or brave or special in some way.

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This is a Tokiko thread.

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>>10901910
>that's a pretty cruel thing to say
It was the truth and that's exactly what he host was saying.
>makes you sound hardly like you're the life of the part either.
Of course I don't live like him. Only nice people that feel extremely bad for such people tolerate their awkward ramblings of interaction. I got sick of it some time ago and caste them aside if they can't even summon up the strength to deepen their insight on life to simply live. The strong ride with the strong to aspire in life. The weak are these people. Not morally weak, not mentally weak, not physically weak, just plain week in spirit.
>most adults can understand that not everyone gets to be strong or brave or special in some way.
Only loosers think like this and end up on their ass not inspiring to be something special. The dignity of being a human will only get you so far in life.

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>>10901903
>No he doesn't. He sounds like a loser with no life, no interests, no emotion, no feelings, nothing interesting, nothing to say.
I don't see that at all. I see a guy who's clearly shy and anxious, but wants to reach out. I'm sure he has a lot to say (he goes into details), but doesn't know how to say it; he feels uncomfortable. Being mocked on a radio show doesn't make it any easier.

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>>10901912
>Tokiko
That was a tripfagg neet right?

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>>10901939
>loosers
i can't believe i replied to you.

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Poor fucking guy, hes been brain washed by that french-named normie.
He stresses the point that adult life, an independent and full-fledged life requires a guy to have a relationship and get laid.

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>>10901960
Spelling mistake. Woops. You want to pick that one thing out and judge what I had to say based on my spelling? Okay bro. Keep living as a loser..

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>>10901975

Not only that, but he says that unless you have 'sex skills' and a sex life, you're wasting your life.

What a moron.

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>>10901988
Because of shits like that we have /r9k/.

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OH FUCK, THE HORROR

HE SPENT HIS DAYS... PLAYING DnD... and practicing karate

...and no women...

actually this guy sounds like he had a nice life

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>>10901986
okay, imagine you're having a conversation with someone and they start shitting all over themselves and then start puking violently, and then try to keep talking to you.

that's how incredibly unintelligent you'd have to be to spell loser wrong, and that's how you sound right now.

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I only made it as long as it took me to google this Stefan Molyneux guy and see he's one of those lolbertarian/an-caps.

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>>10902002
I noticed that too. Completely disregarded.

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>>10901986
>>10901988
>>10901990
I agree that he was stressing that and it was unneeded. Thinking with your dick. Please. He had some valid points, but that was just dumb and bad advise.

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>>10901939
>>10901986
In all honesty, you sound like a complete idiot. I have no idea how you're managed to take yourself seriously, or if you actually do believe you've "dropped the truth bomb", but I'd appreciate it if you stopped either way. Your high school psychology lesson isn't impressing anyone.

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I watched the entire thing.
I can't help but feel bad for him. He's constantly stuttering, derailing his own speech, going on about irrelevant things and trying to fill for lack of interesting content by adding "you know" once or twice every sentence.
You can clearly tell how Stefan is getting very bored with him near the end and he tells him to keep it short. The guy has no friends, no significant other, has no job and still lives with his parents.
The sad part is that it's most likely his parents fault, too. They seem overprotective while not trying to actually bring him into the real world. I bet his parents have a conspiracy theory going on about their son getting run over by a bus while being late for work one day.

Nearly 34 minutes of this guy talking about how his life is "bad" and he wants it to be better but he clearly has no intent to try to make it better.

A real truNEET.

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>>10901998
>start shitting all over themselves and then start puking violently
I missed one letter. Look at my content and get back to me. Stop red herring the subject at hand.

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This hit a little too close to home. Particularly about going nowhere and not caring enough of the time to do anything about it.

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Stopped listening at 16:00. Jesus christ this guy.

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>>10902015
What content? You really haven't said anything noteworthy in any of your posts, the only thing worth pointing out is the plentiful amount of spelling mistakes and grammatical errors. There's nothing insightful about saying the same tired bullshit everyone's already heard before. The strong succeed and the weak don't, brilliant stuff.

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>>10902006
Valid points?
The only thing that could come out as valid is the supposed dependance he has on his parents. I really don't see it, he works, he actually does what he wants regardless of his parents. The guy just infers that he's mama's kid with almost no justification.
>>10902014
> this guy talking about how his life is "bad"
When you haven't been enlightened by the non-normie ways this is the most common reaction.
He does work, by the way.

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>>10902014
>constantly stuttering
>derailing his own speech
>adding "you know" once or twice every sentence
Made it unwatchable for me. I want to fucking murder him.

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>>10902036

>He does work, by the way.
Right. Excuse me, I forgot that he works for his parents. Never mind the parts where that applies.

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>>10902037
>>10902020
>>10902014
damn normies
this guy is /jp/ itself

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>>10902054

So? He's still a wannabe normie himself.

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>>10901880
>Micky Mouse watches

Micky Mouse watches? I'm pretty sure adult hipsters are the only people who would buy those.

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>>10902036
Yeah what >>10902039 said. Works for his parents. Doesn't know how to fill out bills etc. etc. Man must leave the parent's breast for that breast will wither and grow old. He will be left alone one day unable to love those around him, to be loved by those around him, surrvie in jungels or in the urban jugles of paperwork and tax returns. No man in 1st world countries can even own land without having it taken away from them without paying the rent of taxes. He knew neither how to survive in the wilderness of where we emerged from nor the urban wilderness we constructed with our own toil of hands .

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>>10901639
It's like listening to myself. Down to the way he talks and how the only people who will employ him are his parents and how in the end he doesn't really give a shit.

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/jp/ can i become an adult and just never make friends or have sex? is that ok? everyone makes "dying a virgin" sound like it's such a horrible thing, and they make it seem as if friends are essential things to be a complete human being. But can i forgo those things and still achieve self-actualization, or Satori, or nirvana, or whatever the point of life is?

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>you know
>you know
>you know
>ha
>you know
>you know
>you know
>you know
>ha

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>>10902054
>>10902058
Every /jp/easy desires to be normal in some way. They just don't have the balls to admit it; they don't even have the balls to admit it to the other anons here on /jp/.
>>10902064
It was more of a term to describe childish watches that only 4 - 9 year olds and awkward young adolescents run around with. He was quite the site. He sounded like he lived with his parents for a very long time. He brought them up a few times within a half hour of meeting him. No one does that unless they lack social experience outside the home.

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>>10902075

>/jp/ can i become an adult and just never make friends or have sex?
The therapist on the other end of the call says no.

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>>10902075
don't get swept up in what other people have decided for you, virginity is literally a culturally constructed thing (in essence you're tearing a hymen and that's it, and not even that with guys).

enlightenment as it is can only be important if you believe in reincarnation. you should do what makes you happy, and pay careful attention to temporary and fleeting happiness that later causes pain.

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>>10902094
>Every /jp/easy desires to be normal in some way.

That's horrible

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>>10902075
Yes.

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>>10902087
You forgot
>ahahha
>ahahah....ha
>Whimper
>sniff sniff
>cry
Ahaha

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>>10902099
hurr do I fit in yet?
Social acceptance is a basic human need. Even the most fucked up of us desires it deep down.

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>>10902094
>Every /jp/easy desires to be normal in

Not me I desire lots of money so I never have to work again and a secluded house out in the country where I can live out my days in peace.

Life around people is too stressful and complex and I don't want to be a part of it if I don't have to.

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>>10902094
I hate to use the word, but you're projecting pretty hard.

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>>10902094
>Every /jp/easy desires to be normal in some way.
Please don't project your own desires into everyone else. I enjoy being happy, and so I'll do what I can to stay away from normals. I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I became one of them, being someone you're not is miserable.

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>>10902066
Pft the necessary skilss to make paper work, are ridiculous: sit you ass down and figure it out. The guy is smart enough for the, he said it himself "I did great in school".
Then if he works for his parents that means he has business or something of the sort guaranteed when his parents die. I don't know what it is but it is enough to make for a living for 3 people, and pat college. I don't think it would be hard for him to sustain a small business.
>>10902096
Why though? He never explains that, and for a show that claims to be philosophical that is...
>>10902121
[Citation needed]

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>>10902121
>Social acceptance
like, literal approval of what my hobbies and interests are? define what you think social acceptance even is.

>basic human need
you're going to put the same emphasis on it as breathing, eating and sleeping? why isn't everyone on 4chan dead from 'social acceptance' starvation?

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>>10902096
The guy isn't a therapist, he's just some libertarian faggot, so you know his worldview is more than a bit skewed.

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>>10902151
It's, like, midway up as far as needs go.

Masturbation counts as sex, by the way.

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>>10902162
>Maslow's_Hierarchy
>science/fact

HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA

they've only ever used that as a visual aid, it has the same credibility as carl jung's theory about playing cards.

good grief who do you think you are, being so ill informed and trying to debate

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>>10902168
Stop trying to fit in, /v/ro

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>>10902180
It's "/v/irgin".

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>>10902184
/v/aca

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>>10902140
He's probably lost the skill to do anything like that. He wasn't very clear on what the family business was either. For all we know he could be serving food, but you're right about filing tax returns and things. The fact is he isn't doing it though.

Also not that other anon, but I was the one who originaly said every /jp/ wants normal life in some way deep down, so...
>[Citation needed]
Just take a long hard look into your heart and you'll know it to be true. Underneath all that pain is some one who has lost love and desires it through kinship.

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>>10902144
>I enjoy being happy, and so I'll do what I can to stay away from normals
Normals interact with one another due to need for acceptance. You're no different. You're here on /jp. to discuss things others won't. You need us or at most social interaction online.

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>>10902168
Sweet caps rage, /b/ro!

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Couldn't listen to more than a minute of him clumsily stumbling over his words.

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That joke of a therapist was a dick.
>spouts irrelevant bullshit in a protracted analogy about how healthy and righteous it is to be a vegan
>ignores that the guy is clearly stating what is wrong with his life, and just makes the unfounded assumption that he's 100% okay with being a virgin living with his controlling parents
It was pathetic that he even stayed on the line, and amazing that this guy even has listeners.

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>>10902193
He never said what the family business is, only something that requires "repair", something that he does. He can get by people just fine, that is the only thing besides minimal admin skills he need to run a business, skill I am sure he can obtain because of his scholar background and experience, after all he lived 24 years with the people that run the business.
>Just take a long hard look into your heart and you'll know it to be true.
Even if I did, I find that a hopeless endeavor, I think that if psychoanalysis actually found out something is that most of what we do is dictated by unconscious impulses. Reaching consciously my own unconscious seams impossible.
I am not rejecting the affirmation, though. I remain skeptical.

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>>10902255
Now read the comments

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>>10902255
He has a podcast. What were you expecting?

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>>10902211
We're thinking of "normal" in different ways. I want social interaction, yes, I wouldn't be on /jp. if I didn't, but that does not make me what people would consider normal. If you're going to go that far, you may as well call everyone who eats and sleeps normal. I don't think of it that broadly, it has more to do with personality and behavior. You're not going to find the slightest desire in me to hang out with "bros" and pretend to be interested in the same things as them, think the same way as them, behave the same way as them, and in general try to mold myself into their image. That's what becoming normal really is for someone who isn't naturally normal. It's just a game of forcing yourself in everything you do in order to live up to the expectations of others. There are times when I have to spend a day around people, and when I do, I try to be "normal" as to avoid any complications, and every time that day is absolutely miserable. I would never want that kind of life.

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Is this what they call therapy in America?
No wonder you have so many school shootings.

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>>10902261
We're on the same page. He's just not doing it. Yeah the inner soul of man can be dark. Shine the light anon. Those impulses steam from reason. I'm very psychoanalysis to a healthy degree. Not saying you should model me or anything, but I've learned a lot from it and did find the causes to many impulses.

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>>10902312
No, I'm pretty sure that's called a radio talk show.

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>>10902255
>>10902312
Again, the guy is not a therapist.

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>>10902306
Okay yeah, that's not what I'm talking about. I'd say I wouldn't call myself a normal normal by those terms. I've been in those situations and did exactly what you described. But soon everyone started asking me why I wasn't acting like myself, why I was staying so quite to myself, why I couldn't smile or offer my thoughts like I normally did. The whole time I was just trying to not be awkward; not be that guy who is clumsy or talks himself into a wall. In the end what I was to them wasn't awkward or a babbling mess, but rather a real friend who was unique in ideas, actions, words, ideals, thoughts and brought something to the school that others didn't. The love and concern in all of their eyes shouted directly out at me to come back to them in our daily lives of interaction of words and friendship. I realized how I could really be myself without backing out of who I am or was or shutting myself down completely. I had real friends, even though I was eccentric, goofy, and with unparallelled niche interests. I soon returned to a more groomed social version of my true self. I didn't hide. I had over 300 of these so called friends.

Don't you see what I'm getting at? Both that guy in this program and what it sounds like to be you don't even give yourselves a chance to live or be yourselves with others. How can you say you don't want anything to do with the normals when you won't even let them see who you really are. You're just as scared as that 24 year old is anon.

[Anonymous No.]

We don't need therapy. Fuck off to /r9k/ with your pseudo-psychology bullshit.