/jp/ - Otaku Culture

[Anonymous No.]

Recurring NEET problems at Christmas...

How do you avoid going home and seeing your family?

How do you get out of the awkward Christmas dinner, or sit through it if you have to attend?

What are some cheap, generic, but acceptable presents to give?

Fuck I hate Christmas, this is the perfect time to turn the heating up and get cozy at home, instead I am forced to go home and take part in this cultural bullshit.

[Anonymous No.]

You could always visit me.

[Anonymous No.]

by not talking to them or answering the phone in months

i haven't had a holiday meal in 7 or 8 years

kindle is really good if they read or want to start. otherwise, games or whatever. get something useful that they don't have or something they'll replace soon.

[Anonymous No.]

I need some cheap gift ideas too

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216169
>If I wanted to avoid them I would tell them I was sick and didn't want to be disturbed

>How do you get out of the awkward Christmas dinner, or sit through it if you have to attend?
Same thing, pretend to be sick or have an upset stomach. If you complain that you're having a stomachache or diarrhea, chances are they won't make you eat a huge holiday meal.

>What are some cheap, generic, but acceptable presents to give?
Gift cards

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216179
>by not talking to them or answering the phone in months

Do they not get worried and maybe consider inviting themselves to your place?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216181
Fucked up the first quote.

>How do you avoid going home and seeing your family?
If I wanted to avoid them I would tell them I was sick and didn't want to be disturbed

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216183
i don't care if they're worried. they should be more worried about themselves than me since they got more problems than i do. they also don't know my address and i'm keeping it that way also.

[Anonymous No.]

if they asked you to visit them it's because they care about you enough to want to see you

quit being fucking conceited for once in your goddamn life and get it over with

[Anonymous No.]

Well I feel obliged to show up for christmas since they did give birth to me, fed me, clothed me etc. It's the least I can do.
Coffe mugs, tea towels, book, hypodermic needle, whiskey/mulled wine etc are cheap and sort of good gifts.

I'm not completely fucked, more a recluse by choice rather than having been ran out the town with pitchforks and flaming toches, during dinner just throw in your thoughts here and there and agree to whichever pointless thing in a way that will please the majority. You'll be back home before new years.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216183
i don't care if they're worried. they should be more worried about themselves than me since they got more problems than i do. they also don't know my address and i'm keeping it that way also. i should add though, they aren't worried probably. they're dealing with their own problems. they already know i wouldn't ask for their help regardless so it's pointless to worry.

[Anonymous No.]

It's really troubling to me. I don't know what to get people. I bought alcohol for them but I drank it by accident

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216207
If you know their interests you can get books very cheap on amazon.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216194

I would visit them any other weekend, I just don't want to be with my extended family altogether, forcing being nice to each other and being given presents that I have to pretend I like otherwise everyone will get mad.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216194
It isn't being conceited. There's a thing called progress liberal atheist who don't support social constructs like family and instead look at the community as a whole as a family using communist and socialist ideals. Not everyone is some conservative libertarian like you who's a Evangelical that's going hold a group prayer for Israel after lighting some candles on Christmas Eve.

Shouldn't you be getting some Jewish holiday ornaments ready for chosen right now, conservative?

[Anonymous No.]

I remember one time I made up some excuse and didn't go, but my dad was so disappointed, I could hear his voice just fall over the phone when I said it, and I felt like the worst person in the world for weeks after. Never again, definitely wasn't worth it.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216194
It isn't being conceited. There's a thing called progress liberal atheist who don't support social constructs like family and instead look at the community as a whole as a family using communist and socialist ideals. Not everyone is some conservative libertarian like you who's a Evangelical that's going hold a group prayer for Israel after lighting some candles on Christmas Eve.

Shouldn't you be getting some Jewish holiday ornaments ready for chosen right now, capitalist?

[Anonymous No.]

I live at home so I see my family all the time, I just try and keep myself confined to my room as much as possible. For Christmas dinner I usually just stay silent the entire time on the pretense that I'd prefer to enjoy my food while eating, rather than talking. I don't have any money at all so I don't think anyone minds me not purchasing gifts. However, If I did have money, I suppose the default affordable gift would be a cute tree ornament, a nice scarf or just chocolates.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216220
That makes me feel sad just hearing about that. Did you ever tell your father how bad you felt about not making it that year?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216220
Tough shit, sorry to hear that.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216221
No, I didn't bring it up again, I just made sure to go every year after that.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216223
Oh, I guess that works out then. I know I would have stressed out way to much if I didn't bring it up, and apologized.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216218
>progress liberal atheist

I assume you mean progressive, and I really hope you're being ulta-ironic in this post. Politics has nothing to do with social withdrawal either way.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216220

I might have to go just in case this happens to me. Thanks fucker, I feel bad too now.

[Anonymous No.]

Not everyone will appreciate it, but for people that will, I'll have to echo books.

[Anonymous No.]

364 days out of the year are for you

1 day is for family

of course, if this doesn't apply to you, then, this doesn't apply to you

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216224
Obviously, people make mistakes. I'm tired after passing out vanguard pamphlets and pictures of Lenin. Do you plan to sue me for making a slip, capitalist?

Also, It won't be ironic when the purges start, it won't be than.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216237
super autism

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216230

Nobody will read them, that's for sure, so at least there's less risk of them being disappointed.

[Anonymous No.]

I'll be going door to door handing out pamphlets on atheism, world isn't going to educate itself.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216179
when was the last time you spoke to someone ?

[Anonymous No.]

>2013
>not drinking and having fun with your family at thanksgiving and christmas

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216237
you mean you live in russia ?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216281
when i told the delivery guy to drop it near the entrance so the start of the month.

[Anonymous No.]

I don't celebrate Christmas because I'm not a filthy pagan.

[Anonymous No.]

my mom buys all my gifts for me, for her i just need to buy some chocolates, as for dinners and other family gatherings i just get shitfaced and have a good time.

the great thing about christmas is all the free booze

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216287
The next red revolution is starting in the red white and blue, capitalist.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216227
shouldn't this thread be hikikomori instead of NEET since you guys obviously have a social phobia.

>>10216299
Im a socialist, communist.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216179
A Kindle isn't what I would call cheap.

[Anonymous No.]

So I want to drop out of uni and become a NEET. There is no way in hell my family will support this decision so how should I start becoming a NEET.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216372
you know what else isn't cheap? *grabs dick*

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216382
What year are you in?

[Anonymous No.]

But I love my mama.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216382

Get a job, endure it, live in austerity, save up so that you can support yourself for a while.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216389
3rd year. I have no motivation to go on.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216389
Not him but I'm in my first year feeling the same way.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216424
Why not tell your parents that you want to take a gap year in between your third and fourth year, or something like that. Try and make it sound like you really want to do well in your final year but you don't think you'll be able to right now. I know I took a semester off and it helped me get back into it.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216427
Definitely a different situation if you're just in your first year. Maybe you just need to change up your routine a bit, but try and stick with it till the end of your first year at least. If you're really not enjoying it then maybe you're in the wrong program. I know quite a few people that decided to switch into another program in their second year, might even be able to make up the time with summer classes so you don't have to take a fifth year.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216424
>>10216427
Another suggestion for you both would be to go look into whatever student health services are available to you. I know when I was going to university there were quite a few things available to me that are much harder to get now that I'm done.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216424

If you're in third year, I assume you only have a year and a half to go. I'd stick it out if I were you, as your degree could help you get a better job if you need one to survive.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216467

He probably has half a year left, probably just three months of classes and then it's just exams. Definitely the dumbest time to quit.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216712
>Definitely the dumbest time to quit.
How do you know?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216218
It's conceited as fuck, and religion doesn't enter into it at all. You owe your family a holiday visit if they're the ones who house you and pay for your internet and 2hu shit.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216719
I just remembered that I owe your mama a good dicking.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216718

Because you've paid for the whole course, you're very close to graduating, and all it takes is a little more effort to get through it, instead you drop out, undoing all of the work, and you're left with nothing (nobody will give a fuck that you ALMOST graduated).

[Anonymous No.]

>oh no its christmas and i have to socialise

You sad people-

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216738
>Because you've paid for the whole course
Done what?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216738
>undoing all of the work
study.
v. stud·ied, stud·y·ing, stud·ies
v.tr.
1. To apply one's mind purposefully to the acquisition of knowledge or understanding of (a subject).

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216444
>>10216437
Guy in his first year here
I honestly don't have the motivation or passion for anything other than sitting at my computer all day and eating.
It's a three year course and I'm in the UK so it's not likely I'll have to pay for it.
I just can't see why I'm here

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216331
>socialist, communist.
ain't it all the same?

[Anonymous No.]

I need advice /jp/, how do you deal with your family being together in same place and giving you the same "You have to either go to college or get a job, no matter how shit it is" speech? Christmas and Thanksgiving are some of the worst days for this, since they can all bug you about it at the same time.

What do I do? What are some good excuses to give? They all assume I'm horribly depressed for some reason.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216791
>It's a three year course and I'm in the UK so it's not likely I'll have to pay for it.

Bullshit, you have to repay the loans. How the fuck do so many morons manage to get into higher education but still don't bother finding out basic information like this.

>>10217459

Tell them you don't care about satisfying social standards and the expectations of others. As long as you support yourself they can't whine to you.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10217459
>They all assume I'm horribly depressed for some reason.
Well aren't you? That's the more polite assumption.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10217459
Just don't answer stupid questions.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10217866
>As long as you support yourself they can't whine to you.
Of course they can.

[Anonymous No.]

That feel when no money so I can't give my family presents.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216169
That's no good anon, you need to spend time with your family while they are still around and be grateful you have them even now!

[Anonymous No.]

>>10217883
No, I phrased it wrong. They assume there must be something wrong with me since I don't want to waste my time working or going to college.

[Saegrimr !SHIELDM.mE No.]

>>10216169
>forced to go home and take part in this cultural bullshit.
If you live on your own, why the fuck do you even care what your family is doing? Just ignore them, unless they're still sending you money or something. That would make buying gifts kinda akward, using their money to buy them a gift.

[Anonymous No.]

One of the advantages of a having a job - just say you'really busy and have to work then so you can't make it. In tough times when everyone is trying to hold onto their job it's very likely they'll believe it. If you're an actual NEET maybe try and say you got a Dec. temp job like unloading/counting inventory or something and really need the money? Works if you haven't been totally leeching off your parents. They may respect your pride in trying to fix it yourself.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218202
>They assume there must be something wrong with me since I don't want to waste my time working or going to college.
Well isn't there?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218652

According to society there is. But then again, "there is no such thing as society."

Ive hit the age where i have to buy family gifts or else i look like an irresponsible shit. Problem is i have no money nor desire for other peoples money. Being around family for the holidays is over-rated too. Id rather be on /jp/ posting a clever waifu desktop pic and reading winter-themed vn.

But i have to go for traditions sake. Ill probably give them all handwritten letters. Maybe with a candy attached. thats the best i can do

[Anonymous No.]

How do reason a 8 Month break until starting to go to a College. It would be kinda awkward to say "Well, I just want to relax a bit in front of my Computer."

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218786
Develop a drug or alcohol addiction.

[Anonymous No.]

anyone here familiar with autismbucks?

i'd like to start collecting disability and live the free neet life.

you can get away with it by claiming to have crippling anxiety right?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218786
>>10218786

Serious answer: say that you arnt ready and want more time to think about what you want to do.

Many kids are not ready for college after highschool. And people are starting to realize that due to the high dropout rate for college kids(atleast in america)

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218786
I honestly wanted to take a year off after hs.

And i did.

But that year ended up being three years.

[Anonymous No.]

How do I deal with the fact that my family now thinks I'm going to become a serial killer or mass shooter thanks to what happened yesterday? Why doesn't anyone understand that I'm just a peaceful NEET that doesn't want to hurt anybody?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218892
Try to look less serial killer-y.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218865
I wanted to take some time off too. Highschool was exhausting, I hadn't had any vacations in nearly 5 years. My parents always hired private tutors and made me attend extra classes (sports, languages, music, those church lessons) so I never had any free time, not even during the weekends. Worst part is that it was all a waste because I never paid any attention and I graduated with an avg. score. Afterwards I decided I was going to rest for a while and ended up becoming a NEET.

What were they thinking, really? Did they really expect a kid to go through all that and turn out ok?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218892
Eat vegetables. Murderers doesnt eat vegetables.

[Anonymous No.]

I stopped accepting and giving presents years ago. It made everything better. I just said I don't approve of the gift culture and asked people not to get me any gifts.

I stopped going to Christmas and Thanksgiving with the extended family even before that, so it was a gradual thing for me.

But honestly you'd be surprised how much better it is when you take gifts out of the equation. When you're alone on Christmas and your Birthday it doesn't feel nearly as lonely. You still get a little depressed, but once I took gifts out of the equation I felt so much better.

I never was that interested in material goods anyway. I just need a computer and a basement to dwell in.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218939

You know who ELSE ate vegetables? HITLER.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218928
That sounds ridiculous. Your parents are probably morons.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218928
My parents didnt give a shit about me and i JUST skimmed through each grade so i dont have to suffer through failing a grade. I was only at the final year of hs that i stopped fucking around and took all ap classes and made honors, but the damage has already been done and my final gpa was a laughable 2.5 iirc.

Kids need guidance but parents shouldnt force them to do stuff, or they'll end up on jp.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218972
They're petroleum engineers, they've received several prizes for their work and my father is also an architect. I read somewhere that engineer couples have the highest chances to have autistic/sperg children and I think it's true, a couple years ago I was cleaning the attic and found a box full of "How to raise your child" books. I counted over two dozen. There's no way someone normal would do that

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219003
I anticipated something like that. I'm sorry for being unnecessarily rude.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219003
Truly, you must be quite the fuck up if you end up becoming a NEET after all of that. You should be ashamed of yourself.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219028
I blame the working mother.
If he had a nice stay at home mother who cooked his meals, made his bed and cleaned his clothes he'd be a businessman by now with a wife and a child on the way.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218928
I know that feel anon... they say pressure can make diamonds but it can also cause supernovas and people to self-destruct. I just couldn't take the bullshit pressure my parents put on me, stopped caring and washed out.

[Anonymous No.]

I can't take it easy when crazy people go on killing sprees.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219086
Yeah man, it upsets me too when Israel bombs innocent cities and kills children. It's nice to see people caring and offering their condolences.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219086
You live there?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219094
I see what you did there goy, let's talk business zen? What if banks around the world fucked customers and borrowers slightly less in support of Israel? You get better credit card and mortgage rates, we get Palestine yes?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10217866
The loan gets written off after 30 years without a decent job.
>http://www.arts.ac.uk/fees-funding/moneymatters/he/studentloanrepayments2012onwards/

How do YOU not know this?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219104
That sounds like a mighty fine bargain, Mr. Goldberg, It's a deal!

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216235

365 days are for ME

0 are for family

FUG EM ALL
NEET 4 LIFE
LIVE FREE OR DIE

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218892
Speaking of this, have any of your parents started treating you in a nicer way, or otherwise different than how they normally treat you?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219114
Not him, but I didn't know this.

Do they just ignore you after a while? They keep sending me letters saying that HM Revenue & Customs says I'm unemployed, would I please send them proof of my benefits.

I didn't even finish university. I deserve my money back.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219114
In MURRIKA your student loan debt is for life, and you cannot be absolved from it by declaring bankruptcy. In britfagland you don't have to start payments on it until you start earning above a certain wage. Makes me wonder, what happens to those poor unfortunate american students who don't have the means to pay back tens of thousands of dollars of student loan debt?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219129
After 30 years I believe they just ignore you even went.

Though technically this all depends on when you entered uni, plus you don't actually get money back

>>10219145
Jesus that really sucks

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219145
Some countries have fucked up debt laws. For example in Spain if you don't pay off the mortgage the bank keeps the property but the debt isn't absolved. And it's not like you can just ignore it and move on because the government's tributary agency will seize your wages and bank transactions to pay it off. The only way to avoid this is to make your employer pay you in cash, and I don't think that's legal because you have to pay taxes, keep records and stuff when you hire people and run a business. The only solution would be to work under the table doing odd jobs while living with relatives. Also, there's no limit to how much the debt can grow via yearly interests. So if you fuck up, you can never hold down a stable job again or have a bank account at all, for the rest of your life.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10218928
Sorry to hear you had to go through that. It's funny how parents can spend so much on you and at the same time have zero respect for you. I don't know if I still would have turned out a NEET if my parents hadn't made my entire life living according to their expectations growing up.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219028
Why are people so eager to treat the more diligent ones as if they were some sort of demigods? They break if you just keep shoveling shit on them because they do relatively well and "in the end, someone has to do the heavy lifting". Studying seriously is delicate stuff. It simply doesn't work if you have to be shooing away the taskmasters all the time.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219203
It really does suck, which is why people need to stay away from getting jewed by student loans. This is a helpful video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ww4m8GUK69E
MURRIKA is also a country in which raw milk is illegal, and people have gotten into trouble for collection rainwater that is non-fluoridated.

>>10219216
How does Spain justify that Catch 22 system? It's like damning a person to a homeless life forever.

>>10219234
It's not that outlandish, some parents view their children as investments, who will make them money and take care of them when they grow old. A lot of them simply cannot understand why a child would refuse such a situation.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219145
Are they /fit/? If so maybe an arrangement can be made. Serve in the military of an unnamed country and swear your allegiance in blood to them and the chosen worldwide. In return, full debt forgiveness that wouldn't be possible serving any other military. Room and board, clothing and healthcare provided for term. Must be easy to indoctrinate and carry out any order given (i.e. shooting unarmed minors) or face summary execution.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219127
I doubt my parents are even aware of what happened, they don't follow current events. They even voted for Obama in the past election.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219413
/pol/ please leave

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219258
A lot of people never read the fine print.

[Anonymous No.]

Today is Wednesday.
I hope today will be a good day.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219515
What?

[Anonymous No.]

[Sudo !Tohsaka8ks No.]

>How do you avoid going home and seeing your family?
I already live at home, with my mother.
>How do you get out of the awkward Christmas dinner, or sit through it if you have to attend?
We don't do that, my family is kind of estranged.
>What are some cheap, generic, but acceptable presents to give?
I only buy for my mother, so I'm not sure. This Christmas I bought her a Keurig Platinum coffee maker.

[Anonymous No.]

Why do normals feel the need to congregate so frequently? I mean, I love and respect my parents and there are even some people I can call friends but I do I have to constantly prove my feelings by calling and meeting them?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219761
christmas comes but once a year

[Anonymous No.]

OP you don't know how much I wish to be in your position.

I haven't seen my family in a long time and really want to, but I live alone and across the country with a minimum wage job.

Be thankful you get to see them, I used to dread Christmas get-togethers but it beats being lonely.

[Anonymous No.]

It helps if you have a cute cousin, but most of the time it's just awkward.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10220618
>cute cousin
Explain further.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216169
> How do you avoid going home and seeing your family?
I live with my parents, so I see them everyday.
>How do you get out of the awkward Christmas dinner, or sit through it if you have to attend?
Why should I? My father will soon go to sleep, then I'll either talk to my mother for a while or return back to my PC.
<s>Although I'm not talking about Catholic Christmas here, because it isn't celebrated in my country</s>

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>>10220750
I have a cousin slightly younger than me who I've taken a liking to. She was always really quiet and would read a lot at family gatherings. I used to think she was weird; now I think she's adorable especially after getting to know her. She has a sort of honesty that's seems to be so desperately lacking these days.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219114

>without a decent job

You have to earn less than £15k for the rest of your life if you don't want to pay it off.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10219452

Being anti-Obama somehow makes you a Nazi now?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10221026
Most national socialists wanted Obama to win, because Romney was even worse. They also wanted a black president to be associated with the financial crisis, rather than someone white.

They also think Romney is an idiot, and is not apt to act as a representative of the white people.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10221026
i didn't know that /pol/ was all nazis

although i probably should have

[Anonymous No.]

>>10221058
He wasn''t, he was even more of an Israeli pawn than Obama. If Romney had won, America would have officially declared war on Iran and Syria, and for the next 4 years would be kowtowing to Israel's every demand, at the expense of the American people.

>>10221059
>>10221026
Not everyone who has an ounce of common sense and is aware of world current events is a nazi, you know.

[Anonymous No.]

>that feel when moving out soon to become NEET
>that feel when no way to make money to support myself

i'm so lost.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10221078
Break your leg and get put on disability.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10221069
And that's why they didn't want him to win!

[Anonymous No.]

>>10221069
thank you for your insight on world politics and for your anti semitic pic, this blog thread wasnt shit enough!

[Anonymous No.]

>>10221113
Are you implying that anti-semitism is bad?

[Anonymous No.]

I eat dinner with my family: I just listen to music the whole time.
I don't buy any presents.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10220838
I used to have a mild-mannered little cousin that I enjoyed spending time with. Then the teen slut phase began and that was the end. She wanted to go to uni to be a vet but apparently she has a penchant for going through countless sleazy boyfriends and she's living with one of them now possibly pregnant after dropping out of HS and running away from home. Make sure that doesn't happen to yours anon.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10216169
I purchased a laptop for my dad, and I'm going to a car dealership tomorrow to see if I can get my mom a new car, since I end with about $4,500 a month after all my expenses are paid.

[Anonymous No.]

Try this experiment, /jp/

Dont go to sleep today, then go to sleep tomorrow at 10 or 11 pm. You'll wake up early, then watch as how much better you feel.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10223717
Please stop trying to improve my quality of life.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10223717
How will I feel better when missing sleep today will make me feel sick?

[Anonymous No.]

>>10223717
Being awake during the office hours is the worst, NEET or not.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10221113
massive amounts of jew detected

[Anonymous No.]

My family knows where I live, and I still love them so I won't leave them on the doorstep like a dick, but I dread the dinner table conversations

>"Anon you did good in school, why haven't you gone to college yet."
>"Why haven't you found a nice girl yet anon."
>"Maybe you should join the Peace Corps and get out of the house."
>"I need grandkids, I'm not getting any younger."
>"This Apartment of yours could use a little TLC."

[Anonymous No.]

>>10221267
My brother used to do that during his "black" stage. It makes things extremely awkward for the rest of the family.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10221113
Yes, good goy.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10220492

I think its good to see your family once or twice a year. Anymore than that and you start getting on eachothers nerves. Its good to have a family, as long as they live far away from you.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10223846
>>10223822
>>10221121
Calm down, Ahmed.

[Jesus No.]

>>10216288
This, they are your family, faggots

[Anonymous No.]

My family doesn't even celebrate christmas so I'm good.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10223859
hitler was named ahmad too? nobody like your people, jude.

[Anonymous No.]

Whats a good vn to read during christmas/new years? My family wont stop bothering me about working and 3dpd, i dont know how i will survive christmas dinner around those people.

[Anonymous No.]

>>10223907
Kanon

[Anonymous No.]

I am a sandnigger, I don't celebrate christmas. Being a sandnigger NEET is the best, parents don't want you to go out and socialize or get a girlfriend because of religion. They still want me to get a job though..

[Anonymous No.]

>>10223915
allahu akbar 9/11 neva 4get

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>>10223915
Become a terrorist. It doesn't seem like a lot of work, and that's what you people do when you can't find jobs, right?

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>>10223915
Are you going to inherit the family gas station?

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>>10223933
if only allahack!bar was here

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im never forced to meet family over holidays. and nobody comes here.

if i do decide to go, say if the fridge is empty or something and i want a meal, i'll show up and just sit around playing with my laptop. most of my family leaves me alone and they're all so old they really aren't intimidating. someone eventually asks me about school but it's not hard to answer a couple questions about school.

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I should tell them I'm dropping out of university ...

Why do I suck so much? It's the one thing I had... no friends, no job, no social skills, come to think on it no other skills really... but hey, at least I was at university! At least I would get a degree... or so I thought

I just want to take it easy. Is it so much to ask ;_;

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>>10223915
>I am a sandnigger
Don't suck up to the white man by identifying yourself with his insults.

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I got kicked out of my house and haven't talked to my family in 3 years

While I still lived with them, they used to go to Mexico or somewhere warm every single Christmas/New Year's. Thankfully, I always got to stay home alone, playing WoW 24/7 hopped up on Red Bull and caffeine pills

The two extended family Christmas dinners I had in my life were unmitigated spaghettifests. My dad doesn't know his terminology too well, told the whole table I "watch hentai all day."

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>>10224010
If you're more than halfway through your degree, DON'T FUCKING QUIT.

If not, welcome to the NEET, you're here for life.

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Move far far away and cut contact. It feels incredible.

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>>10224020

No choice. Failed exams required to progress. No resits.

Is NEET life so bad? I spent all my time at university in my room doing nothing anyway. Hence failure

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>>10224011
i agree. while persians were doing irrigation whites were eating leaves and tree bark between living in the mud. the way it is isn't the way it'll always be. this very century europe is going to become irrelevant, so much for the white man.

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>>10224010
You've already paid tuition, don't be a nerd, suck it up and be a man.

Finish what you started, and stop making excuses for yourself. You guys piss me off sometimes some of you have great potential but you sit around feeling sorry for yourselves because deep down you like being a mess, and in disarray.

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>>10216169
I pretty much love my family and the holidays.
I'm suck at being NEET and I suck at being normal.

Is there a word for such failure? Or is that it: failure.

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>>10224043
Parasite single.

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>>10224047
I can get behind that.

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>>10224032
Repeat a year if you have to.

If you're in your first or maybe second year, sure, drop out, just acknowledge the fact that at some point in the future you're likely going to want to go back, and it gets WAY harder.

And NEET life... for some people it's fine. For some people it's necessary for a couple years until they find bearing in life. For some it'll result in depression or worse.

And that is only if you have the money/support for it, which is a whole different matter.

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>>10216169
This is actually one of times I'm happy because I get to see my cute cousins In a far away land and I also help gut and decapitate our meals which makes my uncles happy and +points for gifts and autismbucks.

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what 2hoe games are good to play? the most recent ones?

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>>10224010
>>10224032
I did this. I prefer being a NEET, to be honest. I enjoyed the course but I hated the people. They kept trying to be my friend and I didn't know how to deal with it.
"Hey do you want to go to that new nightclub this Friday?"
Fuck off. I don't know you. I have done nothing nice to you so please don't be nice to me.

The one thing I miss is the university library. I spent most of my time sitting there reading textbooks that had nothing to do with my course. I could probably go back there, but I'm scared I'll run into people or I'll get found out as not a student (are university libraries supposed to be public or student-only?)

Basically, if you feel bad then drop out. You're going to be in debt anyway, and there's no sense remaining miserable.
If you enjoy the course and facilities and are capable of everyday uni life, then repeat the year. Write a letter saying you're depressed or something. They'll understand.

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>>10224055

3rd year. I am going to ask about repeating the year. Don't know if they'll let me ... although my grades in 1st and 2nd year were fine/above average so maybe...

Thank you very much for your encouragement, by the way. You cheered me up.

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>>10224071
>Fuck off. I don't know you. I have done nothing nice to you so please don't be nice to me.
This guy's autism is on another level

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>>10224071
>are university libraries supposed to be public or student-only?
They're generally public. At least if it's a public university.

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>>10224071
You're autistic. Go get benefits before the boomers force Obama to take them.

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>>10224079
I just find that shit weird and creepy. I don't fucking know you, you don't fucking know me, why are you even bothering to acknowledge my existence?

It's weird in real life, who the fuck does that. here behind my nice shield of Anonymity its okay, but otherwise seriously, fuck right off.

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>>10224071
Not the same guy, but I hated the people in Uni too, specially those who got perfect marks by cheating, and quitting felt great. For the first 4 years that is. It's been fun but the realization that I have zero skills and absolutely nothing to show for myself is eating me away, so I'm planning on going back. I really envy all the people who became a NEET by choice and decided to use their time to hone whatever lifelong passion they had and eventually made a career out of it, but for me life is just one big accident after the other. I can't plan ahead, I don't even know what I'll be doing tomorrow afternoon.

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>>10224079
>>10224091
I'm not autistic. There was actually an autistic person in the class and I was jealous of him. Everyone thought he was weird so they left him alone. I was too passive so everyone tried to get to know me.

>>10224089
I just checked the library's policy documents, seems it's fine for reading and reference only.

>>10224100
This. I don't feel animosity towards these people or anything, I just don't want to be spoken to.

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>>10223355
Christ. I'm sorry to hear that, anon. My cousin is already in uni. She never went through the HS slut phase and instead became a sort of social recluse. To my knowledge she's never had a boyfriend or anything like that. In this day and age that's like finding a unicorn or something. Perhaps that's why I think she's so precious; I have cousins that aren't even in middle school yet that are already developing a slut mentality. This world is cruel.

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>>10224100
So what did you say in response to the nightclub guy?

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OH I LOVE THE NEETLIFE~
I GOT TO BOOGIE~

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>>10224118
No wonder you talk about your life like a normie, it's because you really are one.

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>>10218892
Finish your food.
Bad people never finish their food.

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>>10224118
> Everyone thought he was weird so they left him alone. I was too passive so everyone tried to get to know me.
How does it work? Nobody has tried to get close to me in the university and I'm not even weird, just a bit shy and not talkative.
Aren't you supposed to be active and do something to get people interested in you? <s>or are you just THAT charismatic?</s>

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>>10224123
He's not me (my response was >>10224118).

I just kept making excuses. "Sorry, I'm busy" and that sort of thing. I thought they would get the hint. They did get the hint, but that just led them to push further. "Oh I guess you're busy again, eh? How come you never come out with us?"
They used sarcasm, guilt tripping and mock offense to make me feel like a complete dickwad.

>>10224131
In what sense? That I'm neurotypical?

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You know what I hate about school... when someone assumes I'm smart or attentive because I'm quiet. "Oh, hey, can I see your notes?" or "Hey, did you do your homework? Do you think you could help me out..." then I have to awkwardly tell them I didn't write any or do the hw assignment.

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>>10224175
>Aren't you supposed to be active and do something to get people interested in you?

That's what I assumed. From the first day I figured I would keep to myself and nobody would bother me. But nope, people came up and spoke to me. Both the losers (who just wanted a new friend) and the popular kids (who had enough friends already) decided to approach me and try to get to know me. I was polite but I wasn't particularly friendly or open or anything. Maybe they found that mysterious so they got all curious about me, who knows. In terms of looks I'm about a 5/10, so I doubt it was that.

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>>10224186
>hate

Why the present tense?

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>>10224186
Oh god I know how you feel.

All the people who asked for my help ended up getting better grades than me. I like Star Trek and computers, that doesn't mean I'm an expert in math or physics.

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>>10224039
>You guys piss me off sometimes some of you have great potential but you sit around feeling sorry for yourselves because deep down you like being a mess, and in disarray.
You almost get the point. You see, a person like me is already the miserable one. I have nothing to lose and nothing to gain. I'm a goddamn mountain. When the earthquake hits, I'll just simply crack open. It's not depression; it's common sense.

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>>10224199
Because I'm retarded. I haven't been in a school for almost 5 years now.

>>10224210
Well, it makes sense. They were asking for help in the first place after all and willing to do work.

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If only I had decent teeth then maybe I wouldn't be ashamed of opening my mouth ever

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Why does this always turn into school problems? At least no work talk (yet).

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>>10224071
I go back to my university library sometimes, I'm a graduate.

You can read the books fine, nobody cares. No university security is going to be so intrusive as to go around looking for ID cards.
You just can't withdraw the books, is all.

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I think I met someone who browses 4chan a few weeks ago. How do I casually bring it up to sate my curiosity without making myself seem more autistic than I already do when we meet or prompting him to turn me in to the authorities for "being a pedophile"?

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I just woke up, it's 6 p.m. I came to sleep at 3-something a.m. That makes 16 hours I have slept today. I'm worried about myself. I feel numb and sleepy. Maybe I should go to a psychiatrist, but I doubt my mother would pay for it because she didn't do it 3 years ago when the medics told me I needed one, plus it's Christmas and she's angry at me. What should I do, I'm lost in life.

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>>10228473
Just skip that part and go right to the sucking his cock scene.

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>>10228473
"By the way, do you visit 4chan?"
It's surprisingly fine. Remember that it's just a website on the internet. You shouldn't feel the need to (or expect him to) burst into memes.

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>>10228473
Take the offensive. Accuse him of looking at child porn on 4chan.