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>> No.10175259
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>> No.10175261

Make up your damn mind.

>> No.10175263

/jp/ - Life Coaching

>> No.10175267

>>10175261
It wasn't too late when the thread was made, but 2minutes later it became too late. You missed your chance.

>> No.10175276

Why would someone want that?
Who on earth would not enjoy being at home sweet home, surfing the internet, having fun, playing videogames, reading, watching anime, doing gunpla etc...?

>> No.10175336

srs resbonse lel :D

So, how can I change my hikkikomori ways?
Well, I know of three major methods.

1. Get a job-and waste many hours a week on grinding, even though I don't have to since my parents agreed to support me finical. NO THANKS.
2. Go to university-right now I'm learning a lot of things on my own, at a great speed then it would be possible at university. So, NO THANKS.
3. Get a social life-social life as it is understood in society I happen to live in is not fun at all! NO THANKS.

>> No.10175347

>>10175276

I can't do any of that fun stuff because I'm addicted to imageboards.

Not even once.

>> No.10175361

>>10175347
But do you enjoy the imageboards?

>> No.10175364

>>10175276
Stop trying to fit in, dude.

>> No.10175366

>>10175336
What will you do when your parents die?

>> No.10175371

>>10175364
Shut up, man. No one asked you

>> No.10175378

>>10175371
Suck it.

>> No.10175387

>>10175364
I'm not trying to fit it.
Really, why wouldn't someone enjoy it.

>> No.10175394

>>10175387
You're comparing a self-destructive mental condition to the enjoyment of stay-at-home activities.

>> No.10175417

>>10175394
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hikikomori#Definition

>> No.10175429

>>10175417
>"A state that has become a problem by the late twenties, that involves cooping oneself up in one’s own home and not participating in society for six months or longer, but that does not seem to have another psychological problem as its principal source."

What's your point, anon?

>> No.10175450

>>10175394
>self-destructive mental condition
Justify yourself.

>> No.10175454

>>10175429
I was getting at it not being a disorder or comorbid to one, but that's a dumb definition anyway and I agree with you over the experts. If you become a recluse, you have a mental disorder (which doesn't imply anything "wrong" with you, you're just abnormal).

>> No.10175469

>>10175450
What do I need to justify? That's exactly what it is. Humans have evolved as social creatures, and if you seclude yourself from others for too long, it will have long-term negative effects on your psychological state.

It's one thing to enjoy your private time, but another to be incapable of functioning in society

>> No.10175490

>>10175469
It's not being incapable, it's just declining to do it.

>> No.10175497

>>10175490
Don't delude yourself. You don't have a choice in this.

>> No.10175499

>>10175490
It goes beyond simply refusing to integrate. There is a (personal) reason for doing so and it is problematic for the hikikomori. It isn't easy for them to blend back into society.

>> No.10175501

Gomenasai completely shitting on another thread.

>> No.10175503

>>10175469
Even society at large is becoming less social. I love the "idea" of things like parties, going to the pub, or talking to strangers. Yet normal people spend a party evening on their phone, get drunk as possible at the pub to ease conversation, and wouldn't dream of talking to strangers (unless they're drunk at the pub).

The people who see autism as a step forward in humanity's evolution might have a point.

>> No.10175504

>>10175501
At least she apologised in advance :D :D

>> No.10175505

I don't understand hikkis. I mean the type without actual mental disorders. The ones who could get a job if they wanted to.

Your parents will one day die. Who do you expect to support you then?

>> No.10175516

>>10175499
It's not a refusal, it's an opt-out.

>> No.10175525

>>10175503
>Normal people
Stop this bullshit, please. It's not that black and white.

>>10175505
You mean NEETs.

>>10175516
They opt-out because of an inability to socialize or work due to their self-destructive condition.

>> No.10175536

>>10175525
Normalfag please go.

>> No.10175543

>>10175504
*he

>> No.10175540

>>10175536
Cool meme dude, mfw no face.

>> No.10175545

>>10175536
>*fag

stop

>> No.10175550

>>10175540
>>10175545
see >>10175536

>> No.10175556

>>10175550
lol no argument

>> No.10175563

>>10175550
Way to get absolutely OBLIERATED.

Owned so hard.

>> No.10175566

>>10175525
I originally wrote "outgoing people" but that's not quite what I meant. I mean typical people, statistically normal individuals. Obviously I'm generalising and it varies depending on location, class, ethnicity, blah blah blah.

>> No.10175567

>>10175525
> You mean NEETs.
Hikis don't have jobs either. So, no, I meant hikis.

Please don't correct what you don't know.

>> No.10175572

>>10175567
Hikkis can have jobs.
A lot of people work from home.

>> No.10175579

>>10175567
>I don't understand hikkis. I mean the type without actual mental disorders
>without actual mental disorders
>hikis

You mean NEETs.

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>>10175572
>2012
>being this retarded

>> No.10175588

>>10175582
Well that's a nice, rational, fascinating answer you've got there, Anon-kun.

>> No.10175592

>>10175582
he has a point

>> No.10175594

>>10175582
He's actually right for once, there are people who work from home without socializing.

>> No.10175597

>>10175366
arrange funerals

>> No.10175598

>>10175582
How is he retarded, /v/ro?

>> No.10175604

>>10175594
Granted, they usually make shit for cash.

>> No.10175620

>>10175604
Also self-employment and working from home requires an inordinate amount of discipline and self-control, something that you probably do not have if you're addicted to imageboards, videogames, cartoons and tv shows and porn.

>> No.10175638

>>10175579
Search this thread for the definition of hiki, dumbass

>> No.10175642

>>10175638
I did. You obviously didn't, friend.

>> No.10175644

>>10175638
>>10175642
now kiss

>> No.10175648

>>10175642
Hey,pal.
> "A state that has become a problem by the late twenties, that involves cooping oneself up in one’s own home and not participating in society for six months or longer, but that does not seem to have another psychological problem as its principal source."

>> No.10175650

Are you threatening me?

>> No.10175659

>>10175648
>A state that does not seem to have another psychological problem as its principal source.
>another

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>>10175659

>> No.10175670

>>10175662
Thank you for trying to lift the mood of this thread with a shit picture, anon.

>> No.10175673

>>10175659
Fine I'll rephrase myself

*I mean the type without other actual mental disorders.

>> No.10175678

In Japan, NEET is a euphemism for hikikomori.

Sure, some work, but every term has some workaround. e.g. conscientious objectors can get drafted (and you deserve it, cowards) or some vegetarians eat meat.

>> No.10175683

>>10175678
But then they wouldn't be vegetarians if they ate meat.

>> No.10175924

>>10175683
they get around that by saying they are not vegan. Apparently those are the only ones that don't eat meat. Vegetarians these days eat meat, cheese, and milk all the time. They are selective about it though. Like no beef or something.

>> No.10175945

>>10175683
It's like people who "don't drink alcohol". They don't, except for when they want to.

>> No.10176034

>>10175924
Vegan is no animal byproducts, like eggs and milk. Vegetarian is simply no animals, but you can eat eggs and milk.

>> No.10176040

>>10175945
That's just called moderation.

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