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How do I get motivated to do things in life?

I have pressure from my parents and friends to be social, study, get a job etc. but I just prefer sitting at home playing video games and watching anime.

How do I find the motivation to be someone? How do you do it, /jp/?

>> No.9913007

get autismbux live on your own.

>> No.9913008

I don't have any ambition or goals in life.
My parents put up with it as long as I do the bare minimum when it comes to studying and passing, and I only have a couple of friends who aren't much different from me.

>> No.9913012

get autismbux, move out, take it easy

>> No.9913014

Dunno. I have a chronic lack of motivation and can't be asked to do anything other than slack off.

>> No.9913017

>>9913007
That doesn't fix the motivation thing though.

Also, I don't think I have autism. No matter how hard I try to fool myself, I don't think I have any disorder or disease. I thought I might have depression once, but I think I was just being melodramatic.

>> No.9913019

>>9913017
you don't have to have actual autism, just pretend you do

>> No.9913020

>>9913017
It's not too hard to fake it. There are no visible symptoms, so you just have to act like an autist, and eventually get diagnosed.
Make sure you're convincing around your family. If they don't consider you weird already, start out slowly, and only acknowledge it once they confront you about it.

>> No.9913021

I have that situation too, OP

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9913023

I'd like to know too.

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>>9913001
>>9913008
>>9913021

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9913036

Same problem here OP.

>> No.9913040

I don't know, OP. People tell me to be patient and that someday I will find the things I want to do in life, and then I will be happy and "normal". But I've been in a bad state since more than a year so... I don't know.

>> No.9913043
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9913043

How do you find the motivation?
Just don't do it and remain worthless nobody you are.

>> No.9913046

You simply don't. Follow whatever your heart says, it's your fucking life for fucks sake. Do what you what to happen by your own will. Now, if you truly indeed want to become someone then start off by disappearing from the boards of 4chan and internet in general to rather focus on your offline life.

>> No.9913047

>>9913043

Yeah, I'd like to.

It's just that I need money to live and if I don't look like I'm doing something, my parents won't be too happy.

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9913055

Just do it.

>> No.9913062

>>9913055
I'll just do YOU, you slut.

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>>9913062
Watch out how you talk to my gf

Punk

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>>9913062
I don't like how you're talking to me Mister.

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>>9913046
None of us want that, but reality forces everyone into things like education, work and to a certain degree a social life.

>> No.9913087

>>9913046

This, or else you'll never change.

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>>9913082
Use your avatars correctly

KUDASAI

>> No.9913102

I've acknowledged that I most likely will never want to do anything productive so I just waste my time in university taking courses I hate the least.

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>> No.9913137

>How do I find the motivation to be someone?
You don't, you just go out and do what has to be done.

You're thinking too much... which is something "normal" people don't do very often.

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