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>gf
kimochi warui

Forever alone is better than forever in relationship.

Marriage is like playing Russian roulette with a fully loaded gun.

Jump off a roof or something.

>>7219596
Kinda what I'm thinking.

How about you stay with her "forever" without getting married?

This way when shit hits the fan and she cheats on you it will be less of a pain in the ass as you dont have to deal with all the divorce papers and rules.

..Or just get rid of her right away~

"wow you should leave that bitch and go hikki because 3DPD XD"
Shut the fuck up.

>>7219645
>GreenElfManDrinkingTea.png
Hah.
Anyway, can't really do that. She wants commitment. And kids, too, but hopefully not yet. (We're both 22).
I'm leadning towards breaking up with her tomorrow.

Shitpost on /jp/.

>>7219582
Do you want to change your life, or not? Are you truly happy with the way you are now?

>>7219718
>Do you want to change your life, or not?
I do
>Are you truly happy with the way you are now?
I might be; not sure. What defines happiness anyway? It's just, I'm doing NONE of the things I love. I've been a gamer for over 18 years, I can't live without it.

>>7219731
You have to know what you want before you make any harsh decisions.
Do you love this woman enough to marry her? Would you be happy spending a lot of time with her? Would you be willing to give up habits in order to better your relationship?

Ask yourself some questions and answer them. Then you might be able to get an understanding.

If all else fails, flip a coin. When the coin is in the air, you'll know what you're hoping for.

>What say you, /jp/?
I say fuck off back to /b/, normalfag. People who don't understand the superiority of 2d and worship sluts need to get out.

>>7219742
>Do you love this woman enough to marry her?
Yes.

>Would you be happy spending a lot of time with her?
A lot? No. Would be nice for 1 day per week though. She talks too much.

>Would you be willing to give up habits in order to better your relationship?
I kinda did already. I rarely have the time for the stuff I used to do.

Fuck it. foreveralone.jpg

>>7219925
What did SHE sacrifice for you?
It looks very on sided from what you say.

>>7219937
Ahahaha.wav
As if she sacrificed anything at all.

Infact she probably only had gains now that she has a new slave to do her bidding.

Now she has all the time in the world to sleep with random men behind his back as she does not need to worry about paying for her food or house~

Get rid. If you feel like this now it'll never go away and will always nag at you on the inside. Combined that with her nagging at you on the outside and you will just break up anyway. May as well do it now.

I had a girlfriend once, many moons ago. It was fun for what it was at the time but you are right in thinking that the freedom to do what you want and indulge in your hobbies is very liberating and far far superior.

But also, >>7219668

And also, reported.

Try and find common ground with her. Something you both can enjoy. If you two have such feelings for each other, have you ever tried sharing your hobbies with her, or trying hers?

Sexual attraction and affective comfort is not enough to build your life as a couple.
You need a common goal: you don't have one.
You need to share more than half of you hobbies: you share none.
You need to have equity in your relationship (and never equality): She's your boss.

If you don't see how it will bites you, no one can help you.

>>7219937
>What did SHE sacrifice for you?
She, uh, nothing.

>>7219942
>Now she has all the time in the world to sleep with random men behind his back as she does not need to worry about paying for her food or house~

Not true. She's at Uni, and I'm a NEET. She'll be working in a year, and I'll still be a NEET.

>>7219944
>Get rid. If you feel like this now it'll never go away and will always nag at you on the inside. Combined that with her nagging at you on the outside and you will just break up anyway. May as well do it now.

OP here.
I agree, I'll try to end it tomorrow.

>>7219950
>Try and find common ground with her. Something you both can enjoy. If you two have such feelings for each other, have you ever tried sharing your hobbies with her, or trying hers?

The only common ground is sex (and I don't enjoy it nearly as much as I enjoy a good game). On everything else, it's just me pretending.

I don't understand how a girl can want to marry someone they love. If you truly love a man, you shouldn't force such a ridiculous ceremony on him and completely break his spirit and independence.

>>7220250
>break his spirit and independence
how does marriage break someone's spirit? and doesn't love mean depending on someone? silly waifufags

>>7220250

Women like to feel 'secure', part of the reason they want a man in the first place. Marriage offers a kind of tangible (well, legal, official) stability, maybe. Guessing.

>>7220269
That manga was such trash. He should've chosen her.

>>7220269
>how does marriage break someone's spirit?
Like this.

>>7220276
But he did. Stop trying to stir up a debate with such obvious lies.

>>7220285
Yes, he did, just like Mx0 still gets regularly printed and didn't end horribly.

Tell her you already have a waifu, then kick her out and watch Gunbuster again.

>>7220278
Even though I know I will kill myself rather than be forced to get a job and become a wannabe normal, it still hurt reading that.

>>7220269

Why should you need public/religious recognition to feel valid as a couple? It's just artificial and melodramatic considering it doesn't actually change anything except in a legal sense...

>>7220322
>public/religious recognition
>It's just artificial and melodramatic
And that's why marriage is so popular. What to women want? A good reputation. Why do women love wedding dresses so much? It's romantic.

>>7220326
But why do they wear white? It's such a huge lie~

Why is this thread still here?

Yo fags, women don't want all that shit, they want kids, and a place where the kids won't die. Women don't pay the price of sex for a relationship. They pay the price of a relationship for reproduction. Stop being so damn beta. Hit that shit and quit that shit.

>>7220361
If what you said was true, there would be no such thing as abortion.