/jp/ - Otaku Culture

>>61773

>>61773

>>61773
>>61843

>>61773

But hey, he finished college and has a job.

I mean, that's two things I don't have and seem far away from.

Thanks mods.

>>62116

Ronery threads are for ronery. If you want to talk about your boyfriend/girlfriend please take it somewhere else.

http://4-ch.net/love

Here is a text board for general relationships. Take it there.

>>62256
I think we just found a reason why weeaboos like asian girls

>>62555

no. you're cofusing ronery with dating tips. Ronery threads do not involve all you stupid sluts clustered into one thread giving each other their worthless opinions and tips for their shitty, conceited relationships.

>>62636
I second this man. Ronery threads are for the ronery.

even ronery thread on /a/ use to have alot of people giving advices

not necessarily good advices though

I'm ronery because NO GIRL IS AS CUTE AS MY NONO.

I'd be her onii-sama. Or as long as we're in fantasy land, I might as well be her onee-sama....

>>63118
already exists.

>>63135
enjoy your QUALITY faggot

I'm a tsundere guy.
I always look mean and gloomy, I don't talk to anybody and always grunt to myself wehn I see something stupid.
However, when there's some fucking old hag trying to cross the road or there are some goddamn kittens without a mother or something like that, I always help, just because I feel I have to.
Do you think I'll attract some female attention eventually?

>>63135
Holy shit that is awesome

>>63513
She wanted coffee, what's special with that ?

>>63554
coffee's not coffee coffee is WHAT ?!

I just got hit in the face with the most ronery I've ever had in my entire life. When I was a kid, I moved to another city and left all my friends behind. When I moved into the new city, I never managed to acquire friends like before. I eventually grew somewhat bitter and introverted in nature. Naturally, this led to a somewhat ronery existence, and when I got out of college, I just stayed in my apartment most of the time, only going out for food and work. Well, while I was cleaning up, I decided to go through some of the boxes in my closet. In one of the boxes, I found the letters and notes that my old friends gave to me before I moved. I read through them. Iti wasn't so bad at first, since a lot of them just said stuff such as, "Have a good time there!" or "Make sure you have fun!"

But eventually, as I went down the stack, the scribbled writing in the cards told me of my miserable existence. "Make sure you make a lot of new friends!" I didn't make any close friends after moving into my apartment. "Make sure you keep up your grades and get a good job!" Sure, I finished college with fair grades, but I have a terrible job that barely pays for the apartment and utilities. The final letter hit me the hardest though. "I hope you'll be able to laugh just like you laughed here." The only times I laughed here was in the presence of the internet... I can't remember a time where I actually laughed with another person. I realized how bitter and full of hatred I've become since I moved here. Who was I supposed to curse? My parents for forcing me here? My old friends for forgetting me? No... I realized it was all my fault... That I was the reason I was living this terrible life. Gentle Jena began playing from my computer, and I silently cried.

>>61773
>Iti

>>61773


;_;

>>61773
;_;

Usually, when people look at me, they're just looking at a facade. How I look at any given moment is a direct reflection of the people around me. If I stick out too much, someone might approach me. I can't let that happen. If I'm in a group of loud people, I'll be loud too. If everyone else is laughing at crude jokes, I'll laugh as well. I was always changing, like a chameleon, just so I could keep away from small talk. But one of the most amazing feelings is being with a girl who can see straight through that facade. She knows you dislike small talk, so she avoids confronting you. And yet, she's always nearby, in case you feel like having a menial conversation about the weather, or how the leaves look gently drifting to the ground. She knows that you don't want other people's help, so she'll try to stay out of the way. But when you're down, she'll be the first one to hold out her hand. When you walk in the park during autumn, she wouldn't ask if she could tag along with you, rather, she'd just walk alongside you without consent, without a word. She wouldn't say anything, but she would lightly hold your arm, and give a gentle smile toward you. And as you walked in the cool, brisk afternoon with her, leaves falling around you like snow, you'd feel your stress, your worries, and your fears slowly melt away. Your mouth would slowly tug at its corners, a sensation that you may have long forgotten. You'd take a look at her face, the warm face that was smiling at the simple treasure of life itself. And after all this time, you could finally feel yourself returning a genuine smile as well.

>>61843
this one just makes me think "learn to like a little chitchat you stuck-up sociophobe."

>>61773
>Gentle Jena

I teared up right there.

>>61854
True. Hell, I haven't done a damn thing since I graduated high school.

>>61773
:(

>>61854

btw Kaguya is really skilled

>>61858
i agree, this guy sounds like he thinks he's too good for everyone.

My significant other doesn't want to date anymore and wishes to be 'very good friends' with me. Ugh. This sucks. I still love the person very much. How do I make things turn around?

>>61888
Give her a basket of kittens.

After classes, I was heading back to my dorm. On the way back, a girl behind me was walking fairly fast and eventually caught up to me. However her cell phone seemed to have rang or maybe she decided to call someone, so she took it out and started talking, which slowed her down.

For about 3 whole min, we were walking side by side together down the sidewalk. I didn't really care or think much, I had my headphones on full blast, I could barely hear what she was saying or figure out who she could be talking to.

Then a feeling hit me. For some reason I felt like we were a couple, going towards a common destination. I chanced a (very) quick look at her direction, she was really gorgeous. She had put her phone back just now and started going a bit faster then me again.

Then just as I refocused my gaze to the road straight ahead of me, the warm feeling suddenly disappeared. I could feel her changing direction and heading towards the dining hall.

Mere seconds later, I reached the cold concrete stairs that lead down to the road that goes to the resident halls, I stopped just for a second to regather my thoughts.....and my heart

Then I came back to my room and have been doing the usual worthless stuff ever since.

You know, if I had a woman, I'd hope she wouldn't mind me wanting to be clingy and lovey. Seriously, when I think of all the things we'd do...it's never any of the lewd things that the people who bitch at me about getting a girl talk about like sex or making out. It's other thing. Cuddling on the couch, despite that there's nothing on. Walking close together on a chilly autumn day. Letting her ride piggy back on me even though she's not tired. Using her lap as a pillow, or vice versa. Huddling together in the winter when it reaches the bottom of the thermometer, under the covers with my arms grasping her tightly around her waist, and her arms wrapped around one of mine, ensuring the strength of the lock. Even just sitting next to each other in the warm midday sun. None of the fondling, none of the groping, none of the ogling. We wouldn't really talk about anything existential or anything, just random talk that strays from the empty conversations you get with the part timers at the local grocery store. And to add to the warm feel, her smile. If there's one thing I'd require for a girl, it would be a dazzling smile. Not that hokey white teeth smile, but a genuinely sincere smile, one that's entirely candid and always stroking across her face. A smile that in the event if ever disappeared, I'd do my best to jump in and make it shine once more.

>>61860
I chuckle a little there actually.

>>61888
You don't. Sorry, kid. :(

>>61896


...

Well, she was probably an unpleasant person anyway. Most people are unpleasant, once you get to know them.

The first bit of copypasta was alright. The rest was kind of stale. Please take it back to the kitchen.

>>61919
Sorry, girls hate that shit.

>>61888
Respect her wishes and let it be. If you do this, she'll remember this and think of you as a good guy. Doing this is good because it doesn't fuck up your future chances of getting back together again if the chance ever arise.

>>61941
Youve never dated a girl I guess.

>>61982
You've never dated anything but whales.

>>61941
Re...rea......really? ;___;

>>61895
>>61923
>>61949
Alright, what's your advice if the genders are reversed? That the guys wants out and just be friends while the girl is desperate?

>>61982
girl here, my old boyfriend used to attempt a lot of that cuddly stuff, I hated everytime he tried. I don't want no piggyback ride and I don't like PDA. oogling and stuff is also bad.

maybe im just distant though.

>>61997
I generally aim for fit males, sorry bb.

>>62000
No, you're normal. Girls didn't want 24/7 attention. They want their own space, like most men want. And no they don't want fucking piggy backs etc. They are not children.

>>62009
Would you like a piggyback ride sweetheart :3

>>61888
Learn to master your pathetic emotions. You can create and cut off love with an exertion of willpower.

Leave her be because she doesn't want to be with you, and you should be with someone that wants you, not someone you begged into letting you follow them around.

>>62012
I can imagine it now. Instead of surprise buttsex it's SURPRISE CUDDLE!

>>62000
If its like forceful than it is annoying but if its not rape cuddles, its nice. Especially when watching a movie.

However when sleeping I cannot stand touching someone else. Too hot.

>>62019
My ex used to try and hug me and cuddle and kiss me when I was on the PC, drove me up a fucking wall.

>>62016
And if the genders are reversed?

>>62039
Still the same?

>>62005

girl here, I want piggyback rides :<

>>61998
Same thing, if the girl tries to pull anything, people will just think she's a clingy bitch, attention whore, and so on.

>>62047
I do too sometimes, but it's funner and you feel less like a fruitcake lovey wierdo if it's from a friend or something.

And I want hugs and hand-holdings.

>>62039
Don't fuck him until you're married. He'll respect you more. If he breaks up for that, he wasn't worth keeping.

If you do fuck him, be well aware of how FUCKED your thinking becomes of it. You're no longer qualified to make any decisions about the relationship, so just listen to what your momma says.

Keep condoms handy, don't have a kid, if you do, put it up for adoption, you'll want to kill yourself if you get an abortion.

If you want to make a man happy make him a sandwich or bring him a cup of tea/cold beer, and he'll love you forever.

>>62062
Does this piggyback thing remind anyone else of First Kiss? :Q

>>62065
haha oh wow

/jp/ - Relationship Advice

>>62047
>I want to squish you like an overlord tank

>>62019
I'm a girl and I hate surprise cuddle. It's fucking annoying and makes me want to sock my old bf in the stomach every damn time.

Maybe it's just their timing but it's always a nuisance every time they do it.

>>61919
0/10

Women should have no say in a relationship. Anyone who disagrees is a feminazi.

>>62073
>/jp/ - Relationship Advice/Ronery
fixed

>>62047
Me too, and I'm a girl. I think all that cudderly stuff is great :D

>>62099
You're not a girl D:

too many self-righteous bitches, probably the fat goth chicks that can't get anyone decent

I like how most of the women in this thread are acting like they are something special.

Get over yourselves.

>>62099
it's ok SOMETIMES... but I'm shy and I can't stand it if it's in public, or in front of my friends.

I'm a guy, I can't touch someone without feeling uncomfortable. REALLY uncomfortable. The feeling of someone touching me is like nails on a black board. It makes me cringe. It doesn't happen with family but everyone else it does, just shaking hands takes a herculean effort.

Suffice to say I'm 24 and never had a girlfriend or sex or even kissed. I probably never will because of my anxiety.

>>62104
what counts as decent?

right now i've got a guy who is pretty much the woman in the relationship and that's plenty decent.

>>62119
So he's basically in the kitchen?

>>62116
im not special. I just hate PDA.

>>62118
End of the line for your genes
Next please!

>>62123
You could say that. I'm trying to get him to learn how to cook.

>>62112
Yeah PDA is annoying, but I hate when they're all anti-touching when there is no one there. The copypasta mentioned cudderling on the couch while watching shitty TV, I hate when guys are like anti that stuff...

sounds like the whores no one wants and only losers settle for
guess that explains the guys you've dated, don't it

>>62132
Oh...I see.
....
I wish a girl would teach me how to cook ;_;.

I want a girl who understands what the BIOS is. I want a girl who knows what I mean when I say "Linux Distro". I want a girl who enjoys, and is good at, the vidya.

In short, I sit here in my basement, knowing that this will never happen, I will never meet a woman, and I will die alone.

>>62016
protip: willpower and logic got nothing on emotions. Your logic tells you she's obnoxious, bossy, loudmouthed, airheaded etc and there is no reason you should like her, but you still love her just because once in a blue moon she goes all dere-dere and show a soft caring side to you.

Likewise, do you think girls go "let's see, he's rich, well educated and act like he's my servent, i think i'm going to fall in love with him." Nope they go for the guy would out of no where pin them against a wall and force a hot kiss on them, then pretend nothing happened afterwards and treat them coldly otherwise.

>>62140
go to an art college. they're everywhere.

Bitches love assholes, don't let them tell you otherwise.

I wouldn't want a woman who knew what Linux was. If she tried to install that shit on my pc, I'd have to murder her ass.

I can cook. I learned so many stir-fry and chocolate dessert recipes after I started dating, and it turned into an extremely long-distance relationship. I feel that the chocolate skills are going to waste.

On that thought, can one ship cookies across country borders without the customs destroying everything?

>>62130
Sluts like you are giving the rest of us females in this thread bad images.

>>62132
Tried this before. Even if he pretends to like it, it's really bothering him and he's just doing it to stay on your good side to get sex from you.

>>62140
Girl here using linux :)

>>62157
Why are you so uppity?

>>62164
That is hot
Want to reproduce?

>it's ok SOMETIMES... but I'm shy and I can't stand it if it's in public, or in front of my friends.

Your blushing and resistance only makes me want to cuddle you more

>>62157
He told me up-front he wants to learn to cook and be the "housewife".

ITT: Girls using the interbutts

>>62154

I'd stop seeing her if she touched my computer set up at all. Seriously? What the fuck? I place more importance on my computers than a woman?

>>62170
Tsundere, methinks.

>>62156

My friend sent me candy bars over the Canadian-American border and they showed up fine, so I doubt cookies would be a problem.

>>62171

Your boyfriend is gay.

>>62145
>let's see, he's rich, well educated and act like he's my servant, i think i'm going to fall in love with him.

They don't marry these people for love, they do it for power and status.

Women will marry an 80-year-old just because he has money. Women care more about power than they do about love and sex.

Men do not care for power like this. How many cases of 20-year-old men marrying 80-year-old women do you hear? Right, because no matter how rich a woman is, a guy is not going to fuck an 80 year old.

>>62180
actually, he is. We browse /cm/ together.

>>62171
Enjoy your beta male

>>62191
Post-beta

>>62182
Yeah, and i'm sure that kind of utilitarian relationship is what anon wants

Night, darkness all around. It is the hardest time of the day. When that feeling sets in. It starts as a pain in my chest. Nothing to bad, but as the night goes on it gets worse. Normally it doesn’t bother me to much, just watch an anime and focus on something else. Some nights though, some nights are just hell.

It is mainly when it is raining out. I can still hear her voice, the sound of her falling to her knees. Hitting the earth over and over again, and the sound of her sobs. She is begging me to come back, telling me that she was sorry. I couldn’t turn around and face her, even in the rain I knew my face was covered in tears. I knew if I turned around and saw her face I would forgive her. But it wouldn’t be like before. Betrayal always hurts the most.

But on nights like tonight, when the rain is coming down outside and the pain is in the chest. Nights like tonight I wonder what would have happened if I had turned around if everything would have been better than now. If some part of me would have been happy. Even if it was all a lie, it could have been a happy lie. And would living that lie be any different that living the lie I live today? Probably not, but it would have been with her.

God I hate the rain.

>>62191
I will thank you, ukes are my type.

>>62179
Really? Thanks. I think candy bars are sturdier stuff than homemade cookies to start with, but anyways, now I have hope. I will go win my beloved's heart back with checkerboard cookies.

BRB, baking.

>>62156
My Mom sends me food all the time, and it shows up fine. It's into America though from England. You just need to seal everything, and so on to make sure no bugs get in. As long as they cannot smell anything from the box it's all good.

>>62205
GB2/kit....yeah...

This reminds me, do we need to have a misogyny day in /jp/ too?

>>62216
I don't see why not.

>>62216
Do we have to? I was hoping this wouldn't turn into a board like that.

Is it just me, or do asian girls like cuddling more?

>>62145
I can concede what you said is true for immature children that haven't mastered their emotions.

>>62222

GET THE FUCK BACK IN THE KITCHEN, YOU FEMINIST PIECE OF SHIT. IT'S GIRLS LIKE YOU THAT ARE THE REASONS I BEAT MY WIFE AFTER RAMMING HER WITH MY DICK.

>>62228
Maybe it depends on the person? In my experience, caucasian chicks are more touchy-feely.

After failed relationships with "normal" guys I have come to the conclusion that I can not date anyone who doesnt understand the following terms : STR, DEX, INT, AGI, loli, shota, moe, respawn, and a few others.

I was talking to a guy who was thinking about joining the army and it went like this :

Him : It would be good money so why not?
Me : Arent you scared?
Him : Scared of what?
Me : Dying. I mean its not like you can respawn...
Hime : ..What?

:(

>>62228
Asian women are real women
Not like these bitches who think they actually have rights

Nevertheless, it makes little difference once I crack you over my huge negroid dong.

>>62240
No nigras on the internet.

>>62235
~('3`)~ oh my oh my.

>>61919
Other than sex, which doesn't really bother me much anymore, I'm mostly sad that I'll never get to do any of this stuff ;_;

>>62248
No girls either
Yet I'm breaking all yo white bitches

Yip, just me lying there, and her bleedin on my man-log.

>>62240
Some truth.

American women think they'll have a happy life by being a cunty bitchy feminist making as much or more money than her husband. Doesn't realize everyone would be happier if she stayed home and raised the kids and stopped acting like a fucking bitch.

Act like a woman, guys like it. Ask them to hug you, do cutesy shit, make them dinner. They'll eaT IT UP.

>>62216
MISOGYNY DAY IS EVERYDAY IN JAPAN

>>62238
I donno, last time when I was working in China, I saw this really cool discussion panel on TV where couples were talking about showing affection in public, from what I could seems like the chinese chicks are pretty into it. (selected sample i'm sure, but still)

One particular yound couple struke me as awesome and cute. They both work at the same office right, but the girl's cubicle is like down the hall from the guy's. She get's ronery so easily that every couple of hours she runs to the guy and ask him to huggle her a bit. ('It's like as if I needed him to recharge my batteries' she said) At first the other people at the office were like wtf, but it happens like every day and now everyone is used to it.

>>62260
not every girl whos succesful has to be all uppity about it. I know a girl who makes twice as much money as her spouce but I never once see her act like she's better. She just wants to do good for herself.

>>62256
You'll get used to that too. I did.

First time ronery-poster here. I was in a happy relationship for about 2½ years, before my girlfriend started getting colder all of a sudden. After like three weeks of the cold treatment she said that we should stop seeing each other. This happened on her birthday. I really loved her, so this was a real blow to me, mentally. It became more of a fucked-up season for me, because like a week after that I discovered a livejournal which one of my best friends was keeping, mainly involving his desire to be with my ex(yes he'd been posting like ½ years before me and my gf broke up). So after that I became really depressed, but I didn't see any psychiatrist or such, because I thought I could make it on my own. I cried a lot, maybe for a month, but only at nights because I couldn't bear the thought that someone could see me crying over just one relationship. It also didn't help that all of my other friends were all "why are you mad?" at me, because they haven't ever had a relationship.

I broke all contact to both my ex and my ex-friend. He tried to apologize to me, but to me he was and still is as good as dead. Betrayal is the worst thing you can do to a person in my opinion, and I had trusted so much in both of them. But yeah, life went on and after 1½ years I had come a bit back from my shell. But then I learned that my ex and he had started dating. I don't know when, but I think probably after we broke up. It espescially struck me in the ironic way, because when we broke up with my gf she said "you know I have never cheated on you, right?" Why did she say it, I wondered, but when I had discovered their relationship it was dead obvious that SOMETHING must have been going even before the break-up.

>>62312
Now that's a depressing thought.

>>62357
Why is it depressing to think one day it wont make you sad anymore and you'll be able to accept it? That means you'll be happy once you learn to deal with it.

>>62380
Because when you're so depressed and sad about something, it means it had a large impact in your life. When your parent dies you're incredibly heart-broken because they meant so much to you, when a stranger dies you feel nothing because they meant nothing.

Love is a big deal, if you don't have it and feel nothing it's almost like you've lost part of your humanity. It's sad that eventually it means nothing to you because it should be something important.

girls who wait for sex are as worthless as they are ugly.

Not to respond to anyone, but: Fucking whores.

How about, all of you dumb little cunts get the fuck out of 4chan altogether and ronery self-centered faggots stop creating completely irrelevant thread discussion on /jp/.

>>62256
Yeah, that's what I wish for too. Sex is meh, I'd really like a relationship of some kind but I'm too damn shy. Going to be alone forever ;_;

>>62549
Otakus are ronery, that's part of Japanese culture and was co-opted by 4chan's /a/. Then that stuff got moved to /jp/. The logic follows pretty easily. This stuff belongs here. Why don't you minimize the thread if you don't like it, or better yet, just leave.

I'm a hikikomori, and the only girl who gives a shit about me is already in a serious relationship. :(

>>62576
how serious?

>>62549
Get back to where ever you came from.

>>62304
why does she need a fancy job to feel good for herself?

I hope I return a ghost to those happy couples that so torment me.

>>62597

She's been with him for almost a year and a half, and they never had any fights or showed any signs of breaking up.

>>62576
Sorry mate, I know how that is too.

>and they never had any fights or showed any signs of breaking up

I doubt that's a serious relationship

>>62555
You never know. I dated a girl for a year and she said she was initially interested in my because I was quiet and shy. She thought it was cute and mysterious. I was 18 at the time, I'm 25 now and I've never been with anyone else :(

I guess low expectations will keep you from being disappointed.

>>62707

Getting advice from hikkomori about how to not be ronery is like getting advice on fireproofing from a serial arsonist.

>>62714
well it is very entertaining

>>62609
Man, if I returned as a ghost, I'd use my otherworldly powers to get girlfriends for ronery people.

You know, trip 'em up at the right time so he falls into her arms...ha ha, that sort of stuff only works in dramas, but you know what I mean.

It's the thought that counts.

I would think serial arsonists would be quite experienced about what makes it hard for them to burn a building down and would have very good suggestions for fireproofing...

>>62693
Girls like that are fucking rare, odds are none of us will ever meet one.

>>62749

Most arsonists toss flammable chemicals in large amounts of other flammable materials and light a fire. You don't have to be a genius to be an arsonist, just access to a lighter.

THe only girl personalities I can even really stand are the really feminine ones (which are pretty uncommon outside of religious people), and the really independent types. But the independant ones tend to be fairly uninterested in me. Well, they're ALL uninterested in me....
But you know, the disdain of the ones you like stings more than that from some random bubblehead girl.

>He told me up-front he wants to learn to cook and be the "housewife".
This is sorta similar to me in the dating phase. I'm a guy (obviously, no girls on the Internet) but I usually act dismissive and aloof around women, pretending I don't like them when I do.

Only it doesn't seem to work. Women want to be wooed, not spurned.

ITT: Anonymous doesn't follow the strict code of conduct in a ronery thread.

This thread illustrates what's wrong with /jp/ at the moment: the board attracts too many normal people.

>>62797

Haha. You got it wrong both times. They don't want to be wooed or spurned. They want a giant, throbbing, hot rod of manmeat stuffed up their sphincter.

>but I usually act dismissive and aloof around women, pretending I don't like them when I do

You gotta do it properly
"I don't like you, but for some reason you always turn up where ever I go"

>>62823
>>62805
I'm 26, never so much as been kissed by a woman. Is it possible I can still be considered normal? :S

>>62848
I don't remember how old I was when I first got the girl, but it was after kindergarten, 13 years of school, 2 years of university, 1 year travelling the world, and 2 years of college. THEN it happened. Oh yes.

>>62848

No. This is very abnormal.

>>62937
Your reply shows there's not enough /a/ in /jp/ yet.

>>62848
Keep in the the majority of the population is too dumb to discover 4chan, or hell, the internets

>>62848
Keep in mind the the majority of the population is too dumb to discover 4chan, or hell, the internets

>>62958
>4chan, or hell, the internets
At first, I read "4chan, hell, or the Internet" and was full of weeaboo atheist rage.

So ronery ;_;

>>61919
Do...want...;_;

There ARE girls like this out there. It's just that when you see us, you will either say "ew" or just never notice us there.

Both male and female will stay ronrery for the rest of their lives unless we get past the looks.

>>62848
Well, I'm turning 20 soon and never been kissed myself. I wouldn't say "normal" but it is uncommon.

>>63015
guess it ain't particularly anormal compared to some people in this thread.
it's bot like it's a race anyway.

it's like hugging a bag of sand

>>63015
guess it ain't particularly anormal compared to some people in this thread.
it's not like it's a race anyway.

>>62998
no one wants to hug you because you're fat

>>62786
I CAN'T DEFEAT AIRMAN ;_;

>>63032
I don't know about other places, but where I'm from, most have their first kiss in elementary school thanks to dares and curiosity.

I almost had my first kiss in junior high, but there was snot dripping out of the guy's nose.

>>63037
HEY, I STARTED GOING TO THE GYM MAN. ;_;

>>62740
Even that wouldn't work.

>>62740
I like this idea. Would make a nice short animu eh?

>>63087
what, Densha Otoko, minus 2chan but with ghost?

>>63058
well, having a kiss shouldn't be about touching someone's lips, there should be feeling in a first kiss in my opinion, so the things done in school, resulting from dares and all, don't account for much.
wonder when do normal people generally have their first kiss.

>>63087
Well, I was thinking it would be more than just one person.
Like a ghost who basically plays cupid with
different people. Each episode/chapter would be a different couple.

>>61919
lol i guess you're a ronry humongous fag based on what the females here have said

For a long while I felt like shit because I wasn't taking opportunities like everyone else to have random, casual one-night stands. I could never stand the thought of waking up and feel that guy's eyes on me, like I was worthless to them now. Or that they were embarrassed to see me beside them. Worthless, meaningless, tramp. No other girls seem to care about that, they just shrug it off as being empowered or something.
But the older I get (22 now) the more I realize it doesn't have to be that way. I can wait for someone that actually matters. It makes me happy.

>>63118
Kinda like Enma Ai, right?
...Wait, that may not have been the best example. But you understand what I meant, right?

I actually got to caress an /a/non female close to my chest recently. My pants were tight as shit and my heart was pounding.

I'm a 23 year old who's pretty cute, but never been kissed. Many dates with people who think I'm cute and spunky. But its all an act. I do a mean bluff and get attention every time.
But it means nothing when you're a hikikomori whose afraid of people and men, and whose only sexual experience has been reading yaoi and fapping to bdsm 3d porn.
I'm so hikikomori that my power levels are over 9000 and I have no job, just a bunch of lies. Lots of "friends" who I can't ever dare open up to and overwelming paranoia.

I guess you can call me batshit insane.
Could I ever find love? I'm a born home maker, I love to cook, cuddle, submit, and do all sorts of domestic shit. I would be proud to watch over our children's future on the PTA while you work hard to provide for us.
Is it an impossible dream? Would any 3d man give such a crazy ass girl a chance? Of must I forever lust after 2d men like Light & Kaiji?

tl;dr: Batshit insane somewhat tsundere looking for cuddly love- any chance in hell of finding a match? Or should I just kill myself?

>>63105
True.
My guess is junior high or high school when people start "dating". I use quotes because most of those kids don't know what the hell they are doing or know what "love" is.

>reading yaoi and fapping to bdsm 3d porn
Your chances would have been higher if you supressed that...

>>63137
oh, reminds me of high school "dating".
I loathed so much the people who got into it.
people got together and separated on a weekly basis, talk about "couples".
then again, maybe I resent them, but I wouldn't have been satisfied with that kind of interaction.

>>63123
Yes, something along those lines. Just without the killing.

...or killing could be added...ha. A couple commits suicide and the ghost starts to feel like shit and starts to wonder if it was the right thing to do by getting them together...

Ok, I'll stop, but damn this is fun.

>>63134

Kill yourself. No guy thinks it's erotic that his woman loves all the domestic shit involving kids.

They want their woman to be an erotic sex kitten, until they get impotent then they want them to never want sex again.

>>63164
I'm all down for the sex kitten part, but I likes what I likes.
Alright, guess I better get started on that noose.

>>63134
Sorry anon, I'm too Tsundere for you to handle.

>>63134

Umm...Hell yes?

Maybe not sooo submissive though.

I can't have a girl because I'm not ready. I have to be able to fully support myself before I can support someone else....

>>63156
fanart.
>>63164
he didn't say he thought it was erotic, he said he wanted someone like that, they're not the same thing.

>>63170

No, you don't want this woman. It'll only end in tears.

What this woman needs is to get fucked, then to start casually seeing people (including a therapist) until she gets her life back on track. What she doesn't need is another co-dependent hikkomori to tailspin into a burning wreckage of hellfire and pain with.

>>63153
That kind of thing pissed me off, and alot of adults do it as well.
Men that get pissed off when another guy looks at his "girl", women constantly accusing men of cheating or get pissed when they look at porn...

Alot of these "couples" today are just...so fake and stupid and...ugh. Just makes me groan and not even WANT a relationship sometimes if it's going to be like THAT.

Aside from 2D, I'm completely asexual. Though it would be nice to have someone that cooks and likes to cuddle. And I want kids. Shit. ;_;

>>63162
not unless you push the old hag in front of a truck or cook the kitten, then you'll be a chick magnet.

>>63134
I'd date you, but I have too strange a lifestyle to ever support a family. Sorry. Also, sterile. True story.

We'd have common ground to talk about, at least. But if batshit insane means yandere, well, we can just both forget we ever spoke.

>>63134
uhhh duh!!!!!!!!!!1

but seriously. Yeah, It seems pretty good here. uhhh fat? that could hurt chances but I could see me with you.
I only ask about fat because two fat people should not be together. It is just gross looking y'know?

>Men that get pissed off when another guy looks at his "girl", women constantly accusing men of cheating or get pissed when they look at porn

They do it because they are jealous, which i find cute
That or they're just faggots/bitches, so it depends on circumstances

>>63189

Haha.....That could happen...
But it would have the possibility of working out.
Maybe.
(I'm somewhat of a hikkomori myself, but I'm always up for doin' shit (i.e. going out) if I'm actually seeing someone)

>>63162
I'm fairly similar to you. I have a soft spot for animals, but I'm otherwise fairly misanthropic and mean-faced. I harass people for their stupid mistakes and occasionally I give unasked advice.
But I'm so very dere-dere inside this rich tsun-tsun shell.

>>63213

Hahaha. Oh wow. Good job, kid. Nice subtle way to screen whether or not she's overweight while also seeing if she's cool with a fatty.

And from here the topic will degenerate into a fat hikkomori slitching because in death she's found the love she always wanted while a noose crushes her trachea and the fatguy that "loves her" fapping onto his keyboard desperately waiting her response.

>>63162
Maybe, maybe not.
I'd tend to make friends with tsunderes, female and male, and some are dating. The only thing is, that the person they are dating are both dominate "I'm better than you and you know it" type.

>>63134
>batshit insane

Now you've just got my curiosity piqued. Please give a tad more detail?

>>63232
Thing is chief, I was being straight with her. Two fat people together is gross. All that flesh, geeee. Too much, just too much.

>>63219
Yes it is cute when it's mild, but when they are all like "YO STEP OFF NIGGA BEFORE I BUST A CAP IN YO FAGGOT ASS" then yea. Annoys me a bit.

You can kinda tell what kind of area I live now. A majority are like this here.

>>63232
damn you, that flashed a few disgusting things in my mind.

At least you guys don't have sweaty palms... I have to wipe my hand every now and then when playing on my DS or PSP, I don't think I can ever hold the hand of a female.. ;_;

>>63225

The problem is the relationship's doomed from the start. She's a hikkomori that lives a life of lies but desperately seeks male companionship to validate the things she sees in herself, which means she will desperately pursue those angles to all ends.

As a male hikkomori, no offense, you're probably a "beta male" and likely not all that experienced with the womens yourself. So you won't be equipped to handle a fucking crazy bitch desperately latching onto any validation you will send her way and it will drive you fucking insane.

In the end she'll hate you but lust for your affection and the goodness she felt you felt in her because that's what she wanted you to feel in herself and you'll hate her because she'll ruin the relationship you weren't man enough to fix or ditch when it was the appropriate time and turn you into a weaker, depressed, bitter, and angry person.

>>62412
sometimes the only thing you can do is accept it and laugh at your pathetic state of existence

>>63232

she's into yaoi, therefore she is fat, no screening required

>>62164
Ubanto doesn't count bitch.

>>63285

She could be one of those skinny curveless women that in all ways resemble a man, except when they wear tight pants they get a camel toe instead of a log down one of their pant legs where their beefstick is located.

>>63269
the surface of a psp has little in common with that of a human hand you know.
the again, the stress might make you sweat .

>>63299

But when you play for hours on end the grease, sweat, and dead skin make it feel warm and soft like the loving, familiar caress of a loved one.

Hey guys, a yaoi fangirl wouldn't be a turn off, right? I mean, as long as we didn't shove it in your face and stuff.

>>63134
You're exactly what I'd want in a partner. Too bad I'll never find a girl who thinks like you. Stupid feminism ruined everything.

Also I'm too shy to ever approach a girl anyway.

>>63170
lol, I wouldn't mind cracking a whip behind your bare ass if that's what you want, but I'm not keen on confrontations, hence the scared by people part.
>>63186
I thought I was asexual for a long time too, but seeing many of my friends getting married or engaged got me thinking maybe there should be more to life, and maybe it should be shared with someone else. I'd marry you Anonymous ;-; Cuddling but no sex sounds doable.
>>63189
You maybe on to something there. I finally got my med insurance so I'm hoping to find out it can all be cured by some simple white pills.
>>63210
>>63213
Actually I was at ideal BMI until about a couple of months ago when I became hiki. I'm only gaining weight in my stomache, so I fear the day someone asks me when am I due. I'll either cry for being a fattie or a fake!preggers.

I looked up yandere, um noooo. I'm not good with blood or clinginess. So at least I've got that going for me <_<;;;
(Jesus Christ at wiki entry for the School days bit.)

>>63289
>Ubanto

Is this some sort of ubuntu-specific derogatory term or something?

>>63285
I dunno, I actually knew a yaoi fan that wasn't all that fat. Chubby yeah, but I don't mind chubby.

>>62239
I remember once asking a waitress at a buffet when the crayfish will respawn, she said "I'll check with the chef".

But I'm too pussy to ask for name and number. ;_;

>>63307

I guess it depends on whether you like taking it up the ass while she pretends you're Eiri Yuki and she's Shuichi Shindou.

>Hey guys, a yaoi fangirl wouldn't be a turn off, right? I mean, as long as we didn't shove it in your face and stuff.

I'm sure a guy can accept that if he's already in love with the girl.

However, if the girl raises that point when she's introducing herself, it kind of shows certain fangirl-ish possibilities that may not be viewed so positively

>>63312
>Oh, it's not the blood or clinginess I'm concerned about. It's the sudden snap of the mind whenever something has gone WRONG.

>>63304
that's gotta feel great for those that play VN on their psp.

>>63315
Yes, lurk /g/ moar.

>>63321
'sup.

>>63312
Oh, it's not the blood or clinginess I'm concerned about. It's the sudden snap of the mind whenever something has gone WRONG.

>>62239
you have to pump all stats to get in the army.
you should've told him he's in for a lot of grinding.

>>63270

Yeah....It could definitely go that way. I'd hope that it wouldn't though.
Regarding "beta male"....I'd say I'm not quite a beta, but definitely not an alpha either....

My last relationship was for ten months, ending with me having to leave her when I went to college. She was....unhappy, but definitely not as crazy as you're describing. SOO...I'd be prepared (or at least almost) for any shit that went down...
Haha I really wouldn't "break down" like you described though..I don't really get depressed or angry....As fuckin' weird as that probably sounds.

>>63312

My professional opinion as a man descended from a family of genetically crazy womenfolk, wait like 3-4 months after you get on the meds you like and hit the gym in the mean time (exercise helps women with chemical disorders like depression and whatnot stay "balanced" emotively). Then go out there and give the dating thing a try.

You probably aren't a hopeless case, it just depends on how proactive you want to be about being attractive to the menfolk.

>>63312
hey >>63213 here
I think that could be ok, I mean a couple months after being at a correct BMI couldn't be that bad. Where you from?

>>63332
More like, I pretend I'm Kaiji and imagine him as...him.

>>63336
I always keep my power level suppressed unless I know it's safe to raise it a bit. I don't tell anyone right off the bat I like yaoi let alone anime.

>>63162
Fuck, I forgot to add that after having lived a few years in South America, I am covered with native tattoos.
Do you think that's a huge turn-off?

>I don't really get depressed or angry

THen you've never been in love.

>>63312

Yeah, not really into the dominant shit either....Just like being....equal?

>>63134
Well, are you fat?

>>63373

Liking anime isn't that socially awkward now that most popular stuff on TV for the 16-20-ish age group is anime.

Yaoi, on the other hand, is bound to get you some weird looks. Either they'll know what you're saying or be like "wtf is she talking about".

>>63348
Not much? I am not said yaoi fangirl.
I am a guy who knew her. She dated a friend of mine. Reading composition FTW

>>63378

Hard to say without looking at you.

Tattoos either look good or like absolute shit, depending on the quality, style, and who they're on.

I'm in my last year of high school.

In Foods class--I'm in Foods class, but that's a whole different story--I somehow ended up talking to the girl next to me about random crap. It wasn't really a very exciting conversation--it was a girl I barely knew, really.

Anyway, I have one friend--the only friend that I've ever had in my whole life--and that friend happens to be a girl. I'm happy just being able to be friends with her. It sounds sappy, like something from a VN, but it's true. I don't really think much about her romantically at all.

So somehow, this comes up, and immediately the girl goes into "omg we gotta hook you 2 UP" mode. And I try to explain--no, no, I'm happy being her friend. Besides, she already has a boyfriend.

She asks, well, how do you know that if you're just happy being a friend, and I tell her that it just happened to come up in conversation. Which, is honestly true. She was bitching about her ex one week, so the next week I asked her how things were going and it turns out she got a new boyfriend. Nothing complicated. No hidden messages.

And the girl says something that's really, really weird to me. She says that I ought to go for the girl.

But she already has a boyfriend, I say.

And the girl says so what?

>>63232
Seriously admirable. But I'm still alive; noose on standby. And thanks for reinforcing the fat 4chaner stereotype.
>>63247
Try looking into organic rock deodorant. That stuff rocks (pun!) on my feet, can't see why it wouldn't work on your palms.
>>63270

Orig post pretty much sums it up. I'd write moar but it'll end up copypasta and then how am I ever going to get rich off my memoirs? (lol, 4chan memoirs. I can read it now. old /a/ in novel form.)
>>63269
Holy crap mind warp. I tried to follow but I kinda got lost. I think I agree? But who else can know the hiki pain?
>>63309
Aw, don't give up hope. There's always the interweb personals. I got a couple hook ups from them, but nothing beyond 1st dates. Re:original post. Maybe someday we'll run into each other there :)

>>63350
I haven't snapped yet. Raged, yes, but grab a gun and kill? not yet.

>>63373
>More like, I pretend I'm Kaiji and imagine him as...him.

As a straight male, I find something rather...erotic about that concept....
Have I caught teh GAY?

>>63402

No. In fact, you're the idiot. If you're remotely interested in her and she's casually dating someone you should just go for it unless you know the other guy and he's a good friend, in which case it's bros before hoes rules.

>>63402
wow.
talk about being direct.

>>63418

Either that or you're a straight man who's into gender confused women.

>do the girls mature from this at some point?

Girls always switch as soon as the option's cost/benefit ratio is out of the red, it's genetically programmed into them.

Why the fuck do you think all those married people are having affairs?

>>63390
Here where I live, there are a fucking LOT of retarded "KAWAII DESU" fangirls/boys, and I don't want to be assosicated(?) with any of them, or let people think I might have some connection to them.

Srsly, here, when it comes to anime, it's all FMA, Naruto, Bleach, and Inuyahsa.

>>63421
But I'm NOT interested in her in that way! And that was the weirdest part, because the girls simply could not comprehend that. They were all going on about how I ought to get together with her, and I kept telling them I was happy being a friend who happened to be of the opposite sex.

The whole conversation was kind of funny, looking back. "Have you two ever gone out together?" *misunderstanding*"Oh, we went to Starbucks, once." *triumphant*"See, you went to Starbucks with her, and you say you're not interested!" "Well, she was the one who asked me to go to Starbucks with her." *even more triumphant*"See, she's interested in you, too!" "We went there to study for our math test." "Oh, sure..." "And we only went there because the library was closed."

what the fuck is this hookup shit

>>63442
Trendiness always brings in the worst fags. back in the early days, I wanted anime to be more popular so it was more accessible, but I didn't realize the internet would come this far and eliminate the need for it to be popular at all......

>>63442

You mean anime other than these exist? o__O

XD I don't know what you're talking abount, mang! GHAARA FTW HAHA!!!

>>63437
I would've said for love but you've put doubt in me

>>63455
awesome, keep being so tsun and the bitches will flock to you

LIKE SAGARA SOUSUKE

>>63455

Men are more or less incapable of having a friendship with a woman without wanting them at one point or another. We're shallow like that.

>>63395
I know that, I'm similar to said fangirl.
>>63430
I'm not gender confused!

...am I?

>>63479

not true if you ever bother growing the fuck up

>>63481

You're a woman who envisions herself as a man while having sex. I'd say that's a little confused. From here, the more you fantasize about being a guy I would say the more likely you are to be at least somewhat confused about the whole gender thing.

Goddamn it /jp/ I wanted to go to bed hours ago!

STOP BEING ENTERTAINING.

>>63479
isn't that social conditionning?
you first feel attracted then get your mind back and realised you don't want that.

>>63495

Okay, right. Name one female person who you were friends with and not mutual friends of someone or someone you met through someone else that you didn't at one point think about fucking.

>"Well, she was the one who asked me to go to Starbucks with her

I believe my friend you are denser than ohhh, i say about 50% of harem anime leads.

27, not ugly or fat, but I've never even kissed a girl.

When one of my friends found out he laughed at first, like I was kidding, and I just kept a straight face and so he does that thing where they stop laughing and then ask are you serious? He absolutely couldn't believe how that was possible.

:(

>>63502

It could be a lot of things. Social conditioning, loneliness, sexual frustration, etc.

>>63365
Seriously, thanks.
I sympathize at your experiences with days of the month, cattiness, craziness
, and all that good stuff women are stereotyped with x100.
>>63366
I am... anonymous. But I can say East Siiiiide *gansta yo!*

>>63378
As long as you explain where they came from, how they go there, and regale them with tales of adventure, I can't imagine anyone who wouldn't accept them.

>>63442
Here too. Too many underage idiots who make it so uncool to have any interest in anime beyond "oh, that stuff that was in kill bill. S'alright." Adults around here don't look to kindly to the social rejects who cling to japan culture through it's kawaii-ness.

>>63509
you asking one of us to produce a female friend that we met off the street is likely to give no response.
we have a hard time enough being friends when we're introduced to people.

>>63519

That's because you're a sadsack.

Most guys can get their first kiss by accident before they're 18, much less trying to find someone who'll kiss them.

>>63496
I think it may have something to do with my mother being a lesbian, no father or siblings and most of my family is made up of single women.

I've always wanted a big brother or father in my life, and have made many male friends to make up for it.

...I guess I'm confused...?

>>63530

Right, I forgot this is /jp/ I got bored and ended up on.

>>63535
anon isn't most guys

>>63513
It's not like that at ALL. First of all, I was sort of telling it incorrectly to the girl; my friend didn't ask me to go to Starbucks, she asked me if she could study together with me. She's in my statistics class, and almost never even turns into the homework. She's failing the class, even, I think. We drove to the library first, which is not exactly number one on the list of most romantic places, and only when we realized oh, right, closed on Sundays did we go to Starbucks.

See?

>>63539
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmMna1EwZ1E

>>63496
Son, you need to learn the difference between gender confusion and sexual fantasy.

Once you start feeling like you're the wrong gender, THAT'S gender confusion. There's a difference between wanting to be the opposite sex because you're interested in it, and not being interested in being your own sex.
She's just fantasizing about yaoi circumstances, her particular fetish.

>>63541

You're probably not. You could be, but most people who're gender confused one way or another end up that way because that gender's the dominate gender in their life so they grew up thinking that's the right one.

Unless your sisters and mom and her lover(s) were all really masculine, I guess.

You could just be really, really kinky and imaginative for all I know.

>>63554
I know what this is and I haven't even opened it.

Would you like a cup of coffee?

>>63481
Oh i see chubby fangirl huh?

Thats cool. uhhh hit me on AIM at HerzagMalurg

>>63530
lol qft.

>>63455
Totally possible to have female friends, btw. Impossible to have them without sexual thoughts at first, but as time goes on, they become like siblings.
I've met many people like that. Before I was hiki I had a job that dealt w/people fulltime, all the time, on a personal basis. So not out of this world.

If you ever want to try kicking it to her, realize it might put an awkwardness between you that time will try to heal, but she might not want to give a chance to.

(speaking as a girl who tried having man friend relations, only to have them turn into will you be mine declarations. Serious distance, for real.)

Look what you've done, now you've broken the Shirou.

>>63519
Start telling girls that, you might get pity sex.

>>63584
>Impossible to have them without sexual thoughts at first

What, seriously? Man, what world am I living in?
Sexual stuff never even occurred to me at all.

>>63525
Guy with the whole hereditary female craziness thing from whatever post I'm too tired to link here.

I'd offer to, like, post my AIM or something if you think having someone to talk to would help you get where you want to be. But giving out your AIM even on a slower board like /jp/ hasn't always worked out for me.

But, seriously, the most crucial advice I can offer is to stay positive and to stay adamant. If there is some kind of disorder or something going on and it isn't just a simple case of you having gotten depressed for a few months, those two things can make all the difference in the world.

Also stay goal oriented. Small goals work best, because they help you not feel overwhelmed by any setbacks.

>>63541
and they claim they aren't RUINING AMERICA AS WE KNOW IT

even worse than having no female friends, there's being slave/friend zoned by some some girl.

>>63535
I'm just shy around girls and I've never tried. I know it's unusual but I'm not a "sadsack".

>>63597
did you meet her when you were prepubescent?

>>63602
Man up! I did!

>>63602
you might just post a gmail or something like that.

>>63613
No, I met her about a year or so ago. Why, does that matter?

>>63617
Don't let that person off easy!

>>63567
Eh. I enjoy being a girl, but I've thought about being a boy too. You guys have it so much easier physically.

As for kinky and imaginative, I can see that. Or maybe because of the lack of sex, I tend to get off on almost every fetish. Yaoi just happens to be my fav.

>>63583
Cool, but I probably won't get to talk to you until later today or tonight. I'm about to go with my mom to drop off her girlfriend at the airport in Houstan.

>>63610

It's more than "unususal", man. At the age of 18 most guys are fucking rabbits in heat when it comes to their desire for sex. To say you can go from 18-21 to 27 without having tried to get at least a kiss and not having got one once is like saying you were born with your eyes closed and now you're like 9 years old and it never occured to you to open them up and see what's going on.

>>63509
This fat bitch I knew, she's a decent person, a good friend, but I'd never wanna stick it into her.

SAME GOES FOR MY FEMALE CLASSMATES. OH SHIT.

>>63627
Hey sounds good. IM me real quick so I can get the name on my bl. So, If you are on I can IM you and vise versa. I have a roommate so i am not always on.

>>63632
it's not like we don't want to kiss a girl

>>63632
I didn't choose it you know, I just never have been able to make it work. I don't really know how, and because of my shyness and anxiety it's not like I can just pick it up and start now.

Incoming depressing wall of text.

I once had a relationship like the ones people in this thread have been asking for. It was spectacular in how stereotypically sitcom-like it was. We met at Junior High prom. She had a crush on me at the time, but had never spoken to me before and finally worked up the courage to make a move. It was simple really, as I was a very easy-going, care-free sort of guy. We hit it off, spending most of the evening discussing a number of random topics. I asked her to dance, we had dinner, prom ended, we exchanged phone numbers. An excellent memory overall.

Over the course of summer break, we got together on numerous occasions. We never called them dates, nor did we call ourselves a couple. We were just great friends who spent a lot of time with one another. It was in this period that I figured out (though never mentioned) that she liked me as more than just a friend, but I was still confused but how I felt for her. Thus, I let the situation stagnate.

As time went on, events in our lives forced us apart for months at a time. We didn't really lead easy lives. Despite this, each and every time one of us did remember to get in contact with the other, we got back together just like we had never been apart.

Finally, after four years of deep friendship, I decided to do it. After a night of the usual friendly teasing we received we wound up back at my place. I lay on the sofa with my head in her lap as she stroked my hair and asked her simply, "Do you think it would work?" She simply said yes. I got up, looked her dead in the eyes, and gave what had to be the sloppiest, but most passionate kiss ever. My first. I don't know, we'd always really been a couple, but finally we admitted and acknowledged it ourselves.

College comes and due to the circumstances that had forced us apart on numerous occasion, we found that we would need to move into a long distance relationship. We spoke on the phone at least once a week for upwards of an hour and got together semi-monthly. On one such meeting, we became one step closer to one another as I lost my virginity.

The following year, things got odd between us. Whenever I called, I felt like it was simply as a distraction, not because she really wanted to talk. She was often distracted when she spoke to me, being called aside by coworkers for upwards of five or ten minutes, just leaving me there to listen in. When we got together, we weren't intimate and she received phone calls incessantly. I brought up my concerns and she understood them, but wasn't very good about fixing their causes.

After the 7th anniversary of the day we met (we celebrated both that and the day we became a couple), things got even colder between us. I spoke to her maybe four times over the summer break and each time I asked her to come up to see me or if I could come out, it wasn't convenient. Finally, that fall, she had to come out for a wedding on a weekend I happened to be home from college. I was so glad to see her, I couldn't be mad for what she had done. She promised to be better about it.

Then she disappeared. She quit her job, moved to another town, and had restarted her life. I couldn't get her contact info, she wasn't checking or replying to her e-mail, and I had no clue where she was. I tried WhitePages, PeopleFinders, her job; it was as though she'd vanished.

After two months of her having disappeared and not contacted me, I decided to read her e-mail. I knew the password to her account and had only used it thusfar to see if she had even read the e-mails I'd sent. While going through the most recent messages, I came across one from a long time friend of hers asking when she was due and if she knew the gender of the baby yet. That was Christmas Eve of 2006. We hadn't been intimate since November of 2005.

>>63632
yet most of the people here would never think about going out of their way for sex, much less bothering anyone.

>>63651

Do you have any idea how easy it is to get kissed? You would basically have to literally never leave your house for any kind of social situation ever to do that. And if that's the case, I'm sorry, there's something more than unusual going on there.

There's some "you should seek paid help to see if you have some kind of anxiety or social problem" shit going on there.

I could see 18, you could've just been a shut-in during high school. But once you hit 18 and especially once you hit 21 you have no excuse for not getting kissed or laid other than, like, some kind of problem going on with you.

>>63597
LOL! Sorry, but you made me smile.
You're human, its what people do, regardless of gender. Size up people, I mean. You being a guy, I don't buy you didnt think of her that way. Unless you're gay or have no libido, but nope, just impossible. Many men have confirmed; perhaps you suppress it because there was no chance, but not buying it.

>>63602
Nono! Don't post your AIM! Not in this troll infested place we call 4chan! I don't want you to get harassed for being a nice guy.
I have the problem that I set goals that end up collapsing over their own weight, or are not defined enough and I freak out. Sigh.
I'm sure I'll be ok when/if I get diagnosed. I'll be having my 1st checkup in over 6 years on Wendsday, and I honestly can't wait. I think I might be anemic or something; i'm always sleepy and tired. Not to mention cranky (fuck, I sound like a 2 year old :/ Not as planned).

I wish I could just give you a hug.

4chan, helpful? Only in my /jp/. I love Moot!

>>63673
Finished high school, college, now I have a job. Friends all the time. Still nothing. Obviously I have the ability to function. Have you considered that maybe it's just not easy for some people?

>>63660

Yes. You can. Go get a haircut, shave, go buy a new set of fancy duds. Take some dance lessons if you've got two left feet. Hell, if your anxiety is bad enough that it's debilitating in areas you feel you should be able to perform maybe go see a counselor or a therapist for a while and see what they think. But the key point here is you can try and it's never too late.

That's some defeatist shit, and the only thing keeping you down is yourself. Each day is a new day, and while failure from inexperience might suck in the short run each failure will only build you up for your moment of success.

And then you will have your triumph and no longer be that 27 year old that's never been kissed.

>>63670
this is why I hate 3d ;_;

>>63671
While this is true, that doesn't mean our sex drive is any less in our teens.

>>63673
Hey /b/tard, stop talking like you understand /a/. It's normal in your world to get laid at 18. It's normal in our world to die a virgin, never been kissed. WE LIVE IN DIFFERENT WORLDS MOTHERFUCKER.

>>63680
I swear to god, it's true. Actually going back to the conversation I had with the girls in my foods class, one of them asked, at one point--"Don't you want to have sex with her?"

And I said "No, not really."

"wut"

"Well, I can't really imagine liking...sex."

Sorry, but to me, it's just...unsettling, thinking about it. I mean, two people pressed so close together, all that sweat and body fluids going everywhere--god, it makes me feel like I have to take a shower just thinking about it.

>>63509

I've known one of my female friends for about 20 years, and the idea of doing anything sexual with her revolts me. She's a decent person, and not at all bad looking, but she's pretty much the sister I never had. I imagine that she feels the same way about me. Ironically, our parents would have forced us to get married if they could have.

>>63673

Something's wrong with them? No shit? Damn. Your analysis is an unexpected gem of wisdom.

>>63702
Not all of us who are ruined for 3D didn't have a previous sex life. I have no pity for the inexperienced; it's jsut your bad luck.

>>63691
Hell, some chicks don't even care if you know how to dance. Then again I know alot of cool chicks.

>>63684

Honestly, I used to be super introverted until I get fed up with being my own worst enemy when it comes to social stuff, especially with the opposite gender. I understand it's not easy. It's not easy when you aren't introverted.

But, honestly, if it's something that's important to you it's worth fighting for. And whether it's easy or not shouldn't be the question, it's how hard are you willing to fight to know the taste of a woman's lips or the silky feel of her tongue in your mouth. Or, you know, whatever. Hugs, cuddles, etc.

Honestly, I understand very well how hard it can be, but I also know that after you get that first successful date, that first kiss, and then eventually that first hot, awkward sexing it's all a lot easier from there.

>>63673
I'm 24. Never had a girlfriend, never went on a date, never been kissed.

>>63673
not ONE OF US

>>63717
Yeah but most are. Fuck off and stop acting like fucking some bitches make you superior.

>>63702

Honestly, I think a /b/tard would have a harder time getting laid than a... Er... wee/a/boo? Or whatever you guys call /a/ and /jp/ posters.

At least from my experience with /b/tards in teh RL.

>>63707
Dude. You missed the point completely.
Also, guys I am a obese guy with a neckbeard and have had made out with a number of chicks, ranging from fucking sexy to fairly overweight. Believe me when I say that you could kiss a chick if you were on the scene more often.

IF a girl won't like me for what I am, I have no use for them.

>>63627
I seriously entertained the idea of getting a hormone change, but realized it was more of a convenience factor than anything else. Reading too much yaoi will do that to you. I just kept myself satisfied with daydreaming and yes, fangirl power shininhg through!!!- drawing some delicious yaoi smut. Try it, great stress reliever :)
>>63670
...
I cry tears of blood for you, bro. Please please tell me you've tried moving on. You can't get hung up over a person like that.

>>63684
If you just want to get kissed, why don't you just go to a bar or club with your friends, dress fashionably, some aftershave, no colgone!!!, and get some girls plastered with drinks. Voila! Instant pass for sloppy alcohol fueled kisses!
I personally am scared of all the shit people can pass and contract, so that's another huge minus for me :/ And trust me, it's never pretty.
But ymmv. seize the golden ring Anon!

>>63680

It's not a big deal for me. We could always do what the other people suggested and I could post a new gmail I don't care much about to get your AIM or whatever chat client you use.

I mean, heck, having to add 3-4 people to find out which person is you and then having a gmail I'll never likely check again flooded with gay porn and penis enlargement spam is worth being able to help someone who might need it. Besides, Anon's got to look out for itself, right? And since we're all Anon, that has to include looking out for each other.

>>63717
what's the point of getting laid just to lose your virginity. If I don't feel anything for the girl I might as well just fap

>>63732
Sorry, but life experience is always superior.

>>63734
I don't concur with your opinion.

>>63761
especially since you'll still be the same man whether you do it or not.

>>63721
I think you need to keep your audience in mind here. You're talking to people who long ago accepted that they'll die virgins, without ever so much as kissing a women.

It's not that we've given up, we never had a chance to begin with.

>>63702
LOL, /b/tards are less likely. He is probably just an /a/ chap who knows how to not be a weirdo.

>>63721

It's worse when you're generally extroverted, have a wide range of hobbies and interests that involve other people, and still can't get a gal, for some unbelievably stupid reason. In my case, girls either think that I'm gay, or that I'm already taken, and just being flirty. It doesn't help that people in this lameass city are very unapproachable.

>>63763
Yeah, where's the counterpasta to the alpha male pasta when you need it man.

>>63758
>>63670
I'm mostly over it now, I think. I've been okay with the idea of dating again for a little while, but I'm now in my final semester of college and don't feel that what time remains is enough to establish a meaningful relationship. Then immediately following I'll be moving into an unfamiliar area where the women will be even less likely to have the same interests as me (I go to a tech school, so while not all or even most woman are weeaboos, they make up a large portion of the female populace than just about anywhere else).

>>63732
They weren't bitches, and I'm offended at the reference, prick.

You cry because tou're ronery, but you know only emptiness, not wrenching loss. You know what't it's like to be cold but not what it's like to be burned by fire.

But for no other reason than a roll of the dice...

>>63765

Most /b/tards I've met in RL have been borderline misogynists. At least not the newfag /b/tards what are killing /b/, who don't count imo.

You /a/ and /jp/ browsers have one thing going for you that, honestly, counts for a lot more than you think: You seriously, genuinely want the things you say you do. I mean, seriously, most guys will say whatever they think the girl wants to get them into bed. And you respect women a lot more than 95% of /b/tards ever will.

Plus you have the whole shy, introverted weeaboo thing going on for you and there's girls in your area of fandom that just eat that shit up.

This is why /b/ has daily threads about what buying a hooker is like and why /a/ and /jp/ have ronery threads. /b/ will debase itself to get what it wants, /a/ and /jp/ will pine for it until they're lucky enough to get it.

>>63782
why did this dice rolling remind me of Higurashi ?

>>63782
>I'm butthurt at a internet comment

Get over yourself and go fuck some whores or something.

>>63782
>>
You cry because tou're ronery, but you know only emptiness, not wrenching loss. You know what't it's like to be cold but not what it's like to be burned by fire.


That sentence tells me that you're either an emo virgin or a Nasufag.

>>63781
Ever tried talking to her friend? Maybe she got raped and was too ashamed to tell you. I don't know.

>>63797
Don't be crass. Besides, Nasu uses a lot more sentence fragments.

>>63788
guess that's pretty much the positive point about us,most of the people here would like to be with somebody just so as to be close to someone, if we could live with somebody, even without sex, I guess most of us would.

>>63788
As an ex-longtime /b/tard, I'm rife with misogyny. BUt because of that, I leave womenfolk alone.

Don't mark us all as bad, though. I'm a fairly nice guy despite the misogyny.

>>63788
We also have the toxic combination of absolute stubbornness. We will die with nothing rather than settle for something we don't really want.

>>63799
I've actually spoken to her personally. Sticking to our canonically sitcom-like relationship, she fucked up, got drunk, and had sex with a coworker who she considered to be her best friend at work. Twice. Call me overly forgiving, but we still talk semi-regularly. She's in a rough place right now and doesn't have very many people to talk to.

>>63813
I concur. Why settle for something less in 3D when 2D fulfills it adequately.

>>63813
not that this is a very good thing, it gets hard to be interested in women when you already have your idea of perfection and most women don't belong in it.

>>63761
To get rid of a status that has many stigmas attached beyond a certain age? Once again, my fear of STDs keeps that plan at bay. Personally, I think its wonderful, but I wouldn't go announcing it on rooftops.

>>63760
^_^
Thanks, but I'm scared that I'll drive you away with my lies, or you might be some /b/tard all along who'll find out my info end up living in Aruba with my personal info in shambles, or that I'll just be some huge waste of time. This is ronery thread central; I"m sure there'll be threads like this around as long as this board exists. I'll call myself hiki, & I'm sure you'll see me around.

Mucho love to you. :)

God how I hate myself and my introvert nature, probably stems down because I hate my father. I know that sound gay and dumb but it has logic to it. My father and the rest of his side of my family are notorious boozers and womanizers. I have a half brother I didn't know about until a couple of years back that was one of the many family secrets because my dad knocked his mom up and my grandparents moved the family away to cover for him. plus the fact that he just wanted to half fun and act like a eternal 20something guy led him to divorce my mom and bail on us too. so because of that I can't stand party people or large gatherings or heavy drinking (alcoholism is rampant in my famliy...allthough I can drink, I try to avoid it). This in term puts me at odds with most people in my age group. I don't go to parties, I don't socialize since most of the few friends that I made in High School moved away and are off doing their own thing. I got stuck at a Jr. College for being the underachiever of the group. I also don't try engaging in conversation with women since from my experiences they either a) want a favor done for them which won't make them think any better of me or b) are in need of an intellectual whore for the moment until they get bored and go fuck their Alpha male. So, It seems like my only choices to be in life are hermit, dog, or dancing monkey.

>>63773

And I'm saying you don't have to accept that. The only reason your statement is true is because you believe that it's true, and that it might not be easy but you're just as capable of changing that belief to something more positive instead of living your life devoid of one of the things you desire most in the world.

I'm not saying you guys should change tomorrow, but if it's important enough to keep you up until at least 2:30 in the morning, it has to be worth fighting for.

>>63825
I feel for you, good thing you're not being a bitter emofag about it.

>>63828
I know someone who came close to perfection, but of course, she didn't want me.

>>63795
I love that weird sex = slut feel you got going for you there. Is this what it feels like to be a girl? You aren't gonna go all Jason Voorhees are you?

>>63836
We're used to night shift /a/, well most of us. Our only enjoyment in life, if you call it.

>>63831

ahahaah, you just smashed that guy's world. well played.

>>63831
no one has to know I'm a virgin, and only immature fucks care anyway

>>63847
I'm not the one being offended by people calling my fuck bitches bitches.

>>63843
well, I've been friend zoned by the closest thing to perfection I've found for the moment.
I then stopped giving a shit and proceeded flirting with my 2d perfection.

well, night /jp/

>>63878
Same, you must be my clone, now none of us will remain virgin!

>>63836
It's more true than you believe. Honestly, I'm sick of self righteous faggots like you that think they can give competent advice when they never even met the person. Yes some of us (me included) are THAT ugly, socially retarded, have hobbies limited to fringe stigma material like animu and generally would take rewriting their whole brain to be able to function as remotely normal humans. Those people gave up for their own good, and the least they need is someone breaking them out of their shell with false hope only to be tossed back in more depressed than they were before.
tl;dr fuck you

>>63869
True, and not necessarily; my "friends" are all successful, normal, pretty, even cool, and they treat my like one of them. I've lied my butt off about being laid just so that we can have common ground to talk about. They're not being prying- I just want to belong, and be trusted, confided, and have a good time with them.
/That's/ the problem with virginity were I live. I wish I could just get it over with but want to be somewhat meaningful (*cough* even if it is with a Light or Mikami cosplayer. Girl can hope).

>>63831

Maybe. Honestly, I'm only here because a friend of mine loves these SO RONERY threads and links them in a chat I hang out in, and /tg/ is kind of boring tonight. So it's also equally likely that I won't see you around again.

If you decide you want to talk on AIM or whatever email me at vonplat@gmail.com with your AIM and I'll add you and send you a message letting you know I got it. And, heck, it's not like I expect you to give me any information that'd let me end up in Aruba with your financial situation in shambles. I doubt I would give you any of that sort of thing either.

>>63897
anyway, mine was some kind of Rin clone, what about yours?

I'm 26, never kissed. A girl offered to sex me once because I was still a virgin and I said no. Probably should have taken it...

Like someone said, not that uncommon for /a/ and /jp/.

I feel super ronery....there seems to be a solid community of those who are socially awkward, but there appears to be very few of us who are simply extremely misanthropic.

I'd say I'm an fairly un-ordinary guy for my hobbies and skills, but i Can socialize and chitchat; I've never had any problem with that.

I just CAN'T STAND most of humanity so I'll rarely if ever get close to someone because they disgust me. They are either dumb as a pile of bricks, super annoying (through a variety of means like subject changes in quick succession and the ever common "I'm trying to look smart by spouting random facts you probably already know" ramble), or have a primary interest I either abhor or find dull.

So here I sit, alone and in the dark, hoping somewhere out there, there's a human worth a damn.

>>63914
Erh, Signum probably, independant, smart, charismatic, responsible and clingy at times.

More importantly, she's the only person who can make me laugh naturally because of how much she understands me.

;_;

>>63898

Honestly, if that guy who got his face bombed the fuck off in Iraq came back to a loving wife, you'd have to be one ugly fucker to not get anything. And with anything besides that, it's not like your "fringe" hobbies are something that there's literally no one else in the world who likes. Fuck, there's fetishists who like inserting photoshoped balloons into otherwise innocuous photos and they manage to find each other.

I'm not saying that you guys can expect to go out and fuck super models, but if you have reasonable expectations based on who you are you can reasonably expect to be able to find someone else, somewhere, who will accept you for who you are.

So, tl;dr, fuck you for giving up on yourself.

>>63923
I would've said no such thing but I should know better.
eventually you'll find people unlike the others,I thought that until a friend of mine got in a fight for me.

>>63949
He got a wife before his face got bombed off. Ask him to try getting any after. Fail fag.

>>63937
ah, amusing how these things always happen to us.
anyway, I'll stay in the friend zone even though everyone's telling me I should do something about it.

>>63871
Never assume I'm just going for any slut I ahve available just because I can. These girls, I loved them and love them still, years later for some. I wouldn't expect you to understand, but you do indeed show a lot of disdain for women in your posts. Don't be bitter, my friend. There are good ones out there, and I got lucky. Can't cry over what can't be helped.

>>63960

It was an extreme example. I doubt any of you have taken an explosive device to the face recently.

>>63961
I just wish she'd contact me again. ;_; Been more than a month since I last heard from her.

>>63949
Yes that ONE guy who got his face bombed in Irak got married. There's also densha otoko. Hey, also people win the lottery all the time. Why are we bothering with jobs and an education when money can be aquired without any effort in that case?
Yeah we all love these stories of how people worse off than us got the things we want. But for every one of these people there's thousands of others who don't. It's better that they learn to accept reality than get hurt over and over because they don't know when to give up.

>>63949
Frankly, often times, the ones who will accept these folks for who they are are the ones that have basically given up on themselves as well and as such, aren't too good in the looks department. We, who are surrounded by idealism, have a harder time finding even beautiful women attractive compared to our ideal 2D build-up.

Considering how much of love is driven by sex...

tl;dr RUINED FOR 3D

>>63985
she's a classmate of mine personally.
there's added pleasure in the competition that this causes between us.
try contacting her if you have any means to, not hooking up or anything, it's always nice to hear from friends.

>>63898
My friend, its called Proactive, surgery, or a good makeover with a gay man at a spa or Sephora/MAC/other upscale store.
All it takes is money.
"There's no ugly people. Only poor people."
Baby steps, Anon. You'll eventually look good enough to not repulse normal people, and then you need to try listening to music that is not just metal or such. I've been in a pop culture coma for a large part of my life, and last year decided educate myself on music, starting with the Beatles and ending up with Interpol. Aka try finding something that is common with other people to get into. Movies? Musicals? Books? Etc.

>>63910
Crud. I'll definitely keep your email in mind, and maybe see whats up at /tg/. Scrabble? My fav game's the little rotating wind up fishing game. Good old clean fun.
Sorry, paranoia kicks in all the time.
Nothing personal, old chap.

>>63923
... You kinda need to get over yourself first, then worry about finding friends. Nobody will ever meet your ideals and you'll just hate more and more. I was a misanthropist in high school, but when I got my job I had to see the many different sides of people. They really aren't all created equal. And their upbring has a lot to do with the people they become. I hate people born in my state; they're all crazy. North Carolina people have been the most genuine so far. Genuine, not nice, since nice people are never truly nice for the sake of being nice.

>>64002
Seriously, only her mail. I'll just wait for her to suddenly appear again I suppose.

>>64018
come to think of it, she's the only girl that's got my phone number ;_;

Someone riding the fringe of society like me will never find a woman. I prefer to be out in the hard world and women prefer to be sheltered. Women prefer comfort whereas I often sacrifice it. Women want a stable life, and for me, wherever I rest my laptop is home. Everybody wants to move up in this world, and I'm dedicated to breaking out of it....

I don't really want a lover per se, but I could use a partner.

>>64038
Who the fuck are you, the Lone Ranger of Starbucks?

>>64038
Ever think of being gay? I'm sure there are guys like that too. I'm the same way but I can't stand others' penis. Not the best solution but still one.

>>63992

Honestly, I'm not even aiming myself at those of you who're so hard set into your ways that you firmly believe that there's no chance for you left with women. You're as far gone as the /b/tards who think that no women will ever be good enough for them.

I'm aiming my messages for the guys who doubt themselves but haven't given up on themselves, like Hiki and... I don't know. The various Anon who talk about being X age and being virgins/never been kissed/etc, but not because they don't want it. There's hope for them left. They can go out tomorrow and start changing not themselves but their life to be what they want it to be if they will put the investment into it.

Honestly, if you've given up on yourself so much that you think the only woman good enough for you who will accept you is a woman in a video game, albeit a video game designed to pull from you some kind of sense of attachment, and not just saying it because this is /jp/ and that's how you roll around here, there's nothing I can do to help.

But is it so wrong for one Anon who wound up on your board to want to inspire his fellows from their depression and hikkomori lifestyle to try and find the girl that they think is right for them?

>>64038
fuck yes, you're the best modern day cowboy ever.

>>64017
>All it takes is money.
Precisely. I'm in college and I don't have the luxury of parents supporting me. I have to work for a living too. When I graduate and can get a job that will let me afford surgery or whatever, I'll be stuck with no opportunities of meeting anyone (lol programming). It makes sense to give up more than not.
And I don't like music per say. It helps set moods in movies or games but I never brought myself to listen just for the sake of it. I hardly watch movies (anime = superior inb4 weeaboo, and most people that discuss books are self important faggots who think reading 'deep' books makes them god's gift to the world.

>>64017
No. 63923
Friends aren't my concern. I have a handful back home and where I live currently. I have no problem getting along with people at all; I'm sweet as honey generally, and I'm fairly honest most of the time. I just don't say "You're a moron" every time I think it, though. Which is extremely often.

I'm just waiting for that one that can best me, I guess.

>>64017

Hey, nothing personal taken. I'm pretty protective about my personal information online, too. I don't really want anyone being able to track down my info, you know?

And I'm not sure we really have a Scrabble following on /tg/. It's really more of a D&D and wargaming board, but we have a small chess and mahjong following. I think we have had a few Stratego and card game topics, too. But it seems like just about any game you can think of at least one other person on /tg/ has played.

>>64082
Words can't explain the fail.

>>64050
I'd rather go for a non-sexual partnership if I could, but a partnership nonetheless.

But I haven't found many men like me; only one really...

>>64060
>But is it so wrong for one Anon who wound up on your board to want to inspire his fellows from their depression and hikkomori lifestyle to try and find the girl that they think is right for them?
Yes. Yes it is.
"Hey that anon inspired me, I'll break out of my shell, go out and find someone!"
Anon tries to improve himself, finds someone he's attracted to, approaches said person.
"*insert cold, disheartening rejection phrase here*"
Anon /wrists or ends up being more depressed than before and losing the marginal self esteem he still had.

Tossing advice carelessly to people you don't personally know is bad and I hate people who do it. Sure you no doubt have their best interests in mind, but it's better to just leave them to 'rot' in their shells rather than drag them out only to make it worse. Save your 'inspiration' for people you know in real life.

>>64111

Hey, there's bound to be other people like you out there somewhere. I'm sure you'll find someone in your journeys that catches your eye.

>>64102
"You're a moron."

Find those words and explain yourself.

>>64119
Exactly, sometimes even good will comments like "IT'S MOTHERS DAY GO GIVE YOUR MOM A HUG" would turn into bawfest when someone claims his mom died to an accident while trying to fetch his ball from the road.

>>64119
THose not experiencing life should make themselves taller anyway, since they're just wasting it.

>>64136
your idea of life isn't the same as everyone's.
some of us actually enjoy doing what we do, even though they feel lonely.

Ever notice how self-ascribed "independent" women usually aren't at all?

>>64060

Mmm, well, for some, it really doesn't matter how they invest in themselves, they'll simply never get into that meaningful relationship that they desire. While they shouldn't be discouraged from improving themselves, they also shouldn't focus on using that as a means to a single end, and should make the improvements an end unto itself. That's what I've done with my 32 year old virgin ass, and it's worked out quite well for me in most respects. The downside is that I do occasionally feel like shit over it, and worse, since I set myself to not focus on sex or relationships, I'm oblivious to girls who are interested in me.

>>64136
We are experiencing life in our own way. So what, sex and booze and getting wasted is experiencing life?

As retarded as it may sound, the reason I haven't made myself taller is so I can stay alive to read my favourite mangos when they end. Sad, but it's a good driving force, would suck to die before knowing how they end. I enjoy reading the new chapter every week, I don't see anythign wrong with it.

>>64146
Life isn't about joy. It's about the full spectrum.

>>64168
we can live to see UBW.

>>64119

I haven't said that any one of you should go out and expect it to be an instantaneous success. I've said over and over again it's going to be work and it's going to be slow. I think just about every post I've made has said that, in fact. I don't think I could reiterate it any more, but perhaps I should disclose it twice every post I make about this from now on?

Honestly, I would hate to see some Anon /wrist themselves because they followed my advice, but I also think it would be just as depressing if the few people I saw posting that I think my advice might possibly have helped kept living their lives without knowing there's at least one person out there who knows them only vaguely who thinks that it's not too late for them.

I also can't help but feel that I would've gotten a whole lot less shit if I had just trolled the hell out of this topic instead of trying to offer some small advice.

>>64174
Aye, we live for the little enjoyments in life people take for granted, and for that, we're a lot happier than those who are greedy in nature and fail to get their cars, mansions, bitches, and what not.

>>64154

Kinda like how "quirky" ones are always dull?

>>64174

stop lying to yourself, it only makes it worse ;_;

>>64176
Yep, you can take your leave now. Your advices fall on deaf ears.

>So what, sex and booze and getting wasted is experiencing life?

Why does everyone always say this? And to answer your question, yes, it's a part of it. If you've already done it, no big deal. If it's something you've never done, well, that's a different story. Try to avoid doing things as little as possible, no matter what it is.

>>64171
Which is determined by each individual's idea of what their life should consist of.

>>64180
well I'm also aiming for something in real life but women are of no importance in my goals.
yet, those small pleasures are a sufficient reason to live.

>>64068
If you're focused on school, then bravo! Stick with it and don't get distracted by having a life outside your normal crowd. Seriously. Its the worst distraction/life ruiner when you discover the joys of ditching work for a day with the buds, or drinking parties.
Music needs to speak to you. You just haven't found the genre that makes butterflies in your stomach, or raises the hair on your arms. You'll know it when you hear it. Till then, keep an open mind. And remember, those things you find pretentious? Most do too, but stick with it to associate/relate to others. Stay a hiki if it makes you feel comfortable, but remember you're only hurting your future in the process.

>>64095
^.^v
Awesome. My bro in law's into warhammer. I just find it visually appealing. Enjoy your manly sports.

>>64133
You fucking asshole, you made me bang my knee on my computer. Too much lol because I've done that many a time.
"You don't have a cat? but they're so cute and comfy, like silent buddies." "My last cat died of a horrible disease that kept me up all night and ran my bills up. I still miss him and cry every night." "...Oh..." *crickets*

>>64192
life is about accomplishing what you aim for in life, nobody should feel allowed to tell anyone how they should live.

>>64197
Well, if you want to think so; I don't see how you can truly feel the full spectrum of what life offers from that at all....

>>64192
I don't feel the need for it, if I have the money to waste on buying booze, I'd rather spend it for a vidya gaem, which I can enjoy for longer hours.

Sadly, I've clubbed before a few times, only after my friend says he'll be paying for the drinks. He pops a bottle, $100 gone, and I cry for the vidya gaems that could've been bought with that money, which will provide more entertainment than just one night of booze and a hangover the next.

>>64176
>I've said over and over again it's going to be work and it's going to be slow.
Exactly. It's not a matter of 'try your best, and if it doesn't work out, oh well there's other things too'. You're telling people that they should invest vast amounts of time, money, effort and energy, and whatever else in bettering themselves, with no guarantee that it'll pay off save for your own opinion.

Can you assure me that if I do put in effort I will get rewarded for it? Can you vouche that I won't find myself having wasted precious time of what's left from my youth only to be thrown into despair? If you can't then yes, you're better off trolling.

>>64166

Well, yeah, I would hope that's obviously true to people. You should improve yourself for improvement's sake, but there has to be a motivating force there. Or some kind of goal-based system for the larger goal of improving yourself.

But the majority of people in this topic want women (or, in a few cases, men), so I figure giving them some advice on how to improve themselves or to motivate them to improve themselves to the same end. I would hope they don't improve themselves specifically to get a partner but because the improvements will make them happy and, as a consequence, make them more likely to be able to find a partner for themselves.

>>64208

naaah, it's not about accomplishing things, but having fun and learning new things on the way, cuz there's no guarantee that you'll ever accomplish anything that you actually want to.

>>64213
I love how you try to legitimize your escapism as superior to someone else's.

Goddamn, people like you make me feel like sort of mutant... "RUN! THE MONSTER IS IMMUNE TO THE TERRIBLE TERRIBLE SUNBEAMS!"

>>64225
I didn't say it was superior. I just find it not worth it. Geez, $100 on a night of getting wasted or 2 30-hour long vidya game, I'll definitely choose the latter for more value per money, is that such a concept to grasp?

>>64208
"But I'm happy doing it" should never be an excuse to not do something else.

>>64222
well having fun is an accomplishment in my opinion, so if you want to have fun in your life it's an acceptable goal.
of course, there are various ways to obtain pleasure.
I get some from working towards my goals.