/jp/ - Otaku Culture

Small story time:
>Be Artist
>hang around a small discord server
>group composed of mostly japanese female artists with the rare foreigner in it (aka me.)
>One of the artists really loves one of my characters saying it's very cute.
>She compliments my art saying it's also cute.
>Afterwards i get fan art of my main Oc saying she really likes him.
>this expands on getting more fan art of him i decided to share some stuff about him, stuff like voicelines and stuff
>My oc is literally a red stickman with white eyes and mouth and the voicelines are usually done by me.
>so my expectations she might find him a funny guy.
>turns out a day later, i read in the chat logs that she has masturbated to those voicelines while eating beef
>and also she says that she was also busy smocking stickguy (Which is probably a innuendo, I used deepL)
>after acknowledged what she has done, i ask her about it.
>i say that i am cool of her just doing that sort of stuff on the promise she won't get graphical about it
>she was glad to know that i didn't jump or something and everything
>eventually we started drawing each other oc and do fun stuff together in drawpiles but she usually draws a lot of shipping with my oc.

Now this is where i am right now.
But i need to ask advice, i have so far kept being myself but i need to ask if there are something's to take note or be aware of.
also i usually see that they say stuff in regards of Grass, and i kind of need to ask what does it mean