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11809519 No.11809519[DELETED]  [Reply] [Original]

When did you realize life sucks regardless of circumstances surrounding a person and how did you deal with it?

Being a friendless virgin neckbeard who browses 4chan all day isn't really the problem, life is. So what can be done?

>> No.11809520

You guys lived lived 18+ years and still can't do it right? git gud

>> No.11809552

Just try not to think about it too much.

>> No.11809581

Even with all the hardships and suffering I have felt in life, I think Life can be a wonderful thing if you look for the beauty.
And sometimes, the beauty will look for you.

You need to keep moving forward, with your happy memories there with you at your back. With those, you can do anything.

>> No.11809603

Today the girl I've been stalking for 3 years rejected me and told me that she was scared of me, even though I've talked to her 2 times in the past 3 years.

The only problem is that this is the second time that this kind of story happened to me in the past 6 years, I think I have no clue on how to deal with life.

>> No.11809605

>>11809519

life doesn't suck you dildo.
obviously you don't spend enough time on video games and anime. FIX IT

>> No.11809606

>>11809603
She's just testing you. She wants you to show her your true and honest love. Don't give up now.

>> No.11809616
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11809616

I'm not the second coming, I'm the first wave
Better get an army, cuz the fire left me unscathed
You betcha bottom dollar I'm the top of the shit pile
So stick around cuz I'll get to you in just a few
Step off the achtung, get back or get stung
Idiotic sense of yourself, are you that dumb?
Entire legion of me, totalitarian
The one and only muthafucka, top of the world man

Cuz I can't stand it, planned it, gonna crash land it
In other words, consider me branded
Another version of me, another version of you
Both barrels - what you gonna do?

All I hear is human noise
You made your own fuckin' choice
I belong to only me
Silence for my revelry

I can over die over time
Filthy hands, stay away from mine
Every reason is a right to hate
Painful clutch - death is fine, gimme mine

Only one of us walks away...

>> No.11809639

Once you get out of your NEET slump you'll understand what it means to enjoy life.

Trust me. All it takes is a little motivation.

>> No.11809663

>>11809603
This sounds familiar.

>> No.11809666

escapism

>> No.11809667

>>11809519

NORMAL FAG SYNDROME ACTIVATE
seriously, don't act like you want to have social life, if you don't.

and if you really do, you wouldn't think life is a problem.

>> No.11809672

Please just end it...

>> No.11809679 [DELETED] 

>>11809672
plot twist, pino was disassembled and made into a toaster

>> No.11809681

>>11809679
WRONG FKING BOARD

>> No.11809686

>>11809667
>and if you really do, you wouldn't think life is a problem.
What kind of silly logic is that? Everyone desires some sort of companionship. But for some people there exists no such thing, so they give up on looking for it.

Don't be a jerk to people just because they feel bad. That's something a normalfag would do.

>> No.11809706

>>11809519
>>>/r9k/

>> No.11809707

Nice otaku culture thread, OP. Go to /soc/ if you want to make friends. Why would you even come here for this?

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>>11809639
>Finally get the drive and motivation to chase after my Otaku DREAMS
I believe that those of /jp/ will one day create something truly beautiful.

But no matter what happens, you will always have a home here.

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>>11809724

>> No.11809739
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>>11809730

>> No.11809742

>>11809739
...Well played.

>> No.11809755

>>11809686
here's a fun story
> a regular highschool guy, has gf, plays video game and watches anime causually
> shit with gf gets complicated enough to make him regret ever wanting to have social life
> goes hardcore otaku mode
> no single bit of desire for being a normalfag because knows its too much effort for too little pleasure
> doesn't go nuts of loneliness because he knows he is right

and a quote
"I thought what I'd do was, I'd pretend I was one of those deaf-mutes. That way I wouldn't have to have any goddam stupid useless conversations"

>> No.11809765

>>11809755
That wasn't a fun story at all. Kind of boring, really.

>> No.11809771

>>11809755
Wow, how insightful. I bet you know everything about everyone.

>> No.11809774

>>11809765
what's boring is a life of a normalfag

i slay dragons and pilot 15m 50 ton mechs, what do you do, sit with people you hate at a bar and talk crap you don't mean?

>> No.11809779

>>11809774
Stop please.
>>>/r9k/

>> No.11809786

Worst thread on /jp/ right now. Janitor approved too. All that's missing is some feel image in the OP and more greentext.

>> No.11809791

>>11809755
did you somehow end up on /jp/ instead of /r9k/?? ]


common mistake man my condolences

>> No.11809793

>>11809779
this board contains too much crap about sex with those 3d things

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>>11809774
>i slay dragons and pilot 15m 50 ton mechs
No, no you don't.

>> No.11809798

>>11809519
You're just bored. The secret to making it more bearable is to keep it interesting. Get out of the rut by doing different stuff. Find a fun place to work, it'll be interesting for a few months. Save up and move out (it sucks being poor, but internet and cup noodles are cheap). Find some new hobbies or people who you can enjoy your current hobbies with.

>> No.11809805

>When did you realize life sucks regardless of circumstances surrounding a person

When I thought about all the choices I made and how my life would have been different, and realized that even if I had, say, started normalfag relationships with women, those relationships would be in the past and all I'd have now are useless memories, and the women have grown old and degraded by now anyway. Even if I had a job and move out, I'd still do the same things I do now anyway, not even the same things with less time; it'd be the same as what I did in school. Even if I was a criminal or something, it'd still be the same during the times I wasn't stealing stuff or selling drugs or whatever.

The only true way to change is to give up all your life and become a drifter. The solution is to literally get >>>/out/ I guess.

>> No.11809831

>>11809805
Adding on to this guys post. Assuming one is NEET, be prepared to go >>>/out/ anyway. Keep your NEET spirit strong and you will live off of garbage and free wi-fi.

This is of course if you don't want to work at all and take it easy to the max. Maybe your parents will let you live with them again.

It's like I'm really on /r9k/

>> No.11809845

>>11809519
I realized it when I was still a small kid. I realized that the kind of life I wanted couldn't happen so I just never tried. I thought about it. So what if I got some nice job? So what if I randomly inherit millions of dollars for some reason and never have to work a day in my life? All that would serve to do is keep me comfortable and distracted so I don't remember that I'm not living life the way that I wanted to. The only way I can deal with it is to constantly distract myself and have hope that by some supernatural twist of space and time I can live the life.

Man, being a kid with an active imagination fucked me up.

>> No.11809847

>>11809845
You feel the way you do and must constantly distract yourself because you aren't living your life the way you truly want to.
Why don't you try, even in the very slightest?

>> No.11809900

>>11809519
I didn't. I'd never want to lose to despair, ever again.

I wake up every day with a sunny smile, being glad that I'm not in pain and that I'm still able to drink my strawberry milk every single morning, no exceptions.

I'm glad that I'm not in Africa, that I'm lovesick and that the Internet exists and that it's always there for me to go and find friends.

No matter what's happening to you, life has its up and downs. There is always somebody out there to love you. And if you doubt that, I was too on the same boat, so let me tell you this sincerely - I love you, please don't give up on hope.

>> No.11809911

What happened with me was, I really stopped caring about things, and after that I started succeeding at accomplishing all the things I wanted to do back when I was a depressed teenager. But I honestly don't care about accomplishing those things anymore so it's only this dull feeling of satisfaction. At the same time though I feel like I don't ever have to worry about being depressed again.

In short, just learn to take it easy OP and everything will fall into place.

>> No.11809912

My life would be great if I didn't have crippling chronic pains all day every day with no official diagnosis, cure or reliable relief methods. It's the only thing keeping me from having a happy life as a NEET.

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11809915

I realized my life sucked when I was a child.

Not that it matters, it only made me depressed earlier than usual.

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>>11809519

there's no need to deal with it. You just have to go with the flow even if you hate it

and yes, put the necessities for a good wife in the garbage can. It is very hard (or impossible) to find good girls these days even if you're socially active. I can't speak for everyone, but this is just what I experienced

You just have to keep on doing your interests for a long while, fulfill your obligatory duties even if you hate most of it and think about the future later

>> No.11809917

>>11809900
I love you too anon, please stay safe

>> No.11809922
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>>11809847
I desire a magical world of fantastical landscapes. A place where I can wander aimlessly and be in awe of the sights no matter where I go.

You could just tell me go wander the world right now but I'm an all or nothing kind of person. I know this world can have nice landscapes too but in my mind it isn't the same. This world doesn't have that fantastical touch to it. There is nothing left unknown here.

I would be a liar if I said that was all though. I also just want to escape this world's expectations. I don't want an education. I don't want a job. I don't want the pressure to get those things. I just want to see and experience beautiful shit. I'd rather die young and alone having seen the unreal than old, rich, and comfortable.

>> No.11809964

I knew since I was a kid that no matter how gentle/fun/cool you tried to be, nobody will care about you anyway.
The selfish path is the only way.

The fact is that I'm okay with it, I like living the dream, but then random people appear and have to criticize my shit because it doesn't follow normie standards.

>> No.11809975

Is this the blog thread?

>> No.11809976

>>11809975
Yes.

Would you like to contribute?

>> No.11809982

Life is hard, but it has great things.
The problem is that acquiring the means to enjoy those great things are a pain in the ass, unless you're extremely lucky.
I'm quite grateful that I was born and raised in a context where I am given the chance to acquire such means.

So, my goal is to get the most easy-mode job I can, but that will let me live comfortably enough.
Then I'll keep filling the void in my heart with fantasy; videogames, anime and hopefully soon, decent Virtual Reality.
If I fail, or when I get old enough, I'll blow my brains out.


That's the plan.

>> No.11809985

>>11809922
Born too late to explore the world, born too soon to explore outer space. Such a sad time to be Marco Polo.

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>>11809976
ya why not feelin stoked downed sum pharms got a job interview in a few n im in a gud mood chillin

all u whiners shud shut up and get out the house not whinge bout shit on the net like a bunch of facebook cunts or mebe whinge on ur phacebook n get support from real ppl not fukkin trolls on 4chan who r more lost then u

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>>11809786

>tfw everyone agrees with the basic gist of what OP is saying but funposting to get rid of the existential pain is in vogue on /jp/

>> No.11810013

Life isn't a problem, it's merely the timeline in which you experience problems.

You can always trace a problem down to more than 'hey, that's life' (even though accepting it as a basic premise helps).

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>>11809519


>So what can be done?

this implies the possibility of life not being a problem, which contradicts your initial premise and outs you as just like every other mopey gnostic who doesnt know how to deal with adversity.

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