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Is this who I think it is?

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My father is a horrible person and I haven't spoken with him in years.

22.
Live with father.
Father had abusive father
Father was viciously angry when I was child
Mother distanced when I was young, started drinking
Grew up with add / social anxiety
Lost friends due to social inhibitions
dropped out of school early
got into college
slowly and lazily plodding thru college

I wish my mother would die already.
Perpetually sick people shouldn't be allowed to live.

They are paying most of my way through college and we love each other dearly. They don't mind me being into games and anime and such as long as it doesn't impact my schoolwork.

We talk regularly and still travel together sometimes during summer. Things are pretty good all in all.

my papa died and my mama is super awesome

Not your average Americans ,but not average Thai either.

-I'm graduated from 4-years college but currently studying more advanced shit in Japan.
-Dad and Mom is on the verge of divorcing long ago, when I come here, dad leaved the house.
-My sister goes with my dad because she hates mom.
-My mom always have some kind of mild mental disorder.
-Also she's addicted to politics so much your average Conservative American aunt will be friendly. (Google Thai Red Shirt if you are interested in /pol/)
-If I go back to Thailand right fucking now, I DON'T have a place to stay.

That's it. I feel better after letting that off I guess. Thanks Sigmund.

They were both completely absent during my childhood excluding when they were abusing me or couldn't be bothered to leave the house to loudly abuse one another. We were extremely estranged when I left home at 16, I disowned them completely by the time I was 18. Have not seen or heard from them in four years and hopefully it will remain that way.

tl;dr could not be worse

>>10694980
Is he a touhou?

I don't know my father and I've been leeching my mother for 21 years

I also have a little sister who thinks I'm the shit but she'll eventually grow up and realize I'm the biggest loser alive

Really bad, bad ones.

I waited for their anniversary and then drug and put both in the car, drove near a cliff and put them in the front seats, then I pushed the car off the cliff.
Was a hellish long walk back home but worth every step of it. When police came I cried a river.

They really deserved it, not gonna post more info just in case someone feels like playing detective.

My mother and father separated when I was 6 and from that day forward they bitched about each other for 15 years and always through me.

My mother is lazy and likes to pin excuses on other people or bodily problems, she has to rely on men to do work for her. (had to give her money for 3 years)

My father has brought me up to respect women but always told me my mother was a horrible woman but a good mother but would then call her a terrible person when I would go to his crying about her. He has an irrational fear of relationships encase they steal all his money in a court case again and leave him broke like the last time

I now have crippling social anxiety and depression and I'm seeing a therapist weekly

2hu makes me happy

>>10695068
My parents split when i was about 7. My mom only cares about herself and has been with 3 different men since my dad. I moved to my dads house at the beginning of highschool. I live 10 minutes away from my mom and i never see her or talk to her. We never really had anything in common but it's really depressing to know that my mom does not care about me.

However i am lucky that my friends mom is super nice. Just today i noticed she left a chocolate bunny in my car for easter. I was soo happy to see that!

Why parents? Why can't I post about cute lolis in my family?

I've regularly fantasized about having sex with my mom ever since she died. I didn't pay much attention to her in the last couple of years of her life, yet now I wish I could feel her warmth again. My dad's nice but sad, I'm too retarded to know how to make someone happy.

My parents are normal.

My dad is a NEET, kind of strange that my mom doesnt complain about it.

My dad has been unfaithful to my mom for longer than I've been alive.

My mother is essentially a saint and my dad, despite being a blunt, rude, tactless, avaricious asshole, regularly calls me and my siblings on the phone and goes out of his way to show his love for us.

I really can't complain.

i wish my parents were normal. or even competant. id trade my mom's unstable love and my father's hatred for a solid life basis but indifference.

>>10695023
Yeah

My mom lives up north and havent seen her for maybe 15+ years so i dont know her but thats ok.
I live with my dad and share a big ass king size mattress and a big ass tv in the room. Also live with grandparents who baby me and feed me.
Be 23 and life is good

>Mother and Father kept arguing, trying to take cheap shots at each other
>There's be times of the year where my father was gone for months on end
>Father didn't get me any Christmas presents or Birthday presents, I didn't mind too much
>Greatest memories are with father
>16th birthday my father Gtfo'd
>He occasionally phones me and we go out drinking
>Last Thursday he's moved across the other side of the country
>My mother is a saint and never thinks of herself
>However, she's incredibly busy with work
>She keeps threatening to take my dog away

Never met my father, been abandoned by a couple of step fathers,
mother is a big alcoholic but only mild drug user compared to how she used to be. She hasn't worked since 2007 but is trying to get on the NEET bucks for being retarded.

Pretty big white trash background I guess, I never had a chance. I'm only nice to people in my family so I can continue living my shut in NEET lifestyle, namely my deceased grandfather's retirement checks that my grandma gets.

>>10695275
You share a bed with your dad?

>>10695279
Hu u qut

My parents were both unable to work and lived off a disability pension when I grew up.

My father was a heavy drinker and drug abuser. Easily lost his temper.
My mother was a whiny and useless bitch. Acted like a kid (because of her disability, I think) and really got on my father's nerves a lot. She smoked two packs of cigarettes every day. Because of all this our family was pretty poor.

Social services put me in a decent home when I was 10. But the damage was already done.

>>10695282
Yeah i do. Its pretty cool actually but i can tell sometimes he doesnt like it, but whatever. He just has a good set up in there and is gone all the time so its like my room now

Dad ditched out when I was young. Mom whored around and one of her exes didn't want me around. Both were abusive. I ran away from home and ended up with my aunt. She's infertile and considered the crazy cat-lady of the family but she's really nice to me and wealthier than my mom. Became my legal guardian and I eventually started calling her mom. Got rid of all the fucking cats too - now we just have a hugeass german shepherd who likes chewing on my ties.

>>10695339
That sounds really nice

My siblings and me went to stay with our grandma for a few years at a time off and on when mom would decide to leave us behind or go to jail or something. Turned out to be even worse staying with her.

My relationship with my mother is alright I guess, she doesn't really force me to do anything I don't want to do and she hasn't been losing her temper easily lately. My father is a complete asshole and I don't wish to associate with him or my step-mother at all. They have some huge problem with me for whatever reason and don't try to stay in touch. That's alright though, I don't appreciate hearing him lecturing/yelling at me anyways.

Mother studied abroad in Japan and got PhD in mathematics, career in teaching.
Father was well-read farmboy turned Electrician, hobbies in Recreational Shooting and Birdwatching.
Mother gave up career and father abandoned hobbies to focus on raising family.

Youngest of two, very coddled and spoiled. This lead to naivety and timidness.

Mother became terminally ill when I was young and died a few years later, funeral was held on my birthday.

Begin shut-in symptoms, found refuge in hobbies and collections instead of friends.
Took up the 'Mom' role in the household.

Offered scholarship after graduating highschool but dropped out after first year.

I've been subsisting in unemployment so far.

>>10695029
My sister used to think that too. She was my best friend and then she turned 12. How old's your sister?

epic blog thread, guys

My dad has been physically and verbally abusive to my mom since I was about 6 years old. Now he stays around the house eating her food and living in the house that she pays for cos he doesn't work. All the stress and hatred culminated in me kicking his ass and biting a hole in his ear before my sister called the cops on me. They were divorced last week but he still lives here the useless cunt.

My mom is the best! I would be a terrible person if it wasn't for her. She babies us a bit too much though.

Why does everyone on jaypee have such a tumultuous family background?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DL_KyJpRuKU

>>10695416
All the mazacons and little girl wishes are just sad people trying to make up for their past.

>>10695416
Does it surprise you? Having abnormal and negative family experiences have abnormal and negative effects on your personality/development. If anything, it's the people with stable, spoiled childhoods and normalfag parents that stick out here.

>20

bipolar father who offers me construction work when I need cash (ends up being 4 weeks a year). I don't see him other than that and holidays. He's a nice guy but he thinks I'm a loser.

Mother who has quite the temper. Likes to make up her own dialogue and believe them to be true. Won't take no for an answer. I avoid her like the plague, but am diplomatic with her.

>Live and attend university 1.5 hours away. Double major in economics and political science.

Overachieving brother who was valedictorian, went to best engineering university in toughest program with co-op as well. He's worked for the CSA, cancer research, desigining cell phones, working in Canada's biggest law firm, and so on. Has won past two engineering competitions at his school, has secured $60,000 in funds for a startup from his university, lives with his best friends and an asian qt3.14. Basically he has it all. I'm $3000 in debt to him, as well as quite jealous of him. I've always been extremely intelligent, but have no work ethic. He's always beat me at everything. I almost hate him but I depend on being nice to him. He lives 20 minutes away and checks in on me often. His concern for me being a hikikomori just pisses me off even more. I blame his success for a lot of my problems, including me giving up on most things.

Most of my family suffers from depression and it makes getting along with them tough sometimes. I have nothing in common with any of my family. None of them like anime, video games, music, art, etc. My mother is kind of over-loving and I feel it's more because of her hormones than it is because of me. I think my dad was abusive when I was younger, but I'm not sure. I dont' remember much, but I just feel like he was abusive. My entire family pities me or dislikes me.
Currently living with my grandparents who also hate me. They've threatened to kick me out if I don't find a college course this fall. I'm far too depressed to, so I guess I'll be sent back to my house eventually.
Overall, I get along with my family at times, but it's usually awkward at best.

>>10695425

>>10695392 here
My brother dropped out of highschool and was a hikki long before me. I tried to become successful for his sake and because people kept telling me someone had to make the family proud. Unfortunately I didnt' get very far because my bravado couldn't help me in practice.
My mother used to tutor me after school especially in mathematics, ironically after they stopped, I fell behind terribly in math.
Our family name is going to die with us.

Anyway, how did you end up getting $3000 in debt? Was it accumulated?
You should know better than to borrow money, anon.

I had a normal childhood and doting parents but I still ended up as an adult baby somehow

I wish I can hug you guys.

>>10695452
this. I keep forgetting how good I've got it compared to other people

I turn 32 this year, a flight school drop out who lives with his parents. My mother is a housewife who stays home all day long. Father provides for the family, we rarely talk. I have siblings, a younger brother and a younger sister. My brother is an addict and spends most of the year at rehab, I think he started abusing drugs after we got out of prison. Me, him and an uncle spend some time there for something we had nothing to do with. My father had to shut down his business, and had to seek employment in another company. Obviously, this affected our relationship. I'm grateful that he hasn't kicked me out or disowned me. I hope they don't die soon.

I don't live with my parents.

My mother is very nice and we get along well. She likes gaming and I just put together a new gaming rig for her.

my dad is a stubborn old man; I don't visit him as often because he lives a bit out of the way, but he's friendly when I visit and we end up getting along fine.

I don't talk much at all with my siblings, but there's no reason for that. We just live separate lives.

>>10695469
It's short lived IRL though. They eventually grow up.

I would gladly accept all these problems if only I could have a little sister who looked up to me.

>>10695453
my brother had a year lease on a house in his university town. I was in a gap year after high school, working at a starbucks making good money. He went on co-op in san francisco and asked if I wanted to rent it out while he was gone. Was like sure. Couldn't find a job at all, despite handing out resumes to every business in town. Gave up and became a shut-in as I didn't know anyone in town and was isolated anyway. My brother paid rent for me. Year later, decided to stay in my university town over the summer to avoid my parents. Couldn't find a job either (university town is pretty empty in the summer), had to rely on my brother to help me pay rent and living expenses. My brother got me a job at IBM for good money, but my depression (from still being isolated after first year of university, where you're apparently supposed to make all your friends) made me hand in my government background check too late and they ended up hiring someones else. I hate myself even more, waste a lot of money on booze through second year, and here I am now; I've been diagnosed with breast cancer and depression, have been missing most of my lectures, tutorials, and papers, and still owe my brother $3000. Not telling any of my family about the cancer, depression, and school troubles though. I hate myself, and I really need to get my act together

My father is a horrible person and I haven't spoken with him in decades.

My mother is essentially a saint and I feel sorry for her because she had to suffer so much because of that asshole. I had to convince her that we(the kids) don't want to see dad either, she should get a divorce. ;_;

>>10695491
>I haven't spoken with him in decades.
Grandpa is that you?

Dad's fairly well adjusted.
Mom's OCD, always has to be active, always has to make everyone around her active. Poor sense of privacy, meddler, gossip. Kind of annoying to be around. Typical woman, basically.

My parents are very unbalanced. My father was abusive to me in my childhood, my mother is a push over who became a workaholic just in order to support my brother and I. Even though they've been divorced since I was 6, they both have one thing in common, Christianity.

My Father was very rough on me as a kid. He projected his frustrations on me thought at an early age in order to "ready myself against the enemy", which in his eyes was everybody. about 2 years ago, I stopped having any form of contact with him, as it was just to painful to be around him.

My Mother, on the other hand, treated me alright as a child. As my depression worsened over the years, she finally took me in after I tried to commit suicide. Even though I'm on disability, she treats me with respect and tries to encourage me as much as she can. Even though I don't contribute much to society anymore, I try to help her with the burden I feel I've put on her and help her out as much as I can, albeit it's mostly chores and or going out and getting groceries, I guess it still counts.

Whelp, that's pretty much it. Stereotypical as fuck, but it's the truth.

Is there no-one on /jp/ who was brought up in a loving family home with little to no problems and just decided he wanted the hikki lifestyle?

This is just one of the reasons we're all fucked up and on this board.

/jp/ - mommy and daddy issues

>>10695510
Your dad sounds like mine. He wanted to put me in a christian school because he was afraid I would meet communists in public high school, but he didn't have enough money for it.

>>10695505
I am barely a wizard. Normal age for /jp/er. Why are you here, kid?

>>10695483
Seems like you thought things would work out when you got there, huh? I've been through that, went to a town where they were "practically handing out jobs!", I ended up living in a hostel out of my own savings for a month.

Your brother sounds like a nice person but I think I myself would be ashamed in that situation too. I wish someone came to visit me but I can't even offer an adequate meal to a guest.

Are you a guy or girl with breast cancer?

I've kept most of my problems to myself because my brother and father have it hard enough already. I'll probably leave a not when I die of starvation or something, I've already come to terms with dropping off the radar one of these days.

>>10695517
Yes, I just wanted the hikki lifestyle. Just like the majority of posters ITT. Don't misunderstand.

>>10695530
I personally see no point in going outside anymore. There's nothing to do and everyone is on their smartphones doing things online.

>>10695517
>Is there no-one on /jp/ who was brought up in a loving family home with little to no problems and just decided he wanted the hikki lifestyle?

Don't worry, I'm here.

>>10695536
Yeah, I know. I haven't been outside in half a year. Around 5 hours total in the last 3 years, I think.

Happiest time in my life! I wish this could last eternally.

They are lazy and are wasting all my future money.

>>10695524
Guy. Yeah I hate being a burden on other people too. I've considered vanishing too. Before that, I'm going to give it a few more all out tries and see if anything sticks. But not now, of course.

>>10695517
Well, my family certainly was loving and never fought or anything but afterwards it ended up as if the house was empty even though there were three of us living in it. We never talked to each other and were just beside ourselves.
I'm not sure if I'd rather have had any interaction at all, negative or otherwise.