/jp/ - Otaku Culture

You guys, I'm having a crisis.

All my life I've never had a girlfriend. (That's not the crisis)
The last time a girl kissed me was in 7th grade, and that turned out to be a dare by her friends.

I'm in university now. And there's this girl. This amazing girl, I've never felt this way about anything 3-D. At the moment, she doesn't even know I exist. Now I don't really have any friends I can confide in, so you guys will have to give me advice via multiple choice

Do I:

A. Abandon my nerdy ways and attempt a meaningful relationship, or
B. Don't even try, you have no chance you failure
C. Leave everything and move to Finland like I planned

Love, anon

This is a question for the Chinamen here on /jp/

Do you guys feel conflicted about being weeaboos? Liking Japanese culture and everything? Because nearly every Chinese kid I've met watches anime, and it's obvious even if they try to supress their power levels.

This one time I had a lab with two Asian kids, and they were chatting happily about various animus until they learned each others' last names (one was Chinese, the other was Japanese), and then there was an awkward silence.

Why do other Asians like anime related things so much if they hate Japan? Or is the rage just overblown on the internet?