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For me, it isn't hate. I accept it and fap to new JAV if possible, still fap to pre-Kimmed JAV even if not possible, so I agree if it's overreacting and deleting her JAV and wishing for misfortune upon her or such. But, did a JAV actress you really like ever get plastic surgery you really dislike? For me, it was Elly Akira's lip fillers. That isn't even real plastic surgery, yet it still changed her from my number one most attractive JAV actress to still very attractive but not "goddess" if that makes sense. Yes, ageing also is involved but because by now I like even some true hags, that isn't why I still see her before lip fillers as much more attractive than after lip fillers. Her comeback age remains very attractive to me and the size of her lips varied, I was glad about her come back but, even so, I'll never stop wishing she makes a new comeback after stopping lip fillers.

On some faces, I even like lip fillers if it boosts the facial harmony. On Elly's face, it disrupted my conceptualisation of her facial harmony and for this reason, I reacted negatively but because she remained attractive, still fapped to her new JAV too. Let's imagine if she had a completely unrecognisable nosejob and eyelid surgery too, now in this case she would look like a completely different person: maybe still attractive in a different mood, however, not the same Elly Akira. That's what it's about, for me at least. If an actress had a face you really like, or her body was exactly your cup of tea, then if that's changed in a way that becomes disrupted, you won't like her as much. It's foolish to pretend you could have stopped Dr. Kim because isn't abducting girls to operate, or to let that negatively affect your impression of her old JAV, but a negative reaction to her new form if it isn't your cup of tea is understandable. I still like the Duck but the cup of tea is very different. She was a cute little smug lolibait, now she's like a fashion vlogger slut. Because these are very different cups of tea, if somebody only likes the first cup, of course his reaction to her Kimming was more negative. For me, and in the previous thread another sir fully admitted still liking her, because I equally like both cups of tea, I still fkn enjoy her new JAV too.

Variety is the spice of life and everything in life is ephemeral, so being able to fkn enjoy more JAV brings more happiness. However, some sirs like only one cup of tea, or few cups of tea. It isn't a subjectively bad thing to not like more cups of tea, after all it's subjective and trying to force a sir who doesn't like one cup of tea to like another doesn't work. But, the combination of hostility and claims of objectivity that many sirs on /jav/ and even society (in either direction) are difficult to understand. Different people like different things, so having a negative reaction to soebody else liking something you don't like is something I'll never understand. It's much easier to understand having a negative reaction to not liking something you like, though even that has to be remembered that most people have very limited tastes. This is clearly observable on /jav/ as sometimes a discussion about an actress or genre is positive, then suddenly a detail turns it into negative because of the perception that a sir who likes something you don't like, must mean he's a bad person with "shit taste" or such. Of course with plastic surgery this is even stronger than fetishes or types of roles because it's a permanent change in appearance. If he feels a sort of "parasocial" connection to her which is common despite many wouldn't admit it, this becomes very powerful fuel for hate when she does something he doesn't like.

For these and other reasons, I'm doing my best to like everything. Soon I'll fkn enjoy all JAV. It already is making me much happier as my JAV lifestyle becomes more advanced and happiness in life increases, really embracing the perspective "varity is the spice of life" and finding how to appreciate everything. In its own way and in the right mood, every cup of tea can be fkn enjoyable!