/jp/ - Otaku Culture

If you guys look at various chat places, you see lots of aggressive girls who like going out. They will have more than one guy at the same time dating them though, but require the guy to be solo with them.

It may seem strange to you, but I dislike wearing rings or jewelry of any kind, so I don't wear my wedding ring except on a light neckchain. As an unfortunate consequence, I get "hit upon" by girls looking for nice but unformally dressed guys who are well-off employed. Musing over that, some of us at our workplace wonder if nerds as a subclass have the favorable attention of a group of females looking more for longterm security and solid retirement/travel prospects than in short term garrulous cool hip types. If the OP is looking for nerds with that in mind, well, many nerds are available; just remember that that their job and job-related extracurricular interests will compete with you for time. So don't get pouty at that.

Sometimes nerds are just too afraid to look. In one large office bay of our corporation, at least 3 couples met for the first time in that bay and (6 people from that bay) married. At another smaller bay with 33 people, 2 of them met for the first time in that bay and married each other.