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>>43519405
By no means he is a representative of waifufags. Just look at his posts, he is constantly on the verge between mental breakdown and going schizo.
Most waifufags recognize sex as part of healthy romantic relationship and can enjoy it as a way to tighten bonds and enjoy some intimacy without being disrespectful or stressing over it. You know, like normal couples.
And like others anon said, I would fucking hate myself if I made her feel unwanted and unattractive. I want her to be happy.

>>42684678
Having a lot of merch is nice, but no amount can beat having just one but a really good daki to cuddle and sleep with.

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>>40156011
for a while in my life i took a certain amount of abuse from my family for being into fringe things. my parents made fun of me, made shitty comments about my music, my sister actually just straight up hated me. my parents are beatles boomers and said once that they really appreciated that i was interested in their music but "don't get where this japanese shit came from." we never bonded over anything i was interested in. i didn't care because i had people online to bond with about it instead, but i knew none of those anon cared about me.

eventually my dad passed away from cancer. the trauma brought the family a bit closer together but my mom still acted this way, treating me like a child while making passive aggressive comments about my lifestyle and what i like. my sister was now decent but we still didn't talk. after a really long time of being really frustrated, eventually one morning my mom had came over so we could go to a family event together. she said something that just threw me over the edge and i snapped on her and shouted at her, calling her out for how she doesn't really respect me, my privacy, what i like, what i'm doing now nor what i want to do, and kicked her out of my house; which her and my dad had helped me buy. i felt terrible for this and i was also very angry at her and myself for a while. i think later that same day my mom realized where i was coming from and discussed what i was actually feeling with my sister, probably putting it in better wording than i could put it, because ever since they've been pretty open to discussing my interests and i don't hear the disparaging comments anymore.

my sister actually plays project sekai now and surprised me by meeting me at a local anime convention with her husband last week. she and my mom actually previously went together to help me pick up the IKEA cabinets i really wanted so i could display my miku merch but couldn't go get by myself since i was stuck in my work schedule. i have just recently installed new speakers and a bluetooth receiver in my car, and one day while leaving the cemetery with my mom https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJTQuDCnMjg came up on shuffle. for the past decade, i was ashamed to play my music in earshot of my parents, i would always pause it or turn the faders down. in that moment my mom shocked me by doing the opposite, she grabbed the volume knob and turned it up. suddenly i felt all my past frustration disappear and i felt happy. i was finally sharing this moment of my culture with someone i loved.

if your situation with your family feels bad or neutral i think it'd be best if you break that layer of ice by finding a nice way of saying "look dude, this is who i am." cus what i went through only went well because my mom was smart enough to realize my feelings, and it was many bad years of not good things until they eventually realized it's not strange and i'm not changing by the will of their scorn. either way, they're going to have to accept it some day.

the only problem i have with it is that it was a fucking Jin song that broke the ice and it wasn't even kagerou days.