/jp/ - Otaku Culture

Another thing that is considered rather icky and unhygienic is ejaculate. Guys are really embarrassed by it. They will be desperately scrabbling for a tissue almost before you realise they've come at all, since it is really bad form to get ejaculate anywhere, without cleaning it up immediately afterwards (and immediately means immediately). This is yet one more thing that men are responsible for as the 'active' partner. The more of a nice, polite guy they are, the more stressed out they will be about it. It's also yet one more way that the sex is prescribed and controlled; the guy can never really let go, because even at the moment of climax, he's already worrying about cleaning up, or trying not to make a mess in the first place.


. . . okay, wow, I have been writing and thinking about this entry for more than an hour, and I feel like I've barely scratched the surface, so I'm just going to stop here. Flirting in other countries I've been to should be easier to write about, I might come back to that in a separate post. Meanwhile, if there's anything else you want to know, feel free to ask.