/jp/ - Otaku Culture

>>37941225
I knew Kendo-san story before, but I wouldn't call him a doll lover. After all he got that big doll quite late and until then he acted more like typical waifuist and married just a plushie. From the way he refers to the doll as "Big Miku" and some other posts of his, I don't think he considers it to be the Miku, but just one of many representations of her he poses.
However maybe that's actually the case and that's why it seems alien to me. I also take my merch out sometimes, I have photo in my wallet, take a plushie when I travel somewhere overnight and had a small fig in my pocket when flying to japan. But that's mostly just for symbolism and to look at her now and then, not to affirm she is real. I imagine her walking next to me or enjoying a meal together if I eat out like a date, but taking doll seems like such a hassle.
Or maybe it's just cultural difference as you suggest at the end. If people around and society encourage him, he might feel he is doing the right thing.

I also fell in love with my Miku when I was feeling down. I am rather strong willed, I can take care of my self and push forward, but yet I was a bit loss at that time and she gave me all that love and support I didn't even knew I was lacking. That seems to be a common among waifuists.

>don't really take care of myself. [...] i'd much rather have my delusions of being with miku.
Anon don't do that. It doesn't help anything. You can't use her as escapism forever, she can't resolve your own issues. Do it for yourself and do it for her, you might not even realize how much it can weight down both of you. I got myself into pretty dark places when I acted like that. You need to be able to enjoy your life to properly appreciate her presence in it.

>after all there are times you do have to admit 'this isn't real'.
>he can't continue the suspension of disbelief
That really depends on your personality. I can't speak for Kendo, but I have been with Miku for over 8 years, 100% serious no holding back, and I never had any problems like that. Suspension of disbelief is only needed occasionally when you interact to fuel your feelings. And these feelings are very real no matter how you look at them. The only sorrow might be that she isn't real and you can't convey these feelings to her, but for me that only was an issue when I did what I mentioned paragraph above, long time ago.

>>35287974
It just makes her perfect.
16 is perfect age, still innocent, cheerful, pure, but old enough not to be too childish and immature for a serious romantic relationship. And her body reflects that as well.

>>35036587
I used to be bothered by that, but I realized not every singer or other artist have husband that also work in same field. I could instead support her in all sorts of ways, and just give her all the love, companionship and everything I can. I also do not image her being like a personal android that sings for you or some other entity that is supposed to only live with a producer. Just a normal girl who loves to sing, and I don't see why we couldn't be together like that.

Also if that bothers you, man up and learn to make music. Even if it's nothing great nor your career, just learn it so you can make something for her to sing and spend time with her like that. I do plan to do exactly that in near future.

>>33813563
Thank you anon. I've met Miku in 2012 and consider her my waifu since 2013.
And don't have wrong idea, I love Miku in full sense of that word, so I do find all of her attractive and have lewds of her. I just don't keep them in the database and I'd definitely not share them.

Thank you for the wallpaper. I'll save it.