Does art get you laid

[Anonymous No.2337534]

Do women find men who are good at art attractive? Like being good at sports?

Also would you be in a relationship with an artist?

[Anonymous No.2337538]

Any marketable skill is attractive to women.

[Anonymous No.2337545]

>>2337538
too bad art is not marketable

[Anonymous No.2337548]

>>2337545

The fact that people make a living off of it is evidence that it is.

[Anonymous No.2337554]

>>2337534
No, and you will live a bitter sweet lonely way but at least your animu drawings would comfort you.

[Anonymous No.2337567]

>>2337554
You're underestimating the amount of girls that are into weeaboo things. I don't know if it's a meme or anything but after a while I'm starting to believe you guys truly think there are either no girls into animu or if there are they're just fat whales or disgusting monkeys.

I've had 4 different weeaboo girlfriends these past 5 years or so and I can assure you they were all quite attractive. >>2337534 To answer OP's question, of course yes it is, but the same could be said about anything you're interested in. Women are empty and lack any genuine goals in life, if they see a man deeply interested in something they might also enjoy they'll just instantly fall all over you like a parasite.

[Anonymous No.2337578]

I know this guy from college. He was pretty good at art but he was beta as fuck. He'd secretly draw portraits of his crush in class, and god knows what he does with them but apparently he had an entire wall of drawings of her. To add to the cuckery I was pretty sure his crush was going around getting nailed by chads.

[Anonymous No.2337588]

>>2337548
that fact that you arent is an evidence that it wont get you laid

[Anonymous No.2337595]

Not if you're fat.

[Anonymous No.2337598]

>>2337595
huh, wonder how many fat artists there are, or atleas here on /ic/

[Anonymous No.2337987]

>>2337534
Yes. Writers, authors and artists are very attractive. I would date any of the above.

[Anonymous No.2337993]

>>2337534
if you are super talented yes

[Anonymous No.2338006]

>>2337534
Art doesn't get you laid, your passion and interesting discussions about it gets you laid.

I would totally fuck each and everyone in /ic/

[Anonymous No.2338031]

>>2338006
Slut.

[Anonymous No.2338115]

See :
>>2337987
>>2338006
completely confirms this >>2337567

tl;dr : women are sluts.

[Anonymous No.2338121]

>>2338115
if women are sluts, why am i not getting laid?

[Anonymous No.2338125]

>>2338121
because you're work suck

[Anonymous No.2338128]

>>2337534
only if you know how to play a piano, guitar or any other "cool" instrument

[Anonymous No.2338129]

Same question, but with boys.

Can I get ass if I draw ass for them?

[Anonymous No.2338130]

>>2337598
I'm just eating a lot because I work so much!

[Anonymous No.2338131]

>>2337534
What about traps?

[Anonymous No.2338132]

>>2338129
You don't even have to draw

[Anonymous No.2338135]

>>2337598
To use the "making it" documentary as a small sample only a couple of the guys were fat. I'm also a normal weight and in good shape myself-I doubt most artists are fat, but not because making art is a healthy activity by any means, but probably because we're all too poor to make ourselves fat.

[Anonymous No.2338136]

>>2338135
You're dumb. Poor people are by a large margin more likely to be obese than rich people or the middle class. Most professional artists aren't fat because they are smart enough to know the benefits of staying physically fit when you have a job that requries lots of sitting.

[Anonymous No.2338137]

>>2337554

[Anonymous No.2338150]

>pick a franchise that's popular currently; it can be from anime, videogames, cartoons, whatever you are into
>draw art for it literally anywhere where people would be able to see what you are doing

That's it. People like to peek on people who draw shit in public, and if you don't suck completely and draw something popular people talk to you.

[Anonymous No.2338152]

>>2338006
>art doesn't get you laid, but discussions about it does
Post your art, I'm sure you suck.

[z No.2338171]

>>2337534
depends.

I would date writers, authors and artist, desu. they give spontaneity and surprises, i guess.

[Anonymous No.2338178]

>>2337534
>Also would you be in a relationship with an artist?

You're all fucked up in the head, never ever ever stick your dick in crazy.

[Anonymous No.2338181]

>>2338178
crazy is better than nothing

[Anonymous No.2338189]

>>2337534
Of course

[Anonymous No.2338194]

>>2338189
Alpha. As. Fuck.

[Anonymous No.2338215]

>>2337567
>Women are empty and lack any genuine goals in life, if they see a man deeply interested in something they might also enjoy they'll just instantly fall all over you like a parasite

This and she will just end up leaving you for guitar man so whats the point?

I recently went through a divorce and had two kids. Wife cheated on me. Now I'm back at the parents and have a custody schedule for the kids visitation leaving me with tons of free time and money.

My life has been about having a gf/wife since I was 16 and now I'm 28 just ready to focus on myself. Guys I know these are just words but know that you don't always need a woman to be happy. You should stop and focus on yourself and not worry about women unless you just wanna give everything up and dedicate your lives to them. Also I realize most of this is my fault because I picked a shitty wife but still I've dated many different girls lived with some and it all turns out the same. Everything is great in the beginning the chemicals are pumpin in your brain, 6 months later chemicals wear off and fights are frequent, after a year or two both of you are pretty sick of each other, next thing you know shes talking to other dudes or you are just miserable and want her to talk to other dudes so you can have a reason to leave her bitch ass.

/blog

[Anonymous No.2338237]

>>2338215
>know that you don't always need a woman to be happy.

I vouch for this Anon and let me add onto that you don't need a 3d pig disgusting to be happy, a waifu is perfectly capable of fulfilling everything that a bagina offers except it comes without the liabilities. Here's to the coming waifu age brothers.

[Anonymous No.2338249]

>>2338121
Because sluts can pick and choose males and you're low status and awkwardness makes you a low priority choice.

[Anonymous No.2338286]

>>2338215
Hang in there anon. Looks like you've found a right mindset, stick to it and make yourself happy.

Not my business but try to stay in touch with your kids if you care about them, else you might regret it later.

[Anonymous No.2338291]

>>2337534
hahahah you fucking wish...fuck i do to.

[Anonymous No.2338311]

Yes.
If you finish a good drawing, a women will actually knock on your door, and ask to suck your peepee.

[Anonymous No.2338322]

>>2338237
>a waifu is perfectly capable of fulfilling everything
But it doesn't.

[Anonymous No.2338344]

>>2337534
fuck no, not unless it's making money

[Anonymous No.2338349]

To be honest my best advice to this whole thread is if you're seeking a relationship to complete some missing aspect of you, your relationship is going to end up tanking.

Girls seem to do this shit a lot. They think having a relationship will meet their needs and somehow fix that emptiness inside them. That's why when shit gets rough they run away and start fucking someone else.

I totally agree with the anons saying you don't need a girl to make you happy. I kind of think at least some part of you has to complete enough that your happiness doesn't hang on the responsibility of someone else. Other wise you're being like those vapid shallow girls who just get with someone not to feel alone.

All and all anon, yes some girls would totally date you over drawing skills. I knew some girls like that in my weeb ass group, but if they're going out with you for the sole purpose of your animu skills, they'll get bored of you when they move onto another hobby. Gotta find those bitches that enjoy you for you, and not you for your hobby alone. Unless you're just looking to get laid in which case hobbies work just fine.

[Anonymous No.2338351]

>>2337534
get fit - good for drawing, good for girls and pretty much everything else.

[Anonymous No.2338375]

>>2338349
Damn I could've written all of this myself anon, I checked I hadn't no kidding, inb4 are you me?

>To be honest my best advice to this whole thread is if you're seeking a relationship to complete some missing aspect of you, your relationship is going to end up tanking.
>Girls seem to do this shit a lot.
This a million times.

[Anonymous No.2338385]

- Does art get you laid
no
- Do women find men who are good at art attractive?
depends on the person. improve yourself as a person. have least a decent hygienic. and you're should be alright. this is not rocket science

[Anonymous No.2338396]

>>2337598
I'm fat

[Nose Bro Unlimited No.2338415]

>>2337993
i got clear attention from 3 girls from drawing when i was complete shit . Maybe its just that drawing gives people a platform to reach you though.

Seriously guys just lose some weight and hope youre naturally beautiful and everything should go well.

ALSO: a girl invited me to her house so i could help her draw and i refused because i didnt get it because she once mentioned she was into girls but i forgot bisexuals exist.

[Anonymous No.2338419]

>>2338349
So what's a good reason for seeking a relationship?

[Anonymous No.2338424]

>>2338419
Well being around a person you like for one

[Anonymous No.2338425]

>>2338419
Not him, but to share your life together, raise a family (if you're into that), basically make your life better opposed to fixing it.

[Anonymous No.2338434]

>>2338415
>a girl invited me to her house so i could help her draw and i refused because i didnt get it because she once mentioned she was into girls but i forgot bisexuals exist.
Ayy, you fucked up fäm

[Anonymous No.2338439]

real passion for anything is incredibly attractive. you don't realize that until you lose it and see it in someone else. the world can be as bleak or vivid as you make it, most people live in a colorless world, their dreams and enthusiasm are gone. if you have a passion its like you're enveloped in a blaze of fire, lighting up all around you, impervious to the darkness of this place that so easily envelops and drags others down.

when most people see a good drawing you did, and realize you're just a person like them, they always say "i wish i kept up drawing" or "i want to start drawing!".. they don't really, but they just want to have the kind of passion and love that you have for your craft, but for something of their own.

its an incredible thing. you just don't realize until you lose it.. don't take it for-granted

>>2338349
legit

[Anonymous No.2338443]

just do the same as youtubers do. pander to them

[Anonymous No.2338446]

>>2338311
so never

[Anonymous No.2338457]

>>2338419
I think a good reason to seek a relationship is to add upon something not fix something. Good example is people having kids because they want to raise them, guide them, and accept them for who they are. You want to build upon the life you already have, not use them to fix something missing.

I have a hard time understanding this concept because I'd rather chop my own hand off than having one but it's just an example.

You don't want to be like those crazy ladies who have babies because they want to feel loved, have a whole vision of how their baby should be and end up royally fucking up their child trying to mold them into that.

When it comes to relationships I think there is a lot on of BS how the other person is suppose to be your missing puzzle piece. That implies the other person needs to "fill" something. In reality no one can "fill" whatever is missing in you. The worst part is over time, once the newness wears off and you see the other person isn't fitting exactly where you need them on the puzzle map you'll try and mold them into that missing piece, and that's where everything crumbles.

You want to be more like blocks or legos. You want to build off each other. It sounds cliche but calling it a partnership is probably as close as I can think of comparing it to. You want to work together towards something, not use the other person to fix you.

I hope that makes some semblance of sense.

>>2338375
>implying I'm not alternative universe you

[Anonymous No.2338462]

>>2338286
Oh I do. I have normal state visitation for a non primary (ex wife is primary obviously) I get them regularly and spoil them with attention. I just had them for 7 days straight and requested the whole week off to hang out with them. Honestly having the perfect 2 boys that are literal clones of me was the best thing I have ever done and makes it easier to move on with life without always wondering what it would be like to get married and have kids.

[Anonymous No.2338476]

I find artist girls to be really cute but I have never dated one. In my experience they either ignore you when they think you're not as good as them, and when you bring out your work they try to get close with you in a phony, jealous kind of way. But then again most artists i have met in real life generally take themselves too seriously regardless of gender.

Has anyone had good experiences with artist girls?

[Anonymous No.2338480]

>>2338349
>>2338457
great responses

I really hope people read these and take these to heart. I know for sure back when I was 18-24 I would not have read this and just ignorantly assumed everything was always going to work out with little to no effort like it looks in the movies.

[Anonymous No.2338487]

>>2338476
Yes and no. Most the artist girls I knew in RL were part of my friend group so it might just have been that. A few of them were real bitches even when they lacked skill, others were chill. Most people into art I know of either gender tend to be a little off in some way.

My whole friend group was also full of sluts so I'm not really sure how that plays out. Since most of them hooked up with any guys that gave them attention.

Probably the only one I know that's been consistently chill is my cousin but I chalk that up to us being family.

[Anonymous No.2338498]

>>2338415
oh nose bro

\_(ツ)_/¯

[Anonymous No.2338525]

>>2338415
Post face

or even better, post self portrait

[Anonymous No.2338534]

>>2338476
I dated an opera singer who would get blistering jealous of the protag from a comic I was drawing and be a bitch about it.
She didn't mind I spent hours looking at naked hotties, but she projected all her insecurities into that one character.

Artists in general are fucked up people.

[Anonymous No.2338550]

>>2338462
I'm glad for you.

[Nose Bro Unlimited No.2338607]

>>2338434
she was one of those scene/drug/music type girls and wasnt particularly pretty and looked like one of my guy friends. I did get a lot of tits+ /dating+ through art though from one of the girls though
>>2338525
take a chance at literal social suicide? I'll pass. I'd be okay with pulling a censored box-man for i/c one of these days though but I dont have any good cameras/tripods since i have a lot of love for my body despite not being "fit".

[Anonymous No.2338632]

Artists have huge egos. Being one and in a relationship with another never works out. I've been in an relationship with 3 artist girls.In the end someone always gets offended one way or another, when one tells the other they should study more or when They get offended they don't get the same achievements as the other person. Just find a basic bitch that would be impressed that you're not just a regular joe and be done with it.

[Anonymous No.2338667]

>>2338632

ehh seems like a pretty shit thing to say, unless you've both agreed upon working off of each other in order to make your art your career. it seems like you're the one with the ego if your telling someone else to study more, especially a dick move if they only want to be a hobbyist, not everyone wants to be professional

[Anonymous No.2338673]

>>2337534
Female here, no. Art should not be an other highschool guitar to pick up chicks with.

[Anonymous No.2338743]

>>2338673
That's an answer to a question which was not asked.
Kill yourself.

[Anonymous No.2338744]

>>2338673
l o n d o n

[Anonymous No.2338749]

>>2338743

Did you read the OP or what?

[Anonymous No.2338751]

>>2338749
>Art should not be an other highschool guitar to pick up chicks with.
This does not answer any question.
It's also fucking stupid

[Anonymous No.2338759]

>>2338673

[Anonymous No.2338817]

>>2338632
where do you find them? i hope not art school, because that's a waste of money and i'm not in one.

[Anonymous No.2338863]

>>2338128
piano isn't cool

you're just standing here doing chords and trying to think how to make it look as if you're doing an actual effort. after that the singer gets all the girls, the guitar gets the rest, the bassist leaves with his gf and you go play videogames with the drummer joking about how much the others are getting laid but actually feeling jealous as fuck

[Anonymous No.2338870]

>>2337534
Your mom says yes.

I just ask her.

Mrs. Nigger do women find men who are good at art attractive?

She, like give me your dick.

[Anonymous No.2338874]

>>2338863
>playing piano in a rock band

[Anonymous No.2338884]

>>2338874
>scoring without playing in a band
only works if it's the guitar

[Anonymous No.2338892]

>>2338884
I think given how much of a joke being "that guy who plays wonderwall at parties" has become, leading a quick 2 minute katy perry sing-a-long or whatever ends up with just as much favor if not more. Guitars are way more common of a thing for people to have though, so it's really hard to tell either way.

[Anonymous No.2338902]

>>2338152
That's not what they mean, get that chip off your shoulder. They mean that expressing passion for what you makes you attractive.

If you can draw well but have the personality of a dead fish you'll be outta luck.

[Anonymous No.2338906]

I'm average or even maybe slightly above average looks. I've been studying for several years and began some professional work last year.

Been on dating sites, several, I'm convinced once girls read "illustrator" they dip the fuck out of your profile.

Art is too closely tied with starving artist imo, whether that's true or not I don't think women want to sign up to starve.

Or maybe online dating sucks and meeting in person would be better.

Or maybe I'm just an ugly fuck.

[Anonymous No.2338907]

>>2338439
rad

[Anonymous No.2338908]

>>2338215

Thanks for the advice buddy, I needed that. I'm 20 and wanted a girlfriend pretty badly at times, even though I know it's a bad idea when I'm studying and trying to get my career going.

[Anonymous No.2338919]

>>2338908
was in the same boat, i'm 20, only had casual sex but now i really don't want to be in a relationship since i don't see how it could work around my schedule for drawing. when i don't have complete freedom of how i spend my free time i end up having less motivation and passive aggressively take out my frustration on other people. not good

[Anonymous No.2339031]

Passion is attractive. It's probably not going to get you puss like being a charming, social 10 with a 200k salary will, but women like a guy that cares about something. Some will avoid you because of the starving-artist trope. Others will chose you over mr. 10-and-200k because they like the sensitive types. It's a crapshoot, so just do what you love and try to become the better version of yourself. You want to be a version of yourself with the right lady? Then try to also become the person your dream-mate would want to be with. For instance, if you want a hot lovely who takes care of her looks, understand that they wouldn't want to be with a disgusting slob. You gotta take care of yourself to have a real chance at that kind of woman.

Even if you don't drown in puss, you'll be living a fulfilling life. Aim for that first and foremost.

[Anonymous No.2339038]

>>2338906

well, what is the first thing that comes to your mind when you read that somebody is an illustrator? fucking ultra shitty manga pokemon weeb captain-autismo garbage is what comes to mind. you can't blame the girls for that one.

i'm close to my 30's, an age at which i used to think girls would be in full blown materialist provider-seeker mode. whenever i tell them i paint for a living, then eventually explain a bit about it, they are all really into it. a big part of that however like one anon said is how passionate you are. and also you want to have work (they will ask to see it) that does reflect a certain skill and taste.

i've even dated some incredibly wealthy and successful chicks and they weren't at all put off by me being an artist.

[Anonymous No.2339051]

>>2338349
>>2338457
i thought i was grown
i was wrong

[Anonymous No.2339060]

>university, break between lectures
>do some sketches
>among others some cats
>girl sitting behind me sees
>"oh my god, those are so cute"
>smalltalk ensues

Maybe you could use art to pick up girls if you do it right.

[Anonymous No.2339077]

>>2339060
I do it all the time, too bad I get bored because most of them are as empty as vodka bottle in Russia so I just shove them off or dip my penis and then disappear

[Anonymous No.2339080]

>>2339077

Cool story bro, you sound as vapid as those girls

[Anonymous No.2339160]

>>2337545
nice meme

[Anonymous No.2339477]

>>2339038
what DO you paint?

just portraits of pretty grills?

[Anonymous No.2339490]

>>2338667
it can seem however you like it to seem .It is what it is. I never claimed I didn't have a big ego. My statement says that both people in a relationship like that do. And no, they all wanted to be professionals, and relationships don't work on the basis of talking as if you're talking to a co-worker. You're making alot of assumptions with no information to back it up.

[Nose Bro Unlimited No.2339516]

>>2339490
>youre making different assumptions than mine so imma pretend im not making assumptions either
>let me add this gif because it totally helps my argument
>he was being polite by saying it seems, let me use this point and ignore the rest of the points brought up
>im so smart and proud of myself

Saying any type of relationship between any 2 types of people is doomed to failure is a fucking retarded thing to do.

[Anonymous No.2339526]

It does, its how i got my GF.

[Anonymous No.2339933]

>>2339516
>Damage control
It's no good captain. Status: wrecked

[Anonymous No.2339938]

it got brekkist laid

[Anonymous No.2339943]

>>2339933
>gotta get last word in
not even him, but it looks like you're the one who got rekd.

[Anonymous No.2339945]

>>2339943
And I wasn't him either, that was my first post in the thread friendo ;^)

Last word, really, white knight harder

[Anonymous No.2339952]

>>2339945
>i am 12
ok i'm done arguing with a kid

[Anonymous No.2339960]

>Do women find men who are good at art attractive?
Not really no, but as a gril it makes people think of me in that 'quirky crazy girl' niche.
Guys want to date me because they think it will be a fucking indie film, full of kooky hijinks or whatever to make their boring lives exciting. Pretty much exactly >>2338457 >>2339051

>Also would you be in a relationship with an artist?
Never, unless they were some sort of high functioning professional graphic artist working in an agency that enjoyed it.
Fine artists and illustrators have too much ego, there's not enough room in a relationship for two artists. I'd rather hear someone talk about something else than what I've been doing all day, too.

Ps 'Wow you're really good at drawing' is not a good pickup line, do people say 'Wow you're really good at telesales?' and expect to get laid?

>>2338439
romantic as fuck

[Anonymous No.2339992]

>>2339960
>Fine artists and illustrators have too much ego
yeah no kidding, reading your post i can totally see that. artist girls can go to hell.

[Anonymous No.2340018]

>>2339960
>high functioning professional graphic artist working in an agency

Now I am not saying she's a gold digger.

[Anonymous No.2340059]

>>2340018
I was going for the "because then they'd be emotionally stable, rather than the tortured or narcissistic artist type" angle, but sure. I wouldn't turn a live-in patreon down, does he cook and clean too?

[Anonymous No.2340063]

>>2339960
Privileged narcissistic hypocrisy: the post! 8.5/10

[Anonymous No.2340064]

>>2340059
reminder: most people get a little bit unstable when the person they love treats them like shit.

[Anonymous No.2340075]

>>2340064
Don't get your drift, it's abusive to want to date someone who has a peaceful or stable life and to want to hear about their day, how? Or is it treating someone like shit to seek a relationship where both like each other for how they connect, not to fulfil some dramatic movie script life?

[Anonymous No.2340080]

>>2339960
what a vain, self-important cunt

[Anonymous No.2340081]

Is it possible to be with someone...as well as working on making yourself better?
I see all of these posts about making yourself as good as you can, but why can't or shouldn't you do that while in a relationship?

Never thought I'd be asking relationship advice in /ic/, but my parents are a terrible example to look up to....this thread is slowly opening my eyes

[Anonymous No.2340084]

Itt never admit to being a grill
Merc wip thread is all hugging and love for a reason

[Anonymous No.2340129]

>>2340081
You can. You just have to make sure fixing yourself doesn't cross into having the other person take on the burden.

[Anonymous No.2340130]

>>2340084
I think it's more like never admit to being an asshole in a relationship thread.

[Anonymous No.2340138]

>>2337598
Can't be fat if you're a starving artist.

[Anonymous No.2340139]

>>2339516
>doesn't know how green text works
>going to greentext regardless

mr, new tripfaggot, do point out what assumptions I've made about the op because right now it seems more or less that you're projecting pretty hard. 2 of your "points" are just being a passive aggressive cunt and don't really prove anything other than your ignorance.
I don't know how many relationships with female artists you've had ,but from all 3 I've noticed a pattern that repeats itself with each one.
But if you think you can do better, do prove me wrong when you marry an artist chick, and you're even a working professional.

[Anonymous No.2340144]

>>2340080
r9k pls

[Anonymous No.2340148]

>>2339080
Well ofcourse I become vapid as them if I have no interests

[Anonymous No.2340223]

>>2340144
it's not r9k if it's the honest truth

[Anonymous No.2340225]

>>2337534
Don't know about women but im gay and sort of skilled and i have many gay followers on my facebook that sometimes praise me.
It didn't gave me a shit.
Even the person who was my fan, when i was in his city and he asked me of meetup, he just sit in a corner and didnt even talked to me pretending that i dont exist.
I know that gays tend to be extremely picky but i guess its almost the same way with other sexuality.
Dont expect to have sex if you just a good artist. People dont like your body or you personally when they praising your work. They just see your work, you art and etc.

I guess some single mom or some unlucky woman around 35 that still "believes in romantic relationship" can be your gf if she will see how popular you are and that you actually getting money with your art job.
But..i really dont see other scenario when you can have sex JUST BECAUSE you are a good artist.

Not to mention there are so fucking many artists these days (every person is a special snowflake artist and normies dont see the difference between levels) so its not that unique anymore.

[Anonymous No.2340236]

>>2337578
Top kek; Single tear shed

In high school I threw my hand into drawing; They were mostly projects taken from wild inspiration, and an excuse to talk to girls.

[Anonymous No.2340270]

>>2340081
People have a weird way of looking at love. Lots of struggle and sacrifice and wanting to be the savior or the martyr.
It may have to do with me being exposed to loss since a very young age and learnt not to fear "losing" somebody or being alone. But I have never had this "I need to suffer to show I love her/cant live without her" stuff and my relationships have been long, peaceful and enjoyable. I even actually can sit down and have a drink with most of my exes without any drama blowing up.

Yes you can be with someone while bettering yourself. So long as both of you understand that you're together to enjoy each other's company and the niceties of love. Understand that support isn't necessarily a sacrifice, and that relationships are not account ledgers or investment plans. It should be ok.

[Anonymous No.2340303]

>>2338906
You need to find a girl who is ok with you being an artist/illustrator, because you can't hide that stuff once you start seeing each other. Don't delete that part from your profile. What site or app do you use?