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how do you befriend fairly popular artists (around 10.000-30.000 followers) without coming off as a simp or attention whore?

>> No.4875308

>>4875299
befriend them before they get big :^)

>> No.4875310

>>4875299
Get 10,000-30,000 followers.

>> No.4875312

>>4875308
The only way

>> No.4875317

Better that than having a friend who gets semi popular and grows and ego and becomes a giant asshole and jackass.

Dude pretty much gave up our real life friendship when he got 15K followers.

>> No.4875318

>>4875299
>10.000-30.000
>big

>> No.4875322

>>4875299
you can't bro. shit don't work like that. this isn't preschool. you can't go up to someone and say "hey want to be friends? :)"

>> No.4875323

>>4875317
Does this really happen?

>> No.4875333 [DELETED] 

>>4875323
>>4875317
Social media and followers are fuck with a persons ego.

>> No.4875338

>>4875323
Social media and followers can fuck with a persons ego.

>> No.4875340

Befriend them before they get that big or become that big yourself.

>> No.4875343

>>4875299
You befriend people because you like their personality, not because of how much followers they have, you fucking psycho.

>> No.4875346

>>4875323
100%

>> No.4875351

>>4875308
How do I know if they're going become big? I don't want to befriend begtards with 100 followers.

>> No.4875352

>>4875299
ask them about stuff they are into, it's not hard.
I think Bobby Chiu had a nice vid about this topic

>> No.4875359

I am in no way bragging or making this sound like it is cool but I went to school with a friend who in our class we became friends and artists and as soon as he hit probably 20,000 followers on Twitter he basically almost broke off contact with me and doesn’t even answer my text anymore and would rather stream and talk with his followers than his real friend. Meanwhile I actually have made friends with Internet and YouTube creators and animators whom I talk to more.

The moral of the story is it depends on how and what kind of person people are if they get followers and get a massive ego they are assholes if they have a follower and a fan base and they are just normal people it’s nice. I just miss my friend and thanks to twitter and his ego I lost him.

>> No.4875360

>>4875299
>>4875299
why not befriend me, I'm not fairly popular.

>> No.4875368
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4875368

>>4875351
excuse me??!

>> No.4875371

>>4875359
>>4875338
>>4875317
Wait wait wait. Stuff like this happens? What the fuck why.

>> No.4875372

have 11k followers but still feel far too weak to befriend my artist idol with 200k+ followers. The only interaction they had with me was when they RT my work, boosting it to 5k likes

>> No.4875382
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4875382

>ITT, assmad jelly sub 100 followlets
Nobody wants to talk or associate themselves with under 10k follower plebs either gitgud or gtfo

>> No.4875401

>>4875317
>ego trip over a mere 15k followers
I'm still sub 100 followers but this still sounds insane to me.

>> No.4875442

>>4875371
We were friends in high school and even into college when I got a decent job during college and he needed to pay rent I helped him by giving him some money. As far as I am aware he still doesn’t have a real job and makes most of his money off of commissions but once he got a couple thousand followers he just stop talking to me in general and try to focus on making more followers on Twitter.

>> No.4875470

>>4875442
You need to share your story on Twitter and cancel him, this is the only way to save him from himself anon

>> No.4875496

>>4875470
I still consider him my friend I would never do that to him

>> No.4875497

>>4875470
turn the other cheek

>> No.4875505

>>4875442
>he still doesn’t have a real job
hm.
perhaps he is better off without you if thats what you thought of what was happening to him.

>> No.4875524

>>4875470
Why the fuck would you do this to someone.

>> No.4875527

>>4875505
Making $400 a month on commissions instead of having a real job while doing commissions on the side? Are you retarded? You need an income.

>> No.4875530

>>4875382
What if you're half gud but have 50 followers who never engage or return the odd retweet

>> No.4875531

>>4875527
How do you know how much he makes if you guys aren't talking

>> No.4875536

>>4875299
Be yourself and try to approach them
>chat with streamers
>slide into DMs
>Search if they have discords or communities that you can partake in.
>participate in hashtags and in the community
etc

>> No.4875548

>>4875531
I’m not the friend I’m just assuming. You’re suppose to have a real job on the side while you draw until you make it big or have animation job.

>> No.4875553

>>4875299
I don't think this is all that possible unless you knew them early on. I used to have some friends with 100,000+ followers on deviantart (this was back around 2010), and I was only friends with them because we were friends early on, I even had a relationship with one of them.
that said, I feel like many people with large followings can be quite narcistic and dismissive towards those "below" them, and the few who are genuinely humble are just overwhelmed and cannot keep up with people constantly trying to get in touch.

Also, you shouldn't want to be friends with someone just because they are popular, this will make you appear disingenuous in their eyes, so they will just dismiss you. When you have a large following, it is difficult to discern who is genuine and who is just trying to use you for their own benefit.

>> No.4875558

>>4875553
>I feel like many people with large followings can be quite narcistic and dismissive towards those "below" them

Between this and the guy above with this real life friend ghosting after getting popular. Is this a artist thing or just people in genera becoming famous and becoming assholes?

>> No.4875570

>>4875524
Because it's the consequences. If you ditch your friends once you get the first semblance of popularity, you've fucked up. Surprise surprise, when you fuck up in such a way, sometimes the friends you ditched come back to bite you in the ass. It's just the way things work.

>> No.4875574

>>4875570
That doesn’t give anyone the right to get revenge back

>> No.4875577

>>4875570
Again if this is how your mind works, they're better off without you.

>> No.4875580

>>4875360
no, you're too stuck up.

>> No.4875582

>>4875570
You need help if you would do this to anyone.

>> No.4875586

>>4875558
It's a popularity thing. It'll happen to you too, if you ever become popular. Suddenly new experiences open up to you, a whole new category of people want to hang out with you and you realise maybe your old friends were just some losers you settled for back when you were a loser too. It also helps the personality transformation the first few times those 'old friends' start trying to take advantage of your new success, and then you realise they're just leeches who only ever cared about what experiences they could get from you, rather than you as a person.

Class, caste, race, tribe, creed... all these categories are very real, and your social circle is largely determined by them. When you shift from one category to another, things you thought were stable and reliable will suddenly be anything but.

>> No.4875594

>>4875570
Yes, it's just the way faggots like you work

>> No.4875598

>>4875574
It doesn't? Why not? Why don't I have the right to get revenge on a person who wronged me?

You can point to the law and say that the right to revenge isn't protected by it, but I think you'd be missing the point. As a free individual, I claim my own rights. If a friend ditches me the moment they go up a peg, then of course I'll take action to bring them back down. Like I said, those are the consequences, and those are the reasons you don't fuck over people who thought were your friends.

>> No.4875615

Give more than you get and you'll attract quality friends.
Not speaking from experience though, I feel sorry for anyone that ends up as my friend. I'm a selfish dick.

>> No.4875632

>>4875598
That's like, dictionary definition abusive relationship. "You're my friend until you're not" sets them on eggshells and unable to be themselves.
"You're my friend no matter what" is what you should aim for.
Assuming friend isn't just acquaintance like those people treat it.

>> No.4875641

>>4875632
Most people*

>> No.4875647

>>4875470
You need to die of ass cancer before you offer any more bad advice.

>> No.4875656

>>4875632
I don't know what to tell you, buddy. That's just the way the world works. You want to be able to ditch your old friends the moment you get a sniff of success without consequence, and to justify it as 'being yourself'? Tough shit, it doesn't work like that. Make enemies for yourself, get backstabbed.

Bunch of literal children on this board who apparently don't know the first thing about the real world.

>> No.4875660

You people care about followers?
bro they are just imaginary numbers on a screen

>> No.4875663

>>4875656
Boo hoo

>> No.4875666

>>4875586
No I think it’s if you’re a shitty person with an ego.

>> No.4875667

>>4875660
It gives people a fake sense of being a celebrity or being famous. I would say if you were a comic book artist or an animator on a TV show that’s one thing but if you are just drawing pornography or other erotic images your fans are literally not real fans but more perverts and degenerates that just want more porn

>> No.4875668

>>4875351
I mean, no one gets big from nothing. either they have the skills or the working ethics or something else.

>> No.4875670

>>4875586
bro you draw furry porn its not that deep

>> No.4875673

>>4875660
>be a popular coom artist with 92k followers
>suddenly stopped posting at end of 2018
>no one gave a damn aside from few curious people asking what happened
yeah, followers are just mere statistics

>> No.4875679

>>4875673
JUST DRAW MORE PORN

>> No.4875682

>>4875401
I can see why people do it. any amount of success can make we feel more important that we really are. principally if you were a failure your whole life; it is much harder to deal with success.

>> No.4875686

>>4875299
have more followers than them.

>> No.4875692

>>4875299
by not being a simp or attention whore. helps if you're actually artistically on their level and can keep up with them

>> No.4875694

>>4875401
I would probably have an mini ego trip after reaching 1k follows

>> No.4875696

Porn artists lol

>> No.4875704

>>4875299
you already asking this makes you a simp AND an attention whore

>> No.4875712

Someone tell me how to get twitter followers I've never used this God forsaken app

>> No.4875713

>>4875299
redraw every new piece they post, then post it on your twatter with the note 'pretty good man but here, I fixed it for ya. no need to thank me buddy.'
I've learned that the more you call them buddy, pal, friendo etc, the closer they feel to you subconsciously. They'll think you're their genuine friend in no time

>> No.4875719

>>4875694
Sure I'd have a mini ego trip too, but ending friendships over it is a giant ego trip that is probably gonna last for years

>> No.4875726

>>4875712
start with follow x follow
once you get an acceptable number of followers so people don't think you're a creep, post your drawings in popular threads

>> No.4875732

>>4875726
>scrolling through a hashtag following everyone I see
>almost every bio has LGBT ACAB BLM
This is painful

>> No.4875733

>>4875732
ACAB?

>> No.4875735

>>4875733
all coomers are bad

>> No.4875742

>>4875735
*based

>> No.4875744

>>4875299
what is your reasoning for wanting to be their friend OP? i highly doubt you would feel the same urge if they had under 1000 followers

>> No.4875762

>>4875742
based on what?

>> No.4875841

>>4875762
coooooming

>> No.4875863

>>4875732
>Burn Loot Murder
>All Criminals are Black
>Let's Go Beat Trannies
idk seems based to me

>> No.4875874

>>4875371
>>4875401
Anybody who would act in this fashion was probably a garbage person to begin with and not somebody you'd want in your life long-term, tbqh. Mentally stable people don't let mild social media followings go to their heads. I had ~15k subs on youtube for a while (which is an absolutely tiny amount relative to successful youtubers, let's be clear) and it was more of a drag than anything else after a while.

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4875887

>>4875299
I followed tableguy but he didn't follow me back....I guess he thinks he's better than me...

>> No.4875903

>>4875527
no such thing as real job, wagecuck.

>> No.4875906

>>4875887
Same but with whitebox. Fucking asshole

>> No.4875907

>>4875598
>on a person who wronged me?
Lmao you're not entitled to my friendship, faggot

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4875911

>tfw you create a blog, gain thousands of followers and never follow anyone back never ever ever.

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4875961

>scrubs think they entitled to anything

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4875967

>>4875961
I’m entitled to anything and everything I desire and the fact I’m not getting it right this instant is a crime for which humanity should be tried, convicted and punished, and I should not be held accountable if I take by force or coercion what should be rightfully mine to begin with

>> No.4876061

>>4875322
you actually can tho

>> No.4876071

>>4875667
what if you become popular for drawing smutt comics?

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4876082

>>4875299
I have a better question, how do I befriend someone that is relatively popular (>5000 followers or so) but because I genuinely like this guy and not because I'm seeking popularity or free art out of him. Just to be clear, he already follows me back and he is friendly when I comment on his stuff but how do I actually make the jump from friendly aquaitance/follower to friend?

>> No.4876089

>>4876082
Suck his dick

>> No.4876097

>>4875694
My ego on 7k is the same ego I had on 20 followers. My secret is that I never interact with anyone apart from leaving a like at their attempts at joking and befriending in the comment section

>> No.4876101

>>4876082
Internet friends are not real friends, don't even bother.

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4876110

>>4875656
>RULES OF NATURE edgelord bullshit is "da reel worl"
No, that's just you being a petty, vindictive bag of dicks. You're really not any less of a piece of shit than the hypothetical shallow cunt that ghosted you because they enlarged their e-penis by a few millimeters. Going all Count of Monte Cristo because of something like that is pathetic and a waste of time. Call-out posts won't do shit unless you have a big internet dick of your own to swing around anyways.
If you felt so strongly about it, tell them they're a piece of shit yourself and then just drop their ass completely and leave it at that.

>> No.4876158

>>4876082
Have you tried taking to him about shared interests? I know this idea is too crazy, but I think it may just work.

>> No.4876159

>>4875308
This, or befriend them when you’re just as big or bigger than them.

>> No.4876206

>>4875308
>>4875310
this
another thing you could try is to make fanart of their creations frequently, then your own charisma will have to allow you to contact said individual and try to befriend them

>> No.4876237

>>4875299
I randomly met pilotredsun at a cafe years ago and have been friends since. Go where other artists hang out anon, you will be surprised who you encounter

>> No.4876251

>>4875713
Sounds sociopathic

>> No.4876281

>>4875299
Why would they want to be friends with you, what do you offer?

The last thing I want someone to tell me is how much better and a god I am compared to them and that they want to be my friend. Artists are people too, and especially popular people are used to scum trying to suck up, get free work, or stalk. It's dehumanizing and isolating having to shut yourself off from all this stuff no matter how well-intentioned it may be.

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4876293

>>4876110
>No, that's just you being a petty, vindictive bag of dicks. You're really not any less of a piece of shit than the hypothetical shallow cunt that ghosted you because they enlarged their e-penis by a few millimeters. Going all Count of Monte Cristo because of something like that is pathetic and a waste of time. Call-out posts won't do shit unless you have a big internet dick of your own to swing around anyways.
>If you felt so strongly about it, tell them they're a piece of shit yourself and then just drop their ass completely and leave it at that.
I’m a completely different person and my views on cancel culture tend to be negative. However. I completely disagree with you here. Pettiness is not a sin, it’s a goddamn VIRTUE. There’s too many shitty people in this shitty world that get away with things that they shouldn’t, screwing over innocent people and profiting. It’s a fucking crime that more people don’t stand up to them and put them in their place, so if you wanna keep sucking their cocks for a chance at their sloppy seconds, you do that, but I’ll damn well make sure that I don’t settle for anything less than justice.

>> No.4876341

>>4876293
Really not the case here though. The person in question actually did legitimately gain those followers fair and square, so they did earn that. The problem was that they went full retard and got a hyper-inflated ego from their little taste of e-fame. What they did was shitty but by no means did they actually screw anyone over. It's probably a good thing that anon doesn't have to deal with a shitty 'friend' like that anymore anyways.
What edgelord anon was talking about wasn't justice, it really was just petty, pointless revenge.

>> No.4876349

>>4875696
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>> No.4876387

>>4876158
I already do that, but he is kind of shy so I don't want to be too pushy on him

>> No.4876408 [DELETED] 

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>> No.4876410

>>4875299
>>4875351
You sound like a cunt.
Just follow them if you like their art and want to see more, you clout chasing dickhead.

>> No.4876421

>>4876341
PEDOPHILE FUCKING THATS SO GOOD

>> No.4876542

>>4875548
15k followers is more than enough to make decent money from art

>> No.4876782

>>4875299
be just as big if not bigger

for real though, don't just make friends because you like their work, you'll just end up disappointed when you learn more about them

>> No.4876865

>>4876408
kek

>> No.4876898

>>4875299
you can't be friends with a popular person unless you act super 'kawaii' with them for no fucking reason. Also, no one uses the word "simp" in September.

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4876913

>>4875686

>> No.4876997

>>4875299
I supported my friend who quit going to college years ago (now husband) that used to only have 6k followers, now he has over a 100k.

>> No.4877170

>>4875323
usually it just means they were shitty to begin with, the boosted ego just made them throw away their restrictions

>> No.4877173

>>4875570
>>4875598
you should probably get some real social interaction instead of spending the whole day on 4chan and twitter thinking it's the real world

a lot of zoomer incels and lgbt cancellors have this type of schizo mindset

>> No.4877221

>>4876898
This. If you don't say "AAaahhh", "my dude", or spam emojis and popular twitter meme references and finish your sentences with periods rather than uptalk; most will think you're weird and overly serious (or worse, arrogant.)

>> No.4878207

>>4877221
I have a mutual who acts like this and holy fuck it's so obvious that hes faking that extroverted persona of his it makes me mad

>> No.4878333

>befried some retarded begtard weebshit
What do you have to offer? Chicken scratch doodles of your waifus on his feed? retarded memes? Some shitty shallow dicksucking comments?
Kys

>> No.4878697

>>4875299
I have 20k followers and there is one guy that reeeeeaaalllyyy wants to be my friend.
But he just keeps being annoying as fuck at this point. He not just comments every post with some shitty sugary flatter but also asks personal questions in the comments, thinking i will answer (i assume in his delusional mind mwe talking personal suff in the open will show everybody that we are friends). He also gets upset when i dont answer
The wors part is that this is kind of my fault, be ause despite numbers of followers im still a lonely nerd so at first i was open to everybody and talked to him and said few personal things
And i cant even tell him to fuck off because will will try to turn this into drama and i dont want that

OP dont be an annoying bitch to an artist. If you bith are not friends at this point then you dont have anything in common and its not wirth it

>> No.4878931

>>4878697
I have an abdl furry faggot as my only friend in discord because my autism kicked in and i shared my discord number with a literal who, now he thinks we are friends

>> No.4878932

>>4875713
Underrated

>> No.4880667

>>4875299
just talk and dont step into their lane too much
also you oughta had similar interests too.

>>4875308
This too, im only lucky because my buddy got into some horseshit with randos. Now we're just drawing dicks, tid, and shit.

>> No.4880672

>>4875570
cancel culture/vendetta niggers everyone

>> No.4880687

>>4878333
>What do you have to offer?

my love and affection

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4880724

>befriend
Internet friends are not real friends. I have no idea why are you want to "befriend" someone in internet. Are you like one of those "creepy" clingy archetype person from discord who want to talk with you 24/7 nonstop? Anyway open this LTG video and anytime you hear cosplay/cosplayer imagine artist/popular artist
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PP1pmL-fNPQ
you're basically in the same zone