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>>7166212
>the stats back it up
Now back it up with some context
>what age group?
>what ethnicity and race?
>economic status?
>marital status of the parents?
>interpersonal relationship of both parents?
There are a lot of reasons and factors why fathers don't stick around and ironically, the most common one is the mothers not wanting to let their children see their fathers out of revenge or spite.
Other reasons is children born out of wedlock or one night stands, where contact with the father is practically impossible.
Or sometimes kids born from very young parents.
Sure, you have pieces of shit but remember that it is 90% on the woman whether sexual relations happen as they are the honest to god gatekeepers to sex and actively engage in natural selection. So, the epidemic of fathers not being in the picture can be attributed to retarded women fucking left and right and no one wanting to deal with her retarded ass.

Mothers have the innate right to sole custody of the kids, even by law, unless they are proven to be unfit to raise kids or the father tries to claim shared custody and proves he deserves to be around the kids, blood relation barely matter in that decision, then he'll be allowed to see his own kids by the state and the mother will be lawfully accountable if she prevents that from happening, even if she starts influencing her kids to hate their father.

If i had a mini version of me, i'd love and care the shit out of that fucker like you wouldn't believe, so he'll have a better chance at life than i ever did.

>>5155966
You probably got gaslit, ignored and abused to hell and back by peers and adults during your development
>no matter what you did it was never good enough
>got told to do a thing you've never done or heard before and got yelled at for doing it wrong
>forcefully handed too much responsibility at an early age
>nobody ever explained stuff to you even when asking
>always expected to be there for others but got ignored once you asked for anything
>all these things combined helped you fail at anything you ever did
thus you've developed a mild inferiority complex+insecurity.
Now you might be setting yourself way too high expectations/goals that you can't even see your smallest victories but blow your losses out of proportions.

I might be projecting and assuming a lot because i went through that phase where i despised myself and didn't even bother with anything.
What you might need to do is to compensate with the opposite.
Instead of punishing yourself senselessly, reward yourself when you feel you've got something right, no matter how small.
Stop giving a shit what others want or expect of you. Always focus on what the objective right thing to do is.
If you don't like something, don't submit.
Disassociate and formulate your thoughts.
Make a plan on how to deal with things.
And shake off habits that make you feel bad or guilty after doing them.
And cut people out of your life who don't care about you.