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I deleted the pic because I had forgot to resize it.
I need an advice on drawing lightly. I realized that if I draw that way I can use my whole arm instead of just fingers and wrist just fine. I mean, that's probably obvious but I just can't stop applying pressure while holding the stylus the normal way and obviously it's impossible to hold it like a pencil. I don't have any problems with that when I draw on paper thanks to the proper grip. Is there any secret to it? Or should I just draw and draw and draw in hope that my brain will rewire itself?