effay feels thread?

[Anonymous No.9951531]

Effay feels thread, good or bad lads.

>tfw all these expensive cops won't change how empty i am inside
>tfw expensive cops are pointless bc of the fucking chinese reps
>tfw 9/10 gf but 0/10 fashion sense
>tfw when everyone around you wears straight leg jeans and polo shirts

why live /fa/?

[Anonymous No.9951543]

>>9951531
tfw you wear skinny jeans like a huge faggot

[ree !L7l54FaA2E No.9951549]

TFW I am too mature to keep posting on /fa/

[Anonymous No.9951561]

>>9951531
Holy shit you seem to be an absolute asshole. Many people have neither money to afford "muh high fashion" nor a gf (and i'm not even talking about a 9/10 one). Why do you even complain ?

[Anonymous No.9951563]

>tfw losing interest in fashion because nobody cares I exist.
>tfw I keep randomly getting banned from 4chan by mistake

[Anonymous No.9951569]

>tfw an outfit works perfectly
>tfw cheap new pieces
>tfw compliments on clothing and general look
>tfw compliments on hair (all the time)

>tfw saving up for shit i really want
>tfw seeing shit on /fa/ and spending forever scouring the net trying to find it
>tfw ordering online never goe as well as hoped

[Anonymous No.9951573]

all of you need some psychedelics in your life because if these are your feels then you're a piece of shit.

[Anonymous No.9951602]

I don't really have any friends and it sucks.

[Anonymous No.9951609]

>>9951573
>>9951531
towards op

[Anonymous No.9951611]

>be me.
>studying Computer Science
>have a few close friends
>they're always busy and we rarely hang out
>everyone else studying Comp Sci is a fucking aspie nerd
>realise that I'll probably never have friends

What do I do?

[Anonymous No.9951800]

>tfw 5'7, 160 lbs (trying to lose), and weird looking half Greek and Mexican
>no job and graduated from a 60k a year school with an anthro degree a full year ago
>tfw hate responsibility and commitment and easily become content with stagnation/whatever situation I'm in
>tfw envision all these potential life paths and dreams of happiness but no motivation or will power to make them happen
>tfw an asshole to my parents and though they're actually really good to me
>tfw you believe this life/universe/everything is all just a simulation or dream, that this "reality" is false.

[Anonymous No.9951844]

>>9951611
study something interesting like art or fashion design

[Anonymous No.9951877]

>>9951844
But those people are just as bad. And I like computers/employment prospects.

[Anonymous No.9951885]

>>9951531
>10 dollar t from target
>black adidas basketball shorts i got for five dollars at a thrift shop
>bandana, 5 dollar sunglasses
>pic related on my feet
>look better and have more success with women than anyone on /fa/

feels good

[Anonymous No.9952003]

>tfw put a fuckton of effort into looking good but no compliments and no gf

[Anonymous No.9952004]

>>9951885
haha

[Anonymous No.9952011]

>>9951885
>thinking the sole purpose of fashion is women
typical peasant

[Anonymous No.9952022]

>tfw don't think I'll get in to the school I want
>no back-up plan so if I don't get in have no idea what I'll do after summer

I'm thinking of going abroad for a year and just work somewhere if I truly do not get in.

[Anonymous No.9952061]

>>9951800
stop being a dick to your parents. that's only an expression of your dissatisfaction with yourself.

do you live in the US? take your local county's substitute teacher exam. it will be easy, guaranteed. then sub for local schools.

it's easy, it's always in demand, it doesn't pay exceptionally well ($100 per day is pretty standard beginner's rate) but it pays and is more interesting than a mall job and has extremely flexible hours.

this will be your springboard for gaining s career, even if your desired career is not in education. it's flexible enough so that you can go on interviews and such, and you'll actually be generating income instead of being a POS and taking your insecurities out on your parents.

[Anonymous No.9952066]

>>9952003
pix

[Anonymous No.9952112]

>>9951531
>>tfw expensive cops are pointless bc of the fucking chinese reps

so don't buy designers that hypebeasts wear

>>9951561
that is valid critique though, what made you think he wanted everyone to wear designer or whatever, well fitting jeans that don't look like bags are available at fucking walmart


>>9951563
then maybe your interest isn't genuine mate, and you use it as filler because your life sucks

get yourself out there more, it can be hard but at the end of the day you're wasting the only chance, only life you'll get

>>9951569
if you buy something online and you're not certain return it, if the option is available

[Anonymous No.9952123]

>>9951885
>implying /fa/ is into women

embarrassing

[Anonymous No.9952153]

>>9952112
>then maybe your interest isn't genuine mate, and you use it as filler because your life sucks
pretty accurate tbh

[Anonymous No.9952166]

lmao at you guys honestly wanting girlfriends so badly
dress 4 yourselves

[Anonymous No.9952185]

>>9951569
Post pics of hair

[Anonymous No.9952555]

>have lichen sclerosis and ppp
>scared to go out because I don't want to show my dick to someone and humiliate myself
>can't cure the white skin only ppp
> going to be a Virgin forever
>hair receding
>gyno
>3 family members have cancer one recently passed

Everyday life is torture.

[Anonymous No.9952731]

>>9952555
Chronic health problems are awful; my ulcerative colitis has made me a regular boo radley for the last 5 years. Pretty sure most of my erstwhile friends think I'm dead.

Hang in there anon.

[Anonymous No.9952756]

>>9951602
but we are your friends, anon

[Anonymous No.9952784]

>tfw finally have qt22/7 gf
>tfw 4 episodes behind on all current airing anime

h-have I made it /fa/?

[Anonymous No.9952802]

>>9952784
that is a feel I don't want

[Anonymous No.9952803]

>>9952784
as soon as I got a job, I dropped all anime

[Anonymous No.9952807]

>>9951602
same here

As I become older I alienate myself more from normies.

I just want to be friends with like-minded people :(

[Anonymous No.9952810]

>>9951611
>studying Computer Science

You done fucked up. Have fun with your autistic classm8's

[Anonymous No.9952817]

>>9951602
>iktf

[Anonymous No.9952820]

>work seven days a week
>copping mad clothes all the time
>can't wear any of it because I never go out

I just want the semester to start up again

[Anonymous No.9952825]

>>9952810
that really depends on where u decide to go

[Anonymous No.9952829]

>tfw no girlfriend

[Anonymous No.9952832]

>>9952820
this.

[Anonymous No.9952929]

>>9952807
like minded people are often hard to find, be friends with people you enjoy spending time with instead of thinking about what you're optimal friends would be like

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9952937]

>>9952929
This is good advice. But it is also true that your social circle tends to shrink as you get older.

[sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w No.9952945]

>>9952937
for the aforementioned reason, as you get older you feel like you tolerate less from people you surround yourself with

just one of those things you catch in thought

[Anonymous No.9952962]

>>9951531
>tfw 9/10 but probably going to be bald by the time im 30

it dont feel all too good

[Anonymous No.9952968]

>Scored a nice internship with good pay and easy work
>Finally have money for good cops
>tfw gained 15 lbs

;_;

[Anonymous No.9953012]

>>9952968
start running

or something

don't allow yourself to become fat, or even skinnyfat

inb4 no time, weak ass excuse

[Anonymous No.9953044]

>>9951531
>effay feels
post modernist that believes in militant rebellion all to hide the fact that they're insecure and have no direction in life

[Anonymous No.9953857]

>Finally figured out my ideal look/aesthetic and it's going pretty well
>recently somehow became way more confident with myself than I was previously
>feeling really good about myself
>had photos taken of me the other night, looked back at them today and came to the harsh realisation that I'm ugly
>lost a tonne of the confidence I recently gained in seconds
>mfw

[Anonymous No.9953940]

>>9952968
have you got any more good Korean student images? I'm collecting them

[Anonymous No.9953975]

>>9953857
it's a rollercoast man. welcome aboard

[Anonymous No.9953984]

>>9953857
>building up confidence based on your looks
Anon pls

[Anonymous No.9954177]

i'm a big butt butt

[Anonymous No.9954257]

>>9953940
My personal favorite

[Anonymous No.9954275]

>tfw you feel completely empty and all drive to do anything when not distracted by the presence of other people or study/work

[Anonymous No.9954327]

>>9953044
how the fuck

[Anonymous No.9954563]

>tfw want to buy clothes that fit my style
>grandma asks me how much i spent on something
>tell her the price
>she starts screaming "You spent how much? I never pay X amount of dollars for jeans, t-shirt, etc."
>starts nagging me about what i spend my money on and saying that that could have went towards her utilities, and then goes on a rant about how her laundry is a mess or some other crap.

[Anonymous No.9954669]

>big ears
>big bulbous roman nose
>Had the chance to be sexy but got fucked by those features, I'm not even sure how good I look

I just wear comfortable sweaters, cozy cardigans, slacks, dress shoes, etc. I don't even care about being fashionable anymore. I just browse this board because it's impossible to fully leave.

[Anonymous No.9954700]

ITT: pissy little brats that don't know what real problems are

[Anonymous No.9954737]

>>9954700
>Other people have it worse so you're not allowed to complain
By that logic the only person in the world allowed to complain about their problems is one crippled woman in Ghana dying of AIDS who lost all her children to diarrhoea and hyena attacks.

[Anonymous No.9954756]

>tfw a friend who's obsessed with high fashion says you could pull off nearly any style because of your body shape and hair
>tfw you have no idea what style you actually like though

[Anonymous No.9954885]

>tfw when 5'11 and have a BMI 0.5 away from an anorexic person
>tfw the only way I can maintain good grades in uni is with my adderall prescription
>tfw gf
>tfw actually pretty content w/ my wardrobe
>tfw psychedelics changed my outlook on life
>mfw when i realize i haven't been this content and happy ever before in my life

[mopper No.9954928]

tfw the only way i can come is by telling ppl to go back to tumblr

[Anonymous No.9954949]

>>9954885
>tfw when 5'11 and have a BMI 0.5 away from an anorexic person


i know this feel. my bmi was 28 a few years ago

[Anonymous No.9954970]

>>9952817
This gif is the most adequate reaction to my whole life.
>be me
>fall in love with a model girls (bit small tits, but shes model so whatever)
>she falls in love in me
>finally browsking /fa/ and /fit/ pays off- we have so much in common
>she compliments me on my clothes and muscles
>realized im 1st league player now and i can have almost any girl
>also realized, that i dont want ANY girl now
>i want HER only
>best 4 days of my life
>all love songs make sense
>suddenly she must go back
>shes living 500km away and has job and boyfriend
>fml
>we both know it was true love, but we cant go with it, since it would turn our worlds upside down and fuck up everything
>when saying good bye she said
"will you miss me?"
>I said
"I will. Too bad we had so little time. Maybe if we had more, you would miss me too"
"maybe"
"But its propably better this way."
"It propably is..."
>and thats it
Even if i was just used as sex toy, my heart got broken and now all the sad songs make sense. I mean if I could make music i would propably make best blues album ever. Srsly I feel like crying.
Don't know if its /fa/ feels, but i dont care.

[Anonymous No.9954976]

>>9954885
>>tfw psychedelics changed my outlook on life
*tips fedora*

[Anonymous No.9955064]

even though pigfuck seems, like, bad for the board, morale,

if he could btfo Patrick Bateman i would like him a little bit

[Anonymous No.9955070]

>>9954970
As you said yourself

>realized im 1st league player now and i can have almost any girl

go fuck other bitches anon, sorry but its the best way to get past that heartbreak/break up hump

[Anonymous No.9955096]

>>9954737
So much implying - very brat-like of you

Wait until family members die, you lose an appendage - you get fcked over in a marriage and lose everything - you get your identity stolen and get your credit trashed

There is a tough road ahead for many of the brats in this thread

This board should be for discussion of designer fashion, not a bitch-and-moan circle jerk about having no girlfriend - you brat

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9955108]

>>9955064
>if he could btfo Patrick Bateman i would like him a little bit

CHOOSE YER WEAPON

[Anonymous No.9955111]

>>9955108
This is what he's talking about. Your post reeks of autism, and you have nothing to contribute

Take it to/b/ or just lurk

[Anonymous No.9955116]

>>9955111
The numbers don't lie

[Anonymous No.9955124]

>narcissist
>checking fit out in car window reflections
>staring at myself in car window
>suddenly realize someone has been on the other side of it all this time
>shit
>quickly walk away
>they probably thought i was staring at them while posing
>probably shat themselves

[Anonymous No.9955170]

>>9955070
yeah i know, i just have to cry a bit over myself. Yeasterday, after she left (and i couldnt even go to trainstation to say bye, cos her bf was there) i just smoked a cigar and got drunk with whiskey. I know its cringeworthy but for me its relaxing as fuck. And when i went to bed drunk i fucking dreamed of her. I know its stupid but my life got shaken man. I felt this was like hollywood romance, but now i just feel like shit. Somwhere deep inside i just hope thats not the end.

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9955190]

>>9955170
Wait, to clarify, this girl cheated on her boyfriend with you? And this lasted all of four days?

Not to be a dick here, but (1) that's not even remotely a good sign for her as a person, and (2) real relationships take a lot longer than that because you don't learn about someone as a person unless you spend a lot of time with them.

It's easy to idealize someone who you know "just enough" about and who is willing to bang you. Please consider that you're doing exactly that.

[Anonymous No.9955207]

>implying you know anything about "real" relationships

[Anonymous No.9955209]

>>9955170
Oh and the worst part is I don't feel like fighting for her. I feel i should step aside and let it be. Not because I don't wanna be douche to her bf, or whatever other moral shit people have. I would do anything to get her, but she's happy now. I don't want to ruin HER life. I feel that her happines is more important to me than my own, and I'm affraid that even if I would win her for me, I would be a let down for her. I'm affraid I can't meet her expectations.
So yeah for now im just gonna cut to get my summer body, drink to forget her and maybe in a month or two i will be the ultimate alpha with broken heart not carrying about others and just fucking someones elses bitches. For now im just pathetic romantic idiot that keeps his smile even tho I died inside.

[Anonymous No.9955218]

>>9955190
Yeah i know, but you can't choose who you fall in love with huh? And i know her longer. We met recently at our school class reunion. So we knew each other from school and now we met again and hit it off right away.

[Anonymous No.9955266]

>>9955111
true trips

[Anonymous No.9955378]

>>9952061
Wow, back the fuck up.

This is actually something you can take an exam for? That's amazing! Please elaborate.

I'm not #9951800 by the way, just some Dutch guy with an interest in the way such an exam works.

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9955410]

>>9955218
>Yeah i know, but you can't choose who you fall in love with huh? And i know her longer. We met recently at our school class reunion. So we knew each other from school and now we met again and hit it off right away.
I understand, but you're still putting the pussy on the proverbial pedestal. She's a girl like any other. She may be attractive, but we also know - at minimum - that she has a propensity to be unfaithful. That's kinda a bit deal.

Go jerk off, hit the gym, and cool off. Shoegazing about this won't fix anything. There are way too many cool girls out there for you to be screwed up about one.

[Anonymous No.9955413]

>tfw catching feelings for a girl
>tfw afraid but happy

[Anonymous No.9955422]

>>9955410
yeah i guess you're right. Will try to pull myself together tomorrow. I know one thing. In this 4 days she made me a better man. I quit smoking and even more tried to look good, and im won't stop even whem im over her. I think i have potential if every girl i will have affair will make me even slightly better.

[Anonymous No.9955423]

>>9951549
you're getting worse at shitposting, are you ok?

[Anonymous No.9955430]

>tfw manlet

[Anonymous No.9955454]

>hair is only half as long as I would like it to be
>tfw have no patience

[Anonymous No.9955480]

>>9955454
Oh and also
>be a man
>have a better ass than almost all the girls I know

[Anonymous No.9955482]

>>9951800

Since you don't have the power to make them happen, care to tell a thin 5'8 weird looking Indonesian/Turkish/Dutch guy with an anthropology degree what those plans were? You obviously don't have the strength or willpower to make it happen, why not give it to someone that could and didn't waste a year between graduating and now.

There is a reason that 'cuck', 'beta' and 'faggot' are the most common insults on this site? Do your job as an anthropologist and assess why those insults are the most prominent in this community, and don't just politicize it, that's too easy.

Also, didn't your study involve a cursory understanding of philosophy? Read up and reflect why it doesn't have to matter that the universe is or is not fake, fuck, even ree is reading up on existential philosophy. On that note, ree, as a false construct created a shit ton of butthurt, which probably annoyed some people in their slightly less virtual lives. Falseness doesn't imply a lack of meaning.

Abre los Ojos(inb4 that's not a Mexican film) or call upon the muse to guide your tale, you fucking halfbreed.

Now someone shoot me down, before I embarrass myself further.

[Anonymous No.9955493]

>tfw no one to go shopping with because everyone I know is either too poor or too pleb

[Anonymous No.9955598]

>>9955493
>tfw too poor to go shopping

[Anonymous No.9956135]

>>9952066
this, if you think you put a lot of effort in but havent got the balls to post then you might not have put as much effort in as you thought

[Anonymous No.9956298]

>>9955378

Yes, in California. You need to have completed a bachelor's degree. Then you just take a simple exam, and then you get a blood test, and then you're qualified to be a substitute teacher. It's relatively easy to find work, as you can apply to work at all of your surrounding districts and counties.

I have no idea how it works in the Dutch countries, or even in other states.

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9956308]

>>9956298
Along these lines, there are a lot of similar certs you can get to rapidly bootstrap yourself into a better-than-minimum-wage position. For example, ones I have done:
- NCSA personal trainer certifications (I did CSCS, highly recommend it)
- Anything by Comp TIA
- Any MCSE Certs
- Six Sigma nonsense

etc.

[Anonymous No.9956454]

>>9956298
Interesting, I didn't know a bachelor's degree was more than a voucher to allow you entrance into a master's degree. At least, that's the way a bachelor's is perceived in the Netherlands, as far as I know.

Is this an outlier, or are there more options available for people with a bachelor's degree in the US?

>>9956308
You've posted about it several times. I think it's good that you do, it's inspiring and rather useful for people who haven't got the slightest idea what they might do to carve out an existence. If I were to patronize you, I'd do so by cooing "who's a good trip, you are, yes you" multiple times. To summarize, thank you.

What got you started on seeking out these degrees? And furthermore, where did you find information on all this, internet, consultancy or word of mouth?

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9956463]

>>9956454
>What got you started on seeking out these degrees? And furthermore, where did you find information on all this, internet, consultancy or word of mouth?
Thanks!

Boredom and free time. Internet, mostly. It's not difficult at all. All require some form of studying - so you have to, at some point, sit down and mess around with a book or PDF - but the majority of it comes from the Internet. All of hem are useless for me, haha.

[sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w No.9956471]

>>9956308
six sigma literally is the biggest bullshit ever, but corporations value that shit more than HR nonsense
which they value like gold

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9956476]

>>9956471
I know. It's literally an exercise in memorizing and parroting the biggest bunch of shit in the world.

[Anonymous No.9956477]

>>9956471
>HR nonsense
elaborate, I'd like to work in HR

[sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w No.9956478]

>>9952061
technically yes

but since it's a government job they can't up the requireents without facin all sorts of bullshit

unspoken requirements are bsically a 2 year credential to teach

unless it is pre-school

[sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w No.9956489]

>>9956477
>elaborate, I'd like to work in HR

the liberals are invading

[Anonymous No.9956524]

>>9956489
so whats goin on in your life now sieg, im assuming things arent going to hot since your posting today

[Anonymous No.9956569]

>tfw looked like shit for the first 17 years of my life
>no gf ever
>finally turned it around, starting looking better, dressing better
>been over a year since, still feel like getting a girlfriend is impossible

How the fuck am I supposed to be confident in this shit man, I feel like I look nice and can talk to people easy, but I just have no belief that any girl could actually like me at this point

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9956581]

>>9956569
>I just have no belief that any girl could actually like me at this point
You could take my route and just give up and post on 4chan and obsess over how you look as some sort of coping mechanism.

Or you could man the fuck up.

[Oooo !G0DemmThXA No.9956585]

>>9956569
Just keep doing what you're doing. Be more confident in yourself before you think about pursuing any women.

If you're expecting women to climb all over you, that will almost never happen.

Go out and get rejected a few times so you can get used to it and see how the process works.

[Anonymous No.9956598]

>>9956585
yeah I guess, I only just gained enough confidence to actually start trying to make moves but it's so hard knowing how to translate the 'i like you' part into something that aint awkward y'know?

[Anonymous No.9956617]

>>9956581
greentext your life from age 16

[Anonymous No.9956619]

>>9955480
it's a known fact that all straight boys are deluded into thinking they have a nice ass

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9956623]

>>9956617
>Livin in Hawaii with my single mom
>Go to Columbia
>Get degree in political science
>Work in the hood
>Go to Harvard Law
>Eventually teach at Columbia
>??????
>President of the United States

[Anonymous No.9956638]

>>9955096
This board doesn't need your complaining about how everyone here is a "brat" either, you faget. fuck off, its 4chan, its not supposed to be taken seriously in any regard

[Anonymous No.9956646]

>>9955190
Even with some of your stupid as shit posts, the fact that you post something like this and are giving actual, good advice, makes me respect you a lot more. Bravo.

[Anonymous No.9956654]

Go to /b/ if you're not interested in dscussion of any substance

[Anonymous No.9956668]

>>9956623
real nice

[Anonymous No.9956846]

>>9955111
Checked. Bateman BTFO

[Anonymous No.9956856]

>>9955422
>quit smoking
>4 days
Anon, you're infatuated. This feeling will pass soon. If it doesnt, you may be actually looking at something, but so far, it sounds like you've got 13 year old's puppy love.

[Anonymous No.9957289]

>>9955422
enjoy your broken heary when you catch her sucking her ex bf dick faggpt

[Anonymous No.9957655]

>tfw ugly

[Anonymous No.9958153]

>go to party in good fit
>friend dressed in literal thrift store clothes makes out with 2 girls at once white I get hammered alone

Why did I get into fashion again

[Anonymous No.9958165]

>had sex with fwb from Japan when she came over last weekend
>didn't finish
>wasn't fun
>regret after
>have little to no desire to have sex again

what have i done

also
>having negative existential thoughts about myself more often

[Oooo !G0DemmThXA No.9958174]

>>9958153
Good clothes will never beat confidence. Besides that though, why would you ever want to hookup with those kinds of girls?

[Oooo !G0DemmThXA No.9958177]

>Fall in love with 9/10 Asian QT.
>Date for a few months. Nothing official.
>Both of us still talking to other people because that's how dating works.
>Ask to sleep over again today because she lives in bel air which is close to my work.
>She says no.
>Tells me she just got into a relationship.
>Hes a plastic surgeon.
>Bought her tickets to Bali to visit for 3 weeks.
>Tells me we need to stop talking.

She had some emotional baggage but I was in love. Maybe I was just attracted more to her money and lifestyle?

Suicide is /fa/, right guys?

[Anonymous No.9958184]

>>9958153
you sound very insecure
nobody really cares too much how you're dressed, as long as you're presentable
things that matter are: personality, humor, hobbies, life experience, intelligence presented in a way that isn't pretentious, honest confidence that doesn't come across as cockiness and physical aspects like fitness, posture and body language
fashion can be a good hobby but if you want to improve yourself then try focusing on what matters

[Anonymous No.9958186]

>>9958177

>Asian
>Chooses money and materialism over literally everything else

Why are you surprised?

[Anonymous No.9958187]

>>9958174
Ah I've realized this too, the only girls who'd probably pay attention to me now that I'm effay will probably be superficial sluts, why would I want those girls? But I don't even dress to impress girls, being effay just kinda fills this empty space in me, at least now that I dress good people can't say shit to me because chances are I could buy their whole fit 50 times with a single piece of mine.

[Anonymous No.9958198]

>Hate my family
>Hate that my friends are the most retarded normies
>I miss my grandma and feel like i dont deserve my inheritance
>Hate that im lazy
>hate that i cant enjoy music anymore
>Hate that i cant afford what i want to
>Hate myself
a a atleast im tall that makes it all ok right?

[Anonymous No.9958201]

>>9958198
also who is this girl i wanna know

[Oooo !G0DemmThXA No.9958208]

>>9958186
She's a samsung trustfund baby and the daughter of one of the most important military leaders in the US.

She doesn't care about money at all. She wants a guy that she can take care of it.

It's me that puts money and materalistic things before everything else. (Or that's the logic I'm going by so I can not hate myself for losing her)

[Anonymous No.9958231]

>>9955170
How did you meet her?

[Anonymous No.9958271]

>Gurl
>Grew up without dad
>Mum is emotionally distant
>Always attracted to guys that I think I don't have a chance with
>As soon as they show interest lose all attraction, and feel disgusted with myself
>Now dating someone I thought I really liked
>Whenever he does something nice I feel grossed out
>Want to break up

Fuck, I'm going to end up a bitter and alone like my mum.

[Anonymous No.9958281]

>>9958271
Shut the fuck up slut

[Anonymous No.9958284]

>>9958281
Give me some advice, how do I unslut myself?
I'm trying to stick this one, maybe the gross feeling will go away?
I don't want to waste his time though.

[Anonymous No.9958292]

>>9958284
Kill yourself

[Anonymous No.9958293]

>>9958292
Nah

[Anonymous No.9958294]

>>9958284
go to a therapist to see why you feel like this, its your best bet to start understanding why you feel it before you fix it, i could give you a loose estimate on what it might be aswell if you want

[Anonymous No.9958299]

>>9958294
I'm guessing daddy issues, but yes, please, that would really help.

[Anonymous No.9958312]

>tfw 25
>mom dead, dad absentee, cut off from all family and no role models
>dropped out of college but still in college town
>too broke to move
>can't save up with current job/bills
>need to get more money, better job, be entrepreneurial or some shit
>no idea how, no will/focus
>tick tock
>up at 3:15 smoking cigarettes

[Anonymous No.9958317]

>>9952784
>anime

[Anonymous No.9958337]

>8/10 face
>8/10 body
>10/10 charisma
>Flawless fashion sense
>Super intelligent

>Car crash
>Severe concussion
>Permanent brain damage
>Forever living in a fog and nothing seems real
>Huge scar resembling a burn along my right cheek

>Looks ruined
>Can't work out because physical activity ends in dizziness, confusion and black outs
>Best shirt absolutely ruined
>Can't concentrate for shit and my short term memory is still completely fucked

>Still better looking, better dressed, more charismatic, more intelligent and somehow in better shape than literally everyone.

[Anonymous No.9958339]

Drinking games with some people the other night, everyone had to give compliments. Everyone else got personality compliments and I got told I have good style

[Anonymous No.9958464]

>>9951549
youre like 14

[Anonymous No.9958515]

>tfw 19 but actually never held hands with a girl

[Anonymous No.9958527]

>>9958339
you do know that's not a good thing, right?

[Anonymous No.9958544]

>>9956856
still havent even tought about smoking. Over a week now. Ask any smoker and he will tell you its a lot
>>9958231
met her at our class reunion party. You know the one people make 10 years after graduation.
To be honest I thought i wouldn't go, and the only reason i went there was the booze. I would make a huge mistake

[Anonymous No.9958546]

>>9958527
Pretty sure that was the point of his post

[Anonymous No.9959325]

>>9951800
Why you an asshole to your parents? such a pizza shit, as a fellow Mexican you disgust me.

[Anonymous No.9959328]

HEY NICE BLOGS YOU FUCKING CUCKS

[Anonymous No.9959468]

>>9959328
ummm its /fa/ so its kinda bloggy you fag. Also still i feel depressed.
>>9956856
It is puppy love. Im just happy, cos I never had it, but also sad, cos i lost it so fast.
I always tought love is not a thing. I mean for some maybe, but not for me. I always tought that life is about finding someone who pisses you off less than others and to try hard to make relationship. Now i somehow believe in true love, even if i got hurt now. I know that even MINE world can shake.

[Anonymous No.9959480]

>>9955482
I like what you had to say. I didn't know ree was reading up on the existentialists. Although I think his writing is kind of bland, the thinker who's thought is most in line with my beliefs is Sartre.

[Anonymous No.9959530]

>In store
>Want to buy acne jeans
>Employee gives me jeans
>Fits perfectly
>Buy it
>Find out it's for woman
>Feel uncomfortable

[Anonymous No.9959556]

>>9958187
>people can't say shit to me because my clothes are more expensive than theirs
ahh, the illusion of superiority and security

[Anonymous No.9959561]

>>9956623
respect.

[Anonymous No.9959571]

>>9958198
is your inheritance fairly significant?

[Anonymous No.9959575]

get out with this depressing shit

>tfw my left shoe is worth more than someone's entire outfit

(>tfw I have a new computer and no more access to my reactions folder :( )

[Anonymous No.9959576]

>>9959480
this is not the opie you were replying to fyi

[Anonymous No.9959580]

>>9951531
>get complimented on looks all the time
>get complimented on clothes all the time
>"model-esque" etc
>look like a twink
>lots of girls & boys wanting to hook up with me
>don't want a hookup
>want to be cute, be in a relationship, have someone to cuddle
>the one thing always missing in my life

[Anonymous No.9959591]

I'm not fashionable in the slightest, or really in a position to become fashionable. I don't know why I spend so much time here or why this is the only board I visit

[Anonymous No.9959642]

>>9959580
grill or boi?

[Anonymous No.9959666]

>>9959642
m

[Anonymous No.9959669]

>>9958284
why don't you go to bleed from your vagina or something?

[Anonymous No.9959682]

>>9958271
girls smh

wish i was gay

[Anonymous No.9959791]

>>9958271
do you not feel like you deserved to be loved/cared for or something?

[Anonymous No.9959817]

>>9951531
Haha stop wasting your money on "cops" and do something worthwhile.

/fa/ is practically the only board that routinely has threads about how the very focus of the thread (in this case, fashion) also depresses the poster.

Why the fuck would you involve yourself in something that makes you feel like this? Are you a cuck?

[Anonymous No.9959829]

>>9951611
>be me
>be studying computer science
>everyone in the class is chill and just has fun with whatever stuff they are into
>there's this one aspie nerd who constantly obsesses over how his clothes look
>we're all embaressed but feel kinda sorry for him because his life is going nowhere

[Anonymous No.9959878]

>>9958153
Because you got fucking shilled by marketers you cuck! Haha when will faggots realize fashion is for insecure, spoiled children?

[Anonymous No.9959890]

> tfw no amount of clothes will hide shit personality

[Anonymous No.9959892]

>>9959791
she obviously has daddy issues, so yes she probably doesn't feel like she deserves to be cared for

[Anonymous No.9959903]

>no friends in elementary
>no friends in high school
>no friends in uni
>no friends in work

m-maybe problems with me and not other people...

[Anonymous No.9959923]

>being in computer science school for 3 years, and computer science college for about 5 years now
>dressed like a nerd until about 2 years ago
>hung out with only nerd guys who are cool but weird when around normal people
>never got into the circle where good looking girls would prefer to be
>too late to get into it
>maybe forever with salty nerds who call me a hipster because they dress like a teenager at 27

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9959930]

>>9959923
Never too late to fix such things.

[Anonymous No.9959938]

>>9959930
how

[Anonymous No.9959941]

>girl
>sense of humour and fashion, /mu/sic taste, judgemental af but quiet about it
>model scouted 3 times but too little confidence to actually go to the agency

>lost 9/10 longterm true love bf to a bluehaired pleb tumblrcore marilyn manson fangirl

still asking myself how the fuck this happened

[Anonymous No.9959952]

>>9958337
You're just a natural

[Anonymous No.9959958]

>getting /fit/ and getting /fa/
>worry that normie women will like me and shy qts that I can relate to will be intimidated by me

[Anonymous No.9959963]

>>9959941
Pics of Manson fangirl plox.

[Anonymous No.9959972]

>>9958337
>nothing seems real
nothing is real man

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9959975]

>>9959941
Kill her and hide the body.

>>9959958
Why is intimidation a concern? Curious.

[Anonymous No.9959980]

>>9959963
ew no

[Anonymous No.9959983]

>>9959958
fuck i love the ugly dance

[Anonymous No.9959984]

>>9959975
can you tell me why you trip? i just don't get it

[sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w No.9959991]

>>9959975
This is legal advice?

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9960003]

>>9959991
She doesn't need a criminal lawyer.

She needs a CRIMINAL lawyer.

[Anonymous No.9960008]

>>9951611
>studies comp sci
>everyone else is an aspie nerd
>has no friends
You're the aspie nerd

I cut off ties with my old aspie nerd m8s that all study comp sci. The most they go outside is to get food and/or get fucked up on some shit. Most boring fucking people ever with no outside hobbies. Now I fucking chill with different groups every day and always have a group asking to hang. Stop being an aspie and get hobbies and interests.

[Anonymous No.9960013]

>me who dresses greyscale
>friend girl who dresses monochrome
>walk around and buy clothes together
>trade banter and snicker at plebs and fuccbois
>tfw building your very own /fa/ crew

[Anonymous No.9960017]

>all friends basic af
>always look overdressed when hanging out with them cause they dress so basic (even when wearing a white t-shirt and black skinny jeans I swear its bad)
>wish i knew people who i had similar interests with
>constantly judging everyone around me
>hate most of the people around me
: - (

[Anonymous No.9960028]

>>9960003
why do you always avoid responding when I ask why you trip? pleading the fifth?

[Anonymous No.9960031]

>>9951602
fuck, i failed uni and i'm so embarassed that i haven't met up or spoken with any of my normal friends in a very long time, and i keep avoiding when they ask me to hang out because i'm too fearful of the option that they might ask about what i am currently doing (which is nothing)

[Anonymous No.9960039]

>>9960013
Until you break up and she's your only friend and your life falls apart.

[Anonymous No.9960046]

>tfw getting a masters degree in a few weeks
>tfw getting a well paid grad job next month
>tfw met a girl on the other side of the atlantic who I connect with incredibly well, but distance
>tfw love socialising but friends are negative about eeveryything and hate going out
>tfw srsly, 10/10 qt 4k miles away

WHY GOD, WHYYYYYYY

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9960047]

>>9960031
I'm sure they have figured this out already and are trying to support you through a rough time.

[Anonymous No.9960049]

>>9960039
pls dont ruin the dream ;_;

[Anonymous No.9960063]

>>9960031
fuck, this is me too man

[Anonymous No.9960064]

>>9960031
>fuck, i failed uni and i'm so embarassed that i haven't met up or spoken with any of my normal friends in a very long time, and i keep avoiding when they ask me to hang out because i'm too fearful of the option that they might ask about what i am currently doing (which is nothing)

Yeah, this is literally me. Now all my friends are returning from uni for the summer in my hometown, and I'm skeptical about leaving the house because I could run into someone I know. Fuck this.

[Anonymous No.9960065]

>>9960017
why are you still there friends? get new ones. I ditched nearly all my friends after I left high school, only really have kept one because she's cool af

[Anonymous No.9960075]

>>9959938
>>9959930
nice one mate

>just fix it
>how
>idk just fix it

Why /do/ you trip if you're not even giving useful advice but just trying to appear helpful. Do you really want to be liked by /fa/ that much?

Fucking cucks these days man

[CumKaiser No.9960088]

>>9960046
Don't surround yourself with these toxic people, it does no good to your mental health. I'd know because I spend the first 18 years of my life trapped in a house with my mom who had a disgusting toxic personality. It weighs you down, man.

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9960096]

>>9959938
Sorry, just noticed this.

Go to new events. Get involved in social clubs. Lots of big cities have them. Volunteer and meet people who also volunteer. Do meetup events that you find online. Basically do everything you can to expand your social base outside of the group you have now.

Once you know enough people, invite them to things. Bam, you have a group of people you know.

And if girls don't come with that, it's fine. Turn to okcupid or something. That's where most girls our age are anyway, assuming they are single.

[Anonymous No.9960097]

>>9958177
>Date for a few months. Nothing official.
>few months
>nothing official
Bullshit,you got cucked.

[Anonymous No.9960113]

>>9960088
I'm not the anon you quoted but man I hate it. Those people constantly complain and justify why they do so. Only talking shit about other people, why they are bad, why women suck, why the world sucks. If you go on an argue with them you realize that you can't change their minds because they have an urge to see everything in a negative way. They have their own perception of why things are the way they are. If you tell them otherwise they just chuckle and say you do not see the whole picture, too young, too naive etc. This guy tries to hang out with me outside university for quite some time, but I never accepted because of the reasons above.

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9960115]

>>9960097
That's a bit unfair. It's always hard to get the big picture of why you might be turned down. It's kinda bad to try to read too much into it. It well may have been nothing he did or could have controlled.

[Anonymous No.9960118]

>gained a shit ton of weight since quitting smoking and drinking
>severe depression and agorophobia
>developed stretch marks
>finally get a job with some physical demand
>I feel useful again, getting a tan, and have lost five pounds in the past week
>started talking to my friends again

Shit ain't too bad.

[Anonymous No.9960119]

>>9958312
>not enough money
>spending money on cigarettes

Stop wasting money before complaining that you can't save any.

[Anonymous No.9960140]

>>9960063
>>9960064
really? suprises me, i thought i was acting up like a sperg being so distant and sensitive about it. worst thing is that all my friends (just the normal casual ones that is) are all doing uni without a single pushback
i've only been willing to tell one of my best friends tbh

[Anonymous No.9960152]

>>9960047
well, they're really casual friends, and i feel like whenever they inquire about me it's due to sheer curiosity, and not because they care
might be my projection, i know, but it's still something that stops me from telling them blatantly

[CumKaiser No.9960167]

>>9960113
This is the mindset of /r9k/, they will never change.

When I left for university, my whole persona changed radically. It was crazy the effect my mom had on me. Her whole personality was just depressing to me and moving out was undeniably the best direction I ever took in my life.

[Oooo !G0DemmThXA No.9960178]

>>9960097
We were both still talking to other people. I didn't realize how much I liked her until she got into a relationship. If I had noticed sooner, I would have just asked her out and made it official.

>>9960115
Thanks for backing me up man. Unfortunately it was something I could have controlled if I had realized what I had in front of me.

[Patrick Bateman !!eZg4ZGkAk6j No.9960179]

>>9960152
Get it over with, man. It's not uncommon and they aren't friends if they are dicks about it.

[Anonymous No.9960196]

>my gf isn't as pretty or /fa/ as I am
i live with the fear that everyone's going "oh wow anon could do better..." behind my back

[Anonymous No.9960206]

>>9960196
Fucking hell literally everyone on /fa/ is an insecure cuck. This is why they resort to shilling out so much for shitty trends haha

[Anonymous No.9960218]

>>9960206
>criticising someone on /fa/ for being insecure
you might as well just call me shallow so i can finish my bingo card.

[Anonymous No.9960230]

>>9955108
i change my mind and am fine with u now

[Tripsk !!NfEoAU6E/r3 No.9960242]

>>9960196
Those are things that can be changed and develop over time. They might even become less important to you over time. It's rare to find someone with matching values, goals and views. If you have those things then attractiveness and fashion sense aren't really as important

[Anonymous No.9960251]

>>9960242
Yeah I know, and it's what I think to myself all the time. I dated a model once and all we did was yell at each other, whereas this girl might nit be the prettiest thing I've ever seen but three months in and we have yet to argue.

That's some surprisingly mature insight for 4chan though, Tripsk. I expected better from you.

[Anonymous No.9960451]

>>9960242

you're so based alekzia

[Anonymous No.9960490]

>>9955124
Hahaha lol this