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>> No.9116253

>>9116239
>tfw no gf

>> No.9116263

tfw short
tfw ugly
tfw no money for /fa/ clothes
tfw no gf
tfw OP makes a shitty thread

>> No.9116267

>walk into shit-tier work
>see grill that looks like cara just with less jaw
>say hello as i walk by and she blushes
>make her order and call it out
>make eye contact and she quickly looks away and blushes again
>comes back hour later and starts talking to me
>she extremely interesting and intelligent
>manager pulls me aside before I can slip her my #
>willlikelyneverseeheragain.jpg

>> No.9116268
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9116268

>tfw bullies

>>9114802
>>9114855

>> No.9116273

>>9116239

>tfw rich, lazy and depressed, but have to make effort to finish education for my sense of self-worth

>> No.9116286
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9116286

>tfw you were an asshole to your best friend and you're not best friends anymore

>> No.9116296
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9116296

>>9116268
I don't know that feel.

>> No.9116323

>haha I used to dress like shit 2 years ago, so glad I fixed that
>every 2 years

>> No.9116361
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9116361

last night
>go to party
>get plastered af
>hit on qt azn gril
>she seems into me- touching me, laughing at my jokes etc
>ask for her number before i leave
>adds me on fb the next day

shit i had no idea it was this easy
guess im not as autistic as i thought i was

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9116364

I'm so looking forward to being alone this coming Christmas, again.

>> No.9116372
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9116372

>tfw you see your reflection on the neck plate of your guitar

>> No.9116377

>>9116372
>on phone
>put it to sleep
>catch reflection in the blackness of the blank screen
>try and hold back bile

>> No.9116386
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9116386

>dress like shit
>had a qt gf
>too idiot to keep her aside me
3 months later
>not a couple anymore
>fall in love w/her
>began to dress better so she would repent not being with me
>we still like eachother
>dress full black memecore
>"wow anon, you dress so cool, and look so sexy, so bad we aren't together anymore"
>tfw
>mfw
T-these are /fa/ related feels, r-right?

>> No.9116418

>>9116263
i know u r lesbo but i will be your bf if you want

think of me as a male beard :)))

>> No.9116422

>>9116268
hey kingfatsacks u forgot ur trip

>> No.9116423

>tfw pet mantis laid 2 eggs

what am i supposed to do with all these baby mantises

>> No.9116430

>tfw poor and can't afford nice clothes

>> No.9116434

>>9116423
You could eat them

>> No.9116435

>>9116239
>head to toe full flex mode, outfit retails for 8K excluding jewelry
>no one says shit
>midterms and coffee/Xanax mode, hoodie/jeans/sneakers
>OMG are you a model
U wot

>> No.9116446

>tfw always tell myself I'll gather the courage to wear the weird ass undercoverism jacket tomorrow
>tfw never go through with it

>> No.9116465
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9116465

>tfw 20th birthday tomorrow
>tfw your parents call and you have to lie about having fun plans

I'll be home drinking coffee and learning web development frameworks

>> No.9116474

>tfw see girls mirrin
>too autist to approach them and idk what to say
>end up acting aloof and hope they approach me
How do o talk to grills, /fa/

>> No.9116478

>>9116474
who cares let them make first move if they really about it

>> No.9116485

>>9116465
Are you me? Except my 20th is on Friday.

>> No.9116486

>>9116474
>tfw you're left wandering, like a Hew, about town with no one to hang out with and nothing to do aside from study

>> No.9116487

>>9116435
>jewelry
r u gril

>> No.9116489

>>9116263
no such thing as too short for a girl

>> No.9116490

>>9116478
When has this ever worked for someone that wasn't gods gift to women?

>> No.9116494

>>9116465
>>9116485

get out while you can, turning 23 and I still care about this shit-tier cartoon BBS

>> No.9116495

>>9116485
At least we're both Sagittarius, truly the best of the astral signs.

Do you live in the PNW?

>> No.9116505

>tfw chubby body but skinny enough to wear good fits
>hate my body, like my.face
>top tier facial structure that has define jaw, full eyebrows, and high cheekbones even though I'm chubby
>think about how I'd be at god tier if I lost a few kilos
>don't have motivation
>convince myself I'm fine like this
Feels bad man

>> No.9116511

>>9116494
I'm turning 23 next month. I've literally done nothing with my life except post on 4chan, and it started to hit me this month. I'm in the middle of a sudden spiral of depression and self-loathing.

Listen to this guy. Get the fuck out.

>> No.9116512

>>9116478
lol
beta as fuck
the only ppl who say this have low self-confidence
they dont pull either

>> No.9116516

>>9116487
>only girls wear jewlery!!11one xD

>> No.9116522

>fa as fuck when I lived in Italy. Got nice clothes for cheap, stood put since Eurasian, wore layered fits
>moved to Bali
>can only wear T-shirt and shorts since the fucking heat
>no longer /fa
>closet filled with nice fits and jackets
>resort to cutting my armani jeans to make shorts
H-help me, /fa/

>> No.9116541

>>9116522
>my armani jeans
dood u were never /fa/ lol

>> No.9116543

>>9116522
>armani
are you a 90s rapper?

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9116575

>at concert and crowd goes apeshit
>drink gets knocked out of my hand onto my urban sweat hoodie
>it dries and my hoodie is still 100% clean, and smells good (faint smell of cigarettes and the fragrance i use)

and i didnt even get caught for underage drinking

>> No.9116577

>>9116495
Nope, Australia.

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9116582

>>9116541
>>9116543
"/fa/ told me Armani is shit so it must be true!"
- A Rick Owens fan

>> No.9116588

>>9116582
>Implying you can afford Emporio Armani
>Implying they weren't Armani Exchange

>> No.9116596

>>9116582
Oh god please leave tthis gay as board it already has cancer it doesn't need aids

>> No.9116606

>tfw you stand alone outside the bar waiting for your friend to come out of the bathroom like a pleb
>tfw you don't know which stance looks most./fa/ and stand there holding your hipa

>> No.9116608

>>9116606
What. Hands on hips? You have pockets.

>> No.9116625

>>9116608
Looks weird and makes you look hunchback

>> No.9116638

>>9116625
Better than looking like you're waiting for your boyfriend to finish blowing some guy at a hole.

>> No.9116639

>>9116323
iktf too well

>> No.9116661

>>9116263
Koishi yr internet presence makes me depressed

>> No.9116668
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9116668

>at work
>just chillin cause done most of the stuff and in my random gaze I look out the window
>see qt azn grill wearing teashades, round hat and a short skirt sitting on bench outside
>looks like she walked right out of the book art for a murakami novel
>10/10 fall in love instantly
>she gets up and walks off after a few mins
>will never see her again

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9116754

>buy clothes
>year passes
>tfw you don't like those clothes anymore
2015 is the year I learn how to buy clothes I truly like.

>> No.9116916

>>9116263
cheer up dude

you seem like you could be a really positive guy

don't be so negative all the time

>> No.9116918

>>9116423
post pics

>> No.9116927

>>9116606
hands in pockets
thumbs outside
head up
back straight
approachable face

ur welcome

>> No.9116940

>>9116511
How the FUCK do I get out? I'm 18 years old, ending my first semester of College without any friends. I talk to a lot of people in my classes, I just never do anything with anyone. I spend money on anime/anime figures (JESUS WHY) and Video Games that I rarely play. /toy/ and /v/ have completely fucked with my head.
I still like all this shit, I just need to find a way to get out, make friends, and maybe start a relationship.
Help me /fa/

>> No.9116947

>>9116668
>murakami novel
And then I heard Jazz music, so I followed the cat into a bar, and it was like I was transported into a surreal version of the real world, and there was tofu and more cats, and classical music instead of jazz.

Murakami is writers workshop YA-postmodern trash. Even in Japanese, it's still trash.

>> No.9116961

>>9116947
actually liked the latest book
saw the hardcover at a booksore, read first chapter, but didnt buy cuz paperbacks are cooler

>> No.9116968

>>9116927
I would but I'm not fucking CIA

>> No.9116975

>>9116940
its good that u recognize ur problem

download an app to limit ur time on 4chan.org (stayfocusd for Chrome)

1 hour a day only

>i talk to a lot of people in my class, i just never do anything with anyone

your fault
they don't dislike you
they just think you're too busy to hang out with them because you never hang out with them

also once u hang out with them u need to start inviting them to things too

let them know ur available
ask "what are u doing this weekend"
>oh anon im going to the gym
"hey that sounds cool could i join u guys"
>sure

easy right?

social skills:
mandatory reading: "how 2 win friends and influence people" - basic background
"models" by mark manson - practical guide on starting a relationship like a step by step tutorial to meet people and talk to them even if ur autistic (not a gay pickup book i swear)
"what everybody is saying' by an fbi investigator - teaches u how to read body language

control ur spendings
set a limit of how many % of ur income ur willing to spend on gay shit like games and clothing and animes
also 10% of ur income goes into savings in case u need the money, no exceptions
there's a great mobile app called "mint" for that

if u think anime and gaming and fashion are cool join a club at ur school too, at least u can make friends

hope this helps anon let me know if u need more advice

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9116976

>be on the metro
>be wearing comfy mode scarf, bomber and 511s
>there is a couple sitting across from me
>girl that was sitting with her boyfriend mired me
>I looked at the boyfriend in the eyes and he had this look of utter defeat
>tfw I did not enjoy the girls mire after this
>take out my phone and try to not look at the cure girl
>I just wanted to hug the guy and say it'll be alright

>> No.9116978

>>9116968
have some self-confidence dude
having proper posture doesnt make u a secret agent lmao

>> No.9116982

>>9116976
w2c scarf and bomber

>> No.9116996

>>9116978
Approachable face is hard as fuck when you have a male resting bitch face

>> No.9116997

>>9116975
Thanks anon I really appreciate you writing out this guide

A problem I have is that I go to a community college so a lot of the people I talk to are older so it would be strange to ask something like that I think. Next semester I will be sure to sit next to younger people.

I will be sure to pick up those books/find them online. They sound very interesting

I do control my spending but I need to work on it. A lot of stuff that I have been looking forward too came out this month so it has felt like I have spent a lot. Plus black friday coming up and I'm picking up a few things then. Theres not really any games that I'm looking forward to next year so I will probably just finish what I have and ignore the new/try too. I have 11 grand saved up from working so I think that it pretty good.

Like I said its a community college, so those kinds of clubs aren't there

Any additional advice is appreciated

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9117006

>>9116982
got a chunky black scarf from jack and jones and then a navy wool bomber from top man

>tfw poor

>> No.9117070

>>9116996
no problem

just try to appear confident and not like you're trying to fade into the shadows
don't lead against anything
have a strong gaze and look around like you own the bar

everybody with relaxed facial muscles probably has a "resting bitch face"

just try to smile a bit mate :)

>>9116997
glad to help friend

unless they're 30 and have completely different interests then you'd have a hard time finding something in common. it's still good to practice your conversational skills

but a couple years difference shouldn't be too much, might as well try!

yeah if you're going to read anything at all, those are the 3 i'd say will actually change your life (they did for me)

also look into http://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/top/?sort=top&t=all

some actually interesting tips there (sorry guys i know reddit is gay)

also check out mark manson's blog, really interesting life tips

yep the thing with boards like /fa/ is they're so focused on spending money. you see posts about "tfw no job", "tfw broke" etc. yet people still try to buy things outside of their means. it's good you know how to save.

try meetup.org and search your hobbies. lots of nice groups of people with common interests in pretty much any city

meetup is also good if you want to pick up a new hobby and meet likeminded people like photography or bitcoins or 3d printing (i've done these actually)

if there isn't one for what ur interested in, try setting up ur own meetup and see if anybody wants to join

and install something to limit ur time like right now since this forum is a huge distraction

Also regarding time management take a look at this: http://www.jamesmaa.com/2012/12/02/james-maas-productivity-hacking-guide/

You don't need to go full blown autistic with the robotic calendar but you can if you want
>>9117006
cool mate
tbh nothing wrong with not spending a lot of money
it's your money, who cares how a bunch of internet strangers tell u to spend it

>> No.9117077

>>9116997
I'm just spewing out random shit now but also relating to time management, do you have a to do list? Just set up one on your phone or a notebook and list things you need to get done

"Right away" things like groceries and homework and going to the gym
"Longterm" things like developing a program or writing a novel or finishing a painting whatever kind of productive thing you want to do

Always always Finish right away stuff before u play games or browse the World Wide Web

Work first play later, just get into the habit

Longterm stuff you should dedicate a few hours a week for

If u have any questions about anything just ask man

>> No.9117087

>>9116961
Not him, but it's a good book, and less surrealist than most of his other stuff. I won't spoil it, but worth buying.

>> No.9117123

guys, i actually kinda have a girlfriend now but she wants to wear my sweaters and shit and i know i'm not going to see it again for a while so I don't want to give them to her but i don't want to be unromantic either. what should i say/do?

>> No.9117124
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9117124

i really hate thinking about the future
seeing the threads here about effay college courses, effay schools makes me uncomfortable and i avoid those threads
im told that i have t o think about what im doing next year, probably just going back for my second year of university - i didnt have a very good first year so im reluctant to think about what i will be doing next year
i dont have any overarching goals. my current goal is, while not effay, to get into a private league for a video game (dota, NEL) before the end of the christmas holidays
apart from that i sort of want to go to school in japan but i wouldnt be able to manage myself and handle homesickness

thanks for letting me blog im going to bed now

>> No.9117127

>>9116975

I think a lot of people on here need to take notice of this post. It has a lot of value.

>> No.9117153

>>9117123
just say, i'm sorry but i don't share clothes. i am happy sharing many things with you, including my time and my attention and my affection. but i don't share clothes, this is just a boundary that i have and i'm not open to changing it. if you like the type of clothes that i wear, i'd be happy to help you find the same or similar items for yourself - then we can do it together.

>> No.9117160

>>9117153
This is the gayest thing I have ever read

>> No.9117166

>>9117153
>>9117160

i mean, i appreciate it though. i'll try to say something simple and similar to this without stuttering

>s-sorry

>> No.9117170

>>9116947

True, but the aesthetic she was rocking made me lust for love.

>> No.9117172

>>9116940
grow out of the anime shit

>> No.9117176

>>9116975
>"hey that sounds cool could i join u guys"

lel, that's the 505 to coming off like a creep.

>> No.9117177

>tfw defined jaw, high cheekbones, good facial hair growth, manly eyebrows
>massive, fucking anime-tier eyes cancel everything out and make me look like a girl

If I ever get a buzzcut or shave my head I will literally look like a girl with stubble

>tfw no one else knows this feel

>> No.9117179

>>9117124
i saw so many weeaboo exchange kids get eaten alive during my time living in japan, it was satisfying. be sure you want to study in Japan for the right reasons.

>> No.9117197

>>9117124
life isn't about being "effay" aka pleasing a bunch of online strangers

who cares if your hobbies or university or major aren't "effay"

All people do in those threads is list their own hobbies/schools anyways

you need to find something to motivate yourself.

Where are you headed with your life?

Why are you in school? Would you be happy with doing what you're doing today if you knew you are going to die tomorrow? (yes I know this question is lame but think about it)

Find a reason to motivate yourself be it your own education, future money, status, idk

This is the reason why you are working hard to help your future self

And are you sure you even want to go to japan? I know it's been glamorized especially on this forum with japanese culture and girls and whatever u guys post about on 4chan. but tbh its a country like any other: people grow up, they work, they die. Try visiting a few places in japan as a tourist first before you commit. Traveling is great just to disconnect yourself from your surroundings and see what other cultures have in common (some travel writers call this "finding yourself" when they try to be deep and edgy)

I would insert a quote from some philosopher here except I don't remember the wording or who said it, but basically you need to have some sort of longterm goal to be happy with life

and while gaming is cool, you need to find something productive too

Set some long term goals, write them down in a notebook and commit to them

Every month look back and see how far you've went

successful people are producers; the rest are consumers, remember that

>> No.9117201

>>9117176
you get the gist of what I mean dude hopefully, if you really don't just ask

not gonna transcribe a full conversation for you so it doesn't sound out of place sorry

>>9117179
yep

>>9117160
>>9117166
open communication is important in a relationship. >>9117153
is a mature way to clearly communicate what he thinks, I don't see anything "gay" about that

>>9117127
thanks man
sorry it's so badly written
I'm typing too fast on a tiny touchscreen blatantly disregarding grammar (really late right now but can't sleep lmao) but hopefully my writing is readable

and sorry for writing too much, I know somebody is going to call me autistic or gay for offering advice but idc tbh

>> No.9117202

>>9117177
are your eyes blue? i might know this feel

>> No.9117204

>>9117087
thanks, definitely planning to this weekend

i like the way it's written, even though it's translated, it's still interesting to read if you know what I mean

>> No.9117213

>>9117176

not really dude

like I definitely wouldn't use that wording but assuming you have spoken to them enough to actually have contact with them outside of school/work or whatever then chances are that they will like you enough to not turn you down

imagine you were talking to this guy/girl who you got along with pretty well and then they messaged you asking if they could hang out. you probably wouldn't think much of it unless you didnt really like them

and if they dont wanna hang out and think you are weird for asking then go hang out with the other 7 billion people in the world. better to ask and come off as creepy than be a beta nerd who never hangs out with anyone

>> No.9117217

>>9117077
better to use the app called AnyDo for reminders and stuff,it can get pretty annoying to procrastinate tasks

>> No.9117222

>>9117217
Yep that is a good one, thanks. I also heard Todoist and a few others are good, check the app/play store. Habitrpg is pretty neat too, but I don't find it any better than regular todo apps.

>>9117213
Thanks, that's a great explanation.

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9117232

Remember kids we all have our youth as the best asset

>>9117222
the worst thing is not finding anything to do with as little money involved as possible
been getting into woodworking and running to let off steam and be productive,sometimes i have doubts on the course im in and only get excited thinking about the end product i can produce
idk why i responded to u btw

>> No.9117237

>>9117177
like two years ago i saw this german dude on a train in australia he had the largest and brightest eyes i had ever seen on a human being. He was adorable.

>> No.9117246

>>9117237

are you asian?

>> No.9117282

>>9117232
No worries mate. To be honest, one of my goals in life is to just never have to worry about money. Imo it just opens more possibilities, you have more time to pursue your interests, you don't need to worry about not being able to pay bills etc.

Since we're doing this, here's my little rant/blog (apologies to everyone) I own a few news sites (yeah i know I don't type like it right now lol), spent thousands over the summer setting them up, paying writers, getting them ready to be google news approved etc.

For the past couple months I've just been so busy with work and also procrastinating that I haven't even had time to touch them, they haven't been updated almost 2 months now and fuck I've already put in so much money, not gonna just let it go to waste

My to-do list (tbh dont know why I'm even posting here, I guess you guys can hold me accountable or something):
>post listing to find new writers tomorrow
>also revise essay, do some practice problems if I have time
>monday afternoon setup cloudflare properly, figure out how to fix error establishing database connection (restarting the server will probably work)
>have the site fully running before Black Friday (don't ask why)

And I know what you mean, it just feels great to see the fruits of your labour

Was gonna sign up for workshop this year but no room in my schedule, already taking a buttload of courses :(

Running is p cool, do you follow any particular program? I ran 1km at the gym today with some friends, prob could have gone for 1 more (I did last week) but they got tired lol. played volleyball with some grills and lifted weights (I'm still a beginner) also we were going to eat at a restaurant but just ended up tearing up a chicken from the supermarket and eating it with our hands lmao. I was pretty much socially autistic just one year ago so I'm pretty happy with where my life is at the moment.

Anyways cheers mate

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9117366

>some qt asian girl i barely now was wearing a dope flannel on friday
>too scared to send her a message to ask her about where she bought it
>tfw

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9117438

>tfw barely meet friends/people anymore since I graduated
>tfw live one hour from closest city
>tfw can't just take a walk trough the streets after work
>tfw can't wear my fits to work because of dress code
>tfw feels like I'm just wasting my time, sure I'm making money but what for?
why even bother being /fa/ when all you do is work, get home, stroll around the house for a couple of hours then sleep?
I'm trying to get out of here but jobs and apartments are really hard to find in my area.

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9117444

>bad acne scars
>some girls still come up to me and talk to me
>most of them say they like the way I dress
>mfw dress like shit by /fa/ standards
>have gotten numbers and laid because of my fits ever since I started lurking /fa/ which was like 8 months ago

I mean it could be worse r-right?

>> No.9117459

>>9117438
Try getting a hobby?

Other than fashion of course

>> No.9117507

>Move to new city (Leeds, UK)
>No friends
>2scared2makesome
>Pretty /fa/
>4chan/fa/ are my only friends
>Feels.jpg

>> No.9117520

>>9116975
Hey /biz/, nice of you to stop by.

>> No.9117530

>>9117366
You go: "Hey, you were wearing this awesome flannel today. Looked great. What was it?"

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9117531

>tfw have been in contact with too many girls
>they text me asking what i'm doing, they wanna meet up, wanna make 김치찌개 with me, drink etc etc
>everytime i talk to my flatmate about what i did i have to respond with "nah it was another girl" and then i laugh awkwardly because i feel like a fuccen playboy (not good feeling tbh)
>have to reject/ignore the other girls cos i'm seeing someone and i don't care about them, feels bad as they just wanted to hang out

>> No.9117538

>>9117531
>they just wanna hang out
Then what the fuck is the problem?

>> No.9117554

>>9117202
thankfully green

blue would qualify me for trap mode

>> No.9117562

>>9117531
i know this feel
i don't know how to turn them down
so many horny bitches mang

>> No.9117573

>ex gf was fa as fuck
>looked like a fucking model
>beautiful
>9/10
>but depressed
>bad chemistry


>new 'gf'
>5/10
>lots of sex
>funny
>parents like her better
>rebound

>tfw will never find an attractive model who doesn't dump me

>> No.9117581

>>9117573
how do you end up in a relationship with someone you have bad chemistry with?

>> No.9117584

>>9117581
we were madly in love for about a year and then she became depressed again and it destroyed the relationship. so from being good it turned bad

>> No.9117588

>>9117584
how can you be depressed when you look like a model ?

>> No.9117594

>>9117588
cuz it's a diagnosis retard

>> No.9117598

>>9117594
so what ? pretty people dont have to worry about anything

>> No.9117602

>>9117538
cos i have to pay for dinner (for myself) and just sometimes it's at inconvenient times when i have plans with someone else, it just feels bad man to turn down someone and/or "hanging out" with someone at 9pm on a friday when i know that they're interested in me but i have to dodge the ball

>> No.9117606

>>9117602
Are you seriously feeling depressed because people like you?

>> No.9117631

>>9117588
>>9117598
fuck off

>> No.9117667
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>>9116239
Five more pounds.
Five more pounds.
Five more pounds.
Five more pounds.
Five more FUCKING pounds, /fa/, I'm so fucking CLOSE and these LAST. FIVE. FUCKING. POUNDS WON'T FUCKING GO AWAY.

Fuck.

Already taken 50mg of amphetamines and 400mg of caffeine today but I want to get fucking coffee anyway and I won't, I'll just get more fucking menthols to smoke like a fucking faggot.

>> No.9117682

>tfw wish I was 6'2 so I csn wear overcoats and parkas
>tfw 5'6 manlet instead

Do they make little kids parkas and overcoats any where??

>> No.9117708

>>9117682
Your height is not whats keeping you from wearing parkas, it's your confidence you idiot. Kanye is about your height and he wears them all the time without looking like a hobbit in a cloak(usually)

>> No.9117711
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9117711

>tfw got a compliment on my christmassy sweater today
>made my day

going to try to give more compliments to people as it seems to be so small but still a big thing for the other person

>> No.9117735

>>9117667
400mg of caffiene? wtf

>> No.9117738

>>9117667
>measuring fat by weight and not percentage

you have only yourself to blame.

>> No.9118030

>tfw I dress like a slavic weeaboo

>> No.9118034

>>9117520
I actually don't like that board.

There's too much of a "get rich quick" mentality there. There are lots of people who get persuaded to start daytrading, buying stocks etc. when they have no idea what they're doing and they'll probably end up losing money. Also kids trying to earn cents a day with whatever the latest online money making trend is (instagram, surveys, selling t-shirts, i don't even know). Kinda sad really. But thanks.

>>9117588
Depression is a state of mind, not a physical appearance.

>>9117598
I don't know if you're trolling or you're just don't know, but if it's the latter, please look up depression on Google and read up on it a bit.

>>9117606
Sounds more like he just feels bad because he doesn't like having to avoid them.

>>9117667
Please stay safe.

>> No.9118071

Fucked a girl for the first time last week. We're both 21 but it was her first time too. Shit was kinda cash but couldn't cum so didn't enjoy it as much as I could have. And got bare tired. I don't know if should text her again to meet up though? I don't want a relationship, I'd just wanna fuck but I don't wanna lead her on either. What do?

>> No.9118075

>>9118071
open communication

you're adults

clearly explain your thoughts

you're not in middle school any more, no need to play the guessy game

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>>9116323

>> No.9118226

>>9116286
exactly happened to me yesterday, it feels worse than a breakup- no gf, no bf.

>> No.9118231

>>9118226
can you apologize

>> No.9118255

>>9116485
my 19th is on friday, here in shitty Nova Scotia

>> No.9118291
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>>9118231
nah wrote him a apology and farewell letter, things will never be the same

>> No.9118320

>>9118291
tbh that's what real friends are for, they're there when you're going through bad time, and you'll be there for them. don't consider yourself a burden

it's not like he hates you or anything, writing a letter is a bit dramatic don't you think?

>it feels worse than a breakup

just tell him how you feel, see what he thinks dude, life isn't a sad tv show

i have no idea what situation you're in but it's your decision i guess, since you've already thought it through carefully

>> No.9118341

>>9118320
i guess your're right, but no matter what i do, i cant mend it to the way things were. That just hurts- i have already said too much to him. Thanks for the advice- ill talk to him too.

>> No.9118371

>>9118341
yeah, that's a good idea.

i don't know you or him, but just try to think about it from his point of view for a second:

you have a friend who's going through hard times. you know he's said some mean things because he's going through so much stress or maybe he has good intentions but he isn't expressing his thoughts properly. still, you're there for him always, because you genuinely appreciate his company, and you care about him and want him to be better.

suddenly he decides he wants to break off with you, how does that make you feel?

don't you think it's kind of selfish in a way, even though you think you mean it for good?

anyways just my thoughts mate

try and sit down for a coffee or something and just let him know everything you think

>> No.9118378

>>9116267
are you polish?

>> No.9118385

>tfw didn't do community service
>tfw got to see my P.O tomorrow
>tfw going 2 jail

Life is suffering

>> No.9118392

>>9118385
lmao how did you get into probation?

>> No.9118394

>>9118385
I'm pretty sure you must have earned that. Take responsibilities for your actions you filthy worm, it's not life's fault that you are a lowlife

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>>9118394
harsh but true

on another note: anybody else think this girl is a qt? watching the first episode of house of cards right now

>> No.9118423

>>9116495
>caring about signs

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>>9116239
>finally decide to bid on a pair of shoes (similar to dream shoes) on eBay
>no one bids against me
>same day dream shoes come up in my size finally
>same price as shoes I bid on, no reserve
>can't afford both

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9118433

>>9118406
damn she's so cute

>>9118427
are you going broke just to buy clothes?

>> No.9118451

>>9118433
well like I could afford both but it would mean not having money for Christmas gifts for my family

>> No.9118455

>>9118406
>>9118433
definitely qt

Isn't she the sister of Rooney Mara?

>> No.9118459

>tfw you wouldnt get into most clubs or venues in the clothes you enjoy wearing the most

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>>9118459
there's a time and place for everything

>>9118455
yep i think so

>> No.9118558

dont bother being cool it will not last

>> No.9118581

>>9118558
wtf does this mean

i am forever cool

>> No.9118595

>>9118581
nah you'll get old and you wont get what's in, being cool isn't worth the effort. best you can do is die young

>> No.9118643

>>9118255

19th on Saturday, Northwest US

>> No.9118660

>tfw friend from HS is in town for Thanksgiving and I'm having fun and shit hanging out with him
>tfw I'm going to go back to never doing anything when he goes back to Uni after break

>> No.9118662

>find great looking shoes
>they don't make smaller than EU41
>tfw babby feet

>> No.9118675

>>9118427

Just message the seller for the similar shoes saying something came up and you can't afford and see if they can remove your bid.

>> No.9118705

>>9116361
Good anon, better than me. Slept in the same bed with a qt, didn't touch her and respected her space while using my own blanket. I'm hopeless.

>> No.9118718

>be dressed like shit
>girl looks at me
>didn't do anything but I am certain she wants to fuck

this is like every story in this thread. Wow guys you are so cool I bet she really wanted you to take her home so you can show her your fashion inspo folder and all the epic comments you posted on 4chan

>> No.9118743

>>9116997
>not looking foward to MGSV

>> No.9118770

>tfw 3 month long dry streak
>tfw looking dope almost makes up for it, altho i'm still bummed out about it tbh
>tfw got my suede chelseas dirty and i dont know how to clean them

>> No.9118786

>>9117530
T-thanks anon, i'm gonna do it.

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>>9118595
I don't want to grow old either, but I accept it's a fact of life.

And aren't we already falling out of the loop? We consider 9gag, pewdiepie, and "epic maymays" to be retarded, even though it's what's "in" with today's younger generation.

I don't want to die young; I just want to be able to say on my deathbed that I've done everything I've wanted to with my life.

>>9118705
As long as you were respectful. And you're scared of rejection, like anyone else. You're not hopeless.

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tfw Puffy jacket wanker

>> No.9119134

>>9118890
i dont get this joke

>> No.9119217

>>9116239
>no money, literally alternate between same 3 fits during the week because not enough clothes
>no time, working 2 jobs+school
>no gf
>this is supposed to be the best 4 years of my life

>> No.9119226

>>9119217
make every day your best.

>> No.9119242

>>9119226
Thanks anon. I try.

>> No.9119284

>tfw babyface

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9119923

>phone vibrates
>pls be a text from a grill
>pls be a text from a friend
>it's always the reminder text for the phone bill

>> No.9119933

>Walking through town
>all the /fa/ girls always seem to travel alone
>especial the asian girls
>far too afraid to approach them

I just hope one day I'm effay enough to catch at least a glance form one of them
Maybe then I'll have to confidence to say hi

>> No.9119938

>tfw bestfriends with extremely likeminded guy only difference is I browse 4chan
>never share any good or bad feelings or relationship updates ever
>do this for the past 13 years
>tfw unsure if we're bestfriends or not

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>>9117711
>tfw want to be as comfy as comfy guy
>mfw starting to get jealous of his comf

>> No.9119946

>>9119933
I'm sorry but you're not going anywhere with that attitude. People are too busy with their own lives to care about you. If you want to be a part of someone's life, then you need to make the move to introduce yourself. If they don't like you, then that's too bad for them. You can forget about them, and they'll forget about you. There are more people out there.

>> No.9119959

>>9116386

>almost 2015
>dressing for girls

ISHYGDDT.jpg

>> No.9119961

>>9116465
>tfw now youre 20 and no ones wished you a happy birthday

>> No.9119966

>>9119961
Happy birthday, anon!

>> No.9119969

>>9119946
thanks

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>>9119969
no problem :)

>> No.9119980

>>9119961
happy birthday anon
>tfw my birthday is tomorrow
>tfw your parents made you on Valentines day

>> No.9120009

>>9119961
>>9116465
happy birthday dudes!
hope this year will be better than last year for both of you :)

>> No.9120018

>>9118821
>And aren't we already falling out of the loop? We consider 9gag, pewdiepie, and "epic maymays" to be retarded, even though it's what's "in" with today's younger generation.

damn man this is actually kinda fucking with me