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How do you know if you're ugly?

>> No.7441317

If you have to ask...

>> No.7441318

no bitches

>> No.7441325

reddit.com/r/amiugly

Do it faggot. They are probably nicer than /soc/

>> No.7441339

>>7441325
>/soc/

/soc/ only likes teenage boys with Justin Bieber haircuts and African ear studs.

>> No.7441360

How do people act around ugly people?
How do people act around attractive people?

>> No.7441379
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7441379

>tfw I've been called hot, cute, handsome but also ugly one time

I don't know

>> No.7441381

>>7441317
I dunno about this. I am ugly, I don't need to ask people.

>> No.7441382

>>7441360
>How do people act around ugly people?
People look at you or try not to look at you. If you catch them doing either they laugh or smile nervously or just quickly look away.
>How do people act around attractive people?
People look at you or try not to look at you. If you catch them doing either they laugh or smile nervously or just quickly look away.

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>>7441382

>> No.7441463

Hot girls don't ask you out

>> No.7441482
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>>7441379

I know this feel. You win some you lose some, I guess.

>> No.7441983

>>7441313
>tfw "Anon, if you knew how attractive you were you would pull all the bitches, you just need more confidence."
>tfw I can't look in the mirror without hating myself, and the way I look

>> No.7441990

>>7441983
well okay then continue being a little bitch

>> No.7441999

>>7441983

hahah this feel

>look in the mirror and feel fat
>get compliments on how skinny i look (used to be fat)

>> No.7442009

To be honest I think I look pretty good myself although I see lots of flaws in my face such as a huge nose or a big forehead. I don't know, I just always think like damn that niggas sexy.

>> No.7442061

SOmetimes i see myself in the mirror and am like

"yeah man you sexy 8/10"

sometimes im like

"wtf 3 - 5/10"

>> No.7442068

I know I'm pretty attractive, when I look in the mirror or see a photo or video of myself I look attractive and I've get told I'm good looking by women quite often, I've never had trouble getting pretty gfs.

But if there's no mirrors near me and I can't see my face I automatically assume I'm ugly as fuck at that moment.

>> No.7442070

people call me handsome

I feel i'm fairly handsome

still never had a gf

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>> No.7442246

>>7442068

weird, I feel kind of similiar to this. People say I'm skinny all the time, I'm 67kg and 184cm but I still feel like I ahve 2much fat

>> No.7442253

Are the only people who call you handsome your extended family and friends of your mom?
Then you probably are.

And I'm right there w/ you, man.

>> No.7442261

>tfw get called handsome by non family
>never ever called handsome by any family

>> No.7442264

>tfw pretty, cute, handsome but girls aren't into effeminate brown boys

>> No.7442270

>>7442253
yeah like older women always call me handsome
and relatives

this mean i am ugly?

>> No.7442277

>>7442270
not necessarily, but if those are the ONLY people that compliment you, you're probably not a stunner.

doesn't mean you're ugly, though.
don't listen to >>7442253

>> No.7442289

Basically if you are confident and a large women react negatively or neutrally to it. If you are at least average, women will react almost automatically positively.

>> No.7442290

I think I look good in the mirror, but I realize I'm probably delusional because girls don't ask me out.

>> No.7442297

>>7442290
Girls never ask out, idiot.

>> No.7442301

>>7442290
Where do you live?
You can't expect girls to be asking YOU out (though we can all wish)

>> No.7442309

>>7441382
my god this is so fucking true.
here on /fa/ i've already been called cute, masculine, faggot, ugly fucking horrendous jew, pretty boy.

and its kinda like this in real life too, i guess its about people tastes, some people find my ugly as fuck, but other think that im pretty.

>> No.7442306

>>7442297
I have seen an incredible amount of guys saying things like this lately. How the fuck do this many people have the impression that girls will reliably ask you out?

>> No.7442307

>>7442290
Lol, if a girl you don't know talks to you and gets closer than normal while doing it and smiles a lot, that's them asking you to ask them out.

>> No.7442311

>only ever complimented on my hair
>not a single male relative kept their hair past thirty

Srsly tho it's 2013 and male pattern baldness still exists?

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>tfw grills compliment you on your jaw line and cheekbones

>> No.7442321

>>7442309
Here it depends. A lot of people here are into androgyny while in real life you would judge that based on culture and location.

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>tfw people stare at me
>not sure if it's because i'm ugly or attractive

>> No.7442327

>>7442311
plugs look good now, just don't be poor

>> No.7442328

All you can do is ask for honesty from peers/friends/strangers/the internet

>> No.7442329

>>7441379
This one fat girl always called me ugly. I found out she actually liked me the year later by my gf that was friends with her. lol

>> No.7442336

>>7442328
>post on /soc/ threads
>7
>8
>6.75
>7.5
>7
>7
>7
>9
>7.5
>7
>7.75
>8
>7
>7.5

W-will I die a virgin?

>> No.7442337

>>7442307
>grils do this
>back away from them because autistic about personal space

Tfw

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>>7442337
yfw

>> No.7442369

White and asian girls think I'm attractive
Black girls think I'm a pussy

I want to fuck a black girl so bad

>> No.7442370

>>7442322
lots of middle aged women like to stare at me am i some kind of milf magnet

>> No.7442373

>>7442328
yeah

idk about friends though since like if they are good friends they arent gonna say you are ugly
but then does that make them bad friends?

anyways you are attractive man

>> No.7442381
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7442381

Someone will find me attractive...

Eventually...

>> No.7442388

>>7442336

consider asking multiple sources

also - try to take an accurate, non-mirrored photo

I look rather different when mirrored and not-mirrored

>> No.7442394

>>7442369
The only grills who've ever told me I'm cute are negresses.

I don't even like negros, nor do I know what it is about me that makes them attracted to me.

>> No.7442401

>>7442394
Do you have broad shoulders

>> No.7442402

>>7442307
>9/10 does this to me
>don't think anything of it because she has a boyfriend

WHYYY

>> No.7442404

i literally look so different depending on how much light there is on me dear fuck

>> No.7442413

>>7442381
knew that feel.
have a gf now
you're going to be alright, anon.

>> No.7442411

>>7442394
I think it's because they aren't restrained as much as white girls. There's this on black girl in class who will just stare and be like 2 ft away from me. It's really fucking weird. I think they're the first people to call anyone cute because they don't give a shit.

>> No.7442439

>>7441313
>advertising for a booth during Cherry blossom festival in SF
>in a bear suit
>2 kawaii japanese girls come up to me
>one of them asks to have a picture with me
>They both call me handsome bear


B)

>> No.7442452

>>7442439
did u fucc

>> No.7442456

>>7442452
kissed 1 of them unexpectedly had to go back to screaming about unagi

>> No.7442474

>>7442456
cool

>> No.7442516

>>7442253
my stepbrother said that i would me handsome if i lost some weight

im starting with running januari 1

>> No.7442536

>>7442516
>im starting with running januari 1

why are you putting it off?
don't tell me it's a new year's resolution, you'll jog maybe every other day for a week and then give up.

>> No.7442547

I'm sure you'd know if you were.

>> No.7442556

i used to think i was pretty ugly

but since then ive had my friends gf call me incredibly hot, my ex gf get wet as fuck and not stop staring at me while we were driving one time, and several girls i know through friends say im incredibly attractive and would date me if i talked to them more

so id say im in the clear

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>look in mirror directly ahead, look decent
>turn head at slight angle, meh
>profile, eww
>always try to look directly ahead at someone when talking to them
>mfw 2 people

>> No.7442580

>take pics and videos of myself
>ugly as fuck
>pictures and videos taken of me
>look pretty damn good

every tim

>> No.7442592

>>7441313
How do people, particularly girls, treat you?

>> No.7442595

>>7442561
This feel, I know it all too well

>> No.7442599

I genuinely don't know if I'm attractive, but I just act like I am. Constantly joke with friends that I'm a 9/10 and fucking amazing looking. Kind of curious what someone would rate me, but everytime I take a picture of myself I feel it looks terrible in comparison to actually seeing me in motion. Generally I just hate pictures of myself but love looking at myself in a mirror.

>> No.7442612

>very attractive face
>manlet
>actually a manlet, like 5'4, not "wahhw ahh im so short im 5'10" pathetic fucks
>most girls treat me with complete disinterest
>really short girls all over me and stop and turn their heads and smile as they walk past

ill never know how it feels to be completely attractive

>> No.7442632

>>7442061
>>7442070
I know both of these feels all too well.

>> No.7442648

>>7442318
I have a pretty big, and what i thought ugly, nose. At the last party i went to two grills said they loved my nose.

>> No.7442674
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>tfw sometimes get called beautiful, model check bones
>tfw 21 and never had gf
>tfw im average
>tfw ugly and boring personality

>> No.7442682

go on /soc/

they told me I was a 9, funny because I haven't been laid since september :^)

>> No.7442684

>>7442612

nobody is universally attractive

>> No.7442694

>>7442612
Woah nigga, join the club. I'm 5'5" and I got a similar thing going on.

50% of girls are either taller or shorter than me, which is a shame because I like tall girls but I don't know if they'd bother with me.

Maybe when I get /fit/ as fuck I can roll the dice and see. Good luck homie, we're playing on hard mode (relatively speaking, in the 1st world).

>> No.7442695

I'm quite attractive, I think. I used to think I'm ugly, but ever since I'm on antidepressants I notice that every single bit of feedback has been very positive so far. Some gay dude hit on me on a train, some girl hit on me in university (both literally said "Do I know you from somewhere? No? Really?" etc), girls check me out regularly, I get complimented on 4chan a lot (I know it's stupid to think that's an achievement, but yeah).
I remember interpreting all these things very negatively, like people were actually making fun of me, girls are staring at me because they think I'm freakishly ugly, and that photo I posted was bad quality and advantageously lighted, shit like that.
That kind of thinking is probably what makes you unattractive.

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7442802

If you don't experience the benefits of being attractive, you're probably not
Meaning you're -unattractive

>soccer mom comes in with her daughter, saying her daughter dropped her fries (I just got my first job in fast food, I kno)
>she sits down to eat
>catch her eye fucking me hard
>she comes up again for a bs reason but someone else helped her
She probably saw me through the drive thru and dropped her daughter's fries bc of thirst

I got pic from a dude my first day working

>> No.7442814

>>7442682
>Since September
Holy fuck I must be hideous

>August 2012

Jesus Christ

>> No.7442816

>>7442802
its not that simple. its not like you're either attractive or unattractive.

>> No.7442876

I'm not ugly but I'm 5'5 and have shit hair by genetics, sucks because whenever I groom myself right it ends up undoing itself whenever I go outside or wear headphones or something.

Trying to get /fa/

>> No.7442882

>>7442536
im sick now, going on a vacation saturday and i still need to get running shoes

>> No.7442911

>>7442882
>Not barefoot running
Plebasaurus Rex over here

>> No.7442939

>0-10
shy and cute :D
>11-16
extremely skinny, awkward, oily face, pimples, shit hair, terrible clothes, self-conscious. 5'6
>17-21
???

I dress better, not extremely skinny anymore. I'm 5'11. Now the narcissism has caught up to me. And the funny thing is that I'm a 6.5. 7.5 max. My profile is awesome, but my straight ahead is ugly and slightly chubby.

>> No.7443001

>>7441999
thisthisthis

>> No.7443007

>tfw everyday my perception of my looks varies drastically and it makes it incredibly difficult for me to have stable self esteem

>> No.7443252

>>7443007
i experience this too!!

sometimes my appearance changes each time i look into a mirror. it's really weird.

>> No.7443322

>>7442599
We live twin lives.

>> No.7443355

>>7443322
>>7442599
We triplet nao.

Idk my friends says I'm hot but I'm just too shy to go up on girls.

>> No.7443361

>>7443355
I have no problem with shyness, but I have a fucking godly personality too so I don't know if its that or my looks which work.

Maybe its both. Maybe I'm absolutely perfect.

>> No.7443378

I have no idea, my m8 said I would be a 7 to 8 if I got a fitting haircut but I don't know.

I look horrendous in photos but at the same time, i've had very good looking girls like me and everything but I don't know if they were just less concerned with looks or what

>> No.7443635

The worst thing about my face is the bags under my eyes, everything else is decent. I can't get rid of them. I've tried a couple creams, but they are still puffy. I have a feeling it has to do with my sinuses, but taking sinus medication never reduces it too much. It seems like there's fluid built up. Also tried cold spoons, cucumbers, tea bags. Not too sure what else I can do, but I know it's the main thing people probably focus on when looking at me.

>tfw going to a store with those lights that highlight every damn imperfection on your face
>see self in reflection
>bags look SO BAD

>> No.7443639

>look good in mirrors
>look hideous in pictures
>been told by numerous qts that i'm attractive
>don't entirely believe them

sometimes I feel pretty attractive and sometimes I feel hideous.

I also seem to get this thing a lot from people I've met where they ask if I'm a german model. not really sure what about me looks so german, or why it is they think I'm a model. its strange

>> No.7443680

>>7441999
This so much. I've lost like 30 lbs since June and people keep telling me how skinny I look, but I look in the mirror and see the same fatass I was before I got really depressed and stopped eating.

>> No.7443953

>>7442061
>iktf
some days i stare at myself in the mirror
others I feel ugly

>> No.7444032

Most of the time when looking in a mirror makes me feel like an 8, but in EVERY single picture of me that isn't a delicately constructed selfie I look like shit, below a 5.

Especially when I'm smiling, it's fucking disgusting. My side profile makes me want to cry.

>> No.7444053

>>7441313
All u people who think look good in mirror remember remember how often u see self you used 2 and familiar + biased toss that around naw but really we all pretty snowflakes live life build skills u r so much more than most superficial aspect of self

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>>7441313
Baldchan a going fuckin HARD

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>> No.7444149

>>7444060
>>7444124
>>7444131
new baldchan sucks dick

>> No.7444171

>>7444147
Baldchan, it's time to stop.

>> No.7444183

>>7444171
>>7444149
it aint baldchan


hell be back soon though, i got good sources

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>> No.7444266

>>7442580
Same here. Idk why but every selfie I take I'm a 1-4 but when others take pics I'm like 4-6. Idgaf I'm ugly

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>> No.7444332

>>7444308
looks like bilbo baggins when he gets horny for the ring

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>> No.7444386

>>7442814

i must look like a pile of garbage then
>tfw virgin

>> No.7444393

>>7444386
>Just passing on to my 21st year of virginity
Soon I shall have a dark power you fools can only dream of.

>> No.7444416

>>7444393
I'm about to be 22 and I denied 5-6 literally naked girls so far
I'm waiting

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>> No.7444493

>>7444416
You truly are above such temptresses.

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>tfw starting to like this girl
>tfw won't see her for over a month
>tfw she'll be probably have fucked about 5 guys the next time i see her

>> No.7444514

>>7442439
>handsome bear
that made me lol for some reason

>> No.7444517

>>7444512

5 guys in a bit over a month is a lot, sure you're not exaggerating

>> No.7444530

>>7444526
>Yo set insecure away girls
what?

>> No.7444526

>>7444512
Yo set insecure away girls can let many dudes pound them as want fact life u got deal if u rly like her it don't matter

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>>7444512
S-she's gonna respond any moment now. R-right?

>> No.7444535

>>7444530
>Yo, set the insecurity away
>Girls can let as many dudes pound them as they want to
>Fact of life, you just have to deal with it
>And if you really like her, it shouldn't matter
translated

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>>7444530

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>>7444533
this is a joke right

>> No.7444545

>>7444539
n-n-no

>> No.7444549

>>7444545
You fucked up...

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>>7444533

>> No.7444554

>>7444549
That was the hail mary play anyway. The earlier attempt disappeared.

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>> No.7444642

>>7444564
FLEX YOUR MUSSCCCLLEEESSSS

>> No.7444694

>tfw always felt unattractive since my brother is a fucking god
>tfw never get attention from girls my age (22)
>tfw i had the schools hottest 16yr old gf this year, she showed me texts from her friends saying "ooooooooooh my gooooood how beautiful is he?"
>tfw her 10yr old sister once told her she thought i was the prettiest boy she has ever seen

>> No.7444748

>>7444367
holy shit im dying

>> No.7444766

>>7442307
ah fuck really

ive missed out on so many opportunities

>> No.7444788

what are signs a girl likes you?? what do they do?? examples

>> No.7444795

>>7444788
If she grabs your dick she might be interested, but it's generally unclear.

>> No.7444816

>>7444788

idk u can just see it in their eyes like theyll look at u and be completely engrossed in u

theyll probably compliment u or atleast comment on little things about ur appearance etc

theyll smile and talk to u alot

i think the smile thing esp like it works both ways too there is a qt at work im sorta of secretly in love and every time we talk i uncontrollably smile at her she is just gorgeous

u feel me

>> No.7444839

>>7444816
ye i feel u

>> No.7444873

I think as a guy there is a lot more things you can do to make yourself look attractive to the opposite sex. If you're a girl and you have bad genetics you are basically fucked.

>> No.7444978

>>7444873
girls figure out what they can do to look more attractive at a young age

>> No.7445021

>>7444873
Like what can you do?

>> No.7445025

>>7445021
Work out be clean be well groom get haircut regular clean clothes look at girls when talk 2 them

>> No.7445041

>>7445025
that shit will do nothing for you if your face is not appealing

>> No.7445052

>>7445041
yh it will lol

>> No.7445059

>>7445052
are you retarded or something?

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>tfw 6'4
>tfw no place to hide

>> No.7445098

>>7444873
wat

Men can't wear make up. Men can't get fake tits. Men can't find rich ugly girls who are dying to fuck them. Men can't get laid just by virtue of being a slut.

the only thing a guy can do is work out and go somewhere where not having a shirt on is allowed. or become insanely successful. both of which take actual work unlike any of the female fixes.

>> No.7445102

>>7445041
Whether not face appealing matter opinion not all people in2 sharp features some girls want cleaned up dude less attractive them but favorable character cause they insecure gnaw mean

>> No.7445104

ur not attractive until you have been called fit

>> No.7445108

>>7444873
unless you're genuinely ugly getting a haircut that fits your head shape and look will improve your looks tenfold

>> No.7445110

>>7445104
thats what british tumblr sluts use

>> No.7445148

when I was fat people called me "cute" and a "teddybear"
after I lost some weight people call me attractive, muscular and
>"looking good"

they never call me handsome or anything like that, they just say "you look good", well except for this one drunk chick who said I looked like a player, but still, "you look good" feels so... I don't know, it doesn't feel like a real compliment, that's all, it's so half-assed

>still confused as to whether I am handsome or not

>> No.7445149

>be grill
>be socially incompetent

What do guys do if they find a girl attractive

>> No.7445158

>>7445149
look at her

do nothing

go home and masturbate to the thought of fucking her

>> No.7445164

>>7445149
Consistent "peck" at you trying not bother you but leave open for you create conversation + will keep convo going long as u want then leave u b then a little later another peck but not 2 much they don't want bother u may be more direct in how face u when talking it not hard rly so sum up if u b in peck at no games talk if want talk go from there

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>>7442370
They always stare at me, and then the ones that make conversation always like to talk about their daughters with me.

I know what they're doing.

>> No.7445162

>>7445149

if im in a club i look at them like im going to rape them

>> No.7445171

>>7445158
this

or take a pic of her and post it on /r9k/ so we can call her a slut

>> No.7445174
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7445174

>tfw middle-aged men stare intensely at you

>> No.7445223

>>7441999
>>7443680

shit are you guys me? I weighed 220 last christams and today I weighed 155 (goal is 145-150). I still think i'm fat but my parents keep telling me if I lose more weight it will make me look "sick".

>> No.7445260

>get hit on by by gays all the damn time when out
>mums friends on facebook keep saying 'what a handsome son' every time she puts a pic up of me
>rated 8-9 on /soc/

nope dont see it shiggidy wig

>> No.7445279

>>7445149

It depends.

If I'm drunk and bored I might go and ask her for her number.

Otherwise I simply do nothing and keep going. Unless I think she's fucking special.

Also, I love when girls show interest on me first.

>> No.7445282

>>7445260
at parties and bars some guys I meet are really friendly towards me, they'll stand and talk with me for ages outside parties, some guys buy me drinks, and I've even gotten kissed once or twice

I just assumed this was drunken friendliness, but do you think these people could've been gay?

>> No.7445289

I used to think I was really average because HS I didn't have a single gf or girl show interest except one in freshman year, who I beta'd out and she dated my friend instead.

Then I got a gf and people wouldn't stop saying what a cute couple we were. Then my gf stopped letting me party/drink with her friends because the girls supposedly talked about how hot I was too much.

and yet here I am my life a train wreck. don't worry about your looks so much op

>> No.7445290

>>7445223
>tfw when you've lost tons of weight and most people don't notice
Like 4 people have said something
it sux

>> No.7445291

>>7445282
>I've even gotten kissed once or twice
>Just assumed this was drunken friendliness
>Do you think these people could've been gay?

Well, shit, mate. Who would even fucking know?

>> No.7445297

>>7445282
Bruh, not everyone think of fucking people when they are out.

>> No.7445300

>>7445291
If they roofie his ass then maybe it could be gay.

>> No.7445313

>>7445290
it's ok bro. Most people didn't take notice until i started wearing clothes that actually fit my new body. Maybe you just need to cop some stuff that actually fits to show it off. Or maybe it's because most of the people in your life see you daily and don't notice the drastic change because they've seen you get thinner over time so the change isn't as noticeable.

>> No.7445330

>>7441313
If you have to ask...

>> No.7445350

>tfw older women hit on me but girls my age give me the cold shoulder

I don't know whether to feel flattered or insecure.

>> No.7446023

>>7444795
lel

>> No.7446039

>>7442381
why is she so perfect

>> No.7446091

>>7442253
Friends said that his gf thought i was the most attractive of his friends. Does that count? It alos came out of the blue.

>> No.7446537

>>7445289
I know this feel. I was blessed with well placed cheekbones and heterochromia. It made me really uncomfortable how the jealousy games began to unfold. It got so bad that I got hit on by one of my girlfriend's friend's divorced mothers once when she was drunk. Being a harem MC is really not what its cracked up to be.

I don't even really dress that well. I just am sporty/fit and wear nicer versions of what everyone else wears.

>> No.7446609

>>7442381

Jesus christ, brush your fucking teeth.

>> No.7446621

>>7443355

And the three of you got dubs... neat.

>> No.7446636

>>7446609
pretty sure that's cara delevingne, a highly recognized fashion model

>> No.7446643

>>7446609
her teeth are fine?

>> No.7446776

>>7446609
>this is what americans actually think

>> No.7446800

>>7446609
They're not that bad

>> No.7446835

>>7446643
>>7446776
>>7446800
I don't know what you guys are talking about. They're pretty fucking yellow.

>> No.7446859

>>7446835
>yellow
>inherently bad
Natty healthy teeth aren't reflective white. The enamel naturally gets stained over time.

>> No.7446885

>make girls double take all the time
>they seem disinterested after looking too long

>> No.7446892

>>7446885
I know those #rarefeels

>> No.7446894

Chances are you're average, IMO 10% of people have god tier natural aesthetics, 10% have shit tier natural aesthetics, and the rest are about equal but divided by how well they take care of themselves/dress/hairstyle etc.

>> No.7446911

>moms friends gush over me
>girls come out to me on fb and say they never approached me because I looked mad all the time
>literally groped in the hallways
>never had a gf
I'm a huge faggot thinking back I coulda got so much action. also wasn't fa at all I wore single color tees and addidas skate shoes

>> No.7446931

> Studying telecom
> Only 10% of grills in uni
> Percentage of qts is even lower
> Why would I approach a qt if they can choose out of a thousand guys around here
> Feel ugly
> Suddenly ugly girls in uni start to look prettier

> Get out partying or whatever and check girls looking at me
> Go around for a walk and get shouted "handsome!" by a group of teens
> Realise I should switch my career again back to arts

>> No.7446938

>>7446894
Yep, there's a definite bell curve when it comes to looks.

>> No.7446982

One time a straight guy said I'm good looking and sometimes random drunk girls throw themselves at me when I'm at the club.

>> No.7446986

>>7445313
Ah that is true, i wore a nicely fitted t-shirt and those 4 people i mentioned earlier said something and they had not seen me for a while.
Kind of sucks tho cause i found i had gyno lol

>> No.7446987

>>7446911
>because I looked mad all the time
Fucking smile you idiot

>> No.7447023

>>7442307
>tfw this has happened like 6 times in the last year
>tfw girls tell their friends they want to fuck you
>tfw still too scared to make a move
>tfw no qt3.14gf

>> No.7447035

History of female sexual interactions

> 9/10 most beautiful girl I've ever seen. She's married to some investment banker now. ( relationship lasted a couple of weeks due to my autism. She had the good wits to run. )
There was one evening where she pulled me aside and said, verbatim "I am in lust with you," and I left shortly after doing little other than kissing.
>Several 6's. Maybe a five in there ( we all have regrets ) Series of sluts that I got with merely because they were so direct and aggressive. All of them say "Oh I'd never think you'd go for me." "I didn't think you were interested." and treat me like a god.
>Last serious relationship, couple years. Rank her about 7. Fell apart cause of long distance. Treated me like I was god's gift to her.
Only together because she was so direct and up front about wanting me.

Always seem to get positive attention from girls in clubs, when meeting new people, very social. But my inability to cope with female interaction, inability to close, or show them my intention, or just express myself in ways other than autism, has ruined my life.

Surely they have books for this shit

>> No.7447046
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7447046

>mfw I feel like my only good feature is my eyes
>mfw I have acne
>mfw I need to loose weight to get face definition

>> No.7447066

damn why is jude so fucking perfect

>> No.7447077

>>7444642
AKIS GONNA GET YA

>> No.7447209
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7447209

>>7444332

>> No.7447227

>>7447046
are you me?
tell me
ARE YOU ME????

;_;

>> No.7447229

>>7447046
>>7447227
sup me's

>> No.7447241
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7447241

>tfw you hate how you look in every picture

>> No.7447242

>>7442456
are they still locked in your basement?

>> No.7447243

>>7447229

you bastards are all on the same chan. We're pretty much cast from the same mold. Guaranteed similarities between which boards you three visit. Prove me wrong.

>> No.7447254

>>7442595
me too, feel brothers.

>> No.7447253

>>7447229
What can we do with ourselves?
I swear my face only becomes thinner if i starve myself. I dont wanna be a skellington

>> No.7447267

>>7442939
gay

>> No.7447268

>>7444533

you got to ease them into it. send a few back and forth how was your day shit before you ask to make plans and dont say QT

>> No.7447367
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7447367

>tfw called handsome by family
>tfw called handsome by some female friends
>tfw I think I look like shit and have 0 confidence

>> No.7447376

>mom says I'm handsome
I know its bullshit
>girls I've fucked, my long term girlfriends say that I'm not handsome but I have some kind of charisma and quality about me that they can't resist me
I know its not bullshit.

>> No.7447582

>>7442388
>I look rather different when mirrored and not-mirrored
top tier retard right here.

>> No.7447973

>>7442246
woman.

>> No.7447983

once when I was at a party a girl came up to me and started to make out with me, then she said that I was really handsome and that she wanted me to fuck her
she did this to make her partner jealous

does this mean I am attractive? because she chose me as an accomplice to make her partner jealous?

>> No.7447990
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7447990

well i know i not #playa

>> No.7448072

>>7447983
It means you were more attractive (to her) as compared to her partner. Also
>partner
what is this, tumblr?

>> No.7448123

>>7448072
she was a lesbo
or well, bi
I don't know how to compare my looks to a chick
I hope it doesn't mean that I look like one
oh well

>> No.7448131

You know if you're ugly if you are Asian

>> No.7448134

>>7448131
i had sexx with my own feet

>> No.7448149
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7448149

>tfw overbite

>> No.7448179

>>7447066
English genes

>> No.7448615
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7448615

heres what i do, I make a thread (or in this case post in a thread) asking if i'm ugly on both /soc/ and /fa/ at the same time

compare the answers and then enjoy. Its easy like this

>> No.7448617

>>7448615
please

>> No.7448634

>>7448617
what? it totally works

>> No.7448680

>>7445171
>>7445164
>>7445162
>>7445158

thanks guys
I guess I'll never find out if I'm attractive
>;_;

>> No.7448682

>>7448680
you're not

>> No.7448723

>>7448682
but i am

>> No.7448741

>>7448723
Could be true. Won't know because you won't post a pic.

>> No.7448748

>>7448741
the pic is above yo, like 5 posts up

>> No.7448758

>>7448748
If you mean >>7448615, you're all right. Not unattractive certainly, but you don't do anything for me personally. Good cheek bones but offset but an unfortunate chin.

>> No.7448766

>>7448758
i like my chin, and for the most part not being ugly can be good enough

their is a better photo in this thread
>>7442161

>> No.7448795

>>7448766
You've got a cute nose but your chin is really not defined well. It makes you look like a little kid.

>> No.7448841

>>7448795
forever young, bra

>> No.7448851

>some people say im hot, cute, sexy, etc
>some people say im " okay", " not bad", "average"
>sometimes I want to eyefuck myself in the mirror
>other times I want to throw up


I just don't know

>> No.7448870

>>7448841
A little kid isn't attractive unless you're trolling for primary school cunny

>> No.7448890

>>7448870
it might also depend on the age of your peers and your personal age as well. Taking that into account looking young like that might be just a normal thing

>> No.7448893

when she says you're gorgeous what does it mean

>> No.7448927

>>7448893
she mirin you gains bra, keep workin at them glutes

>> No.7449065

Some random 14 year old girl came up to me at a store and started asking me what school I went to and what I like to do.
I'm a junior in college.
I assume that means I have massive baby face.

>> No.7449072

>>7449065
should have kept her on a leash and trained her for 4 years

>> No.7449155
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7449155

>>7448179

>> No.7449710

>>7446987
I'm the happiest guy I know it'd just my face bro

>> No.7449712

>>7449065
u shoulda hit that

#yolo

>> No.7449893

>>7441325
They cant be mean there. Its against the rules, I wish there was a popular, more honest one

>> No.7449928

>>7449710
If people say you look angry it's because you look pissed off. Smile more. Sell it with your eyes, a true smile involves crinkling of the eyes.

>> No.7449933

>>7449928
not that guy, but I feel that I look better mad or with a jayden smith eyebrow raise. I look horrible smiling or with a comfortable/relaxed face.

>> No.7449948

>>7449933
Your fedora is on too tight if you seriously think looking angry or confused is more attractive than looking happy. Who wants to approach someone that looks pissed off or confused?

>> No.7449956

>>7449948
attractive=/=approachable

its like scientifically proven that smiling men are considered less attractive

>> No.7449959

>>7449956
>attractive != approachable
The word literally derives from attracting, as in drawing people in, as in enticing them to approach

>> No.7449965

>>7449956
>its like scientifically proven
So you can like back that up?

>> No.7449982

>>7449956
lol u dipshit the fact that attractive people are generally considered more approachable has been scientifically proven many times
go back to the couch and watch more daytime tv you nujack

>> No.7449986
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7449986

It'll all be okay anon. Everything's going to be okay in the end, I promise.

>> No.7449991

>>7449956
ugly doo tellin himself he has a chance. face it. the 10% of men who are good looking get 80% of the chicks. u can have the leftovers if ur lucky and willing to lap up sloppy seconds

>> No.7449996

>>7449991
Eh I get girls smiling at me if I'm aimlessly looking around listening to music so I don't think I'm ugly. I'm not actually catching their eye, they're catching mine. I don't think I'm attractive, mind you, don't know what to think of myself.

>> No.7450006

>girls ask me why I don't have a girlfriend constantly
>"anon just go talk to girls"
>get constantly hit on
>by fat chicks with boyfriends
>normal's dont make eye contact

I'm so fucking confused as to whats going on.

>> No.7450009
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7450009

>>7442290
Tfw qt asked me out. We went out for drinks. She's clearly in2 me. But, nope. I'm not really into her, also p sure she wants relationship but I def don't... Also, she's sorta, like, my supervisor at work... How to friendzone softly?

>> No.7450013

>>7445158
pretty much this

>> No.7450017

>>7450009
Treat her like a guy friend. You don't want to have sex with your guy friends, do you?

>> No.7450041

ITT: autism

look in a mirror to know if you're ugly

>> No.7450044

>>7450017
you're not supposed to fuck your guy friends?!
whats the point of wearing all of those rick skirts and dresses around each other and complimenting each other fits? and measuring each other's dicks?

>> No.7450045

>>7450009
Disguise friendzoning as coworkerzoning.

>> No.7450066

>>7450044
You forgot to say no homo, didn't you?

>> No.7450226

>>7442061
>this, so much this

>> No.7450250

>>7450066

>forgot

>> No.7450253
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7450253

I'm the ugliest one here, ya'll can't top this

>> No.7450258

>>7450253
Buzz head that all need

>> No.7450270

>>7448748
If that's you then why are you even here?

>> No.7450289

dno, i always thought i was ugly because i never got a gf but then i got offered a couple of modeling jobs in the street. one for a top, top paris label and one for a very famous publication and have also had my portrait taken by some street photographers so maybe i'm not

>> No.7450293

>>7450253
u look lik a dog kek

>> No.7450298

>>7450253
It could be worse, anon. A woman could cut off your penis while you're sleeping and throw it out the window of a moving car.

>> No.7450460

>catch girls mirrin at uni occasionally
>helps my confidence a lot
>still nervous about even adding a girl I met in class as a friend on facebook because I have no picture of myself for my profile and she will probably think ima loser
How do I take a good picture of myself that does not seem self indulgent?

>> No.7450466

>>7450253
jesus

grow your hair or buzz it

>> No.7450470

>>7450460
get a picture of urself a party

>> No.7450476

>>7450253
m8 u need to get a better haircut and lighting really thats all there is to looking attractive

>> No.7450495

>>7450470
>going to parties

>> No.7450559

>>7450470
>tfw looking like shit on a party picture
why do they even use those fancy lenses

>> No.7450562

>>7450559
get friends who take disposable cameras to parties haha

>> No.7450579

>>7446835
It's the coke, man...

>> No.7450590

Anybody else feel really self concious about their appearance in the barbers? That fuck off mirror and everywhere you look that isn't down is likely to mean eye contact.

>> No.7450623
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7450623

>tfw girly
>tfw the only grills that think I'm attractive are fuxxed up scene girls

Whatever, at least guys seem to like me.

>> No.7453665

>tfw complete freak in facial profile.

>> No.7453687

>>7450623
give it up slut, you were born to recieve the D.

>> No.7453691

>>7441313
>always think I look ugly in photographs
>people tell me I'm cute

Is there a such thing as aesthetic dysmorphia?

>> No.7453733

I've been told I look like a mixture of Spencer Reid from criminal minds and Rick from Walking Dead.

>> No.7453792
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7453792

I've been told I look like this dude.

I don't really know how to feel, honestly I'm ugly as fuck.

>tfw like a girl
>we hit it off really well
>become her friend
>don't really do anything beyond that
>see her recently
>she seems pissed at me
>doesn't really seem happy to be with me anymore
>try to text her
>she hasn't responded

What the fuck happened

before I coulda sworn she was developing feelings, but now she just turned off completely to me,

it hurts guys

>> No.7453937

>>7453733

post pic get shit

>> No.7453949

>>7449893
reddit.com/r/amisexy
/soc/
/fit/ facial aesthetics threads

>> No.7453955

>>7453792
Most likely someone else is in the play. Women are easily manipulated. She might just have personal issues. Trust me, Ive been with someone like that for a long time. I'm about fetup with it. On a side note, did you fuck a friend of hers?

>> No.7453961
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7453961

>>7453955

Dude no.

I'm way beta, that's probably why I haven't done anything that even hinted at me having romantic intentions.

I dunno man.

>> No.7454460

bi,[

>> No.7454481

>>7453949
oh fuck I never thought of asking reddit.. Im gonna go post there now!

Anyway.. I get told im good looking a lot. But there are just some girls that seem to absolutely hate me for no reason. Whatever the case I hate myself. So thats not a great combo lol.

>> No.7454577

>>7450017
>>7450045
yea, thats what i'm tryin, but i also don't wanna be as abrasive as i am w/my friends cause she is my supervisor, so gotta b professional - i just don't want her to take that/office small talk as interest, ykno? also it doent help shes, like, 5'1" an 100lbs... i feel like if i tripped near her i'd crumble her tiny little bones to dust:( so, again, i don't just wanna flat-out intimidate my boss... fukk i just don't want work to b awkward

>> No.7454584

>>7453961
nice pic m80

>> No.7454646

>>7442253
>tfw always called handsome by older women
>girls my age never say a word
>20 y/o kissless virgin

I'm not exactly complaining, but goddamn I am confused.

>> No.7454666

>>7442516
Start today.

>> No.7454692

>>7450041


imbecile of the highest order

>> No.7454740

>>7441313

if you look like a bitch or have a girly face or shape.

girls like MEN.

so that entails

-chiseled square jaw
- deep set eyes
- thick eyebrows
-relatively large/wide forhead that slopes back from a profile view
-strong chin
-high cheekbones

if you dont have any of these. You are considered a bitch.

Experiment: Do you get respect or guys wanting to be your friends?

congratulations some of you are lucky . and some of you realise you should have been born a girl.

go and make money if you're an ugly autist

>> No.7455161

>>7442516
yea, that's not gonna happen...

>> No.7455169

>>7442882
>excuses
that's all i'm hearing...
and, okay; though being sick is a valid reason one should NOT work out, fresh air is good4u. go for a walk. then go run in a part of the world you've never been before on vacation. then, after your'e committed - and deserve it - cop the equipment...

>> No.7455171

>>7444308
i'd still smootch it. right on it's snaggly little face. and noone would stop me..

>> No.7455177

>>7444449
d u shoop ur pns in2 dis1?