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hey /fa/, im half-reposting this from /adv/ since 0 replies.

basically i accidently google searched my girlfriends tumblr url (chrome, address bar) and found her account on a pro-ana website.

basically she was always skinny, but i never thought it was detrimental. but reading some of the shit she posted is really scarying me.

>post about hating birthdays because she has to pretend to eat
>posts in "binge" progression/timelines
>talking hunger pains, appetite suppression, overusing diet pills, contemplating removing lower ribs

hungry skeleton is /fa/ but how do i even tell her that she sounds fucking crazy?

>> No.7188396

>>7188387
>hungry skeleton is /fa/ but how do i even tell her that she sounds fucking crazy?

You don't cause you can't. Someone that has dedicated a portion of their life to being someone doesn't tend to enjoy being told not to be them.

What i said probably doesn't make much sense but put your self in her shoes and then imagine someone you "love" shitting on you and telling you that what you enjoy and how you want to be/look/be looked at is sick and a mental disorder.

>> No.7188397

>>7188387
>>7188396

also if you do tell her, please come back and tell us how much you enjoy jerking off into a sock

>> No.7188401

there's not much you can do.
but you definitely should confront her - you have to show her that what she is doing is problematic and that she probably needs to seek help.
also emphasize the fact that you don't think she needs to be that skinny to be beautiful and desirable.

>> No.7188403

>>7188397
do people actually do that? jerk off into socks?

>> No.7188405

A friend of mine has a girlfriend who's anorexic.
She is trying her best to overcome that disorder.
She has a blog and writes article about how terrible it can be.
Can't find it though

>> No.7188409

the absolute worst thing you can do to a legitimate anorexic is comment on their body.

if you comment positively, she'll think its BECAUSE of her starvation

if you comment negatively, she'll think she needs to starve herself more.

>> No.7188414

potato bake tastes pretty good

>> No.7188413

>>7188403
yes? its more convenient than getting a bunch of towels/tissues

>> No.7188419

>>7188403
I think it is an american thing. At least some movies suggest it.

>> No.7188431

its incredible that pro-ana sites are even allowed to exist. seriously, its like how kids at school try to fit in with whatever group lets them. thats how people feel when they start binge eating, purging, etc.
there are probably very few legitimate anorexics on pro-ana websites, its the ones who arent that are doing the most damage

>> No.7188434

>>7188413
tissue:
>extremely cheap
>comes in large quantities
>can be disposed of easily using a toilet

sock:
>quite expensive in comparison
>has to be washed unless you're one disgusting plebeian (probably way more expensive due to energy, water and washing powder costs) or put in the trash

just why would anybody do that?

>> No.7188439

>>7188434
i dont know about you, but my loads are atleast 1/12th gallon. it soaks through tissue too fast and gets all over my desk/hand/etc

>> No.7188443
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7188443

>>7188439
>atleast 1/12th gallon

>> No.7188452

>>7188443
are you implying that isnt accurate?

>> No.7188455

>>7188439
you should get yourself checked out.

>> No.7188462

>>7188439
Ugly people often cum much more because they have limited posibilities to reproduce. Guess that makes you one ugly motherfucker.

>> No.7188463

>>7188452
Are you a horse?

>> No.7188484

>>7188439

you are the hero effay needs right now

>> No.7188530

Direct her to /fit/. There is a correct, healthy way to be thin.

>> No.7188600

>>7188462
but cum doesnt increase likelyhood for your eggs to take. you could have a drop of cum with more sperm in it than a bucket of it

>> No.7188615

>>7188387

If it seriously is worrying you then you need to get her help no doubt about it, the worst thing you can do is confront her about it start off with feeling words like "I'm worried about you because" or "I'm feeling concerned because"

Don't comment on her weight, anorexia is not about weight it's about a mental disorder, maybe ask how things are going at work/school/with her friends.

It won't fix her right away, and she'll probably be mad at you, but if you just show that you're worried about her. Eventually she'll come back around and be grateful that you did.

>> No.7188624

>>7188530

it's a fucking disorder you retard

how much of a pain in the ass were her parents OP?

>> No.7188771
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7188771

>>7188387
girls who are skinny are one thing
girls who are anorexic are another
girls who are bulimic are another because they have bad breath and teeth
but girls who let it become their lifestyle? that shit is so, so pathetic

>> No.7188809

I think there's not much you can do. Maybe the problem is more complicated, I mean, those disorders are caused by a lot of things. Also it depends on how developed is the disiase, because the longer it's been with you, the harder it will be to get rid of it.
Even if she gets better there will always be high probabilities of a relapse.

Maybe you should try to talk to her and find out the cause of her insecurities, she could be trying to call someone´s attention. But I've already said it, this is a very dangerous and delicate thing.

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7188830

i wish i had an anorexic gf :(
i don't hook up with most girls because they are too fat

>> No.7188841

>>7188387
>contemplating removing lower ribs

Jesus actual fuck

Dude, she's pretty far gone, mentlly speaking, if she's posting on a pro anorexia forum but find her some help. I don't know how you go about this, but you're going to end up dating a literal hungry skeleton if you don't.

Also, I feel like /fa/ is just about the worst place you can ask for help about this aside from said anorexia forum.

>> No.7188845

>>7188830

It's very hard to see someone you love going through that. A friend of mine had anorexia and it was a hell for everyone around her.

>> No.7188851

>>7188830
I don't think this girl is ano. Just has a shitty body frame and never works out.

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7188862

>>7188845
they are qt as fuck. you need to stop being a faggot and get attached to them
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M6OTQa3yab8

>> No.7188864

>>7188396
Well, it is a mental disorder. And ignoring it won't make it disappear.

>> No.7188865

>>7188830
>i don't hook up with most girls because they wouldn't as much as spit in my face

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7188866

>>7188862
wtf moot

>> No.7188870

>>7188865
>i'm an independent strong curvy woman that don't need no men!

>> No.7188871

>>7188862
Yeah that picture you posted sure looks like an anorexic woman.

And everything about that other thing looks pathetic, sad and lonely.

>> No.7188873

>>7188866
What an appropriate mix up.

>> No.7188874 [DELETED] 
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7188874

more like amor-sexy-a

>> No.7188881

>>7188862
>you need to need to start being a sociopath who doesn't care about people beyond how they look to you at any given moment
Start a blog or somethin dude. We aren't impressed.

>> No.7188883
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7188883

more like anor-sexy-a

>> No.7188889
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7188889

>>7188881
go be fat somewhere else

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7188888

>>7188870
not any of that
just not falling for your narcisstic bs

>>7188871
her dads face always cracks me up

>> No.7188893

>>7188883
Reminds me of sick old people. Sexy!

>> No.7188891

>>7188883

Why don't anofags ever post the asses of these girls? All I see is legs. And not even the full legs.

>> No.7188896
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7188896

>>7188891
because we aren't black
>>7188893
>you
>fat girl
pick both

>> No.7188894

>>7188889
I'm not fat. Go be a thirsty faggot on tumblr.

>>7188888
Wow. That's rich.

>> No.7188898

>>7188889
ano girls are basically like people who call anyone that doesn't agree with them a neckbeard
top desperation

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7188902

>>7188898
i bet ur fat lmao

>> No.7188905

>>7188896
>because we aren't black
Everyone likes tits and ass no matter their race.
It's because their asses are ugly, often ridden with cellulite, because they have little if any muscle mass.

It's funny because these women most likely have a higher body fat percentage than girls who are actually in shape. Their bf%s get astronomically high for their height and weight (my cousin's was almost 40% last time I saw her) because all they do is sit on their asses and cry on the internet. Their muscles waste away (your body starts to break down muscle before it breaks down fat) and nothing but flab remains.

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7188911

>>7188905
didn't read
gb2leddit fatty

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7188915

>>7188902
i bet you're stupid
wait, that's not even conjecture unlike your own post
it's just the truth, and it's verified by every post you've made in this thread

here's the original version of that photo btw
it's too bad that anabela has been tainted by your subculture/fetish
she deserves better

>> No.7188920

>>7188915

wow its like im on tumblr

>> No.7188919

>>7188911
Ah, so you're illiterate too? I'm not fat and don't use reddit. Got a point yet?

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7188925

>>7188915
this is u toplmao

>> No.7188932

Half of these chicks do not even look auschwitzmode they look skinny fat. >>7188771 is tight as fuark though, woodberry

>> No.7188936

>>7188919
autism

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7188943

>>7188932
i'm not usually one for this kind of definition in women, but there's something about her
she's not just skinny, she's lean af

>>7188920
you wouldn't find a post like that on tumblr, but you would find something as mindless as >>7188911 or >>7188925

>>7188936
accusing people of being fat over and over again instead of actually having a discussion is much more autistic than anything else that anyone else has done in this thread

>> No.7188949

>>7188943
actual autism

>> No.7188983

>>7188409
this. there's no winning, op. it's a legit mental disorder. get out while you can

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7188990

>>7188830
same

>> No.7189001

ITT: Anorexics trying to justify their disorder by calling everyone else autistic

>> No.7189164

op here

you guys havent really helped me since i posted this thread 4 hours ago, but i dont think there is any help to be had. im going to ignore it unless it seems like shes actually is in trouble. like i said in OP, her weight didnt seem detrimental, so maybe shes just a typical tumblr user who bullshits everything just to fit in.

>> No.7189191

only cute girls can pull of anorexia, which is kind of sad. they need good bone structure. and all that.

like if honey boo boo's mom went anorexic shed just look like a crippled lady because her skeletons probably all bent and shit

>> No.7189284

>>7189164
dude this is /fa/

there are fucking daily threads about how to get pale skin, bags under your eyes, and yellower teeth

we use the term "hungry skeleton" as a good thing

for gods sakes go somewhere more sane for advice

>> No.7189374

>>7188431
Same reason Fat acceptance sites are allowed to exist. Despite undereating being often more damaging than overeating it is much less common than obesity and both can stem from mental issues.

>> No.7189439

>>7189164
You could start working out with her. That should make her put on some healthy weight long-term, and ignores the problem of confronting her with her weight.

>> No.7189498

>>7188387
As her boyfriend you are the worst person to talk to her about anorexic. Most likely she was anorexic before she met you which means you were initially attracted to her because of her anorexia. She may became anorexic partially because she thought it would land a guy like you.

Guys like you are part of the problem.

>> No.7189544

>>7189498
tl;dr
MEN ARE PIGS. WOMEN ARE PROGRAMMED TO BE ANOREXIC. SMASH DA PATRIARCHY.

>> No.7189560

>>7189164
go try /adv/

>> No.7189567

>>7189544
Men are only part of the problem, because less face it, most straight men like ass 'n' titties. A lot of the pressure to become anorexic originates from other women.

>> No.7189588

dump your lunatic hoe and date someone who isn't going to eat her lips in her sleep