/fa/ - Fashion

[Anonymous No.7180732]

I wish I could have stayed a fucking nerd browsing /v/ and playing vidya all day like I was before but for some reason it just is so lame now.

Im now /fa/ as fuck and good looking but it just seems like I have so much more problems and things take care of now. life kinda sucks man but atleast I copped me some Acne this week

[Anonymous No.7180753]

why are you telling me this

[Anonymous No.7180757]

This feel hurts me. I know it so well.

[Anonymous No.7180759]

>>7180753
idk

[Anonymous No.7180762]

>>7180732
/fa/ is not your personal blog

[Anonymous No.7180789]

Being /fa/ seems like a cure to your anxiety and life-troubles at first, but then you realize that in spite of all the "progress" you've made and the compliments and attention that you get, it's never really enough. There's always somebody with a sicker fit than you and when you come face to face with him you know that he knows that you know he's judging you and he doesn't even have to smile because he's already crushed you.

[trunks !!SE08Bv/gZZR No.7180977]

>>7180789
thats when u punch him and steal his geos

[leisuresuitlamy No.7180821]

>>7180789

damn

[Anonymous No.7181713]

>tfw never into /v/ or /b/
i feel good never being associated with cancer

[Anonymous No.7181738]

>>7181713
>tfw i browsed /g/ a year ago.
it's easily one of the worst boards full of kiddies/ pedos/ apple is gayXD-bullshit and desktop threads

[Anonymous No.7181812]

>>7181738
i experienced /g/ once
my iphone had a problem and i asked them what to do.
holy shit their humour is so fucking childish
"lel do the microwave trick lel"
"update to ios7 lel"

[Anonymous No.7181819]

>>7181812
>>7181738
funny because i felt the same way about /g/ but every time i've needed help i've gotten it.
and i used a mac.

the best thing to do is use a mac pic in your OP and straight up say you are on a mac.

idk, they helped me figure out something cool tonight.
pic related.

and last year they helped me program something in terminal that would completely wipe my exes HD the week after i moved out.

[Anonymous No.7181829]

>>7180789
good thing people only wear fast fashion where I live so i'll always have the sickest fit

[Anonymous No.7181848]

>at friends birthday party last night
>know 4 people there, including her
>slightly nervous beforehand, usually awkward in such situations.
>blend in quite easily, make good although casual conversation, people are nice to me
>still don't feel like I really connect with anyone there, despite all of them being nice and pretty cool
>on my nearly 2 hour commute home later feel more alone than in a long while
what the fuck is wrong with me.

[Anonymous No.7181899]

>>7181819
i did eventually get help but it took wading thru a cesspit to get it

[Anonymous No.7181921]

>>7181819
how do you put a theme like the one in your picture?

[Anonymous No.7181933]

>>7181848
iktfbb
>be at bday party for friend
>we're about 10 people there
>all friends, better with some than others
>nice and all
>feel uncomfortable even though everyone is nice to you and talks to you
>feel unwanted for some reason anyway
>later on
>on the way home
>feel like shit because fuck knows why
>tfw
I don't fucking get it? What are we doing wrong? Fucking shit.

[Anonymous No.7181946]

>>7181933
hormones

do you work and or study hard during the week
i found the times i was depressed most was when i didnt do anything satisfying or challenging

[Jolien !UWqyWTEBWc No.7181955]

>>7181946
This

>>7181848
>>7181933
I'm always expecting some magical change in my life, some revalation by being social so I understand why everyone is always so keen on large groups of friends, but the truth is everyone is normal and I think its much better to find 1 true good friend than the whole social bird stuff.

[Jolien !UWqyWTEBWc No.7181965]

>>7181955
Every time I try to write something meaningful it never comes out quite the way I was thinking it in my head in dutch.

[Anonymous No.7181966]

>>7180789

>Being /fa/ seems like a cure to your anxiety and life-troubles at first, but then you realize that in spite of all the "progress" you've made and the compliments and attention that you get, it's never really enough.


this is a very powerful sentence i hope u feel proud anon this hit us all the feels

[Anonymous No.7181970]

>>7181946
It depends on the week. Some weeks I'm really motivated and study a lot, and others I slack. More often than not it's the latter.
So what, I have to study more and work harder and then I'll be happier?

>i found the times i was depressed most was when i didnt do anything satisfying or challenging
How did you fix it? Just do more hobby stuff? I'm getting into drawing seriously but I'm still slacking a bit on it, I could definitely work harder at that. I also picked up playing guitar some time ago, but left it because fuck knows why. Would the shit-feels go away if I started to work, study and train more?

>>7181955
>but the truth is everyone is normal and I think its much better to find 1 true good friend than the whole social bird stuff.
I cannot understand how some people can be so "overly-friendly" with their "friends". It's like they have a billion people they're friends with, but when they talk to each other(and you as well) it feels so damn shallow and superficial.
Same with people who go to parties with friends constantly. What do they get out of it? I'm always bored when I go since everyone is so "lofty"(?, you know, superficial-ish, talking about completely inane stuff to each other or gossip shit) in the beginning and then once everyone gets drunk it's just a blur and then "duuuuude last night was da boooommbbb, so much funnn!".

>>7181965
I think I understood the gist of it, bb.

[Anonymous No.7182004]

>>7181933
>feel unwanted for some reason anyway
I know what you mean, I sometimes get this feeling in nearly any conversation and most of the time I later on realized that those feelings were unwarranted, that in truth people actually liked me, so I think the melancholy I felt on my ride home might be caused by the realization that I missed a chance to make friends there because I was too caught up in my internal train of thought. For me the feeling of being unwanted probably is caused by me deep down still not feeling worthy of being liked and "wanted".
>>7181955
“[...] almost nothing important that ever happens to you happens because you engineer it. Destiny has no beeper; destiny always leans trenchcoated out of an alley with some sort of 'psst' that you usually can't even hear because you're in such a rush to or from something important you've tried to engineer."
>>7181965
Happens to me all the time, I basically second guess everything I do while I'm doing it.

[Anonymous No.7182016]

>>7182004
I think what needs to happen in our heads is
>someone talk to you first = you're not unwanted
Sometimes when someone does talk to me, I afterwards feel like I can't approach them because they might not like me or want me to talk to them because reasons. Is this legit autism or what.

[Anonymous No.7182020]

>start putting a lot of effort into how i dress
>start putting zero effort into everything else
>apartment is a mess
>living room is filled with boxes from online orders
>haven't cleaned my place in months
>haven't bothered to call the one friend i have left
>haven't seen him in almost 3 months
>don't want to go to work anymore
>call in when i'm not really sick

what the fuck is happening

[Anonymous No.7182028]

>>7182020
dude this sounds like depression unrelated to putting effort into how you dress

[Anonymous No.7182055]

>>7182028
I don't feel sad though, just feel like i can't care about some things

But yeah it's probably not related to fashion, the two just happened to coincide very closely.

[ᵀᴿᴼᴬᴵPoϟt !!M/8ntLE+we3 No.7182074]

being effay is a lifestyle, u have more things to pay attention to,its a conntinous upkeep
>>7180789
fuck

[Anonymous No.7182121]

>>7182055
yeah people misunderstand depression it doesnt always entail "feeling sad". maybe u need a hobby besides fashion, find something u enjoy doing

[Anonymous No.7182180]

Whenever I'm alone home playing video games or doing something else I feel sad for not being 'social'.
But when I'm at a party or with friends I can't really enjoy myself or have fun.
I'm not a lonely 0-friends nerd, cause I always get invited to all kinds of shit.
I also always feel unwanted, even if people talk to me and are the ones to start the conversation.

[ᵀᴿᴼᴬᴵPoϟt !!M/8ntLE+we3 No.7182622]

>>7182180
i think u should start loving urself 1st before u can feel any1 elses love

iktf tho sumtyms i just want close frens and gfs around me only to not connect with them and the opposite happens too

[dr. mario !!Eq6UgECMDNK No.7183325]

>>7181921
i dont think you can install themes. what i did was create/steal icons and used a program to save them as .icns.
the program to do that is called Img2icns

then use a program called CandyBar to change all your icons to the ones you created.