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Okay guys WHAT THE FUCK /fa/

I've keep telling myself i dont care but why the hell dont i have a gf yet?

Not ugly, autistic or any of that shit and im still alone. Everyone around me is either fucking regularly or in relationships and when i tell them im still a virgin they're like 'omg really?'

does the universe hate me or some shit?

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>> No.7179684

your attitude is all wrong
go away, or talk about clothes

>> No.7179685

why don't you try

you know

asking a girl out

>> No.7179692

post pics so I can see how much you're lying

>> No.7179698

>>7179668
talk to girls but just because you get a gf doesnt mean you'll be happy
>depressed in relationship with depressed girl

>> No.7179704

>>7179668
>Not autistic
>and when i tell them im still a virgin
top fucking lel

>> No.7179703

i wish there was a magic answer i could give you OP, but there really isnt one. sometimes it takes a while

up until recently, i was stuck in permanent >tfwnogf, then out of nowhere a qt3.14 gave me her number and weve been going out for a few weeks.

dont give up hope, it can happen anytime anywhere

>> No.7179707

>>7179704
Drinking games ect. its not the first thing i say

>> No.7179719

>>7179703
how old are you, how did you know her?

>> No.7179721

>>7179707
>actually telling them the truth
really?

>> No.7179729

>>7179721
Yep, no point in me lying. some of them might set me up with a girl or something.

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7179735

>tfwnogf
>tfw no qt3.14gf

>meet qt.3.14
>we hit it off fucking great
>so much in common
>such a qt3.14
>currently dating
>don't really feel like having a gf anymore

>> No.7179736

>>7179721
shouldn't matter depending on the way he says it, but i have a friend that does this and it sounds weird

>> No.7179741

>>7179729
i seriously hope you don't believe that

>> No.7179747

I dont even want a gf, i just want sex with an attractive man.

I refuse to bang a fattie

>> No.7179755

>>7179735
where meet her?

>> No.7179764

>>7179755
@ work m8

>> No.7179771
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>tfw was 21 year old kissless virgin but ok looking
>tfw go to bar and see this hot red who is friends with my friends sister
>tfw dont talk but she sends a message via text saying I was hot to my friend
>tfw we date twice
>tfw end up in her bed both times
>tfw cant get it up because too drunk/nervous
>tfw she doesnt reply to me anymore

>> No.7179776

>>7179668
If the qt pays don't line up for you - you have to be assertive and nab one. If you don't see it working out, try another.

Take a Luke a round n u will find qt pays r every wear

>> No.7179777

sit next to girl in class
shes qt
we talk laugh and joke often
i feel like she lieks me and i like her
im 18 so cant go to bars
what do i ask her out to do?

give me lots of ideas

>> No.7179781

girls our age tend to not want BFs

if you can get girls to know how boyfriend-material you may be, it'll happen eventually

>tfw could have a gf right now but she commutes and I don't want to have to meet her parents and such

>> No.7179789

many possibilities. i'll rank them by probability in your case, judging from your posts

1. social life. it sounds like you are going out, but how often? with who? if it's every other weekend with the same group of people/social scene, this is much different than going out multiple nights a week with three or four different groups/social circles. going out more with new/different people gives you a sheer number advantage. probability.

2. youre and asshole, people see this in you, and avoid you. i base this from your shitty attitude in your posts so far. a) the world doesn't owe you a girlfriend. stop acting angry, upset, and insecure that the world isn't giving you something it doesn't owe you in the first place. b) you shouldn't be interested in having sex/a girlfriend just to have sex/have a girlfriend. MOST (note the qualifier here) people have romantic partners because their relationship has depth. in other words, they are interested in one another for who they are as a person, not "everyone else has sex and has a partner so i want one too." people probably pick up on your desperation, that you're only interested in them to cover your insecurity or simply for sex, and flee.

3. people assume you are gay. if you don't live in a big city, being interested in fashion has a cultural connotation of being gay. don't ask me why. even IF you live in a big, or relatively big city, if you hang out with plebs who wear gap and american eagle they still don't understand your interest in fashion.

4. you're young. plenty of people never have sex, or aren't very sexually active until college. even if you're in college, it's probably getting blown out of proportion. this is especially likely since you are insecure about the issue, so you have a bias against accounting for people who aren't having sex/in a relationship.

5. you're out of shape or not as attractive as you think you are.

these are all just guesses, shots in the dark. nothing personal OP.

>> No.7179827

OP, I thought like you, found a gf, and realized it's not the end all be all to being happy. You must find that on your own.

>> No.7179856

>>7179789
Cheers mate, looking at those honestly its probably the fact that i rarley if ever actually hit on girls when im out, it just makes me feel like an asshole dudebro.

it'd be really nice fo shit to happen naturally.

>> No.7179864

>>7179777

walk in the park
you'll get to know each other

>> No.7179869

>>7179827

this

happiness will bring you women
but women will not bring you happiness

>> No.7179874

>>7179856

there's a natural way to talk to girls when you're out, just go for it by being genuine and kind

you don't have to become a dudebro

>> No.7179889

>>7179827
wow

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7180212

The implications of the fact that you care so much that you don't have a girlfriend are probably why you don't have a girlfriend.

>> No.7180285

>>7179668
>be model
>7/10 asks me out
>go to starbucks
>asks to walk her home
>"but i live right here"
>"pls anon pls walk"
>" uhg i guess"
>walk her, she trys to kiss me at her place
>push her away "oh i dont want to"
>ignore her texts, wants me so hard.

Just be alpha if you're good looking enough to fuck or if you want an actual girlfriend you just got to be real.

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>>7179668

it looks like youre doing it wrong op, ive only ever had compliments

>> No.7180323

>>7179771
pasta or u posted this b4

>> No.7181101

I never cared either but then a gril talked to me at the college cafeteria one day and we just hung out a a month or two before we had sex. She's my ex now (long distance problems) but really all you gotta do is say hi to people and hang out with them.

>> No.7181108

>>7181101
Of course the moral of this story is that when she breaks up with you you'll be worse off than before for a while so realize that it's not necessarily always a good thing.