/fa/ - Fashion - #7041289

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Anonymous Wed Oct 9 06:44:38 2013 No.7041289 [DELETED]

>be student, 2nd week at uni
>wear dope fits, getr drunk, try and socialize
>hardly female attention and 9/10 times they have a gf
>flatmate dresses pleb, A&F, ralph lauren ect.
he has fuck 3 girls, has another who wants his dick and has a date coming up
>meanwhile im still a virgin

I thought it would be different. Guess girls dont give a shit about clothes

From now on im gonna follow his lead and act like a alpha dude bro.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 06:45:08 2013 No.7041293 >>7041289 ur probably uglier than ur flatmate so dw

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 06:46:38 2013 No.7041294 >>7041293 Not even ugly, girls call me cute.

>>	aiouh !!2EBwZerKFLu Wed Oct 9 06:47:08 2013 No.7041295 post fit

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 06:47:38 2013 No.7041298 post face

Anonymous Wed Oct 9 06:48:08 2013 No.7041299

>dressing well to get pussy
this is what I hate about this board, and 4chan in general. Too concerned with sex and thinking everything they do in life revolves around it.

You dress well because you like dressing well, not to get pussy. You act how you feel is natural, not in a meek manner to seem edgy or an obnoxious alpha to pull pussy.

Fuck. Just do what you want and act natural and shit will happen.

First thread I've hidden in weeks. good work, OP.

>>	trunks !!SE08Bv/gZZR Wed Oct 9 06:49:08 2013 No.7041300 >>7041289 >wearing clothes for girls lol what were u thinking

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 06:51:38 2013 No.7041307 >>7041294 okay cute guy then why arent you getting any pussy post fit

Anonymous Wed Oct 9 06:53:39 2013 No.7041311
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I have the same fucking problem man. Never have the balls to try to get girls. Casual conversation is fine but i never ever make a move unless she clearly wants.

While other dudes go out to talk to girls i usually just stay quiet. Even when im drunk i think too much.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 06:56:08 2013 No.7041321 >>7041311 are you me?

>>	poet !!ZKnqTt5WCG6 Wed Oct 9 06:57:08 2013 No.7041325 File: 228 KB, 500x412, Feed_Me_A_Stray_Cat.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >get drunk >try to socialize Maybe he's just more fun to hang out with & talk to. Maybe girls can smell your desperation & plot your intent all too easily.

>>	TroalPoϟt !!M/8ntLE+we3 Wed Oct 9 07:02:08 2013 No.7041343 >>7041325 what vid is that?

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>>	poet !!ZKnqTt5WCG6 Wed Oct 9 07:21:57 2013 No.7041393 File: 565 KB, 1000x668, Le_Glue_Huffing_Face.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7041343 No clue.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 07:22:27 2013 No.7041394 >>7041294 why would being cute get you laid? they don't want to have sex with kittens, I know this from experience ;_:

Anonymous Wed Oct 9 07:25:28 2013 No.7041404

>>7041393
man its sad that these kids are growing up doing stuff like this when i was their age i was chillin at playgrounds and playing lego with my homies but then maybe its fun and not necessarily a bad experience or influence for kids in that culture and i should check my first world male privelage

>>	poet !!ZKnqTt5WCG6 Wed Oct 9 07:26:58 2013 No.7041409 >>7041404 That's just an ASAP Rocky concert, note the target demographic

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 07:26:58 2013 No.7041410 >>7041300 This for fucks sake, all that self improvement has made me is a condescending cunt, but then again women love cunts that treat them badly.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 07:27:58 2013 No.7041412 >>7041409 #ROASTED #REKT #RIPINPEACE

Anonymous Wed Oct 9 07:33:27 2013 No.7041423

>be student
>final year for the 2nd time
>dropped out last time bc drugs & fa
>hold a job + workout all spring/summer
>/fa as fuck rick simmons generally what i wear in
>go out to smoke just to catch glances from h&m-at-best studentfag crowd no1 even dressed in black all those sand chinos so 2010 watch me shine fuckin plebs

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 07:45:57 2013 No.7041446 >>7041423 Burgundy chinos and hi tops are the way forward here.

Anonymous Wed Oct 9 07:47:28 2013 No.7041452

Just fucking talk to girls. Don't concentrate on fucking them. Find some shit you both like in the conversation. Talk about that. If she's into you she'll give you thr 'fuck me' eyes.

Fashion won't get you girls. Alot will think you're gay. Dress for yourself, how you like and however you feel most confident.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 07:47:57 2013 No.7041453 >>7041289 have you ever considered you are not as attractive as said roomate

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Wed Oct 9 07:57:59 2013 No.7041478

>>7041289
Posters have already said it, but i'll break it down anyway.

How you dress plays a very minor role in making women attracted to you. It constantly frustrates me how many guys come here thinking that they'll magically start getting laid if they cop some new expensive clothes.
That isn't how it works.
People say i'm sexist, but i think it's sexist thinking women would choose a man simply based on how he dresses.

Being good looking doesn't mean that much, dick size doesn't mean that much. What matters is confidence.

>From now on im gonna follow his lead and act like a alpha dude bro.
it definitely won't hurt to observe his behavior and listen to what he says and how he says it.
You'll probably never attract as many girls as him, but he's probably got started much earlier than you. He probably had an older sister/brother which definitely makes a difference.
But don't think you need to imitate him. Don't even try. Think about what he is doing that attracts and interests girls, and figure out a way to apply that to yourself.

Changing yourself simply to attract women is lame, and stupid, plus most women can see right through it.
Change yourself because you want to be better than you were yesterday, period.
FInd confidence in yourself, and women will notice.

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Wed Oct 9 08:03:30 2013 No.7041486

>>7041294
Girls tell homos they look cute. they tell their girl friends they look cute.

A girl saying you look cute is great, but again, there is a lot more to getting with women that being good looking.

Her saying you are cute may be her showing interest, but if you act like some pathetic lame loser, she won't be interested for long.
Her not saying you are cute doesn't mean she doesn't think you are cute.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 08:04:29 2013 No.7041488 >Socializing with a purpose to defile the girls you're 'getting to know'. That's not attractive.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 08:10:30 2013 No.7041496 >>7041409 poetrekt

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 08:16:15 2013 No.7041513 >>7041488 This OP, they probably see right through your bullshit, try a non-perverted, more casual approach.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 08:17:15 2013 No.7041520 >>7041478 >Being good looking doesn't mean that much, dick size doesn't mean that much. What matters is confidence. This. For most women being good looking will get your foot in the door; confidence is what lets you enter.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 08:23:16 2013 No.7041543 >>7041325 They can. Even the stupid ones, that's ridiculous

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 08:42:46 2013 No.7041604 >>7041289 Wait, my A&F and AE shit is pleb status? Damn, I don't get this shit at all.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 09:08:46 2013 No.7041652 I know this exact feel OP fuck uni

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 09:11:15 2013 No.7041661 >>7041486 your advice is usually fairly good but this is not true. they use the term cute because it's innocent. they give you a hint without looking like a whore. almost no girl would call a stranger handsome because she wants to play hard-to-get

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 09:13:06 2013 No.7041666 >>7041299 this guy knows

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 09:14:36 2013 No.7041669 >>7041409 Oh snap

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 09:17:35 2013 No.7041682 >>7041289 just act like an alpha bro but dress sick as fuck as well you will be swimming in all sorts of mad pussy serious girls playa

Anonymous Wed Oct 9 09:17:35 2013 No.7041684

>>7041289
first of all you're not as attractive as him. deal with it. second, girls are usually hivemind. when they find out he already fucked 3 girls, they start paying attention and want him because there must be something about this guy. it's like a fucking snowball rolling down the hill.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 09:23:36 2013 No.7041711 >>7041478 This is pretty true, but at the same time dressing better can make people more confident, which lets them reel.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 09:56:35 2013 No.7041824 >>7041289 post pic faggot.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 09:59:05 2013 No.7041834 What's with the r9k invasion get the fuck out you thirsty fucks

Anonymous Wed Oct 9 10:11:05 2013 No.7041861

if all you wanna do is get laid, go to a club/bar with a dance floor, dance close to a girl, then start making out with her. You don't need to say anything. Btw this only works if you're good looking (you said you were "cute")

I find I enjoy social situations a lot more if I'm not in gotta get laid mode when I go into it. I'd rather just be myself, if you can pull a girl when being yourself then even better (though that probably won't happen often since you're on 4chan and prolly have a shitty personality"

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 10:13:36 2013 No.7041866 >>7041289 >>7041289 >>7041478 ask him to throw a bitty your way next time hes done with her. or, if he fucks in your room, just push him off the bed and get on the girl.

>>	sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Wed Oct 9 10:51:10 2013 No.7041987 >>7041289 why don't you just call sloppy seconds? he's prob not finishing in them since he's in college and afraid of getting a bitch knocked up pick up the bitches leaving your dorm then cum in em frat-cycle

>>	Yawn Wed Oct 9 10:53:09 2013 No.7041991 Why has /fa/ been so depressed lately

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 11:03:40 2013 No.7042030 >>7041991 all dem benzos

>>	Yawn Wed Oct 9 11:07:39 2013 No.7042043 >>7042030 I got off that shit a few weeks ago Kinda feel normal now

Math Wed Oct 9 11:07:39 2013 No.7042044
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>>7041289
I know someone like you, the problem is, that you believe that the "effay-style" is acceptable in real life...
it isn't.
Everyone will make fun about you if you dress like a ninja or if you tell them that your ugly shirt cost $100+ or that you actually like your Wellies because they are from Rick Owens/Raf Simons. It's just an "online dream" to wear this shit.
Sry, bro.

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Wed Oct 9 11:07:39 2013 No.7042045

>>7041991
people generally get depressed when the weather is colder (fall, winter)

and

since /fa/ is in their horny as fuck will fuck anything years

grills stopped wearing leggings as pants around this time of year

so i imagine the foreveralone losers have nothing to fap to

OMG BITCH IN LEGGINGS AS PANTS WAS SCOOTING INTO HER CHAIR IN LECTURE AND I STUCK MY FACE OUT AND GRAZED HER LEGGINGS CLAD ASS WITH IT

i got so much game, im going to give 4chan women advice

- Starfucks64

>>	Yawn Wed Oct 9 11:10:10 2013 No.7042057 >>7042045 That shit about the weather is so true I heard vit D helps tho

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Wed Oct 9 11:34:09 2013 No.7042132 >>7042045 i get laid more than you cry about how bad your life is. and that's continuously. im getting laid right now while waiting for GTA load and typing this. its pretty cool.

>>	Math Wed Oct 9 11:42:09 2013 No.7042159 File: 1.96 MB, 400x225, 1379924123190.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7042132 3/10 I bet you have a tiny dick that never saw a vagina.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 11:43:09 2013 No.7042162 >>7042043 >I got off that shit a few weeks ago Legit glad dude.

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Wed Oct 9 11:57:40 2013 No.7042215 >>7042159 is 5 millimeters tiny?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 11:59:40 2013 No.7042232 >>7042044 you're the delusional one dude. sure full goof ninja isn't "acceptable" but a lot of us here dress pretty casually. why are you even here?

Anonymous Wed Oct 9 12:06:09 2013 No.7042252

As long as you are decent looking, confident, and completely indifferent to the feelings of women they will throw themselves at you.
If you actually look like you are trying to be a decent human being then it's not going to work for you, unless you date some divorcee with 3 kids and has known the pleasures of black cock in a few holes.

I used to really try, I used to be a nice, but non-threatening guy who liked to listen to their problems, let them crash on the couch if it got too late, and actually helped them study. Nope, not any more. I had enough of being "cute" or being a "gentleman" about a year ago, and it's paid dividends. I've become verbally abusive, aloof, indifferent, and completely crude to every girl I've wanted to fuck, and i've gotten laid more in the last year than the rest of my life combines.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 12:06:39 2013 No.7042254 should i go to the freshmen party of my uni today? i know i have to get drunk to enjoy the music, don't know anyone there and ugh. i will be drunk whole next week when my orientation stuff starts and i get to know ppl anyway

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 12:08:39 2013 No.7042265 >>7042254 yes, try to meet people and have more than 1 group of friends gl bruh, college is the best 4 years of ur life

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Wed Oct 9 12:10:10 2013 No.7042274

>>7042254
You should go. You definitely won't be the only person who doesn't know anyone, that's the point of freshmen parties.

I wish i was back in freshmen year knowing what i know now.

Be nice to people, tell them you like this or that, start conversations and try to get numbers.
if you have time read and DL "Conquer Your Campus" which is a pretty short read.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 12:24:40 2013 No.7042321 Stop fapping.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 12:26:40 2013 No.7042330 >>7042265 >college is the best 4 years of ur life Maybe if you're a fucking pleb with no purpose, dreams or real ambitions in your life. Fuck I hate American (college) culture.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 12:28:09 2013 No.7042336 >>7041289 You're probably ugly and short and bad at socializing.

>>	Math Wed Oct 9 13:10:09 2013 No.7042506 >>7042232 >why are you even here? 4 the lulz. And sure, not everything here is ridiculously, there are some decent fits. But 50%+ here are trolls. That's what you have to get.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 13:35:25 2013 No.7042600 Turns out theres a fashion society at my uni. Should i go? it would be probably filled with H&M wearing pleb girls.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 13:42:25 2013 No.7042625 >>7042600 I don't like goin to those types of things cause i feel like i'm gonna be judged on my fashion skills.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 13:46:28 2013 No.7042641 Clothes and muscles are not a proxy for personality. if you're a dork it doesn't matter what you do.

Anonymous Wed Oct 9 13:56:27 2013 No.7042680

>>7041289
Here is my story

>6'1.5'' 195lbs ~18% bf
>wear raws, flyknits, plain t shirts every day
>socialize with people before/after class
>turn those conversations into a coffee or study secession outside of class
>give them the D

It's not hard, just fucking socialize and don't empty your pockets of spaghetti.

or you could also...

>during break period grab a snack or coffee
>find a table/bench/tree/fucking anything with a qt3.14 that does not look to be busy with work
>ask her if anyone is sitting with her
>take a seat and start talking

And the majority of people think you /fa/ guys are /fa/ggots, just saying

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 14:03:56 2013 No.7042714 OP, this is for you http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/book_of_pook.pdf It's not PUA, it's more about how to act naturally around girls, to make interaction with them as natural for you as possible, like talking to a bro.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 14:04:56 2013 No.7042723 >>7042714 Also are of approaching is a good book to read on how to start a conversation with random QTs. Really PUA has some good shit in it as long as you don't aim to be a PUA

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 14:05:56 2013 No.7042730 >>7042723 to add to this list, read the system by doc love, you should be able to find all this on rapidshit or torrents.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 14:07:57 2013 No.7042741 >>7041478 'Cute' Just screams friendzone to me, especially if its not the first time you've spoken to her or its coming from her friend.

Anonymous Wed Oct 9 15:24:45 2013 No.7043067

God I hate all the bros giving advice on how to pull girls.

As if girls all have the same buttons. That kind of advice (e.g. the game) is as bullshit as the broscience you might get on /fit/.

Wherever you go you will find people who will try and pressure you to act a certain way in order to attract girls. It's a subtle, subversive peer pressure the pervades everything you ever read about sex. You should have sex twice a week! You should kiss on the second date! The internet especially is full of dicks measuring their dicks and hoping they stack up to their peers when the reality is that everyone is lonely in some way.

As many people have said. Be happy with yourself first. Find your confidence (you can't magic it out of thin air) wherever it may be, and then be happy. If you end up getting laid then great. If you eventually get a gf then even better. But never make it your goal.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 15:27:15 2013 No.7043081 >>7042714 Is it a guide for autists on how to behave socially? Seriously, if you grew up normally and had friends, you will never need this stuff. And yes, I've read a few books online like "how to pick up women". It's crap self-help shit.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 16:23:28 2013 No.7043339 >>7042159 2 inches goin 90 miles an hour gon create a lot of heat, boyh.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 22:17:19 2013 No.7045016 >>7041341 fuukkk!!!!......that feel....when weak hairline.

>>	cosmicbutts !!qblBZSgYzBX Wed Oct 9 22:20:48 2013 No.7045036 >>7045016 feel with me

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 22:30:49 2013 No.7045081 It's all about how the clothes fit you and not the quality in terms of attracting grills. Clothes accentuate the body. If you don't have a good body then >the city of you

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 23:16:48 2013 No.7045320 >>7041486 Girls also say famous people are cute. So kind of wrong

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 23:19:49 2013 No.7045329 >>7042274 Advice for sophomores or up?

Anonymous Wed Oct 9 23:23:18 2013 No.7045349

Holy shit so many retards in here spouting the usual "just be confident" bullshit, Here's a cockslap for you, confidence doesnt mean shit if you cant back it up. If you aren't good looking (PHYSICALLY) and at least vaguely successful/getting there you will not attract the sort of girls you really want. Go to the fucking gym, sort your ugly fucking face out and sort your pathetic life out and you might have a chance. Just be confident is terrible advice.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 23:25:41 2013 No.7045356 >>7045349 u sound like you've been rejected a lot

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 23:27:41 2013 No.7045371 >>7045356 Yes I used to be, until I grew up and realised that a "confident" unattractive guy is whats known as a creep.

Anonymous Wed Oct 9 23:30:40 2013 No.7045385

>>7041289
girls are like literally fucking animals.

no female will ever approach you because either she has a) autism or b) low self esteem.

if you see a qt314 you approach her and let her know your intentions from the gecko. if she rejects you or puts you in friendzone you accept it and move on. I mean, who gives a shit, it's not like they're unique or even human, plenty of fish in the sea, bro.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 23:35:25 2013 No.7045400 >>7042045 best sieg heil post in while. also, i think i got a pleb girl pregnant? _what do?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 23:36:28 2013 No.7045409 File: 27 KB, 400x534, 1209429_10152747832209041_737426129_n.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7045400 you fucked up and there is literally nothing you can do lol

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 23:37:57 2013 No.7045415 >>7042132 pretty childish reply bro. how old are you anyways?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 23:43:43 2013 No.7045436 >>7045385 >animals jesus christ. i-...is this how you REALLY feel?

Anonymous Wed Oct 9 23:48:42 2013 No.7045462

>be student, 2nd week at uni
>wear tight shirt to show gains, getr drunk, try and socialize
>hardly female attention and 9/10 times they have a gf
>flatmate is some duel faggot who spouts memes.
he has fuck 3 girls, has another who wants his dick and has a date coming up
>meanwhile im still a virgin
I thought it would be different. Guess girls dont give a shit about how you look
From now on im gonna follow his lead and act like a alpha dude bro.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 23:48:42 2013 No.7045463 >>7045436 I stopped thinking of women as human long ago. I put them on the same level of dogs or cats

Anonymous Wed Oct 9 23:53:12 2013 No.7045481
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>tfw had sex 4 times a week for a year
>tfw go to college
>tfw no sex for a month

it feels ridiculous

And certain things are heightened, I appreciate the clouds more and sense sexual tensions and am possibly more creative than I was before

It's weird, I can't tell the intention of the looks I get from girls, whether they can see that I'm really anxious and uncomfortable or whether they think I'm attractive... There are certain cases where I know they find me attractive, like a drunk girl on a bus touching my face and some south american girl giving me an up-and-down and once over. Other times are hazy, I was going into my dorm room and a boy in the room over asked the girl "is that the guy you said was cute?", and she said "hi [retracted]", I couldn't tell if that was a joke or not. I can feel myself getting more attention but I wear basic af ... Shit's weird

pic is probably how I look, except more casual, without glasses, and with more anxiety

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 9 23:53:12 2013 No.7045486 >>7045463 you're probably really ugly lol.

>>	cosmicbutts !!qblBZSgYzBX Wed Oct 9 23:55:42 2013 No.7045496 i haven't been lucky in college yet either m8 have had lots of chicks stare and smile tho. i usually just freeze-up when it happens however

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:04:30 2013 No.7045526 >>7045481 >and am possibly more creative than I was before I must be the most creative person on the planet then

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:05:30 2013 No.7045533 >>7045463 Have you ever considered that the phenomenon of selection bias may be clouding your judgement? Because girls who would sleep with you would have to be dumb as rocks.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:11:00 2013 No.7045552
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>>7045481
mods are fags

anyoone from my thread about the two grils in here?

here's the story
/fa/ feels? only got like 1 response to this and want some advice

>gril in one of my classes in uni seeems so into me, always sits right beside me, rubbing agsint me, touching/stroking my legs when she wants to talk to me, touching shoulders and stuff ya know regular gril shit
>this goes on every class so far for two weeks
>obviously I think "she's into me"
>find out we have 2 other classes together but they're both huge so we don't really see each other a lot and I don't really care for her (I'm working on another gril) so I don't get her number
>see her on weekend at huge street party with her friend, she literally sprints to me and hugs me, forces her cheek into my face so I have no choice but to kiss it
>her and her friend end up leaving because I was busy playing beer pong and they were going to find one of their gril friends
>get her number before she leaves, tell her I'll text her or her friend (already had her friend's number because she's hotter) later in the night and we'll meet up
>text her friend
>says they'll meet up with us at same place
>rest of night is a blur but I know we didn't meet up
>fast forward to this monday, see girl coming out of one of the other classes we have, say "hey what's up" like a regular guy would do
>she goes "hey how are you"
>good you
>good
>she walks by me
>send her an fb message later because we some homework in other class and ask if she wants to go over it together
>read no response

>fuck girls

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:13:30 2013 No.7045556 >wear dope fits >talk to girls >get drunk >women love me >don't want to talk to any of them because they're too pleb for me >stay on my d why

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:14:30 2013 No.7045559 >>7045552 man you had her right where you wanted her and you did all the right shit but then you beta'd out

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:15:00 2013 No.7045569 >>7045559 >did all right shit > I actually didn't do anything good talk m7

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:17:30 2013 No.7045576

>>7045569
That's exactly how you do it tho

>talking to her only in the class that she sits next to you
>texting her friend instead of her

I guess you might have done those things incorrectly or in a socially retarded way but you can't show bitches you care more than they do because that's how you lose. the FB message was the real kicker that the power had shifted bruh bruh

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:18:59 2013 No.7045579 >>7045552 >blew her off when she clearly wanted to fuck you that night >why wont she talk to me? ya blew it

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:19:00 2013 No.7045584 >>7041289 its becuz ur still a little bitch. especially if u do ur fitz for girls. holy shit thats gay. They can tell your tryin to impress boy. and it turns them off. try not being a boring, talentless hack. then maybe girls will come to you.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:23:30 2013 No.7045598

>>7045576
definitely not socially retarded, and tbh here's exactly what I said:
Hey, we have a test tomorrow in econ online, and I'm already doing it with another guy but we could use someone else so if you're down let me know." word for word is that bad haha?

>>7045579
I know fuck I definitely shoulda texted her I dont know why I didnt lmao. Her roommate is hotter though so it was just drunk instinct

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:24:59 2013 No.7045608 >>7045598 fucking leave it tbh jesus christ if she wants to fuck im sure she'll let you know #thirst

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:25:59 2013 No.7045614 >>7045608 yeah, I had already explained it in another thread but it got deleted. My goal is to fuck this one gril but get the one I'm actually interested in. Best way to do that?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:27:16 2013 No.7045618 >>7045614 lmao is this the two girls from the story? literally not gonna happen

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:27:17 2013 No.7045620 >into /fa/ to get girls dude we dress like this as a hobby and an interest, if you want to get girls dress like a shallow asshole like your roommate

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:29:16 2013 No.7045624

>>7045618
nope. One is the one who is interested in me

the other is another girl from one of the same classes as the first one. "intrigued" is the best way to describe her feelings for me. She giggles accross class, and gave me the add on fb the other day when it was made available to her

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:34:46 2013 No.7045636 >>7045624 how bigs the class? girls are even worse than guys about not fucking their friends former fucks lmao so you have a limited time if its a small class and they'll become friends

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:34:46 2013 No.7045637

Believe it or not, the second highest reason for being a virgin (besides being ugly/antisocial) is because your standards are too high.

You could probably easily get sex, but your standards limit your options. I'm not saying to go for whales, I'm just saying sometimes we disregard others personal situations that impose on our own. The girls you see at parties ( ugly or attractive) are the proverbial first layer..they do not represent all beautiful or ugly people . Don't force yourself to bottom feed just because you think its normal.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:37:17 2013 No.7045641 have you tried not being a loser? having something going for you? being witty or intelligent?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:37:46 2013 No.7045642 What do you /fa/'s say when a woman give you the 'I want to fuck you' eyes? Do you just automatically break from 3 days of casual conversation to 'lez fuk now'? Or do you ease in. Give me your moves.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:38:46 2013 No.7045644 Fuck some whores It's not that hard Will give you experience

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:38:46 2013 No.7045645

>>7045636
about 25 people or so. They're not really friends. Here's my last post from the other thread that got deleted if it helps:

>>7045416
okay Tiger, the roommate isn't the one I'm interested in, but that one night I just texted her because she was hotter than the one that's into me and I was really drunk.
I'm now having regrets thinking if i had've texted the one that likes me I coulda got it in that night

>quote
>>7045418
they're not really closeish, we just share one class in which everyone is friends. tbh the girl i'm into is str8 gf material and I'm going crazy over her, but haven't made a move yet because I'm afraid she'll say no or whatever and is not actually into me. in short I just wanna be sure before I go all out tryna get her.
I'm really glad there's a gril on here lol
>end quote

>>7045637
btw if this is about me i'm not a virgin nor antisocial. just a drunk anon looking for some advice to use tomorrow for when I have class with these two fuccgirls

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:41:16 2013 No.7045652 >>7045645 lol you have no chance lemme tell u this story i fucked 3 girls i had classes with off and on but was never in the same class with more than 1 of them until my last semester of uni they all became friends and i never fucked any of them again

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:43:46 2013 No.7045660 step 1: get off 4chan step 2: get laid.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:46:16 2013 No.7045669 >>7045620 Ding

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:47:46 2013 No.7045675 What's /fa/s kegitamate friendships look like? At my uni, all my close friends are girls. They talk about guys to me, I don't mind. I really like shopping with them. Guys are boring.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:47:46 2013 No.7045676

>>7045652
fuck, i don't even know why I wanna fuck the first gril. Maybe it's cause i feel bad for her for wanting my d when I want the other gril?
All i know is I wanna fuckfirst one gf the second.

but that's a good experience story right thurr

Any tips on gfing a girl that you know is somewhat interested but not fully interested in you?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:49:47 2013 No.7045678 >>7045676 >having a gf at uni lmao nah dont even mate

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:52:16 2013 No.7045688 >>7045678 She's str8 wife material dog. Your asos wearin ass don't even know

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:53:46 2013 No.7045692 >>7045688 literally pointless having a gf at uni you idiot, the best time of your life to get girls and you want to settle down? fucking sad cunt

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:56:46 2013 No.7045698 >>7045692 >this person is happy with a singular person? >while in college when people need consistent stress releases? >fuck this person you're clueless

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:58:47 2013 No.7045704 >>7045688 good for you mang

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:59:16 2013 No.7045713 > tfw so insecure > no day game > hardly any night game How do you grow confidence?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 00:59:46 2013 No.7045708 >>7045698 lol u think a relationship wont just give u more stress? fucking dumb. especially at uni, theres no stability.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 01:00:19 2013 No.7045718 File: 11 KB, 300x250, 1379306657932.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7041393 >filename

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 01:00:49 2013 No.7045717 >>7045704 Not sure if serious or not, but if she wasn't worth it wouldn't be trying to accumulate advice and tips on how to go about this Tldr this whole thing: Want to fuck one girl Then gf another

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 01:02:18 2013 No.7045719 >>7045713 Guy posting the story here: I'm really confident. Just force yourself to be outgoing. I used to be a fuccboi a few years ago and really quiet, but now I'm outgoing and confident by just forcing myself to converse and understand people

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 01:05:50 2013 No.7045723 File: 25 KB, 250x300, 1371177167029.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >that life affirming feel when someone compliments your fit on /fa/ >tfw keeping a folder of all of your best fits and look at them to cheer yourself up when depressed

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 01:09:19 2013 No.7045729

>>7045719
>forcing myself to converse and understand people

I did this for a while, I think it killed me a little bit on the inside every time I did so. I did acquire many new friends but I hardly had anything in common with any of them. I'm back to my quiet self now, feels good. Some people just aren't meant to be social butterflies.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 01:12:19 2013 No.7045738 File: 75 KB, 1201x526, fullautism.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7042045

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 01:26:48 2013 No.7045777 >>7041343 yung lean music video

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 01:30:49 2013 No.7045796 >>7045738 learn2e-persona

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 02:30:08 2013 No.7046032 >>7045723 shit, dude ;_;

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 02:38:07 2013 No.7046058 The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact. This applies to all boards.

>>	TroalPoϟt !!M/8ntLE+we3 Thu Oct 10 03:07:39 2013 No.7046145 File: 1.55 MB, 700x628, 1356361236688.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7042043 :) is ur dick back to normal?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 03:54:30 2013 No.7046255 >>7041452 this guy fucking knows dude. I have more gay guys hitting on me than girls

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 04:21:33 2013 No.7046320

>>7041294
I bet you're short and scrawny, and he is tall and strong. It is literally as simple as that to get girls. I have a 5/10 face, but i'm 6'3 and broad shoulders. Bitches immediately love me, I have girls approach me every time I go out and tell me how good looking I am. My mates who are 8/10+ don't get a mention because they're all sub 6 foot.

evolution m8y

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 04:28:32 2013 No.7046330 >>7041289 >that's cute he spend his money on clothes instead of gym and tight fitting tshirts if you want to fuck you dun goofed off to /fit you go

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 04:51:03 2013 No.7046374 My problem is initially approaching girls, how do you guys balls uop to do it? esically when they are attractive want dont display any interest towards you (like doesn't see you first)

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 06:40:27 2013 No.7046560 >>7046374 That's a feel I know too well. Even when a girl is showing interest most of the time I figure they're just being friendly and don't make a move. >tfw crippling fear of rejection

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 07:37:17 2013 No.7046671 >>7046374 >>7046560 A-are you me?

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 07:51:17 2013 No.7046701

What's a good compromise between /fa/ and casual conventional college clothes?

I'm moving to murrika to study, and I presume most college students either try to do menswear or just wear tight tees, hoodies and straight fitting jeans.

What can I wear that won't look out of place, will look attractive (that's important - I know it's "stupid to dress for grills" but to me it matters), but still be effay?

Can slim jeans be pulled off? Petit Standards, etc?

What brands should I look at that make good casual garments that aren't too expensive? My price range limit is that of APC and perhaps some Acne stuff.

Any style I should look at in particular? Streetwear? Will anything be frowned upon or be considered as some kind of faux pas?

Thanks.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 08:48:20 2013 No.7046844 >>7046560 >>7046671 wow you guys are pussies, jfdi who cares if you get rejected seriously, what happens if someone tells you 'no'? just take the rejection, at least you tried and aren't wondering

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 08:57:24 2013 No.7046876 >>7041423 god reading that made me visualize people in chino an i thru uhp in my mouf

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 08:58:53 2013 No.7046881 >>7041604 you'll get there anon

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 09:17:24 2013 No.7046924
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>at party
>cute girl I haven't seen in a few months is there
>Lost a good amount of weight since then
>leave the room to take a piss
>return after a few minutes
>can hear that girl talking about me with a friend of mine
>"he looks good" stuff like that
>thank you based /fa/
>sit down across from them, talk to some friends
>qt gets up and sits next to me a few minutes later
>even starts talking to me
>"I'm fucking wasted anon"
>Talk a bit with her but kind of give up after a while
>party goes on, nothing happens
I regret that ever since, what the fuck is wrong with me. I wasn't drunk at the time either, just high.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 09:18:23 2013 No.7046927 >>7046924 maybe you just weren't that into her?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 09:22:24 2013 No.7046936 >>7046927 Definitely no real feelings or something, shes like hedonist to the max and sleeps around a lot, which I dont have a problem with, fuck slut shaming. Still, that was like the second time a girl came at me and I just fucking froze.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 09:25:53 2013 No.7046947 >>7046924 >>"I'm fucking wasted anon" that was an invitation to fuck she was literally speaking in code for 'want to fuck?'

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 09:31:24 2013 No.7046966 File: 2.12 MB, 212x248, 1343777648854.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7046947 I know, man. : (

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 09:37:23 2013 No.7046991

>>7046374
god i know this feel. i'm 20 now but i think it's like when you're younger and at school and ur so scared that ur crush might know u "fancy" her and if anyone suggests it you just deny it and if u do tell a friend u make them promise not to tell anyone. i think i just never grew out of that

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 09:37:54 2013 No.7046990 >>7046947 You gotta be careful with that shit though. If she wakes up the next day and doesn't remember giving you consent, she can cry rape and have you locked up on nothing but her word alone.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 09:39:23 2013 No.7046997 >>7046990 more than half or the reported rape claims get dropped because they found out the girl was lying

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 09:42:24 2013 No.7047003 >>7046997 Even a false accusation can destroy your life completely, it's scary to think about.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 09:44:53 2013 No.7047011 >>7047003 for teachers that's true. it's really scary

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 09:46:53 2013 No.7047024

>>7045415
a childish response for a childish poster like sieg.
not really a big deal, or serious at all.

anyway, i met a girl last night and then went to my main's apartment. she dyed her hair and is looking hella sexy.
we go to some bar and she keeps talking "you know everything about me, i don't know anything about you" etc.
she's had some problems with me since her best friends keep telling her i'm an asshole, but they are just jealous amongst other things.
then she says "they thought it was really messed up how you raped me last time"
>mfw

i ask her wtf she was talking about and she tells me her friends tried convincing her i raped her since i met up with her when she was drunk.

it's very hard to keep calm in this situation, but i just looked at her and said "like i'm going to rape you tonight"

things are clearly going good between us, besides her retarded friends, but it's also a reminder how fucked up things are for men today.
obviously i can't really speak with her about this seriously, but i'm gonna have to withdraw a lot of attention from her because i don't like it at all.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 09:46:53 2013 No.7047025 >>7047011 For anyone it's true bro

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 09:51:55 2013 No.7047039 >>7041488 >>7041513 Nah, bitches know men want to fuck them. And more often then not they fuck the guys who are more obvious about it.

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 09:54:42 2013 No.7047048 >>7047039 yea this is true. but it's something that can easily be misunderstood.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 09:57:11 2013 No.7047057 >>7047048 Starfucks I used to think you were a bad trip, but I now I like you. You're a cool dude. I wish you'd post some fits

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 10:03:11 2013 No.7047081

>>7047057
i explained before why i don't post fits.
basically, regardless of if it was shit or great it would get nothing but hate simply because i'm me.

people would repost it every time i gave advice and say "this is who you are taking advice from" as if that would disprove anything i was talking about.

plus, i don't dress that special. at best it would get responses of "yea, that's average."
i post fits sometimes as anonymous when i really need some feedback or whatever, and i've learned a lot from that.
i like the /fa/ community over other boards, which is why i post here, but i never started tripping because i wanted to talk about clothes.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 10:06:11 2013 No.7047093 >>7047081 Yeah I realize that. Any advice for my green text story about the two girls? It's a little higher up. I'd love to get some advice from you before you leave.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 10:06:11 2013 No.7047094 >>7047024 Dude that's really fucked up. Start burning bridges, retarded friends are a blight that cannot be dealt with.

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 10:08:11 2013 No.7047101 >>7047093 what post?

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 10:12:11 2013 No.7047113

>>7047094
>retarded friends are a blight that cannot be dealt with.
that's unfortunately true because they will constantly be pushing these ideas into her head.

sucks because i've been pro status with this girl since we met.
pretty sure her friends just want her to stay single so they don't feel so bad about it.
i know a girl will never be 100% honest about the situation, but usually the truth is clear when you take a few steps back.

there is probably another guy, a "nice" guy who happens to be friends with her friends and they want her to get with him, for whatever reason, but obviously she would prefer to stay with me.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 10:12:11 2013 No.7047114

>>7047101
The one with the persona 4 image.
Basically, there's a girl who i "think" is interested and I'm not sure if she's playing games or if she could have gotten not interested. I want to fuck this girl, and that's it, because she's sorta high maintenance I feel like.

There's another girl that I'm really interested in, but I'm not sure exactly how interested she is in me. I know she giggles at me across class when we look at each other, and she's always smiling and stuff. But she's really quiet and I've never really had any experience with a quiet girl because I don't know how to play them.

The green text tells more, I'm on my phone so I didn't feel like typing it all out again

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 10:13:41 2013 No.7047116 >>7047093 Figure it out for yourself.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 10:14:41 2013 No.7047118 >>7047114 I told you in the other thread, make a move faggot, she's playing games.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 10:16:13 2013 No.7047124 >>7047118 Hey pussy shut up, I don't know about this. The more I think, the more I get the feeling she's lost interest but idk.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 10:17:41 2013 No.7047128

Broke up with gf after 2 years a month ago. Met a chick at a party whom ive known my whole life (friend of the family) fucked her. Right now im banging this anorexic chick thats pretty fucking cute. Real /fa/ too, balenciaga bag wearing qt3.14. Also got spotted on the street yesterday by a modelling agency, going in for a meeting/casting early next week. Life is good 4chan

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 10:18:41 2013 No.7047130 >>7047113 Good luck then m8. Congrats on keeping your pokerface when she dropped the rape word.

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 10:24:11 2013 No.7047149

>>7045552
>>7047114
first off, there's no reason why you have to pursue just one girl.
pursue both, and if/when things get serious with one you can decide to drop the other.

you did sort of "beta out" by sending her the FB message, but it's not really a big deal and it's fucked up for her not to respond, but common at the same time.

one thing i didn't like was she pushed her face to you for a kiss and basically forced it. you may not realize it, but this is actually a really bad sign, because it shows how into image she is over substance. yea, that's female traits 101, but a girl who tries to lead and force all that on you is pretty much looking to play games.
no question she knows what she's doing, even it's totally a bad move on her part.

when things like that happen at parties it's best to wait several days to contact the girl.
asking her about school shit may have actually been a good play, but so quickly after wasn't.

my advice is to sit back and wait. don't stop pursuing girls, and don't expect anything to happen with this girl, but if you act like nothing happened that night, or over FB something might.

>>7047124
she is playing games. you made a move, her move is the common "hard to get" AKA SHE is the prize, and you need to chase her.
that's bad, and continuing to chase a girl with that attitude is pretty useless, especially in the long term.

her forcing the kiss thing (even though it seems minor) and her not responding all shows she is trying to be the controlling person in the relationship and that won't work.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 10:29:12 2013 No.7047171

>>7047149
Yeah nigga. Should I just straight up ask the other girl that I'm actually into out? Or should I just play it cool, make sure we meet up one night of partying and go for it from there. The thing is she is somewhat interested and curious about me, and I'm not really sure how much of both yet.

Thanks dr Starfucks

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 10:29:42 2013 No.7047168 >know a girl is into me >no idea how to proceed, mostly because I don't care enough, and because I'm not a thirst nigga like you fags

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 10:32:11 2013 No.7047182 >>7046701 Hey could someone answer me please

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 10:40:11 2013 No.7047220 >>7047168 str8 bruh

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 10:41:12 2013 No.7047222

>>7047182
Meant to answer this when I woke up, but I forgot, sorry dude.
In my opinion, if you look too basic you'll come look like every other nigga there. But be clean cut and well groomed and you'll do perfectly fine.

Myself, I mix streetwear with designer pieces, but nothing crazy or arrogant, and it seems to work out fine for me in the girl category. I've also dressed like this for a really long time, and I dress for myself, not for girls. But then again getting girls is not really about how you dress

If you decide to go with streetwear, make sure it's sophisticated, or you can come off as high school tier and look bad.

In the end pick a style you like and go for it. Look at inspo threads, saw the ones that you like and try and create a style one piece at a time.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 10:46:11 2013 No.7047242

>Not being in art school

Seriously, I partied a lot recently with students from a conventional uni; the people bored me, they had nothing interesting to say, the parties were shit, the girls caked on makeup and the 'lads' were dressed head to toe in topman.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:02:44 2013 No.7047315 >>7047222 Also please don't dress heavy GN in uni it will look ridiculous unless you're a qt3.14azn gril

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 11:06:45 2013 No.7047328

>>7047171
>Should I just straight up ask the other girl that I'm actually into out?
it's "safer" to wait until a party so you can blame it on the environment and atmosphere. make moves and escalate that way.
but it'd be a lot more personal to hit her up with the standard "what night are you free to grab drinks" and get a casual date in.
best option would be to find a mix of both. something fun you can do with her, separate from your usual group but still with a bit of party atmosphere.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:09:44 2013 No.7047333

>>7047222
No problem, thanks for answering.

>if you look too basic you'll come look like every other nigga
My goal isn't to be seen as really different and stand out a lot; I do, however, want to stand out amongst the crowd of guys who wear H&M and Hollister all day erry' day. Like, more sophisticated. I want my stuff to fit better, to be of higher quality of materials...

>I mix streetwear with designer pieces
Could you give me some designers or brands you like? Especially for basics and sneakers.

>getting girls is not really about how you dress
I didn't mean that; I meant that I want my outfit to not look goofy to girls, but to rather be perceived as attractive. I know there's no "pussygetter outfit" but I just want to stay close to an aesthetic considered as relatively inoffensive and attractive by most females.

>make sure it's sophisticated
Again I don't really know what you mean.

>pick a style you like and go for it
There's no real style I'm into, however my goal is to have a comfortable, but also relatively utilitarian and versatile wardrobe. Of course I won't dress GN; I want practical stuff which can be put together easily in various types of outfits. I like comfortable clothes, high quality materials and relatively slim, well fitting garments (so going full comfycore is impossible as it implies wearing loose stuff)

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:11:14 2013 No.7047340

>>7047328
Yeah, I get the feeling she's not much of a partier, that's why I have no idea where to go from here. For example she didn't go out for homecoming night, and that's a massive party. I've never really had interest in a girl like her before, she's nothing like previous gfs. I do know she is intrigued by me though, I'm wondering if I should stick around with her after class, grab some food or something and do something like that.
Fuck grils man why they gotta be so difficult

Btw: unrelated question but why the fuck do girls play games? It literally just fucks with our heads and it turns me off and just makes me think "why is this necessary"

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:31:48 2013 No.7047424

>>7047328
starfucks tell me if this is a bad idea

i met this girl at a party and she was really into me - asking me how drunk i was like every 5 min, making excuses to touch me all that stuff
didnt get up getting with her because i had to leave early

anyway the next day she added me on facebook and i didnt even tell her my last name so she must have asked our mutual friend my details

so i messaged her asking if she wanted to meet up in a couple of days and she said "Yeah, sure. :)"

heres the problem - i cannot be bothered taking her out for drinks or coffee or whatever, what do you reckon about me just inviting her to come round to my place? is it too forward?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:32:48 2013 No.7047434 >>7047171 >Should I just straight up ask the other girl that I'm actually into out? this is all I do

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:35:47 2013 No.7047449 >>7047424 why can't you have coffee/drinks at your house?

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:36:17 2013 No.7047456

>>7047333
Basics with some streetwear infused sounds pretty good for you then if you wanna look nice with quality pieces.

Designers for your basics: apc, acne, you know the deal already it seems like. If you can drop the extra cash look for some KVA tees, James Perse. I know that KVA basics are on sale atm on forwardforward.
Sneakers: CPs are basic but expensive, not sure if you like them but i love my Rafs, even some NB's maybe for your streetwear look although I don't rock em.

Sophisticated basically just means stay away from stupid karmaloop/plndr shit. Raised by wolves, Norse Projects, bape (older stuff M/I/Japan) is all great quality. Don't wear ridiculous snapbacks and 5 panels, stick to basics from the companies I listed, and maybe some others that you find that you like. I know people on here rock supreme and like it, but I don't wear supreme so I couldn't tell you.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:38:18 2013 No.7047471 >>7047456 You must be from the UK, right?

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 11:39:48 2013 No.7047473

>>7047424
ha it is too forward if you do it wrong, but with the right "excuse" it'll work perfectly.

basically what
>>7047449
said

figure out a reason why she'd be coming over, besides sex.
girls need "plausible deniability."
even if she knows she's going over to fuck, she'll want to pretend she isn't, and you acting like she isn't will make her more likely to show up.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:42:47 2013 No.7047491 >>7047473 >>7047449 okay well its pretty hot where i live atm do you think if i invited her round to have a spa/pool sess that is a good enough excuse? ive done it once before and it worked - but i knew that girl for a couple of months prior

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:42:47 2013 No.7047492 >>7047449 also make sure you're playing the smiths, or hospice by the antlers

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:42:47 2013 No.7047494 >>7047471 nope toronto

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 11:47:17 2013 No.7047524

>>7047491
sounds like a good plan.
you are sort of risking it by not doing a "proper" date, but if you don't care enough then whatever.

i'd say try to approach it like it isn't a date, but really it is.
example
"you should come over and swim today. it's pretty much all i do when it's this hot"
or something like that.
it implies that it's just a friendly thing. you're gonna be swimming regardless.

but really, you are ready for a full on fuck fest and everything is set up perfectly for that. you have your shit clean, you have alcohol on deck, a movie already picked out, etc.

i don't swim much so i really can only imagine how it would go down.

i'm more of a hop fences to random apartments and use their hot tub at night kind of guy.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:51:48 2013 No.7047541

>>7047456
>Basics with some streetwear infused
Yeah that would fit me, I think.
When I said comfortable clothes, I was also thinking about a relaxed aesthetic. You think it's possible to make streetwear "relaxed"?
Eg. I like the fits Mr Porter presents here:

>mrporter.com/journal/journal_issue135/1?cm_sp=homepage-_-californiancoolc1-_-081013#1

I don't know if it's possible to mix that with a more utilitarian, streetwear influenced wardrobe though. There are lots of styles I'd like to draw influence from while staying simple and making stuff work together. It's frustrating.

>apc, acne, you know the deal
Yeah, those two are on my list. Just wondered if other designers made really high quality basics, so I'll look at KVA and James Perse, thank you.
Keep in mind the durability aspect is really important, which is why I don't really know if I should cop Givenchy, HUF or Supreme stuff if I want to get into streetwear; it seems that those don't use very good materials, and what I really care about the most is that.

>CPs
I like the aesthetic but my feet aren't narrow enough to pull them off.
Also I don't think CPs are very comfortable.
When it comes to price, I'd pay anything as long as it's worth it. Can Ramones fit with the wardrobe I'm aiming at?
What about stuff like Visvim Patricians (for winter), Skagaways or w/e? Or would that look strange to try to pull off boots or derbys with a streetwear and basic inspo?

>my Rafs
Velcro high tops? Yeah I like them too, I don't know if the quality's really great? Are they comfortable and do they look good beaten up (in black leather)?

>NB's
I don't like them, but should I look into Nikes? When it comes to basic shoe brands I'm not sure what's good and what's not. Vans are inexpensive, for example, but the quality seems shitty.

Cont.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:52:18 2013 No.7047548

>>7047456
Cont.

>Raised by wolves
>Norse Projects
>bape
>great quality
Cool! I'll look into all of those then. I think stuff like White Mountaineering and Stone Island have similar aesthetics, but instead of namedropping brands and asking you for your opinions, I'd like it if you could just redirect me to a ressource (apart from inspo threads) which could help me really get an idea of specific styles and how they all work together correctly. Been lurking for quite a long time btw, but I didn't learn much.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:53:18 2013 No.7047554 >>7047494 i bet ur azn

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 11:54:17 2013 No.7047559 >>7041423 >tfw everyone at my college wearin all black >tfw they only got h&m an zara basics doe

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 12:02:17 2013 No.7047593

>>7047541
Yeah definitely. Some of the pieces when you "shop the list" or whatever are pretty sweet for some relaxed streetwear. I really like the the acne Brian jumper, and the burberry prorsum heart shirt looks sick.

By utilitarian do you mean workwear? If so, I think definitely. A lot of those pieces if not most could be worked into streetwear.

Givenchy makes nice stuff. I have the white stars 74 shirt and it's nice, but you're basically paying for the name and the price is marked up.

I think you might be able to pull off ramones in some of your fits, although they are bulky. I don't have them so I can't really give you any advice but I think the Ramone lows are sick.
The shoes you listed definitely are nice. I don't think you'll have any problem fitting them in.

The quality is alright on mine. Leather is nice, but there is some flaws in stitching and what not. I just love their look though. My holo's are beat up a little and I think they look pretty cool. Never seen black ones beaten up so I couldn't tell you.

Get some of the more premium nike shoes and you'll have no problem. Nikes quality is nor good nor bad.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 12:08:20 2013 No.7047621
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kinda off topic but

>be me 19yo male
>have shitty relationship with my dad
>we barely talk anymore, maybe we will go out to dinner once or twice a month.
>Even then we just talk about the must mundane shit like the weather or hockey.
>I barely spend time at his house anymore, barely do anything with him
>don't even know how it all started but it's been like this for about a year now

i used to live at both my parents houses but now i've pretty much been staying 100% at my mom's He only lives 10mins away, but we just never really talk anymore. Like this week he left for a business trip for a week and never told me or asked me to feed the cat or anything.

is this normal? I guess at 19 i'm supposed to start breaking off from my parents and he's making it easier for me to do?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 12:10:21 2013 No.7047633 >>7041289 >hardly female attention and 9/10 times they have a gf probly coz they were lesbians

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 12:16:06 2013 No.7047667 >>7047554 nope white >>7047548 hmmm, give me some time, I'm just doing something but I'm glad to help.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 12:22:06 2013 No.7047694

>be yesterday
>going for walk in the rain
>normally dont dress goofninja but fuck it it's pouring and cold out might as well wear a couple bonus layers
>walking through some mexican place parking lot
>group of 5 guys come out and say something about that they didint forget about that time i called them something i dont even know them
>get beaten up, hell there was 5 of them what should i do
>tfw you havent acheived ultimate urban stealth

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 12:27:06 2013 No.7047716

>>7047593
>relaxed streetwear
Yeah that's what I'd be aiming at. Unless I decided to go for a darker style - I'm not sure. I'll have to look at inspo and search for information to help me choose between lighter, more cosy stuff and darker, much more utilitarian and less casual/streetwear inspired garments as I can't possibly afford to just buy elaborate clothes from two styles like that.

>acne Brian
>prorsum heart shirt
Yeah those are cool. Did you see that dyed sweater from The Elder Statesman? Price is grail tier but I wonder if it can be easily worn with streetwear.

Also forgot: opinion on Margiela for basic stuff? Too menswear to be used in streetwear? Some of their jumpers and zip ups might be good though.

>workwear
As I said, I don't really grasp all those different styles and how they can interact and go well together.
I heard workwear was pretty much most of what Visvim sold. If so, yeah, I like it.

>makes nice stuff
I love their stuff, yes, but paying 400 dollars for a tee is too much. I'd understand splurging that for shoes, but not a cotton tee.

>although they are bulky
As I said, I can't pull off very narrow shoes so bulky stuff would be my only option, no? I'll have to try stuff on.

But since being also attractive and not too unconventional is a must, would Ramones look somewhat out of place?
>Ramone lows
Yeah I'll look at that, they seem more versatile.

>I don't think you'll have a problem fitting them in
Oh, so it wouldn't be some kind of faux pas to wear derbys or boots with casual streetwear?

>some flaws in stitching
Hmm, can they literally fall apart and become unusable, or are these flaws just aesthetically noticeable?
Holos would be less versatile I think, but yeah white or blacks could be cool. I've never had really high quality white sneakers so I don't know if I'd like them becoming dirty

>some of the more premium nike shoes
I wasn't planning on getting any of their really sporty models.

>>7047667
Sure. Thanks a lot.

>>	PRODIGY !iFxAk2YQww Thu Oct 10 12:32:37 2013 No.7047738 Oh deeeear...this whole entire thread reeks of desperation. you guys are def over-thinking everything. try to not be neurotic about the simplest interactions and just go with the godamn flow and show some fucking confidence

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 12:33:36 2013 No.7047742 >>7047621 gotta find something in common, the older people always feel like they're bothering the young people, they wait for you to take the initiative, ask him out to play pool or whatever you both like

>>	sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Thu Oct 10 12:37:53 2013 No.7047763 >>7047738 thats a great idea listening to a 25 year old washed up whore, who is struggling with addiction issues, and still binge drinks, who can't remember half the names of randoms she fucked,

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 12:41:53 2013 No.7047781 >>7045385 it's not being confident but rather not being afraid of rejection, you hit up enough women and one will take you up

>>	aiouh !!2EBwZerKFLu Thu Oct 10 12:42:23 2013 No.7047785 >>7047763 she's right though which makes everything even worse

PRODIGY !iFxAk2YQww Thu Oct 10 12:46:23 2013 No.7047799

>>7047763
actually sieg, while I don't deny drug/alcohol abuse, I certainly am no whore. In fact, Ive had intercourse with only 3 people, all of which were long term relationships bc I don't sleep around w/randoms.
Furthermore, Im pretty sure I am most qualified here for giving advise on attaining desirable females because...well...I am one :)

>>	sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Thu Oct 10 12:47:25 2013 No.7047801 >>7047785 the only thing she's right about is identifying her genital warts as herpes. And the fact that she's never going to know who the father is

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Thu Oct 10 12:51:42 2013 No.7047821

>>7047799
you're crack whore polluted womb is the furthest thing from fucking desirable than rick owen's last collection featuring damn dirty apes stomping around

and thats sad, you could only remember 3 names.

don't you have some diseased dick to suck, so score an 8ball?

>>	PRODIGY !iFxAk2YQww Thu Oct 10 12:53:41 2013 No.7047829 >>7047801 that first sentence didn't even make sense.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 12:54:40 2013 No.7047837 >>7047821 sieg list girls you've slept with under 70% body fat. wait. you can't

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 12:57:10 2013 No.7047850 >>7047837 Sieg doesn't exist, he's an abstraction created by several anons and whoever happens to be manning the tripcode presently. He used to be No, now he might very well be Helders.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 12:58:25 2013 No.7047852 >>7047799 does starfucks give good advice?

PRODIGY !iFxAk2YQww Thu Oct 10 12:59:25 2013 No.7047853

>>7047821
from the sounds of it, you have a lot of frustration. assuming its sexual bc nobody is willing to fuck your grotesque dick not even that whale of a gf was willing to stay w/you. how awful are you in bed that you couldn't even please her? correct me if im wrong but you couldn't keep her around she cheated on you and bounced, regardless of the designer clothes (bribes) you gifted her

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Thu Oct 10 12:59:25 2013 No.7047861

>>7047837
i've slept with a few thin japanese girls, and an asian out here who were very thin when i was a teenager. not fun. fat white girls are trashier/more fun.

>>7047829
didn't sleep, does it have to make sense?
fuck you. why do you always look dirty? scott said you smell like shit irl

>>	no Thu Oct 10 12:59:56 2013 No.7047857 >>7047850 no shit sherlock wanna tell me the sky is blue next

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 12:59:56 2013 No.7047859 >>7041289 They probably think you're a faggot.

>>	tinfoil !!gVL0FyzPeMv Thu Oct 10 13:00:25 2013 No.7047863 File: 105 KB, 477x227, Screen shot 2013-10-10 at 18.05.58.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7047763 >>7047799 >>7047801 >>7047821 >>7047829 >>7047853

>>	no Thu Oct 10 13:00:25 2013 No.7047865 >>7047850 shakin my dang noggin >>7047857 god ur so annoying honestly

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:00:55 2013 No.7047866 >>7041394 are you a kitten? :O

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:02:26 2013 No.7047875 >>7047863 8/10 grinned

>>	no Thu Oct 10 13:03:25 2013 No.7047881 >>7047865 did i diss you in chat or something

PRODIGY !iFxAk2YQww Thu Oct 10 13:04:56 2013 No.7047887

>>7047852
yeah starfucks is my homeboy and is a lot more socially acceptable than sieg for example. also he's a confirmed qt w/an endless supply of adderall so im pretty sure he gets as much tail as he claims

starfucks you still here? how u doin...don't waste your time schooling these kids on proper game im p sure theyr hopeless

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:05:55 2013 No.7047898 File: 69 KB, 424x587, mystery-and-style-peaocking.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] i bet u dont even peacock phaggot OP

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:07:26 2013 No.7047904 >>7047887 fuck off you pig

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:08:26 2013 No.7047910

>>7047716
I myself like a darker but that's just mean. You can always switch between lighter and darker styles depending on what you're feeling like during the day.

Yeah, definitely I think it could be worked into some fits.
And I've never had experience with margiela apparel but the paint splatter gats are so cool to me. I'm definitely gonna cop them in the future.

yeah, visvim definitely does have some workwear. A lot of workwear and streetwear is definitely interchangable.

i don't think so. I sometimes wear my derbies with some streetwear. As long as they're not very offensive I don't see anything wrong with it.

My Rafs are yet to actually fall apart, and the flaws are not really noticeable at all from an aesthetic view. it's just sort of annoying to spend a lot of money on shoes to have them have flaws like that.

What nikes are you planning on getting? sorry for the late reply just had to do some stuff.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:09:56 2013 No.7047912 >>7047887 prodigy you are so gross lol get off the board

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Thu Oct 10 13:09:56 2013 No.7047913

>>7047887
>how u doin...don't waste your time schooling these kids on proper game im p sure theyr hopeless
disgusting wigger trash

>implying i give advice on anything here

not that it's any of your business, but ex left me because all we did was fuck, she left for some 40+ year old dude who doesn't fuck her and the just do stupid shit

and not every bitch will put out for a high, just you
and it's why you're undesirable.

guys like starfucks will bring you around parties and shit, becuase you're cheaper than a hooker.

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 13:13:56 2013 No.7047931

>>7047913
she left because you consistently fucked random creases of fat around her pussy area, never her actual vagina.

and she left you for some 40+ year old because she needs someone who can provide for her.
the fact he doesn't want sex makes it an even sweeter deal for her.

i feel bad for him, but it's a common case.

PRODIGY !iFxAk2YQww Thu Oct 10 13:14:25 2013 No.7047937

>>7047913
whoa when did I ever say I put out for drugs?.....I can afford my own drugs thank you...I was refn to the countless college/sorority skanks that frequent parties/bars...

youre more than welcome to dismiss the facts as false...just shows how lost you are in the real world.

girls like drug dealers bc more often than not they are alpha males w/go get it business attitudes. its not just the drugs...its the man whose not afraid of braking the law and taking your money

>>	PRODIGY !iFxAk2YQww Thu Oct 10 13:17:56 2013 No.7047944 >>7047931 apparently you told sieg I smell bad? lol. why do I have a feeling this is his vivid imagination talking?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:19:26 2013 No.7047949 >>7047937 So prodigy if you're all knowing about girls, do all girls play ridiculous games like in >>7045552 In giving you a chance to be cool here

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 13:20:56 2013 No.7047956 >>7047944 his deep rooted insecurity due to his size and a permanent sense of crippling loneliness causes him to frequently lie and tell stories to escape the pain of his life.

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Thu Oct 10 13:22:56 2013 No.7047965

>>7047937
You started your drug usage early in life didn't you?

your mind set is that of a teen.
unless you're lying about your age.
because most of the people in my peer group do not type, speak in the manner you do, and generally are a little more emotionally evolved.

however, if you were lying about your age, your clothing, lack of understanding clothing fitment/pairing, lack of emotional stability and mind set all make sense.

i know you have never attended college, but college does not change the mindset of young adults too drastically.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:23:55 2013 No.7047966 >there are more replies to this shitty thread of tripfag drama and feels than to any of the serious discussion threads on /fa/

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 13:24:25 2013 No.7047972

>>7047949
a lot of girls, especially in their 20s will play games like that.
out of boredom, and to test guys.

i told you, she is trying to control you very early on, even if she doesn't fully realize it.
the best way to deal with "games" is to ignore them. even addressing them at all usually means you already lost.

i could post 100000 posts about how/why girls test but i don't feel like it right now.
it's natural for them to test guys because they are constantly questioning themselves too.

i'll see if i can find a good link or something.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:24:56 2013 No.7047974 >>7042252 tips fedora

>>	sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Thu Oct 10 13:25:26 2013 No.7047976 >>7047956 >>7047944 nope, i just wanted to know who scott was. and i knew you had some sort of emotional attachment to him/the name by your actions. that was actually really easy, thanks

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 13:26:55 2013 No.7047983 >>7047976 what? whose scott?

PRODIGY !iFxAk2YQww Thu Oct 10 13:26:55 2013 No.7047985

>>7047949
anon thankyou I appreciate this opportunity.

the answer, unfortunately, is yes...depending on age/maturity level/and so on. judging by your pic im assuming youre fairly young so head games are gonna be on your plate for another decade or so...girls and guys both play games weather its bc theyr too insecure to be real or just want the attention. whatever the reason m&f are equally guilty weather they realize it or not

you hurt her feelings. if you want to fix it you have to make her feel special.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:28:26 2013 No.7047996

>>7047985
I'm 19 so yeah I'm pretty young.
How the hell did I hurt her feelings? I didn't do anything wrong IMO.
Why would she then ignore me when I contacted her?
Have you ever done anything like this to a dude?

Just trying to get an actual grils answer

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:28:56 2013 No.7047994

>>7047910
>paint splatter gats
Yeah. They're expensive though.

Would you say Visvim quality is worth it?

>derbies with some streetwear
What kind, for example? I'm sure it doesn't go with everything...
>very offensive
What do you mean?

Yeah I get what you mean. To me, as long as those flaws don't compromise the durability, it's okay.

>what nikes
The Nike Blazers? Anything else would be too sporty and Flyknits seem too narrow for me.

NP for the late reply, if you do have any specific ressources you think could be useful, please do share, If not, w/e.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:30:26 2013 No.7047999 >>7041289 what is that hairstyle called? i know it's not HY

>>	PRODIGY !iFxAk2YQww Thu Oct 10 13:31:26 2013 No.7048001 >>7047976 >>7047983 what im confused now also sieg just bc im too lazy to form proper sentences punctuate and spell correctly doesn't mean im uneducated. just means I don't give a fuck.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:35:29 2013 No.7048016 >>7045675 faggot

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Thu Oct 10 13:36:58 2013 No.7048022

>>7048001
you're not 25

or

you're mentally stunted

i honestly don't think you are educated, the subtle little nuances of college life are lost on you. you may have went onto a few dorm parties in order to consume some recrea. drug, but you never have attended a course load

and you're a really simple person. there is nothing to you

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 13:36:58 2013 No.7048024

>>7047996
ignore the part about hurting her feelings and needing to make her feel special.

i already explained why she ignored you.
i can recap, since it's been like 30 minutes and you may have forgotten:

she wants you to chase her.
she may be interested in you, but not enough to not risk playing games.
she has you exactly where she wants you, and that facebook message was a good amount of gratification.
she knows she's desirable and likes seeing what she can get away with.
the more attention you give her, the less she'll respect you or want you.

prodigy says you need to make her feel special.
more like you need to show her YOU are special, by not acting like all other guys, as in, not bending over backwards to her games.

your situation is very typical, especially for college girls. the best way to "avoid" girls playing games is to just get good at figuring them out immediately and flip them back.

some girls will never stop playing games, and that's when it's time to stop seeing her.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:36:58 2013 No.7048025 itt: everyone looks like a male model but cant get their dick wet. also no pics

PRODIGY !iFxAk2YQww Thu Oct 10 13:37:00 2013 No.7048030

>>7047996
you texted her friend instead of her while shes making obvious advances towards you/putting herself out there. you made her feel unwanted and less-than....girls over think these things a lot so she probably felt humiliated for putting moves on you and getting let down.

Ive never been In this situation per se, however, my best friend in highschool was the most attractive girl in our grade so I know that feeling of being less than so I didn't really bother hitting on guys when she was around bc they all wanted her anyway.

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 13:39:29 2013 No.7048038 >>7048001 never argue with an idiot. they'll bring you down to their level and then beat you from experience.

PRODIGY !iFxAk2YQww Thu Oct 10 13:44:29 2013 No.7048071

>>7048022
yeah im simple. theres nothing wrong with that. also im a goof so you really cant judge my maturity/education level based on shit I say on this board considering its 4chan after all...sounds like you think you have me all figured out which is funny bc you don't know me at all.
now please stop trying to offend me when we both know im way out of your league - you've said so yourself - so idk what kind of validation youre seeking from this or WHY you feel good putting me down bc im sure youre at least smart enough to realize Idgaf if you like me or not

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:45:29 2013 No.7048073

>2nd week at uni

I guess you're a freshman? Heres your problem buddym8. See most chicks that start Uni have boyfriends home/elsewhere, propably some high school sweethearts which they swore they will be faithful and how long distance relationship can work etc. Ofc that just naive and the chicks will dumb their boyfriends back home withing the first couple of months. Then it will be your time anon. Be ready.

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 13:46:59 2013 No.7048074 >>7048073 >Then it will be your time anon. Be ready. there is a lot of truth to this.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:55:59 2013 No.7048127

Never had a pair of visvims my self but a friend of mine has them and he says he loves them. Haven't seen them in person yet, he goes to a different uni.

And said derbies would probably be best worked into a basic combo consisting of a plain tee and some quality cotton pants. I can't think of any that would work into a FW combo with a parka or anything.
Don't know why but I just thought that prada creepers could be a cool option for you if you wanna spend the money. They are really dope, although most of them are brogues

when I said offensive I meant "too out there" or "edgy"

Nike blazers can be cool, just stick to the basic ones because the ones with the designs look weird and kiddy to me. But they're a cool shoe.

For resources I'd just say stick to inspo threads, the waywts, and even some tumblrs, people post some alright ones in the tumblr threads. I got all my inspo and knowledge just from lurking, I've been here about a year and a half, but i was aware of /fa/ culture a little before then.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:56:59 2013 No.7048134 >>7047994 yo, fucked up my quote this: >>7048127 is my reply

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 13:59:30 2013 No.7048152
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True fucking story.

>be uni freshman
>dancing with another freshman, cute chick
>starting to get hot, I mean literal hot the temperature was crazy there for some reason
>chick says "It's pretty hot here rite"
>I go "yeah very"
>she says "maybe you should take your shirt off"
>I go "180$ shirt, can't leave to coat check" (sleazy bar, they actually lose shit all the time)
>"Oh ok"

Th-h-anks /fa/ and fuck alcohol, i'm such a fucking idiot under the influence it's a miracle I haven't killed myself yet.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:00:30 2013 No.7048158
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>>7048030
that wasn't as bad as it seems
i just got her number before they left and she didn't have mine
she wouldn't even have known it was me.
I already had the roommates from about 2 weeks earlier

then I tried to be a good guy and meet up with her later, and she ignores me like wtf lol?

>>7048024
starfucks tomorrow I'm just gonna str8 ignore the bitch
I like your style

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:01:30 2013 No.7048167 >>7048152 hahahahaha >$180 shirt I fucking leled

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:03:01 2013 No.7048178 File: 69 KB, 275x275, 1278852909261.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7048152 >>I go "180$ shirt, can't leave to coat check"

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 14:06:48 2013 No.7048194

>>7048158
there is a reason ignoring works, and it sounds like this situation it's the best option.

just don't act cold about it.
if she talks to you in person, act normal and unfazed. make her feel like she is just a regular person in your eyes.
this will make her go crazy, trying to figure out why you aren't chasing her.

and know when to quit.
give her less attention than she gives you, but the goal is to get her out with you, so work towards that.

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Thu Oct 10 14:09:47 2013 No.7048207

>>7048071
>bc you don't know me at all.
>im a goof
> im way out of your league
> Idgaf if you like me or not

the typical buzzwords of a white trash idiot.
why are you here, honestly? both of you. you guys don't know fashion. you're trashy

we come here to discuss brands you can't afford or have handled, yet you try to fit right in by making "advice" posts dealing with dating

its not fun to read through, nor is it on topic

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:10:48 2013 No.7048210 >>7048152 No idea why but this is one of the funniest things ever

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:11:48 2013 No.7048222 File: 51 KB, 317x265, 1376382333325.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7048207 no one is forcing u to read it m8, report if ur butt hurts 2 much

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:12:19 2013 No.7048225 >>7048194 Yeah true enough. That girl and the girl I want are in that class tomorrow. Should I give the girl I want more attention than usual to make the bitch get jealous?

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:12:19 2013 No.7048226

>>7048127
>says he loves them
Did he say anything about the quality? What does he own, Skagways?

>basic combo consisting of a plain tee
I could combine that with basically anything I guess.
>quality cotton pants
Not jeans? Is it a fashion faux pas to wear derbies with anything else than chinos?

>FW combo with a parka or anything
About parkas, call me a pleb but I need something really warm and short, and the only thing I've found was Canada Goose. Do you know anything about their quality? The lack of water resistance makes me hesitate though.

>prada creepers
The soles are too big for my tastes.
I like derbies and boots with really thin soles and a heel that doesn't stick out that much. I'm still searching for a good pair that's like that.

>just stick to the basic ones
Yeah, been thinking about copping red ones or something.
There are a bunch of other shoes I could talk about but I have to try them on to really get an idea.

>inspo threads, the waywts, and even some tumblrs
Alright, will do. For tumblrs, anything you like in particular? I don't follow anyone.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:13:17 2013 No.7048232 >>7048207 sieg what do you do? Aren't you actually pretty successful irl?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:14:17 2013 No.7048242 Alright guys, OP here going out with a female flatmate friend tonight. really didnt want to because it might be a little awrkward but i said fuck it you only go to uni once. wish me luck.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:17:48 2013 No.7048257 File: 372 KB, 300x167, predatorgif.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7048242 Godspeed

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:19:17 2013 No.7048269 File: 497 KB, 210x224, 1740020.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7048242 Good luck, /fa/g.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:19:17 2013 No.7048270 >>7048242 fuck 'er well son and she better not be more than 110lb

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:20:17 2013 No.7048282 >>7048242 just try and talk as much shit as possible gets drugs and take drugs with her go to club with loud music dance go back and fuck her easy

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:21:17 2013 No.7048285 File: 60 KB, 600x468, 1362329151488.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7048270 shes hot but were friends, im hoping to hook with one of her mates maybe.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:22:47 2013 No.7048293 >>7048282 >just try and talk as much shit as possible But for the love of god don't forget to shut up and listen if she's the type that loves to talk. Makes stuff so much easier.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:23:17 2013 No.7048302 >>7048285 Talk to her about how to go about it.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:24:18 2013 No.7048309 >>7048282 not same guy but some pointers? When i talk to girls all i can do is the boring interview shit >where you from, school, course you're doing And i need tips on flirting also please.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:24:47 2013 No.7048305 >>7048293 yeah this too if she wants to talk, let her and just keep it going nearly every girl ive been with expects me to talk a fuck load though and its ok for them to say fuck all wer 2 cop talkative qt gf?

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 14:26:18 2013 No.7048322

>>7048207
if this is real sieg do you really have room to talk about being white trash? i mean, i know you aren't actually white but you can still be trash.

>why are you here, honestly?
cuz its cool

>you're trashy
idk maybe somewhat. i try to mix it up, and i was definitely raised in some fucked up environments so i've SEEN trashy and know that's not me. i can socialize with all groups of people, and do, so that's something.

>we come here to discuss brands you can't afford or have handled
>implying
source?

> yet you try to fit right in
let's be realistic. i don't try to fit in, i never have and never will. YOU try to fit in. maybe you do fit in, or used to, but you also try to fit in.
it's not a bad thing, obviously, but don't point fingers.

>its not fun to read through, nor is it on topic
true, i don't even read my own posts. hence all the spelling and grammar errors.
doesn't change the fact that i make good posts.

>>7048222
this

and come on, i doubt people are coming on here to read your posts either.

all trips suck, btw.
it's all an ego feeding festival.
i never wanted that, but now i have to deal with it.

only reason im not anonymous is because i wanted people to have an idea who they are taking advice from.
i can back up what i talk about, you can't really do that.

you're gonna keep posting, and so am i.
so really there is no point.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:26:48 2013 No.7048327 >>7048309 Observation, i.e draw topics from stuff around you. Easier if you are like walking together in city or something

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:29:17 2013 No.7048351 File: 54 KB, 345x311, 1009847554452.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw you try it on with a girl get rejected and have to se her around campus all year fug

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:29:47 2013 No.7048347

>>7048309

look them in the eyes constantly
have like a half smile thing going

just comment on every day shit
talk about music or other interests you have
ask them what they are into, then talk about that shit for a while

friends family just fucking anything man, it gets easier to blabber on the more practive you have

the key is to not be nervous and just pretend like you have known this girl for ages, then you will feel more comfortable and be able to open up to them more, just treat them like your best friend

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:31:18 2013 No.7048360 >>7048351 Pretend it never happened but also don't act like a bitch in front of her. I mean if she asks favours and shit ignore them.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:32:48 2013 No.7048365

>>7048347

also yea observational shit is good

talk about the area you are in, whats going on, what events there are etc

talk about other people you walk past, laugh at peoples fits and shit, girls love being bitchy and feeling better than everyone else

and also compliment her, your hair is nice, your dress is nice, i like your shoes where did you get them, comment on jewelry etc etc etc

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 14:32:48 2013 No.7048368

>>7048309
you want to ask questions, but you also have to seem interested, and think of interesting responses.

if it feels like she's just answering really basic, and giving you nothing to work with, i'd say there isn't much happening between you.

sarcastic responses work well too, especially to get her to open up.
you want her to feel open and comfortable talking to you, but also somewhat nervous she'll impress you.

>>	TroalPoϟt !!M/8ntLE+we3 Thu Oct 10 14:33:18 2013 No.7048375 >>7045400 >pleb kids dat hollister

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:33:48 2013 No.7048373

>>7048226
He's the type of guy who rocks basics all the time, all quality stuff along the lines of apc, acne. Not sure of the exact model, but when he said he loved them I'm assuming there were no issues with the quality.

I always think derbies with jeans looks weird, but I'm only one guy and I'm sure there's tons of people who disagree.
and I just remembered these: http://www.ssense.com/men/product/common_projects/black_patent_leather_derby_creepers/81020
which I absolutely fucking love, want to cop so bad but I need to save as I'm at uni.

For a parka, I'd say stay away from Canada Goose just because of the obnoxious branding might come off as arrogant. However, if you really like them go for it. Dress for yourself, not by what everyone tells you to like.

Oh sorry just read about the thin sole part. I'm 5'10 so I absolutely love the creeper sole because it un-manlets me lol.

And no, I usually just lurk when they come up in the threads. Don't really recall any names, but if you look you're sure to find some good stuff

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 14:34:47 2013 No.7048380

>>7048347
>the key is to not be nervous and just pretend like you have known this girl for ages, then you will feel more comfortable and be able to open up to them more, just treat them like your best friend
yea, exactly.
don't be too afraid to say something stupid.
i'd say it's pretty hard to turn a girl off just by one dumb comment. if you just met her, yea, but if you're on a date and have been talking for a while, you can get away with a lot.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:34:47 2013 No.7048381 >>7048365 >, i like your shoes where did you get them, I tried this once and she thought i was gay

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:36:47 2013 No.7048391 >>7048368 adding onto the point of sarcastic responses this is good, try and keep a certain level of banter going, tease her a bit, but not too much so you are being a cunt, if she is laughing then you are doing well, just dont go overboard

>>	TroalPoϟt !!M/8ntLE+we3 Thu Oct 10 14:37:30 2013 No.7048395 >>7048381 the wording is a bit...weird over familiar >hmmm (snarky tone) nice shoes,if ur a granma or stmh lol or somth idk i havent been interested in a girl in months (close to a year now) yet i still try talking to them abt random

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 14:38:00 2013 No.7048405 >>7048381 saying stuff like "they aren't that bad" in a playful way works better than "i like them" IN MY OPINION and experience. "whered you get those shoes" blahblahblah "they aren't that bad"

>>	trap gang Thu Oct 10 14:38:00 2013 No.7048411 if u look like ass and have no style ofc grills dont care

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:38:29 2013 No.7048403

>>7048381

you must seem pretty gay then

girls love talking about their shoes and jewlry and shit

just as long as the whole convo isnt on where they buy their dresses

its just a passing comment really, not a full conversation, but it lets them know you are interested in them sort of

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:38:29 2013 No.7048412 >>7048373 >Oh sorry just read about the thin sole part. I'm 5'10 so I absolutely love the creeper sole because it un-manlets me lol. lel more like ppl look down and are like "oh"

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:39:59 2013 No.7048414 they think you're gay

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:41:30 2013 No.7048427 >>7048411 post fit

>>	TroalPoϟt !!M/8ntLE+we3 Thu Oct 10 14:42:00 2013 No.7048433 File: 39 KB, 224x320, 1360146060670.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] help guys i havent been into a girl in close to a year now fuck cant wait to restart school and meet peers >>7048411 #trapping #trap lord gospel

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 14:44:59 2013 No.7048443 >>7048411 post trap licks

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:48:00 2013 No.7048464 >>7048412 More like people look down at his 1000$ shoes and think that this niggas for real lol Who gives a fuck about 5'10, he's got creepers fuccboi

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 14:51:18 2013 No.7048478 >>7048403 I would never say this to a gril because my Rafs cost more than her whole fit lol

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 10 15:03:19 2013 No.7048545 >>7048443 starfucks can you post your face? you seem to know what you're talking about and im interested to see what you look like

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 15:12:52 2013 No.7048600

>>7048373
>rocks basics all the time
Cool, so Visvim can also be pulled off with a wardrobe that's not elaborate.
By the way, for basic black or white tees, I don't know if buying APC or Acne is really a good investment. I mean sure the quality's better than H&M, but I'd rather spend 100 dollars on a tee with actually good design rather than 50 on two plain white ones, see what I mean?
Do you have any brands in mind for the most basic stuff, which are b/w tees? Again something that holds up relatively well and has a slim/skinny cut and fit (I'm ottermode so I'd like to complement that when it comes to tee shirts)?

>Not sure of the exact model
Did you see them ever?

>derbies with jeans look weird
Even black jeans?

The CP creepers are cool but as I said, sole is too thin. Also the size is quite irrelevant for me, I'm 5'10'' too but I honestly don't care, I'm as tall as most people and taller than most girls.

>obnoxious branding might come off as arrogant
Not my intention at all, I just like the fit and damn, that warmth.
But the non waterproof problem is bothering me. Will it really fuck up the down if I use it while it's raining? Not a heavy rain, just humid weather and stuff?

>if you look you're sure to find some good stuff
Will do. Thanks again.

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 15:16:54 2013 No.7048629

>>7048545
not gonna happen.

too many reasons why i shouldn't, and zero reasons why i should.

i understand why you'd be curious, since i am curious about the people who i read relationship advice from, but the reality is, it doesn't matter.

i'm white, average weight (probably below average) and 6'2.

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Oct 10 15:20:54 2013 No.7048647 dang i think this thread finally reached bump limit. 6/10 thread i added two points for prodigy showing up but had to deduct quite a bit for siegs posts.

Anonymous Thu Oct 10 17:13:24 2013 No.7049177

>>7048600
yeah for sure. I totally get you. I'd much rather cop a dope bape tee than 1 or 2 apc's.

Nope, literally this is how the convo went
>Hey dude what's good
>random speak, ended up talking about our recent cops
>oh shit niga I got a pair of visvims last week
>oh yeah , you like them?
>yeah they're dope

never actually seen em yet aha

yeah totally. It won't be that bad. I had a non waterproof parka last year and it's not that bad at all.

no prob man, feel free to send me an email, I love talking about this stuff as I learn too :)
if you're still here haha

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