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Anonymous Sun Sep 22 21:59:53 2013 No.6946456 [DELETED]

share your feels

Good:
>tfw get complimented for dressing well
>tfw much more extroverted since I switched Unis, became fashionable
>tfw having no problem having sex without drama with different women
>tfw have so much spare time
>tfw doing fairly well in school & life is in order
>tfw no longer depressed
>tfw old hobbies- reading and music- are coming back

(moderately) Bad:
>tfw trouble getting good job
>tfw some people think spending so much on clothes (I never even buy retail prices, and the most I've spent on one garment is $130)
>tfw car broken down

Life's good, /fa/

Anonymous Sun Sep 22 22:03:52 2013 No.6946482

(Exceptionally) Bad:
>tfw people think /fa/ is their personal blog

But seriously, I love it when I'm having a conversation with someone and they pause the whole thing just to say "Wow Anon, you sure dressed well today."

Also the other day I had a long time friend come up to me out of the blue and say something along the lines of "When I first met you, you were a t-shirt and jeans kind of plain dresser, but in the past couple of years you've really improved and you have a great sense of fashion."

Feels good man.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 22 22:03:52 2013 No.6946483 >tfw my first attempt at juggling women failed miserably and ended in tears

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 22 22:08:23 2013 No.6946510 >>6946483 If it's casual, juggle. It it's not casual, don't juggle.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 22 22:08:52 2013 No.6946515 >>6946510 they were both meant to be casual one obviously had a different idea shit went down

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 22 22:12:23 2013 No.6946523 >>6946515 What was she like/what was your relationship like (of course I just mean relationship in general) how long have you talked? How did you talk?

Anonymous Sun Sep 22 22:14:22 2013 No.6946542

>>6946523
>What was she like/what was your relationship like (of course I just mean relationship in general)
she was a bit clingy but i just assumed she was just horny af all the time, our relationship basically consisted of fucking lol we hardly talked about anything else
i even told her we weren't an item and she said she was ok with it

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 22 22:26:23 2013 No.6946589 >>6946542 If she knew that she wasn't exclusive you're fine m8. Sooner or later all fuck buddy relationships come to an end, in the future just pull out if they're getting clingy.

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 22 22:27:23 2013 No.6946591 >>6946542 an item? and if a girl acts clingy that should be a warning sign, but I mean if you weren't reciprocating that she shouldn't have flipped out

>>	Anonymous Sun Sep 22 22:34:53 2013 No.6946622 >>6946515 >shit went down what happened

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 00:26:04 2013 No.6947228 >>6946622 clingy one figured out who my other girl was they bumped into each other one night catfight

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 03:45:33 2013 No.6947951

>bff says "you always dress up. You never tell me to dress up . You always look good"
>qtpi friends say "Why do azns pull off every look"
>mom says "why are you dressing like a woman" yet always wants to see what I get every weekend
>employee says "do you shop a lot? What are your favorite stores? You look like the type of person who's really into fashion"
>clients and employees say "where did you get that? Can you order it for me and I'll pay you extra?"
I've made profits
>get eyefucked by built and ottermode guys in gym
They're too pleb for me
>get hit on in front of my bf
>random men/women talk to me probably thinking I have contacts, not realizing I'm 22
I've made pro contacts from it
>everyone that use to not talk to me wants to be friends and offer to buy me lunch/dinners
>insecure musclebro ex tries to make me jelly by "give me advice on this girl I like"
>guy friends from high school hit on me/try to bf-gf
They're too pleb for me too
>get confident, amazing lawyer boyfriend who wears nice clothes

Life gets better if you raise your standards /fa/

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 03:50:34 2013 No.6947964 Jesus Christ men are disgusting

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:01:05 2013 No.6947982 >>6946456 so what do you do to meet grillz

>>	trunks !!SE08Bv/gZZR Mon Sep 23 04:01:34 2013 No.6947978 >>6947951 wtf is this post your mom says you dress like a woman, yet you are a woman? or youre a gay dude, but your guy friends want to be bf/gf?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:04:34 2013 No.6947985 >>6947964 fuck off you fat piece of shit

>>	trunks !!SE08Bv/gZZR Mon Sep 23 04:05:04 2013 No.6947990 >>6947964 check ur privelege

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:05:04 2013 No.6947991 >>6946456 why did you become more extroverted when you switched unis?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:05:04 2013 No.6947992 File: 83 KB, 680x510, doge6.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6947978 go 2 bed trunks

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Mon Sep 23 04:05:34 2013 No.6947988 File: 26 KB, 423x423, 1377736141658.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >watched Dexter series finale >mfw

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Mon Sep 23 04:07:03 2013 No.6947999 >>6947228 how often were seeing each girl? and had any asked you "being exclusive" or anything?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:07:33 2013 No.6947997 >>6947951 post fit

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:11:35 2013 No.6948008
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Good:

>generally happy
>been meeting more people
>starting meditation and it's working out
>in position for a great job
>looking better

Bad:

>insecure as all fuck
>it's been ages since I've had cash to buy new clothes
>life feels like it's in a precarious spot, if I don't end up getting this job I'll feel devastated
>I miss my old friends but I know I need to be in this city
>cannot into motivation

Fairly even I guess. I'm not good at this knife's edge shit though

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:13:33 2013 No.6948015 >>6947999 maybe a couple of times each week i could tell they both wanted something more but i didnt so i let them know

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:13:33 2013 No.6948017 Good >Degree >High Paying job Bad >Even though I try to into fashion I always look like shit >No women approach me

>>	trunks !!SE08Bv/gZZR Mon Sep 23 04:14:04 2013 No.6948022 >>6948017 >women >approach lol

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:16:35 2013 No.6948027 >>6948022 this

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:17:05 2013 No.6948029

Good:
>Starting a great job in central London this week
>Passed my driving test on Saturday after 3 attempts
>Got complimented on my suit on the train by a group of qt azn girls coming home from London
>Turns out my landlord was a prick and charging me >£200 over what I should have been so I got reimbursed like £6000

Bad:
>Granddad is really ill, will probably pass away soon
>Job is going to knock my social life
>Possibly got an Estonian girl pregnant on holiday in Turkey

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:18:04 2013 No.6948033 this is /r9k/ tier fuck off you peasants

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Mon Sep 23 04:18:04 2013 No.6948035

>>6947999
>>6947228
I'm about to watch Breaking Bad so i'll give some general advice about juggling relationships first.

You can't (or at least i can't) juggle girlfriends, you can only juggle girls.
If you want to juggle girls (which is smart) then you shouldn't ever spend too much time with one.

You go on a date, you fuck, you text on occasion, that's it. You should see her three or four times a month.
This leaves plenty of time for other girls, helps you to not get attached, and keeps the girls interest level high.

If she ever asks shit like "so what are we?"
"are you my boyfriend" etc, don't lie.
you don't have to tell her you are seeing someone else though.
Tell her that you aren't looking for anything serious, but you like spending time with her and maybe you will be interested in more later.

if she wants to break up then do it.
she'll either change her mind and continue fucking you, or she won't.

No loss, since you have other girls anyway.

Personally I try to date girls from different cities to avoid running into each other, and to have places to crash no matter where I am.

But i've also purposely taken a girl on a date where i knew another girl i was seeing would be.
I had several reasons, but the main reason was simply for the fuck of it.

Women's hypergamous nature makes them attracted to a man who has other women, because it's social proof.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:22:04 2013 No.6948045 >>6948035 >you text on occasion i think thats where i fucked it up i was constantly texting both of them, like daily

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:22:04 2013 No.6948046 >>6948033 Feels are always relevant

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Mon Sep 23 04:25:33 2013 No.6948054 >>6948045 texting kills relationships and it's one of the worst mistakes guys make.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:27:34 2013 No.6948057 >>6948054 how does it?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:28:04 2013 No.6948060 >tfw can only get sex if I ask girls out >don't want relationships >cannot into bar hookups >cannot into casual arrangements

>>	uuuuhhhh Mon Sep 23 04:32:34 2013 No.6948067 I applied for a job and they said they'd call me today and it's 6:30pm and they haven't called and I just think that's rude af

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Mon Sep 23 04:37:34 2013 No.6948069

>>6948057
i posted some convos i had and im sure theyre in the archive, but pretty much just keep it simple.

intro, set up a date, confirm the day of.
at random text her about something you talked about ("the finale of Dexter was so bad"), text "i saw something that reminded me of you"
and then send a pic of the thing once she responds.

shit like that.
show her that you're thinking of her, but not too often haha. if she's really interested she'll be the one checking in on you, which is great.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:41:34 2013 No.6948076 >>6948067 call them and say you were gonna call me at 630, give it an hour tho where do you apply?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:42:03 2013 No.6948079 >>6948076 read that as they were gonna call u at 630, my bad call them tomorrow

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:43:04 2013 No.6948083 >>6948069 do you have a link to these convos? this sounds useful

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 04:44:03 2013 No.6948085 >>6948069 can i salvage a first meet where we only made out for the whole night as opposed to fucking got cockblocked by her jelly female housemate >hopefully still got a chance

>>	uuuuhhhh Mon Sep 23 04:44:03 2013 No.6948086 >>6948076 no they said they'd call me today, not at 6:30 it's 6:30 now thus unlikely they will call at all I applied at a small tax firm

>>	turnleft !!t/GvfGACpW7 Mon Sep 23 04:56:10 2013 No.6948111 >>6948086 >small tax firm >no qualifications how the shit??? fucking aus man don't you get payed like $24AUD p.hour under fam or s/t, go w/ em?

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Mon Sep 23 05:04:39 2013 No.6948120 >>6948085 yea, just play it cool and if she's interested she'll be down. "(her name) it was cool hanging out ____. We should get together ____ for drinks." that's all it takes.

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Mon Sep 23 05:05:08 2013 No.6948124 >>6948120 and btw, i send pretty much that same text, word for word when i'm in similar situations. >>6948083 i'll post them when this episodes done. but just see this post. it's pretty much the same idea.

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 05:07:39 2013 No.6948127

>>6948124
ye she's already interested in rescheduling so hoping we cool
only problem is i got proper wasted the day after and may have overtexted ugh (still 1:1 ratio but i feel like i shouldve went cold after to incite interest)
foark
>tfw should ban self from phone when intoxicated

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Mon Sep 23 05:17:15 2013 No.6948146 >>6948127 post the convo and i'll give some feedback.

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Mon Sep 23 05:35:09 2013 No.6948175

>>6948127
this was the thread i started posting personal texts in:
http://fuuka.warosu.org/fa/thread/S6791991#p6794737

theres a few more posts about texting on the archive too.

i have a few more girls since then but im really drunk right now. if you want more info hit me up later.

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 05:37:40 2013 No.6948181
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Good
>tfw solid /fa/ monochrome wardrobe that I'm very happy with, steadily expanding on
>tfw job interview tomorrow morning
>tfw doing ok at uni this semester
>tfw met a girl, going out and fucking a fair bit

Bad
>tfw hate current job
>tfw no shifts for the past fortnight
>tfw runing so low on cash that I had to borrow $50 from a relative so I can eat and catch the train this week
>tfw too busy with uni, sport and work to go out on weekends
>tfw girl had some dental surgery the other day, so she's temporarily out of action
>tfw no time/energy to lift or do cardio for the past fortnight
>tfw smoking more than usual

>>	uuuuhhhh Mon Sep 23 05:40:39 2013 No.6948189 >>6948111 I wouldn't be doing tax returns secretary type ting the job my dad got me is no longer available

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 05:55:28 2013 No.6948221 >>6948146 i cba to type em out but tl;dr just did a bit too much back and forth shudve left her wanting more o well im sure it'll work out and if not #SHITHAPPENS

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 05:59:27 2013 No.6948226 >>6948035 >>6948035 Mystery Method in action Wish i had Come further in my advances Tfw Kissens 23y old virgin

Jolien !UWqyWTEBWc Mon Sep 23 06:37:58 2013 No.6948301

Good
>I'm quite tall
>I'm on target weight
>Calm uni semester so time to do some evening school sewing
>I'm feeling really good since my wardrobe is coming together really good
>sometimes even get a compliment from waywt threads
>Me, my brother and our 3 neighbours have been the best friends forever.

Bad
>I don't really like people that much
>I noticed I hate partying
>1 of my friends is a model, and 1 of them is extremely rich, so when I or my brother or the other friend are interested in a QT boy or girl they are bound to be trying to suck the other 2 guy's dick already. (They don't even try at all most of the time..)
>average face

Why am I even typing this out

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 06:49:59 2013 No.6948341 >>6948301 >Why am I even typing this out Because feel threads are group therapy anon. As for your friends, you just need to develop your own quality that appeals to girls

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 06:53:28 2013 No.6948356

>>6948226
Read up on kino. Apart from avoiding beta pitfalls, it's the secret to sexual escalation.
Compare how long your fingers are. Play with her hand a little bit - trace the lines or whatever. Kiss it. Kiss up the arm (this is gold.) Then go in for the main kiss. Take it slow, if she seems uncomfortable at any point, just move one step back for a minute, then re-escalate.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 06:53:28 2013 No.6948359 >>6948054 This is the most true thing about relationships, thank you lord for nicest advices.

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 07:02:49 2013 No.6948382

Good:
>finally in with a really cool group of friends
>been given some club memberships
>get invited to parties and major events all the time
>my wardrobe is great at the moment
>consistently get compliments on my "beautiful" clothes
>started doing runway work. i hardly get paid and it doesn't seem like it's really going anywhere. it's worth it for the fb photos though
>girls always telling my friends how handsome they think i am

Bad:
>spent over $6,400 on clothes in the last three months
>still a virgin at 21
>crippling Sexual Aversion Disorder

>>	trunks !!SE08Bv/gZZR Mon Sep 23 07:06:34 2013 No.6948392 >>6948382 >people who self diagnose a disorder to any personality trait they have i wish i could just strangle all of them

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 07:08:34 2013 No.6948402 >>6948392 i hate you so fuckibg much but i agree that shit is infuriating the worst is when girls say they have insomnia because they stay up till 5am sometimes fucking GAHEIURHUHRHJ

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 07:08:34 2013 No.6948403 >>6948356 >tfw kino king

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 07:09:05 2013 No.6948407

>>6948382

Those are some great feels anon. How do I into party invites?

>spent over $6,400 on clothes in the last three months
>implying this is a bad thing

>still a virgin at 21
>crippling Sexual Aversion Disorder

You just get drunk and get it over and done with brah. Once you lose the 'virgin' label you won't be as hard on yourself

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 07:09:05 2013 No.6948409 >>6948402 >the worst is when girls say they have insomnia because they stay up till 5am sometimes fucking GAHEIURHUHRHJ >stay up till 5am fucking FTFY

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 07:10:05 2013 No.6948410 >>6948392 i'm doing CBT at the moment and also having my test boosted

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 07:11:34 2013 No.6948414 >tfw disgusting cold sore well, I guess my responsibilities can get fucked I'm not leaving my house

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 07:11:34 2013 No.6948415 >>6948409 another cracker uncle tony

trunks !!SE08Bv/gZZR Mon Sep 23 07:14:34 2013 No.6948422

>>6948402
>lol i keep my room tidy i have ocd xD
>yeahhh i toooootally hear voices in my head #schitzo #edgy #watchout
>sometimes i like to sit in my room and read books im so antisocial
>yeah if i go to the grocery store i have panic attacks and i cant breathe :(((( crippling anxiety
>i dont like spiders
>look i took an online personality test thats practically the same as a clinical diagnosis

-every female with a tumblr account
-most of /r9k/

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 07:23:04 2013 No.6948445 >>6947951 still no idea if you are a boy or a girl

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 07:28:04 2013 No.6948461 >>6948414 I know tf I try and just man up and forget about it. People usually don't notice and if they do they don't say anything.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 07:33:34 2013 No.6948478 >>6948461 >skipping first rehearsal for a play I'm the lead in bc cold sore lol fuck

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 07:42:33 2013 No.6948497

o-okay effay, h-here i go

good feels

>6'3,145lbs nodelboi
>garms always fit like they were made personally for me
>get complimented on my style by both plebes and qt sa's in high end boutiques a lot
>get called gorgeous and beautiful constantly by grills and faggots
>ppl always breakneck and look at me in public, (could be good or bad but i wear mostly black/grey/offwhite palettes now so i probably just stand out in the sea of k-mart peasants)
>small but well curated wardrobe, my own style is blossoming pretty well
>damir doma, odeur, rick owens, lela jacobs usually what i'm dressed in
>used to be really awkward but i got a job which turned me into a social butterfly

bad feels

>dropped out of uni after the most depressing and isolating experience i have ever had in my life, probably won't return because the few fields i can perform well in probably won't yield a good career, not to mention debt
>have no direction in life and work a min wage job fund my obnoxious spending habits
>social circle is near barren, i don't let workfriends get any closer than a certain line i've drawn, old friends i have nothing in common with and have eventually lost all contact with
>/fa/ incarnate when it comes to personality= this includes being a venomous, cynical piece of shit with a superiority complex, narcissistic/self hate cycles, self absorbed, lie and manipulate ppl often for no reason at all. (this isn't really all bad but i don't think it belongs in the good section)
>ADDICTED 2 COPPING
>no qtp2t gf
this fashion killa lifestyle just keeps going huh

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 07:43:05 2013 No.6948502 I want to be a little girl

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 08:02:39 2013 No.6948538

good:
>8/10 face (apparently)
>losing weight and getting more into shape
>gone from graphic tees to solid neutral colors
>more fit
>probably happiest and most confident i've been in years
>a month into taking care of my skin (which is my main flaw) and i'm progressing really well

bad:
>NEET
>poor so no money for anything other than cheap basic clothes
>depressed, anxiety, low self confidence
>just moved into a new city so no new friends
>virgin
>so lonely

>>	tomato Mon Sep 23 08:03:38 2013 No.6948540 >>6948502 don't we all?

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 08:17:38 2013 No.6948572

Good:
>Generally happy with life
>I've moved passed a brief era of minor depression based around self-efficacy in a social realm
>am exercising a lot - feeling fit and healthy
>eating healthy (for the most part)
>am enjoying the things I love (eg. music)
>am going to be spending the majority of the next 12 months in Japan working in the snow resorts and on exchange for uni
>am very financially stable, especially for a student living away from home
>am developing a pretty good wardrobe and my own idea of what kind of clothes I like to wear
>have happy, loving family and friends

Bad:
>22 year old virgin and never experienced a proper romantic relationship, however not all that bothered by it - I never go out with the intention of getting laid, and don't actively seek a girlfriend
>i'm not my ideal weight/body though i'm very close and working on it
>I listen to music and realize that I'm so far away from that skill level in production and composition that it's disheartening, though I've only just started

Meh, I'm pretty good when I think about it

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 08:35:55 2013 No.6948617 >>6948017 Women are sexually receptive, bro. It's hardwired into their brains, its extraordinarily rare for any woman to do that. A woman being rejected by a man is a -lot- worse than a man being rejected by a woman.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 08:49:24 2013 No.6948630 >>6948497 iktfb

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 08:49:25 2013 No.6948632

Good
>been taking new medication it's working well
>loosing weight, had to make a smaller hole in my belt
>my face is average to good looking

Bad
>haven't joined any clubs or social groups
>stay in dorm watching my fish swim and on netflix
>need a job but too intimidated to look
>shit fits, no matter how I try to look good I usually end up looking like shit
>my grades need to be perf in order to get into nursing school

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 08:56:24 2013 No.6948643

Good:
>read heaps of books and poetry, people think I'm deep and smart
>at really good uni, studying something i love
>live in inner north melb so nobody cares how I dress
>wear harem pants, indian style shirts etc. plus have beard, give zero fucks
>pretty good at cooking curries
>have enjoyable yoga class twice a week
>been fooling around with synthesizers with a good mate, played a couple of gigs
>sleeping with this bretty good chick I met at a poetry slam

Bad:
>mother is disappointed in my lifestyle
>don't have driver's license (this is only a bad feel if I have to leave the city, as I cycle anywhere close)
>cat I've had since I was ten died the other day (I'm 19 now)

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 08:58:25 2013 No.6948646

>>6948407
i get completed wasted about three times a week. still nothing ever happens. sometimes there will be a girl literally right there in front of my trying to grind but i'm just unable to even touch her. i've had girls ask me back to their place multiple times but i always make some bullshit excuse. doing anything even slightly sexual just seems so weird and unnatural. i don't even know why

i thought i was gay for a while but eventually realized i'm not attracted to men. i like how girls look, i like how they act, i'm attracted to them but as soon as things get sexual it just freaks me out

fucking kill me

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 09:14:56 2013 No.6948669

>own a house
>tight group of friends
>no problem socializing
>new gym opening near house
>new job that's a career move
>new tang at least 1/month

>own house so NO SPENDING MONEY
>minimal /fa/ wardrobe that's starting to wear out
>can't seem to find a haircut I really like
>haven't met a grill worthy of my emotions in well over a year

The random grill fucking is losing its luster, I want someone I can fall in love with, damnit.

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 09:41:58 2013 No.6948718

good
>making quite a lot of money for someone my age
>have a car that is the envy of many

bad
>crushing loneliness
>social life is at critically low levels
>confidence is at an all time low, any confrontations of any sort put my mind into shock
>been described to dress and look like a hobo
>treated like shit at work
>have too much time to think, only think about every bad time in the past
>depression is kicking back

>work finishes every time the shops close, cant buy clothes except on christmas break

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 09:46:28 2013 No.6948724 >>6948632 don't be so hard on yourself i'm sure you look fine remember nobody else cares as much how u look as you do get out there and do shit my son

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 09:48:27 2013 No.6948729

>>6948356
i know about kino and im further than i ever been in my youth

i can now grab girls around her waist and pull them into me , i regularly tell them to give me their hand and i inspect their nails and make comments about it

i just cant kiss close

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 09:52:59 2013 No.6948740 >>6948729 mate that's a lot of work on sun i was around a qt's house (first time we met too) just had a beer or two and did the casual hand on leg, slide up to inner thigh, lean in BOOM kissing and more guaranteed how do u fuck dis up anon

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 09:59:28 2013 No.6948758

>Be Art Student with Lax schedule
>Party errynight
>Baby fat from face is gone, hard high cheekbones
>Mirin' looks in the caff
>Grills being flirty
>Finally have solid wardrobe

>Spending so much on alcohol, 3 30racks this weekend with Room Mate
>Need to start working out again
>Need haircut soon
>Only brought best clothes to school, so laundry erry week
>Went out with girl, got fucked drunk, dragged her to her app, tucked her in. She confessed some stronger feelings toward me that she wont remember because she was black out. Asked me what happened the night before, didn't tell her what she said.
>I don't know what I want.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 10:00:28 2013 No.6948761 >>6948758 >Baby fat from face is gone, hard high cheekbones how old u

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 10:14:49 2013 No.6948799

>never come to /fa/
>decided to get a new jacket but dont know where to look
>look at sticky
>several hundreds of stores listed but none of the few doesn't i checked have any of the jackets I want which is a new jack and jones jacket
>decide to look at hair styles
>all of the hair styles and hair cuts are for men with strait hair
>realize that /fa/ is worse that I thought

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 10:23:46 2013 No.6948841 >>6948761 19y9m

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 10:27:15 2013 No.6948856 >>6948799 Also >being tight on money due to college and cant afford ANY of the ridiculously priced pieces of assorted fabric so I will have to resort to using the same limited clothes that i have are more than five years old

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 10:42:18 2013 No.6948896 >>6948643 sorry to hear about your cat man. my dogs sick atm so you have my condolences

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 10:46:18 2013 No.6948906 >>6948799 >several hundreds of stores listed but none of the few doesn't i checked have any of the jackets I want which is a new jack and jones jacket kill urself

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 10:49:48 2013 No.6948911 >>6948906 This one jacket I have was really nice but I am now seeing its age and would like to get a new one. But all that I am seeing so far are just jackets with fake fur on the hood or puffy jackets or the kinds made out of leather or fleece.

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 10:58:06 2013 No.6948925
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Good:
>stopped having anxiety attacks
>working in a new bar, heaps of fun and plenty of hours
>excited about new uni course
>grails coming in the mail
>getting my motorbike license
>playing less and less video games
>got enough money to move out with some friends

Bad:
>finding it harder than i would like to quit smoking
>always tired or sick
>haven't had sex in like three weeks
>have more negative angst than positive motivation
>turning 21 soon and have accomplished so much less than i dreamed of
>havent been surfing
>whining like some sort of cunt on /fa/

could be worse

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 11:01:04 2013 No.6948933 >>6948925 >haven't had sex in like three weeks Well aren't you just a poor and unfortunate thing?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 11:05:23 2013 No.6948937 >>6948933 three weeks is a long time when you aren't ugly

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 11:06:52 2013 No.6948940 >>6948937 Well now there is no need for that. Maybe that is why you arent accomplishing much with an ugly attitude like that.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 11:11:52 2013 No.6948961 File: 610 KB, 480x331, 1370200699863.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6948940 it came off a lot more aggressive than it was meant to haha, i just mean i think its a long time if you're dressed well and average looking

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 11:21:22 2013 No.6948992

>bulky legs, short shins
>bad skin
>feminine jaw, dead eyes, curved beta eybrows
>short, 5ft8", im working as an assistant at a elementary school and the 6th graders are my height
>weak hairline, deep V shape
>would be okay with it but the right corner has been thinner than the rest since child so I have like 10 strands of hair there and it looks retarded
>want to cling on to the hair but end up looking like shit all the time, afraid of shaving because baby face
>i cant win

i dont know why I even try, I guess its those brief moments when I think I actually look good and everything will be allright

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 12:43:54 2013 No.6949380 >>6947964 People have casual sex. It's something both men and women do, idiot. inb4 troll

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 12:45:56 2013 No.6949393

>>6947982
You don't set up any system to meet grillz. You just meet them. People think all this elaborate advice they get here will step up their game- it won't.
If I had to give one piece of advice, though, it's just fake confidence. Give yourself either a new beginning somewhere (ie switch unis), or just go somewhere new, and just be confident. Real confidence follows, because you now realize that nothing was ever holding you back.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 12:49:26 2013 No.6949411 >>6948035 Can this trip just be banned? >>6947991 It's a new beginning. I had set up a different persona at my old uni, where people already knew me. Why? To have a better life

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 12:53:26 2013 No.6949431 >>6948992 what is >>feminine jaw, dead eyes, curved beta eybrows CURVED BETA EYEBROWS? wtf is that

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 13:03:25 2013 No.6949481 >>6947988 what happened

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 13:09:26 2013 No.6949504 good >i have friends for the first time in my life >my grades are excellent >im having sex on the regular bad >no one ever tells me i dress well or look nice >i am very insecure >i am poor as fuck >wish i had some more free time

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 13:13:59 2013 No.6949542 File: 51 KB, 347x480, 1359934134793.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >everybody calls me a stupid faggot for buying my CPs

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 13:17:00 2013 No.6949557 >>6949542 stupid faggot

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 13:21:31 2013 No.6949572 >>6949557 n-no you

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 13:43:17 2013 No.6949645

>just bought some preowned raf sneaks for really cheap
>really confident
>well known
>meet new people all the time
>get loads of compliments, especially about my hair
>have one girl especially interested in me, trying to get into a casual type friends with benefits thing
>great balance between school and spare time
>happy as fuck
>feeling inspired by the world
>really motivated
>well dressed
>have an actual sleeping schedule for once in my life
>getting back into reading
>getting fitter
>have a bit of money in the bank
life is so good

but
>not sure how it's going to go with this girl
>do not want an actual relationship but i think she might
ah well, i'll see how it goes

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 13:51:48 2013 No.6949673
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good
>really long thick wavy hair
>huge dark brown eyes
>really thin, but well proportioned body
>fit into everything i buy so its easy to shop online

it's say, "model wearing size small, model wearing size 26", or only one size extra small, and itl'll fit pro as fuck.

the bad
>spending all my money on clothes
>too embarrassed to walk around in public looking good because it feels heatbag
>only dress up to go to bars or hangout with friends
>no point in going to bars anyways because i've a steady boyfriend
>all my friends girlfriends hate me because i look more fa than them, especially the "wanna-be" model ones.
>mfw boyfriends not fa and says i waste my money

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 14:25:39 2013 No.6949781 >>6948911 stop being a faggot

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 14:33:06 2013 No.6949800
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good:
>Finished degree
>Multiple offers from modeling agencies
constantly told I should be model and/or act by many influential people in the field
>saved like 50 grand, slowly spending on grails
>know how to dress really well, constantly getting complimented by stylists in shoots
>drink and smoke weed all day listening to music, posting on fa and watching movies

Bad:
>making very little money since I have to wait to hear back from one of the new york agencies before I sign
>absolutely no social life
>nogf ever @ 22
>drink and smoke weed all day listening to music, posting on fa and watching movies

It's a strange kind of feel

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 14:40:36 2013 No.6949818 >>6949673 are you me except that I like the fact that my boyfriend isn't very /fa/. doesn't judge my money choices and isn't drowning in feels of self doubt or narcissism. but ya damn it feels nice to fit into everything

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 14:42:06 2013 No.6949823 >>6948646 maybe you're asexual? it could be possible that you don't feel sexual attraction to people in general. google is your friend

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 14:49:06 2013 No.6949855 >>6949645 you have 0 bad things going on stop being a faggot

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 14:50:05 2013 No.6949862 >>6949800 >saved 50G whilst studying degree tell me your secrets

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 14:51:35 2013 No.6949864 >>6949800 Go out?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 14:52:06 2013 No.6949871 >>6948069 Why wouldn't you text ur gf? Ur dumb.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 14:57:07 2013 No.6949887 >>6949800 What's your style like? Can you please post a fit, blur or chop your face if you must.

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 15:00:54 2013 No.6949899
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>>6949862
I just got a full ride to the university, worked full time, already had a little savings and our family has a very good investor. I paid off my car already so i'm sitting pretty. I may be moving to New York soon anyway though.

>>6949864
I have extremely high social anxiety almost a phobia if I'm going certain places like bars and clubs. Other than that I dont know any place to go out to. I really dont care about the social life aspect but I kind of want a good girl to hang out with me and share my life with. In the past They've all just psyched themselves out about me I guess though... and I have poor relationship skills I guess because I havent had that much experience.

I literally in my four years of college only went to one bar. I would just sit in the dark and pretend I wasnt there when my flatmates would come home to our apartment and I barely said a word to them ( individual rooms and they already knew each other previously)

I dont really feel like its hopeless, but like if I ever met some girl it'd probably have to be through my modeling or if there was a modeling related party I may be inclined to go and feel less nervous.

Its really wierd I know

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 15:07:23 2013 No.6949924 >>6949855 she's writing a song about "being messed around" apparently. this isn't a good thing at the moment.

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 15:10:54 2013 No.6949940
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good
>go to a good college
>getting good grades
>parents are pretty rich
>got STEM related talent / skills
>will probably be successful financially
>cool interests and hobbies
>some great experiences
>got pretty good taste in movies, books, music, games (imo)
>developing taste in clothing
>this semester my social life's gone from absolutely nothing to something
>made a few acquaintances I go out with on weekends
>good physique, aesthetically
>haven't been depressed recently

neutral

>average height
>not white
>never get any comments about my clothes or anything

negative
>pretty shitty confidence still
>not really good at talking about my interests or being interesting in conversations
>never done anything remotely romantic with a girl (never been on a date or held hands) and I'm 19
>pretty unfit, cardio wise
>eat a lot of junk food
>procrastinator and bad time management
>usually very depressed
>no close friends since high school
>might be hideously ugly or improbably deformed, facially
>generally nonexistent social life
>people might think I'm an asshole or something

at least I'm improving

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 15:10:56 2013 No.6949943

good
>slowly dressing better
>slowly getting fit
>slowly getting smarter

bad
>I only have 2 friends I like, neither of whom are at uni with me
>starting final year of a degree subject I don't even like (comp sci)
>still don't know how to talk to people
>still scared to leave my room
>no gf

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 15:20:05 2013 No.6949981 >>6949899 What's your style like?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 15:22:09 2013 No.6949988 >>6949899 >literally in my four years of college only went to one bar. Did improve when you got drunk?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 15:25:41 2013 No.6950000 bad: >break up with the love of my life >best mate dies the next day >can't even remember what it feels like to smile >lost about 10kg of weight >started drinking heavily again good: >got a promotion to a senior chef de partie

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 15:37:27 2013 No.6950066

>get compliments on clothes/looks erryday
>reading & meditating a lot
>quit smoking & drinking
>studies are going really well
>getting into shape finally
>finding life more interesting day by day (probably cause quit smoking weed)

then the bad ones
>no balls to ask this 5/5 chick out who I've been talking to, think I'm too pleb for her (1st time this has ever happened)
>I'm quite short, still hard to accept
>addicted to the internet

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 15:47:57 2013 No.6950119
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>>6949887
sorry I totally took forever and nosoxxed it. I think this is the first fit i've ever posted online, just because /anxiety.

I subscribe to the brands that fa recommends, Try to dress in conservative colors and mix the 'goth ninja' artisinal look with a classic menswear without looking tryhard.

I just try to mix both the styles all the time and consider context.

>>6949988
no my drunkenness doesnt improve my phobia of bars or being 'where im not supposed to'

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 15:53:58 2013 No.6950140 >>6950000 have you got anyone there for you bro?

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 15:56:27 2013 No.6950156 >>6950119 do ur feet get cold or would u normally wear thick socks

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 15:56:28 2013 No.6950161 >>6950156 lol I would normally wear socks and probably a scarf as well. I just took this just now in drunken high stupor

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:11:00 2013 No.6950219

>>6950119
You do dress well, no question about it. There is evident taste beyond what "fa subscribes," you look great and thank you for sharing.

With your anxiety, have you considered or tried any pharm meds? Attack dosing, Ritalin and the works? Would you be more comfortable in a group setting or a single friend or two? Consider a /fa meetup, or finding another like mind in your area.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:12:57 2013 No.6950225 >>6950219 >Attack dosing, Ritalin and the works? I'd recommend against this m8

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:15:59 2013 No.6950240 >>6950119 I'd get high and watch movies with you if you burned your shoes >plz be in lorraine

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:18:59 2013 No.6950257 >>6949899 You could further yourself with work. Socializing with people in your industry, expanding your network.

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:20:57 2013 No.6950265
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>>6950219
tysm. Tbh I've studied and tried MAOI's, Beta Blockers, depressants stimulants etc. etc. etc.

I was in psychology geared towards neuropsychology/science for my masters but had to leave an apprenticeship program for stealing the places in-house meds ( luckily it was a friend of a friend who caught me so I didnt get kicked out but alas im still ashamed.)

so now i'm modeling and going to an online school to try to get a real estate license because my family has ties in that district.

I've never really sought professional help because I feel like being honest with a therapist or psychiatrist would cause me way more problems than I already have because of the legality matters and I can function in society, just not on a social level.

It's all just so complicated to me. Right now my dreams and hopes for the future are really all that i'm clinging on to.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:21:28 2013 No.6950266 >>6949899 try a therapist m8

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:27:30 2013 No.6950300 >>6950257 thats the plan tbh, I have so much downtime right now though and thats whats killing me. i'm sure when I can finally sign instead of freelancing and testing I will cheer up. sage

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:28:30 2013 No.6950311

>waiting at the train station
>suddenly a girl calls my name
>OHSHITOHSHITOHSHIT MUST PREVENT SPAGHETTIS FROM SPILLING
>Oh, it's that bland-ass chick from high school
>Wait, something's wrong, she's not insulting or mocking me
>she's even complimenting me on my endeavor to publish some poetry
>g-gotta play it cool, I don't have my dope fit on but it's o-okay, I can still handle a casual conversation with a chick I barely know even if I'm not dressed well
>tfw she actually shows interest in my work
>tfw she's smiling all along but not in a sarcastic way
>tfw I'm beginning to find her qt because of it even though she objectively isn't
>tfw I pretend to get a phone call to escape the situation and avoid making a fool of myself

What did you do to me, /fa/? I'm starting to crave and value kindness from girls and can only rely on the dopeness of my fits to handle them. How did that happen?

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:28:58 2013 No.6950313

Good
>lots of hobbies, guitar piano cooking etc
>tight group of friends
>decent social life and ok with girls
>often feel happy and motivated, starting to give less fucks in social situations
>quit video games and tv shows, day 11 of 90 of nofap

Bad:
>limited spending money for clothes
>limited time for hobbies am socialising with IB
>have trouble completing goals I set myself
>not really good at anything + virgin

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:30:57 2013 No.6950326 >>6950311 wear basic fits that look good rather than ever looking not well dressed

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:32:57 2013 No.6950332 >>6950313 >IB Good luck with that faggot

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:34:58 2013 No.6950337 >>6950326 I'm way too slav to look good in basic clothes.

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:37:58 2013 No.6950350

Good:
>my relationship seems to have gotten past the problems and be better than before
>uni has finally started again
>on track to do awesome things with my life
>I have a cool, completely not shitty flatmate

Bad
>think I fucked up a good friendship at a party the other night but I was too drunk to remember and nobody will tell me
>still shit at the piano

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:38:28 2013 No.6950352 >>6950337 no way man, you're not trying hard enough

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:39:58 2013 No.6950358 >>6950352 Two words, man. Trenerka stil

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 16:42:58 2013 No.6950383 >>6950337 Two words, man: Trenerka stil

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 17:29:28 2013 No.6950618 >>6950161 >tfw no fullsized mirror in home to do WAYWTs

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 17:31:27 2013 No.6950625 >>6950618 Didn't mean to quote that

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 17:33:58 2013 No.6950642 >tfw when people compliment you and you think they're mocking you

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 17:37:28 2013 No.6950656 >>6950313 why do people do no fap? it feels good and is a good way to kill 30 seconds and if you dont fap and meet a qt some night you will jizz before she even touches your penis

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 17:39:27 2013 No.6950664 >>6950642 I know that feel

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 17:41:58 2013 No.6950684 >tfw walked past group of girls today, they laughed >tfw im fairly sure its not paranoia, happened before with same girls >tfw paranoia

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 17:44:27 2013 No.6950695 >>6950625 its okay, I know that feeling. I usually filter waywts out though, they are just hotbeds for the drama.

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:01:29 2013 No.6950762
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Good:
>have multiple girls interested in me and I'm enjoying the attention
>grades are good
>getting more and more /fa/ and /fit/ as time goes on

Bad:
>not sure if the one grill I actually like feels the same way
>Uni classes are hard as fuck
>texting and messaging grills eats up free time and means that I have to stay up late doing work

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:10:58 2013 No.6950794

good
>my AD has improved heaps probably because I've been meditating for a year now
>plenty of friends, probably most I've ever had in my life
>finally getting my drivers licence at 24
>I think I have nice clothes and I generally look alright/good

bad
>kissed only once years ago and I have terrible fear to kiss because of my inexperience
>haven't met a girl I like for too long. no idea where to look for one either + no guts to talk to grills idk yet
>still get anxious, but for shorter periods of time, thankfully

>>6950383
trenerka stil ni basic, to je techwear

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:15:27 2013 No.6950808
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Good:
>slowly reworking wardrobe
>3 year scholarship to uni
>about to leave school
>good gf
>good friends
>good family
>its almost summer
>going to see Flume live in a month

Bad:
>wardrobe still hasn't come together
>not enough money to buy what I truly want
>hard to find good clothes in this country (NZ)

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:17:59 2013 No.6950822 >>6950808 >flume carry on plebeian

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:22:28 2013 No.6950841

Good:
>In good 4yr job-apprenticeship programme
>car insurance is nearly paid off
>enjoying gta
>grades are good

Bad:
>i sometimes wish I went the normal route of going straight to uni, when I see uni pictures it makes me sad
>got a bad haircut the other day
>pursuing no single female atm, even when I do I realise I don't really like them that much
>seem to hate everything in my wardrobe after a while
>im 20 in 6 months
>few main friends are moving away to uni
>life seems routine at the minute
>no holidays planned this year

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:30:28 2013 No.6950867 >>6950822 post taste

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:31:29 2013 No.6950871 Good: >moved in with bf >went vegan >moved out of town i hate from impossible to tolerate room mates >much more confident Bad >got a speeding ticket and have to go to traffic school >still not musician >no job yet >tired and frustrated all the time

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:39:59 2013 No.6950916 >>6950871 >went vegan >good gb2tumblr

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:45:28 2013 No.6950945 >tfw finally starting to develop your own style and have taste and thinking independent of /fa/ thanks for guiding me you guys. I feel so reinvented :)

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:50:57 2013 No.6950973 File: 7 KB, 174x165, 1379602597981.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Good: >more noticed >more sociable >more confident Bad >still depressed, at least a brighter outlook than before

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:52:28 2013 No.6950982 >>6950916 Im not her but vegan food is delicious. They have to get creative because they can use so little. That being said I'll always take BBQ ribs over a vegan pizza slice but its nice to try different things.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:52:28 2013 No.6950983 >>6950684 I get this shit too dude

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:56:28 2013 No.6951010 good >get props on my fits from qts even though my fits are kinda pleb >it's highschool so it's easy to be better dressed than everyone >intelligent bad >all first world problems

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:57:28 2013 No.6951017 >>6951010 Dont dress too well. Its highschool. That shit backfires eventually.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 18:58:57 2013 No.6951025 >>6951017 i dont go all out in any tier I just wear clean slightly better than everyone else type fits

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 19:05:28 2013 No.6951066

The good
>Started going to parties more
>women keep complimenting me on clothes

The Bad
>Used to dress like a complete dork in highschool
>shaggy hair, jeans that dragged behind my mud caked tennis shoes
>because of this i am very socially awkward
>only say yes or no to girls obviously trying to talk to me

yung Mon Sep 23 19:06:27 2013 No.6951074

>just finished semester exams
>pretty tall
>body compliments
>clothes compliments
>get all my clothes at pretty cheap
>lotsa friends
bad
>feel depressed sometimes/worry over really little things
>shy
>never content with how i look
>bacne/acne
>can never afford nicer clothes

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 19:10:28 2013 No.6951098 >>6951017 elaborate

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 19:14:58 2013 No.6951123

>>6951098
Think about it. imagine you were a regular person, not a /fa/ggot.
If you saw a guy who was really well dressed in high school would you be more inclined to compliment him or think he was a douche?
Save looking good for college. Trust me it comes in handy a lot better when people dont know you.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 19:17:58 2013 No.6951132 >>6951123 stop being so judgemental. Dressing well, but not overdoing it is still fine.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 23 19:37:28 2013 No.6951271 >>6951123 Where I'm from the well-dressed people in high school were usually popular.

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 21:39:55 2013 No.6952011

Good:
>Less a social retard than I was half a year ago
>Started lifting so getting more confident
>Girl I've had a crush on for a while seems to be into me
Bad:
>Said girl always runs off with some other dude in the end anyway
>Even though it's been getting better I'm still an insecure betalord
>19 and still a virgin
>NEET at the moment, which is so fucking shitty it's making me more and more depressed

I want to move somewhere else to get a fresh start but I can't really do that right now.

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 22:13:07 2013 No.6952246

Good:
> Recently met great girl who models; now my first long-term relationship
> Somewhat attractive
> Great collection of well-fitting shirts/pants
> A few great friends

Bad:
>Social life is becoming more and more stagnant
>Had bad previous semester in Uni; this one is looking to be similar
>zero money
>gaining weight due to being poor-teir and cannot eat healthily
>zero time to exercise/meditate
>crippling depression
>gf got DUI; forced into rehab by parents, so that's a thing

Godammit, where did it all fall apart?

Anonymous Mon Sep 23 22:35:07 2013 No.6952371
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>>6946456
Good
>Decent hair after years of nostyle
>Wardrobe coming together slowly after a few missteps (Sold my 1k's to some thirsty mfa niggers)
>Get paid enough for relatively easy job
>Turn heads when strutting through CBD
>Longterm gf
>Own house
>Putting on weight

Bad
>Teeth aren't straight, gonna pay 8k to fix them
>Think about cheating on my gf a lot now I'm attractive
>Job is dead end
>No real friends, only online ones
>Most people think I'm a dick
>I am a dick

Gaspard Tue Sep 24 05:31:00 2013 No.6954027

Good:
>tfw I got a bunch of gigs to look forward to this weekend
>tfw Going to sydney at the end of the year to meet friends and have a good time
>tfw Party on saturday

Bad
>tfw Unemployed
>tfw Feeling Slightly sick, possibly a stomach bug
>tfw I have to go to the Sexual Health clinic for a check-up tomorrow because I'm showing early symptoms for syphilis

The last bad feel is kinda sitting on all the other good feelings at the moment.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 24 05:33:00 2013 No.6954030 >>6954027 I hope its AIDS instead, we won't miss you faggot.

>>	Gaspard Tue Sep 24 05:35:01 2013 No.6954033 >>6954030 how edgy of you

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 24 05:41:30 2013 No.6954040 bad: face broken out insomnia feeling pretty uggo good: broken out because slowly getting better finally cool weather can look okay with makeup at least

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 24 05:46:30 2013 No.6954053 >>6954033 Seriously though, who cares, People get STDs all the time, why should I feel bad for you if you get one.

Anonymous Tue Sep 24 05:47:31 2013 No.6954057
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Good-

>Qtpi /fa/ GF
>Mom got a great new job and is willing to throw me extra cash whenever I need it (She's balling hard)
>Just got a new car.
>Going on a cross-country road-trip to drive it back to New York
>Got back into working out, starting back school in the spring after being majorly depressed and a NEET for two years
>Just got into /fa/ and am learning how to shop clothes well, picked up first pair of Levi's and getting Chippewa Apache's soon.

Bad

>GF is long distance, and I'd have to move to her town to really make it work. Her town kind of sucks.
>I'm almost 24 and still not financially independent
>I haven't gotten as good at music as I thought I'd be by now, although I'm not bad.
>I have barely any friends outside of my GF.
>Still somewhat a NEET (no traditional job although I make about a grand a month doing real estate stuff)

Pic related

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 24 06:03:32 2013 No.6954080 >qt hipster gf baked mini apple pies for me last night >bakes brownies for me tonight because I have an exam coming up >kiss and cuddle for an hour

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 24 06:09:02 2013 No.6954092 >>6954057 wow she is qt. more?

>>	sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Tue Sep 24 06:14:02 2013 No.6954098 >>6954057 LDR? Shes cheating or dating others bro if i were you i wouldnt take it too seriously.

Anonymous Tue Sep 24 06:18:01 2013 No.6954101

>>6954098

She's not cheating. I dunno if LDR is the right word, I have a place there and I come back for weeks at a time but I'm always travelling and on the road a lot so we are LDR about half the time.

I love her and our relationship, just the distance is daunting at times.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 24 06:24:32 2013 No.6954108 >>6954057 Upvote.

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Tue Sep 24 06:28:02 2013 No.6954118

>>6946456
Good:
Fall is my favorite season

Bad:
Loser
Over weight
Ugly
Boring
Stupid. Seriously i think i am borderline retarded. College degrees dont mean shit

Shitty eyesight
No friends
Too many clothes
Not really good at anything

Realized that no matter how hard i try life will always be shit and i will suck at whatever i try to accomplish so half aass everything

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 24 06:36:03 2013 No.6954132 i just discovered today that you can just get toilet paper and grab as many arse hairs as you can and tear them straight out and it doesnt even hurt

>>	tomato Tue Sep 24 06:39:01 2013 No.6954139 >>6954118 at least you can get accepted into a college ;______;

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 24 06:41:02 2013 No.6954145 >>6954132 wow really?

Anonymous Tue Sep 24 06:44:32 2013 No.6954149

>>6954145
yup
i used to be super scared trying to use scissors then i was slightly less scared using clippers but its really hard to do blind and doesnt get close to everything anyway (maybe it would if someone else does it for you but fuck that)
then today i was trying to get out a stubborn dingleberry and got sick of it and ripped it out with a whole stack of hairs and seriously no pain at all
then i tried it a few more times just grabbing hairs and it works great
its basically waxing without the wax

really happy with this discovery

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Tue Sep 24 06:45:03 2013 No.6954154

>>6954139
It doesnt help land a job. Trust me. I am forced to file papers and browse /fa/ all day at my dads law firm becuase spirit halloween even turned me down for a position

You need tits to work retail nowadays. And retail is the only segment of the econ that is making a slow comeback

Anonymous Tue Sep 24 06:49:03 2013 No.6954160

Good
>have $30'000 in the bank

Bad
>becoming increasingly difficult to hang out with friends because they know I'm still a virgin (age 22)
>still have acne
>still a manlet
>still balding
>still can't decide who the best rapper in the game is
>still got love for the streets, repping 213

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 24 06:49:03 2013 No.6954161 >>6954149 Wow, I just tried this and it totally worked. Thanks guy!

Yawn Tue Sep 24 06:53:01 2013 No.6954166

>good
building up a nice wardrobe
know what style I desire / suits me best
Have friends
Have a small business that's growing
>bad
want printed shirts but can't afford any
broke
starting to develop a slight bezno addiction
mood swings due to the above
almost always sad now
have a bite on my arm and its itchy
new jeans came and they're too loose

Yung Tue Sep 24 06:53:01 2013 No.6954167

>>6954118
Aw I still love you sieg I remember my first time here like a year and a bit ago I posted a peacoat that I got for like 10 dollars and asked if it was ok and everyone said it looked like felt and you said something about felt wool being the same as boiled wool and although you weren't really defending me I felt great

fin Tue Sep 24 06:54:02 2013 No.6954169

>>6954160
>becoming increasingly difficult to hang out with friends because they know I'm still a virgin (age 22)

See this is the mentality I don't get. Instead of excluding you for your "condition" they should basically drag you out every night and wingman the shit out of your sorry ass..

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 24 06:54:31 2013 No.6954168 >>6954161 np enjoy your neat arsehole

Junior Watanabe !CommeVgIrU Tue Sep 24 06:56:02 2013 No.6954172
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Good:
>finally reading again outside of my course-load
>started skating regularly again and continuing with running
>building a better and more cohesive wardrobe
>have a better idea of how I want to dress
>new raws are fading excellently from skating
>better social relationships in general

Bad:
>massive amount of work at college
>next to no free time because of it
>tired all the time because I have trouble sleeping
>no money right now
>haven't lifted in close to 4 month, no time
>wasting too much time on the internet
>barely take the time too cook well anymore because of the amount of effort needed
>lost auction on massive grail in overtime

Need to make a sale thread on superfuture, more money means more clothes, I'll at least be a bit happier..

>>	sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Tue Sep 24 06:58:01 2013 No.6954178 >>6954167 That dark olive peacoat right? That was an awesome coat for $10

Anonymous Tue Sep 24 07:22:40 2013 No.6954220

Good:
>double major in CS and maths, fucking love maths
>work out, compete in sports
>have a gf/fwb I really enjoy a lot
>more than enough money for mid-tier clothes
>get complimented for dressing well
>gonna move out soon
>have financial backing of parents
>currently watching Milan Fashion Week

Sorta bad:
>don't have a single close friend
>exams coming up soon in some boring ass subjects
>currently have a cold
>still live with parents
>maybe will have to work 10h/week for a few hundred euros extra, when I finally move out
>from middle class family, wish I had more money

Well, everything is going according to plan. I just wish I had some friends.

Anonymous Tue Sep 24 08:04:58 2013 No.6954367

Good:
>got haircut shortest it's ever been and complimented on it
>steady tattooist girlfriend
>job interview lined up
>super high metabolism

bad:
>duxed diploma and have lost all motivation towards my bachelor
>stubborn blackheads that don't seem to go away from working 3 years as a geotech
>student allowances likely to be cut since new PM

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 24 08:23:28 2013 No.6954440 >>6954172 what was the massive grail?

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 24 10:56:25 2013 No.6954925 >>6954118 sieg, I think you are smart and you always have wonderful contributions. You just haven't found your niche yet and its a down economy. Don't give up hope.

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