>play video games all day and dress like shit and never shower >no gf >4 years later, work out, dress well, quit vidya >still no gf why do i even do this dress up shit

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Anonymous Tue Sep 17 23:51:05 2013 No.6921485 [DELETED]

>play video games all day and dress like shit and never shower
>no gf

>4 years later, work out, dress well, quit vidya
>still no gf

why do i even do this dress up shit

>>	trunks !!SE08Bv/gZZR Tue Sep 17 23:55:03 2013 No.6921493 >>6921485 try asking them out u stupid shit u think some bitch will just walk up to u and say "omg u dress gud b my bf pls" well that does happen someitmes but usually theyre ugly and emotionally damaged

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 17 23:55:33 2013 No.6921491 Being either /fa/ or /fit/ means nothing if you don't have a personality. It's the woman's "job" (pardon me feminists) to be attractive, men are technically (again, sorry ladies and/or sensitive types) in charge of wooing them

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 17 23:56:32 2013 No.6921495 I'm surprised because it sounds like you really did all that shit for the right reasons. >giving a shit That is why you have failed

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 17 23:58:04 2013 No.6921501 Jesus. Look at her. She's so fucking smug about herself.

Anonymous Tue Sep 17 23:58:49 2013 No.6921502

>getting /fa/ and /fit/ for girls
>not getting those things for yourself because youre a narcissistic fuck

thats your problem fuccboi

i know what you mean though. i hate having to initiate everything. sometimes i wish i was a grill just so i could have hordes of even unattractive men go out of their way to interact with me

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 17 23:59:49 2013 No.6921506 >>6921502 i did do them for myself but qts still dont approach me well a few did but none of them were gf worthy

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 00:00:19 2013 No.6921510 >>6921485 Do you have a job? Are you attractive? Are your social skills up to par?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 00:01:19 2013 No.6921513 I know she lives in Miami, where can I stalk her?

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 00:01:19 2013 No.6921514

>>6921506
real qts will never approach you unless youre absurdly attractive and at that point it really doesnt fucking matter what you dress like or physique is (unless youre a fat fuck)

real qts know theyre real qts and as a result know that men will just go at them one at a time

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 00:01:50 2013 No.6921512 >>6921501 She has a right to be. She's fucking hot and she knows it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 00:02:18 2013 No.6921517 >>6921512 shes butterfaced as fuck all pics are taken at extremely flattering angles and lighting

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 00:08:50 2013 No.6921536 Did you really do all that for a grill OP? You're pathetic, no wonder you don't have a GF.

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 00:12:49 2013 No.6921549

OP you don't ever do things for a girl. You do things for your own self. Then you'll have girls coming to you.

>develop interest in ________. Goto said event meet people. Rinse and repeat, I don't have a girl friend cause all my fucking life i sat home and studied.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 00:17:36 2013 No.6921566 >>6921517 Lmao stfu Angie v is hot as fuck and rates high on pretty much every physical attribute " so smug" Yeah who says shit like this? Appreciate her for what she is, one fine piece of ass You sound bitter

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 00:18:05 2013 No.6921573 >>6921566 her face is literally a 6.5 out of 10 at best

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 00:20:34 2013 No.6921581 Dressing well and working out will never cure you of your horrible personality and ugly face.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 00:33:34 2013 No.6921628 >>6921485 tfw only got into fashion because of gf

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 00:38:35 2013 No.6921643 >>6921573 implying 6.5 is bad

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 00:39:05 2013 No.6921650 >>6921628 Make sure you street wear and don't gothninja

>>	uuuuhhhh Wed Sep 18 00:40:05 2013 No.6921651 >>6921650 lol

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 00:50:35 2013 No.6921678 You're alone because you're expecting to find a girl like the one you posted. Hint: try aiming lower. This doesn't mean settling, though. Just have a realistic goal.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 01:00:05 2013 No.6921710 >>6921709 funny enough vidya was the only time i ever had fun or something to look forward to in the morning

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 01:00:34 2013 No.6921709 >>6921485 >Quit vidya Ew...

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 03:42:36 2013 No.6922065 >>6921651 uuuuhhh you're dadc0re as fuck

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 03:48:48 2013 No.6922075 >>6921485 >quit vidya It's not wrong to play some. Just don't do it so excessively.

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 03:59:07 2013 No.6922089

>be 16
>play vidya
>Get a girlfriend
>both skinny
>progressively get fatter while playing video games with each other
>realise this after two years that I've put on 3 stone and look fat
>start getting into shape
>now 19
>lose 2 stone and down to 8% body fat
>still have a girlfriend

stop being beta anon.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 04:21:07 2013 No.6922138 >>6921514 Not him but whenever they do I have the habit of telling them to fuck off, IDK WHY. The words came out before I realized wtf I was doing, every time.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 04:29:07 2013 No.6922161 File: 44 KB, 350x408, feel.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6921549 >I don't have a girl friend cause all my fucking life i sat home and studied Bonus >chicks in med school are ugly >social anxiety

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 04:34:06 2013 No.6922168 Just socialise, when I was 16 I had bad skin and long hair, I cut my hair and sorted my skin out and I've fucked 3 girls in the past month its not that hard, I'm not even a great looking guy

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 04:34:37 2013 No.6922169

>>6922161
>tfw doing IT at college
>all guys
>none of them but a black guy I know dress well at all
>all common shit
>one stereotypical Japanese looking mother fucker who talks about anime all the time.
>still have a girlfriend but ashamed of my class mates.

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 04:36:37 2013 No.6922172
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>be semi decent looking
>every time I talk to grills I can fucking hear the longing in their voices and see it in their body languages
>too fucking beta to do anything

fuck me.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 04:37:36 2013 No.6922175 >>6921485 holy fuck that girl is hot i told myself i wouldn't fap today

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 04:44:06 2013 No.6922192 File: 38 KB, 480x320, 1348450731251.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6921485 >Become /fa/ and /fit/ >qts mirin >Stuck in LTR I've put so much effort into it, I can't just abandon it now.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 04:45:37 2013 No.6922196 >>6921485 When you aren't a dickhole girls will come to you after that. If you aren't capable of being social successfully then there is no hope.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 04:47:07 2013 No.6922203 >>6922169 I'm an engineering major and I understand. I feel like embarrassed to be around them because they look so awful. I mean I'm nice to them because I'm not a dick outwardly, but still.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 04:47:37 2013 No.6922199 >>6921493 post pics of your 7/10 or above girlfriend or gtfo

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 04:53:07 2013 No.6922224 >>6922199 what he said is tru tho just becuz it's trunks doesn't allow you to argue like a shitlord

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Wed Sep 18 04:53:37 2013 No.6922221 [DELETED]

>>6922199
don't be retarded.
i can't vouch for trunks skill with getting women, but i can say that him having/not having a hot GF would prove anything.

having a GF doesn't mean anything.
even the biggest of betas end up with a GF sometimes, and they STILL are beta.

the biggest alpha may stay a bachelor his whole life.

having a GF proves nothing.

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Wed Sep 18 04:55:07 2013 No.6922226

>>6922199
don't be retarded.
i can't vouch for trunks skill with getting women IRL, but i can say that him having/not having a hot GF wouldn't prove anything.

having a GF doesn't mean anything.
even the biggest of betas end up with a GF sometimes, and they STILL are beta.

the biggest alpha may stay a bachelor his whole life.

having a GF proves nothing.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 04:57:36 2013 No.6922230 File: 78 KB, 960x719, 1377548806213.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6922224 >shitlord thundercunt is more fun of an insult

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 04:59:37 2013 No.6922236
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>>6921485
Holy shit who's that girl, sauce?

Sorry to hear about your situation OP. Maybe you still aren't confident enough? Do you have an interesting life, are you passionate about something worthwhile? Do you even know what kind of girls you'd like to be with, have you taken some action/approached said girls?

If no to the above then you've got work to do.

Girls are just an easy byproduct to an already awesome life OP. work it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 05:01:07 2013 No.6922238 >>6922230 well shit it is pretty fun thanks

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 05:04:07 2013 No.6922245 >>6922161 How the fuck are you going to be a doctor when you have social anxiety? Just kill yourself already you aspie fuck

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 05:22:58 2013 No.6922269 >>6922236 angi varona poor girl got hacked and suggestive photos meant for her bf were leaked to the internet and used on porn sites and shit she kinda embraced it now tho

>>	aiouh Wed Sep 18 05:27:58 2013 No.6922279 File: 17 KB, 332x243, swolefeels.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I just realized that a lot of guys on 4chan who go >tfw no qt 3.14 gf were actually for real

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Wed Sep 18 05:32:57 2013 No.6922293 >>6922279 guys place far too much self-worth over whether or not they have a GF. it's really sad, because those tend to be the same guys who will never be respected by their eventual GF because they care far too much.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 05:33:58 2013 No.6922297 >>6922236 > 8052/4 > not knowing angie welcome, newfriend.

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 05:34:28 2013 No.6922298

>be model
>sometimes see myself posted on here by you guys
>still never even kissed a girl at 20

i think i have sexual aversion disorder or i'm just asexual. trying to chat up girls and stuff just seems so "vulgar" and disgusting but yet i get really jealous of my m8s when i see them with their gfs. maybe something will happen eventually

>>	aiouh Wed Sep 18 05:35:29 2013 No.6922301 File: 750 KB, 700x700, acchan.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6922293 Well, there's the self worth crowd and then there are people who are just plain lonely

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Wed Sep 18 05:39:57 2013 No.6922303 >>6922301 that's really no different. wanting a GF so you don't feel lonely anymore causes more harm than good once you get a GF.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 05:42:28 2013 No.6922307 >>6922279 i thought you knew my fucking feels i feel betrayed, fuck you aiouh

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 05:42:59 2013 No.6922308
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>>6921485
>dropping your hobby for sex appeal

Toplol.png

The other two are probably for the better, but you're still a sad cunt m8. Just drop it and talk to women, otherwise you'll regret you never did.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 05:45:58 2013 No.6922311 >>6921485 my girlfriend has those pants they feel really nice

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 05:50:59 2013 No.6922318 I leave my house, but I lack a social life. Where does one go to find a qt?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 06:05:59 2013 No.6922336 >>6922269 bruh theres been thousands of photos of her for longer then i can remember she definitely just does it for attention

>>	aiouh Wed Sep 18 06:06:59 2013 No.6922341 >>6922307 Should've worded that differently >people who work out and dress well whining about no gf as if their self-improvement can only be validated by a girl on their side I want a gf too, I'm sure everyone does, but being desperate is kinda yeahhh

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 06:21:03 2013 No.6922376 >>6922308 >dropping your hobby because it makes a disgusting human being Sounds okay to me.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 06:32:04 2013 No.6922406 >>6922318 Okcupid

>>	neon T4X1 !VaPoR.pR0. Wed Sep 18 06:45:33 2013 No.6922442 File: 30 KB, 400x392, 100EOS7D-1.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Hey /fa/, it's pretty much Summer already in Australia now. How do I /fa/ in Summer pls help Pic related: what I know not to wear in Summer. RIP Billabong

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 07:04:51 2013 No.6922475 >>6922311 holy fuck i would kill to have gf that has those pants and a bod lyk dat

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 07:07:23 2013 No.6922482 >>6922475 dont kill me bro

>>	TroalPost !!M/8ntLE+we3 Wed Sep 18 07:10:21 2013 No.6922492 hey who came up with those legging/tights.Ive seen so many fastfashion store copy them thx

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 07:10:52 2013 No.6922490 >>6922475 seriously though the pants are so nice to touch both the leathery bit and the soft part and i think she said they were only like $30 or something too

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 07:34:27 2013 No.6922539

I used to have long hair and a pointy 'I just watched Bram Stoker's Dracula' asshole beard, wore mainly metal band t-shirts, and ate meat all the time. Girls liked me. But I wasn't happy and decided to improve myself.

It became such a big thing for me, constructed self image and outfits, that attraction and relationships stopped making sense and happening. I just want my ego stroked and to be told I'm beautiful. All my dealings with people have become polite and friendly, but superficial. I only want people to think well of me, but only in the shallowest terms. I don't think it is very healthy, to be honest. You see a lot of narcissists on /fa/, half superior, half eaten up with insecurity, in the same position.

Embrace it, be a shallow cunt, eventually you'll meet someone just the same as you, you'll cling to each other and together you can shit on the world.

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 07:39:28 2013 No.6922550

The exact type of girl /fa/ one's has sky-high self-esteem, she probs gets approached by betas all the time, she knows she's attractive.

You have to insult her, get overly-touchy, ignore her, and generally be dominant to lower her self-esteem whilst making her perceive you as a higher-value male.

in b4 hurr pua bullshit

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 07:49:54 2013 No.6922563 >>6921485 >playing dress up for girls you just went full retard you do this if it boosts your confidence and therefore your chances with wimin otherwise stay slob because it wont matter

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 07:52:54 2013 No.6922569 >>6922203 >>6922169 >>6922161 >tfw literature student >tfw class is 2/3rds qts >tfw spend evenings talking about french films and listening to effay music with a flat full of qts stay jelly stem kids

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 07:57:23 2013 No.6922580 >>6922569 tfw no future doe. qts can get away with lit since theyll just be some guys servant when they marry, you can't do that

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 07:59:24 2013 No.6922582 >>6922569 are you bragging about being around qts which qt is yours get a qt and come back

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 08:00:24 2013 No.6922585 >>6922539 >You see a lot of narcissists on /fa/, half superior, half eaten up with insecurity, in the same position. yep

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 08:01:53 2013 No.6922586 >>6921485 /r9k/ please go. You don't even need to dress that well to get girls. All you need to do is talk to them. Quit being autistic.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 08:28:41 2013 No.6922633 >>6922226 This is the truest post I've ever fucking read Please make this a copypasta for all >tfwnogf bullshit threads so we can end them once and for all

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 08:39:41 2013 No.6922644 >>6921485 this girls proportions don't make sense to me.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 08:56:42 2013 No.6922668 >>6922644 maybe you have watched too much anime or something?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 08:59:12 2013 No.6922671 >>6922172 Holy shit are you serious? Nah, you re just ugly pal.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 09:01:12 2013 No.6922674 >>6922308 >dropping your hobby for sex appeal More like dropping your "hobby" because it's a fucking waste of time.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 09:02:43 2013 No.6922681 >>6922668 nah I feel the same way. she doesnt attracts me at all

>>	TroalPost !!M/8ntLE+we3 Wed Sep 18 09:09:12 2013 No.6922701 >>6922633 nah /sp/ pasta is much lel worthy that one is too true for deze nerds to handle

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 09:11:43 2013 No.6922705

You've probably hit the other end of the spectrum. Where before girls did't like how little you tried, now by giving up your favorite hobbies, you have become too much of a try hard. Girls care more about your presence and interesting qualities than physical appearance.

>>	uuuuhhhh Wed Sep 18 09:31:00 2013 No.6922730 >>6922674 just fyi man ur on 4chan

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 10:16:33 2013 No.6922823 >>6921485 >quitting what you love to get laid >not devoting those energies to get a girl who loves what you love.

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 10:20:04 2013 No.6922836

You didn't have to give up video games anon. My last girlfriend loved video games even though she was garbage at them besides like Soul Calibur and my current girlfriend wants to come over and play Dark Souls more than she wants to try out that new (Based) GTA V

Plus did you know if you go to Walmart unless they literally catch you in the act of concealing and walking out with merchandise there is fuck all they can do? I went there yesterday but left my credit card and got six games on the low.

Those plastic cases are easy, I love drugs.

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 10:22:03 2013 No.6922845

>get dumped over the summer, girl thought partying and her new college friends were worth more than our relationship
>depressed for two weeks
>get over it by the summer
>work out minimally
>dress basic because poor
>go back to school
>two weeks in, girl tells me she likes me
>tfw now have qt hipster gf who likes art and plays the harp

I still don't get it. I didn't do anything. lol

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 10:23:03 2013 No.6922849 >>6922845 there r still ppl who fuck it up even if it ends up like that

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 10:33:33 2013 No.6922871 >>6922845 >Being naive enough to think a HS relationship can survive college. Learning is fun.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 10:34:34 2013 No.6922875 >>6922269 >hacked

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 10:43:32 2013 No.6922901

>>6922871
I knew it wasn't going to work out before we even started at the start of senior year. I just fooled around with her and didn't take it too seriously. Then I messed up, cared too much, and she dumped me. Oh well. This new girl is an upgrade in every sense. I hope it lasts.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 10:44:04 2013 No.6922903 >>6922875 dey r leejun

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 10:47:33 2013 No.6922912 >tfw thinking of signing up to tinder but my awkwardness irl would just turn people away

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 10:52:06 2013 No.6922929 >>6921485 Lol you don't need to do all that to get a gf you just need money. Make tons of money and you'll get any gf/s you want. Then you can be fat, ugly, dirty with bad breath and all and get hot gfs, no worries at all.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 10:53:34 2013 No.6922931 >>6922836 arent you the coolest kid in town stealing

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 11:03:51 2013 No.6922954

looks aren't the main thing that attracts women.
it's all about personality.
Dressing/looking good alone will not get you a girlfriend.

If you want a girlfriend, become better socially and get a job, don't waste your money on clothes and time wasted on working out.
Girls see looks as only one of many factors really, as long as you aren't legitimately ugly you should focus on social shit.

i dress for myself.
I enjoy fashion, so I spend time an money on it.

I'm socially awkward and I've had many girls approach me, but nothing ever becomes of it because i'm awkward, an asshole or distant.
It would not have happened if i were ugly, i believe.

Looking good will definitely help you get a step in though. It should be a lot easier to be social with them as they will make more of an effort to communicate.

Looking good alone will only get you hookups/one night stands/party sex.
Insecure horny 6/10 girls have literally begged for the d, but I say no because i'm not about that life.
I'm trying to improve myself socially but it's really hard.
I'm not looking for sex, I'm looking for love, and anyone else that is will treat social relationships the same way as me, not focusing on sex but relationships.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 11:14:20 2013 No.6922981 >>6922954 basically, materiel/physical things will get you materiel/physical things social/emotional/immateriel things will get you social/emotional/immateriel things

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 11:49:55 2013 No.6923106 >have a very narrow taste in girls >harder to find a qt whom really attracts me >tfw no one to fall in love with I'm not an ugly piece of shit and I'm not that bad with girls but I just don't find one qt to love. Shit feel.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 11:56:25 2013 No.6923126 >>6922236 >not knowing angie are you new to the internet?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 12:10:24 2013 No.6923180 >>6922569 they see you as the gay friend lel

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 12:19:54 2013 No.6923214 >>6922845 lucky bastard >gf dumped me on august last year >one year later still haven't gotten totally over her I don't know how long this is going to last. I want to stop feeling like this. I want to get off Mr. Bones' Wild ride.

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 12:22:55 2013 No.6923224
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in those 4 years did you spend any time trying to be more social? Did you TRY to talk to any girls?
>be me
>suck at keyboard
>4 years go by where I improve at other things but still don't practice the keys
>wtf why do I still suck

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 12:30:42 2013 No.6923260 >>6923214 >lucky bastard >girls >luck this is why you're a loser

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 12:32:12 2013 No.6923272 >>6923260 >girls >sex >not lucky >2013 >not staying up all night to get lucky

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 12:41:11 2013 No.6923316 >>6923224 a better analogy would be >be me >suck at keyboard >start listening to tons of classical music >take up the violin >why aren't I getting better at keyboard

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 12:41:41 2013 No.6923314 >>6922845 >tfw girls go up to you because you're probably attractive

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 12:44:10 2013 No.6923332 >>6923272 >not driving all night to kentucky >not fighting a mexican monkey

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 12:46:40 2013 No.6923337 >>6922954 Soooooo ur gay then m8

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:05:41 2013 No.6923403 >>6921485 I would legitimately not talk to that girl because of that jacket. I'm kinda worried about that.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:06:40 2013 No.6923408 >>6923403 Well, I would talk to her if she said something to me of course, but I wouldn't go up to her.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:07:12 2013 No.6923411 File: 80 KB, 686x720, 1291331590611.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >ugh i'm bored. tell me a story, anon!

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:13:15 2013 No.6923430 >>6923411 erm i-i dont know any stories wanna smoke weed? or play video games?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:14:46 2013 No.6923438 File: 34 KB, 398x436, dog.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6923411 I would give her a quick synopsis of the first two seasons of initial D, then I would start explaining the deep storyline behind Street Fighter III Third Strike

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:15:14 2013 No.6923441 >>6923411 C-c-can I smell your feet?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:19:46 2013 No.6923464 >>6921501 cos she's got 5 alpha dicks on rotate on the weekly

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:26:16 2013 No.6923485 >>6923438 mein sides

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:26:46 2013 No.6923482 >>6921501 you are so jealous

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:33:45 2013 No.6923508 File: 10 KB, 247x248, 1289593394575.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6923438 that pic

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:34:45 2013 No.6923509 http://instagram.com/angiefyfvarona have fun

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:34:45 2013 No.6923511 >>6923508 >

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:38:47 2013 No.6923521 >>6923509 >4756 people like this i dont get why random people who dont know this girl like her shit, its not like she is gonna suck their dick

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:43:45 2013 No.6923547 >>6923521 > its not like she is gonna suck their dick Don't be too sure about that.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 13:43:45 2013 No.6923549 >>6923521 maybe to see her sluty pictures? I would follow her but I wouldn't like or comment her photos though.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 15:18:23 2013 No.6923987 >>6922269 >oh my god, I got hacked and my photos are leaked >better create a facebook fan page to post photos with even more body parts revealed

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 16:00:21 2013 No.6924137 >>6923411 Extra leg ftw

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 20:31:30 2013 No.6925241 Same here OP, had a few 'nights out' though, don't you feel way more confident now? I certainly do.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 20:45:30 2013 No.6925286 >>6921485 STOP THINKING ABOUT GETTING A GF just go

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 21:01:01 2013 No.6925345
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How do I talk to girls?

Like there is this random girl who I have seen and she is attractive but IDK how to approach her.

Like once I can find common interests with a girl I'm fine, but its getting there that is hard for me.

How to talk to girls?

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 21:07:31 2013 No.6925371

>>6925345
if you're attractive, all you have to do is go up and say hey. seriously. they want to talk to an attractive guy probably as much as you wanna talk to an attractive girl. just say hi and ask something pertinent to the circumstances, like what class she's going to or how her job's going or whatever

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 21:08:00 2013 No.6925380

>>6925345
don't talk to random women, thats fucking weird. If by random you mean you see them at the store or at a coffee shop and have a chance to say something then sure talk to them. Just comment on something their doing and then ask them questions about it. act cool, dont act too interested or amazed at whatever they answer, they're girls for gods sake, they're not that important so don't give them any importance.

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 21:09:07 2013 No.6925386

>>6925371
>>6925380
what if she is always with a group of girls or girl and guys I don't really know?

Also so after I ask her the dumb question how do I get it to a more interesting topic?

Like how can I go from "Hey what classs do you have" to " what music do you like?"

>>	sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Wed Sep 18 21:13:03 2013 No.6925401 >>6925371 If youre attractive you know this already and wouldnt be asking advice about how to get women. Now join us ugly dudes here is an ar15 and a spare controller sit your ass down and lets play some gta5

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 21:13:33 2013 No.6925398

>>6925386
well there's your problem. don't plan out the convo. your conversational skills should carry you through it, just go with the flow of what happens otherwise you'll be too preoccupied trying to go through the motions to be dynamic and you'll seem awkward of weird. just do what feels natural, talk like you would to anyone else. don't be like every other beta on 4chan and fetishize time with girls, it fucks everything up

and if she's with a group or something, just go up and address the girls as a whole. if you really want just one, just make sure to pay her extra attention or direct a lot of what you're saying at her. she and her friends will pick up on your motives and act accordingly.

girls can be awkward too sometimes, though. so if the convo isn't going well it might just be her fault as much as it is yours

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 21:14:03 2013 No.6925406

>>6925401
not true. i used to have serious confidence issues even though girls always came onto me and had told me time after time that i was definitely attractive. now that i've realized that and gotten over some personal problems, i'm confident and can pretty much talk to whatever girl i want. it's still hard to approach a girl, but i mean you just gotta go do it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 21:15:03 2013 No.6925411 >>6925398 >conversational skills umm how do i cop those? what are good ones? liek i think i have good ones since i can talk to guys pretty well

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 21:18:35 2013 No.6925420 >>6925411 idk, just smile and look at her in the eyes for like 85-90% of the time you're talking to her. keeping the convo alive probably takes practice, so just practice and learn from your mistakes

Anonymous Wed Sep 18 21:23:34 2013 No.6925435

>>6925386
then don't talk to her while shes around them. Its not like thats the only time you'll see her.

Damn it man don't plan this shit out just casually go up to her if you happen to see her alone and make stupid small talk,

You: hey,

Her: Hey?

You: I've seen you around a couple of times, do you happen to have x class? (she probably doesn't)

Her: Oh yeah/Oh no (maybe she tells you where shes going if so then you have more shit to ask if not then coax something out of her)

also don't just stop afterwards, you could literally just say, oh my bad well sorry bothering you, i'll see you around school.

next time you see her you could just say hi, You already did the hardest step, which was going up to her. Now tell your name and stop being beta.

If you have no social skills just go around talking to people in lines, at groceries stores or in classes, comment on stupid shit and be nice, people probably won't mind. They worst that can happen is that they just don;t want to talk to you and then you'll see them again. Don't try to learn social skills on the girls you like, thats a fucking death sentence, they'll see right through your insecurities.
Girls want a guy thats confident, because confidence means that to him shes just another person and he probably talks to tons of girls like this, and thus girls probably talk to him too, thus she might want to talk to you too.

or you know just try something out. Idk but stop being a faggot.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 21:25:10 2013 No.6925442 >>6925435 you/ll never see them again*

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Wed Sep 18 21:34:06 2013 No.6925471

I throw on a pair of ray ban wayfarrrs so bitch knows im rich

Rick tank top so bitch knows i am # avant garde

Drkshdw hoody to show i am not above wearing a difdusion line # dow n to earth

Carry a knife wrapped in paracord to show the bitch i am manly and hunt and camp and shit like that

Then follow her around at night with my hands in the hoodie pocket (mysterious) to represent i will follow her to the ends of the earth # romantic

Most women i do this to just throw their wallets at me. Prob beecause they know how expensive rick owens clothing is

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 21:37:06 2013 No.6925484 >>6923106 I have this exact same problem. I just couldn't imagine myself with most girls.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 21:41:35 2013 No.6925496 >>6925435 so liek shoudl i wait a few days before talking to the qt to get my social skills up a tiny bit?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 22:24:06 2013 No.6925625 >>6921485 >play video games all day and dress like shit and never shower >qt gf >4 years later, work out, dress well, still play vidya >pretty qt gf meh, is good

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 22:32:55 2013 No.6925649 >>6925471 >ray ban wayfarrrs so bitch knows im rich hhehehehehhheehh very funny sieg

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 22:42:11 2013 No.6925695 >tfw same boat but female >tfw only 3/10 dyel guys have asked me out >tfw i would never approach a man

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 23:02:11 2013 No.6925795 >>6925695 >8/10 aesthetics >getting called cute by gay guys every day >never talk to women >no gf why.TIFF

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 23:06:11 2013 No.6925817 >>6925420 i have trouble maintaining >80% eye contact im probably barely 50% lel >tfw awkward eye contact

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 18 23:10:12 2013 No.6925837 >>6925695 ur probs ugly or guys know they can do better its ok

>>	sage Wed Sep 18 23:13:44 2013 No.6925854 >>6925695 If you never go for the dick u deserve then what? At least u have a realdoll or a dildo, right?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 00:10:05 2013 No.6926159 File: 83 KB, 800x533, uff.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw no french muse gf

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 00:27:21 2013 No.6926232 Become gay. Since I stopped pretending to be fully straight, I drown in pussy juices. I fondle grills, they touch my D, get bjs, and all that thanks to being somewhat flamboyant. I just wish I had the courage to talk to guys irl

anon Thu Sep 19 00:41:40 2013 No.6926276

>>6921485
Beta since always...
When I was 17 I was skinny, long haired and just cute. Not handsome, not fit, not fa. Just a fucking beta kiddo.
Yet I losted my virginity with a hot girl 7 years older than myself.
I had cute girlfriends but I was still a beta... I got too hooked up in those relationshits and ended up hurt and sad...
A year later, cutted my hair. Gone /fa/ and /fit/
I study physics so everyone is fucking ugly and betta and dresses like shits...
Yet they have friends, yet they talk with each others and joke and eat together and hang out...
And I'm just a lonely motherfucker and if it weren't for the pussy I'm fucking and my tutors... I wouldn't talk with anyone ever.
I'm not ugly, I'm smart, I dress nice, I'm a hunk... I read a lot of books, listen to good music, I have a personality, I'm ingenious and elocuent and can joke and shits... I know 2 languages. I might sound like a cocky morron, but in reality I'm not, I'm actually a bit shy and insecure... And with all of that I don't have not a single friend...
HELP!

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 00:42:08 2013 No.6926280 >>6926276 what is your first language?

>>	trunks !!SE08Bv/gZZR Thu Sep 19 00:43:10 2013 No.6926285 >>6926276 stop thinking ur too good for the nerd fags and play mtg with them or someth

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Sep 19 00:47:08 2013 No.6926304

You should not EXPECT girls to approach you.
Most girls never or rarely approach guys.
it doesn't mean that you aren't attractive, or creepy or anything.

In regular day to day outings it's pretty rare for most men to be approached by women.
The odds are better at a social event or party, but even still, if you aren't getting approached it is not necessarily a bad thing.

If you are depressed about not having any girls but don't ever speak to them, that is your fault and it needs to change.

>>	trunks !!SE08Bv/gZZR Thu Sep 19 00:51:09 2013 No.6926325 >>6926304 this, the only girls that will approach have issues or are fat/ugly like 4/10 of them are bangable but will prob stalk u and spread rumours afterwards

>>	teddy !iJvTprGbUU Thu Sep 19 00:51:40 2013 No.6926321 File: 2.56 MB, 320x239, 1342038741515.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] go on fa, see this pic for the past to days.

>>	anon Thu Sep 19 00:51:40 2013 No.6926322 >>6926280 Spanish

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Sep 19 00:54:09 2013 No.6926348

>>6926325
no, hot girls will approach they just have a different personality.

all types of girls approach guys, but it's rare for some.

my point is that guys shouldn't expect to be approached and they shouldn't be depressed over it.

but really, a lack of confidence and any sign of desperation is enough to turn most girls off.
of course, being too attractive can also work against you at times.

>>	trunks !!SE08Bv/gZZR Thu Sep 19 00:55:09 2013 No.6926358 >>6926348 no i mean like "i want to fuck" approach not "oh hey whats up" approach

Anonymous Thu Sep 19 00:55:39 2013 No.6926352

>play runescape/WoW non stop through high school
>fat
>dress like shit
>4 years later
>college
>fit
>grad school
>dress in designer shit
>girls always mirin
>cuties in class starting convo
>kissless virgin

Is this a fucking condition or some shit. Every time a date is cryptically suggested I tend to overlook it. Have I put too much emphasis on this dating/sex shit. The pussy is on the pedestal isn't it?

Anonymous Thu Sep 19 00:55:39 2013 No.6926356

>>6926325
>this, the only girls that will approach have issues
trunks, you're a cunt, but this is the best advice you can give another man, period. If a girl approaches you first, be really fucking skeptical. This is how you end up dating a girl with daddy issues who will cheat on you at every chance that she gets.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 00:56:09 2013 No.6926359 /fa/ - /r9k/

>>	trunks !!SE08Bv/gZZR Thu Sep 19 00:57:09 2013 No.6926366 >>6926352 wow just ask them out or go to a house party and get wasted

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Sep 19 01:00:40 2013 No.6926379

>>6926352
Have I put too much emphasis on this dating/sex shit.
only you would know.
are you worried about actually going out on a date?

because that's common, and it can be nerve wracking but it doesn't have to be.
if a girl agrees on a date, she's interested in you (or she doesn't consider it a "date" but that's a different story). it may be only slight interest, but it's enough.

the point of the date is to build her interest level, which is pretty easy as long as you keep confident and don't say stupid shit.
obviously there is a lot of possiblites, and it depends on your personality as well, but like i said, if she's on a date she at least liked you a little already.

it's worth the risk, as long as you don't make anything out of it.
a date is a date. it means nothing, and if it goes bad, at least you learned something.

Anonymous Thu Sep 19 01:03:09 2013 No.6926399

1. Be blunt with the women, but not too blunt
2. To be interesting, be interested! Ask actual questions about their life, beliefs and opinions.
3. Learn how to flirt, i learned by watching a coworker when selling credit cards and he'd always chat up the ladies.

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Sep 19 01:03:39 2013 No.6926395

>>6926358
yea, and i'm telling you it happens.

i've been approached by two hot girls and we fucked later.
one went nowhere and another i causally dated for three or four months.

did they have issues?

why would you even need to ask that? they are females.

>>	sage Thu Sep 19 01:04:38 2013 No.6926400 >>6921485 Please stop your fucking feel bitching Go back to /r9k/ Or grow a pair and go get some sex with multiple hookers or male brostitutes whatever. You are not getting a bf/gf if keep your mystic romantic virginity/dryspell any longer. fucctards.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 01:06:09 2013 No.6926406 time to save you nerds from yourselves step 1: go to a club step 2: pick up a 6/10 step 3: bang that slut step 4: tell your bros step 5: hearty laughs step 6: post misogyny on facebook

>>	trunks !!SE08Bv/gZZR Thu Sep 19 01:07:41 2013 No.6926408 >>6926395 like they literally just walked up to u and said "sup i wanna fuck"? the only chick thats done that to me turned into a gigaslut right afterwards im pretty sure shes dating a dude 20 years older than her now

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 01:09:09 2013 No.6926414 >>6921485 you can't change DNA

Anonymous Thu Sep 19 01:12:40 2013 No.6926421

>>6926406
0/10 you got it all wrong. Here's the real deal.

step 1: hit up the club
step 2: find a dtf 6/10
step 3: slam that pussy
step 4: cell phone pictures
step 5: show your bros
step 6: jack it with your bros
step 7: almost don't wake up in time for court date about unpaid child support

Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Sep 19 01:18:39 2013 No.6926439

>>6926408
they didn't literally say they wanted to fuck, but they did with their body language and eyes.
i've had a few girls come up to me at parties and touch my chest or rub their fingers down my arm saying i'm sexy, but i didn't act on it.

actually, it's happened more than twice and once i did act on it, but i didn't handle it right and she hooked up with someone else later.

>>	6BoxxyTum=>6BoxxyTum Thu Sep 19 01:20:42 2013 No.6926450 >angie verona

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 02:00:14 2013 No.6926594 File: 16 KB, 200x240, 1378529855321.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >be beta with social anxiety panic disorder >take klonopin on the daily >become extremely talkative, get gf, and make a lot more friends

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 02:27:02 2013 No.6926691 >>6922730 top lel

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 02:30:32 2013 No.6926699 >>6926594 >will never experience this

Anonymous Thu Sep 19 02:35:32 2013 No.6926716

>>6922406
>find a qt
>she responds
>wants to meet up to punch me (its her fetish and I happened to be willing)
>meet up
>shes actually nice
>end up being friends, didnt even do the punching thing
>never talk again after couple of conversations on the phone

this happens to everyone I meet

I never seem to keep friends

I feel so alone

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 02:51:02 2013 No.6926748 >>6926716 >wants to meet up to punch me (its her fetish and I happened to be willing) I feel like that wasn't adequate enough explanation.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 02:58:34 2013 No.6926757 >>6926748 bitch is into hitting people and shit I'm actually fine with it as long damage isnt permanent

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 03:01:01 2013 No.6926765 >>6926757 how many times did u fuck 'er

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 03:12:32 2013 No.6926793 >>6926379 how much eye contact is good m8

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 03:19:50 2013 No.6926800 >>6926716 should have let her punch u m8

>>	Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK Thu Sep 19 03:34:37 2013 No.6926832 >>6926793 i think what's important about eye contact is that you wait for her to break it. it's kind of hard to explain how much is too much, but i'd say go with your gut.

>>	Yawn Thu Sep 19 03:41:52 2013 No.6926848 >>6926716 >punch fetish This is my fav post on 4chan Like ever Got so many weird feels from this Reminds me of a shitty coming of age indie film With the strokes on the soundtrack

Anonymous Thu Sep 19 04:03:53 2013 No.6926896
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All those years of video games have left you stunted in terms of maturity and social skills. You need to work on that first, I recommend forcing yourself outside everyday and talking to random people you see. Not even trolling.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 04:25:54 2013 No.6926950 >>6926848 heh

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Thu Sep 19 04:30:54 2013 No.6926959

>>6926896
due to spending most of my life inside video gaming and abstaining from drugs and alcohol, and getting multiple degrees throughout my college career and devoting all of my time to that.

i couldn't hold a conversation with a 10 year old, nor could i order a pizza face to face at a resturant.

it does not help that i come from a jpapanese family that have men of a few words, and an irish father who is an attorney infamous in the area for not playing the "social status game" most attorneys play and is quick to dismiss on grounds of the "firms reputation" those who do

it probably does not help that during my childhood my hooby was a fairly stringent and rigourous competitive kenpo karate program, taught by the man who did most of the stunt work on the karate kid

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 19 05:21:42 2013 No.6927061 >>6926959 is your father successful? asking because I'm about to become a lawyer and I'm getting tired of all this social status bullshit already.

Anonymous Thu Sep 19 09:20:18 2013 No.6927529

>>6925817
Looking at the bridge of her nose feels to her like you're looking her right in the eyes. Try that. Or just sorta count eyelashes or something. It takes practice, just be aware of how important eyecontact really is. I was just like you, felt really uncomfortable looking into a girls eyes, now I really like the feeling of looking into her eyes.

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