/fa/ - Fashion

[Anonymous No.6699617]

Women are known to be hoarders and eclectic in style. How do you stay /fa/ in a relationship? I'm an extreme minimalist/modernist.

>Being gay is NOT an option

[Anonymous No.6699645]

>>6699617
>>Being gay is NOT an option
bi

[Anonymous No.6699649]

compromise

But, I'm male and I'm eclectic, but if I was dating a minimalist girl, we could meet halfway.
Minimalism is cute, but not ideal for function.

[Anonymous No.6699650]

>>6699645
trans

[Anonymous No.6699653]

Cis

[Anonymous No.6699656]

>>6699649
that pic is borderline hoarding, to me

[Anonymous No.6699674]

>>6699649
>minimalist girl
lel

no such thing

[Anonymous No.6699681]

>>6699649
This.
I have an incredible diy-spirit and always have a project and a bunch of hobbies. That means I have all kinds of tools and shit lying around.

[Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK No.6699687]

i feel like the less stuff the better.
and true, girls have so much shit laying around.

im wondering why you are worry about interior design when you want a relationship?

you aren't about to move in with someone are you?

[Anonymous No.6699695]

>>6699681
same, I'm an artist so >>6699649 looks normal to me

>>6699656
what a sad life. It may be a bit cluttered, but hoarding is more like ... (refer to pic related)

[Anonymous No.6699689]

>>6699649

>2k13
>year of our lord and savior /fa/scist
>owning a TV

[tripskmobile !!NfEoAU6E/r3 No.6699697]

>>6699617
Live separately/have separate bedrooms. It might not save you money but it'll save your relationship. Keep shared living spaces compromisable. Respect each other. Look past flaws. hire a maid to come in twice a week

[Anonymous No.6699698]

>>6699687
>you aren't about to move in with someone are you?
came close to, twice

[Anonymous No.6699712]

>>6699707
the clutterer overrides the minimalists, every time

[Natalie Portman No.6699707]

If we were living together? I think it would be cool to see how our styles could mesh when we decorate a room. The life of a room is usually developed naturally an I think that always come out looking nicer, slowly adding furniture and items to it, seeing what it needs. I'm a clean freak though I have to always have everything organized

[Anonymous No.6699708]

>>6699697
have a split house. share the bed

or find a girl that has an art degree

[Anonymous No.6699709]

>>6699674
what about women?

I like having lots of shit laying around, whereas every time I visit home, it gets more and more spartan. My mom has it down to bare tile floors and minimal furniture.

[Anonymous No.6699722]

>>6699695

[Anonymous No.6699728]

>>6699697

>Live separately/have separate bedrooms.

I wish there was less of a stigma attached to such concepts in our society.

[Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK No.6699748]

>>6699697
this.
i was gonna say just dont move in together because i doubt your girl would be open to two separate rooms.

what's gonna end up happening is she sleeps with you most of the time, and slowly (or quickly) every room becomes hers.

living with a GF has a lot of positives, but honestly i wouldn't do it again because the negatives are far worse.

[Natalie Portman No.6699751]

>>6699712
They say you can learn more about someone by being in their room than by knowing them for a whole year.

I'm really analytical like that too...
I like the small stuff, like seeing where they'd leave their things, the way they lay down in bed, the way they put away their clothes

As long as I have a workspace, and I give myself time to clean everything up I'm ok

Also I hate curtains

[Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK No.6699772]

>>6699751
any articles about that?

i agree but i want to learn more.

[Anonymous No.6699786]

u gotta eat my omanka firts.. then mabye

[Anonymous No.6699789]

>>6699697
Planning on doing this the next time around. I have the space in my home and a second bed in storage. I tried to bring it up with the last girl I dated but she was genuinely offended by the concept.
It probably would've kept our relationship going a bit longer, honestly.

[Natalie Portman No.6699791]

>>6699772
Read it in a book called the happiness hypothesis
VERY good read, has lots of credible sources as well
Combines ancient philosophies and modern psychology

[Anonymous No.6699805]

I wish I could do minimalism, but my new apartment is going to have carpet, so I might as well smoke inside, leave beer laying around and watch the Price is Right on unemployment.

[Anonymous No.6699822]

>>6699791
got pdf link?

[Anonymous No.6699841]

>>6699805
what a pleb slob
ebt swag

[Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK No.6699846]

>>6699789
>she was genuinely offended by the concept.
yep, that's what makes it pretty unrealistic.

it makes sense to guys, but girls see it as rejection.

[Anonymous No.6700038]

>>6699751
confirmed serial killer

[Anonymous No.6700066]

>>6699617
My gf is neat AS FUCK, way more than I am, so idk what to tell you. Find a neat freak. She'll sticky roll your clothes and shit for you too, it's awesome.

[-g⬜️ No.6700067]

>>6699805
I was in the same situation. Found an apartment near the city, the landlord was in the midst of renovating it, and when i was accepted for the lease, I offered to pay for hardwood and installation in the apartment.

Landlord refused, and installed this godforsaken white carpet everywhere except the tile kitchen and bathroom.

It's appalling.

[Anonymous No.6700076]

>>6699695
>>6699722
That almost makes me physically ill.

[Anonymous No.6700098]

>>6700067
why would he not accept free wood floors?

[Anonymous No.6700112]

How can I display my piss bottles in a minimalist way?

[Anonymous No.6700117]

>>6700112
piss in vintage mason jars and stack them in front of your window to give the room a golden glow

/fa/

[Natalie Portman No.6700121]

>>6700038
I have tendencies and small nuances of personality that are similar to "psychopaths"
But I'm not an aggressive or malignant person
I use those things in a very artistic way if anything

[Anonymous No.6700125]

>>6700067

ugh.

[Anonymous No.6700131]

stay single, die alone

[Anonymous No.6700133]

>>6700117
>golden glow

[Anonymous No.6700151]

>>6700121

things a psychopath would say

[Anonymous No.6700165]

>>6700117
What if my piss is clear as water because I'm not a dehydrated fuck?

[Anonymous No.6700179]

>>6700121
understandable. Was just joshing you, broseidon.

>>6700076
hmm, I have more. I'll post them so my room will look minimalist by comparison.

[Anonymous No.6700195]

>>6700179
foreverNEET

[Anonymous No.6700206]

>>6700165

>not willing to sacrifice health for home aesthetics

pleb

[Anonymous No.6700209]

>>6700179
it's like, who even needs a trash can, ya know?

[Anonymous No.6700221]

>>6700165
My original purpose was so that my mom can clean them up easier.

[Anonymous No.6700256]

this fucking picture. WHY WOULDN'T YOU JUST ASH YOUR DISGUSTING CIGARETTES IN THE BOTTLES OF PISS RIGHT THERE?

[Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK No.6700364]

Would you say my room is minimalistic or something else?

im thinking of getting some stained glass.
thoughts?

[Anonymous No.6700369]

>>6700364
no, not really. it's clean, though.

[Anonymous No.6700386]

>>6700179
>that naked anime figure rising from the rubble

[Anonymous No.6700397]

>>6700256
>360
seems about right

[Anonymous No.6700402]

>>6700364
Autist

[Anonymous No.6700405]

>>6700364
Do you take girls home

[Tripsk !!NfEoAU6E/r3 No.6700447]

>>6699728
I don't think it's such a big deal. If I lived with a partner long-term I would need my own space. even if it's an office or a studio.

I'm respectful of mutual areas, especially if I'm a guest. Like everyone, I don't like having my things moved or manipulated and I think the person who the place belongs to kind of dictates that. At my place, I don't really move things unless it's specifically requested or if I know it's something that the partner would prefer. I dated someone once who would find problems with the way I arranged the food in my own fridge, and complained if there were books on my desk (he was only there on weekends too). And I dated someone who strode over a carpet of clothes and only spent time in my bed. I think finding the right balance and being ready to compromise is important before you move in with someone.

At my partner's, I would ask before doing most things. I don't know if I'll be able to drop that feeling of being or hosting a guest. I still have a lot to learn.

[Anonymous No.6700489]

>>6700364
dude this isn't ACTUALLY your room, is it? How old are you? Why would you decorate your room like that?

[Anonymous No.6700508]

>>6699617
http://www.architecturenewsplus.com/projects/510

Don't live with her. I hardly got any furniture and I have enough place to tidy EVERYTHING.

There's NOTHING in my kitchen when I'm not cooking. My bedroom consists of a bed.

Of course it's cluttered when she comes at home but I feel relief when she lives. I clearly am visibly ill when surrounded by her things (she doesn't tidy her macbook pro and her work stuff ever and since she's an architect student it can get out of hand very easily).

[Anonymous No.6700509]

I'm not a minimalist, I just do my room however the fuck I want to.

I hoard a lot sometimes, like legit hoarding, not "oh thats hoarding" little petty bullshit. Roomates keep me in line now though.

[Anonymous No.6700511]

>>6700489

Maybe it's a form of expression. Maybe he gets some sort of sadistic pleasure out of seeing the disgust and revulsion someone faces when coming across something like this. Maybe he's also a little masochistic.

[Anonymous No.6700527]

>>6700508
Also does anybody else feel relief when guests (be it friends or girlfriend) leave your flat? God, people are so messy. I always use glass mounts (as I own a moderately pricey ethnicraft table) and when I see people putting their glass on the table without a glass mount I feel like I could just throw them out.

My 2cts, it was just an example by the way

[Anonymous No.6700532]

>>6700527
Nah, I love it when people are over, then again I'm messy as fuck.

[Anonymous No.6700554]

>>6700532
I mean, I can enjoy it when people are here but there's always a moment when I'm like "ffs when do they leave".

[Anonymous No.6700559]

I bought my own flat in London and decorated it myself. When (if.. ) i get a girl she'll move in around my stuff. I'm minimal as well so hopefully she wont have all that stupid shit girls collect.

that's a great vintage box, babe, but do we need 60?

[Anonymous No.6700560]

>>6700532
>>6700527

I'm both of you fuckers.

Sometimes it's a relief though, when things get a little fucked up I can do what I like.

I'm waiting for someone to scratch up my coffee table so I can stab a note into it with a hunting knife that says either "Use a coaster" or "Don't scratch the fucking coffee table". Am still taking suggestions.

[Tripsk !!NfEoAU6E/r3 No.6700567]

>>6700527
When I lived alone, I just never had guests over besides partners. My best friend has spent a total of 20 minutes in the apartment I lived in for three years, and she had to force herself in once.

Most people would be uncomfortable with the clothes and the mess and the writing on the wall and the mirrors anyway.

[Anonymous No.6700581]

>>6699728
god i know. I bought a super king size bed so i wouldn't be constantly woken up by the girl next to me.

in an ideal world after sex we would sleep in different beds. Ideally i would leave and go to a colder bed.

[Anonymous No.6700595]

>>6699656
that post is borderline retarded, to me

[Anonymous No.6700614]

>>6700179
>all that old food will attract fungus and bacteria
>fungus and bacteria will will see you as food too
how can anyone live like this? imagine the risks of a skin or lung infection. fucking disgusting!

[Anonymous No.6700623]

>>6700614

Most people that live like this are also overweight, and care for themselves the same way they care for their homes. Don't think about it too much man,

Just know that your antithesis is out there right now, doing everything it can to be eaten alive by its own furniture.

[Anonymous No.6700652]

>>6700527
>>6700508
>>6700560

Bateman

[Anonymous No.6700698]

>>6700623
Dude... not all overweight people are like that. I mean, I don't know about the 300lb-ers, but shit, there's unhealthy lifestyles, and there's giving up on life completely...

[Tripsk !!NfEoAU6E/r3 No.6700711]

>>6700614
I "lived" in a filthy apartment for a while (not that bad, but still) I would just not go into certain rooms for months. It was a combination of not caring and not being there. Life can sometimes just pull you under.

[Anonymous No.6700751]

>>6700711
I know that feel

there was a period where I lived in a fortress of beer cans and pizza boxes. Nothing like the pee bottles and garbage of the pics in this thread, but it was an awful mess.

I try to forget sometimes. being meticulously clean now is how I remind myself that that's not my life anymore.

[Anonymous No.6700754]

>>6699617

I've just moved in with my gf temporarily - I'm fairly minimalist, she's Indian so she's super messy.

I'm slowly teaching her to be clean and tidy.

>>6700581

In an ideal world she at least stops sleeping in the middle of the bed. I'm not asking for much

[Anonymous No.6700785]

>>6700754
>I've just moved in with my gf temporarily - I'm fairly minimalist, she's Indian so she's super messy.
>I'm slowly teaching her to be clean and tidy.

Helps if you've ever had a dog.

[Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK No.6700795]

>>6700405
i try to go to their place because i don't like them knowing where i live.
makes it easier for them to stalk me and shit.
the less they know the better.

>>6700489
23, and because DBZ is cool.
why not?
it's inspiring because goku is strong and im strong.

[Anonymous No.6700816]

>mfw soon-to-be wife is japanese
>mfw I come home and our room is now fully functional-minimalistic

Used to look like the inside of a gypsy wagon before she moved in.

[Anonymous No.6700825]

>>6700816
Where did you find it?
White women are so stupid and think they're equal to men.

[Anonymous No.6700838]

>>6700795
oh god the trolling.

Protip OP: You don't. When I moved in with my current gf, we did a rundown on how we wanted to set everything up. It sounded perfectly decent on paper. Not super minimalist, but not cluttered in any way. Essentially, meeting halfway.

Then she bought two extra chairs just to have. And some throw blankets. And the pillows, oh God the pillows. And if I ever hear "but it has sentimental value" again, I swear I'm going to start flinging shit out the window.

[Anonymous No.6700842]

>>6700825
probably japan

[Anonymous No.6700861]

>>6700754
please post pictures of your gf

[Anonymous No.6700867]

>>6700861

here she is

[Anonymous No.6700873]

>>6700867
i wish i could find an indian who wa sn't covered in hair

[Anonymous No.6700875]

>>6700867
thats some nice pussy

[Anonymous No.6700876]

>>6700873
they make good subs/slaves because they're self-race-hating enough to get rid of the hair once they realize how offensive it is.

[Anonymous No.6700916]

>>6699649
>flat-screen tv
get a normal tv hipster faggot

[Anonymous No.6700925]

>>6700916
lel where the fuck do you live?

[Anonymous No.6700930]

>>6699649
>Minimalism is cute, but no ideal for function.
Minimalism isn't having the least stuff, its having only the things you need.
Minimalism is exactly ideal for function because that is minimalism.

This picture explains it well.

So there is no 'I would be a minimalist if I didn't need so much tools."
No you need all of those tools, so you keep them.

[Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK No.6700936]

>>6700876
true. indians really are self hating towards their race.

it's crazy. i work with indians and they constantly admit that they don't like working with other indians because they can't trust them.

>>6700825
not saying i disagree, but you really can only blame the men for sublimating to feminine agenda.

not sure if im using the word sublimating correctly, but im sure this post would get taken wrongly anyway.


basically what i'm saying is that women feel so entitled because men aren't men anymore.
most don't realize it, but America has already become incredibly feminized.

you can't get mad at someone for taking what they are given.
women are treated above men, by men, so it's only natural they act that way.

this isn't hate btw but take it how you want.
and if you want more, i can give it, because it's pretty much all i know.

[Anonymous No.6700953]

>>6699649
Minimalism overlaid with life mess is ideal. I wonder WTF people are doing if their place is too clean. Clutter is natural. The world is cluttered.

Grill here.

>>6700447
And yeah, who doesn't need a "room of their own," somewhere? Shared bedroom + separate studies are god tier.

[Anonymous No.6700986]

>>6700825
>>6700936

Mine KNOWS she's better than me in some things. That's exactly why she is wife material: She's a better cook, better at decoration, better at personal style and other things.
Because of that, she feels like she should make my life better, being my future wife, so she does it all with a smile on her face.

It's like... deep down we both know we won't find someone up to our level (not bragging, just being reallistic), so even when we fight we're both like "YOU FUCKED MY LIFE, I'LL NEVER FIND SOMEONE AS GOOD AS YOU"

[Anonymous No.6700993]

>>6700925
America

[Tripsk !!NfEoAU6E/r3 No.6700995]

>>6700986
>deep down we both know we won't find someone up to our level
That's a good point to be at, because you know that you can get past any fight.

[Anonymous No.6701204]

>>6700936
>indians really are self hating towards their race.
I don't think they traditionally view it as "their race" or even "their country".
I mean, this is why the British had such an easy time running their shit for so long - they atomize themselves willingly into castes and the behavior seems deeply ingrained.

[Anonymous No.6701729]

Why the fuck are you guys posting this shit onto reddit? are you fucking kidding me who was the nigger that did that

>>>/r/minimalism

[Anonymous No.6702348]

>>6701729
take a screenshot i don't know how to put that into reddit and i sure as fuck don't want to learn.

[Anonymous No.6702375]

>>6699674
Not true

[ena No.6702498]

If moving in with her is inevitable, then have a private study area that is 'yours' where you can have all the minimalism you want. Also invest in lots of storage furniture like beds and couches with drawers underneath to put all her crap away in.

[Anonymous No.6702518]

I want more minimalist room pics.
Wish I had a tiled/wooden floor.

[Anonymous No.6702771]

>>6699649
god damn all those paintings are so same-y

[Anonymous No.6702854]

>>6702771
they're safe paintings for people that call themselves eclectic

[Anonymous No.6702874]

>>6700652
I raffed

[Anonymous No.6703046]

>>6702348

[banana No.6703055]

>>6703046
That's pretty creepy

[Anonymous No.6703060]

>>6703055

[Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK No.6703078]

>>6703046
what's the point of doing that?
this isn't even a good/funny thread?

what are the comments like?

[banana No.6703091]

>>6703060
oh nevermind lol

[Anonymous No.6703123]

>>6702518
This, can someone dump images or post a link to some cool, minimalist rooms?

[Anonymous No.6703135]

>>6700930
minimalism is an unnecessary extreme in my opinion. Like vegetarians that don't eat anything that was ever in the same room as an animal.

I'm moving soon and I'm going through my stuff now, realizing I have a lot of unnecessary things, so I'm condensing that. But as for the hardcore minimal style, I can't vibe. My room has to have a personality that mirrors mine.

[Anonymous No.6703170]

>>6703046
so, I've been on reddit? creep mode.

>>6703060
well, at least they weren't talking about my post much. still creepy. WHICH OF YOU FAGGOTS IS UPLOADING SHIT TO REDDIT!
anyway, posting some minimal pics and some that are semi-minimal with more than bare bones.

[Anonymous No.6703191]

>>6703170

[Anonymous No.6703192]

[Anonymous No.6703218]

>>6703191

[Anonymous No.6703232]

>>6703218

[Anonymous No.6703241]

>>6703232

[Anonymous No.6703250]

>>6703241

[Anonymous No.6703300]

>tfw room is too small for glorious minimalism

I wish I had a massive studio apartment

[Anonymous No.6703379]

I try to keep my room as minimal as possible, while constantly arranging and organizing things in their right place. It's hard since my room consists of a computer desk, bed, shelf, and record player+stereo

[Anonymous No.6703448]

>>6700795
A little on the nose, nice try.

[Anonymous No.6703517]

>>6700838
>Then she bought two extra chairs just to have. And some throw blankets. And the pillows, oh God the pillows. And if I ever hear "but it has sentimental value" again, I swear I'm going to start flinging shit out the window.
reading this almost made me hulk out on my girlfriend in the next room, she's not even messy but just imagining her doing that pissed me off

[Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK No.6703529]

>>6703448
What is son sayin?

note: this post is incredibly witty and well written. notice the picture is of the popular DBZ character Goten. Goten is Goku's son, and a Saiyan.

the post "what is son sayin" is questioning what you meant about noses (i'm not familiar with the expression). essentially it means "what is this guy talking about?"
yet the picture is of a Saiyan's son, giving the post a double meaning.

[Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK No.6703534]

>>6703517
>but it has sentimental value
ha hits too close to home for me, because my ex used to say the same shit.
damn it pissed me off how much stuff she would just keep for no reason.

[Anonymous No.6703541]

>>6703534
my mom used to do that so it's a double Freudian whammy when my girlfriend does it now

[Anonymous No.6703561]

>>6699649
>>6702771
>>6702854
IKEA paintings for boring shitheads.

[Anonymous No.6703597]

>>6700179
I see a tablet and some sort of manga-layout software on the bigass monitor.

Remember kids, this is what happens if you go to Japan to become a Manga-ka.

[Anonymous No.6703618]

>>6703529
pls stop.

[Anonymous No.6703728]

[Starfucks 64 !!9K82DbNiFMK No.6703743]

>>6703618
you exposed me homie

but i dont get why you clicked on 3 of those links.

[Anonymous No.6703893]

>>6703743
yo did u hear that eeyore bought that site that had his ether?

[Anonymous No.6703899]

>>6703743
Fucking autist

[Anonymous No.6704024]

>>6703893
what?

that's hillarious if it's true haha

[Anonymous No.6704093]

>>6703893
>>6703893
Oh God
Please post proof.

[Anonymous No.6704478]

>>6699674
wut? my gf is modernist/minimalist all the way

feels good

[Anonymous No.6704615]

>>6699689

>2k13
>can't afford TV
>people have to hold back their laughter at your lack of acquired currency

I don't pay for cable since I just use HDMI, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't in love with my 72" screen.

[Anonymous No.6705057]

>>6699689
lol how do yu watch porn then, on YOUR MIND?

[-g⬜️ No.6705068]

>>6704615
Poorfag here. Only have a 50 in my living room and 32 in the bedroom. 32 looks so tiny, might up to 40.

I have cable for them sporting matches but rarely watch it. Useless necessity.

[Anonymous No.6705152]

Aw, i like the apartment you posted OP, reminds me of my first apart.

I had nothing in it but my bed. (which was on floor)
Always had interesting comments from anyone that saw it. I think its pretty /fa/

[Anonymous No.6705243]

>>6704615
>2k13
>watching tv

[Anonymous No.6705270]

>2013
>watching TV
>using a computer for anything
>not owning a typewriter

How do you people expect to be better than anyone if you're still trying to keep up with the Jones's?

You can still have a fruitful (and arguably more meaningful) life with analog stuff that was invented long ago.

Do you REALLY want to be friends with someone who would never write you a letter?

[Anonymous No.6706170]

getonmylevel
nogirlsallowed

[Anonymous No.6706201]

>>6706170
that guy in the doorway...

[Anonymous No.6706210]

is this minimal enough?

[Anonymous No.6706225]

[cbr !inuwQOluis No.6706276]

>>6703192
reminds me of a train station

[Anonymous No.6706376]

>>6706201
how new are you???

[Anonymous No.6706746]

>>6700838

that room hnnggg

the furnishings can go fuck themselves though. except those rugs and blinds, maybe the bed.

[Anonymous No.6706750]

>>6700930

new wallpaper

[Anonymous No.6706903]

>>6700838
where would you have to live to get an apartment with a similar style?

[Anonymous No.6707039]

>>6706903

any medium sized to large size city should have some industrial looking apartments, you'll just have to hunt around. Be prepared to pay out of your ass for rent though.

[Anonymous No.6707192]

>>6707039
yeah, i was planning on renting. crap, how much do you think a 1 room apartment like that would go for...or should i consider roommates?

[Anonymous No.6707216]

>>6699649
Being 'kinda minimal' defeats the whole purpose of minimalism.

[Anonymous No.6707224]

>>6700986
>She's a better cook

God I read that as "She has a better cock"

I need to leave 4chan for a while.

[Anonymous No.6707436]

>i'm actually gay

[Anonymous No.6709078]

you know what's better than minimalism? messy minimalism. there's a subtle difference. it's more carefree, but minimal at the same time.

[Anonymous No.6709088]

>>6707436
this .gif is so gay

[Anonymous No.6709105]

I've grown to like minimal designs. Can someone post minimal outfits?

[Anonymous No.6709131]

>>6699649
ugh fuck you people that think resting paintings against a wall like that is a good idea, it's so half assed

[Anonymous No.6709141]

>>6707436
I'm not gay but something about that gif looks right and beautiful.

[Anonymous No.6709167]

>>6699689
>google tv
>apple tv
>mirroring
>using the tv as a giant monitor
>herp derp

[Anonymous No.6709214]

>>6709167
you think you're so edgy
you are not