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>>New fuckbuddy
>>She's really into me and shit.
>>3 weeks in, kind of start to like her
>>Start coming over more. Go see a movie or some shit.

>>She starts acting stand-offish and doesn't want to fuck as much. Oh shit, that was the whole point, dude.

>>I invited her to some shit.
>>She replied, "What say?"
>>I told her what day. She never returned my text. That was on Monday. Called her and no reply today.

It's fine if she wants to cut contact for whatever reason, but I'm kind of worried she's dead.

The fuck, guys?

>> No.6440196

she's just not into you

>> No.6440195

the old man

>> No.6440199

>>>/r9k/

>> No.6440208

>>6440196
>this
move on please bud it sucks but we've all been there

>> No.6440209

>>6440196
But she was like last week?

>>6440199
lolok

>> No.6440227

probably she just wants to fuck and notices that you are starting to like her

>> No.6440229

>>6440191
you're looking for different things, get out before you get sucked in more

>> No.6440230

>>6440229
this OP

>> No.6440237

they're called fuckbuddys for a reason. when you fuck her you're already signing a contract that your interactions are purely for your sexual release and nothing more

>> No.6440238

>>6440227
She was like, very into me and trying to do more shit at first. Then when I actually show interest, she stops caring. Just confusing. Don't know what to make of it.

>> No.6440262

>>6440238
she's tryna see if she has control over u n making u get back in contact with her so she can reassure herself u rly like her

>> No.6440271

>>6440262
But I just called her and left a message.

And I probably won't contact her again if she doesn't reply to my texts or message.

So...
That's kind of a stupid game. She's not hot enough to be pulling shit like that.

>> No.6440276

>>6440238
girls are weird dude they don't even know what they want you have to tell them

>> No.6440291

http://youtu.be/gtumYwv0YYo

>> No.6440296
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6440296

>>6440276
I find it much easier when I just talk to everyone like an equal and make my intentions completely obvious. Unless lying will make me money. That's like the only thing I'll lie for.

Because of this personality type, I find it pretty easy to get laid and find fuckbuddies. But chicks usually distance themselves within a few weeks once they start to really get to know me.

It's kind of a weird feeling.

>> No.6440299

i can see the left nipple of the girl in OP's pic

>> No.6440305
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6440305

Okay, I haven't been totally honest with you guys.

Last week, she didn't wanna bang. So I took a bunch of DXM she had in her house (600mg).

We went to a movie and afterward, I drove around for like an hour driving erratically and yelling random shit and chain smoking.

I think it bothered her a bit.
Whoops

how2recover

>> No.6440318

>>6440305
do people still say bang?

>> No.6440325

>>6440305
get over it you loser

>> No.6440330

cut ties move on, use discretion if she hits you up afterwards, if you really want her back for some reason do so when you can make a fresh/new impression

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6440333

Stop posting this on different boards you dipshit.

You got clingy and she's not into you anymore.

>> No.6440338

>>6440318
I don't think so. I say bang. Fuck it.

Oh, I just realized... I think she might be mad about me telling her that she has to warn me when she doesn't wanna bang before I come over now.
Yeah...

>>6440325
Yeah, I know.

>>6440330
Discretion meaning? Like, she's just a fuckbuddy. Pretty discrete.

>> No.6440363

>fuckbuddy in high school
>take her to prom
>says she really likes me and wants to be in a 'relationship'
took this with a grain of salt really. i didn't expect much from this supposed 'relationship' she wanted.
>start hanging out more often in the open
nobody really knew about us in the beginning, she wanted to keep it a secret and i obliged. plus, i didn't really want to hangout with her dumb ass friends since she was with them a lot when she wasn't with me.
>i travel for 2 days for family reasons during the summer
>she stops talking to me
>whatdidido.jpg
>her friend told her that "she lost interest in me" and that she was "feeling depressed"
>heard she became a semi-alcoholic in her first two years of college
>le sad feel, i really cared about her (even when we 'broke up')


>fast forward to last month (approx 2.5 years)
>starts randomly fbing me and texts me a lot
>haven't seen her yet since i got an internship this summer

/fa/, wat do

>> No.6440370

>>6440363
*her friend told me

>> No.6440368

>>6440338
discretion also means judgement/choice dude

>> No.6440389
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6440389

You fucked up by showing too much interest early on. Women all secretly want to win a guy over for a long stretch of time, not the other way around.

When you start showing her more attention, care, or even when you just plain want to see her more often, she thinks you're trying to win her over or she has won you over(and she's right). It doesn't matter if that wasn't your intention what matters was that sub-communication. You communicated that she was of higher value than you were. Think about it, do you chase something of lower value? NO!

The fact that you hit her up twice after she didn't want to see you, really puts the nail in coffin but there's hope.

I've been through this before, so I have experience in this.

The easiest way to remedy this is to look for more pussy and move on. Now, if you're a cruel mofo and you want to hit it one last time, you can contact her in 3 weeks. That's right, I said 3 weeks. That means don't say shit to her for 3 weeks. If she decides to contact you, wait a day to text her back. It's ok to do this, women do it themselves.

Now, if she doesn't text or call in the whole 3 weeks you can text her something really banal.

Like, "hey troublemaker whats the deal"

P.S she's a slut, too. so don't worry about it.

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6440400

>>6440389
>tfw gf would never agree to wearing something like this

>> No.6440403

>>6440368
Right. So how should that judgement be executed?

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6440416

>>6440363
fuck her and keep fucking her while being completely detached from her. let it fizzle out on its own if you want to cut her off.

i mean, just think about it, if she flips out on you for 2 days, image being in a relationship with her for a month. by the end of it, she'll probably cheat on you with some other guy.

she'll probably fuck him for free, too. (i.e. no investment on his part).

do yourself a favor and seek out more girls. i've tried many things and this is a cure for all. but some situations are worth the trouble. in this case, it's not.

>> No.6440420

get fucked retard

>> No.6440422

>>6440389
Good reply. Thanks, dude.

And I know she's a slut. But she was way too into me and even said she was fucking only me. After I told her I really don't care who else she fucks.

Okay, yeah. Good shit on your side. I'll do that.

But riddle me this:
Why should I have to play stupid fucking games? I hate that shit. Like, I always have my phone on me. I'm not gonna pretend to be such a busy motherfucker that I can't respond to a text for a day. Why bother with that shit. I'd like to just be myself and get laid.

>> No.6440423

>>6440389
Wasn't this revealed to be trap

>> No.6440473
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6440473

>>6440416
i really really like her though, there's something about her that i can't really explain to somebody else. i've been with 1 other girl ever since we had our thing but she was always on my mind.

i'm really hesitant to see her again but it's pretty obvious she wants to see me again. i'm just scared because she'll pull something similar and i'll end up feeling like a depressed autist after.

plus, she's probably all used up now. she was fresh when i was with her

>> No.6440481
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6440481

>>6440422
never pay attention to what a women says, pay attention to what she does. there was this saying, i don't know it verbatim, but it was something like, "a women's words are as solid as the wind in which it travels." in others, don't listen to bitches. i mean, sure she said this and that, but look at where you're at right now?

i know you're going to deny this, but just by your reply, you like her. perhaps more thatn you're willing to admit. it's ok man, i've been there too. you need to stop this from taking over your mind. relax, and do something else. or else when you actually (and the probability is low) it will leak out on your body language and voice.

why do you need to play games?
because it is a game to begin with. don't fight it, just understand that you will always play little head games with women.

as a man, i understand what you mean. but after you fuck many girls, you realize that it is necessary and you begin to understand why they need to be "gamed".

for one, a women is biologically more valuable than a man. (she only has a set amount of eggs, you have many sperm).

that's all i'm going to say since i could talk about this for hours.

just know this, it's necessary and if you keep putting this off because you want to "be yourself" then you might as well prepare yourself for not only headaches, but heartaches as well.

>> No.6440512

>>6440473
is it one person doing all these feels posts...

>> No.6440513
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6440513

>>6440473
> i'm just scared because she'll pull something similar

oh, she will. you can bet on that. i'm not trying to be a pessimist but i only call it as i see it.

also, you don't really like her. you're just saying that because she completely flipped on you once you started to become invested in her. this lead to a whole push and pull dynamic that women are well known for.
she gave you a piece and all of a sudden she withdrew from you, you craved more of it and suddenly you found yourself thinking about her.

pretty nice the way women play these games huh? it's even better when you realize where you're going wrong and you fix it only to use it on the next girl.

anyway, my advice still stands. you can keep her as a FWB while being comepletely detached. i know it's going to be hard for you but you have to do it.

its either that or move one.

trust me, a girl who does shit like that is not worth it. she will break you if you ever become too attached.

"we don't love these hoes." keep that to heart.

>> No.6440531

>>6440512
not sure.

these are me: >>6440363 >>6440473

>> No.6440535

>>6440513
Ai-chee-wah-wah

>> No.6440536

>>6440481
Where do I learn, oh wise one?

>> No.6440537

>>6440513
makes sense. i guess we'll see how things go.

t-t-thanks anon

>> No.6440541

>>6440513
Ow-ooh-gah

>> No.6440576

this is the dumbest thread
people lose interest in other people for a wide range of reasons
op is probably just dumb as fuck and she got bored with him

theres like flirty fun tension with most guys i talk to even if i dont find them attractive but that dissipates pretty quickly and then i lose any patience i might have had before for all of their bullshit

op, you just got boring and now youre backpeddling trying to seem like you dont care that shes not into you
lol

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6440595

>>6440576
[]tits
[]gtfo

>> No.6440601

>>6440595
>tits or gtfo
le epic maymay

>> No.6440605

>>6440595
>>>/b/

>> No.6440613

>>6440576
Slut girl, can you please school me on how to keep a girl's interest beyond flirt tension

>> No.6440623

>>6440613
be interesting, honest and not a stupid fuck

fyi everyone likes different things
what works for me doesnt work for every girl and if you think theres a single solution to interact with all women youre probably doomed to shitty, shallow relationships forever

>> No.6440631

>>6440595
>>>b

>> No.6440638

>>6440631
sure is summer in here

>> No.6440653

>>6440291
this

>> No.6440695

>>6440623
>doomed to shitty, shallow relationships
Nope

Just thought an internet sloot would be able to give me better advice than the typical 'b urself'