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The girl I like invited me to a club. I've never been to a club, and I'm fucking clueless as to what to wear. I beseech you, /fa/. What do I wear that shows I'm savvy but not desperately trying to impress?

>> No.6126911

Button down, raw jeans and brown boots is pretty stock standard

>> No.6126917

Rub your boner on her to prove to the room that you're worth a shit.
Anything else is superfluous.

>> No.6126922

What kind of club? You can always just google the place and look at the pictures of the people they have there,that will at least give you an idea of what to wear.

>> No.6126926

Don't wear your most expensive shit because you'd be asking for a disaster. Just wear "pleb" tier shit. The bitches will eat it up more than they will whatever else you wear.

>> No.6126929

>>6126911
u is a dadcore nigger basic bitch go full raf rick tho ye not dad

>> No.6126953

l usually wear v-necks, dark jeans, and boots. Often with a leather jacket.

A girl bought me a drink within 10 mins last weekend and tonight some girl was talking about me to her friends in the same period so l assume that works

>> No.6126957

>>6126929
OP asked for savvy and not trying to impress.

>> No.6126965

OP here. The club has more a college-kid feel to it, but google images of the place showed guys who either looked like complete tools or uncomfortable in their own skin.

My wardrobe has lot of biz-casual-esque clothes, but I will take the raw jeans into consideration.

>> No.6126989

>>6126911
some clubs got stupid requirements that include no jeans and no boots. They are "classy" places.

>> No.6126994

>>6126965
Then you'll probably be fine in just a nice t-shirt and jeans. Maybe a light sweater instead. Oh, and non raggety shoes.

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>> No.6127003

i dunno the environment but if its like pleb clubs i been in

>polo
>jawnz
>sneakers

if its a club with interesting people in it

>your favourite lightweight outfit that you can still boogie woogie in
>that you won't be terribly afraid of getting a little wear in

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>>6126998
u are legitimately insane

>> No.6127073

>>6126994
>>6127003
>>6126953
>>6126911

Thank you all. I have an idea of what to wear. Probably going to be grey v-neck, jeans, and either woven sweater or leather jacket.

You are all gentlemen and scholars.

>> No.6127085

>>6126998
>>6127056
Some men aren't looking for anything logical, like money. They can't be bought, bullied, reasoned, or negotiated with. Some men just want to watch the world bald.

>> No.6127108
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6127108

Here I am without my lifts.

As a wise man put it...

"I have reason to suspect these places are
nothing more than money-makers for purveyors of liquor, mops and salted nuts. There’s
too much working against the man on the hunt in this type of environment. Women’s
egos are boosted because they’ve spent hours getting dolled up so they look their best (or
their friends tell them so). Male competition means that ten seconds before you arrived
and ten seconds after you leave another dude will be in front of her maw."

>> No.6127125

>>6126998
>>6127108
why are slapheads so insecure?

>> No.6127142

>>6127073
>You are all gentlemen and scholars.
>>redit

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6127168

Gotta get a final one after all that had work w/Pinta.

>> No.6127172

>>6127108

There is plenty of competition but on the other hand you get more opportunities to meet women outside of your normal sphere. Even if you don't hook up with any of them you may run into them on another night and they may have friends with them.

In this age of Facebook and social media you may be able to find them later and either get a second crack at them or become friends with them. They will have roommates and other friends who you now have an opportunity to meet. It's all about networking.

>> No.6127210

>>6127172
You'll probably get more traction being well dressed talking to a chick at a grocery store than doing the beta friend networking route.

Women have a disqualifying paradigm and social media tends to be a minefield in that area.

>> No.6127235

where do /fa/ girls hang out?

>> No.6127245

>>6127108

OP here. To be honest, I'm really only going to the club for this one girl. I've met other girls at coffee shops and book stores, but this one, she's quite important to me. she's been my friend since highschool. She has a boyfriend, but she has confessed to me that he's on the way out. Honestly, what kinda man would I be if I didn't at least try...oh wait. that would make me a beta.

>> No.6127255

>>6127245
i highly recommend not to go

>> No.6127256

>>6127235
4chan

>> No.6127288

>>6127245
Then the fit is more important than the fabric and the colors should be subtle but flattering to your complexion and hair/eyes.

>> No.6127300

>>6127235
/soc/ and /cgl/

>> No.6127332

>>6127255
Nope. Don't get me wrong. I'm not going to get her drunk and shove my dick up her skirt. I'm going just to chat it up with her after. Probably going to instill some doubt that I'm "just" a friend. I do understand how it can be risky though.

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>>6127288
Brown eyes, black hair, muscular with some body fat (think 17% bmi).

>> No.6127360

>>6126896
you should probably wear a shirt, pants and shoes. oh and dance dont stand there like i did last time. i think youre supposed to twerk?

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>>6127360
Oh shit dude, I spent my entire week NOT twerking! I am so screwed.

>> No.6127398

>>6127387
Wow what did you do all day?

>> No.6127410

>>6127398
Absolutely not twerking, any tips on how to dance? I also don't dance at all.

>> No.6127418

>>6127410
Move rhythmically and emphatically.
Really all there is to it.
I can only do it when I have a shitload of confidence. Luckily I take Prozac and drink a lot.

>> No.6127425

>>6127418
no prozac, but i can drink like a stupid shit-faced horse. just gotta get drunk enough to not care i guess.

>> No.6127439

>>6127410
All i know is you have to match your butt with the song. Its way more complicated than that though. Theres different moves and shit.

>> No.6127452

>implying /fa/ would ever leave the house

>> No.6127538

>>6127452

don't want the plebeians to ruin our sick jawnz

>> No.6127563

>>6127332
it wont work lel

>> No.6128592

>>6127210

I don't mean friending on Facebook, I mean use Facebook to follow up with people you meet and build real world friendships. Then when you say go to a movie or hang out with them you meet their friends in person and now you have a shot at them. Facebook is just a way to get in touch with them if you don't get their number or your friend is being a cock-blocking asshole (Some people just think its hilarious).

>> No.6128601

>>6127085
Heh

>> No.6128638

>>6127410
it's easy.
step from your right foot to your left and back (sidesteps) rhytmically to the beat. then just do literally ANYTHING with your hands - shake, wave, circular motions, it doesnt matter. If you start feeling good, you can also start moving your butt a bit in accordance to your arm/leg movement.

it's really simple.

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>>6127245

>ops face when the qt hooks up with some random guy at the club and not him
>ops face when he realises she just needed someone to go with and views him as nothing but a friend

>> No.6128706

>>6127332
> Probably going to instill some doubt that I'm "just" a friend.

Right now I'm getting this image of a fedora-guy trying to sound all mysterious thinking he's being panty-wettingly suave.

Probably not what you mean but it still sounds beta as fuck.

You need to be more direct. Now I'm not telling you to walk up to her and say you like her. Have a couple of drinks. Talk to her. Be flirty. If she responds positively then keep going. Get closer.

Keep in mind that flirting is very non-committing, which is why you're allowed to do it. Even if she smiles and laughs it doesn't necessarily means she is interested, but as the two of you get increasingly confident with saying lewd things you'll probably also find yourself opening up more and more to each other.
And that is how you talk to girls.

>> No.6128779

absolutely

>> No.6128799

>>6127235

/r9k/

>> No.6128804

>>6127410
stick out your thumbs and do little kicks while doing a dry heaving motion set to music.

>> No.6128811

The easiest and most attractive way to dance is to make as big movements as possible rhythmically while you show everyone how awesome your jawline is

All you have to do is look like a person that is fun to be around with and who is enjoying himself.

Don't be afraid to make an ass out of yourself, you're here to party and have fun so let loose

It worked for me and I wasn't even thin or /fa/ back then

>> No.6128848

>>6127410

Most songs are in 4/4 or common time. Basically these songs can be broken down into sets of four steps at even intervals.

What this means for you is that if you clapped out the beat you would take a step every time you clap.

A basic step sequence for this is: step to your left with your left foot, bring your feet together stepping with your right foot, step to your right with your right foot, and bring your feet together stepping with your left foot. Once you have the foot pattern down you can improve it by leading with tilted shoulders but leaving your hips in place when you step out on the first and third step. You can also try cocking your shoulder or head during the steps or variations like leading with your hip during the step or popping with your arms.

>> No.6128873

>>6128848

A second basic step pattern is: step out to the left with your left foot with the heel leading, bring your left foot back in together, step out to the right with your right foot with the heel leading, bring your right foot back in together.

As for your upper body, tilt your shoulders to the right when you step to your left, then straighten up, tilt your shoulders to the left when you step to your right, then straighten up.

The point of this sequence is so at some point after you step to the left or right, when you step back you step behind the planted foot so your legs cross then you spin in place a full turn so you end with your legs crossed opposite, then resume with a step sequence.

>> No.6128879

>>6128848
dont b counting beats and shit just hav fun n dance wit ur mates wth stop overthinkin this sht smh worst case scenario tht can hppn @ the club is gettin a hella workout from twerkin ur ass of das it

>> No.6128881

>>6128873

To clarify, the spin should take the time of two beats that way when you resume you are still in time to the music.

>> No.6128886

>>6128804
Hello Elaine

>> No.6128888

Show up to the club ready to waltz. Full fucking ballroom attire, including masquerade mask.

>> No.6128891

>>6128879

It's a mindless sequence of four steps, you should be able to pick it up in a minute or so and have it down by the end of a song. You should have fun but it doesn't take much effort to learn how to keep time. If you can keep time you won't lose track during breakdowns and you'll be able to anticipate.

>> No.6128924

Once you have a basic pattern you can watch what other people do and copy or modify their moves. You can even take from other dance styles as long as they are in 4/4 time or even 3/4 time if you throw in a pause. I've started off using a rock-step, triple step, triple step pattern from swing. I've even used salsa and cha-cha step patterns in hip-hop although you need to articulate it differently.

>> No.6128938

i hate clubs too

get a little buzzed
buy some yay (doubt you'd want to but hey, it really makes everything easier)

as for partying I wear a black or red v neck with nothing underneath and some worn in jeans.

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>>6128938
>as for partying I wear a black or red v neck with nothing underneath and some worn in jeans

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>>6128989
don't overeact pussy. black isn't a good choice but v necks go very well.

overall, do not wear knits or try hard shit. don't wear ANYTHING suggested as urban/ninja. keep it cool.

>> No.6129020

>>6128989
and I am 6'1 176lbs with 8%bf

it works. well.

>> No.6129023

>>6129016
>implying worn-in jeans are ever acceptable for night partying
>implying underdressing with just a v-neck is ever acceptable

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>>6129023
>yfw you wear Charvet shirts and sip cocktails at a fundraiser

>> No.6129048

>>6129035
Nigger, no

>> No.6129123

This is my go to club outfit and you won't look like every other pleb in a buttonup+dark jeans+brown shoe


Leather jacket + grey or white vneck + black jeans + black boots

>> No.6129141

My go-to club wardrobe
- wifebeater
- jeans
- the same sneakers I wear everywhere
- 4-5 shots pre-drink

Also I don't go to clubs I go to shitty dive bars where crust punks bum for change with their emaciated dogs

>> No.6129305

>>6127245

>but she has confessed to me that he's on the way out.

dude, either he's out or he's not. have fun fucking up yours and his life tho.

>> No.6129321

Okay, OP. Let me break it down for you.

IF you have really nice and "ralph lauren" features/characteristics you wear something upper class.

IF you are very handsome in an abercrombie way you dress as if you were in their advertisement. It might seem dumb, but the people at clubs are dumb so yeh.

Basicly what I'm trying to say is.. If you're really handsome look like a person with pride, money etc.

If you're on the other scale go more urban/hipster style, because then you look like you have some charisma etc.

>implying you have the clothes for either

>> No.6129329

>>6129321
str8 up fuccboi advice dont listen to this wack nig OP

>> No.6129333

>>6129329
Well, you would only say that because you feel offended.

The reason /fa/ dress the way they do is because imo 75% of the people in here are not really handsome enough to pull other stuff off. Hence why /fa/ hates A&F and all the good looking people so much.

>> No.6129342

>>6129333
hey fashion isnt simply about trying to look good, its about finding your tru-BAHAHAHHAHAHA nah man ur definitely right

>> No.6129345

>>6126896
dont go to a club with a girl you know

>> No.6129348

>>6129345
best advice ITT

>> No.6129360

>>6129321
if you're 'really nice' and ralph lauren' features you can wear whatever the fuck you want lel

>> No.6129370

>>6129360
Yes, but it's better to wear some upper class shit if you have the features for it.

I don't know how to describe it, but the models you see at ralph lauren are types. They fit perfectly in there, they look misplaced in some dope ass urban fit, that might otherwise look really fucking good on someone else.

>> No.6129381

>>6129370
And of course, they would still be able to pick up women because their aesthetics are still superior. It's just all about maximizing your outer.

>> No.6129405

>>6127073
>gentlemen and scholars
stop saying that around here if you want to fit in.
don't wear a sweater, don't wear a jacket, unless you want to queue up for the cloakroom like a fag. go with the t-shirt, just the t-shirt

>> No.6129479

>>6129370
ralph lauren is pleb as fuck

are you new?

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>>6128811
>everyone ignores my advice

O-o-okay /fa/

>> No.6129498

>>6129479
Wow, you're so stupid. OF COURSE IT'S PLEB! But it symbolizes upper class english.. Other people will associate you with that "role". l2 psychology..

>> No.6129500

>>6129498
>But it symbolizes upper class english
no it doesnt

>> No.6129511

>>6129500
>2013
>being this ignorant

>> No.6129524

>>6129511
>2013
>thinking a mainstream brand makes you upper class

lurk more, its obvious you're new

>> No.6129538

>>6129524
You are so in denial you can't even comprehend what I'm saying.
I really hope you're trolling.

>> No.6129535

>>6129500

This, pleb as fuck, ruined by asians wearing shitty big pony track suits and wankers in the hoodies

All it says to me is "I couldn't afford anything high end so this will do, please notice me"

>> No.6129549

>>6129535
Well of course you would say that. You're probably an average looking dude. With little to no self esteem. 90% of all people are plebs. And if you want to succeed you have to play by their rules, it's the sad truth.

>> No.6129562

>>6129538
2/10 troll

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>>6128592
>them you meet their friends in person
Yeah, but you have little to gain meeting friends before intimacy and much to lose.

I dunno, being near Manhattan for me, I think it's best to approach girls who give subtle interest signs and move in from there.

>> No.6129761

>>6129549

You're the pleb here mate, who thinks you have to conform to what people want to look good

Just fuck off

>> No.6129854

>>6129500
>>6129535
ralph lauren classic oxfords are the fucking fantastic. Yeah largely pleb brand shit but they have a few gems, and can produce some amazing outfits.

>> No.6129863

A trench coat and fedora with a tube sock on your cock. Keep the trench coat done up until you see a cute chick then run at her, pop those buttons and shake dangle your sock over her face.

>> No.6129874

>>6126953
>l usually wear v-necks, dark jeans, and boots. Often with a leather jacket.
this.

or a button shirt. nothing with graphics on it. Jacket only if you don't sweat easily. Clubs can get stuffy. Don't wear too bright colors.

>> No.6129877

>>6129863
Sounds good

>> No.6129884

my advice on dancing? Drink some. Step out to the dance floor with intent/confidence (regardless if you actually have any or not, no one will know). Bob your head. Then tap your foot. Eventually the body will follow suit. If it doesn't go get another drink. repeat until you start dancing.

>> No.6129892

>>6129884
>tap your foot
Nigga, you gay?

>> No.6129899

>>6129892
he gay

>> No.6129972

>>6129884
>>tap your foot

>> No.6131867

>>6129884
virgin

>> No.6131889

TAP
YOUR
FOOT

>> No.6133492

>>6127108
Calm down man

I love clubs to be able to eye fuck the girls and dem fucking legs and heels. Be /fa/ enough and be able to look them in the eye and smile, and you just pulled a girl without having to act like the rest of the desperate pricks.

>> No.6133509

>>6128706
This, except this part

>Keep in mind that flirting is very non-committing, which is why you're allowed to do it. Even if she smiles and laughs it doesn't necessarily means she is interested

Isn't even relevant if you actually treat the girl as a GIRL, you know, an opposite sex you are interested in getting fucking carnal with. You make it damn obvious you're interested without blatantly saying "let's fuck our brains out" until she is smiling nonstop and then you can "ironically" say you should get much more physical and kiss to seal the deal

>> No.6133528

>tfw I was that guy everyone made a circle gap getting away from the crazy dance

And that was the last time I went to a club ever and forever alcohol lied to me

>> No.6133575

>>6129755

I think you are still misunderstanding. If you meet someone who you wouldn't normally cross paths with, Facebook is just a convenient way to establish contact with them later since you don't know if or when you'll ever meet them again. Even if you aren't interested in them it's good to maintain a connection with them because they may have roommates or friends you may find interesting. You'll hang out and get to meet those friends which brings us back to square one.

It's sort of a shotgun approach but it's always good to know people even if you don't become close friends, it's a small world and you never know when a prior acquaintance will pay off.

>> No.6133664

>>6126896
Fitted solid shirt, everyone will have plaid or stripes, the fit will be the only thing you can see in the dark

Dark denim or grey chinos again, have them fit well

Cheap black dress shoes (dont want drinks spilled on your ferragamos do you?)

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all these v necks

feel physically ill at the thought of what you look like

>> No.6134072

>>6133575
Nope:
http://www.returnofkings.com/2307/facebook-is-hurting-your-game

Girls don't pawn off their hot friends.

If you enter the role as a "friend" that is where you will stay.

#s not FB

>> No.6134119

>>6134072

That's a pickup artist POV, the article assumes you have something to hide and you're going to be playing the field.

Sometimes girls make the best wingmen, I've approached groups of girls and asked them for a dance. If they are hesitant their friends help pressure them into accepting. Other times asking the not as hot friend to dance gives you a chance to show off and pickup the hot one afterwards. Sometimes I'll see them on another night and they will have different friends with them, now you have an in with the group.

>> No.6134154

>>6134119
And has that gotten you laid?

>> No.6134187

>>6134154
nah im a virgin

>> No.6134188

>>6134154

So now we get to the heart of the matter, you're at the club looking for a one night stand. I'm there to dance and meet people. Sometimes it leads to dating but most of the time it doesn't last because it's a complete crapshoot on whether you have anything in common. Sometimes you don't even like them one you get to know them. Still, it's people you wouldn't otherwise meet.