Where to cop confidence/self esteem?

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Anonymous Mon Apr 29 09:44:43 2013 No.6060262 [Reply] [Original]

Where to cop confidence/self esteem?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 09:45:12 2013 No.6060265 >become /fa/ >become /fit/ >become acne free >become confident

>>	OL' DIRTY BASTARD Mon Apr 29 09:49:12 2013 No.6060281 fake it until u make it brah

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 09:49:42 2013 No.6060283 >>6060281 How do I fake it?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 09:50:43 2013 No.6060289 buy comfy clothes that fit shave, haircut etc

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 09:54:42 2013 No.6060299 >>6060265 tfw did all of this besides the last because i'm short

>>	OL' DIRTY BASTARD Mon Apr 29 09:56:12 2013 No.6060303 >>6060283 you just do it learn what a confident person does and copy it yeah itll be fucking embarrassing/awkward/uncomfortable at first, but eventually itll be a natural routine there is no other way

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 09:56:12 2013 No.6060305

>force yourself to become independant
>fulfil your dream hobby/hobbies (become dedicated towards something knowing youll achieve something everyday)
>lift and become confident with your body
>become /fa/
>everything else you want will follow
welcome to my world

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 09:56:12 2013 No.6060306 >>6060289 I've already done that though.

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 09:57:42 2013 No.6060310

>>6060283
imagine you play a role. copy what other confident people do. it's quite easy once you deattach your personality from your actions.

"this is just a role, they don't see my real, vulnerable self, even if they judge, they just judge my play, not the actual me."

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 09:58:12 2013 No.6060312 >>>/fit/

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 09:59:42 2013 No.6060316 [DELETED]

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>>6060299
the fuck is wrong with being short?

think it only as a bad thing for tall women because they will become less confident with you, because they think they are too tall. And when a women is less confident with you, it means you will become more alpha

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:00:12 2013 No.6060319 >>6060316 you'll also look ridiculous with your giraffe by your side.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:00:42 2013 No.6060318 >>6060310 What about being myself?

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:01:12 2013 No.6060324
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>>6060299
why should you feel bad for being short?

think it only as a bad thing for tall women because they will become less confident with you, because they think they are too tall. And when a women is less confident with you, it means you will become more alpha

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:02:12 2013 No.6060327 >>6060318 fake it til you make it. once you're comfortable with being confident, being confident is being yourself. :)

>>	OL' DIRTY BASTARD Mon Apr 29 10:02:42 2013 No.6060326 >>6060318 fuck that, you should know by now that its not working for you

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:04:42 2013 No.6060330 >>6060318 if you were being yourself then you wouldn't be faking it

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:08:12 2013 No.6060343 >>6060326 How confident are you guys? Is everybody extroverted in here?

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:08:12 2013 No.6060344
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>>6060318
Do you even metaphysics?
Forget the idea of yourself.
The only thing that matters are the actions you do in the physical world.
If you truly want to do something then just do what you fucking gotta do.
Dont worry if your ego couldnt handle such activities in the past but focus on the present in stead.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:08:12 2013 No.6060345 >>6060324 >daniel radcliffe is 5'5 wow i thought he was tall for some reason i'm 5'8 anyway so i guess i'm not super embarrassing mode but i can't help but feel my height when i walk into town

>>	OL' DIRTY BASTARD Mon Apr 29 10:10:42 2013 No.6060351 File: 993 KB, 500x500, tumblr_mhmpauFCvx1rlwu74o1_500.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6060343 no im autistic, why do you think im on 4chan and /fa/ of all places

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:14:42 2013 No.6060362 >>6060351 >implying I've left my room in three days It's ok, OP, we can't all be contended with the standard course of things. Some must lose. I'm ok with that, but you don't seem to be yet. It's not bad. You can lose and be happy.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:15:12 2013 No.6060367 >>6060362 This was meant for >>6060343 My bad.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:19:42 2013 No.6060383 >>6060362 You're a good sport

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:30:42 2013 No.6060423
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>been a little bi curious
>was really high on coke
>invite guy on craigslist over
>suck and jerk each other off
>it felt like sucking on a thumb
>wasn't that great
>feel weird now

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:31:12 2013 No.6060428 >>6060423 /fit/ pls go

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:48:12 2013 No.6060467 >>6060428 lol, yeah that is such a /fit/ story haha

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:49:42 2013 No.6060468 >>6060467 U still wanna suck some dick

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:52:42 2013 No.6060472 >>6060345 you really shouldn't feel it at all your height is literally average for an american male if anything, you can look at tall people and think of them as bizarre

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:52:42 2013 No.6060473 >>6060468 im not him i never have

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:53:42 2013 No.6060475 >>6060473 U interested?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:54:12 2013 No.6060479 >>6060475 a little wait, no

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:54:42 2013 No.6060478

>>6060362
>>6060362
>You can lose and be happy.
this
but if you're still happy, then are you really losing?
if you enjoy being an introvert, who cares? as long as you can function minimally when you go out to buy groceries or drugs, then you're fine dude

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:56:12 2013 No.6060484 >>6060478 B-but tfwngf.....

>>	schmendrick Mon Apr 29 10:57:12 2013 No.6060488 >>6060484 so find an introverted gf you twatwaffle

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:58:13 2013 No.6060489 >>6060484 get an introvert beta gf who is only confident in front of you

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:58:13 2013 No.6060490 >>6060479 8====D (^o^ )

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:59:13 2013 No.6060492 >>6060489 W2c

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 10:59:43 2013 No.6060491 >>6060478 >groceries or drugs >emphasis on the or u'd wanna be awfully fukkin rich to be able to take care of onesself and afford drugs (and good clothes while we're at it)

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 11:01:13 2013 No.6060500 >>6060490 no not penis anything but penis

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 11:01:42 2013 No.6060501 >>6060491 >implying I don't snort the dust off my newly bought geobaskets what if rick's skin particles mix into it

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 11:03:42 2013 No.6060509 >>6060501 np im implying you are wealthy if you snort dust (assuming drug slang) off new dicky dunks

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 11:06:42 2013 No.6060516 >>6060500 how about some balls?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 11:19:12 2013 No.6060563 >>6060472 average height for an american male is 5'10 fyi that's 2 inches which is pretty noticeable

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 11:20:12 2013 No.6060566 >>6060472 Most manlet post I've read all day. >rarara 5'8 is average, people who are 5'10 and taller are bizarre

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 12:34:13 2013 No.6060938 >>6060563 >>6060566 i honestly thought it was 5'8 woops well nevermind anon sucks to suck i'm not a manlet myself

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 12:46:13 2013 No.6060983 The average Dutch man is 6 feet tall, while the average American man maxes out at 5-foot-9. BASED EUROPE SUCK IT AMERICA http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=130732488

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 12:59:12 2013 No.6061026 >>6060983 Why can't we go back to the 1800 golden days, when America was the tallest country in the world ;_;

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 13:11:12 2013 No.6061053 >>6060983 do you have your bicycle back yet

>>	Sage sage Mon Apr 29 13:13:12 2013 No.6061055 >>6061053 why am i responding to this?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 13:14:12 2013 No.6061059 An oldie from Yohji: Fashion cannot make you sexy. Experience makes you sexy. Imagination makes people sexy. You have to train yourself, you have to study, and you have to live your life.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 13:15:12 2013 No.6061063 stop being a fuccboi stop using fashion as a feeble escape from your autism, you need to face it head on nerd

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 13:16:12 2013 No.6061065 >>6061053 Is that a reference to how the Germans, retreating through Holland with 'Murrica hot on their heels, stole countless Dutch bicycles to hasten their escape?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 13:17:42 2013 No.6061072 >>6061065 it was playful banter towards, what I was assumed was a dutchman, about said reich cycle-theft

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 13:20:43 2013 No.6061077 >>6061053 1939 GERMAN STEAL THE DUTCH BIKE GIVE IT BACK YOU MUST GIVE IT BACK OUR RIGHTFUL BIKE WE KILL THE GERMAN HORSES YOU WILL NEVER FIND THE DUTCH HORSES YOU HAVE 1 CHANCE TO GIVE BACK THE BIKE WHERE IS THE BIKE

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 13:21:12 2013 No.6061081 >>6060324 elijah is so fah <4 but ye to all the less taller folks there ain nufin rong wit bein short most peeps i admire are short

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 13:24:13 2013 No.6061086 >>6061072 >>6061077 oh, that's rich +1

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:18:12 2013 No.6061565

>Home board is /tg/
>Last year of university, be unfit and unkempt
>Decide to get /fit/ and /fa/
>All these discussions and shit storms about circumcision, height, eye color and skinny vs bulky
>Don't give a fuck

I'm never sure if the people that start these threads are serious or just fucking around.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:21:42 2013 No.6061577 >>6060265 THIS. All you fucking need to know. Hit the gym - it boosts your confidence

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:22:12 2013 No.6061581 >>6061565 Just fucking around. I post in manlet threads but I'm not actually serious.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:22:42 2013 No.6061584 >>6061577 Unless he doesnt' have a gym. Then he is fucked.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:23:12 2013 No.6061592 >>6061584 Gym memberships are cheap.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:23:42 2013 No.6061589 File: 23 KB, 500x310, shrug[1].jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6061565 gotta argue about something i think there are both serious and non-serious people in these kind of threads

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:24:42 2013 No.6061595 >>6061581 Still, just why the hell do so many people take the bait about things that are difficult/impossible to change?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:24:43 2013 No.6061599 >>6060428 LOL This made me laugh

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:25:13 2013 No.6061606 >>6061584 Then he should buy a membership

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:25:43 2013 No.6061604 >>6061592 Cars arent't though.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:26:43 2013 No.6061609 >>6061604 Wtf man. Implying you need a car to go to the gym

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:27:13 2013 No.6061614 File: 30 KB, 320x316, feelornofeel.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw you think that your lips are too big so you try to keep from talking or showing your lips at all because you think people are going to laugh or think that they're ugly.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:27:42 2013 No.6061618 >>6061606 What if he can't get to the gym?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:28:12 2013 No.6061621 >>6061618 >Le master troll xD

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:28:13 2013 No.6061629 >>6061614 ... Don't you think avoiding that will attract more attention than simply acting normal?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:28:42 2013 No.6061623 >>6061621 Whatever, nigger.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:32:13 2013 No.6061644 btw i'm not a racist. i love all colours for different reasons. fuck meathead NIGGERS like >>6061621 >>6061609 though.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:32:13 2013 No.6061648 File: 18 KB, 437x426, headshapefeel.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw wide cheekbones, weak jawline this is the worst headshape there is

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:32:42 2013 No.6061645 >Fake it 'til you make it Nah son. Fake it till you become it.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:32:42 2013 No.6061646 >>6061645 fuck off nigger

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:34:13 2013 No.6061654 File: 321 KB, 1600x1200, P8200014[1].jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6061629 I have my fist in front of my mouth when sitting and I hold my lips in when I walk. >pic related, how I sit. >pic related, how I sit

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:35:12 2013 No.6061664 >>6061614 do niggers feel this i hope not big lips are lovely on niggers

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:36:12 2013 No.6061671 >>6061664 I am Black so should I just let them hang out?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:37:12 2013 No.6061674 >>6061609 >implying i don't walking six miles >no cycling six miles >enjoy shitty sqaut/dl form due to bike mediated leg abuse ergo — no

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:38:12 2013 No.6061681 >>6061595 Because it would suck to be short and have to look up at tall men like they're your parent. I know I would hate it. That's why it's such a common easy troll.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:38:13 2013 No.6061677 >>6061671 without question

>>	HailTheKingKids Mon Apr 29 15:39:12 2013 No.6061682 File: 77 KB, 500x500, soamzn.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6061671 >hang out Wtf are u earl.?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:39:12 2013 No.6061684 >>6061681 my parents are shorter than me though i just look at tall ppl like tall ppl

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:40:12 2013 No.6061687 >>6061684 My parents are shorter than me too. But they weren't when I was a child, which is the point.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:42:12 2013 No.6061692 >>6061687 everybody is taller than infants, not just parents

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:42:42 2013 No.6061695 >>6061687 Idiot

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:48:43 2013 No.6061728 >>6061682 My lips aren't as big as Earl's. They're like Tyler level.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:51:42 2013 No.6061745 >>6061692 Are you too dense to get the point that they feel like children? I was trying to state it a bit tactfully, without saying "manlet, forever a boy, lololololol, u look like a little kid, lololololol".

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:52:12 2013 No.6061752 >>6061745 Stop it; you're scaring me!

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:54:12 2013 No.6061768 >>6061752 Why did you use a semicolon?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:54:42 2013 No.6061771 >>6061768 Because that's what semicolons are for.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:55:42 2013 No.6061775 >>6061771 most of /fa/ can't handle capital letters

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:57:12 2013 No.6061781 >>6061775 ppl liek2switch thing's up

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:58:12 2013 No.6061792 File: 330 KB, 620x750, big lips.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6061614 dude who cares look at earl and look at his grillfriend

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:58:42 2013 No.6061789 >>6061771 stop it ur scurring me!!11

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 15:59:13 2013 No.6061798 >>6061792 post pics of his gf

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:00:13 2013 No.6061803 File: 754 KB, 599x595, grill.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6061798 http://instagram.com/murdermal

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:01:42 2013 No.6061809 File: 1.39 MB, 200x150, 1364994312346.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6061789

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:01:42 2013 No.6061810 >>6061803 lol they look autistic

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:03:43 2013 No.6061819 >>6061803 shes definitely fucking other guys

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:03:43 2013 No.6061820 File: 25 KB, 235x300, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6061809 U wanna sum die??4

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:03:43 2013 No.6061823 File: 111 KB, 610x612, Untitled.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6061810 thats what having fun looks like anon i know youre too busy with your studies to realize that

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:04:43 2013 No.6061826 File: 8 KB, 211x246, 1364891568311.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6061820 Now you lost me.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:04:43 2013 No.6061828 >>6061810 autistic isnt the alpha and omega of expressing your disapproval try using a different word itll lose its punch if faggots like you keep using it in the wrong context

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:05:13 2013 No.6061829 File: 30 KB, 500x500, mallory.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6061819 why would she fuck other guys when shes got a fucking gold mine. earls about to make some good money. she comprise her wealth/status for some other dude

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:05:43 2013 No.6061833 File: 239 KB, 1024x683, mallory l.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6061829 she wouldnt*

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:06:13 2013 No.6061835 >>6061829 when earl blows up, she'll be in the spot light then she'll move on to a betta nigga guaranteed she prolly doesnt even fuck him

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:08:43 2013 No.6061844 File: 101 KB, 640x960, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6061826 *grabs you by the throat BACK THE FUCK OFF!!?!?!??!

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:08:43 2013 No.6061846

>sit next to stranger on bus
>inb4 pleb bike in repair
>withdraw simulation simulacrum
>begin intently reading
>10minutes pass, can see her in peripheral glancing at the complex text
>draws her own book
>some mediocre level textbook

>TFW inspired someone to educate themselves
>didn't have to say a word
>no fucks given about reading while riding through the hood on a Saturday

Op: get a job like door to door sales, or face to face marketing. I did for few months, no fear of rejection, can easily make small talk
Also doing psychology degree, for dat subliminal priming knowledge

Develop mantras, wen you have an insecure thought, imagine Saying it aloud, and how awkward it would sound. Imagine laughing at someone in here saying it, remember you don't have autism. If you have a negative thought, identify it, and either change it to positive or apply apathy.

Feelike people are looking at you/judging you/ actions?
What can they do to you but take your life, existence. Providing they dont do the then they can look where ever they want.

Remember other people are often just as insecure as you, an worth about the same kinds of things
Impossible to be friends with everyone, brain can only hold 150ish before you physically cannot take anymore. Most people only have a few close friends. Practice responses to common questions, alter them so they sound cool and naturally roll off. Slowly Learn body language like eye contAct etc
Social skills. Skill. Like most things can be learnt.

Take LSD at least once, and maybe some disassociation like ketamine, try smoking weed for like a week too. Other peoples perspectives make vastly more sense when you see it from their perspective w/o your ego

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:08:43 2013 No.6061847
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>>6061835
nigga stop making assumptions

they probably do fuck

they are fucking teenagers

just cause you didnt get ass in your teen years doesnt mean its the same for everyone else

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:11:42 2013 No.6061865 >>6060343 i only leave my house to go to class that should tell u how extroverted i am

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:12:42 2013 No.6061872 >>6061847 probably not

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:12:42 2013 No.6061875 >>6061844 Jeepers.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:14:42 2013 No.6061885 File: 2.22 MB, 320x320, taking the L_Gif.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6061872 i hit the nail on the head. go back to youjizz and masturbating the life away

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:14:42 2013 No.6061891 >>6060324 >I'm 5'8 >Robert Downey Jr. is... shorter than me Damn. Of course he's one of the most awesome men in the world, no doubt, but still, weird.

sicklysweet !!I2tS+xQklEb Mon Apr 29 16:14:42 2013 No.6061894

change something aboutyourself that isnt centered around your appearance
read good books, acquire good taste, be an interesting person, force yourself to be extroverted (alcohol helps)
if your entire selfworth is based on what you look like youre going to be disappointed once you get older

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:15:12 2013 No.6061899 >>6061847 >dick riding an ugly black guy this much earl your idol or someshit?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:17:42 2013 No.6061905 >>6061885 >tells others not to make assumptions >makes assumptions top lel, just because you listen to his shit music doesn't mean he fucks girls

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:20:42 2013 No.6061926 >>6060423 U want sum fuk?

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:22:12 2013 No.6061942
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>>6061899
ahhh now you realize your wrong so you change the subject its okay.jpeg. *pats your head*

>>6061905
if you watch is older interviews before he had a girlfriend he said he got laid from groupies fuck boy

get fucked

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:22:12 2013 No.6061943

>>6061894
this is good advice.

You're just a pretty face at the end of the day. The other guy is he knows how to cook, is passionate about literature, and rock climbs every other weekend while you sit at your computer making up words and giving eachother virtual high fives. You're boring.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:26:13 2013 No.6061976 >>6061942 >watching of interviews top lel highschool general, i bet you wear supreme

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:27:12 2013 No.6061988 >>6061942 >pats your head you need to get off gaia

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:29:42 2013 No.6061997 >>6061943 b-b-but i'm not boring f-f-f-f-fuccboi.

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:35:12 2013 No.6062035

>>6061943
>You're boring.

Even the most decorously lived life couldn't be called that. It's ok to be narrow and discrete--maybe even ok to be specialized. It'll come down to how you treat others, OP. Even the most interesting men will lose confidence if people don't respond well to them because they're unkind, unreliable, or whatever would be off-putting.

>>	TroalPost !!M/8ntLE+we3 Mon Apr 29 16:36:12 2013 No.6062047 File: 202 KB, 717x1024, 1365045015138.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] imagine yourself in it then u might wing it soon enough if you just believe it and in yourself bby.

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:38:12 2013 No.6062060

>>6062035
By narrow and discrete I mean not living the life of the bombastic everyman, or even that of an enigmatic, effay polymath, 'er whatever. Just being you, settling in, letting the noise negate itself, and keep walking despite the need to incessantly compare.

darkness_and_light Mon Apr 29 16:52:12 2013 No.6062143

>>6060343

I'm introverted by nature, I'm am perfectly happy saying nothing or staying at home. However, I've learned to enjoy going out and putting myself out there.

Things are more fun when you're winning or you're good at it, similarly it's easier to be extroverted when it goes smoothly. Some self-identifying introverts are the most outgoing and social people I know when they are in their element or in their circle of friends. That tells me that they aren't introverted by nature, they are simply socially awkward.

It helps to take public speaking and dance classes so you don't have anxiety and feel confident enough to strike up conversations with strangers.

It also helps to learn to be a good conversationalist which means being an active listener.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:52:12 2013 No.6062151 >>6062047 >dem fresh rafs

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:52:12 2013 No.6062152 >>6061976 nope in uni m8. get fucked >>6061988 no idea whats gaia

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:54:42 2013 No.6062160 >>6062047 >>6062047 thats all it is mayne. I used to be the nerdiest shy kid ever but i just said "man, what if i had the mind of someone who gave no fucks" and did just that. After a while it was just me.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:54:42 2013 No.6062161 >>6060262 I recommend psilocybin

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 16:59:12 2013 No.6062178 >Where to cop confidence/self esteem? The military. For real, though.

sicklysweet !!I2tS+xQklEb Mon Apr 29 17:01:42 2013 No.6062194

>>6062161
mehhhh do too many shrooms and you become one of those annoying douchebags "artists" who are overly confident and proud about the most mundane things they do
i've only done them twice and yeah it was a good experience but it just made me realize shit that i already knew deep down..it didnt make me more confident or anything
you can substitute a drug for the real life experience of living through something

>>	sicklysweet !!I2tS+xQklEb Mon Apr 29 17:02:43 2013 No.6062202 >>6062194 *cant

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 17:14:42 2013 No.6062256 >>6060305 >still on 4chan

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 17:24:42 2013 No.6062306 >>6062256 >people can't enjoy forums if they're successful what

>>	HailTheKingKids Mon Apr 29 17:28:42 2013 No.6062328 File: 13 KB, 48x85, ick.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6062194 Did they help you reach conformation on that nosejob you were considering?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 17:31:42 2013 No.6062352 be the smartest be the greatest be the bestest be the goodlookingest shitpost on 4chan boards to boost ego dont be short or ugly bitches on deck all day listen to swag muzik more drugs u do = cooler u are swaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaag o.d.

>>	sicklysweet !!I2tS+xQklEb Mon Apr 29 17:33:12 2013 No.6062364 File: 111 KB, 1023x511, omg1.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6062328 ummm ya surgery is on july 3rd hollllaaa

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 17:33:12 2013 No.6062372

EVERY TIME you want to do something think
"Do people's thoughts and opinions actually matter?"
The obvious answer is no, so you do it.
Eventually you get in a routine of not giving a fuck and are just you. It's really scary at first, but it's so fun when you get used to it.

>>	sicklysweet !!I2tS+xQklEb Mon Apr 29 17:34:12 2013 No.6062373 >>6062364 >>6062328 and no i wasnt on shrooms when i decided to get it lmao

>>	HailTheKingKids Mon Apr 29 17:34:43 2013 No.6062378 File: 488 KB, 602x608, insta gram dat dou.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6062364 b sure 2 post results.

>>	sicklysweet !!I2tS+xQklEb Mon Apr 29 17:36:12 2013 No.6062388 >>6062378 lol watch i get disfigured for life i would kill myself (semi srs)

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 17:36:42 2013 No.6062393 >>6062364 Can you mail me the leftovers of your nose so I can add it to my collection please

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 17:39:42 2013 No.6062418 >>6062194 I learned a lot. Changed my life for the better Nice nose goy

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 17:40:42 2013 No.6062429 >>6062388 what doz semi serious even mean u fuken arab paki shitskined hooknosed jew whore with 10 boyfriends nigger

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 17:45:12 2013 No.6062457 >>6062429 this is so bad it's good. I lold

>>	sicklysweet !!I2tS+xQklEb Mon Apr 29 17:45:42 2013 No.6062458 >>6062429 >being a black person, jew, arab and paki at the same time that's actually pretty accurate..i dont even get how thats supposed to be an insult brb having swag, money skills and good food

>>	sicklysweet !!I2tS+xQklEb Mon Apr 29 17:46:12 2013 No.6062466 >>6062429 and i dont mind having brown skin anymore..less wrinkles/likelihood of skin cancer

>>	HailTheKingKids Mon Apr 29 17:47:12 2013 No.6062467 File: 42 KB, 500x500, vodosht.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6062429 >10 boyfriends sickly gets no dick.

>>	sicklysweet !!I2tS+xQklEb Mon Apr 29 17:48:12 2013 No.6062473 >>6062467 yeah im a virgin whatever..so are a lot of ppl taking a demanding courseload

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 17:51:42 2013 No.6062489 >>6062473 this is true

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 17:56:13 2013 No.6062520 i'm fit and i'm /fa/ but i have an unattractive face fuck

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 17:57:42 2013 No.6062522 where 2 cop motivation?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 17:57:42 2013 No.6062523 >>6062364 >>6062364 if you also got a tiny chin implant or filler you would be like a 9 or a 10 for real in fact can someone with photoshop skills make her chin a tiiiny bit bigger on the after pic so I can see how she would look?

sicklysweet !!I2tS+xQklEb Mon Apr 29 17:59:42 2013 No.6062532
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>>6062523
haha aww im flattered but my chin is fairly large already imo..the cleft used to bother me but i think its fine the way it is..a weaker chin is more feminine isnt it?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 17:59:42 2013 No.6062534 >>6062523 or just, you know… lose weighctL?

>>	sicklysweet !!I2tS+xQklEb Mon Apr 29 18:00:42 2013 No.6062537 >>6062523 lol @ 9 im a 6.5 rn..w/ the nose i'd be like a high 7

>>	sicklysweet !!I2tS+xQklEb Mon Apr 29 18:01:12 2013 No.6062542 >>6062534 lol yeah i did gain like 15lbs but i cant be super frail before the surgery or maybe i can but meh its all going to my boobs/butt for now..i'll lose it later..not like anyone is going to be seeing me w/o clothes anytime soon

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 18:02:12 2013 No.6062543 File: 41 KB, 280x277, greasemonster.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6062523 >9 or a 10 for real

>>	sicklysweet !!I2tS+xQklEb Mon Apr 29 18:03:12 2013 No.6062555 >>6062543 hahahah ok thats not a flattering pic either i was drunk that night..just posted for the chin

>>	GEO Mon Apr 29 18:04:12 2013 No.6062557 File: 75 KB, 700x563, CHINA_BLUES_fs.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Its all in the ego bro Just do what you want and think you are the greatest person in the world for doing it. Because you are

turnleft !!t/GvfGACpW7 Mon Apr 29 18:06:42 2013 No.6062569

Sruli Recht

Really though comes passively w/ growing up/not being a faggot.

maybe you have to identify the source of your insecurities and rationally critique.
Then come back and tell us about them and I'll personally call you an autist and tell you your insecurities don't mean shit and ur bootiful
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oofSnsGkops
>youtube related

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 18:21:42 2013 No.6062651 >tfw looking into mirror and look extremely handsome >tfw see self in photo on iphone camera from <1 foot away and can hardly recognize self and look extremely ugly Hold me /fa/. Is this how people actually see me?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 18:26:13 2013 No.6062687 I swear Im either paranoid or something is wrong with me. Whenever someone is laughing or smiling I presumme they are doing it at me. I swear they were though

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 18:43:12 2013 No.6062794

>best dressed at wedding
>9/10 bridesmaid eye fucking the shit out of me
>she walks up and grabs my hand and pulls me to the dance floor
>shes totally feeling it
>some weird salsa song comes on
>we kill it
>she's giving me dem eyes
>get incredibly drunk and pass out
>she flies back home before i wake up

sigh

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 18:44:42 2013 No.6062798 >>6062651 no m8 cameras are weird

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 18:46:42 2013 No.6062807

>>6062794
>imagines scenario
>hot girl eyes me out
>she pulls me onto dancefloor
>dont know how to dance
>start laughing at own self
>start nervously laughing at the people around me
>"hahahahaha haaaaa oh man you're so good!"
>tapping foot every now and then
>pointing to the guys next to me
>"NICE MOVES MAN!!!"
>hahahahahaaaaaa
>she leaves me
>cry

i should learn to dance.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 18:57:12 2013 No.6062846 >>6062807 i believe in u anon u can be gr8

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 18:59:42 2013 No.6062865 >>6062846 It might not seem like much to say words like that, but it really means a lot. Thank you.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:01:12 2013 No.6062877 >>6062807 r u retarded just jump if you have no idea what to do

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:09:42 2013 No.6062923 >>6062651 stand in front of a mirror get another mirror hold the second mirror angle it so you can see your reflection in the first mirror in the second mirror that is what you look like to other people

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:14:13 2013 No.6062954 File: 277 KB, 530x397, 1350235663092 (1).jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6062687 WE ALL GO THROUGH IT BRA.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:19:12 2013 No.6062981 >>6060262 >tfw 6'1 >(not trying to be conceited) easy 8.5 >stutter Doesnt matter how /fa/ I am I can never make it m8. Stuttering is like a brick shoes when swimming in social ocean.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:20:12 2013 No.6062985 >>6062687 I've gotten worse than this. Whenever people say things around me, I hear them saying bad things about me. Usually they aren't, but my mind just switches it all up, and I feel insulted. Fucking weird.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:21:43 2013 No.6062988 >>6062532 so greasy tho.

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:26:13 2013 No.6063010
File: 180 KB, 606x800, crocodile_1971_275.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

I know how 4chan people feels about all that PUA shit.

But I remember using some NLP stuff and it kinda working. I mean performing patterns on me, trying to increase self-confidence and shit.

I'm pretty skeptic but I remember it working.

The one I used was called "Unstoppable Confidence by Joss Reffries". It's old as fuck and you don't have to buy it, just torrent it.

Has anyone else had any experience with NLP or stuff like that?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:32:12 2013 No.6063040 >>6063010 >PUA I thought that was a joke, is it really that hard for you guys to get pussy?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:34:12 2013 No.6063047 >>6063040 The routines and canned stuff aspect of it all is bullshit. But the red-pilling and the possible mindset change is pretty good.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:36:42 2013 No.6063055 >>6063040 Neuro Linguistic Programming is a different kettle of fish, tho. There's some gems in there.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:37:12 2013 No.6063057 >>6063010 >Unstoppable Confidence by Joss Reffries don't do it man, that shit will fuck you up and turn you into autist as it fucked up lots of people you are warned

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:37:12 2013 No.6063060 >>6063057 u wot m8

>>	HailTheKingKids Mon Apr 29 19:40:12 2013 No.6063066 >>6063064 Lisp are repulsive.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:40:42 2013 No.6063064 >>6062981 what the fuck dude, stuttering is hella cute almost as cute as having a lisp, i'm not even joking shhh, don't worry, it's all fine

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:41:12 2013 No.6063068 >>6063060 go to puahate.com and search for ross jeffries threads

>>	sicklysweet !!I2tS+xQklEb Mon Apr 29 19:41:12 2013 No.6063073 >>6062981 michael cera sort of stutters in some of his roles its endearing (as long as youre nice..and nice to look at)

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:44:42 2013 No.6063083 >>6063068 Ok, I'm keeping an open mind here, but what the fuck is ths shit >puahate.com/showthread.php?t=68989 It isn't even in the off-thread section.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:49:12 2013 No.6063097 >>6063068 This is /r9k/ + /adv/ The Forum (c). I do wanna hear some real critic regarding unstoppable confidence.

>>	uuuuhhhh Mon Apr 29 19:49:42 2013 No.6063096 >>6063068 >>6063083 that whole forum is far worse than any pua artist

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 19:58:12 2013 No.6063131 >>6063096 wow this forum is some heavy shit puahate.com/showthread.php?t=68647 I'm getting depressed what the fuck

>>	turnleft !!t/GvfGACpW7 Mon Apr 29 19:58:42 2013 No.6063134 >puaehate.com When 4chan isn't bad enough... I think we have it pretty okay here compared (for sure).

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 20:04:13 2013 No.6063161 >>6062981 i have anecdotal evidence to the contrary

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 20:34:42 2013 No.6063335 File: 226 KB, 299x377, iuiu.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] just become sexy and achieve your own style suddenly you can do anything thats what i did but im a 11/10 so mite nt b poss ya dig

>>	HailTheKingKids Mon Apr 29 20:44:12 2013 No.6063388 >>6063131 >puahate.com/showthread.php?t=68647 I'm lolin

>>	turnleft !!t/GvfGACpW7 Mon Apr 29 20:48:43 2013 No.6063423 >>6063388 >mfw Anakind putting niggas in check Thread is actually funny

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 20:50:43 2013 No.6063433 >>6063131 holy fuck these guys are pathetic letting this shit consume them, quite entertaining

Anonymous Mon Apr 29 20:50:43 2013 No.6063435

>>6063010
I agree with some principles I got from PUA, but I just think you should slightly incorporate them. For example, going kino and making contact is super important. Another trick I use is leaving people with something that can make them think of me after having a good time. Like a doodle on their hand or something.

>>	HailTheKingKids Mon Apr 29 20:51:13 2013 No.6063441 >>6063423 Lol word Im finna lurk the fuck out this site.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 20:52:42 2013 No.6063451 >>6063131 These are sad, sad men.

turnleft !!t/GvfGACpW7 Mon Apr 29 20:54:42 2013 No.6063471

>>6063441
>"Guys are bad at objectively rating the women they fuck because by admitting their conquests are ugly, they are admitting that they themselves are genetic trash who can't do any better."
Can we just reference this thread whenever feel threads come up?

Shit is great autist perspective.

>>	turnleft !!t/GvfGACpW7 Mon Apr 29 20:55:42 2013 No.6063482 File: 37 KB, 608x768, 5.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] also >mfw this gets spammed 2pages into the thread. Glorious.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 20:56:12 2013 No.6063488 Through training and persistence. It doesn't happen overnight.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 20:56:12 2013 No.6063489 >>6063482 >2pages

>>	turnleft !!t/GvfGACpW7 Mon Apr 29 20:58:13 2013 No.6063510 >>6063489 >"Imagine sliding those panties off to reveal the cutest, tightest shaved pussy you ever laid your eyes on. It must be the closest thing to heaven on Earth. It's what guys bomb buildings for." Cry more virgin. allah akbar.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 20:58:42 2013 No.6063515 Get naked in front of your friends and you won't be shy anymore

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 20:59:13 2013 No.6063518 >>6063515 shock therapy

>>	fuck !!KqVTtnBlyTe Mon Apr 29 20:59:42 2013 No.6063523 >>6063471 http://fuuka.warosu.org/fa/thread/S6060262 for posterity

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 21:00:12 2013 No.6063544 >>6062651 this. what the fuck why does this habeen?!!?

HailTheKingKids Mon Apr 29 21:02:42 2013 No.6063556

>>6063510
>I never did the prom thing. I could have gone my junior year with this legit UGLY girl (she looked like a fucking man. no lie), but I declined because I wanted to keep my reputation intact. I was higher status back then. Good decision.
I was higher status back then.
I don't have the strength to breathe.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 21:03:42 2013 No.6063567 >>6063482 >not to mention the one on the right with a chainsaw for a mouth.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 21:04:42 2013 No.6063581 File: 88 KB, 600x564, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6063567

>>	OL' DIRTY BASTARD Mon Apr 29 21:05:13 2013 No.6063588 >>6063581 bang bang

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 21:05:42 2013 No.6063595 >>6063567 oh shit mad spooky brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 21:07:42 2013 No.6063616 Go for a nice run I always feel better after I kick my own ass for a mile or two

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 21:07:42 2013 No.6063619 >>6063482 source of pic i feel like i know that girl

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 21:08:42 2013 No.6063628 >>6063619 I'm 90% sure we all know a girl that looks/looked like this

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 21:13:42 2013 No.6063672 File: 7 KB, 205x246, 1366752422680.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw lurked /fa/ since the beginning of the year >no money to buy clothes >feel even worse about my self

>>	turnleft !!t/GvfGACpW7 Mon Apr 29 21:13:42 2013 No.6063674 File: 260 KB, 1380x1297, 6.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6063619

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 21:15:12 2013 No.6063685 >>6063581 >u will never be a black guy with a sick ass shirt and cap and a fanny pack getting his dick ground by a bitch at gunpoint i mite as well end my lyf

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 21:16:42 2013 No.6063694 >>6063674 God damn they're all so awkward. I miss high school.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 21:20:13 2013 No.6063729 >>6063510 >My mind literally blanked out for a second when I imagined that. Heaven on earth. I thought I was bad. I really, really thought I was bad.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 21:22:12 2013 No.6063741 >>6063674 overbite girl is so cute

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 21:22:12 2013 No.6063746 >>6063741 u knw it

>>	turnleft !!t/GvfGACpW7 Mon Apr 29 21:23:12 2013 No.6063753 >>6063741 looks like CG imo

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 21:25:13 2013 No.6063765 >>6063741 I know a girl who looks a lot like her but with brown hair and without the overbite. I saw her recently in the subway, but I haven't talked to her since high school.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 22:05:33 2013 No.6064030 >>6062473 wait, you're a virgin? Sickly come here baby, i'll give you that claritin D

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 22:11:42 2013 No.6064079 >>6062651 No, and its funny that you mention an iphone specifically because they warp pictures like a motherfucker. They're the worst for this.

>>	FranzKafka !UUKVbBBwvY Mon Apr 29 22:13:12 2013 No.6064093 >>6063694 You don't have to be in highschool to date high schoolers if you're into that kind of thing

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 29 22:17:13 2013 No.6064132 >>6062256 I lurked 4chan when i was a little depressed kid, now im not. So youre implying that you gotta be a low self esteemed to lurk? what does that make you? ;)

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