>>17554533
It's hard to give good advice without knowing more about your face shape and physique.
Suggestions:
- a variant of the zoomer broccoli cut. So long as there's not much overhang it can look good
- flowing curly mane (consider adding a full ginger beard)
- jewfro
- any basic men's cut so long as you are prepared to use product to keep it tidy
Just google 'men's curly hair styles' there's shitloads of options.
Go to a hairdresser that specializes in curly hair. Cannot stress this enough
Like 60% of their job is counselling psychologically damaged curly hair sufferers and reassuring them that they are valid, real, beautiful, not deformed, etc. The remaining 40% is choosing good styles, explaining how to care for curls, and doing the haircut.
You really need to address your insecurities about being ginger too. Look into seasonal color theory so you can more easily pick clothing colors that suit you. Go to the gym and get /fit/. Etc. Your hair is not your biggest problem.