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17447042 No.17447042 [Reply] [Original]

Has fashion ever helped you get laid?

I think yes, but only insofar as I wore an expensive suit once, which had a knockout effect on a qt. Otherwise, women don't care that much.

>> No.17447047
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17447047

No, but Bois Imperial did

>> No.17447052

>>17447042
Yes it has but Honestly the only kind of clothes women actually seem to like are smart casual fits. Something like a simple white shirt, basic fitted trousers and dress shoes got me more compliments from women than any of my /fa/ggot fits

>> No.17447090

>>17447047
meme fragrance or actually good?
not a frag guy but my perfume is empty

>> No.17447101
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Sort of. I met my gf due to a mutual interest in fashion and her liking how I dressed but that was after 4-5 years of being deeply autisitc about clothes. If you think dressing well alone will ever help without things like looks, confidence, and not being a freak, you're retarded.

>> No.17447126

No, nothing has helped me get laid. Not fashion, not the gym, not meeting more women, not being nice, not being a dick, not being funny, nothing works. I'm at the end of my wits.

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>>17447126

>> No.17447155

>>17447126
Just be yourself, bro xD

>> No.17447159

>>17447155
Unironically that kinda works. My success rate with women who don't know me is 0%. But if I hang around them and talk to them day after day, I do okay for a hideously ugly guy.

>> No.17447189

>>17447042
lol no but it improved my social skills, and that DID, help me get laid.

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>>17447126
I haven’t seen this movie yet but I felt like I needed to share it with you. I hope that it’s good and that you learn something from it if you watch it.

https://youtu.be/Q7FOgbp7wsI

>> No.17447338

>>17447320
Thanks, I have watched it actually but years ago. From what I remember it's kind of like if Big Lebowski was about getting laid. The core message is that a funny, cool, decent looking guy with a prosthetic beer gut is more attractive to the female lead than a model looking guy who can't string two words together and who falls asleep during ballet or opera or whatever.
It's a bit different when my face (at 10% body fat) is just not attractive to almost anybody, and when the actual competition is not caricatures.

>> No.17447668

>>17447042
Yes all the time.

>> No.17447710

>>17447090
shitty meme

>> No.17448024
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17448024

Can someone make a similar one, but with clothes?

>an outfit disliked by girls
>girls' favorite outfit on men

>> No.17448118

>>17447042
I have a shitty wool coat I got from H&M that I absolutely credit for helping me hit it off with my last GF

>> No.17448354

>>17447042
Only so far as to the fact that my girlfriend goes absolutely wild for specific articles of clothing, turtlenecks and suits, especially, so she´s always horny when I´m wearing those.

Other than that, it definitely can also act as an icebreaker and if done right, people will notice and you generally look more attractive.

>> No.17448390

>>17448118
Impossible. Fast fashion bad.

>> No.17448394

>>17447042
Yes only got better because with todays materialism. But had to maintain body fat, fitness comes first always.

>> No.17448395

>>17447042
>Has fashion ever helped you get laid?

not even once.

>> No.17448819

>>17447320
1. be excellent in front of her
2. be desireless
3. be gone

>> No.17448838

>>17447159
but do you have sex with them after a while?

>> No.17448842

>>17447338
>It's a bit different when my face (at 10% body fat) is just not attractive to almost anybody, and when the actual competition is not caricatures.

>immediatly creates new mental barrier to hold him back

>> No.17448850

>>17447042
i had more success with women when I just dressed like every teenage metal head

now that I consider myself "into fashion" I never fuck but I also dont realy care

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>>17447090
Bois Impérial is the attempt of Quentin Bisch to create a fragrance based around Akigalawood. An extract of patchouli which lacks the daring components of it,but it's lighter, woodier, slightly musky.
But Mr. Bisch added pepper and basil to the concoction which makes it unbelievable unique, likeable and addicting. Literally every time i walk by a women they inherently smile. Fantastic fragrance experience.
But i'm a fragrance snob too, always was into foresty, green, woody scents. I tried them all, the hyped ones, Norne, Cape Heartache, Murkwood, Bowmakers, you name it. Bois Imperial defeats them due to it's photorealistic scent atmosphere in a forest. It's that fantastic. Now adding in the price, longevity and natural ingredients, we can safely say that Bois Imperial is the perfect scent.

>> No.17448898

>>17448880
kys faggot retard

>> No.17449095
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met my current gf on Twitter. she followed me because she thought I was funny and she liked my outfit in my pfp. been together 8 months now.

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>>17448898
Go buy Bois Imperial

>> No.17449562

>>17449095
show it

>> No.17449610

>>17447042
Can I get a name on this cutie pie?

>> No.17449615

>>17447153
I hate this goddamn bee so much

>> No.17449705

>>17449615
Because it tells you the truth?

>> No.17449713

>>17448838
Yeah but it takes like weeks of being around them. Which is tough when no school and work from home.

>> No.17449756

>>17449610
She and every other attractive woman is Chad-only in 2023. Normie guys won't even be getting scrap or damaged goods, they've been priced out of that market.

>> No.17449771

>>17448842
My only mental barrier is that my face is verifiably ugly
3.5-4.2 on Photofeeler with my best photos, multiple times because I pay for Photofeeler to have accurate results. I look pretty good to myself when I look at myself in the mirror. I thought I was above average until well, until the world told me otherwise and Photofeeler confirmed it.

>> No.17449772

>>17448024
sexcore

>> No.17449791

>>17449771
post face

>> No.17449829

>>17449791
>just post the source of all your insecurities for 4chan posters to comment on
No thanks

>> No.17449830
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17449830

My taste in fashion has likely been an obstruction to getting laid

>> No.17449835

No. About to turn 31 and a virgin

>> No.17450508

>>17449830
true

>> No.17451270

>>17449771
i am sure you know that the benchmarks and standards those apps operate on are:

1. completely arbitrary and in most cases irrelevant. Just think of all the time you felt attracted to a girl society would dismiss as ugly. People have taste, preference. And those often are far from what siciety deems sexy

2. manufactured as such, that you, and millions like you, are marginalised and kept down. That's the whole point of beautystandards. the make you feel bad because it makes you buy stuff.

also, i know it sounds clichee and stupid but: looks literally arent everything, they just are not. never have been.

did you know woment actually like sex and men? you are a man and can potentially provide sex.
getting laid ist just being lucky. But you do have to participate.

i know it can look so so dire and hopeless. but it only LOOOKS that way.

Anon, i hope you will make it

>> No.17451288

>>17447126
failure is not proof that nothing has helped.

>> No.17451342

>>17451270
I was going to reply in detail to this but it would sound like a bunch of incelish negativity even if I could back it up by research and statistics.
So instead, thanks for the encouragement anon. I'll try to not dwell on the negativity.

>> No.17451343

yes. did you guys know if you want a emo gf you literally just have to look the part.

people are shallow and do care about aesthetics and who they are seen in public with

>> No.17451345

>>17451288
Well it didn't help in my case even though I'm sure those measures are generally helpful.

>> No.17451657

I think having a Northface jacket helped me getting a gf in HS, back in 2015

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>>17447042

>> No.17451831

>>17449830
You are fantastic. Never stop. xx

>> No.17451886

>>17447042
Older women 40+ love seeing younger men in suits for some reason, so i have had some older clunge. Younger women don't really interest me as much.

>> No.17451926

>>17448880
>addicting
fag

>> No.17452090

>>17447042
When you’re not seeking pussy, it comes to you. I crave dick. Why are women so dumb.

>> No.17452875

>>17451342
Ignore the optimistic faggots and embrace pessimism, it's all fucked

>> No.17452899

>>17452875
Yeah all the black pill doomer incel beliefs are true in almost all cases, the key word being almost. There's chaos out there and if you expose yourself to it you will beat the odds often enough. And it's not like you're trying to sell millions of some product. If you have one girlfriend and two girls on the side, that's only 3 girls that need to find you tolerable out of however many thousands you can reach.

Where doomer blackpillers fuck up most is they limit themselves to online dating or worse don't even try because they think it's over for them.

>> No.17452905

>>17452899
The consequences of getting rejected are basically nothing.
The consequences of NOT getting rejected are anything from having sex once to having sex hundreds of times.
So 99% rejection rate should be seen just as extra work you need to put in rather than a reason to despair.
As Henry Rollins said "I don't have any talents, so I get up a little earlier"

>> No.17453037

>>17452899
beating the odds in terms of chaos would entail finding affection from a female, not sticking dick in hole and getting doodle wet , anyone can do it
the doomer/blackpill mentality originates from getting older and starting to believe there exists no more affection in the world, least of all from women your age . dressing any way wont change that

>> No.17453039

>>17452905
henry rollins is a fag

>> No.17453138

>>17453037
>not sticking dick in hole and getting doodle wet , anyone can do it
Lol, no, not anyone can do it, at least not outside of prostitution.

>> No.17453144

>have a rounded face by genetics
>get my hair long and lose BF%
>more attractive
yes, i used to get laid anyway but definitely improved how often and the quality

>> No.17453346

>>17452090
I crave cock and pussy, you are right, the more you try, the less successful you are. Sadly i learnt that the hard way when i should just have chilled out from the start.

>> No.17453699

>>17449771
>I look pretty good to myself when I look at myself in the mirror
In that case, your problem isn't really your face, it's the focal length of the cameras you're using to take pictures of it.
If I had to guess, a longer focal length from a further-away distance will make you look more like the way you see yourself in the mirror. Try taking pictures of yourself from twice as far away as you usually do.

>> No.17453782

>>17448880

Which got him worse pussy than he would have gotten using that money for a hooker.

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>>17453699
Thanks, I'll try it out. I do look less ugly from a distance for some mysterious reason, but fov could be part of it too.