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I am skinny fat and I basically gave up on dressing nice until i will become thin. now i just dress as normal and unnoticeable as possible. it this the right approach?

>> No.15882813

>>15882806
yeah seems good, just try your hardest to make it sustainable. No worse feeling than having been fat and starting to get fat again, you literally feel so bad walking past a mirror.

>> No.15882827

>>15882806
Weight gain/loss is visible in the face so you can't really hide it.

>> No.15882839

>>15882827
why would i want to hide weight loss

>> No.15882933

>>15882806
No, it's a bad idea because losing weight takes a lot of will power. Will power isn't an infinite resource and you need to reinforce it. One of the ways of reinforcing your will power is changing who you are in accordance with who you want to be. If you dress poorly, you reaffirm a shitty identity.

>> No.15883372

>>15882933
every piece of clothing that i like looks shit on me how could i wear that

>> No.15883385

>>15883372
you have to be more honest with yourself and figure out what silhouettes work for you now and eventually when/if you lose weight. that's what's nice about clothing; its rules aren't as rigid as it's perpetuated.

>> No.15883395

>>15882806
Same as you OP. When I was thin I dressed ok with some effort into it. But, now I'm fat, and until I drop to 160, I will dress like shit. I see no point in dressing well when your body is total shit.

>> No.15883424

>>15883372
>every piece of clothing that i like looks shit on me
Good. Remind yourself of what you're supposed to be doing as often as possible, do not hide from your shortcomings because that's how you force yourself to life up to the best of self expectations.

>> No.15883431

>>15883424
thats what im doing . i used to be fatter and i lost around 6 kilos already, still dont feel comfortable wearing things that i like tho, i have to lose around 10 more.

>> No.15883489

>skinnyfat
>losing weight
never gonna make it