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might not b the best thread

Basically I'm a smaller white woman in college. I use public transportation and a lot of times dudes will creep on me.

I've considered shaving my head and tatting up.
Before I do that I'm wondering if there are any styles that look more intimidating without looking like a slob or complete dyke

I'm too poor for fighting classes and I'm already trying to get a slide buffer.
Pic is gain goals

>> No.14990127

you could smell bad or look like you have AIDS. alternatively stick with other people because a woman will never be physically intimidating to a man unless its a fetish thing.

>> No.14990131

just get buff or be ugly

>> No.14990132
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>>14990118
Look up photos of girl gangs like pic related and see what can you integrate from their outfits into your style.

>> No.14990138

>>14990118
>>14990132
Also, look for images of women in uniforms (mostly from totalitarian/autoritarian regimes)

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>>14990138
Forgot to post the image lol

>> No.14990147

>>14990118
She looks hot. Honestly the best way to look intimidating is just to look as best as you can and professional. It seems counterintuitive but I'm pretty sure you'll get more creepage the more degenerate you look since they think that you're one of them. Downside is you might get more people checking you out in general but you never know might not be a bad thing maybe you'll attract a chad.

Tldr; dress like you're to good for them because you'll probably never be physically intimidating to most dudes

>> No.14990155

>woman
>trying to look intimidating
it's no use. unless you're 6ft or something, no man (excluding midgets) will ever be physically intimidated by you. all you'll be able to do is ruin your appearance.
Just learn how to be rude/assertive, act like a crazy bitch if you have to, carry pepper spray or a pocket knife.

>> No.14990156

>>14990118
Get a gun and carry it.

>> No.14990593

back straight, chin up, neutral expression on face and brisk pace while walking. then learn how to defend yourself because your insecurity stems from your vulnerability, which you can never completely eliminate.

>> No.14990696

>>14990118
She looked so much better before fucking up her face with the plastic surgery. Though her body is better now, her face isn't

>> No.14990713

>>14990593
I def carry myself confidently. U think that's one of the things I have going for me

>> No.14990732

>>14990118
No. Makeup in a hoodie

>> No.14990744

>>14990732
I don't wear makeup, don't plan on it

>> No.14990755

carry a gun

>> No.14990776

>>14990755
Can't where I live

>> No.14990779

>>14990776
Do it anyway

>> No.14990785

>>14990744
Get.
A.
Gun.

The confidence and peace of mind will be worth it.

>> No.14990789

>>14990776
That isn't going to stop the sickos from doing it. What would you rather be: an ugly butch looking bitch that gets raped, or a cool, sexy, gun-toting gal that just iced a punk?

>> No.14990823

>>14990118
Don't ruin your looks for that. Carry a gun, a knife, a taser or a pepper spray, the latter being the most convenient.

Some of us can't control their instincts and really as long as they're not being creepy retards with it they're not doing anything wrong. Once you start carrying something for self defense, you'll naturally be calmer.

Also, rule of thumb: don't go places alone, get some friends. This isn't a modern thing, that's always been like that. Women aren't supposed to walk alone everywhere.

>> No.14990832

>>14990118
See a therapist. I'm serious. You're thinking about making yourself ugly because some harmless men have looked at you. That's the behaviour of sexual abuse victims more than it is a normal person.
Getting buff and learning to fight are great but they aren't likely to save you from a man that wants to do you harm: probably the best you'll do is break the nose of some lonely incel that tries to talk to you.
What you need, other than therapy, is to learn DISCERNMENT. As in which of those guys is actually likely to be any threat to you at all.
I'll bet you probably rate all the harmless guys as threatening while at the same time you are not picking up on the actually dangerous dudes.

>> No.14990834

>>14990789
>punk
Kek ok grandma

>> No.14990862

>>14990155
The only real answer.

Odds are no one will bother you, just learn to put on a hard face instead of looking like a scared mouse. I'm the event someone does, get loud. If they get physical, whip out that pepper spray/knuckles/knife.

>> No.14990880
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the average man is stronger than the strongest women, you will never intimidate with your looks, just carry whatever weapon you can

>> No.14990888

>>14990832
This
>>14990880
And this. If you live in a rough neighborhood get pepper spray because I'm not a super strong or big dude but I'm sure I could overpower ~90% chicks easily. It sucks, but you will never be physically intimidating to them and thinking that you pose them a serious threat without a firearm or pepper spray will get you into far more serious situations then you are already in.

>> No.14991063

>>14990832
Idk if I'll go to therapy just yet but uv def got a point.

Most creep behavior is harmless, and I have a history of that kind of abuse which has left me a lil more sketched out.
I guess cuz the ppl that abused me were the harmless seeming incel types, I'm extra on edge.

>> No.14991067

>>14990862
Pepper spray is a great idea. I wouldn't trust myself with a knife cuz that would most likely land me in way more shit

>> No.14991073

>>14990880
Cerebral palsy dude at the bottom

>> No.14991159

>>14990155
This

>> No.14991425

>>14991063
i feel you. was assaulted in middle school and i cant stand people being horny or creepy even online. working through it is hard but i'm putting in effort. if i can, you can too.

>> No.14991431

>>14991063
Yeah I phrased my post poorly in that respect because a lot of sex offenders will present as ugly, weedy incels.
So it's no good just having blanket comfort around them.

>> No.14991562

>>14990118
Guys will find "intimidating" girls hot. Instead of trying to look scary, focus on looking ugly. Then no one will bother you

>> No.14991565

If self defense it's your concern I'd say look for a brazilian jiu jitsu teacher. It's an ideal martial art for self defense since size doesn't matter when you have more experiense.
https://youtu.be/kL3VzjcptBI

If you can pay for it it's a good investment.
As other anons said you can't fake being intimidating with clothes. Bad people can read how weak or strong you are by body language. Learning martial arts will help building that confidense which it's the first step.
Good luck and take care.

>> No.14991629

>>14991565
I did some japanese jiu jitsu when I was lil, but I'd rlly like to save up and actually learn some shit.
I'm just worried it will be useless unless I dedicate hardcore to it, which would require a lottt of money.

In hs a friend who did a lot of krav maga and she once asked me to try and pin her to show me some moves. I pinned her. She blamed me for doing it wrong.

See what I'm saying?

>> No.14991822

Keep a dirty jacket in a bag and change into it.
Order single-serving packs of oil/butter online and grease up/tousle your hair.
Acquire stick-on costume sores and apply to your face. The silicone kind are reusable.
Pick your fingernails, scowl, shift around in your seat, and bounce your legs absent-mindedly.

>> No.14992084

>>14990118
chest thump like a gorrilla or lick your sharp teeth like a preadator
and maybe grunt at random interverals
or give dirty looks

Or just get a knife and flip it constantly

Stay safe out there anon

>> No.14992087

>>14992084
Sounds hot

>> No.14992091

>>14990118
Nothing you do will make you look intimidating because you're a little girl, and presumably a complete retard if you really think dressing differently will make you safer.

>> No.14992096

>want people to leave you alone
>dress really well and slightly formally
>don't make eye contact
>headphones at all times
>body language: "busy"
>standing is safer than sitting

>> No.14992119

>>14991629
Self defense classes are dumb. If you can't get a gun get a real genuine taser brand taser.

>> No.14992333

>>14991562
This. I’m ugly and I ride public transport every day and 99.999% of the time no one bothers me. Also you can put headphones on but don’t play music , so you have an excuse to ignore creepy people but you can still hear everything

>> No.14992350

>>14990118
You're not ever going to intimidate creeps, men in general, homeless people, etc.

If you want to, carry a weapon. My source for this is that i'm a 6'4" muscular black dude and I've still had older gay men try to creep on me, Somalians try to rob me, drunk assholes trying to pick a fight, etc. People will always assume, unless you look legitimately terrifying, that you're a sheep and a victim. You either have to prove to them that you're not when a conflict arises or accept that they called it correctly.

I carry a (legal) Chiappa Rhino. If you can't legally own/conceal carry a gun for some reason, there are knives. Pepper spray. Martial arts classes, etc. If you're living in a city there's a good chance that someone will fuck with you one day, and you should be ready for it.

>> No.14992358

>>14992350
>I carry a (legal) Chiappa Rhino.
Of course /fa/ would.

>> No.14992364

>>14992358
Hey, it looks cool/scifi and I fucking love scifi.

And it keeps me safe. I know it's not the most practical but it'll still scare away just about anyone on the street if I flash it.

>> No.14992373

>>14992364
I'm not knocking it, man. It's just so fantastically hipster and precisely what you'd expect someone to carry here.

>> No.14992422

>>14992373
true, I'm not even going to deny it.

>> No.14992455

>>14991629
They say krav maga it's kind of a meme though. But yeah, any martial artist will tell you to avoid street fights at all cost.

Most martial arts are useless for real life situation where you have to fight. I'd say the most useful are boxing, muay thai and jiu jitsu which are basically what any MMA fighter trains.

If you are gonna opt for just a gun like some people say here you do also have learn how to use it and be confident enough to use it when you need it. So there's that.

>> No.14992489

>>14992119
That's also a good idea, they are legal

>> No.14992934

>>14990118
Tattoos are ugly and a sign of mental illness.

>> No.14993467

>>14990118
women are almost never intimidating. they can be unattractive though. Shave your head, that says that you´re uninterested and probably mentally unstable

>> No.14993476

>>14990880
that 35 year old dude can just snap an arm with one hand

>> No.14993499

>>14992934
>a sign of mental illness
if getting drunk with your friends on holiday is a sign of mental illness

>> No.14993501

>>14990823
>Women aren't supposed to walk alone everywhere.
this is a nonwhite thing

>> No.14993569

>>14992934
I think they are nice, but everyones different.

>> No.14993635

>>14993569
You're entitled to look like trash, I guess.

>> No.14993646

>>14990118
DO NOT harm your body with tattoos and piercings whatever you do.

>> No.14993648

>>14990118
Be ugly. Or get a husband. Those are your only options. People are not even intimidated by female cops.

>> No.14993650

>>14990147
Bad advice. Looking pretty is the opposite of what she wants to do. Looking ugly will get her ignored which is close enough to intimidation.

>> No.14993655

>>14993501
This was a human thing before the kikes brainwashed people like you. What do you think about children walking alone everywhere?

>> No.14993707

>>14993646
I've found a lotttt of tattoo hate on 4chan.
I get not liking bad tattoos, but some tattoos are beautiful and expressive, why the dislike?

>> No.14993733

>>14993501
There was never a golden time when a woman could make dumbass decisions like walking around drunk at 1am in a seedy area and not risk being raped.
What the golden time was was when more women would not walk around a seedy area at 1am and especially would not while drunk.

>> No.14993736

>>14993707
Did you read this thread, my dude? You think the girl asking
>how do i make myself so repulsive that not a single man looks at me anymore?
is going to pick nice looking tattoos?

>> No.14993770

>>14993655
I walked everywhere alone as a child.
Kids today are pussies.

>> No.14993773

>>14993707
Guys will always prefer a pure women's body over a tainted one.

>> No.14993781

>>14993770
The point is parents/society are overly concerned about kids and don't let them walk anywhere. The same thinking applies to women in countries not overrun by jews.

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>> No.14993792

>>14993707
Any woman I see with tattoos I instinctively loose all respect for and assume she is a garbage whore. Even if she isn't, some dude touched her body while drawing the 'art'. I immediately know I could never love her and will only treat her as trash.

>> No.14993796

>>14993792
The trash that she is btw

>> No.14993815

>>14993796
Not very kind

>> No.14993826

>>14993815
I mean I'm not going to harm them, I just will never love them. Just saying the truth out loud. Every guy treats whores different from women they love. A woman who has been touched by a tattoo artist is a whore...

>> No.14993847

>>14993826
R the dudes whores too?

>> No.14993867

>>14993847
Guys who get tattoos? Idk idc. I'm not going to marry a guy and devote my life to him. Guys with or without tattoos are like girls with tattoos--I will never truly care about them or risk my life for them. Hell I've fucked a girl with an ankle tattoo. Ghosted her immediately after. Wasn't even planned just my natural reaction to a) knowing she was a whore and b) the tattoo (which is a tiny issue compared to the former). But both disqualified her from wife material. So I treated her like the whore she is. Whores know the deal they are used to this treatment.

>> No.14993881

>>14993867
I mean u do u. As long as ur not beating anyone up who rlly cares. prefering women without tats is your right.

I guess I'd just recomend not judging ppl too quickly. Having such a black and white view of the world can hold u back.

>> No.14993886

>>14993815
>be me
>be student
>law teacher talking about the law of provocation and revenge murder.
>says you can't harm someone after the fact
>says he wouldn't attack someone who killed his wife
>all the guys visibly shocked.jpg
>law teacher's wife is tatted up feminist english teacher
>all the guys in the class say they would murder anyone who killed their wife
>guys say there is no other way, don't care about the law
>teacher married to whore feminist disagrees.
>mfw teacher wouldn't defend whore wife

>> No.14993891

>>14993886
That dude is a slug

>> No.14993900

>>14993881
It's an effective way to filter through women and it's natural. I'm not forcing a preference I naturally want a virgin wife, and all the data backs that instinct up in regards to fidelity and offspring purity.

Otherwise as a guy you end up falling in love with every pretty face of which there are so many like many betas do. Gotta be able to separate the whores and virgins, or you end up in the terrible situation of having feelings for a whore. Fuck her like all the dudes before you did and move on like they all did. She doesn't want to be wife material anyways you can't change people.

>> No.14993908

>>14993886
They all imagine their future wife is pure. But if they end up like the teacher married to a whore, suddenly shit changes hah

>> No.14993919

>>14993900
Wanting a pure wife is a virgin move.

Only Chads impress a promiscuous woman, who will have higher standards in the bedroom.

>> No.14994026

>>14990118

Put in a pair of corded earphones and pull your hair back so they are visible.

Earphones are the universal "DO NOT BOTHER ME" sign.

Even if you don't feel like listening to music, pop em in and always pretend like you didn't hear what someone if they try talking to you.

>> No.14994042

>>14993886
Didn't you read between the lines, anon? He was telling you he wanted you to murder his wife for him.

>> No.14994044

>>14993919
That's not really how people work and the only reason anon wants a "pure" wife is because they don't want their life ruined with divorce rape.
If you could guarantee me life long happy marriage with a crazy slut I would go for it.

>> No.14994078

>>14990118
Bad posture, wear ill-fitting clothes, act trashy. Basically be the opposite of attractive

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>>14990118
tbqh you'll never be "intimidating" to guys so dont even try

an untrained male can easily go toe to toe with a female who has trained for months

if hes even remotely fit she has no chance at all

>> No.14994171

>>14994044
Not just divorce rape. There are other pressing concerns. Like a slut will always be a slut so marrying one means she will cheat eventually. That's one reason you marry a virgin. People don't change marry a whore and she will continue whoring can't expect something different.

>> No.14994174

>>14993919
Chads only wife virgin women wanting a virgin wife is actually a chad move. Cucks wife whores. Chads fuck promiscious women and treat them horribly. Virgins complain about how Chads get away with that treatment of women, but that's who you are supposed to treat whores. They want to be treated like shit because they are shit and they know it.

>> No.14994175

>>14990118
wear earphones and learn sign language

>> No.14994180

>>14990118
>Shaving head and Tatting up just to avoid men
>Not doing either because you really want to

This is bait, right?

>> No.14994219

>>14994180
Pretty girls have it really hard. Everybody wants them!

>> No.14994994

hahahahaha
....
:(

>> No.14995007

>>14994042
Kek

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>>14990118
>tatting up
>too poor for fighting classes

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>>14990118
Three words: She's The Man

>> No.14996168

>>14990118
Take up running
As a small woman you will NEVER intimidate a man physically but you might outrun a possible assailant
Don't try and look tough, thats a challenging gesture for men hoping no one will call their bluff, and you certainly aren't ready to back it up with anything

>> No.14996346

>>14990832
>you probably rate all the harmless guys as threatening while at the same time you are not picking up on the actually dangerous dudes.
THIS! The predators know how to be chameleons, they can hide in plain sight. They are sociopaths and skilled manipulators. They will most likely be the ones to earn your trust by being very solicitous, polite, and gentlemanly. They want your trust, that's their weapon against you. They will lure you in, then strike.
The virgin incels that just escaped their moms basement are so crippled by their autism, they are no threat. They will stare with hungry eyes, but don't have a clue what to do about it, so they do nothing.
In defense, the best you can do is maintain awareness of your surroundings. Travel in groups. Pepper spray and stun gun/tazer are useful. Hand to hand combat is to be avoided, the odds are against you. A knife is a mixed bag if untrained in how to use it. Concealed handgun is an option, but don't pull it just to wave it around. Shit escalates rapidly when that happens.
Look to see if the local police, campus security, or local womens groups offer free self defense classes, many large communities do.
Good luck and godspeed, femanon. Keep your head up and eyes open.

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>>14993886

>> No.14996443

>>14990118
post milkers mommy

>> No.14996563

>>14996346
yeah but also nah. honestly most of the time the serial killer/rapist is going to be a weird looking ugly guy with features that make you think he's in-bred.
super handsome and/or super smart rapists/killers would be the minority.

>> No.14996580

>>14990118
>female
that aside, shave your head if you're desperate and wear less makeup, hoodie, pants, cover yourself up
tats, piercings, colored hair etc just makes you look like an easy whore

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14996604

Start taking anavar

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>>14990118
Become fat.

>> No.14997152

>>14990118
Cut yourself across the face. Get yourself a good scar

>> No.14997331

>>14990118
If they want you, they're going to take you. And there will be nothing you can do about it. You will never be intimidating as a woman.

>> No.14997338

>sunglasses
>mask
>hat/hoodie

Now you're anonymous. You'll never do this though because women need to farm attention from randoms to feel validated.

>> No.14997943

>>14990118
go to the gym, buy a gun and learn how to use it, learn jiu jitsu

all of these will make you carry yourself with more confidence, thus making you look less like a target

>> No.14998057

>>14990118
anyone have the picture of the gray face looking british slag roasties? They are all wearing dresses and the colors: peach, ash, light pink, grey? its a street style photo

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>>14997943
>jiu jitsu

>> No.14998073

Pepper spray. A lot of people are suggesting you wear headphones, but you want to keep your wits about you in public, so I wouldn't recommend it. Sit closer to the conductor or seek out a trustworthy looking person like someone with if it gets bad.

>> No.14998077

You will never be intimidating, only size intimidates. And females rarely have that.

>> No.14999239

>>14990118
>I want to be attractive as a woman
>I want to intimidate men as a woman

Damn lil shawty looks like you’re gonna have to choose one or the other.

>> No.14999393

>>14990155
facts

>> No.14999399

you will get mogged every time, unless you are more MASSIVE and are fit at it

>> No.14999427

>>14998077
calm down incel nobody asked for ur memoirs

>> No.14999504

>>14999427
>incel
back to r*ddit faggot

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>>14990118
Wear dark or earth tone colors, add in some metal accessories and do your best to grow 3-4ft taller

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>>15000700

>> No.15001050

>>14990118
Uma Thurman here... just get really angry my mom's been in a few fights with guys and won... lift like a crazy bitch... make growling noises instead of screaming

>> No.15001189

>>15000700
look at that phat pussy

>> No.15001744

>>14990789
The latter turns you into the former, genius

>> No.15002121

>>14990118
Get a concealed handgun permit, then practice using it. alternatively, get good at some form of martial art.

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>>15000700
Giant girls have very little to be scared of

>> No.15002235

>>14990155
Facts

>> No.15002238

>>14990832
Wait actual analysis and advice on /fa/ ???

>> No.15002390

>>14993476
probably a downy, the retard strength meme is real

>> No.15003529

Not much you can do as a woman other than some extreme things not worth doing, the easiest way if you're in the US is to get an open carry permit and have a gun visible on you.

If not, get some gel pepper spray, it's the best self defense tool in urban areas, make sure it's gel, you'll definitely blind yourself with the regular kind, even if you think you won't.

Tasers are shit, learning how to fight is useless, knives will either have you kill someone, or get yourself killed, guns will always leave someone dead and a huge legal headache after.

With pepper spray you can spray everybody and run the fuck away, fighting back is stupid if you have the option to run.

>> No.15003544

>>15003529
By the way, I've been doing MMA since 14 and I carry gel pepper spray with me for self defense, and I'd never fight someone on the street, there's too many possible unknowns that could get you killed fighting strangers.

>> No.15003568

MMA is useless. Any bum with a knife will murder your ass.

Just be TALL AND MASSIVE.

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>>15003568
Exactly

>> No.15004439

>>14990118
I know these threads are never real and there are no women on the internet, but imagine being a woman with a weird complex and going to 4chan for answers