/fa/ - Fashion

[Anonymous No.14928757]

fashion feel thread
discuss life, interests, Inspo, problems, what's getting you down, what's getting you up and all that shit.

Fashion is one of the few things I care for to the point I can wax poetic about it yet I have absolutely no motivation to get to where I need to be to make my primary interest part of my life... mainly due to crippling self hatred.

make tea, coffee, grab your smokes and whine.

[Anonymous No.14928779]

i feel more comfortable in my own skin but don't know how i should dress, been wearing a lot of rick.
i feel like tattooing my self head to toe made me play a devil I don't want to be, and has done what I intended it to do, get people to leave me alone, but I don't think that's what I wanted.

[Anonymous No.14928787]

>>14928779
I don't feel comfortable in my skin, so at least you have that.

Do you mind discussing your fullbody tattoos?

[Anonymous No.14928789]

I like TIP and Dark Academia, but I'm told it's part of a lifestyle thing. I have the artistic interest to warrant Dark Academia, but I don't pursue it much. The only thing I really do in life is work and sleep.

[Anonymous No.14928795]

>>14928787
i dont mind, what do you want to know
another thing about it, people put me as older because of them, I'm 21 and people put me at 28-30

[Anonymous No.14928797]

>>14928757
>tfw I have to buy women's sneakers bc there was no ones that wouldn't be loose as fuck and seem like clown shoes bc of how big they are compared to my feet

[Anonymous No.14928845]

>>14928789
relatable what do you do for work?

>>14928795
How extensive are the tattoos? what designs? are they blackouts? You wrote that they get people to leave you alone but you are having second thoughts about it.

[Anonymous No.14928848]

>>14928797
foot size? and what shoes were they?

[Anonymous No.14928853]

>>14928845
upto where my neck meets my chin down to my toes, goes behind the ear too onto the head a little too.
mish mash of stuff, all black and grey, mostly newschool. have a full blackout on my left arm hand and shoulder. Just let my artist take the reins and run with a canvas.
not having second thoughts about the tattoo, having second thoughts about everything else in my life though, I don't look approachable I know, fairly hard to get a job, so i'm stuck where I am at the moment

[Anonymous No.14928858]

>>14928757
tfw not best friends with bliss foster

[Anonymous No.14928883]

>>14928858
what about him do you like?

>>14928853
While I'm sure you considered those aspects before having such extensive work done, but if you have expertise/qualifications in any field you should be able to get jobs, it's just you would have to go through the additional effort of the HR and possibly discriminatory laws etc...

What job do you want? What are you interested in career wise?

[Anonymous No.14928888]

>>14928883
>What job do you want? What are you interested in career wise?
no idea, i'm just kinda taken to the wind at this point.
all I want to do is climb

[Anonymous No.14928896]

>>14928888
>>14928888
rock climbing? mountain climbing? hiking?

[Anonymous No.14928898]

>>14928848
This ones, they were 6.5 (in US terms)

[Anonymous No.14928900]

>>14928896
rock and ice

[Anonymous No.14928901]

>>14928898
oh wow 6.5 is quite small, judging by the tone in your first post I'm guessing you're a man... nothing wrong with having to buy women's shoes if they fit better.

[Anonymous No.14928903]

>>14928900
oh shit where do you live for ice climbing?

[Anonymous No.14928906]

>>14928845
Wipe old people's backsides and be lectured about how I'm not good enough.

[Anonymous No.14928908]

>>14928903
NY, few places in the winter upstate for ice

[Anonymous No.14928916]

>>14928906
damn you a nurse?

>>14928908
oh yeah I can imagine then if you're in NY :|

What are some of the more recent clothes you 2 have bought?

[Anonymous No.14928922]

>>14928908
you could try and make a living out of climbing, start your own club, teach other people, be a guide, something like that. It wont pay as a managerial position, but you'd combine your love for climbing and get an income. Maybe take up on photography or something else that interests you, and is related to climbing and get an extra income from it. Just throwing in my .02 in there.

[Anonymous No.14928929]

>>14928916
another pair of rick prisoners pants
another pair of la sportiva climbing shoes
>>14928922
debated about it, not sure on it honestly

[Anonymous No.14928936]

>gave birth
>finally lost the baby weight and fit into old clothes
>pregnant again
Welp guess this is just my life now

[Anonymous No.14928944]

>>14928901
Thanks, I guess it's better than paying someone to make me sneakers. If they ask me, I'll tell them I'm buying for my (non existing) gf

[Anonymous No.14928958]

>>14928797
>>14928936
It’s called being a woman that’s your job tootz man job is to impregnate and protect the population

[Anonymous No.14928962]

>>14928757
are smile lines attractive? I have a double line and one dimple that I always get comments on but I was just wondering what the male perspective is on smile lines?

[Anonymous No.14928963]

>>14928929
could get a job as a wildlife park ranger or something in a state where you have to be in the mountains or some shit

[Anonymous No.14928964]

>>14928929
I get you in a way, was feeling the same when I was 21 about my hobbies and turning them into a job. You still have time to figure it out, just don't let yourself get in a rut. Trust me, I know. Just turned 33 and realised I dunn fucked my life, started to turn it. It will be a fucking long run and I already am starting to get impatient and frustrated.

>>14928936
theres a ton of cute and pretty preggo clothes. plus, you lost weight after birth once, you'll do it again, just persist in it.

>>14928944
noone really cares what size are your fit. and those that do care only cause they're insecure themselves and to make them feel better, they have to mock others.

[Anonymous No.14928965]

>>14928936
congratulations on both pregnancies! I'd freak about not being able to fit into my clothes baka

[Anonymous No.14928968]

>>14928944
not even that, so many unisex shoes are listed under women's only because they have smaller sizes, kinda weird people would ask....

[Anonymous No.14928972]

>>14928962
yes I think they are, and they only get better with age... truly does add character and makes one approachable.

[Anonymous No.14928980]

>>14928962
smile lines are a big plus in my book, and in most peoples too, so dont worry and just smile away

[Anonymous No.14928982]

>>14928972
I'm 27 is that too young to have them? Its just weird seeing my face like this.

[Anonymous No.14928984]

>>14928980
>>14928972
but honestly this made my fucking night. Thank you

[Anonymous No.14928986]

>>14928982
nah, perhaps they may be exacerbated by sun exposure /poor skincare / smoking / drinking / drug habits etc etc

[Anonymous No.14928989]

>>14928984
dude you don't want to be the 50 year old with a face that looks as smooth as Kim Kardashians...plastic in other words... you want those smile lines those laugh lines the crowfeet etc

[Anonymous No.14928993]

>>14928984
Unless you’re a trannie then they’re gross

[Anonymous No.14928997]

>>14928757
I finally have a paycheck that would allow me to pursue my interest in fashion, but at the same time, I feel guilty about every dollar that Im not putting into savings.
Its really hard to deny my short term desires for long term goals, and even though Im putting away 600 a month towards emergency savings/IRA/travel, it feels so insignificant when it comes to things like buying a house some day.

[Anonymous No.14929003]

>>14928986
I don't smoke or drink except on special (or right now) occasions. I am pale fucker, but I smile a lot, its a defence mechanism. I honestly think thats the main reason, I was looking at pictures from when I was 20 and they were there but they are just here MORE now.

[Anonymous No.14929005]

>>14928993
please explain

[Anonymous No.14929007]

>>14928997
Where are you from?
Pursue your interest in fashion in what way? Education? Designing? Creating? Or buying particular items of clothing? If it's the last option then what in particular.

[Anonymous No.14929009]

>>14929005
No

[Anonymous No.14929011]

>>14929003
embrace it man, ageing isn't something to be feared provided you keep healthy, on the contrary it should be embraced. The way you dress and your style will have to adapt and it will be quite exciting the older you get :) Thats my view on ageing at least.

[Anonymous No.14929013]

>>14929003
That’s cuz you’re fucking old and those creases in your face will just get longer and more noticeable

[Anonymous No.14929014]

>>14929013
but if the rest of me isnt fat, is it still attractive?

[Anonymous No.14929017]

>>14929014
yes nigga, stay healthy and you'll be fine.

[Anonymous No.14929018]

>>14929009
do it coward

[Anonymous No.14929019]

>>14929011
Its a weird thing, seeing yourself age for the first time. I've always wanted to embrace age and not look fake but fuck its hard to look at yourself in the mirror sometimes

[Anonymous No.14929020]

>>14929014
You’re seriously asking if age lines are attractive, yes but only in attractive people, in 99% of normal you just look old and worn out

[Anonymous No.14929021]

>>14929017
I'm in the best shape that I've ever been in but if my face was spooky then what would be the point? But I do appreciate your kind words anon

[Anonymous No.14929022]

>>14929019
I imagine it is, sort of like the awkward phase when growing hair out, but really the older you get the better, provided you adapt.

[Anonymous No.14929024]

>>14929020
I only have smile lines, (deep lines around the mouth when I smile and faintly there when my face is neutral) attractiveness is subjective but I wanted to know what the majority male opinion was. I do have dark circles around my eyes so that probably doesn't help my overall look either but I kind of like them

[Anonymous No.14929025]

>>14929007
US. Colorado.
Just the latter, I want to build a wardrobe that is uniquely my own style. Staple pieces of a good quality, unique items, versatility for mixing/matching/layering a variety of outfits.

But I also really want to get out of the country this year or next. I want to create a safety net and invest. I feel like this need to take priority right now and really its just first world problems Im complaining about.

[Anonymous No.14929026]

>tfw eczema

[Anonymous No.14929028]

>>14929025
Should treat yourself by getting a grail that is versatile and some of the more basic pieces first.

Where do you want to move?

[Anonymous No.14929029]

>>14929022
Its nice to get an outside opinion, just wanted to see how fucked I was. But its better to play into some things I guess

[Anonymous No.14929042]

>>14929028
Not looking to move for a few years, when I will probably just head north. Im just talking about some touristy travel. I have hardly left the US. I want to spend a couple weeks in Europe, maybe Switzerland or Germany, still looking for ideas. I would also love to take a ski trip to Japan. Not sure which will happen first.

>>14929028
>Should treat yourself by getting a grail that is versatile and some of the more basic pieces first.

This is kind of what I have been doing. I think its appropriate to put some money into my wardrobe now that I have a career. There is a fine line between treating myself and spending irresponsibly though. My expensive taste doesnt help. It's not like I'm gonna put myself in debt or anything, it's just money I could be saving.

[Anonymous No.14929050]

>>14928757
A couple of things to complain about desu

>Feet are different sized by a whole size makes wanting to get nice shoes a pain in the ass

>In the process of losing weight. down 90 from 330, trying to lose another 90, was pretty excited about it but body dysphoria is getting to me cause im not looking how I want to look

>struggling to find my own personal style and I feel like im dressing in eternal fatty cope mode, and I dont even think once I reach my goal Ill be able to find that.

[Anonymous No.14929052]

>>14929042
What is the most expensive grail piece you have your eyes on currently?

[Anonymous No.14929055]

>>14929050
do you mean one foot is bigger than the other?
90lb down from 330lb is impressive, what timespan did it take for you to achieve that? You clearly have it in you to do another 90!

Body dysphoria gets to everyone man, just stick it out and ignore clothing and style until you get to your target weight, then it will be time to worry about that stuff.

Chin up mate, you've got the determination!

[Anonymous No.14929062]

>>14929055
Yeah, one foot is size 12 the other is just under 11 pretty much, it sucks .

Thanks for your kind words!! hopefully every turns up how I want it by the end of this year. The first 90 took my just over a year to lose

[Anonymous No.14929094]

>>14929062
There’s two measurements foot length and arch length anon .

[Anonymous No.14929321]

I wish people appreciated Hedi Slimane more. He's gotten a bad rep, due to all of the memes here, on top of overweight Asian men sloppily wearing his clothing, and from the press, since Slimane's vision is that of skinny, tall-ish youth - who, more often than not, are European.

But, Hedi Slimane's done a tremendous amount for men's wear. He pushed the envelope at Dior Homme, and continues to do so. Many people wear certain pieces of clothing, unaware of the fact that they're available to men, solely because of Hedi Slimane.

He's been critiqued for what he's done to Celine, but no one seems to grasp that Hedi's simply just taking part in the nature of fashion. Céline ceased truly being Céline once Céline Vipiana loss creative control of her brand. From there on, it's become something malleable.

He's an unsung hero.

[Anonymous No.14929630]

>>14928916
Home Aide. Cooking, cleaning, laundry and bathing. Everything short of giving medicine and changing bandages.

[Anonymous No.14929704]

>>14929052
630 for a trench. Im not gonna get it but I want to.

[Anonymous No.14929859]

>>14929321

underweight basedboy cope

[Anonymous No.14929972]

>>14929859
t. obese cope
>inb4 muh muh bulk season!!

Put the fork down, ham planet.

[Anonymous No.14930219]

>>14929321
it's just in vogue to shit on hedi

[Anonymous No.14930252]

>>14928797
Footlets rise up, these goose feet fags are just jealous

[Anonymous No.14930437]

tfw all the clothes I buy doesn't actually get me closer to being /fa/. None of it fits or looks like I would hope it should.

[Anonymous No.14930476]

>>14930437
can you give some examples of the clothes you mean?

[Anonymous No.14930509]

>>14928997
iktf, i just bought a $50 vetements shirt and even that made me feel guilty

just switched from part time to full time though so hopefully i can actually save something even in my expensive-ass city

[Anonymous No.14930525]

>>14930509
a memements shirt for FIFTY DOLLARS?

[Anonymous No.14930529]

>>14930437
you're gonna go through that for a while. just sell/donate what you really don't like immediately, shop at thrift stores only til you've nailed your style down, and think about every aspect of each piece of clothing.

alternately, pick one or two things you really like (like a black turtleneck for example) and imagine you only wear that, then base anything you buy on whether or not it matches that one piece.

[Anonymous No.14930530]

>>14930525
https://www.ssense.com/en-us/women/product/vetements/black-snake-chinese-zodiac-t-shirt/3584669

:^)

[Anonymous No.14930540]

>>14930530
>womans
DROPPED

[Anonymous No.14930544]

Working on getting fit, feeling and looking better. Really gonna try to be more active this year, looking at bikes to ride and maybe a kayak. My problem is I have no idea how to dress at my age. Gonna be 28 next month. Grew up lower middle class with a single dad who dresses like total shit. I don't even feel comfortable tucking shirts in

[Anonymous No.14930549]

>>14930540
moid cope

[Anonymous No.14930553]

>>14930549
/gay gang/

[Anonymous No.14930556]

>>14930544
how do u dress currently

[Anonymous No.14930563]

>>14930556
Basic boring shit. Plain t shirts, jeans, flannels, sneakers. Only started wearing chinos in the last year

[Anonymous No.14930632]

>>14930563
what sites do you shop on?

[Anonymous No.14930638]

realized that i couldn't get away from social media every time i deleted snapchat and instagram because i was always waiting for someone to message me, and i wanted validation.

deleted them again today, hopefully for longer this time after i figured out what i was looking for.

[Anonymous No.14930649]

>>14930563
>>14930632
use ssense.com and farfetch.com if you don't already

[Anonymous No.14930714]

>>14930649
This stuff looks like pure shit anon

[Anonymous No.14930727]

>>14930714
LOLOLOLOLOL

opinion discarded. How about you have a look at the designers on both sites eh?

[Anonymous No.14930731]

>>14930714
what's that?
Gucci? Versace? DG? Fendi? Margiela? Prada? Tom Ford? Burberry? pure shit?

[Anonymous No.14930738]

>>14930731
what are you doing on /fa/? if you're just here to lurk, then lurk and shut your whore mouth

[Anonymous No.14930742]

currently trying to decide whether i should start wearing more outdoor stuff for a gorpcore type look since i live in a rural area and enjoy the outdoors or go towards a pretty clean, minimal, but high quality look because im most comfortable in that type of stuff. at least i have it narrowed down :/

[Anonymous No.14930744]

>>14928757
now that I have money I have completely regressed to how I dressed in 2016

just bought mm gats in black/brown again not sure how to feel about it. i'll probably look like a huge laggard but this is all i know.

[Anonymous No.14930775]

>>14930744
AGAIN? what happened to your last pair?

[Anonymous No.14930896]

just got a shitty fucking haircut and all my fits look trash now, what do I do while it grows back out

[Anonymous No.14930921]

>>14930896
wear a hijab
shave head
wear caps 24/7

[Anonymous No.14931011]

>narrow shoulders
>cartoonishly skinny legs and long feet

it hurts to be lanky but at least im 6.3 so yeah i got that going for me

[Anonymous No.14931015]

>>14931011
>SLP

[Anonymous No.14931038]

>>14930921
guess its beanie season

>>14931011
lift more

[Anonymous No.14931191]

>>14930738
Angry poor boy seethe

[Anonymous No.14931195]

>>14931191
thanks for backing me up brother

[Anonymous No.14931230]

>>14930714
Seething poor piece of shit kill your self

[Anonymous No.14931235]

My SO is effay af. I used to be fat af but started lifting a year ago and now I’m very normal but I have no confidence at all.

When I’m with my SO I feel comfortable and attractive in whatever I wear but I think it’s cause they draw the attention away from me.

But when I’m not with them I get bad social anxiety, especially on my university campus.

So that’s why I browse /fa/. I’m just scared I’m not effay enough for this person I love.

[Anonymous No.14931248]

>>14928757
I'm 6.2 and 55kg. Buying clothes in my city is a fucking nightmare if I actually want it to fit well.

[Anonymous No.14931263]

>>14931011
Come home, long man.

[Anonymous No.14931267]

>>14931263
>>14931248

[Anonymous No.14931755]

bump

[Anonymous No.14932345]

Men think I'm gay.

[Anonymous No.14932361]

>>14932345
Fuck them to establish dominance.

[Anonymous No.14932386]

>>14928757
I have been in the process of switching my wardrobe to LV and other nice low key but expensive brands. I just picked this up yesterday, did white because all of my outfits are black pants + blue,red, or black T-shirt.

My other belts are either black, dark grey, rainbow-esque (no homo) red, or the usual brown leather monogram.
Can I get some thots, prayers, and judgements on it?

[Anonymous No.14932388]

>>14932345
Why do you suppose that is?

[Anonymous No.14932620]

>>14932345
I wonder how many people think Im gay.

[Anonymous No.14932826]

>>14928757
How the fuck do I quit smoking bros

I fell for the meme when I was 16 or 17 and I've been going ever since, I'm now 24. I've managed a year and a half quitting before starting back up again. I'm tired of my lungs feeling heavy and spending ages brushing to get the stains out of my teeth.

[Anonymous No.14932833]

>>14932361
Based and bronzepilled

[Anonymous No.14932838]

>>14930775
I sold them on grailed when I was broke. Got a decent amount of wear out of them though.

[Anonymous No.14932900]

>>14932826
I don't know man, I smoked for 5 years anywhere between a pack a week to 10 a day towards the end... I just sort of stopped, but they were $30 for a pack of 25 so that contributed.

All I can say is that after the first 3 weeks it gets easier, then after the first 3 months it's even easier.

[Anonymous No.14932903]

>>14932838
fair

[Anonymous No.14933163]

>>14929009
kek

[Anonymous No.14933168]

>>14930731
Nig tier designers

[Anonymous No.14933174]

Just got back from my first day student teaching. Really I just observed but the principal said I was dressed very well. I kept it boomer and wore a polo tucked into some chinos. Also a needlepoint belt with little beagles on it.

[Anonymous No.14933180]

>>14933168
don't care didn't ask plus you're white

[Anonymous No.14933181]

>>14933180
holy shit
>>14933168
BTFO

[Anonymous No.14933205]

>>14928789
You know the answer then. Lifestyle and personality is number one, you need them before the clothes.

>>14929050
I heard when you lose big weight your feet size also change, may not be true but look it up.
I lost weight too and what helped was two things. First, you deserve to look good, wear good fitting basics, or even better learn to sew clothes. Second, you need distraction. No looking at mirrors and dwelling about your fat. This is a long road, enjoy the ride.

>>14929321
Im a pretty big hedi fanboy too if you give a contact we can talk

>>14930437
Been there bro. I bought boots and sneakers that did not fit at all too! Cant admit how much I spent on shit. And clothes I didnt need, many, many. At one point I felt like I was too autistic, I would regret every purchase. But dont give up. I have seen sunshine and got on the right track. Keep looking and do not compromise lil bro, you will make it.

>>14931011
You are an idiot for complaining about long legs, which are peak fashion. Narrow shoulders? So what? Maybe start working out, tallfag.

>>14932386
Brainless consumer.

>>14932826
Literally just start vaping, its that easy

[Anonymous No.14933286]

>>14932386
>gold chains
>weak facial hair
>sagging
>supreme underwear
>white belt
>louis vuitton belt

BLACKED

[Anonymous No.14933714]

>>14933205
How can I contact you?

[Anonymous No.14933758]

>>14928779
I know that feel, tattooing yourself to be hard, but regretting it when the person you are has changed.

[Anonymous No.14933804]

>>14932386
>low key but expensive brands
>LV and Supreme

aka the only pieces you could afford from the only brands that Stacey knows, just neck yourself already

[Anonymous No.14934127]

>>14931235
dude, almost every man is uglier and way too lame for the girl they're dating. men never settle that's why women always have to it's like the laws of nature. so don't feel bad.

[Anonymous No.14934136]

>>14929321
>>14933205
Im in a Hedi Discord, i can see if you can get a invitation.

[Anonymous No.14934144]

>>14929321
>>14933714
Found it
https://discord.gg/Pvmd3W

[Anonymous No.14934458]

>>14933205
>Literally just start vaping
I don't want to, though. Everyone I know who moved onto vaping does it far more frequently throughout the day than the amount of cigarettes I'll get through in a day (2-3 at the most), and even then they're no closer to giving up nicotine than I am. I just want to be able to go cold turkey and not fuck up every time I get a few drinks inside of me.

Plus, I think I'd rather put my trust in the known threats of smoking than the unpredictable unknown threats of vaping, really would like to see more studies published as to its harms so I can make an informed judgement

[Anonymous No.14934683]

Why tf is this board obsessed with brand name crap

[Anonymous No.14934740]

>>14931235
this is the best way to be. don't date someone less hot than yourself

[Anonymous No.14934741]

>>14934458
iktf, i stupidly went from vaping to smoking (like 1/2 a cig every other day) because at least i can't do that indoors

[Anonymous No.14934744]

My coworker is secretly dating another coworker who I thought was cute. I wasn't attracted to her, but the news still shook me up a bit. No idea why kings

[Anonymous No.14934752]

>>14934683
You're only seeing it that way because they're brands you can't afford.

[Anonymous No.14935146]

when is the sunlight coming back it's only january fuck

[Anonymous No.14935369]

>>14930731
>gucci, versace, DG, fendi, prada, burberry
>not pure shit

[Anonymous No.14936770]

>>14928797
based lainposter

[Anonymous No.14937422]

I love Balenciaga as a brand but it being normalized amongst middle class people and rich internationals dissuades me from getting anything.

I don’t like Triple S or any of their meme pieces but it wouldn’t sit right with me if I wore it.

Pic rel is my grail

[Anonymous No.14937502]

>>14928757
I observe and learn so much about people as well yet I have a sort of forgetful mind. Sometimes I see someone and I have to think so hard and I always have this vague familiar idea of where i’ve seen their face until I have an aha moment and remember she was the nurse at the hospital when I got my blood work done or whatever. I am also quite obsessive with other people’s interpretation of me. I realized recently that every time I make a new friend, they are often flabbergasted that we are so similar. It’s like I only show them the parts of me that are relevant to them.

[Anonymous No.14938092]

>>14935146
Embrace the gloom bro
Lean into it dude
This is where you live, don't just get used to it - thrive in it. -35C where I live and I fucking love it.

[Anonymous No.14938235]

>>14935146
What's a gloomer? Also wear a bright shirt or something

[Anonymous No.14938355]

>listening to music that makes me cry
Is it effay tho?

[Anonymous No.14938367]

>>14938355
fuck yeah it is

[Anonymous No.14938372]

>>14938367
Based. Phantom of the Opera makes me cry everytiem.

[Anonymous No.14938508]

I find it hard to commit to buying quality form fitting clothes because it feels like I’m commiting to not going to the gym and getiting bigger

[Anonymous No.14940012]

i am just perpetually unhappy. no matter what i try nothing helps. i think i just have low serotonin.

[Anonymous No.14940060]

I am really struggleing with getting myself motivated to do anything after becomeing single
I have basically lost all my skateboarding progress because I can't get myself to practice anymore
even though it's my favorite hobby