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I feel like this is the worst possible place to ask this but idk /fa/ never let me down before.
I'm a tall, broad-shouldered, non-passing trans woman. How should I dress? Hiding my gross manbod is obviously a priority.

>> No.14751794

>>14751792
Chop your dick and balls off

>> No.14751808

>>14751794
That's not effay

>> No.14751817

>>14751808
it's effin gay

>> No.14751835

>>14751792
Dress like a jojo character.

>> No.14751852

How about you try wearing a fuckin noose

>> No.14751853

>>14751852
Based

>> No.14751863

>>14751792
Im really sorry about you not passing and the dysphoria that goes with it. i guess the only thing you'd feel really good in would be something distinctly female, something where you pass. i dont know if thats an option. honestly if your build is just too big, then fuck, i guess youre out of luck. i'd think it would be cool if you'd dress sort of extravagant. queer. dress in cute, feminine styles as well as masculine ones as well as fucking sequins. get on the same unapologetic wagon as ezra miller. but you dont want to go on a social mission, do you, you just want to pass. i guess there's a hundred guides...

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>>14751792
Long, flowy dresses, maybe something like pic related with a bra + airy top. Good luck anon

>> No.14753176

>>14751852
this. chances are you will.

>> No.14753192

go somewhere where they do electroshock therapy

>> No.14753259
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RIP. This is why I never transitioned. I would never be a pretty petite girl in Simone Rocha. REPRESSION.

You should start to noticing silhouettes and how cut plays into that in fashion.
For instance, don't wear structured shoulders since they'll add bulk to your shoulders. For a shirt, wear more raglan sleeved clothes since they'll draw the eye downward.

If you have a small waist wear more voluminous bottoms: skirts, straight/mom jeans, etc.


If you want an idea of what cuts can do to change silhouette look at Yohji. You'll see that his wide cuts allow for more flowing slihouettes.
Here's my advice (from a repressing tranny): when looking at clothes, detach yourself from how you think you should look, or how you want to look like the models of the clothes. Focus your eye on what the clothes do to the person's silhouette. Not much you can do about your body shape (this is why I won't transition) but you can change how your silhouette appears.

>> No.14753283

>>14751852
How original

>> No.14753284

>>14751792
try oversized blouses

>> No.14753298

>>14751852
Haha wow dude that’s pretty good you should consider a profession in comedy

>> No.14753349

>>14751792
I understand that you believe yourself to be a woman but you are not a woman and no matter how much you want to be one you never will.
You are a man, that decision was made in your mothers womb and it can't be unmade any more than an egg can be uncooked.
The sooner you come to terms with that the better because if you do you might be able to move on with your life and find some happiness.

>> No.14753359

Just dress like a total hon and revel in the fact that the entire apparatus of the state/society/media is behind you and will literally force people to comply with and affirm your desires upon threat of unemployment and social exile.

>> No.14753360
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>>14751852
Based.

>> No.14753362

>>14751792
Look into autogynephilia and the link between trannies and autism.
In all likelihood you are just a sperg that has developed a terrible fetish.
I would recommend weaning yourself off of pornography ASAP and shopping around for a mental health professional that has not been cowed into pretending helping you deeper into your delusion is the only treatment option.

>> No.14753373

>>14751792
Anon, do yourself a favour and don't ask fucking 4chan for help regarding anything

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>>14753362
>A new study out of England says that transgender and nonbinary people are also more likely to be autistic or display autistic traits than those who are cisgender.
>The research, published in the September 2019 issue of the European Psychiatry journal, studied 177 people. Of those, a total of 14% of those who were transgender or nonbinary were also autistic, while an additional 28% were not diagnosed as autistic, but displayed autistic traits.
fucking kek

>> No.14753450

>>14753362
The idea that autogynephilia makes people trans is bullshit. Research has shown that straight and gay trans women have the same abnormal brain structures even before they undergo hormone replacement therapy. Said unusual brain features, by the way, take the form of a shift toward female-typical patterns in certain regions of the brain.

https://www.jneurosci.org/content/34/46/15466

>>14753408
i.e. the majority of trans people are not autistic and don't display autistic traits.

>> No.14754172

>>14751792
You will never be a woman, and the harder you try to dress feminine the more uncomfortable you will make the people around you. It will fool nobody, you will just look more and more deranged and pathetic. If you continue transitioning, you will kill any chance of anyone finding you attractive and you will likely die alone. Just get help, quit watching porn and learn to dress the body you have in a normal way.

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First of all, delete your 4chan account. People here will only make you miserable, especially on /tttt/.

Second, since you did not even bother googling a problem for which there are literally dozens of pages of solutions on the internet I suspect you are just baiting and using this to hate on trans women. Which, by the way, will NEVER be men.

>> No.14754323

>>14753450
>i.e. the majority of trans people are not autistic and don't display autistic traits.
>it's only 42% of trans people, gais!
but that is an extremely high correlation considering that only 1% of the world population are autistic.
don't understate it to make yourself feel better.

>> No.14754329

>>14751852
based

>> No.14754336

>>14753450
like 20% of non trans non gay men have so called female brains, theres literally no such things (its a primitive notion in the first place) just general traits thats tend to show up in either gender, OF COURSE feminine men are more likely to become trannies or gays but most men with so called female brain patterns and structures are not. Youre a dude, bro

https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/confirmed-theres-no-such-thing-male-or-female-brain-180957417/

>> No.14754340

>>14751792
Stop jerking off, take zinc and magnesium, lift weights everyday, and get a job that takes up at least 50% of your day. Take testosterone and maybe have a go at mushrooms or some shit and meditate until you come back to the reality of who you are. See a psychiatrist, stay off 4chan and whatever tranny bullshit discords you use.

Do this for a couple years, and if it doesnt work try the ol "shoot yourself in the head method".

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14754491

>tfw you and this thread will get nuked for talking back but these bastards get a free pass to post off topic /pol/ shit

>>14754336
1. Hence "female-typical". These are group-level differences but they are significant. You can guess a person's sex just by looking at their brain some 93% of the time.
https://www.pnas.org/content/113/14/E1968
2. That was not the point. The point was that straight and gay trans women have the exact same neural markers. This contradicts Blanchard's typology.

The identical twin of a trans male has a ~33.3% chance of being trans as well. Being trans correlates with genes that reduce one's sensitivity to the dominant sex hormones of one's sex. Trans people, even before undergoing HRT, tend to respond to certain stimuli (like androstadienone) in a sex-atypical manner. Why is that? Seriously. Consider why that's the case instead of reaching for simple answers. I'm not saying that trans people are "actually the other sex inside" or whatever but there's a reason why the theory that transness is caused by exposure to an abnormal amount of cross-sex hormones during one's natal development is extremely popular among doctors.


>>14754323
Here's the study in question:
https://www.europsy-journal.com/article/S0924-93381930101-4/fulltext

It also found that 3% of cis males have autism, meaning that it overestimated the prevalence by a factor of three. That already puts the veracity of the rest of the data into question. Can we also divide the rest of the figures in three? What's more, it found that 5% of trans women have been diagnosed with autism. The correlation exists but we're still talking about a small minority.

The study's methodology was.. posting surveys in Facebook groups?
>The survey was distributed on eight Facebook groups, which acted as support groups for transgender individuals.
>The survey was also shared on three other general Facebook groups which targeted Anglia Ruskin students..

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>tfw you and this thread will get nuked for talking back but these bastards get a free pass to post off topic /pol/ shit

>>14754336
1. Hence "female-typical". These are group-level differences but they are significant. You can guess a person's sex just by looking at their brain some 93% of the time.
https://www.pnas.org/content/113/14/E1968
2. That was not the point. The point was that straight and gay trans women have the exact same neural markers. This contradicts Blanchard's typology.

The identical twin of a trans male has a ~33.3% chance of being trans as well. Being trans correlates with genes that reduce one's sensitivity to the dominant sex hormones of one's sex. Trans people, even before undergoing HRT, tend to respond to certain stimuli (like androstadienone) in a sex-atypical manner. Why is that? Seriously. Consider why that's the case instead of reaching for simple answers. I'm not saying that trans people are "actually the other sex inside" or whatever but there's a reason why the theory that transness is caused by exposure to an abnormal amount of cross-sex hormones during one's natal development is extremely popular among doctors.


>>14754323
Here's the study in question:
https://www.europsy-journal.com/article/S0924-93381930101-4/fulltext

It also found that 11% of cis males have autism. That's off by an order of magnitude and already puts the veracity of the rest of the data into question. Can we also divide the rest of the figures by 11? What's more, it found that only 5% of trans women have been diagnosed with autism, with another 16% having autistic traits. The correlation is there but the data is suspect.

The study's methodology was.. posting surveys in Facebook groups?
>The survey was distributed on eight Facebook groups, which acted as support groups for transgender individuals.
>The survey was also shared on three other general Facebook groups which targeted Anglia Ruskin students..

>> No.14754542

>>14754518
tl;dr
can somebody give me a quick rundown?

>> No.14754594

If you’re not passing you will never be /fa/, harsh but that’s how it is