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14361099 No.14361099[DELETED]  [Reply] [Original]

Well anon?

>> No.14361100

>>14361099
I do

>> No.14361103

Haven't left the house in years.

>> No.14361114 [DELETED] 
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14361114

I had a not really dating thing that fell apart a few months ago and im just focusing on finishing my degree

>> No.14361118

>>14361103
/thread
Fucking retarded OP.

>> No.14361158

Severe mental and physical illness

>> No.14361162

im an incel

>> No.14361189

Crippling self-doubt

>> No.14361193

>>14361099
i can't find one i'm interested in as a person

>> No.14361201

>>14361099
she left, the bitch

>> No.14361203

Because I'm my boyfriend's girlfriend

>> No.14361257

>>14361099
because I'm gay

>> No.14361263

Because I'm uninteresting, depressing and have bad self-worth and confidence. I've just started therapy sessions though so I'm excited to better my mental health over the coming months and put myself out there :)

>> No.14361267

>>14361099
focusing on life
also good at being single

>> No.14361275

>>14361099
I am a boring loser

>> No.14361277

the cheating cunt left, do what I want, when I want

>> No.14361278

I plucked my eyebrows too much and they're of uneven length

>> No.14361279

jew nose

>> No.14361289

i have one but i feel like shes losing interest in me feel horrible right now i cant fucking sleep

>> No.14361330

>>14361279
how curved is it? I'm half Jewish and si I just have a big angular nose, and I've been told it makes me look more masculine.

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14361342

you've been asking this for years anime lady

>> No.14361349

>>14361289
end it first, say its because you need to find yourself. Then do what ever you want

>> No.14361383

>>14361257
haha me too

>> No.14361677

>>14361099
I spend all my free time on solitary hobbies in my house, and nobody ever invites me to anything

>> No.14361680

>>14361099
BECAUSE I HAVE A SHITTY PERSONALITY.

Happy now?

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>>14361099
Because i am psychopath... :(
>>14361342
Oh no, how did we sink so low, we need to crawl out of this hole before darkens grabs a hold and takes our soul

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>>14361099
Gay girls are annoying.

>> No.14361707

Because I'm narcissistic yet have no confidence in myself.

>> No.14361720

>>14361099
... but i do.

>> No.14361751
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14361751

Modern online dating is an arena of egotistical women who too often are entitled losers, single-mothers and disgusting drunkards. I wouldn't know where to meet attractive, intellectual or career-oriented women who are interesting and can hold an interesting conversation for more than five minutes. The companionship would be nice and I certainly have my own flaws, but 20-something American women are overwhelmingly devoid of substance or self-respect.

>> No.14361760

Because I'm lazy

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>>14361751
Cringe...

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>>14361760
This, just have fun in your life, dont focus
your life around girls. Be free.

>> No.14361778

>>14361263
This, but without making any effort to better myself

>> No.14361786

>>14361751
Pathetic cope...
Even so, why not just avoid "online dating" you fucking incel...?
Also you find them at your work or (if you weren't such a garbage fucking loser) at a university.
... Most likely you are just a huge faggot trying to project his homoerotic insecurities out on girls

>> No.14361882

>>14361099
Because I'm an ugly NEET

>> No.14361888

>>14361786
I don't use online dating anymore for these aforementioned reason- there's been several studies that have shown men on aggregate ratings of womens looks follows a bell curve distribution, whereas women rate between 70-80% of men as below average. This shows how distorted and entitled young women have become, which is fine honestly, let them be as miserable as they'd like. Once again, I readily admit I have many flaws myself and am not entitled to date women just because I exist.

To your second point, if you had a career more advanced than being a Starbucks barista, you would understand that is a terrible idea. Dating someone in the large engineering firm I work in could only end poorly, because any rumor could spread negatively true or not, and HR at any company will side with women 9/10 times versus a man- it would be career suicide

Come back with valid criticisms, I would not mind continuing

>> No.14361889

>>14361099
I'm 6'2, 175lbs of twink muscle, 8" dick, cute boy face and crippling self doubt, my only chance is with girl who show obvious interest in me and that doesn't happen much because I seem to have an intimidating presence.

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>>14361888
> let them be miserable
Bc you don't sound miserable. And if you're scared of a woman at work starting rumors about you better not date any woman on social media. If you were capable of being in that top percent of men you wouldn't have this opinion. Maybe one day you'll meet a woman to change your C A R E E R O R I E N T E D pathetic life.
>>14361889
Unironically smile more fren it helps :)

>> No.14361969
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>>14361099
Because girls don't deserve me.

Quite honestly most women bore me:
If they smoke i'm turned off.
If they drink i'm outta there.
if they're stupid. i'm bored.
if they're mean, i'm bored.
if they're trying to use me, i'm outta there.
if they don't workout, not interested.
If the mind is lazy, the body is lazy, Who cares?

>> No.14361987

I was just way too autistic for a relationship
now my social competence and self-confidence is much better, so I am getting into online dating
wish me luck :)

>> No.14361992

>>14361969
cringe

>> No.14362019

>>14361099

I'm too old fashioned for a boyfriend. Apparently I'm expected to have a huge social media presence to collect as many orbiters as possible, sporadically text with them to keep them around, and test-fuck them all to see who is boyfriend material. Well, that's not how I want it to go. And I'm definitely not having sex with someone I'm not attracted or already committed to, yikes. Besides, most guys at uni are still kids.

>> No.14362024

>>14361099
Because I don't use tiege hanley

>> No.14362028

>>14361099
Because I'm not interested in a relationship rn. Life is too turbulent for me to handle it.

>> No.14362031

>>14361099
I haven't met a girl as effay as me. I'm not about to go around with some dumb bitch who can't even dress properly jfc

>> No.14362035

>>14361099
It doesn't matter to me. I'm not old enough for girls to be more than a status symbol, i.e. i can't marry or start a family with them. I had to go through one breakup already and that was one of the worst experiences i ever had.
My looks are below average and ok if i put in effort. I'm not spending my time playing a game that i can't win.

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14362084

Daily reminder that if you can't get a gf you probably have underlying personal issues you need to work on before even thinking about a relationship

>> No.14362098

>>14361099
I want a boyfriend

>> No.14362102

>>14361751
This but unironically
American girls aren't worth the effort

>> No.14362107

>>14361257
wassup my homo homies

>> No.14362118

>>14362084
That's not even the biggest problem. It's not like many of these people can't get a gf, they don't even try. Or want to in the first place.

>> No.14362147

>>14362118
>they don't even try. Or want to in the first place.
Sounds like an underlying personal issue to me

>> No.14362169

>>14362019
what's your ideal guy like?

>> No.14362177

>>14361099
Too expensive.

>> No.14362202

>>14362147
Yeah, I agree. I mean some of the guys I know are pretty ugly and stupid and also uninteresting as people but they still fuck good-looking girls while I've seen some 8/10 looking anons that were whining about how they can't get some pussy cuz they're ugly or something.

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>>14362169
200 cm
20 cm
20 000$ a month

>> No.14362220

I have high standards, I'm tiring to be around, and I don't use social media or dating apps. I still occasionally have a hook up, but I've learned that I don't make a good boyfriend, and I think most women are vapid.

Damn. That was a good session. How much do I owe you?

>> No.14362346

>>14361099
I'm a grill

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14362367

>>14361099

>> No.14362395

>>14361969
Based

>> No.14362400

>>14361099
im very passive and basically a pussy bitch

>> No.14362403

>>14361947
I do try to smile and be approachable, I tend to do good in groups, but when it gets personal 1on1 I can't get myself to open up. I guess I still feel betrayed by my ex, I went about the relationship wrong, I feel like I got fucked over in the end when she came back just to use me for a bit. Now I can't put myself out there to strangers after being betrayed by the person I trusted the most, and I don't like being dishonest with someone I'm trying to get close to, even if it's omitting the truth, though I realize now that it's necessary. Part of the problem is I'm still kind of a hopeless romantic but being much more grounded in reality I feel that part of me being eaten away, I don't want to treat a girl like that if she's just interested in dick, but I don't like treating them like shit, which is what works in my experience. Why the fuck did my dad have to be such a pussy, all my uncles raised Chads and I'm here wanting to know a girl's feelings, fucking why? My brother is worse.

>> No.14362406

>>14362367
As a teenager I could have checked most of these boxes. As a 30 year old I can only check Sex, Fun, and Don't actually want one. When I stopped seeking out relationships and let them come naturally, I started ending up in better relationships and enjoying my relationship-free time more.

I also feel like I have more positive interactions with women when I'm no longer viewing everyone as a potential partner.

>> No.14362467

>>14361704
Stop being gay then

>> No.14362475

>>14361969
so basicly you want a insta gym thot?

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14362477

Broke up with my first recently and theres another one but Im super autistic

>> No.14362478

>>14362467
But transitioning makes people ugly.

>> No.14362505

>>14361099
I'm always worried of going too far too quickly and then they eventually lose interest because I went too slow.

>> No.14362524

>>14362107
Nothing much my homobre, trying to set up a date with this twink but our schedules are hard to line up.

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>>14361099
but I do have a girlfriend anon.

>> No.14362665

>>14361099
I'm socially retarded, I don't know how to approach women or engage in relationships

>> No.14362695

>>14361099
I've never had a conversation with a female.
No, not even my mother.

>> No.14362697

>>14362695
Lol

>> No.14362698

>>14361099
I'm married.
AMA

>> No.14362703

>>14361888
> there's been several studies that have shown men on aggregate ratings of womens looks follows a bell curve distribution, whereas women rate between 70-80% of men as below average. This shows how distorted and entitled young women have become

Females of all species have always been biologically wired to think this way. Males want as many mates as possible while females want the BEST mate. This still carries over in women despite monogamous marriages being the norm today.
My point is that this is not a result of women recently becoming more "entitled." It's just that they have always been this way to ensure they have a mate who has the genes to create strong offspring and the resources to raise them.

>> No.14362717

I'm currently the third party in 2 open relationships. Don't need a GF and most women I meet think I'm "afraid of commitment" and don't want to pursue

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>>14362698
Can i fuck your wife?

>> No.14362732

I'm either self-centered or I just can't stand the personalities of women. Not sure which.

>> No.14362755

>>14362722
Can I have sex with you, L Lawliet?

>> No.14362762

>>14361099
Because I have a wife I have been married to for 6 years. We were both each other's first. Living the trad dream here. Reminder it's over if you've ever hooked up.

>> No.14362767

>>14362762
Wrong.

>> No.14362769

>>14362762
I'm my current GF's first and I almost feel sorry for her. I have so many stories and experiences that I'll always remember that she just doesn't have unless I recreate them all and even then.

>> No.14362794

>>14362767
cope

>>14362769
It's over

>> No.14362796

>>14361263
just fucking smoke weed, d00d

>> No.14362801

>>14362794
*rubs my feet on your belly*

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>>14362367
I feel like 50% of this diagram. last tinder date gave me enough validation to last me couple more months. I got over the fantasy aspects after my sad lonely teenage years and it did genuinely improve my life. as for obligation I've discovered that even with a gf I'm a failure at life which feed into insecurity and never trying. last time it started to get serious with a girl I found out about that "you don't actually want one" real quick. I don't really know why because I want romantic partnership and the girl hit most of the things I thought I was looking for, smart, thicc, sweet, energetic and still I felt nothing. I wonder if ill ever find "love" or if ill die a sad bachelor. I think maybe its the amount of attention they desire? girls really be wanting you to carry a text conversation FOR them when you already dating them. I don't have the energy for that kind of emotional labour. I'm 24, any old farts out there know if this is another of those things that improve with age?

Getting girls would be much easier if I could just attain that one quality I somehow achieve when im already in a relationship, because whenever I am girls start giving me "the look"

>> No.14362873

>>14362830
It actually gets worse with the more women you've been around. Except after a certain age, if you keep yourself together, it gets easier to keep women around. As long as you don't want kids yourself but don't flatout say that.

>> No.14362964

Because I don't have the guts to ask her

>> No.14362969

>>14362830
>girls really be wanting you to carry a text conversation FOR them when you already dating them
we have something called FRIENDS that we enjoy talking to more than our boyfriends jeez it sounds like you need some.

>> No.14363007

>>14362755
Don't reply to him.

>> No.14363030

>>14362830

Called pre-selection - if a woman has chosen you, then everyone is thinking, he must have some redeeming features.

>> No.14363046

Severe superiority complex

>> No.14363061

>>14361888
Nice blog, you're right.

>> No.14363063

Haven't found someone I like beyond physical attraction yet.

>> No.14363069

I was too scared to ask out the last girl I was interested in and it wasn't until I moved away that she was interested in me too and now my heart is irreparable.

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>>14362969

>> No.14363075

>>14363072
that looks yummy.

>> No.14363154

I am probably 6.5/10 at best and I have a high standard.

I also
>have depression
>esoteric interests
>easily bored with normie conversations
>can see through bullshit

>> No.14363187

>>14361947
Pursuing a relationship with a coworker in a consulting company can only end poorly, the fact that you don't recognize how bad this would be demonstrates you either work a retail job, a dead-end job, or a position that has little to no responsibilities. You may find it hard to believe considering your myopia, but as someone passionate about their career, it is something you will do your damnedest not to sabotage.

>> No.14363208

I'm 25 and I still live at my parents and I'm broke

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Honestly why should I even bother at this point?
I'm actually incapable of imagining another person being attracted to me, that's not a figure of speech, I genuinely can't figure out why the fuck any woman (or man for that matter, this isn't limited to romantic relationships) would want to spend time with me.
It's not like I'm fat or smelly or anything, I just can't relate to other people. And lately I've been realizing that I don't really want to, it's just the feelings of inadequacy that trick me into thinking I want to be someone else when I'm actually satisfied with being an introverted nerd.
So yeah I'll probably get a hooker this year just to see what it's like but aside from that I'm probably not gonna bother, doesn't seem worth it to me.

>> No.14363858

>>14361099
Because girlfriends aren't effay, anon