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[Anonymous No.13877737]

Let it out /fa/

[Anonymous No.13877738]

Wish I was taller :/

[Anonymous No.13877739]

Is there any way to make my penis smaller? Shit bums me out

[Anonymous No.13877740]

>a girl will never truly like me because of my physical appearance
thanks God

[Anonymous No.13877743]

>>13877738
>>13877739

[Anonymous No.13877748]

>>13877737
I understand, I want to get out of low self esteem and anxiety but for some reason I don't take any step towards achieving that. I know what I have to do to get out..Why can't I just do it?
>tfw brainlet.

[Anonymous No.13877755]

I don't understand, I want to stop having low self esteem and anxiety but for some reason I don't take any step towards achieving that. I know what I have to do to get better..Why can't I just do it?
>tfw brainlet.

[Anonymous No.13877757]

>>13877755
External locus of control

[Anonymous No.13877778]

>>13877737
i don't find anything fun

[Anonymous No.13877780]

I ordered shoes that are half a size too big and now I'm stuck with them

[Anonymous No.13877783]

>>13877780
can't return?

[Anonymous No.13877789]

>>13877783
I can do an exchange at a store, but I'm not sure if the store actually has the ones that I ordered online.

[Anonymous No.13877791]

>>13877737
I ruined my life , Im weak

[Anonymous No.13877792]

>>13877789
maybe another location? not sure what the exact situation is but shitty regardless

[Anonymous No.13877793]

>>13877780
i did this but with a size too small :/

[Anonymous No.13877796]

>>13877792
According to Google the next closest one is 2.5 hours away. I'll just stuff them with tissue or something... I fucking hate my life

[Anonymous No.13877797]

>>13877738
Sam here anon. Fellow 5’7 manlet who dresses really well but I feel like my outfits would look so much better if I was at least 5’10. :-(

[Anonymous No.13877804]

>>13877737
i wish my genetics where worse haha

[Anonymous No.13877805]

>>13877796
what are they, also I'd be really surprised if you couldn't ship to exchange

[Anonymous No.13877808]

>>13877780
Better too big than too small anon. Do they actually "feel" too big, or do they just "look" too big.

[Anonymous No.13877810]

I'm going to call in the morning and see what my options are

[Anonymous No.13877813]

>>13877808
They look just fine, but my toes don't quite reach where they should

[Anonymous No.13877816]

I now look great, but I have a personally that women don't like

[Anonymous No.13877818]

>>13877737
>Spent a grand during black friday weekend online, excited
>choose 3 day shipping since its free
>shipped on monday morning, items in transit
>canadian postal workers go on strike on tuesday 12am midnight
>items now not in transit, expected delivery unknown
why didn't I just choose 1-day shipping, it literally cost $20.

[Anonymous No.13877822]

>>13877818
if you're dropping a rack an extra twenty isn't even a question

[Anonymous No.13877826]

>Thinking about buying item
>Waits too long to make a decision
>Finally decides to buy
>Sold out
>tfw I should've brought it earlier

[Anonymous No.13877830]

>>13877780
just double sock it you'll be fine

[Anonymous No.13877852]

>>13877780
Heel liners

[Anonymous No.13877853]

my face is very asymmetrical and i want to die

[Anonymous No.13877859]

I hate my inability to talk to women. I went down to London last week and had 2 solid chances to speak to girls who were actually interested in me. I feel like shit about it but it's given me an incentive to improve myself and I shall try again. I just couldn't think of the right words to say and it kills me that afterwards I knew exactly what to say, which is basically just "hi"

[Anonymous No.13877864]

>>13877853
Can look rugged and aggressive some girls dig it. You should start dressing to fit it more relaxed and scummy

[Anonymous No.13877866]

>>13877859
they're just people like you and me mane
nothing to be afraid of
also the majority of people have some form of social anxiety even if it doesn't seem like it
keep trying :^]

[Anonymous No.13877867]

>>13877826
Que sera, if it was too big on your waist why buy it its just phantom regret

[Anonymous No.13877871]

>>13877866
Thanks man, first time I've actually felt so shitty about something like this so it's probably time I start doing something about it, looking at doing salsa classes or something to boost my confidence abit

[Anonymous No.13877873]

>>13877864
I have a babyface at 22. It's not happening for awhile :(

[Anonymous No.13877881]

>>13877816
How can you be sure ALL women don't like your personality? Seems like you're shooting yourself in the foot there mate which makes it understandable as to why you think you won't get on with people.
Aint the womans fault, she doesn't know you, only you know you and you're stopping yourself by having such negative attitudes

[Anonymous No.13877885]

>>13877871
just look them straight in the eye, speak clearly, don't let you voice falter
I'd strongly recommend doing literally anything that forces you out of comfort zone and into a social situation
even if you're out grocery shopping or anywhere similar just try and chat up the female clerk scanning your stuff
over time you'll start to get comfortable with and continue building courage
I'm rooting for you and everyone else that struggles like this

[Anonymous No.13877899]

>>13877885
Good advice, ill stop using the self service scanners in shops. It's annoying I feel like I can hold a conversation well but I just cant initiate which girls seem to need you to do, life would be much easier if girls started conversion with guys but I guess im not of that level of attractiveness.

Thanks for the suggestions im going to take a proactive view on this from now on

[Anonymous No.13877909]

>>13877826
I had that exact feeling, but not this time, this time I jumped into the future, saw myself having that feeling, and I added to cart and checked out, then later i was looking at it, and it was sold out, but instead of feeling like i missed out, i realized I had bought it. You have to go forward into the future to see if you will have that regret feeling, or if you have the bad feeling, i had the bad feeling also, where i buy and immediately regret. There will be another sale in a couple weeks before christmas, dont worry. Then another after boxing day.

[Anonymous No.13877912]

I'm pretty hot, dress really well for my shitty flyover state, and have a good personality/know how to talk to people. Only thing is, I'm a talentless hack coasting through engineering school bc math comes to me easy. All I want to do is create by im way to adhd to ever stick to something long enough to become decent. It's starting to give me a huge inferiority complex.

[Anonymous No.13877915]

>>13877912
Why don't you cop a script for that self diagnosed ADHD like the majority of this complacent shit hole country

[Anonymous No.13877917]

>>13877915
I did in HS, after like a year it made me feel like utter fucking garbage on the comedown. Maybe I should just suck it up and use again? It probably would help. Thanks for the idea anon

[Anonymous No.13877918]

>>13877917
Be wary of what you're doing for sure. Ritalin and Adderall are absolutely beyond horrible for your body but if you feel like it's worth it go for it.

[Anonymous No.13877925]

>>13877881
Thank you anon. You are a good person.

[Anonymous No.13877928]

>>13877918
It sorta feels worth, but my body has been taking a lot of damage for the past few years as it is. My light smoking habit and god awful diet are starting to make me feel physical pain

[Anonymous No.13877931]

I hate my personality
>tfw I'm the 'funny friend'
>tfe try to be serious but everyone laughs at me

[Anonymous No.13877933]

>>13877928
How old are you? I'm assuming older than 18 but younger than 25 if you're still in school

[Anonymous No.13877938]

>>13877933
im 21 anon

[Anonymous No.13877942]

no matter how nice i dress, how nice i look, or how nice i am, it will never change how much my pathetic height cancels out all of those

[Anonymous No.13877943]

im so anti social that i can't hold a serious conversation for longer than 2 minutes. all i can do is meme and talk about the same 2 topics

[Anonymous No.13877944]

>>13877931
oof I've been through this. It takes a lot of work but you essentially have to completely rebrand. It helps if you can meet new people who don't have preconceived notions about you.
It's not an awful position to be in anon, at least you are funny which in my experience can take you a long way once you do start to become more serious. Just whatever you do don't make jokes are your own expense, thats not cool yo.

[Anonymous No.13877945]

>>13877909
Stop this, please.

[Anonymous No.13877947]

>>13877938
Take the doctor's advice seriously, it can do a lot of damage while you're still developing.
>>13877942
How tall are you?
>>13877943
What's the other topic?

[Anonymous No.13877950]

>>13877947
5'1"
dont bother saying shit about puberty im well beyond that

[Anonymous No.13877960]

>>13877950
post pics 5'1 is kinda cute

[Anonymous No.13877963]

>>13877960
seconding, post pics for mommy

[Anonymous No.13877964]

>>13877950
I wasn't going to anyway. I think anyone that's more than below average should just work on their confidence. Height isn't everything after all.

[Anonymous No.13877966]

>>13877947
music but i always feel condescending. i think my problem is im consistently negative. i cant help but complain or always see the glass half empty

[Anonymous No.13877969]

>>13877966
Hey man I'm same the way, I have interest in a few more things but I'm always negative. I just don't complain about shit.

[Anonymous No.13877988]

I fell for the Common Projects meme

[Anonymous No.13878014]

>>13877988
it's ok anon. at least you now realize it was just a meme. have a paw.

[Anonymous No.13878018]

i have a 5head that shows when the wind blows my hair out of place (which is all the time where i live) and i can't pull off the aesthetic i'm going for because of it. thinking of shaving it all off but the people around me say i'll look worse if i do. also been binging on candies recently and noticing the skinnyfat roll in. just wish my hairline was nice baka.

[Anonymous No.13878026]

I bought a huge black trenchcoat and a fucking cape on a kilosale last week. Thought they looked different and its fun so why not. Im so FUCKING dumb, who made me this STUPID. I can do a school shooting and defeat sauron on the next day

[Anonymous No.13878035]

>>13878018
just cut those bangs dog
>>13878026
I don't know what the hell a kilosale is but why don't you just return them

[Anonymous No.13878042]

>>13878018
You don't have a fivehead though

[Anonymous No.13878068]

>>13878035
Its a vintage sale the price is by kilo. Its used clothing so i cant.

[Anonymous No.13878070]

>>13878068
Then it surely couldn't have been that expensive right? The sales like that here are usually like 25 cents or a dollar a pound. I'd just toss them and forget about it.

[Anonymous No.13878077]

>>13878018
looks masculine, embrace it, slick it back.

[Anonymous No.13878106]

>>13878077
this is shit advice

[Anonymous No.13878167]

>used to bike a lot so heavy legs and wimp upper body
>be poorfag in poorfag shithole
>literally no regular or straight fit pants in available shops fit my ass tights and calves
>wear cheap jeans from bazaar that look like shit
>my only gray pants are getting torn
every time I get reminded about this I feel like crying

[Anonymous No.13878170]

>>13878167
just take them to a tailor and have them tapered, super cheap and definitely worth it

[Anonymous No.13878175]

>>13878167
post ass pics

[Anonymous No.13878248]

>>13877873
start drinking and smoking more frequently, it will fuck up your skin and make you look older

[Anonymous No.13878255]

>life is pointless

>I have completed my collection of designer pieces
>I have a cute girlfriend
>I have money
>still want to kill myself

Everything is pointless. Not even depressed.

[Anonymous No.13878266]

>>13877816
There is no such thing. Your face doesn't look great. you are just an aspie fashioncel.
Your face is is your personality to women

[Anonymous No.13878317]

>>13877950
fuck brah, that's rough
if I woke up and was 5'1 I don't think I'd even last a week

[Anonymous No.13878342]

>>13877804
What is wrong with you.
> I wish I was poorer lol
>I wish I was in poorer health lol
>I wish I was homeless lol
>I wish I wasn't white lol

[Anonymous No.13878436]

>>13877737
Just wish I was skinny.

If I don’t land this job to pay this semester of tuition I’m going to have to wait another whole ass year to finally graduate

[Anonymous No.13878439]

>>13877737
I have moobs, and I fear they are not just fat, but glandular tissue as well, so my only hope of ever becoming effay is by way of surgery.

[Anonymous No.13878570]

>>13877737
I’m only into fashion because I’m ugly but no matter how nice I dress I’m still a virgin

[Anonymous No.13878574]

>>13877804
Like how bad? I mean, I'm 5'4" and rather ugly in the face. I can put on nice clothes and only look like a freak in nice clothes. That's been why I don't even try at dressing good. So tell me why you want bad genetics.

[Anonymous No.13878596]

i can't match the flame in my girlfriend's eyes - i love her, but the fiery passion i felt toward the one before her left my emotions reduced to cinders.
it feels like i'm cheating on her.
i finally have a girl i can proudly call my own, one that i dreamed of for years, yet in the end i resort to lies.
why does the ride never end, anons? why can't i just force myself to be happy? i just want to be happy

[Anonymous No.13878645]

>>13878167
Buy athletic fit from the Gap or Old Navy. I have the same problem from the sports/lifting I do and they fit really well.

[Anonymous No.13878691]

>>13878070
35€ per kilo. That's 66€ for the two pieces. Its not that its a huge amount of money but it stings just how fucking shit my taste is

[Anonymous No.13878718]

>>13877931
Yeah iktf. People expect you to always be funny, then in the end you start worrying if you're just actually the butt of other people's jokes and they don't actually like you.

[Anonymous No.13878730]

>>13878255
>not even depressed
I think maybe you are. But that's OK, you can still get help :)

[Anonymous No.13878734]

apparently i have hpv and im terrified to go to the doctor on the chance i have something else i didnt know about

[Anonymous No.13878735]

>>13878734
Aids

[Anonymous No.13878737]

>>13878735
probably double aids

[Anonymous No.13878882]

>>13877931
>”but doctor, I am Pagliacci”

[Anonymous No.13878903]

>>13878882
Is this an insult? I googled it and I relate :(
How to escape this feel

[Anonymous No.13878905]

>>13878734

if it helps, a pretty big percentage of ppl have hpv

[Anonymous No.13878916]

>>13878903
Not an insult. Someone above mentioned rebranding and that seems like a solid option. Sadly being a FunnyMan really cripples your support system since your actions/feelings are eventually viewed as cartoonish :/

[Anonymous No.13878922]

im fat

[Anonymous No.13878935]

have gyno
started gaining muscle and probably a bit of fat, want to get bigger but it means all my clothes will start not fitting (t-shirts are getting a bit tight already) ;(
recently shaved my beard off because 'i dont need a beard to be manly!' but it's only hammered home that i have no chin and a bit of an overbite so either i have to hide behind a beard as a cope or hate my reflection/photos of me for the rest of my life

[Anonymous No.13878950]

>>13878935
Then hate yourself as you are, not live a lie. You are doing the right thing in the long run, you’ll thank yourself later.

[Anonymous No.13878959]

with an improved fashion sense started getting more attention
but it didn't stop and now I'm getting too much attention:
I can't compliment people anymore or they go on a fad about how if "YOU say it, it must mean a lot" and they start an entire scene about how even I complimented them
my coworkers think that I'd believe I'd be too good for them, they never ask me for any favors, treat me like I'd be some sort of supervisor
girls think I'd be out of their league, they downtalk other guys when we see them and tell me how this or that would be wannabe me or how he can't pull off something like I do. I can't ask them out either a girl I actually had a crush on before responded that I'm too nice to her and shouldn't give her false hope after I literally said "I would totally go out with you"
I can't have lazy days anymore. I'm afraid to go even grocery shopping underdressed and scared that once I stop it all comes tumbling down
I don't find time for videogames anymore because all I do online is browse webstores or read fashion related news/articles
I'm getting addicted to nosespray because I now think I couldn't allow myself to have a stuffy nose in public
the only reason I went to this board years ago was because I wanted to stop being depressed all the time and wanted to socialise with people again
I started out isolated but now I'm isolated at the other end of the line. people now talk to me but I'm not part of them
for me nothing changed I don't feel good at all

[Anonymous No.13878970]

>>13878950
but if a bit of facial hair legitimately makes me look better, isn't that preferable all round?

[Anonymous No.13878975]

>>13878959
Just chill out

[Anonymous No.13878998]

>>13877943
I'm the same way, I know exactly how long I can talk to people for (usually 5 mins for friends, 1-2 for strangers) and I'm always aware of it.

[Anonymous No.13879006]

>>13878018
Mine is about that big and I'm planning on buzzing after work. Just do it, even if it looks bad

[Anonymous No.13879032]

>>13877743
kek'd

[Anonymous No.13879042]

I don't know how to pair tops and bottoms so I'm thinking of only wearing dresses for the rest of my life even though it makes me look lazy.

[Anonymous No.13879052]

>>13878970
If you agree with the philosophy that women wearing makeup (maybe plastic surgery) is still who they are/what they look like undernearth.

I personally deal with what I’ve been dealt and accept/love myself for how I am no matter what, but I understand not everyone agrees with that.

If you think it looks better and doesn’t bother you then why not?

[Anonymous No.13879064]

I'm fucked. I've wasted so much of my life.

[Anonymous No.13879065]

>>13877899
Not the person you replied to but you remind me of past me. I have gotten a lot better by forcing myself into these situations, doing stuff I wouldn't normally do just to get more social interaction. You mentioned proactivity which reminded me of the book I'm currently reading "7 habits of highly effective people" which sounds like your usual self help crap with 7 magic tricks to turn your life around but actually is the very opposite. Bestseller from '97 so you know it's not a fad. Have read ~20% and it sounds great so far, maybe even lifechanging.

[Anonymous No.13879168]

>>13877780
Update. I can exchange them for a smaller pair, but the fucking shoes won't be here until next Tuesday. I hope to God they aren't out of stock online by then.

[Anonymous No.13879203]

I'm 22, 5'6" and babyfaced. I wish I was taller and looked like a man.

[Anonymous No.13879204]

>>13879203
Transition. :^)

[Anonymous No.13879209]

>>13879204
Sorry, I'm not mentally ill otherwise I would.

[Anonymous No.13879264]

>>13878596
>ignored again
ay fuck you mang

[Anonymous No.13879276]

>ordered a stapler
>ordered a bigger stapler because i need to staple big
>have two staplers

[Anonymous No.13879290]

i'm not confident

[Anonymous No.13879291]

>>13879209
I'd rather be mentally ill than be 5'6

[Anonymous No.13879346]

>going to a big clubnight this weekend
>ordered 2 pairs of boots a while ago
>mfw none of them arrived yet
>mfw will have to wear old ones that splatter the back of my legs with dirt while walking

I really hope I'm won't need to walk outside in the muddy snow

Bonus feel:
>hope that drugs will make my social anxiety go away and make me forget about how shitty the past year has been

[Anonymous No.13879360]

I do really well with women when I get a chance but I am basically never in a situation where I can meet new girls. Obviously I want a gf but also meeting new girls is fun even if nothing comes of it, and I feel like I’m missing out.

[Anonymous No.13879369]

I still have acne well into my twenties and my hair is thinning rapidly. Pretty sure I will end it in the next year.

[Anonymous No.13879375]

i have body dysphoria and I get sad every time i look in the mirror even though I have am objectively amazing wardrobe

[Anonymous No.13879401]

>>13877943
Me too. I have many things to talk about but I hate everyone around me. Well, perhaps not hate but I dislike their personalities and most people just bore me

[Anonymous No.13879408]

>>13877737

Ordered one of those things that looked really good in photos, but looked kinda shit on video. Only way to find out is to see it live, which will be tomorrow. Wish me luck.

[Anonymous No.13879566]

I'm fucking ugly, no girls want me, I was cursed at birth with my genetics. I'll forever live an ugly life

[Anonymous No.13879584]

>>13879291
I'm sure you would.

[Anonymous No.13880270]

I were always aware about my bottom part of the body being somehow wrong. Around 15 i've realized that i have wide hips. It has been almost 11 years and I still cant get over it. It became some kind of trauma and ruined my life.

[Anonymous No.13880386]

>>13878439
same problem.
Also balding worse than 90% of this board and am only 19.

[Anonymous No.13880401]

i want to develop deep connections with people around me and develop meaningful friendships but i fear i dislike people too much to actually go through with it. I get the urge to do so many social things but then when presented the chance to do it i find reasons not to or look down on it for whatever reason. I hate who i am.

[Anonymous No.13880528]

>>13880401
How old are you?

You sound like me when I was younger. At some point I realized that I only wanted to fit into some kind of socialization and never really saw any sense in it myself. I realized that I do not really enjoy human company and social rituals. I do not need to associate myself with any kind of culture or grouping. 90% of people are plain idiots and not worth my time anyway.

[Anonymous No.13880537]

>>13877743
underrated post

[Anonymous No.13880559]

i'm such an awkward size that literally everything is a little too big or a little too small and i have thin receding hair and shit style and can't afford clothes and i'm the wrong gender and can't disappoint my family by transitioning and my meds are making me fat and i'm afriad i lied to myself for so long i started to believe it and i'm not actually ill and my memory is going to shit and i'm as dumb as a rock and i hate myself and want to die every day
at least i've got music to listen to

[Anonymous No.13880567]

>>13879276
kek

[Anonymous No.13880812]

It's too late to transition

[Anonymous No.13880876]

I come off as really aggressive and blunt even though I'm just trying to be honest and truthful. like, when people come to me with issues I will tell them my opinion even if it means I have to tell the person who came to me for help that they were in the wrong.

Sometimes I wonder if it's even my problem or if people are just used to be coddled with continuous white lies to maintain social normalcy.

I'm sick of people asking "how are you?" and when I give any response that isn't "good" they look at me like I just spat in their coffee.

[Anonymous No.13880879]

>>13880401
>i want to develop deep connections with people around me and develop meaningful friendships
i feel that one bro

[Anonymous No.13880897]

>bi
>lived in two pretty gay places
>still never had bf

[Anonymous No.13880932]

>>13878255
Was in this situation
> gave up on money to persue a nicer life
> gave up on designer clothes and standing out, started buying basics
> gave up on girlfriend, didn’t break up, haven’t had sex in months
> still think about killing myself

Eh, suicidal thoughts might just be normal I think. If they aren’t then maybe they just come with the territory of diverse perspective.

I wish something good would happen to me; something with really low probability but high value. A miracle, like people suddenly start understanding my art, or i become famous or something. But I know the probability is zero.

[Anonymous No.13880935]

>>13880932
you sound like a teenager

[Anonymous No.13880938]

>>13878574
just wanna be 5'7 twink so i can wear literally anything on the planet i want, its annoying when youre trying to go androgynous and youre 6'6 350lbs and literally nothing fits

[Anonymous No.13880943]

>>13878342
aesthetic reasons, youre not in my position so you really cant comment on anytrhing

[Anonymous No.13880948]

>>13880897
slide queen

[Anonymous No.13880990]

>>13878905
yea i guess but its just really jarring to find out
really has tore me up to be honest

[Anonymous No.13881065]

>>13880948
What?

[Anonymous No.13881066]

>>13877743
Based

[Anonymous No.13881082]

>>13877780
>mfw bought pic related in size 11
>mfw im size 9.5
>mfw im 5'7
Life's a bitch

[Anonymous No.13881178]

I'm planning to ask someone out later today. We've spoken before albeit briefly due to having a mutual friend. I don't have my hopes up, there's no need to get ahead of myself but, I'm not doubting myself. It's just that I've been alone for so many years and I can't bare it. Yes, I have all of these clothes, all of this music, all of this stuff but it can't replace human touch.

Here's to hoping all goes well. For not only me but the rest of you in this thread, both posters and lurkers.

[Anonymous No.13881181]

>tfw pretty blatant twink
>tfw no chad bf to ruffle my hair

I think I might have resting bitch face or something

[Anonymous No.13881498]

i hate my cheeks and my mouth. my cheeks are pretty puffy, which doesnt translate to the rest of my skeleton body at all. also my mouth is really, really small and i hate it.

[Anonymous No.13881676]

>>13880812
no fucking way...most passable transition I have ever seen

[Anonymous No.13881727]

>>13880537
I second this

[Anonymous No.13881772]

>>13878255
I have suicidal thoughts every day. I'm sure that even if I was rich I would still think about it every day.

[Anonymous No.13881804]

>>13881181
iktf

[Anonymous No.13882139]

I'm too poor to be effay and I've gained so much weight that almost all my clothes are too tight for me. Also I'm a kissless virgin failure

[Anonymous No.13882161]

>>13877743
hahahahahahahaha

[Anonymous No.13882164]

>>13882139
Those are all issues you can solve. Save money, lose weight, improve attitude/ social skills.

[Anonymous No.13882180]

>>13881065
retard

[Anonymous No.13882241]

>>13882139
>too poor
Thrift stores can have a lot of good /fa/ stuff.

>gained so much weight
Eat more veggies and less sugar. Exercise. Always eat slightly less than you want to.

>kissless virgin failure
Be excellent and confident. You can do this.

[Anonymous No.13882262]

>>13882139
>too poor to be effay
Nonsense.

[Anonymous No.13882265]

>>13877743

[Anonymous No.13882279]

>>13877881
nearly no women think calling someone a "fagget" is a funny insult : /

[Anonymous No.13882287]

>>13877950
>tfw 5'2"
I'm with you brother
All you have to do is get fit and gain some confidence. Also make sure you buy clothes that fit you properly. I was a short chubby kid and I overcompensated for my stature by hiding my body with baggy clothes. Looking back, it's one of the worst choices I made and I had to buy all new clothes once I realized my wrongs.

[Anonymous No.13882309]

>>13878959
Do this >>13878975
Do you put on an act in front of other people? I don't have the same popular person issues as you, but I always felt alienated from others because I always tried to act like someone else in front of them. I would constantly feel on edge to the point where even just sitting in class would make me uncomfortable because I was worried what other people were thinking about me. I used to think "be yourself" was shit advice that belonged in Hallmark movies until I started doing it. Fuck everyone else, and be genuine. Don't know if that'll help, but it worked for me and I'm doing a little better now.

[Anonymous No.13882310]

>Need winter boots
>See cool non winter boots on sale
>Don't need them
>Really want them
>Everyone says they look dumb
>After days of them sitting in the cart I wake up in the middle of the night and buy them impulsively
>Still need snow boots
>Tfw

[Anonymous No.13882314]

>>13877737
I'm 5'10 and have a 30 inch sleeve if that. All jackets and most shirts are 4 inches too long in the arms. It's either getting things with cuffs on the end or tailoring

[Anonymous No.13882339]

>>13880876
Anon people don't want your help they just want someone to listen while they vent. Most of the time they already know how to handle their problems, it's just cathartic to tell someone else about it. And "how are you" is almost always rhetorical.. These are hidden social cues you're supposed to be picking up on.

Imagine if I walk into work one day and my boss goes "how are you anon?" while walking past and I just stop and go "not so great my cat died and my grandma is in the hospital and my gf cheated on me." That would be incredibly inappropriate. Just nod and say 'good, you?' Don't burden others.

[Anonymous No.13882348]

>>13880876
you sound autistic. if you can't understand social nuances like "how are you?', you really have no right to get mad at everyone else in the country for doing it "differently"

[Anonymous No.13882354]

>>13880876
I would only tell people who I know well or care about the absolute truth if they ask how you're doing

[Anonymous No.13882360]

haven't been here since like 2014 and this is the first thread? lol this board is fucking dead

[Anonymous No.13882361]

>>13877737
da gubbermint is taking all my monies cause I droved drunk and I'm very sorry and wont do it again, but they don't care.

[Anonymous No.13882368]

>>13882360
Its not even 4chan anymore
This is basically reddit

[Anonymous No.13882536]

20, Been trying to bulk up a little for a few years but so lanky 6'5" that it feels impossible. Also got skinny wrists, big hands, big feet, long neck and a big head that stick out from the rest of me. Wouldn't say I'm unattractive just wish I was bigger and less semi-twink looking. Happy that my gf is so tiny it doesn't even matter to her.

[Anonymous No.13882547]

>>13877737
>have mild acne scars from picking at face like a dumb bitch in early hs (just graduated)
>love fashion and dress well but don't have the income to really dress how I'd like yet
>how I dress is the only thing I have going because my face is so fucking ugly. literally look like a costco pizza
>also have hyperhidrosis
>will never have a bf because of my face and my sweat

feels real bad, man

[Anonymous No.13883645]

>>13881082
those shits are ugly anyway you're good

[Anonymous No.13883678]

>>13882139
You're me. I'm a poor virgin chubster. My whole wardrobe is secondhand online or thrifted. I try to be healthy, but I'm Americant and like shitty McDonald's. And I kinda wear my kissless virgin status with pride. Maybe I'll attain my wizard powers some day.

[Anonymous No.13883679]

>Got my first pair of Yeezys today, Butters actually.
>Sold a ton of streetwear lately to fund a trip to Japan
>Depression has been on the low lately
>Started watching anime again
>Really want pants like pic related but dunno any cheaper alternative to Yohji

[Anonymous No.13883687]

>>13882361
kek

[Anonymous No.13883734]

>>13879064

[Anonymous No.13883738]

>>13882361
you should have died in a car crash. fucking ridiculous and beyond selfish you stupid faggot

[Anonymous No.13883807]

>>13883679
What about cheaper Yohji (like his other lines Ground Y and stuff)

[Anonymous No.13883819]

>>13883679
Try finding Yohji pants cheap on Yahoo Japan auctions or on Rakuten or something bruh

[Anonymous No.13883937]

>>13878018
it isn't that bad honestly

[Anonymous No.13883950]

>>13883679
search harem pants on sites like aliexpress

[Anonymous No.13883957]

>>13881178
I hope it went well anon.

[Anonymous No.13884186]

I'm 6'4, but am not content with my physique (Bone man) and am very self-conscious about my weak chin and jaw. At least I have high cheek-bones and look well from the front, but from the side I don't look good.

[Anonymous No.13884192]

I've officially had a gf for a month now (after a pretty long time) and I can't help but think thast she doesn't love me, I'm not good enough and she's still with me because sh'e ashamed to break up with me/is mocking me
I know I'm insane

[Anonymous No.13884203]

>>13884192
dude its just been a month

[Anonymous No.13884204]

>>13884203
Yeah, I know. I only get these thoughts when I'm all alone and my anxiety gets the better of me. I'm getting better at controling it, though. To think that about her makes me feel like shit. I'll get better anon. Just waiting for the sunny days, and the Gf is helping me get there.

[Anonymous No.13884273]

>>13883679
>ShuiT
Based

[Anonymous No.13884281]

8lbs overweight and looking like a pig and seeing old skelly photos of myself makes me want to scream.

[Anonymous No.13884355]

>>13882339
Often they might not know how to fix their situation. I worked as a salesman so I'd argue I know well how people behave and what they seek. However, often they don't know what they really seek and constructive feedback and advice can be better for them in the long term than comforting words, especially if you have experienced exactly the same as others.

[Anonymous No.13884633]

>>13878439
Are you chubby/skinny fat?

Even if it is gyno you'd be surprised by how much difference shedding a few pounds can make. I dropped a 5-10kg in a short period of time a few years back (when I started hitting the gym) and my chest looked flat as a board when I had clothes on, which was a marked improvement over what it looked like before.

And if you do hit the gym prioritise your upper chest.

[Anonymous No.13884652]

>>13883957
It didn't. She gave me her number. Problem is, she really can't hold a conversation, and as much as I try to keep it flowing, it doesn't really go anywhere. Turns out, she's like that with everyone so I didn't take it personal. That's life, it is how it is, y'know? Can't say I'm not a tad bit bummed out though.

[Anonymous No.13884689]

>>13877859
bro conversation is a skill just like anything else man


On one hand it means that you might be a lot worse off the bat then others but on the other hand it means it's something that can be improved

Check out some books on talking to people/making connections (I don't mean pick up artist bullshit I mean more like books directed at business connections and the likes -- the underlying concepts are the same)

also practice bruv just shoot your shot and get rejected. over time you'll get better so why not start now?

[Anonymous No.13884776]

>>13883950
>recommending ChinkExpress
Yikes

[Anonymous No.13884780]

>>13877737
I’ve lost 30 lbs but need to lose another 30 but I’m being a fat fuck and can’t stop eating because I’m always surrounded by people at social events

[Anonymous No.13884924]

Manlet with a normal torso and short legs is SUFFERING

I only look normal from the waist up

[Anonymous No.13884934]

>move to LA
>plan to radically change life, eat healthy, work out, dress better, go to uni and pursue career
>one semester in, no friends, still eating junk food and playing video games all day, do nothing but work wageslave job and go to school to keep head above water

How do i get out of the meat grinder bois

[Anonymous No.13884945]

I'm sick and tired of being fat. I'm trying really god damn hard to cut the weight, and I've been making progress, but the transition is so fucking hard. I can't tuck in shirts without muffin topping everywhere and looking like a lump of shit. I can't wear t-shirts without boobing out everywhere. God I just fucking hate it. I want to die every time I see myself in the mirror.

[Anonymous No.13884964]

>>13884780
>>13884934
>>13884945
literally the answer to all of your problems is go on an EC stack. Avoid it if you have any heart/cardio issues.

[Anonymous No.13885163]

>>13884964
I'm really not fat, maybe a bit chubby but my problem is moreso lack of motivation. I looked into EC stack though and it does sound interesting

[Anonymous No.13885582]

I love clothes because they hide the moles I have all over my chest, it's my biggest insecurity

[Anonymous No.13885594]

>>13884964
EC stacks do nothing for people that are actually fat, all they do is give normal people a bit of an edge. if you're the type of person that eats cake because they feel sad or are retarded and don't know that soda makes you fat, then taking some gas station adderall isn't really going to help. it probably only helps you burn an extra 100cal anyways.

[Anonymous No.13885606]

>>13878734
delete tinder

[Anonymous No.13885612]

>>13880812
this is the first transition I've seen which I wouldn't look twice at

[Anonymous No.13885712]

Go to work, go home, have no life. Haven't had gf since high school 8 years ago. Stuck in a rut and never get myself out of it.

[Anonymous No.13885729]

>>13877738
i wish i was a baller

[Anonymous No.13885740]

>>13885594
you understand that EC stacks are powerfull appetite suppressants too right? Thats the biggest reason people even take it because Adderall is superior for mental focus. You're right that it doesnt fix the mental aspect of overeating but it at least eliminates all physical and metabolic desire for food and that counts for something and will make restricting easier.

>>13885163
>my problem is moreso lack of motivation
sounds like something that eliminates physical need for hunger and provides your CNS with consistent increased stimulation and energy to focus might be something that you want, like an EC stack.

[Anonymous No.13885749]

>>13877791
I did too, ruined my life as a woman, dad told me today all I have to look forward to in life is being on the production line at a plant. No prince charming for me :(

[Anonymous No.13885751]

>current gf is a legit art hoe
>only merit being that she is a weeb like me and has loaded parents
>my parents hate her so much but the sex is the best I've ever had

Bros..

[Anonymous No.13885753]

>>13885751
wtf is the problem?

[Anonymous No.13885754]

>>13885751
Post pic or you're larping

[Anonymous No.13885846]

>>13885751
There's no problem. You're just bragging.

[Anonymous No.13885860]

I'm going to lose the only true friend I've got. We don't talk much to begin with due to my nature. I'm impulsive, miserable, and routinely trash their taste in everything. I don't know why I do it. It's because I'm angry with myself, most likely, so I project it out onto them. I've admitted things to them which make me seem like a heartless bastard. They're the last friend of mine. I can't seem to form bonds with new people either -- I'm to blame and yet I can't resolve the problem at hand.

[Anonymous No.13885892]

the look people give me for having tattoos that you can't cover makes me feel more human

[Anonymous No.13885912]

Super cute and effay girl (she’s been scouted by local modeling agencies) in one of my classes seems to be really into me, but our last class is on thursday so if I don’t grow some balls and ask her out within a week I may never see her again. I should have done something a while ago but I’m super insecure—I’ve never actually asked anyone out before.

[Anonymous No.13885914]

>>13878255
>>13878730
>>13880932
>>13881772
Can I join the discord as well?

[Anonymous No.13885917]

>>13877737
i like this girl a lot and its fucking scary because she likes me too and im always thinking about her and we go on dates and its the best time of my life and now when im not with her i feel like shit and just constantly thinking about her and i dont wanna smother her and ruin it. i also wish i was taller im one inch away from 6ft and my fucking dad hates me and i wanna cut ties but my mom died and i cant because the thought of life without him is more terrifying than death becasue he is all i have

[Anonymous No.13885939]

>>13885749
Did you fall fir the tranny meme

[Anonymous No.13885963]

>Have really bad social anxiety
>Never had friends and only talked with people on sites like 4chan and GameFaqs
>Father is sympathetic and has constantly made the effort to try and be my only friend
>Open up a bit from time spent with him
>He's always been interested in fashion and has a pretty good collection of Burberry garments
>Has several Made In England trenches
>Gives me one
>whatthefuckamisupposedtodowiththis.gif
>Come to /fa/ and lurk for years
>use this as a foundation for my style
>fell heavy for the Norse Projects and over all Scandinavian minimalist meme
>Father is legitimately impressed with my fits
>Takes me to a friend of his that owns a boutique / consignment shop
>Gives me a FW08 Alexander McQueen knit sweater for free
>since then I've gotten a job there and have used it as a way to overcome my anxiety and develop social skills
>Father has this shining sense of accomplishment in him and I'm so glad to not have let him down

My style hasn't really changed since but I do kind of look back on it and cringe.

Fuck Acne Studios though

[Anonymous No.13885974]

>>13885963
What do you look back on and cringe about? This is legitimately cool, good for you man :^]

[Anonymous No.13885982]

>Tinder
>match with qt Asian girl
>go to her dorm and snoop through her closet while she changes
>Its all aritzia and TNA yoga garbage
>hints of F21 and H&M
>Kinda disgusted but fuck her anyways
>Nut in the direction of her closet out of spite
>She doesn't even care

Good pussy

[Anonymous No.13885991]

>>13885982
You literally just detailed having sex with a girl and enjoying it, but I'm convinced you're gay.

[Anonymous No.13886011]

>Be me 17
>Shy so I don't know many people
>Hear from my buddy that a -2/10 is going to ask me to prom today
>Get out of class
>Pass 6/10 on stairwell
>never seen her before
>say fuck it and ask her to prom right there no plan
>she says yes
hell_yeah.jpg
>we end up dating for 2 years
>we break up when I leave for uni
>still don't know how to meet girls
>not ugly but i have acne
>no confidence in social situations with new people

How do I stop being a shy beta

[Anonymous No.13886021]

>>13886011
God damn talking to people, male or female or otherwise, is so fucking easy. Literally look them in the eye, speak clearly, and don't let your voice falter. That's fucking it. Almost every other person on the planet has some kind of social anxiety even if it's not noticeable or prevalent. It really helps if you have a good sense of humor or can speak in a generally lighthearted tone, but that's not some major deal breaker. Nobody is going to laugh in your face, nobody is going to point and make fun of you, nobody is going to publicly crucify you for talking to them. Just walk up to somebody and say what's up, it's that simple.

[Anonymous No.13886043]

>>13885740
EC stacks are hardly appetite suppressants if you have a shit mental state that you eat cakes to make yourself feel better, you'l still eat on a stack. it's not some magic pill

[Anonymous No.13886063]

Painted my nails because I think it looks cool on both guys and girls. Got weird stares all day then realized I had to remove it before Thanksgiving so my family wouldnt make fun of me even more

[Anonymous No.13886066]

>>13886063
What color did you paint them? I think that looks cool too so you should have kept it.

[Anonymous No.13886067]

>>13886066
Black because I feel its a neutral color for all, and fits with what I wear a lot

[Anonymous No.13886091]

I just want a good pair of pants

[Anonymous No.13886103]

>>13886011
>How do I stop having anxiety

I don't know, face your fears, learn from them? Stop identifying with it and making everything about yourself? Get off 4chan? Pretty much everyone has issues with it and everyone learns from it.

[Anonymous No.13886126]

>>13884652
Oh I totally fucking get that, dude. My recent ex is the absolute worst to talk to. No fucking emotion with all the "ok"s and "yeah"s. It was painful to keep a conversation.

[Anonymous No.13886217]

>>13884924
it's ok anon, focus on the positive things you have in your life.

[Anonymous No.13886222]

>>13886011
you are not supposed to be on this site you . this is over 18 website. jesuss fucking christ. kill yourself.

[Anonymous No.13886228]

>>13877755
start taking anti-depressants for anxiety

[Anonymous No.13886251]

feels like my relationship with my internet girlfriend is all take and no give
she doesn't even want to do basic favors for me when she has nothing else to do despite those favors having the ability to alleviate stress on me
ive tried talking to her about it and she just doesnt say anything and doesnt take anything on board

[Anonymous No.13886263]

>>13886251
is this word salad just complaining your e-gf won't send you lewds hahaha holy shit dude

[Anonymous No.13886291]

>>13877755
>>13877757
>>13886228
im in the same position but for me it feels like i know i wont be happy if i had the things i dont, like money, gf, meaningful job i like, etc. I have low self worth and believe even if i had high self worth and believed i was a valuable human being i would still be unhappy so i exist in limbo.

[Anonymous No.13886354]

I'm a grill who isn't ugly but isn't beautiful either

Finding a good bf is hard

All I want is someone above my league intellect / culture wise, looks I can do without

But nope, no luck

[Anonymous No.13886363]

>>13886291
I have something similar. Came into college a kissless pathetic virgin. Thought after I had my first kiss I would be happy, but ended up giving me temporary happiness. Thought after getting laid I would be happy, same thing. Girlfriend, same thing. Internship, same thing. I think that at the end of the day life is about trying to fill up the void with temporary happiness. Life is suffering and happiness is just a pit stop in life.

[Anonymous No.13886366]

>>13886363
hopefully we will die soon instead of having to figure out how to an hero in the future brother

[Anonymous No.13886409]

>>13886354
Smug little fuckhead, neck yourself.

[Anonymous No.13886412]

>>13886363
you should look into taoism

[Anonymous No.13886426]

my life has deteriorated to the point im taking mdma every night and listening to 4chan related podcasts, fuck my life
I just got through this
https://youtu.be/y1S9BRkJz6A
it makes me feel less lonely

[Anonymous No.13886445]

man at the end of the day fashion and that shit doesn't matter. Wish I could've fought in some war or something, I love uniforms.

[Anonymous No.13886460]

>>13886445
what did you just say about /fa/ you little bitch

[Anonymous No.13886466]

>>13886445
fuuuuuck ikr????? why couldn't i have been born in a different generation??? war is fuckin badass, man i hate ninth grade too so i totally like feel you

[Anonymous No.13886520]

>>13886354
define intellect and culture

[Anonymous No.13886524]

>>13882339
>coddled with lies to maintain social normalcy

[Anonymous No.13886538]

>>13886520
it is what you think it is, someone who is smart and someone who is cultured beats someone who is hot any day

[Anonymous No.13886679]

>>13886217
Thanks family, i dont have much to be positive about right now either though. But I will try

[Anonymous No.13886684]

>>13885740
All sounds good, maybe i'll try it.

One thing though, how do i get out of the ritualistic aspect of eating? Idk if its OCD or autism or what but i cant get work done if i dont take a lunch break and relax in the middle of the day. Its just.. habit, idk how id remove that

[Anonymous No.13886710]

>>13886063
I had to stop painting my nails because of work, it sucks

[Anonymous No.13886753]

>got out of a 3 year relation
>been so much time since i forgot how to talk to girls

fucking why

[Anonymous No.13886762]

>>13885963
Nice, I still don't get the fuck Acne -part. Literally the best thing out of the Scandiscene, that is otherwise absolutely disgusting. I live in in Northern Europe and everyone who sports that style is so predictable, they all like the same things. Definition of npc's. Acne atleast has bit of edge to it, colours especially and some of the more experimental pieces

[Anonymous No.13886874]

>f
>tfw want a thigh gap
>tfw losing more weight causes my face to thin out and I look gaunt
>tfw people were nicer to me when i was fatter

surgery is a no for this area too, lots of nerve damage and loose skin woes.

[Anonymous No.13886880]

>>13880932
Suicidal thoughts are not normal, but you can have them without being depressed. I think it may be genetic for certain men to want to die but i have no proof

[Anonymous No.13886977]

>>13877737
nothing authentic anymore, everything pretentious in some way , even me writing this

[Anonymous No.13887017]

>>13878255
it's easy to get trapped in the 'life is pointless' mentality, but the point of life is to experience things, learn lessons. that being said, try psychadellics, LSD, Psilocybin, DMT. u could come out with a different perspective, new found appreciation for the beauty of life beyond all da bullshit

[Anonymous No.13887030]

>>13886874
drink water and take care of your skin you dumb whore

[Anonymous No.13887031]

i put all my opps in Ah Group Chat and told them *link up ! i want all da smoke ! _SLATT ! Fuc it !

[Anonymous No.13887035]

why the FUCK are t-shirts made these days so fucking LONG
look at this shit, its like a fuckin dress. i'm gonna have to tuck it in or spend even more getting it tailored

[Anonymous No.13887149]

>>13887030
That bitch is a retard.

[Anonymous No.13887217]

>>13886762

Visiting Stockholm this week for the hell of it. Things to do/look out for?

[Anonymous No.13887224]

>Can't find a good barber/hairstylist
>Mustache doesn't connect with beard
>Bacne
>Porn addiction
>Been eating like shit
>haven't been to the gym in 3 weeks
>procrastinating my research
>Moving across the country, leaving friends and family behind.
>losing my edge in flirting, can't even maintain eye contact with friends anymore.
>Running out of Bleu de Chanel
>Think I smell weird.
>Can never tell if breath smells bad
>Medication makes it difficult to get an erection, saps confidence.


>lonely
>scared
Wish someone would hold me.

[Anonymous No.13887755]

>>13886354
If he's above your league in that stuff in particular he'll get bored of you.

[Anonymous No.13887775]

she just left me
started shooting heroin again today after staying clean for 4 years
don’t fall for the love meme bros
pic related

[Anonymous No.13887816]

>>13887217
V A S A
B O A T
measeum...seriously

[Anonymous No.13887904]

>>13887775
Why'd she leave?

[Anonymous No.13887916]

>>13887775
stop hurting yourself bro, it's not what she would want

[Anonymous No.13887953]

>>13887031
based and slimepilled

[Anonymous No.13888243]

>>13887035
man i thought i was the only one. compared to shirts from a few years ago which fitting me fine, the shirts i bought in the recent years are long af

fuck these gay fashion designers for doing that. not one single t-shirt has a norm size anymore. they should hang from trees for this

[Anonymous No.13888252]

>>13887224
All of this except I can't flirt, don't go to the gym and don't have a career or education that would enable me to do research.
Got a nearly full bottle of Bleu de Chanel though so there's that l guess.

[Anonymous No.13888273]

>>13885963
Wholesome story, anon

[Anonymous No.13888538]

>>13887017
I find it hard to believe you can get your hands on LSD in this day and age

[Anonymous No.13888543]

>>13885963
legitimately heartwarming

[Anonymous No.13888562]

>>13886538
how exactly would you plan to find these "smart" people?

[Anonymous No.13888862]

>>13887904
she saw a whatsapp chat of me talking to my best friend (girl) and went crazy
but i think that’s just an excuse and she just wanted out without it being her fault
the worst part is that she left in the night while i was asleep next to her. woke up alone
>>13887916
i don’t think she cares that much bro

[Anonymous No.13888868]

>>13887224
You can fix some of those things at least
Keep your head up bro

[Anonymous No.13888872]

>>13886538
>someone who is smart and someone who is cultured beats someone who is hot any day
top kek. The ideal partner is someone who is hot and wholesome, being "cultured" is a sham tbqhf.

[Anonymous No.13888889]

> finally found a good screenshot for the thread
> it's archived =(

[Anonymous No.13889097]

>>13877743
Lol

[Anonymous No.13889301]

My heart is broken, the girl i still love that turned me down years ago is all i can ever think about. Even though i have a female friend who is good looking and loves me i can't fucking find myself to even attempt to commit progress our relationship. Am i fucking gay or am i just fucked for the rest of my life?

[Anonymous No.13889305]

>>13889301
Maybe gay, but not fucked for the rest of your life, unless you're gay and you want that

[Anonymous No.13889406]

>>13886263
not specifically that, but that is true
it was something else that prompted me to make the post

[Anonymous No.13889414]

I am envious of a close friend. She's more fashionable than me, wealthier than me, has more connections than me, and so on, and so forth. She isn't even attractive but knows her angles, her lighting, or what have you so it doesn't even matter. She's constantly being showered in attention, compliments, everything. I can't take it anymore. I have to do something about it. She's trusted me with very personal, quite embarrassing information no one else knows regarding her feelings, insecurities, and things like that. I've been considering spreading that information around. On the other hand, I've been thinking of other malicious acts. Don't worry CIA & FBI, I'm not talking about murder, just shit to make her fuck off for good. She suffers from "depression" and similar "illnesses" as is, maybe I could exploit her emotionally, and suck her ass dry, then leave her to rot on the roadside. She has no idea that I'm resentful of her with every morsel in my body. God, I can't even stand seeing her in person. I just want to fucking rip her skin off that flat fucking face of hers. So much for being a doll, so much for being so "fine", so much for being "pretty", or whatever fucking shit people tell her. It's driving me fucking crazy - something has to be done.

[Anonymous No.13889422]

>>13877737
>want to dress well year round and have fun with my family and friends
>live in florida, so i have to wear a shirt and shorts 99% of the time
>parents are lazy, poor, and disabled
>never been good at making friends

It feels like no one ever does anything. Do people even care about anything anymore? I just wanted to live a nice life. I guess I can still provide that to my kids, if I ever have any, but I feel like I've been cheated out of a lot. Everything feels dull.

[Anonymous No.13889426]

>>13889422
floridas widely agreed to be the worst state in the union for many reasons
have you considered moving away and caring about something yourself? generally that will attract other people who care about things
that being said 95% of people on Earth are in it for a quick fuck or a quick buck

[Anonymous No.13889429]

>>13889414
I have been keeping note of her problems. Usually, she'll rant, and let it all out at once. I have nearly everything, come to think of it but, I know there's more she isn't telling me; I've yet to coax that out of her. Soon, I will. Ranging from her father's alcoholism to her fear of romantic relationships. Oh, can't forget the time she popped a ton of pills, passed out, and woke up in some losers bed. That was a good one, I made sure to keep that one underlined. She's totally clueless of this. As far as she knows, I'm a supportive friend, someone to rant to, someone who cares. I've collected all of this information, down to the minuscule things, and yet I haven't found a purpose for it. Something's got to give. Obviously, I can't physically harm her. I mean, I've gotten her to side against a childhood friend of hers with no biggie, so maybe things aren't as bleak as I thought. Maybe, under the guise of drinking, I'll accidentally spill some of her close kept information to gossipy friends, especially some who aren't all too favorable of her. It's all I think about. I sit up at night, contemplating how I'll fuck her over. I'm deserving of the praise she receives from others, I'm deserving of the attention, I'm deserving of the friendships, I'm deserving of the connections, I'm deserving of everything.

[Anonymous No.13889434]

>>13879290
>>13879064
>>13879203
>>13878922
>>13879369
>>13879375
>>13886874

We all gonna make it brehs. Hit the gym regularly and testosterone rise alone will make it feel much easier. Physical gains will transform into social gains. Keep on grinding.

[Anonymous No.13889452]

http://dichotomytests.com

Not very surprised by my results yet slightly disappointed that I’ve become this way. Guess I am what I am, no use running from it

[Anonymous No.13889478]

>>13889414
>>13889429
Take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror and realise maybe you are the fuckhead. What a shit friend you are. How dare you say you are a close friend to this women. Don't you fucking go playing with other peoples lives you cunt. Work on yourself instead of trying to bring other down with you because you are a petty jealous bitch. One day you might grow up and realise "Hey I don't like this person im just gonna stop being friends with them. Not "Hey I dont like this person im going to ruin there life because im jealous". You haven't done anything yet you can still be redeemed but jesus fuck look at yourself.

[Anonymous No.13889500]

>>13879168
ask if they can hold a pair for you

also half a size is fuck all, why are you so butthurt

[Anonymous No.13889786]

I feel very sad, I want to see my family and my old friends but I'm stuck in a city far away

[Anonymous No.13889808]

>>13886222
You’re legit a fucking retard. Learn to read dumb fuck. kys

[Anonymous No.13890225]

>>13889452
Fundamentally an egoist's dream would also be his enemy, because whilst making everything possible, you also make it possible for everyone else to fuck you.

I can't speak for all men but I find that if ambitious men were not romantic then they would kill themselves. It's society which gives men this half-hearted idea of such a romanticism being eventually requited that they do not kill themselves, precisely to create fugue states in them to remain alive and subservient towards society and it's protection. I was pleased to get "Rousseauian", I find his views equally endearing. The danger with a complete acknowledgement of nihilism is that you're inclined to forget why exactly people invented morals in the first place. Once you figure out the choice you have of what you choose to protect, you can strip yourself of the inclinations to protect what is expected and focus on the protection of things you value (i.e. the goal is to put your higher values in a freezer and let the detritus rot)

[Anonymous No.13890246]

>>13889414
lmao u crazy like actually crazy, not even crazy people as crazy as u

[Anonymous No.13890254]

>>13889414
fat

[Anonymous No.13890263]

>>13889452
>>13890225
these words are too big for a brainlet like me, what kind of person am i?

[Anonymous No.13890278]

>tfw ywn be a tall, handsome Chad with broad shoulders and narrow hips
What's the point

[Anonymous No.13890284]

>>13890263
I can't say, I believe that most men are decent until too heavily influenced by society.
The most important thing you can do is retain your ambitions and not flinch under pressure.

[Anonymous No.13890306]

>>13890284
thank u based anon <3

[Anonymous No.13890319]

>>13889414
>>13889429
Please seek mental help immediately

[Anonymous No.13890393]

>>13885912
Do it man. try to imagine the convo first, obviously don’t make a full plan but visualising how it could go at the start does make it easier I think. When u do that, imagine the whole scene : your surroundings, yours and her body langage, etc.

Here is my (quite comical) story : three years ago, i missed the opportunity to talk to this girl at university who seemed to be into me (kept smiling shyly, staring etc). During the whole year I thought I would somehow end up talking to her, but every time i saw her I was in absolute panic. I haven’t forgot her, man, three fucking years... I guess that’s what u call a limerence. But it gets better : I actually saw her -twice !- in another university (my current one) this september. The first time, she smiled and looked away, and I noticed the resemblance 5 min later, not really believing it was her, yet I was hoping. A week later, she was sitting in the last row of my amphitheater and i got completely shook seeing her. I went to the toilet to get my shit together and wait for my hands to stop shaking. Alas, some friends were waiting outside and I didn’t knew what to say for them to leave me alone, so I could FUCKING finally speak to this girl. I think she was waiting in front of the building, back turned, I couldn’t look up to see if it was her when I passed, I pretended to care about whatever that girl on my side was saying... Sperged out again. At the time I thought that I’ll just see her the next day or week since we have this class in common : WRONG. I haven’t seen her since. A comical couple of plot twists!

[Anonymous No.13890422]

>>13885912
>>13890393
PS : remember that if she is into you, it doesn’t matter if you say the “wrong thing”, mumble or stutter, blush, or fucking whatever. She’ll be glad u asked and u being shy will simply make her laugh and/or she’ll think it’s cute.
You can’t do anything wrong if she is the right person for you! Best of luck man, how old are you btw?

[Anonymous No.13890471]

>>13889452
>nihilist and romanic
how do you exist
>>13890225
>you also make it possible for everyone else to fuck you.
You seem like an intelligent enough egoist to avoid pitfalls like this though, no?
>>13890263
You're high in altruism, spiritualism, and asceticism which means you value peoples well-being and development.

[Anonymous No.13890520]

>>13890471
I'll take that complement as humbly as I can, however I should note that I'm not completely in agreement with Egoism. By nature it's a selfish ideology, now I don't think that's morally good/bad etc, it's just an objective I don't think is compatible in the social structure today. Of course it would be ideal in a time without law, like the wild west. It's almost impossible to succeed without an entourage of a certain kind today, that is not to say these entourages should be considered flawless, however to suspend others success for your own you need to inevitably sustain that entourage with some kind of prosperity. This is where it gets tricky. Living within the system as an egoist is akin to being a spy, that is not aligning with anything, so how can you enable others to let you succeed on your own terms? It's not sustainable because your ends are only accumulated through either the individual or a dictator's bent (not possible since Mussolini etc.). The most successful Egoist's are actually enterprise-heavy CEO's. The difficulty of egoism herein is that the richer you become, the more attention you might accrue which spoils your chances of further exploiting your interest without being "busted" for lack of a better term. Better still to cater to your goals that already exist within the system than to bother with infractions. Imagine being an nudist whilst being an egoist, I can't imagine a worse fate.

[Anonymous No.13891008]

>>13878342
> wanting to be white
Lol

[Anonymous No.13891817]

>>13889434
>Physical gains will transform into social gains
tell that to /fit/

[Anonymous No.13891826]

>>13887224
get back in the gym and join a parks & recs team/activity that is coed. we're all gonna make it man. just stay positive. it's cliche but the hardest part is realizing you have to make changes. you've already made progress. don't forget that, the second hardest part is acting on it. now is your moment.

[Anonymous No.13891853]

18 year old college freshman on the way to thin from skinnyfat. Been doing intermittent fasting for 3 months and I’m 4 pounds away from my goal weight. Finally getting contacts at the beginning of next year. Just gotta get through finals week and life’s good bros

[Anonymous No.13891868]

>>13891853
now start hitting your uni gym and you'll make it.

[Anonymous No.13891876]

>>13891868
Yeah, once I hit my goal weight I’m gonna start lifting for the first time in my life, gonna have a long journey ahead of me, but it’ll be worth it

[Anonymous No.13891896]

>>13891876
>once I hit my goal weight I’m gonna start lifting
hit your goal m8 but it's never 2 early to hit the gym. you will probably shed that 4 faster than you'd think and soon start putting on but seeing it in gains not fat.

[Anonymous No.13891922]

>childhood friend dies from cancer
>friend from teenage years dead due to heart disease
>gf of 5 years committed suicide due to depression with drug overdose
>all this happens in 3 years time
>fast forward many years later
>met a girl, thought she was the one, together for 2 years only to find out she have another boyfriend overseas all this time
>left me and married the guy
>a year later met another girl
>we were together for eight months and suddenly shes gone awol
>two months later shes getting married to someone else
Why am I still alive?

I think I should just buy that sports car I always wanted and kill myself by driving fast and crashing into something.

[Anonymous No.13891946]

>>13891896
honestly the best thing to do is just get to very low bf% first, you will lose more muscle mass going from for example 14% bf to 20% while bulking then trying to cut 10% in bodyfat while retaining muscle, its much more efficient to just get to 10%, bulk to 15, then cut to 10

[Anonymous No.13891950]

>>13891946
whatever works for you anon. as long as you have a plan. i just want to see you make it.

[Anonymous No.13891952]

>>13891950
im not him but thanks for the indirect compliment

[Anonymous No.13891966]

>>13878255
>good grades
>loving family
>loving, virgin, irish waifu tier gf
>great legacy to work into
>great friends
>great truck
>get a lot of compliments for fashion
>have overcome shortcomings

I still want to drive my 98 jeep cherokee into the sun.

[Anonymous No.13891972]

>>13878596
This is me rn. I am trying to rekindle or grow into a more mature stage of love. I told her everything, but she understands, it's a mutual first relationship. I've stopped saying I love her and we broke up for a short amount of time. I do love her, but not in passion. I am reminded of Tony Soprano's words on Tracie's death (a stripper beat to death by a capo), and I feel the same way. "She was a beautiful, innocent creature." I don't ever want to hurt her. I care so much about her. but I feel the relationship is going to end eventually anyway, and the fatalist in me is trying to cut to the chase.

[Anonymous No.13891978]

>>13891972
>>13878596
For the sake of the girl, cut it now. Either that or take another break.

[Anonymous No.13891994]

>>13891922
I want the draft to come back so I can die on tour during the most brutal fighting ever seen in the deserts of china, away from all of this.

I want someone to lay me on the back of a horse, and make it run as far as it can into the plains. I want to tumble off and lay in the grass, and stare at the sky until I begin to walk to somewhere no one can find me, where my old life is no more real than a book read a long while ago.

[Anonymous No.13892008]

>>13891952
just pass it on. we're all gonna make it

[Anonymous No.13892018]

>>13891978
I am >>13891972

I want to and I don't. She'd be the most beautiful wife, but I am really a bastard. I got this beautiful, caring woman on a fluke. God gave put a gift in my hands, and then set it aflame. I think I'm too immature, or maybe just seeking novelty, not even love or fulfillment. I did the right thing months ago by breaking up with her, we were both in morbid hell. The absurdist in me says, try it, fuck it. keep going you goon, you leering fool, life is short and not short enough, and having one wife is as good as fucking through a phonebook of nobodies. but the fatalist in me is sure of the moment to be forever, and so I am torn asunder. Death upon me, love upon her. Hope on us all.

[Anonymous No.13892106]

I don't get to wear cool shoes! I'm cursed to wear dad shoes for the rest of my life because my foot requires a rollbar in the shoe and only New Balance makes shoes with a rollbar and they're all so ugly and FUCK!

[Anonymous No.13892694]

>>13877737
>brother bought me a navy blue Hugo Boss suit for my birthday
>never have an occasion to wear it

[Anonymous No.13893026]

>>13892106
>rollbar
here are your options
>you get the whitest, smartest pair of NB's and wear sports casual for the rest of your life
>you create your own smart rollbar shoes
>you get running like a motherfucker and work out your feet everyday and wear normal shoes