Matches / Date ratio on Tinder

[Anonymous No.13697077]

After following your advice I got 43 matches in less than 3 days.

Thank you /fa/ for your photo / design advice.

However the problem is I have only had 2 dates. (Both fails as Im still struggling on not being autistic).

1) Is it normal to go on a date within one week of a match?

2) Is it normal to only got on one date for every 20 matches?

[Anonymous No.13697079]

I've never had a single match ama

[Anonymous No.13697083]

All your matches look clapped m8

[Anonymous No.13697086]

>>13697077
What does this have to do with /fa?

[Anonymous No.13697088]

>>13697077
>following your advice

what advice was it
seems like i need it too

[Anonymous No.13697094]

>>13697077
you literally bought those matches (boost/gold)
it has nothing to do with our advice

[Anonymous No.13697097]

>>13697094
those don't make you look attractive though

[Anonymous No.13697104]

I don't think you should worry about either of those questions.

Ultimately you should play the numbers game. Swipe as many as you can, talk to as many people as you can. Try your best with each of them, and get a date as soon as you can. Try your best on your profile too, don't think "oh it's cool to be half assed and ironic"

Don't be too strict on judgement, you can always curve them later.

[Anonymous No.13697107]

>>13697104
if you swipe too much your ELO rank goes down

[Anonymous No.13697110]

>>13697097
yeah then why did you buy them retard ?

[Anonymous No.13697117]

>>13697110
not him lad
but yes the tinder algorithm has essentially made it p2w for most men

[Anonymous No.13697120]

>>13697117
for the unnattractive ones, thats why i said he bought those matches. He has an unfair advantage and wants to flex on others who dont.

[Anonymous No.13697182]

It’s a fair advantage - I pad for them.

Can someone answer my original questions ?

Thanks

[Anonymous No.13697188]

>>13697117
how is that any different to dating irl?

[Anonymous No.13697190]

>>13697120
the vast majority of men don't even meet anyone off tinder
I've had sex with 9 girls from tinder and probably 5 were due to boosts

[Anonymous No.13697215]

>>13697190
wow, youre so cool man

[Anonymous No.13697218]

>>13697215
it's not about being cool it's about tinder being p2w now

[Anonymous No.13697290]

>>13697077
I have currently 128 matches on tinder since using it in july. went out on 34 dates. fucked 19. rest ghosted or just wanted to be txt buddies. pretty bored of it now. currently dating a girl in my class.
>1) Is it normal to go on a date within one week of a match?
i had dates within 24hours or 2 weeks. varies on your schedule and hers

>2) Is it normal to only got on one date for every 20 matches?
dont worry about that shit. just get a date and practice ur social skillz

i would say only 2 girls were really good in bed(for what turns me on) rest wasn't worth the hassle and headache.
>However the problem is I have only had 2 dates. (Both fails as Im still struggling on not being autistic).
don't see it as failures. just get on dates and work on being on yourself. dont let the girl bully you into tryin to appeal to her so she can decide to let you have subpar sex for 20 minutes. than nag you for weeks on end. Long as you not some future rapist or you alright verbally abuse her. do you. Dating should be fun. forget about the sex for now.

[Anonymous No.13697298]

>be me, bisexual
>swipe right on all women, 1/3rd of guys
>2 out of 40 matches are women
>why couldn't I be gay?

[Anonymous No.13697307]

>>13697290
reasonable advice on 4chan the fuck

[Anonymous No.13697317]

>>13697077
>>>/soc/

[Anonymous No.13697448]

>>13697094
you can't buy matches

gold just lets you see who already swiped right for you and boost puts your profile before everyone else. girls aren't paid to swipe right though.

[Anonymous No.13697480]

>>13697077
Holy shit those women are ugly

[Anonymous No.13697487]

>43 matches and only 2 dates
what the fuck?
I barely get 7-10 and managed same or better results

[Anonymous No.13697490]

Not tinder but
>girl always starts the convo
>have no chemistry at all with her
>still think she's pretty
help

[Anonymous No.13697500]

>>13697290
>went out on 34 dates. fucked 19
damn you must look like a model, where are you signed ? or are you obnoxiously wealthy ?

[Anonymous No.13697501]

>>13697077
>>>/soc/
/fa isn't about hookups and dates, faggot

[Anonymous No.13697504]

How is tinder p2w?

[Anonymous No.13697512]

>>13697504
You can buy boost which puts you near the front of people's swipe queue. Of course, you have to be attractive for it to work

[Anonymous No.13697517]

>>13697490
why bother when theres no chemistry.
there are tons of pretty girls.

[Anonymous No.13697526]

>>13697517
she's gf material

[Anonymous No.13697529]

>>13697500
im a 7/10 and make $600 a week. but i literally only spend less than $10 bucks on "dates" unless im really hungry and i buy myself food. the key to tinder is to focus on what kind of girl you want. instead of any girl that looks art. I only swipe right with girls who seem "artsy" whether that be in music taste and how they dress. so from the match to the date. the convo is easy for me.
went out with a girl who had a cousin who modeled for off-white.

but basically i've dated/fucked good amount of the art girls in a 30 mile radius

[Anonymous No.13697531]

>>13697529
> instead of any girl that looks art
sorry typo. should be any girl that looks "hot".

[Anonymous No.13697541]

reaching 800 matches and I haven’t been on one (1) single date with somebody from tinder, how do I fix me

[Anonymous No.13697544]

>>13697529
ah so youre in a large city, that makes a huge difference

[Anonymous No.13697546]

>>13697544
ehh i live near one. drive 30-45mins for dates

[Anonymous No.13697558]

>>13697541
youre probably being a pen pal more than a potential date. i usually give a couple days of chatter max before asking to go on a date

[Anonymous No.13697560]

>>13697541
Only Sara looks like she'd have high standards

[Anonymous No.13697661]

>>13697541
post profile pls

[Anonymous No.13697727]

>>13697077
>living a hedonistic lifestyle
it's really getting pathetic at this point

[Anonymous No.13697761]

>>13697079
I don't have Tinder ama

[Anonymous No.13697787]

>>13697727
why is it a bad thing?
asking for a friend

[Anonymous No.13698023]

>>13697558
nope i just don’t write first. that’s p much the best tip i can give. you need to pull conversation out of girls on tinder

>>13697661
it just says my height

[Anonymous No.13698026]

>>13698023
are you 20 feet tall or something

[Anonymous No.13698027]

>>13697787
no true sense of fulfillment
over time you'll just be left feeling empty

[Anonymous No.13698030]

>>13697077
these are all ugly

[Anonymous No.13698059]

>>13697517
Have literally never met a girl I had a connection with. It's just so tiring having these NPC-tier relationships all the time talking about mundane crap

[Anonymous No.13698115]

70% of tinder users never meet. Both sexes.
Girls will ghost randomly. Don’t take it personal. Girls get nervous sometimes.

If you get 1 date for every 10 matches that’s reasonable.

[Anonymous No.13698120]

>>13697541
Bro, you're using tinder wrong. Try to hook up with one of the girls. A lot of girls aren't looking for relationships now.

[Anonymous No.13698126]

>>13698023
let's see your profile

[Anonymous No.13698131]

Every time i use tinder its usually like 1 date/hookup for 40-50 matches. I'm really forward with my messages tho, and my pictures arent even that good so ymmv

[Anonymous No.13698227]

Your success on tinder literally depends on your location and age more than anything else.

[Anonymous No.13698900]

>>13698227
sadly this, I used tinder 3 years ago at 23 and went on a bunch of dates, now I'm trying it at 26 and I barely get matches.
What the fuck happened to tinder?

[Anonymous No.13699043]

>>13698900
they changed the algorithm, people are seeing you less

[Anonymous No.13699055]

>>13697529
I swear to God I saw this a month ago or so.

[Anonymous No.13699086]

>>13698227
BS. If youre in NYC you think youll get matches, but people there have WAY more options, so unless you are a fucking stud, good luck

[Anonymous No.13699201]

>>13699086
i live a bit north of nyc, but i'm there like twice a month and whenver i use tinder there i get like 15-20 matches just in the time i'm there which is like one night. i dress "indie" or whatever though so its mostly all that type of girl but some are crazy hot

[ري كظ R Y · Q V S S !KNDY.F27NY No.13699227]

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