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Anonymous Thu Sep 6 10:20:48 2018 No.13657576 [Reply] [Original]

w2c social life?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 10:27:47 2018 No.13657582 >>13657576 School, work or through a hobby. But don't feel too bad anon, most peoples friends are friends they made as children. So if you didn't make any as a kid off it'll be hard to find some as an adult.

Anonymous Thu Sep 6 10:31:39 2018 No.13657585
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>>13657582
>tfw have been in and out of 3 different major social groups in as many years of uni and none of them stuck
>tfw still talk to my high school friends daily
>tfw moving in with a few of them after we graduate
I can't imagine having to make lifelong friends at even age 16+ everyone's just so set in their ways.

Anonymous Thu Sep 6 11:34:44 2018 No.13657689
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> be me
> schizoid
> stop talking to friends out of the blue
> friends make effort to talk to me and always invite me when they get together
> don't talk to them outside of that
> they stopped talking to me completely
I fucked it up

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 11:42:02 2018 No.13657699 File: 44 KB, 638x629, 1503478164611.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>13657689 An apology goes a long way in situations like this. If they're really your friends, they'll understand. And if not, fuck em.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 12:31:25 2018 No.13657796 my only friend is my big brother who i live with. all i need tbf. same sense of humor, likes and dislikes. everyone else is annoying

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 12:34:35 2018 No.13657803 >>13657689 heyy jesus We miss u

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 12:40:58 2018 No.13657823 >>13657796 thats so cool desu now i want a big brother like him :(

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 12:41:33 2018 No.13657827 File: 37 KB, 400x386, 142162203799.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw haven't had a friend since elementary school >going into 3rd year uni

Anonymous Thu Sep 6 13:25:13 2018 No.13657939

>>13657689
same anon

>be me
>met with a really cool guy in hs
>became my best friend
>used to talk with him all the time
>he accepted me and helped me in a lot of tough situations and actually made me a better person
>we used to go /out/ with his dad, he was so cool
>2 years ago i went to college
>less and less connection every month
>stopped caring about him
>last year i deleted all of my contacts and social media accounts, did the same shit like other anon
fast forward to 8 august 2018
>one year and no contact with him
>he called me
>didn't responded to him
>destroyed my SIM card that night
>on 21 august somebody knocked my door
>it was him
>hi anon
>whats going on
>he replied "my dad died on 9 august, your number was off so I decided to inform you personally" and hugged me tightly while crying
i've been feeling like shit since then because im the biggest asshole in the whole fucking world, i just wanna die

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 13:32:36 2018 No.13657958 >>13657796 god my big bro was my best friend too and he died 6 years ago :( i'm crippingly lonely

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 13:40:05 2018 No.13657981 >>13657827 Same anon.... Where you at?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 13:40:14 2018 No.13657983 >>13657958 >>13657958 im sorry anon. i couldn't even imagine what id do

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 13:42:27 2018 No.13657986 >>13657827 >>13657983 Jesus Christ... Do some volunteering, work part-time, or join student clubs/societies/organisations. Do it fucking quickly or you'll NEVER have friends. >>13657958 Job? Living situation? Living in a city/countryside?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 13:43:47 2018 No.13657993 >>13657582 I made a few friends as a kid but when we grew up they all became white trash I have nothing to talk about.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 13:47:56 2018 No.13658012 >>13657983 <3 it took me about 3 years to not cry so often >>13657986 i'm a freelance creative living in the city i'm not a complete shut in, i just can't connect with anyone

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 13:49:41 2018 No.13658017 >>13657939 My condolences anon

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 13:51:16 2018 No.13658023 >>13657986 this isn't something that's important to me

Anonymous Thu Sep 6 13:53:05 2018 No.13658031

>>13658023
Then fuck off and stop pretending you're lonely. You obviously don't care, and aren't bothered about putting in the effort. Stop LARPing.

>>13658012
Why can't you connect? Find local community groups that share the same interests as you? What about networking events?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 13:53:29 2018 No.13658035 >>13657576 Raves

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:01:03 2018 No.13658060 >>13657699 I've been freinds with a schizoid for 10+ years. Lately it has gotten so bad that I fear for my saftey when I'm around him. Sometimes you just have to give up anon.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:02:30 2018 No.13658064 >>13657981 canada >>13657986 >Do it fucking quickly or you'll NEVER have friends i've accepted my fate

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:02:32 2018 No.13658065 >>13658031 >Then fuck off and stop pretending you're lonely. You obviously don't care, and aren't bothered about putting in the effort. Stop LARPing. I'm not op you aggressive freak

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:05:00 2018 No.13658073 >>13658031 idk, rampant isolation probably i've tried events

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:06:51 2018 No.13658084 >>13658065 Nevermind, I actually meant to tag: >>13657981, not >>13657983. But my point stands to that individual it was initially directed to. >>13658064 No. Do something. >>13658073 Events, such as...?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:10:39 2018 No.13658095 >>13658084 ehh art exhibitions, parties

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:11:29 2018 No.13658098 >>13658095 What do you mean by 'tried'? Did you actually socialise? What about finding online groups that have in-person meetings?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:17:08 2018 No.13658109 >>13658098 yes dude, like i said i'm not a full blown hermit idk any of those online groups here

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:21:23 2018 No.13658124 >>13658064 If you're in Vancouver I'll be your friend

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:22:27 2018 No.13658130 >>13658109 Well, you don't seem that desperate/willing to put in effort, so that may be your problem - that you're just not trying.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:26:37 2018 No.13658138 >>13658130 yee i stopped trying a while ago have gone to ONE party this whole year which is crazy cus it was a weekly activity back then thanks for reading though!

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:31:32 2018 No.13658150 >>13658084 make me senpai >>13658124 toronto

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:44:22 2018 No.13658190 >>13658060 Oh, of course they should seek treatment for the actual disorder. I more meant apologizing for ghosting them.

Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:52:27 2018 No.13658208

Don't worry anon, if I know any better you would probably hate having a social life if you are in /fa/.
You just forgot all the retarded drama and emotionally draining trust you have to give for nothing in return.

Just go to a bar and hang out with a small group of people, or just find something cool to do and maybe that's more rewarding.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 14:56:24 2018 No.13658222 Don't have friends desu. Having other people in your life is just one giant headache that is rarely worth it, if ever.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 15:00:46 2018 No.13658232 >>13658150 come UWO, ill kick it with you

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 17:09:33 2018 No.13658510 >>13657939 He needs a friend more than ever now, be that friend anon

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 19:33:31 2018 No.13658765 >>13657576 >tfw this thread is people having schizoid as cope feels good having schizoid embraced.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 19:46:38 2018 No.13658778 >>13658222 this unironically

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 19:53:00 2018 No.13658793 >>13658510 This. Leave this shithole, go talk to him.

Anonymous Thu Sep 6 20:04:13 2018 No.13658805
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>be me
>first year uni
>move cities
>friends from high school all become druglets
>new city filled with 2012 pattern sock and denim sock manlets
>tfw no friends
>tfw giga sperg and can't talk to people

why is uni so rough /fa?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 20:06:00 2018 No.13658811 File: 288 KB, 660x603, y.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>13658805 >mfw denim sock >meant denim jacket

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 20:07:12 2018 No.13658814 College was the easiest shit. I hate everyone I work with.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 20:42:51 2018 No.13658867 >>13657585 You can make lifelojg friends in the militay

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 20:45:37 2018 No.13658870 >>13658035 Does this actually work?

Anonymous Thu Sep 6 21:46:59 2018 No.13658977

>>13658805
iktf
>missed out on introduction week
>everyone already met each other there
>ultra autist
>literally nothimg to do when im alone and have class again in 3 hours
>only person i know from high school that does uni so cant hang out with old friends or even take the bus or train home with them

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 21:50:58 2018 No.13658985 >>13657689 Me but I'm 100% healthy Perhaps a little bit sperge for doing this

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 21:53:01 2018 No.13658991 >>13658977 I thought that uni in america were like american pie

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 22:30:06 2018 No.13659045 >>13657689 Fuckkk. I'm like this. I'm now acknowledging that the reason I have no friends is due to my own lack of effort in maintaining them

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 23:50:58 2018 No.13659181 >>13658805 w2c denim socks

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 6 23:57:27 2018 No.13659198 If you like a type of music, or some other occupation that not many people like, and you find someone else that like you, does like thag particular thing, that immediately creates a type. of bond.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 7 09:18:40 2018 No.13659852 >>13658870 no, if you want real friends raves and parties in general aren't the way to go. those people will only stick around for the fun, drugs, etc. many are vapid rich kids or extremely shady

Anonymous Fri Sep 7 09:26:00 2018 No.13659869

I don't speak to anyone from my childhood, only made friends that have stuck since college but it's very few

I spend most of my time with my boyfriend but wish I had more close friends that I can hang out with whenever. I have lots of 'friends' but not super close/always busy lol

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 7 10:56:56 2018 No.13660035 >>13658991 im not in america

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