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GUYS I GOT A GIRL'S PHONE NUMBER ON FRIDAY
So what do I do now? We met at uni and I got her phone number like 5 minutes after we met while walking away from a class. I don't know how to start talking about anything that isn't school without it being weird/inappropriate. Guys please help me I'm too autistic for this.

>> No.12559275

>>12559273
is she into denim?

>> No.12559305

>>12559273
Are you the same guy who posted pictures of that retard? The one who faceplanted in the middle of his classroom?

>> No.12559310

>>12559305
Yes, that was me.

>> No.12559320

If you don't have anything genuine to say to he bitch then don't say anything.
Texting isn't for idle chit chat.

>> No.12559327

>>12559310
post it again

>> No.12559328
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12559328

>>12559273
>Hey, it was great meeting you last week [insert whatever time frame is appropriate], wanna go for a drink?

>> No.12559397

>>12559328
Ew no. Way too soon

>> No.12559409

>>12559397
No man just do it. You'd be surprised how many things we might personally perceive to be awkward that nobody else gives a shit about.

>> No.12559416

>>12559397
do it faggot

>> No.12559420

>>12559273
say "when you gonna let me fuck??"

>> No.12559436

>>12559397
you don't stand a chance anyway, might as well try it, you've got nothing to loose

>> No.12559463

>>12559320
This.

>> No.12559501

>>12559409
>>12559416
>>12559436
I'm not OP lol. I'm a girl who realizes that OP most likely isn't a Chad so he wouldn't be able to get away with that line. He'd have to have one more on campus interaction with her before asking for drinks. I know this sounds arbitrary but just trust me.

>> No.12559520

>>12559501
>listening to a girl's dating advise
every time a girl gave me her phone number it was because she was interested, so no it's not too soon
They're not gonna give you their number to make small talk

>> No.12559529

>>12559520
As a side note this is assuming she gave him her number because they were interested in each other and not like when you give it to a friend or whatever

>> No.12559568

>>12559520
>not listening to dating advice from a member of the gender you're interested in
>not listening to dating advice from someone whose friend base mostly consists of other women
Your method probably works with all the easy thots and art hoes you speak to but OP might be talking to a decent chick with self-respect.

>> No.12559572

Did you grow up without a dad?

Just ask her out to something and talk to her like you normally would.

>> No.12559574

>>12559568
>getting relationship advice from bitches, EVER
Lol fuck outta here with your solipsistic bullshit. Let me guess, all grills want is a nice guy to settle down with?

>> No.12559582

>>12559574
You sound hurt.

>> No.12559607

Totally depends on the context under which you got her number. If it was literally the first time you met and you asked her for it just text her and ask if she'd like to go out sometime. If it was for like a school project or some shit then test the waters a bit and wait till you see her again before making any obvious moves. But yeah if it was the former litetally just say
>hey if you're not busy this weekend wanna grab a coffee or a drink?

Don't make it any more complicated than it needs to be and don't try to have conversations over text

>> No.12559637

>>12559568
>OP might be talking to a decent chick with self-respect
then why would he want your advice?

>> No.12559643

>>12559607
Yeah this, my previous advise was because I believed they hit it off well and she gave him her number, but maybe they just worked on a project together or something and OP thinks it means something lol

>> No.12559645

>>12559637
Oh snap, burn, took you only 33 minutes to calm down and come back with something that makes you sound like less of a little bitch.

>> No.12559677

>>12559645
that's my first post on the thread, nice try though

>> No.12559709

>>12559568
>listening to a woman's advice on how to get women

fuck outta here, most women don't even know what they want

>> No.12559711

>>12559501
if she's into OP, she'll say yes. if not, another meetup wouldn't help anyways. It's best to be direct from the start.

>> No.12559734
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>>12559645
fuck off thot nobody cares about the advice on an anonymous "female" posting on 4chan's fashion board lmao

on a sidenote if you listen to a female's advice on dating other than immediate family or an ex you ended on good terms with you're playing yourself

>> No.12559761

>>12559734
>fuck off thot nobody cares about the advice on an anonymous "female" posting on 4chan's fashion board lmao
Yes, I'm sure OP appreciates getting advice from a bunch of ex-incels who were only able to lose their virginity by talking to easy girls with daddy issues. Let me guess, all the girls (and I'm being generous here by using plural) you've ever talked to own a pair of superstars and wear poorly applied eyeliner, right?

>> No.12559767

>>12559761
please stop acting all high and mighty. Women aren't some sort of a monolith, and just because you're a woman doesn't mean every other woman will react to something the same way you will. There's no cheat codes for humans.

>> No.12559780

>>12559767
>Women aren't some sort of monolith
Please tell me this isn't you:
>>12559520
>every time a girl gave me her phone number it was because she was interested

The only good advice he's gotten is from >>12559607. The "wanna go for a drink" approach doesn't always work, especially if they only talked for 5 mins on campus.

>> No.12559806

>>12559780
it isn't me. If OP met her in a social situation or in public, like on a bus, and happened to get her number, then it's not weird for him to ask her out. If he got her number from something work or school related, then it's probably not okay. Like i said in my post, >>12559711
if she's attracted to OP at all, she probably won't hesitate. If she says no but is actually interested, well then that probably means she's not very in touch with her feelings.

this poster >>12559761
sounds really bitter and is convinced that people who dress poorly or are bad at makeup cannot possibly be good, genuine individuals.

>> No.12559838

>>12559806
The comment about the superstars and eyeliner was a very shitty of me to say but my point still stands. We're not sure about the details of OP's interaction with the girl or what his intentions are so there's no clear cut approach. If OP's just interested in her sexually then by all means, he can follow the other anons' advice. I just think there are other (and better) ways to hang out with someone besides going out for drinks.

>> No.12559839

hey guys i fucked a thot last night. we out here breaking dry spells

>> No.12559857

>>12559838
>>12559806
>>12559780
>>12559607
I got her number after class after some small talk. I didn't know her but she never talks to anyone and I thought she was cute, and often people who sit by themselves and never talk do like to be talked to, so I approached her and she was really friendly. We were chatting off campus about this and that for a little while and I asked if I could contact her for exam related info and she gave me her number. The chat itself wasn't school related but I did get her number under the guise of exams.

>> No.12559868

>>12559857
>but I did get her number under the guise of exams.

Why wouldn't you just be direct
You seem beta

>> No.12559869

>>12559857
You know if I were a girl and someone asked for my number under the guise of exams but then asked me for drinks, I would be a bit confused. I would've tried being a bit more honest but that's just me.

>> No.12559873

>>12559869
>>12559868
I actually asked her because of exams but later I realised I liked her.
I am not a smart man.

>> No.12559881

>>12559838
>>12559857
dinner might be a little excessive, but grabbing a beer or coffee should be fine, although if OP is going to grab a beer with her, its probably better to go earlier in the night, as it comes off as a bit more earnest and innocent. Coffee midday is a great way to get to know someone, I'm not sure if you count it as a date or not, as it varies from person to person.
>>12559857
op, given the info you just provided, I'd say its probably okay to ask her out to coffee or maybe a light lunch/pastry or something. It seems like you are interested in her romantically and even though she might just be being friendly out of courtesy, it won't hurt to ask her out. If she turns you down, she has her reasons so don't take it personally and try to stay positive. All the best man.

>> No.12559890

>>12559873
lol wish you the best bro, maybe invite her to study together and see what happens? if she sits by herself maybe she's not too much into drinking and stuff

>> No.12559964

>>12559873
haha

>> No.12560108

>>12559873
beta

>> No.12560199

>>12559273
/fa/ shoes

>> No.12560307

>>12559568
happy summer

>> No.12560316

>>12559320
This, just use it to schedule a time to chill. Wine, coffee or something fun/artist. Take her to do something you genuinely enjoy doing with other people. If she doesn't like the things you like, either you're a fucking retard weeb and you need to revaluate your priorities or she's not worth ur time

>> No.12560323

>>12559273
his hands look like little dicks

>> No.12560414

>>12560307
Did I hurt your feelings?

>> No.12560426

>>12559761
All girls have daddy issues. And please ho youre like 20 max.

>> No.12560432

>>12560426
>All girls have daddy issues
Jesus what fucked household did you come from? Never have children.

>> No.12560440

>>12560432
Non sequitir. Ive lived in 4 countries and dated up and down the social ladder. All girls have daddy issues of some sort.

>> No.12560444

>>12560432
Before you go full white knight consider that this is not sullying m'lady's name as much as it is the name of her poor quality father.

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12560648

How did you get her number? That makes all the difference.

Explain to me from start to finish how it went down.

>> No.12560656

>>12559857
>I did get her number under the guise of exams.
you fucked up m8

>> No.12560894

>>12560648
Is that popcorn?

>> No.12560912

tips for a virgin?

>> No.12560936

>>12559273
Hey buddy, why don't you post under a tripcode so we can follow you!

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12561024

>>12559397
>too soon

virgin boi lol

There is no "too soon." You want to go on a date with her, and you've met her once, because that's enough time for you to determine whether she's both physically attractive and not fucking mental. Guess what, it works the same way with women. If a girl likes you, she'll want to "get coffee/drinks" after a nice chat.

>> No.12561025

>>12559857
this is easy

suggest you two catch up to go over some stuff in the late morning, then when its midday or early afternoon go get lunch with her and talk about stuff that isn't related to exams.

if you know a nice cafe take her there, don't go to a starbucks and dont make it too high end

>> No.12561641

>>12560912
Have sex.

>> No.12561669

>>12559275
his name is Denim?

>> No.12562162

>>12561669
I used to live next to a guy named Denim.

>> No.12562171
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12562171

>>12559273

I lost my virginity on friday

>> No.12562184

>>12559273
just say:
>Coffee?
Then take her to that cool cafe you know

>> No.12562187

>>12559873
well in that case ask her to study at a cafe or something

>> No.12562278

>>12562171
gz
age?

>> No.12562285

>>12561024
Read the thread faggot

>> No.12562665

>>12562278
20, gf just turned 19

>> No.12563019

>>12562665
I lost it at 20 to a 25 year old:
I don't know if that's better or worse.

>> No.12563622

>>12563019
that's kinda cool

>> No.12563819

>>12563019
Baller.

>> No.12564025

>>>/adv/