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[TMRWNRCSSS No.12556757]

Hi /fa/scists,
I really want to be /fa/, but I cannot. I'm trying my best to overcome social anxiety and I'm 100% sure that being effay would improve my life, but it seems I just can't.

So... can you give me some advices? I beg for your words of wisdom.

Here are some questions to start.
0. Why can't I be effay?
1. What is my face shape?
2. What haircut would fit me the best?

Advices always help. I hate myself and I know I look like shit. Don't be kind, be helpful.

[Anonymous No.12556760]

u look pretty good. shave though

[TMRWNRCSSS No.12556771]

>>12556760
My beard is odd, I thought about getting rid of it and start a Minoxidil therapy (or something similar). I'm hopeless.

By they way. I don't feel good looking, 90% of the people look better than me, that's one of the many reasons why I have to be better.

[Anonymous No.12556773]

>>12556757
Anyone can be fashionable if they try and learn.
Oval shaped.
What you have is fine just style the top a bit better.

Anyways, dressing better might not solve your problems and if anything might make you feel even more insecure. You need to overcome yourself.

[TMRWNRCSSS No.12556780]

>>12556773
Thank you for your answers! I used to be effay a long time ago and very confident, then I moved back to my parents' house and I started to develop social anxiety and doubts about myself, both the inner side and the exterior of myself. I would love to dress good for once and feel good about myself.
>You need to overcome yourself.
This leads to the question: How?

Also: I was thinking about a platinum blonde hairstyle, is it yay or nay? Am I too old for that? (26)

Also also: I have a really big nose. Tucan shaped face from the side, how do I work on that?

[Anonymous No.12556807]

>>12556780
Set goals and accomplish them, keep yourself busy and productive. Read/gain knowledge, take up a hobby, exercise, etc. Refine yourself as a human being.

Personally i'm not a fan of dyed hair so get a second opinion.

Nothing you can do short of getting plastic surgery so just own it.

[TMRWNRCSSS No.12556817]

>>12556807
My only boundary is that dyed hair people are supposed to have been taken less serious than average non-dyed ones

[TMRWNRCSSS No.12556823]

>>12556807
> Nothing can short your nose.
I do know that, but maybe there are some features that would help to hide it, haircuts, glasses, I don't really know.

[Anonymous No.12556826]

>>12556757
you look alright desu. if you want to look better you need to lose bodyfat and work out
self-improvement is the key to being effay, get some effay hobbies, read a lot
fashion can boost your confidence a bit, but it's not the most important thing out there. take it slow, start with the basics

[Anonymous No.12556836]

>>12556823
A haircut with a part like ryan gosling's can help draw attention away. Also accessories like earrings or a necklace. You can even look into make up.

[TMRWNRCSSS No.12556842]

>>12556836
Make up? Like what? Would girls disagree?

[TMRWNRCSSS No.12556853]

>>12556826
I weight something like 55kg, how can I lose more? Btw I second you on effay lifestyle.

Are gauges effay?

[Anonymous No.12556933]

>>12556842
Not like mascara or lipstick lol. A tiny bit of contouring on your nose could help. I'd go for the other suggestions like the haircut and accessories though.

[TMRWNRCSSS No.12556940]

>>12556933
Dubs always speak truth. I used to have lobe dilatotors but I thought they made me "unprofessional" tho, which necklace do you suggest?

[Anonymous No.12557137]

>>12556940
Depends on your tastes. Something simple and tasteful, like a thin gold or silver chain is nice. If you want to get a pendant as well avoid political or religious symbols.

[Anonymous No.12557285]

My personal experience is, just get out of your shell. Talk to the person you're uncomfortable with, it's called breaking the ice. It takes commitment with a person to get over it and takes time to make yourself comfortable next to the person. You get more comfortable by more talking. Best of luck!

[Anonymous No.12557360]

>>12557285
Thank you so much for you advice.

[Anonymous No.12557381]

>>12556853
what weight? you look like you could still make your facial features a bit more prominent if you lost a bit of fat

[Anonymous No.12557385]

>>12557381
*I meant height, not weight

[Anonymous No.12557414]

>>12557381
1.75m manlet confirmed

[Anonymous No.12557608]

You look great. Just shave for fucks sake. And dress 'subtlety put together'. And get trendy hair cuts. That's literally all it takes.

[Anonymous No.12557621]

>>12556757
> weird eyes
> long bird narrow face

But other than that. u look decent, better than a lot of people on this board. I would advice u get a thicker neck.

[Anonymous No.12558874]

>>12557621
Do you dare to expand the weird eyes thing?

Plus: is thicker neck a thing?

[Anonymous No.12558885]

>>12557621

how 2 get neck gainz??

[TMRWNRCSSS No.12558891]

>>12558885
Aaaand this.

[Anonymous No.12559260]

Grow hair/cut/buzz?
Grow beard/ short beard wihout mustache/clean shaven?