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>> No.10275863

I love my life

>> No.10276189

>>10275587
a lot of girls that are into fashion are doing it to compensate for their looks
so be ready to settle for a 5/10

>> No.10276205

don't try

>> No.10276206

>>10275587
1) Make sure your life (jobs, hobbies, etc.) are in order because girls give a fuck about that.
2) Go use online dating and look for people who seem to have an interest in fashion and the looks you want.
3) Be selective but open and willing to meet people and see how you jive. "Pretty and well-dressed" != "good girlfriend"

>> No.10276216

how to get qt effay bf?

>> No.10276237

>>10276216
Tell fa guy you have vagina. If he refuses, he's gay. Everyone else will accept.

>> No.10276318

>>10276237
Not true at all. Are you a desperate loser?

Being sexually selective is very /fa/. I had a girl stalk me for a year and she told me she had a vagina and wanted to fuck me many times... why would I settle for that shit if it won't make me happy?

>> No.10276340

>>10276318
Agreed. High standards are good. Anything else is just undervaluing myself

>> No.10276373

>>10276340
There is nothing wrong with sleeping around though. I just don't find it fulfilling and I actually prefer just being seen as attractive -- with the intent of attracting the right girls I am interested in of course.

>> No.10276445

>>10276189
that's what /fa/ is tho

>> No.10277751

>>10275587
Get a gf and make her effay.
Go shopping with her and take her to stores you like and get her to try on things. Compliment her when you see her in a style you like, don't say anything when she's dressing basic. Train her, she will learn.
Girls have to do this shit to their basic whiteboy bfs all the time, train them out of the cargo shorts and graphic tees. Its a lot harder to train boring guys to be fashionable than girls because typically they don't give a fuck about their appearance and verbal incentive isn't enough to change that. Often you have to straight up buy them new clothes.
Girls, on the other hand, are very sensitive and actually care about looking good typically so they will take every compliment to heart and eventually form new dressing habits.

>> No.10277988

>>10276189
This

>> No.10278083

>>10275587
Have at least one of these
>Attractiveness
>A good personality
>Money

Also, actually talk to women.

>> No.10278129

Having a GF is gay though. you'll be constantly paranoid she's talking to other guys, and you'll turn into a pathetic and clingy guy.

plus once you get a GF you'll notice a lot more girls showing interest in you and then you'll be conflicted and upset at your new options now that you're tied down and can't pursue them.

just stay single and learn to play.

>> No.10278315

>>10278129
dude, that's fucking sad man. You're a sad sad person.

>> No.10278405

>>10276189
nah the girls I know that are into fashion are qt as fuck and they know it so they become vain and buy /fa/ clothes to compliment their hot looks

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>>10278129
>Having a GF is gay though
>you'll notice a lot more girls showing interest in you
>Having a GF is gay

>> No.10278421

>>10278129
Don't listen to this guy, he had one or two bad experiences and applies towards the other 3.5 billion people on this planet.

Really OP, I think it's like half luck and half grinding. By grinding I mean slowly getting to know her, hanging out with her, building experiences with her, all BEFORE you ask her out. Don't wait too long though. Also don't fall into friendzone trap.

That, IMO, is how you can land a quality gf.
Of course, siqq fits matter too.

>> No.10278431

>>10275587
All you had to do was ask ;^)

>> No.10278442

Go to uni, go to girls majoring in arts/useless stuff

There's a girl I've been looking to date that majors in English and Korean, completely useless stuff, I find a lot of girls in useless majors are effay and "artsey". It's gonna be hard outside those kinds of majors

>> No.10278473

the thing that gets me fucking mad is that you probably all live in USA or UK. like, how can't u find a cute fashionable girlfriend? When I visited USA it was ridiculous easy to hook up chicks etc. I live in italy and here is really hard, girls get attention all the time so if you wanna get one you should invent some crazy stuff and basically fuck your life and reputation, and most of them are not even that beautiful (no aryan chicks). consider yourself lucky

>> No.10278526

>>10278473
>USA
>easy to get girls

Yes, this is true, but the thing is, effay girls in the U.S. are >1% of the population. They're basically impossible to find, and a good looking one is even harder. From my experience in Italy, and the majority of Europe, girls generally dress nicer there than in the U.S. Girls might be harder to get, but it's more worth for one 9/10 girl that's effay than 10 3/10 girls that dress like trash

>> No.10278567

I found the one. She's black, bi, likes to bring over her friends for threesomes, takes vyvanse (so do I), makes beats, raps, does bad shit and likes Margiela.

>> No.10278578

>>10278567
sounds pretty degenerate

>> No.10278591

>>10278129
you're retarded bro I'm sorry

you complain about being paranoid about your GF being interested in other guys and then you talk about how you've been checking out other girls

you're projecting your lack of interest in the relationship on her. You'll have happier trusting relationships when you actually commit to them

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>>10278578
either this or some stuck up, anxious, white bitch with a therapist and a tumblr page.

>> No.10278625

Get off of /fa/

Get off of 4chan

Seriously, just take a moment. Have some self awareness. How much of the 4chan demographic do you think is composed of cynical, socially awkward, 16-20 year olds? These are the kind of people you're taking life advice from? Sure, there are older, more well adjusted people here. Sure, there are some people here who have legitamately experienced positive change and growth after browsing /fa/ (though I find a lot of these people also develop an unwarranted sense of self-importance in the process seeing as they still are, essentially, bitter).

But seriously my dude, you gotta remove yourself from this solipsistic feedback loop. Learn how to sincerely engage with other people. Fucking humble yourself. Maybe people will start liking you.

Or kill yourself.

It doesn't matter.

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10278658

gf buys her stuff from walmart and target, still love her tho tbh.

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10278698

>>10278625
this really, you might not realize it but 4chan really works your mind, I used to be a different person back when I frequently browsed /b/, very distant and cynical

/fa/ isn't that bad of a board tbh, but ye it's still 4chan

now for the actual advice, don't make getting a girlfriend a life goal, just try and live a full life that makes you happy, people will notice and a girlfriend will come in time

>> No.10278722

>>10277751
This.

>> No.10278729

>>10278421
>he had one or two bad experiences and applies towards the other 3.5 billion people on this planet.
So he either had one bad experience with 4 billion people or two bad experiences which together add to 4 billion people ? I'm confused.

>> No.10278769

>>10278729
No, he had a few bad experiences with girls so now he is bitter and resentful towards the female population. Which would be 3.5 billion because there are 7 billion people on the planet. Dummy.

>> No.10278773

>>10278698

>4chan really works your mind
>I used to be a different person back when I frequently browsed /b/

Or maybe you just got older and matured. Correlation =/= causation. I'm inclined to believe that we choose things that are the most appropriate to us at the given time.

>> No.10279015

>>10278442
this right here. Date art majors

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10279035

>>10278625
Still good advice though

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10279070

>be 7+/10
>get complimented on my clothes
>acquainted with a few Chad types
>still act autistic as fuck around people I want to impress
>have never had a gf
>the only date I've ever been on was in high school with this scary mallgoth girl who I was too beta to even try and hold hands with
>almost threw up asking her out, and it was via text anyway

>> No.10279078

>>10279070
>>>/r9k/

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10279087

>>10279078
>tfw you might slip into robot territory if things don't get better

>> No.10279106

>tfw uncle fucked up and is in jail
>tfw went to visit him
>tfw when prison psychiatrist is the most effay and beautiful grill ever

Should I commit a crime and then impress her with my /fa/ fits in prison?
Prisoners can wear whatever the fuck they want in my country.

>> No.10279117

>>10279106
yea

murder someone so you can stay longer

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>>10279106
>cousin is getting married
>he lives in Los Angeles
>entire family flies out to visit him and see the sights
>uni was off so I come too
>forgot to do the wash so my clothes look like shit
>get really hungry so I decide to go to the grocery store across the street from our hotel
>dad decides to come with me
>too polite to tell him I wanted to go alone
>the clerk is the most qt and attractive woman I've ever seen
>dad starts asking her really dumb questions about famous people and tourist shit
>stare at the floor and feel disgusted
>we leave the next day
>will never see her again

>> No.10279128

>>10279106
just ask her out m8

>> No.10279138

>>10279128
>Thanks for treating my crazy criminal uncle and shit. But dope fit. Wanna go out some time?

>> No.10279150

>>10279138
Do you have a better idea?

>> No.10279373

>>10278591
I'm not complaining about anything though. I'm being realistic about what happens when a "tfw no gf" guy finally gets into a relationship. He turns into a clingy bitch and constantly worries about this and that and his entire life becomes dedicated to a girl who could never be capable of fulfilling his idealizations of what a girl should be. A guy who is desperate for a relationship is not fit to be in one.

Personally, I have my own reasons for staying single and I don't think trust is one of them, but I definitely do not just throw my trust around to anyone. Yes I've been hurt in a relationship before. If you haven't, you aren't qualified to give insight into what makes relationships work.

>> No.10279391

>>10278473
But you also had the tourist/accent advantage. I know girls are easy here in the US, but your accent helped you get with them. I could probably fly into Italy and do pretty good with the women there for the same reasons.

>> No.10279743

>>10279138
Would totally work if you were nice.

>> No.10280122

>>10278083
+ confidence