/fa/ - Fashion

>tfw sick fits can't get me a gf

>>9789992
I'm gone past even wanting a gf. social interaction in general is just too exhausting

>>9789964
not /fa/ related

>>>/r9k/

>"Do you have a boyfriend?"
>seen: 22 hours ago

>mfw can't get a gf but can get a 7/10 cougar fuckbuddy
>mfw I'm kind of falling for her

Close enough I guess

>>9790591
fair point

>tfw 22 and never had a gf

Its too late isnt it

>>9790733
It's never too late (unless you're like 50, then you should just commit sudoku)

>>9790793
your life should never depend on whether or not you get a gf.

>>9790798
This guy gets it

Live for yourself anon, and you >>9790648
keep fucking her, you'll find someone one day

>tfw crush is going to an event tomorrow
>tfw all my friends are too busy with finals to go with me so I can "accidentally" bump into them there
>tfw will look like a loser if I go alone

>>9790733
Same here but I'm 19 and I think it's already too late for me

>be me
>slowly descending into insanity and not in the cool edgy way
>no gf
>no solid friends where i live due to constant moving
>transient school/commuters
>can't find people who share my interests


I feel like I'm doing prison time. Almost done, though, moving da fuck away in a few months.

Why won't /r9k/ fuck back off to their containment board?

>>9790819
19 ain't too late.

I had my first gf/lay just before I turned 19. It was worth being picky all those years, although my situation consisted heavily of turning girls down and not the other way around. I think I got rejected like twice (or once?) and shook off like 4 or 5 girls who liked me (I didn't like them)

>>9790825
>I feel like I'm doing prison time.

Same here, like a prison in my own head

>>9790856
u r me

>tfw 19 kissless virgin
>tfw I've given up because I think its too late

>>9790860
>>9790856
>>9790825
Suicide is the only way out anons. Trust me.

>be me
>like one my friends
>one my other friends like her
>they're always flirting when my groups together
>we're all going going on a holiday together
>unsure if they'll fuck or not
>hold me

>tfw sick cops are not doing it anymore

>be me
>ugly, insecure creepy fuck
>no friends
>almost zero social interaction outside of classes
>only things that make me feel good are going /out/ and browisng /fa/ to be dickridden in the waywt threads
>go /out/
>suicidal ideas come to my mind while i'm alone hiking
>go back home
>go on /fa/
>see this thread

>>9790919
Post fit. Your ass ain't getting dickridden on here faggot.

>>9790834
The thing is you've probably shown interest for girls since you said you were picky. I just kinda stopped trying and dgaf anymore but this kind of threads are a daily reminder I'm still a virgin.

>>9790879
don't be silly

>>9790863
Don't sweat it too much bros, I had my first kiss and gf at 23. So don't give up yet...although our relationship didn't last more then 2 months thanks to extreme autismo.

I almost wish I was still the ugly fat kid I was a teen. At least then I could believe that my loneliness was based on something rational like attraction rather than simply missing some indescribable feature or property.

>>9790928
i-i fit battle you now !
Not saying it's hot shit or anything, but /fa/gs tend to like it

>>9790834
are you me from the future

im 18 now but exactly same situation. though I just be a fucking dork with poor overall appearance I massively improved myself and now girls do kind of flock. since I've never had this before I sometimes think it's all a cruel joke they're trying to play on me.

>>9790972
Do you size up or down on stan smiths?

>>9790965
Iktf bro

>>9790981
true to size

>>9790972
Awful

>>9790887
don't go
I've been there and done that
they will fuck and you will be hurt
stay home and fap or something

real boy here

>was an emo lost soul w no girlfriend until grade 12
>found nice qt who likes cool shit, like fashion, art, film photography, neat music like death grips n shit
>basically made her my bitch
>6 months later, i live w her

.... then, we drove eachother insane....

now i never ever want a girlfriend again and i will probably always hate girls a bit

girls are genuinely pretty disgusting with their living habits. they are like lil kids or some shit. make sure ur girlfriend is independent as hell, u both got ur lifestyle on fleek n you ain't broke or both of your style is gonna sink real quick

anyways ok sorry i got kinda sidetracked

but boys n girls, develop yourself and make yourself cool as hell. get cultured. so that when U do meet the cutie of your life, you are cool as hell and ready for it all. u might meet that person tomorrow so don't get too emo

the relationship went downhill quick because we were too young, but i genuinely can say i have experienced love and that was the coolest shit ever.

keep ur eyes peeled n hearts open, my lost boys

>>9791023
You sound like a right nobhead

>>9791023
mixed messages here

>>9790633
I'm sorry you had to experience that.

>>9789964

>go see a movie
>mixed group of friends, guys and girls
>someone points out that I'm the only single guy in the entire group
>me, unaware that these people were all dating each other

fucking hell

i wanted to die

>>9790976
i can related to the "cruel joke" thing

apparently girls always kind of dug me but they thought i was crazy or whatever

too fucking tired to punctuate properly
how the mighty have fallen

>improve yourself
>realize futility of life and your surroundings
>dream of escaping

this is it :(

>>9791139
What a shitty thing to do. Why are you friends with them.

>>9789964
how do i get a gf after uni

this feels like the end

>19 year old virgin
>first real gf
>never feel anything about her
>think about ending it after 1 week

>>9790972
when i see ur fits in waywts i always post a comment about photo quality vs whether youre actually wearing a good fit, the fuccbois' good comments usually end after that

anyway hope you feel better anon, just try and wear something more interesting now and again eh?

>Tfw gfless virgin at 22
>Weary of women
>Have commitment issues
>Legitimately cannot understand women logic when it comes to dating
>They are completely falling for me, only to suddenly lose interest in me from one day to another
>This fuels my paranoia and causes self-esteem issues, even though I am achieving more than I ever thought was possible
>Have good game and decent looks, but am not able to seal the deal on a long-term basis, nor for one night stands
>Stuck in this perpetual cycle of failing
I just don't get it. Like I missed a vital part of my upbringing whereby this shit gets explained to you. Anyways, I hope to make improvements in this area soon. Otherwise I am a young Constanza, and I ain't going down like that.

>>9790582
this

>>9791212
not that guy but post a fit honestly

>>9791208
Feel that ass before you do, at least

>>9790959
did u ever get a gf afterwards?

>tfw he accepts your friend request
>tfw too scared to message him in case he think I'm a creep
What's a good opening line?

>>9791251
that's what i'm thinking of, but i feel kind of bad.

>>9791256
say 'i would like to be ur gf'

that usually works

>>9791256
just say 'hi'
like literally, 'hi'

>>9791263
Problem is we've never talked IRL because we only ever see each other in passing

>>9791256
A girl added me, I messaged first though. Just say are you in my class or something

>>9791252
No =[
Its only been a few months though.

>>9791139
They could probably hook you up with someone

>>9791232
Holy shit are you me from the future or something

>>9791027
a "nobhead"? shut your old ass up

>>9791039
yeah sorry high on caffeine

>>9791333
nice trips nobhead

>>9791333
nice trips nobhead

>>9790976
Used to be a fat mouth breathing nerd with no friends and no gf. now i have friends and a cutie. i still think that i am being played.

>>9790972
i used to really hate on you a lot, and i still think you have awful personal hygiene (trim those fingernails before you cut someone with them!), but i've grown to like you, even if you do wear the same pair of pants everyday

would go /out/ with :)

>19
>work in fast food
>can't get another job
>not currently studying but relatively skilled
>wish I was fat and ugly and unskilled so I could blame my lack of employment and lack of success with females and life in general on something else besides myself

>>9790798
Such a nice fucking break from /r9k/

>23/m
>with girl i've been thirsting after for seven years
>she lives with her bf
>im the sidechick

:'(

i'll never have her

>>9790919
Talk to ur roommate if u have one

>>9791191
Meet gf through job or any other activity u do

>>9791066
>mfw she responded a few hours after I made that post and we're going to a movie tomorrow night

>>9790812
Just go bro

>>9791256
U wanna be Bf & gf?
We can fuck too

Men will do anything to get pusi

>>9791470
Lol Make sure u get some nice chatter before the movie
Don't go into the movie with awkward tension between you two
Lel goodluck

>>9791470
We're gonna make it

>>9789964
tfw housemates look to you for fashion advice. specifically girl asks if she should return 300 quid leather jacket to allsaints.
>so what's the conclusion in the jacket anon?
>yeah yeah i see what you mean
>look ill just put it on and see what you think
>yeah maybe it is a little big
>hmm yeah i dont like that about it either
>yeah i think ill return it

glad she agreed in the end, waste of money tbh.

>>9791513

>girls asking you for fashion advice

You're never going to get laid as a gay best friend, bro.

>>9790972
oh you're the stinky fuck
disgusting
can smell you through my speaker

>>9791524
h-ha yeah
yeah im gay so

>>9791513
tfw all your friends dress terribly so you always look good in comparison

>>9791435
Kek

>not transcending loneliness and being comfortable with yourself

Do you even Thoreau?

>>9790793
>commit suduko

>>9791546
that's why it's nice cause theyre vaguely into fashion (or at least the idea of being into it) and dont dress too bad, but they still ask :)

>>9791283
Do people actually add people they don't to? Like, it usually makes weeks or sometimes even months for me to add someone on Facebook, unless they add me that is.

Anyway, do girls think it's creepy when acquaintances add them on FB? What about people you "only ever see each other in passing" but they still know who you are?

>>9790965
>>9791232
these have summed up my feelings for the past 5 years

w2c lonliness

>people keep complimenting clothes
>still feel insecure because I'm not up to /fa/'s standards
>I care more for the approval of Internet strangers than my social circle

Fuck I spend way too much time here.

>>9791553
Is that motherfucking Sam Hyde?

>>9791186

It wasn't pointed out out of sheer malice, just a hey, look at that sort of thing. Still, it stung.

>>9791316

I dunno, I always hear this point. Isn't asking a friend to "hook you up" like, immensely desperate? Like exuding sheer desperation?

I mean, I'm not above of asking, cause I would. Just wondering.

>>9791812
It's only not creepy if you're attractive. Otherwise we'd probably ignore you unless we're friend-hungry.

>>9790812

you'll regret it if you don't go. and if you just have a whole posse of goons and run into her (whether she's alone or with friends) you/them will just look weird and awkward. A solo encounter is better.

>>9790812
you look more badass if you go alone bruh, just don't be an awkward faggot about it

>broke up with gf of 6 months 3 weeks ago
>it was for the best, but still hurts
>having a hard time sleeping alone
>gone on a couple dates
>almost fuck this qt from tinder (but she had no future/was a degenerate)
>was expecting to meet up with her again to seal the deal
>never replies to my texts
>gg
>becoming despondent, need something to bang to validate myself
>get despo, message the absolutely most annoying girl in existence that has wanted my d for fucking years
>she's pretty qt, but I swear to fuck the most ugly because of her personality
>pose a business proposition to her
>"harmless question, how opposed are you to friends with benefits"
>"not 100% opposed"
>still haven't banged her, but meeting up with her tomorrow
>feelsonlyokayman.jpg
>i wonder if I can get passed how annoying she is for the pussy
>still miss having a girl I cared for and loved that doesn't annoy the shit out of me.

>>9792099
wow I just realized I am being kind of a pansy, you guys have it much worse.

Im sorry but "well dressed" people with no social skills are the worst.

if you're a complete sperg, just wear sweatpants and a captain america shirt so no one will bother you..

if you jump in front of a train, do you die from the train hitting you or being cut by it on the tracks?

>>9792243
we think the same about you normies thinking you can even understand fashion. just don't.

>>9791139
Damn, just fucking described my life anon. I really felt that

>>9791232
>Otherwise I am a young Constanza, and I ain't going down like that.
do realize that despite sometimes being unemployed and living at his parents, and always short, stocky, and balding, George always had a steady string of girlfriends?

you are not a young constanza

>>9792099
lol, implying people on this site ever get a gf to begin with. just be happy you had the experiences you did , because as anyone on here will tell you, it might be literally years before you get another gf. your sense of self entitlement is most troubling. pic related. something you wont have for a long ass time

>>9792288

I try to kick the idea of girls out of my head and focus on myself right now. Gym, work, classes. The gym is the new thing for me.

But after walking out the theater I saw a couple walking and they were holding hands and being lovey and shit. I felt really sick, not that I hated them, but I was so sick at myself because I really wanted that and couldn't have it. There was this couple sitting next to me and they couldn't keep their hands off each other and fuck it was annoying but I really want that too.

>>9792337
>having a kid
lmao what an idiot, he ruined his life

>>9790825
I know exactly what you are going trough man

>>9792331
Except shit went sideways for him every time. Whether he turned a woman into a lesbian or inadvertently killed one due to a glue allergy.
My point is that shit goes sideways from one moment to another.

Because of my lord and savior Hedi girls now show interest in me and I'm a 5'7-8 skinny far manlet, the other day I was at the store and this qt who was kind of effay said hi to me, unfortunately because of my autism I messed it up and only gave short answers and quickly left after paying for my stuff, my fit was similar to the one in pic related.

God bless Hedi.

>>9790972
w2c sweater and pants my dude, asked this in several threads now

>>9789964
get surgery to not look like an ugly gook?

>>9791208
it has been two years now

>>9791559
thats_the_joke.jpg

>>9790981
tts, maybe half down.

Does anyone else feel too fucked up to ever get a woman to have a long term relashionship with you? Almost 21, never had a gf. I might have chronic depression, i'm really introverted and taciturn and i've recently came to the realisation that those are part of my personality and i'll probably never be able to get a girl to stick around for long with such a pathetic humain being.

>Faggot, but only know one other faggot so perpetual tfwnobf
>One other fag I know wants to bang but I don't like him like that.
>Never been kissed, dated, held hands, anything.

I'm worried that I'll get drunk and just give away my first kiss to this guy I don't even like.

I didn't even think a first kiss was that significant until I got to be 18 without having had one..

does this explain why so many of the weak, manlet, knock kneed losers on here love niggers?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=taRCB_UiJrk
"Liberalism and Low Self Esteem"


>So far we know that liberals have low self esteem and that having low self esteem causes people to be more liberal. There are at least two ways of looking at this. One way is to say that having low self esteem causes someone to be liberal because it makes it rational for them to favor equality. Equality helps everyone on the bottom half and that's probably where you think you are if you have low self esteem. There's clearly some truth to this narrative. But I believe that people with low self esteem will also be attracted to liberalism because being a liberal helps your self esteem a little bit. In particular, being a liberal let's you view yourself as a kind of moral hero waging a battle against dark and evil forces. Who doesn't feel good about themselves while playing super hero?

Sources
1. "Conservatives are happier than liberals, but why? Political ideology, personality,
and life satisfaction" by Schelenker et al
2. "Personality and Politics" by Jonason
3. "Mirror, mirror on the wall, who’s the fairest of them all? Thinking that one is attractive increases the tendency to support inequality" by Belmi and Neale
4. "The Moral Differences of Liberals and conservaties: Exaggeration Across the Political Spectrum" by Haidt et al
5. "Political Polarization & Media Habits" by Mitchell et al

Liberals aren't breeding anymore and temperament and predilections to certain political positions are very much inheritable, the 2010 US survey and Europoll 2011 both found that 93%+ of individuals had the same political and religious affiliation as their parents once they were older than 25. Indicating some form of heritable trait is being passed on.
You can see it in the birthrates by political affiliation across many nations. Republicans: 2.7, Democrats: 1.2, Social Democrats: 0.9 Labor: 0.8, Tories: 1.5, Christian Democrats: 2.5. White Demcrats in America now have a birthrate of 0.9, blacks have a birthrate of 1.4, and spics sit at 1.6. White republicans are between 2.6 and 2.9 depending on whose numbers you use.

By 2050 only 20% of individuals in the US will be descended from habitual Democrat voters or self described liberals and only 7% will be black.

http://jaymans.wordpress.com/2012/08/27/the-liberalconservative-baby-gap-time-depth/
And we currently have net negative spic immigration; so long as they don’t give them amnesty the dropping birthrates of spics in Mexico will further reduce it. We should still deport them all though.

http://www.pewhispanic.org/2012/04/23/net-migration-from-mexico-falls-to-zero-and-perhaps-less/

And mudslime birthrates are dropping like stone even in Shitstainistan.
http://www.frontpagemag.com/2013/dgreenfield/muslim-fertility-rates-dropping-faster-than-western-fertility-rates/

Jews are also dying by inches. http://www.independent.co.uk/news/jews-could-die-out-by-next-century-1319030.html
http://www.independent.ie/world-news/americas/american-jews-in-danger-of-dying-out-survey-shows-25932714.html

Those Christian Converts that took over old Roman land? That's what conservative whites are http://www.prospectmagazine.co.uk/magazine/breedingforgod/

now, why did i post those two? because looking at this thread is a perfect example of the liberal betaboy in action. 90% of you incel depressed dweebs are probably the same faggots who genuinely like kanye west, unironically tell me to go back to /pol/ unironically consider yourselves liberals/marxists/anarchists/feminists.

lmao, fucking pathetic losers, thanks for the thread.

>>9792716
>>9792720
you're insane, get the fuck back to /pol/ with your propaganda

>>9792731
>90% of you incel depressed dweebs are probably the same faggots who genuinely like kanye west, unironically tell me to go back to /pol/ unironically

:^)

>>9792728
you're the goddamn loser here, friend
you're spewing out all this bullshit and you're not doing anything about the "problems" that everyone in the world is apperantly having
just shitposting about it on a moldovian telephone reperation forum, seriously go to /pol/, it would fit you better

>tfw you find the one and shes a perfect match
i guess it was a gift after having a horrible life for the past while

>>9792734
could you be anymore triggered

>tfw broke up with hs love after 4 years
>tfw its been 2.5 years already and cant fuck anything besides hookers, and I'm in what I supposed that'll be my prime - 23 years.
>tfw went full autissimo meanwhile, no social circle, no friends, only classes
>pathology exams in less then two months

>>9792738
nice bait brah

>>9792694
can rel8 m8
always get close to a relationship with grills then i end up cutting them off cause i remember im a depressed fuck and ive just been hiding it from them and theres no way i could keep faking being happy
im slowly learning to stop feeling like i have to be happy

>>9792602
>brown belt and black shoes

>>9792728
did u just use a photo of urself as a reaction image

absolutely brilliant you are truly the hero we need

>>9792468

he's literally living the dream you anti-natalist dredge

>>9790582
I feel this

>>9789964
>lots of friends
>lots of attention from grils
>go out regularly
>tfw still feel alone and dead inside
I guess there's no hope for me anymore.

>>9790633
oh god..

>>9792836
this is a dope fit
are those henders or what?

The girl im seeing thinks I'm using her and despite being months in point blank refuses to tell me she loves me

all of you complaining about no gf, but it's even worse to be with someone you don't love.

rather have no gf than one i don't love.

also
>meet girl via tinder
>pretty qt, 7.5/10 on pictures
>chatter, doesn't seem into me though
>chat fucktons everyday after work
>she's actually really funny
>decide to meet up

>big day
>finally meet up
>feels good
>comes out of train
>6.2/10
>whatever.jpg, i liked her for her personality
>becomes my gf after 2 dates, still really fond of her at the time

>8 months later in long distance relation, be me today
>grew bored of gf
>long distance sucks ass
>only comes by on the weekend, when i'm not busy
>always do the same shit, repetitive
>go into town, look at shops, get smth to eat, go home, have sex
>not exciting at all
>doesn't have interest in out-there music or fashion, so never talk about those
>studies at a low level, can't have an intelligent conversation about politics or other social problems
>prolly don't love her anymore

>too pussy to break up
>coined the idea one time indirectly
>what would u do if we broke up haha?
>'i can't see me living without u'
>really? u think we'll be together in a few years?
>'yeah, of course, and you?'
>eh, prolly not cuz i'll be moving soon and distance sucks
>goes into passive-aggressive/look at me i'm so sad mode
>fuck

>even more afraid to break up now
>care too much about her to hurt her by breaking up
>care too little about her to have a relationship
>time keeps ticking
>the long i wait, the harder the break up

send help

>>9792861
uh
are you retarded?
you can break up with her at any time

>>9792861
You already know what you have to do, it's evident from your post. Every day you wait will hurt her more, no matter how you try to rationalise it.

>>9791553
I'm getting there

>>9792243
I dress like a pleb so I don't stand out from the crowd, yet I spend hours on here everyday

>>9792861
>>9792865
hurt her? jesus who the fuck would care hurting a girl as dense and superficial as he makes her out to be lmfao

>>9792863
how? i'd prefer to just break up over phone, but that's not acceptable for her, especially after what we had. should i just travel to her to say we're breaking up or what?

>>9792865
true. i was just hoping she'd end it at some point so i wouldn't have to do it.

>>9792879
she isn't dense or superficial at all. we had great laughs and talks, our interest are just too far apart for me, making every conversation i have with her too samey.

>>9792861
bro you dont see her that often just avoid seeing her. then tell her you want to break up.

>>9792883
either you act like shit and make her break up w/you
or either you go there and explain why you are breaking up with her and leave it at that

>>9792861
Act like a dick, and fuck your shit up purpose. She will break up with you, so you don't have to bite the bullet.

>>9792899
>either you act like shit and make her break up w/you
don't do this

>>9792703
bruh, i had my first kiss not long ago with someone i don't care about much, and idgaf, it's really not a big deal, even if i wish i hadn't done it, it doesn't bother me.

>meet this girl online
>talks to her all day every day
>called her on a date time ago; "too busy this weekend"
>yesterday she calls me on a date
>accept
>she knows a lot bout my life but ive never seen her
>afraid that the date will be awkward and that i'm too ugly for this bitch (yes, she has seen photos of mine and viceversa)
>fuck

>>9790812
Mane its probly too late to tell you this but do go alone and run into her and just say something stupid like "My friends went some other way so I lost them so I guess we just gotta hang out now" lmao

does this explain why so many of the weak, manlet, knock kneed losers on here love niggers?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=taRCB_UiJrk
"Liberalism and Low Self Esteem"


>So far we know that liberals have low self esteem and that having low self esteem causes people to be more liberal. There are at least two ways of looking at this. One way is to say that having low self esteem causes someone to be liberal because it makes it rational for them to favor equality. Equality helps everyone on the bottom half and that's probably where you think you are if you have low self esteem. There's clearly some truth to this narrative. But I believe that people with low self esteem will also be attracted to liberalism because being a liberal helps your self esteem a little bit. In particular, being a liberal let's you view yourself as a kind of moral hero waging a battle against dark and evil forces. Who doesn't feel good about themselves while playing super hero?

Sources
1. "Conservatives are happier than liberals, but why? Political ideology, personality,
and life satisfaction" by Schelenker et al
2. "Personality and Politics" by Jonason
3. "Mirror, mirror on the wall, who’s the fairest of them all? Thinking that one is attractive increases the tendency to support inequality" by Belmi and Neale
4. "The Moral Differences of Liberals and conservaties: Exaggeration Across the Political Spectrum" by Haidt et al
5. "Political Polarization & Media Habits" by Mitchell et al

Liberals aren't breeding anymore and temperament and predilections to certain political positions are very much inheritable, the 2010 US survey and Europoll 2011 both found that 93%+ of individuals had the same political and religious affiliation as their parents once they were older than 25. Indicating some form of heritable trait is being passed on.
You can see it in the birthrates by political affiliation across many nations. Republicans: 2.7, Democrats: 1.2, Social Democrats: 0.9 Labor: 0.8, Tories: 1.5, Christian Democrats: 2.5. White Demcrats in America now have a birthrate of 0.9, blacks have a birthrate of 1.4, and spics sit at 1.6. White republicans are between 2.6 and 2.9 depending on whose numbers you use.

By 2050 only 20% of individuals in the US will be descended from habitual Democrat voters or self described liberals and only 7% will be black.

http://jaymans.wordpress.com/2012/08/27/the-liberalconservative-baby-gap-time-depth/
And we currently have net negative spic immigration; so long as they don’t give them amnesty the dropping birthrates of spics in Mexico will further reduce it. We should still deport them all though.

http://www.pewhispanic.org/2012/04/23/net-migration-from-mexico-falls-to-zero-and-perhaps-less/

And mudslime birthrates are dropping like stone even in Shitstainistan.
http://www.frontpagemag.com/2013/dgreenfield/muslim-fertility-rates-dropping-faster-than-western-fertility-rates/

Jews are also dying by inches. http://www.independent.co.uk/news/jews-could-die-out-by-next-century-1319030.html
http://www.independent.ie/world-news/americas/american-jews-in-danger-of-dying-out-survey-shows-25932714.html

Those Christian Converts that took over old Roman land? That's what conservative whites are http://www.prospectmagazine.co.uk/magazine/breedingforgod/

now, why did i post those two? because looking at this thread is a perfect example of the liberal betaboy in action. 90% of you incel depressed dweebs are probably the same faggots who genuinely like kanye west, unironically tell me to go back to /pol/ unironically consider yourselves liberals/marxists/anarchists/feminists.

lmao, fucking pathetic losers, thanks for the thread.

>>9793005
>>9793006
>>9793008

here we go again

>>9793006
>jaymans.wordpress
>pewhispanic
>frontpagemag
as always top sources piggie

>>9793013
>he doesnt understand that they['re articles about the studies themselves
>he thinks they originate from those websites
heh

>>9793008
Gb2pol

>alright looker
>dress old man comfy slim
>when I was 19 got a lot of girls
>after a bout of 6 flings just gave up
>two years later I talk to girls and the 'improvements' seem to be me talking them senseless with all sorts of academic crap
>open my mouth and the girls scatter

what do i do, can i change my style or should i just try to be less <whatever> ?

>>9792703

sinister

>>9793143
Stop saying smart stuff and just act stupid and say basic shit

>>9793005
>>9793008
>>9793006
tl;dr

>>9792703
as a gay dude who lost his virginity at 16 to some dude off of craigslist, it doesn't really matter, just contributes to how comfortable you are with those kinds of encounters ultimately.

>>9791456
I'm a eurobro, so i dont have a room mate. I don't even live on campus, but at mom's basement.

>>9791014
>

>>9791212
I never pretended my fits to be goat. I just said some /fa/ggots like it and it makes me feel better in my shitty life.

>>9791404
Thx bro. Anyways, as you and >>9791526 said, i indeed am a kinda dirty looser.

>>9792618
Carhartt sweater
American Vintage pants

>no job
>barely any friends
>still not over that one girl

it's been months. idk what to do anymore.

>>9792047
Welp, I'm not adding my crush any time soon then. :(

>got fired from last job cause punched my boss in his fucking lying face
>no job
>no education
>no gf
>friends work all day and we can't hangout
>100$ for 40 days.
>tons of 400$+ footwear and 1k+ jackets. Can't sell this shit cause I will feel like a shit without clothes I love
>I'm to scared of hardtime and working hard
>I really want to kill myself cause I hate the person I'm
>wish me luck, pls

>>9793310
>as a gay dude who lost his virginity at 16 to some dude off of craigslist
details? how old was the guy?

>>9793720
You sound like a dumbass. Why would you punch your boss in the face

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=k-T63_DK8hc

>>9793720
Sell ur fukin clothes

>>9793720
>got fired from last job cause punched my boss in his fucking lying face

You know that's gonna stick with you for a long time, right? Good work on ruining your chances getting a new job.

>tfw every time I start to like a girl and she likes me back I get horrendously sick, throwing up 5 times a day and huge anxiety to the point where I eventually cut contact just to preserve my sanity
Pls help

>be me
>i am a bee

It's really depressing and comforting how similar I am to all of you

I don't ever go on r9k or /b/ so these threads are kinda nice once in a while, tbh. I'm 18 still kissless virgin and my last "gf" was in 6th grade lmao, but I'm taking a qt to prom so who knows what could happen. She isn't the qt I wanted originally, but the other one is like 11/10 and I'm not that attractive and kind of a recluse so we've never talked. I don't see it working for me anytime soon, but I will keep trying

>>9791443
step up your dick game and claim her as yours

>>9793843
you have an anxiety disorder and should see a gp/get therapy or whatever

>>9793896
Fug.
My future career choice could be seriously affected if I get diagnosed with a mental health issue tho

>20
>temporary dropout
>never had a relationship
>last had friends almost 10 years ago
>therapy does nothing
>cant even go outside without feeling like everyone is staring at me
>sometimes cant even vocalise when someone talks to me and i just stand there in panic

would sudoku if i had the courage

>>9792861
iktf, it's hard to do, but you'll have to do it.
Don't tell her too bluntly but yes, you will be seen as an asshole whatever you do.

>>9793917
Too bad. Get meds and stop feeling like shit friend.

>>9794092
>get meds

Worst possible advice. Don't ever get xanax or any shit like that man, it'll make you feel even shitter about yourself and withdrawal effects are devastating.

girls are overrated faggots

real talk

Taking this kinda crazy qt to prom and I've liked her for a few months but idk if I should ask her out with only like 2 more months of school. And I'm worried that if she says no, prom will be super awkward. What should I do, /fa/?

>>9793917
>>9794092
>>9794107
if not meds then do something to tackle the underlying issue, counselling/therapy/meditation/jesus or whatever jsut actively do something to fight back

you dont necessarily have to be formally diagnosed with something for a doc to give you advice or help, btw

>>9794113
I'd wait untill after prom m8, your life isnt over after school ends

>>9794164
Yeah but we're going to different schools far apart and I'll be gone a lot of summer
Maybe I'll just try to fuck at prom and see what happens

>>9794181
ask or die alone pick one

>>9794181
What exactly do you plan on doing on that date anyway? Prom is a date as well and a perfect situation to get drunk as fuck and fuck her brains out

>>9794189
True man idk I just feel like prom might be more fun if there's already something between us

>>9790887
Dont go, they most likely will fuck. Stay home an do something you like. Try not to hink about it.

>>9794211
It might

or it might go the other way, especially if you aren t that experienced with girls and fuck up the date. Either way if I were you I'd assume shes interested if she said yes to prom

>>9794153
Is counselling/therapy cheap? I don't really have anyone to talk to so I guess being able to speak openly to someone would be nice.
Since when was /fa/ this friendly?

>>9789964
Why do people have to ruin an ok fit with those socks. Shoes would also look better if they were grey

>>9793310
He was 31, young uncle type. It was in his man cave of a shed. I was actually down to meet up again because he was nice and non-intimidating, but he had a kid and a baby momma or something. He lived p close and would have been super convenient.

>>9793744
oops i'm high, I meant to reply to you

>>9794268
the socks make the fit

>>9794360
>the socks make the fit shit
true

>>9794229
uh probably not, i did counselling at uni which was helpful but yeah that was free.

but even if you only go a couple of times it can be really nice to talk openly for once. there might be charitable options out there too if you've got no ££?

I didn't get a gf until 22. Luck happens.

As for >>9791023 the only important message he gives is this imo:
>develop yourself and make yourself cool as hell. get cultured. so that when U do meet the cutie of your life, you are cool as hell and ready for it all
Although personally I understand that it can be difficult to motivate yourself when you're so alone. Getting a gf helps in that regard. But either way it's good to have sensible habits and cultured interests.

>>9794391
I'll definitely look into it, thanks man

>>9790825
>I feel like I'm doing prison time
you didn't have to hit me in the feels so hard anon

>>9790633
#rekt hahahahaha

>>9792861
end things in person, promptly and respectfully to preserve her and your honour

>>9794416
no worries man.

it does get better btw, few months ago I was so ill that just going on public transport/going grocery shopping was tough. few months later and I feel stronger than I have in a long time.

you'll be fine.

>26
>only friends are /pol/-tier shut ins who think they're above doing anything fun
>work shit data entry job to fun internship at film company
>people at company really like me and compliment my fits
>all think I must have a great social life
>end up lying to pretend I do
>no gf in five years
>didn't even have sex with her because she was so insecure about herself
>feel old
>feel lonely all the time
>regret time I wasted with bad friends
>regret lack of career progress
>regret my entire life
>want to die but probably won't commit suicide

>>9793479
Same here anon
>tfw still wanna talk to her but she's already moved on

>>9792602
who the fuck is Hedi ?

>>9792742
this is me, except no hookers yet. Legit haven't gotten laid in 2.5 years.

I'm at the point now where I almost wish I was a virgin so I'd have an excuse for why

>>9794574
lurk more

> be 36
> dress like a 20s thrift hipster cunt fucc
> no social life because of mild autism and mild autism and misanthropy (yeah I can into self-diagnose fuck yeah)
> picrelated kinda to give you the idea
> the rest you know

>>9790633
lmeo

>>9793866
You're fucked, she's using you for a free ride to prom.

>>9790856

literally eliot rodger rhetoric

>>9790856

>>9794736
not really

>>9790733
You're 22, not 40.

>>9794821
lmao this

why do people think girls are a big deal?

>>9794736
Do you know what rhetoric is?

>>9790856

I can't stop laughing at that sentence.

>>9794828
because reproducing is the finality of every organism and we need male-female sex to accomplish that.

>>9794857
>wanting kids
I'm out

>>9794895
>not wanting to experience the truest love you can possibly feel
I'm out

>>9794906
Nice No True Scotsman.

>>9794906
Having kids =/= true love

Look at all the divorces, broken families, and exasperation around you.

I can guarentee i'm lonely

>>9794906
lol

>>9794909
>Nice No True Scotsman.
You've just learned that word haven't you ? It does not mean what you think it means.
>>9794913
That's a No True Scotman

>>9794841
it comes from the greek and it literally means the art of speaking. it has connotations of persuasive speaking or argumentation, but that's not literally what it means.

the word "orator" shares roots (and sounds) with rhetor. "rhetoric" also takes from the word "tekne" (from which we derive the word "technology") which refers to any human craft.

so, yes, if you are using langauge (especially in a public context), you are orating and thus employing rhetoric.

don't ever step to me about word definitions again you casual.

>>9794923
Correlation doesn't equal causation. If you are truly in love having kids will bring you happiness, but if you aren't truly happy, having kids doesn't miraculously change anything, it may cover discontent up for awhile but the unhappiness still remains.

>>9792901
dont do this, this is like literally the most shitty thing you can do to someone in a relationship. I say this from having my ex do this to me.

>>9792861
just break up with her faggot you are going to hurt her more in the long run by staying in a relationship with her.

>>9794938
Why do you automatically assume I was thinking in a bad couple situation then ?

>21
>Never had a serious relationship
>Fucked two chicks my whole life, only got head from one
>Have no friends
>Haven't had a single true friend since third grade
>Every day, no texts, no calls, no Facebook messages. I do not exist to anyone
>Spend most of my time browsing Grailed and listening to music

But at least I own my grail jacket

>>9794945
You made your original statement as a universal truth, I was trying to prove that it wasn't universal.

>>9794950
>at least I own my grail jacket
what is it anon?

>>9794950

being alone doesn't necessarily mean being lonely. you have interests and you are probably more comfortable with your own company than most of your peers.

people seek constant social interaction when they cannot find meaning in themselves. not to diss socializing, i think it can be fun and useful in the right doses. but there's nothing wrong with you if you spend most of your time alone.

there are only a few people with whom i enjoy spending long periods of time, and they are people who are usually similarly reclusive. people who understand that hanging out doesn't mean endless mindless chatter, and who would rather only speak when they really have something to convey or express.

do not seek to be codependent. seek social interaction when it pleases you to do so, but don't compare your lifestyle to that of vapid extroverts who are only extroverts out of some lack of depth of character.

focus on improving your life, and if you find folks who want to improve their lives alongside you, then great. but if not, well, that stuff is extra anyway.

>>9794913
no one divorces from kids.
and unless you're one inattentive or abusive parent there's not much to fear.

>>9794969

>>9791259
ikts just ass feelin man, get ovewr it

>>9793720
Sell your clothes and go to a psychiatrist.

>>9794464
>all think I must have a great social life

Why do people assume we have good social lives just because we dress well?

>people who have fucked girls and have relationships whining about their lives

fucking normies

>>9795023
Dope

>>9793855
underrated post

>>9790633
hey, good on you for growing balls, better than being in the friend-zone

>>9794976
quality post

>>9794976
okay ted kaczynski jk

>>9793440
Carhartt WIP or mainline?

>>9794933
rekt hard

>>9795040
because most people don't bother dressing well unless they're meeting someone/attending a meeting.
nothing outlandish, really, you could've answered that yourself.

>>9790648
close? I'd say better!

>>9792799
nah, julian casablancas is living the dream. married an older woman and no kids. tons of $$$

>>9791553
this picture always tickles my pickle

>>9792243
jelly ugly manlet detected

>>9794719
eh, doesn't matter to me. as long as i get to post it on instagram and get props from uglier guys and seem more like a normie.

i just want to be a really fashionable normie with a good taste in music, that's all

>>9793843
I feel, whenever a girl that I chase starts to like me back It just feels disgusting and I bail.

>finally complete sick fit
>wear it for first time
>see my only "friend"
>"wow anon you look awful"
>t-thanks

>>9795247
It doesn't matter what level you're on, the struggle will never go away.

>>9795424
i dont believe anyone would actually say that

what were you wearing lol

>>9795424
a true friend will always be honest, be grateful faggot

Hahahaha nice pity party /fa/. Spending stacks on vintage Raf won't improve your social skills. Dudes wayyyy uglier and shorter than you are getting laid and having a great time and you aren't cause you're too afraid of getting rejected

>>9795510
>implying getting laid will get rid of your struggles
You are projecting too much anon

>>9795510
b-but I'm 6'3, completely socially autistic and I still get laid putting in barely any effort.

>>9790972
not going to lie, that house looks comfy as fuck

>have great life
>tons of friends
>moving out of shitty apartement into new awesome city
>job prospects good for a summer job until uni starts

>break kneecap
>can't move out
>can't hang out with friends anymore
>can't accept job
>can't screw fuckbuddy

wat

>>9795647
this is gods sense of humor, enjoy.

>>9795652
i guess i have to accept it but it just seems so perfectly timed
i was going to move out the day after it happened, also the first day at work would have been tomorrow
like fuck dude why now

>>9795536

No but there'll be less threads like this one where you can do something about your problems instead of whining like a fucking pussy. Everybody's got problems m8, but not everyone wants to hear about it.

>>9790919
/out/ and /fa/ are the best to go on, you have good taste anon

>>9791191
bump.

I need reassurance that once I go through all this school I won't be super lonely forever

so I'm seeing this girl that I knew back in college. She was engaged but the guy broke up with her. We hang out like every other day and almost kissed once. Where should I go from there?

>19
>christmas break dec 1 - jan 5th
>manage to snag up a 10/10
>she's perfect, into fashion, cultured, smart
>she couldn't get pregnant because of a medical condition and the medication she took
>we hang out all the time
>school starts
>visit every weekend
>everything is great in my opinion
>last weekend in January she says her grandfather has cancer and we can't date anymore so she can focus on taking care of him
>shows no signs of being sad due to breakup (fucks me up)
>she blocks me on facebook, instagram, and deletes her twitter and tumblr because she mainly used those to share what i was doing/like/rt/bg/etc
>claims she doesn't want to hurt me
>gets back with her ex who abused her physically and emotionally a week post breakup
>tells me she want's to be friends etc, i constantly ask if there's a future but she avoids telling me that she got back with her scummy ex
>eventually find out she got back with her ex
>pretty depressed, cant go home anymore because everything reminds me of her
>having deleted our texts, or the hundreds of pictures we have sent eachother
>waiting for her to maybe come back
welp im a fucking wreck, oh well i mean im just focusing on me and hopefully some girl better than this will come back

>>9795712
work duh
like 90% of all maried couples met at work

>>9795724
haven't deleted our texts, or the hundreds of pictures we sent eachother*

>be 20
>past couple of years, in love with muslim girl
>says she doesn't want bf cos of religion and fam
>stop talking to her
>things still not looking up

>>9795724
>>9795741
It was a christmas break fling
she doesn't nor did she ever want you for any amount of time
she got back with her ex when she went back to school or whatever

get over it pls

>>9794933
chill

>>9795743
>in love with muslim girl

Dodged a bullet there m8

>>9795023
niice man

>>9791865
yes

>>9792799
topkek

>>9791483
>>9791499
>just got back
>we watched Dr. Strangelove and talked shit about people we both know
>didn't lay a finger upon her
Tfw at your most alpha, you're a beta by traditional standards

>>9795767
i think he dodged more than a bullet there

>>9794933
these are the kind of people who wonder why they have no friends

>>9792916
youtube.com/watch?v=bPfAma-6t2U

tfw day +5 NoFap

>>9795669
how did you break your kneecap?

>>9795724
it's harder if you've never fell in love, but just have the conviction that she ain't special, that you'll fall in love again and that everyone is replaceable. You didn't miss a thing, don't give away your self-worth.

>>9793143
don't change shit, you start acting like a basic shit-head you'll just attract other basic shit-heads, and then you'll be stuck forever pretending to be a basic shit-head. Try online dating or hanging out where all the qt intellectuals hang

>>9795814
avoided a bombing?

tfw where's asok

>>9791208
probably gay man

>>9791435
this aint even a b8 post
i know this feel exactly

>>9790582
>tfw no human to have extended conversations with

>>9791435
this is me
holy fuck
It doesn't get better a year later

>attractive, charming, funny
>every girl I interact with falls for me
>except the one I want

It makes me really question how she could say no, when every other girl would do anything for me

I guess I probably shouldn't have told her I was a narcissist, but it all flows out so easily when you're in love

>>9796849
2edgy4me

>>9796849
>attractive, charming, funny
>every girl i interact with falls for me
>narcissist


is this post supposed to be a joke or is this copypasta i dont know lol

I am going to kill myself soon, guys. I want to thank you all for the good times we had together, but now it is time for me to leave.

>tfw you realize you have become /r9k/ incarnate

>>9796916
Why?

>>9796916
can you send me some clothes then cause my life just got better

Ayy, how the fuck do I make friends after high school? I'm so fucking lonely.

>>9796916
dont lad the pain will ease

things are going to be okay

>told my parents i was planning to off myself
>dont even get a reaction from them
>mom finally says, while doing her crossword puzzle, "guess we'll have to hire somebody to mow the lawn"

this will cheer you up
kiko + some decent handbag house
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y1F3xHrMeT8

>>9797049
senior here


this gonna be me, every friend i have besides 1 is moving after high school, i'm staying for CC for a few years


luckily i have like 2 sophomore friends, maybe they will help me out

>>9797074
lmao... classic mom

>>9797074
they're tired of you being a complaining cunt, get a grip

>>9797049
>>9797109
Probably a longshot but where are you from?

>>9797124
SB, california

>>9789964
is it just me or shirt looks way too big

>>9795722
In her vagina :DDD

>>9795424
this is the best post in this thread

>>9796916
>good times
>/fa/
send me some clothes

>>9795510
>all he cares about is getting laid

how can so many people be this superficial?

>>9794933
WITH NO REGARD FOR HUMAN LIFE

>>9791822
>not up to /fa/'s standards

are you talking about the waywt or inspo/discussion threads? cause if you dress below the standard for waywt's, how have you ever gotten a single compliment?

>>9792099
>>9792133

I love when a sad story turns out to be a happy one

tfw no gf

>get to know qt girl
>find tumblr
>dumb frogposter

Why

>>9789964
>have 250 matches on Tinder
>ask out multiple qts for coffee
>a few say "yes :)"
>say ok, lets meet x at x
>no response
>ask what works for them
>no response
>ask for their number
>no response

WHAT THE FUCK DO WOMEN WANT. Coffee dates/drinks are as low commitment as it gets. HOW ARE WOMEN THIS FLAKEY. WHY THE FUCK SWIPE RIGHT IN THE FiRST PLACE IF YOU NEVER WANT TO FUCKING SEE ME?

>>9790972
Your fits are so good dude.
Please don't commit suicide, you are my inspo