/fa/ - Fashion

>>9639144
social anxiety
google it

>>9639144
>be talking to female friend
>too scared to look at her even though we're bro-tier

>That feel when you spend thousands ordering clothes online and leave the house wearing them for the first time
>Still have no confidence

>>9639144
Normally people get a little scared around other attractive people. It's just how it works, the only thing is that you have to do is ignore it.

>>9639238
>Normally people get a little scared around other attractive people.

Damn, is that why nobody wants to talk to me? :$

>>9639238
>just ignore it its all in your head xD
fuck off

>>9639253
No, it's because your autism has a 100ft radius

>>9639262
/r9k/ detected
its the truth in many circumstances

watch that vsauce video on the science of awkwardness. made me feel p good

>>9639253
No, it's because you're reclusive and spend all your time shitposting on here.

I love how you guys act like you wouldn't all do the same thing

>>9639262
>>>/r9k/

>>9639238
>Normally people get a little scared around other attractive people.

are you implying i'm attractive?

>>9639310
yes, only a minority of people are genuinely ugly, the majority are simply not trying hard enough to unleash their true beauty

>>9639277
Just watched this. Made me feel better

>>9639144
Learn to be a human, nobody needs to sperg out. Hell! Look up some manprovement videos or books.

>>9639171
usually I'm uncomf with a fit I wore for the first time. second time around I'm not anxious and more confident.

>tfw she said she was 16 but is actually 18
the lack of constant homework should've been a giveaway

>>9639152
i think u have a crush bro

>>9639144
>tfw suddenly became (apparently) very attractive about a year ago
>no shortage of female attention, people recognize me when I go out even I don't have a fucking clue who they are
>girls hitting on me when I go out, don't even have to do anything myself
>get laid every now and then without applying any effort (could be a lot more if wasn't a sperg I'm guessing)
>still think of myself as unattractive or downright ugly when I'm left alone for a couple of days
>still hate almost every photo I appear on

I'm convinced that I either live in a fucking fantasy world or that there is a God and he is smiling on me. Either way, I am thankful to whatever divine deity there is for creating this illusion of attractiveness for me.

>>9639734
nobody wants to hear about your perfect life

unless you have autism fuck off

/blog/

>tfw extremely low self-esteem
>hate my body (5'4" guy with hair thinning since high school)
>emotionally distressing to look in the mirror
>think I'm a fraud whose only been academically successful through luck since I haven't put any effort into school since freshman year of hs but still manage to get good grades on everything
>spend hours every day thinking about how much i want to kms but afraid that I'll fail and have to live with it until I can try again so I never try in the first place
>thinking about suicide makes me late for class every single day because I pretty much blackout while im thinking about it in the shower every morning
>all my old friends are typical bros but I don't connect with them anymore
>only one friend left really

>strangers and friends of friends always talk to me like I'm just some normal dude
>prof assigns in class assignment to be done alone, pairs, or group of three
>get out paper to do it alone
>qt girl next to me asks me to work with her and her guy friend
>I expect they'll want me to do it for them
>she literally does the entire thing and just lets me put my name on it at the end and the guy makes small talk with me the whole time
>absolutely shocked afterward

>qts make eye contact all the time and sometimes smile but I always look away bc I doubt they actually find a 5'4" guy attractive

>took some adderall earlier to help focus while studying for two exams tomorrow
>still can't study bc I keep thinking about how much I hate myself

>gonna cop some chelseas tonight since I've been looking for the perfect pair that wasn't slp priced for months
>so at least that's going kinda well for me

>>9639734

post pics

>>9639144
Did the interaction go like this image, anon?

>>9639144
Does she have small eyes? Does she have a round, bulky or wide face? If yes, like I am assuming, then that's a 4/10 Asian girl and you have nothing to fear.

Quit being an autistic white kid.

>>9639329
Nah, majority is fucking ugly as shit to me. I go on /soc/ and give all the fuckers a 4-5/10 average and the ugly, tasteless fucks sperg out on me for being honest.

>>9639836
ITT: Does she resemble trunks's girl in any shape or form? If yes then that's a 3/10 and you have nothing to worry about.

>>9639808
the way you describe your interactions makes it sound like you have good reason to have better self esteem, you can clearly socialise normally if not better than average

that's what actually matters dude, and nice chelseas of course

don't just hang in there, pull yourself up and put yourself out there

just buy more clothes until you're confident

>>9640193
I wish this worked

>>9639848

>he thinks /soc/ represents a normal sample of the human population

I think it's time to move out of mommy's basement

>>9639144
screencapped as a visual representation of /fa/. When will you /fa/ggots learn clothes isn't the only thing that can get rid of your autism when it comes to girls?

>french effay cutie on the train
>only throw glances at her
>she catches my eye
>oshit.png
>better not look beta
>staring contest commences
>feel sweat building up on forehead
>"nice shirt anon"
>she gets off the train
A-at least i dress n-n-nice, right guis?

>>9639836
>4/10 asian girl
doesn't help when the op is a 2/10 at most himself, with a -13/10 personality

tfw the only girls you find attractive are 8/10+ /fa/ qt3.14s and only basic bitches come on to you

>>9640404
w2c nice shirt

>>9640501
requesting nice shirt inspo

>>9639868
>don't just hang in there, pull yourself up and put yourself out there
I don't man I feel like I'm too far gone. I appreciate the kind words though.

>>9639808

Get off 4chan, you fucking moron. This is like the worst place for a depressed person to spend their time.

>>9640365
it did for me

>>9640436
sounds like you're ugly

>>9639808
What chelseas are you copping?

>>9640729
church's

>>9639808
You seem to be focusing on the wrong things man. You need to focus on what you have going for you not the bad things. I envy you for not trying that much in school and still get grades. You will succeed in life, I know you will. Focus on your studies and rewards will come.
I know life can be hard when you're so neurotic and self-conscious, but you need to maybe find a hobby on the side apart from studying to keep your mind off of hating yourself.
You also seem empathetic (which is a good healthy sign), but you care way too much about what other people think of you. You need to somehow train your brain to not view yourself through other people's eyes. This is a problem I struggle with myself, but it's getting better.
You socialize pretty well, which I'm also envious of. There are other things that you can have that could be so much worse than your appearance, which IMO isn't all that bad.

There will always be someone who has it so much worse.
Things will get better. Keep a chin up, anon. I'm rooting for you and hope things will get better, which I'm sure they will.

>>9640767
Thanks. I'm just taking it day by day right now

these feels threads are always so sad :(

>>9641225
is being sad /fa/?

>>9641591
ofc

>>9639512
how old are you

>>9639171
i knew a dude exactly like this. he'd cop insane grails all the time and wouldn't go out with friends for months so they'd just accumalate. he'd wear it once and resell it and just go back to wearing uniqlo everything lel

>>9639310
it's probably because you're being a massive creep without knowing

>>9639734
some people find the 'i clueless that i'm attractive' thing sexy. keep it goin, you'll adjust over time and you're clearly doing something right :)

>>9639144
you probably forgot to take your escitalopram and clonazepam that day

>qt korean grill asks me to be her boyfriend
>april fool's

>>9639734
this is me also. How do I stop hating myself and get over my body dysmorphia?

>>9641679
therapy is always a solid choice. if you're a uni student look around for on campus mental health help, it's always always free and incredibly helpful.

best of luck, you'll get through this :)

>>9641692
But it seems absurd. I am aware I am a good-looking guy, but years of being treated like garbage during schooling, I just can't shake it off that I look like a freak

Therapy would be nice, but again, I just have a fear that the therapist would go "are you fucking kidding me?"

>>9641699
>I just have a fear that the therapist would go "are you fucking kidding me?"
I'm a different anon. That's what therapist do, they help you with problems that seem "ridiculous" and are not a problem to most people

>>9641699
boofuckinghoo

your problems are shitty, go get laid and while youre laying it into a fresh pussy then you can say "hey i shouldnt be an insecure little bitch because im actually good looking enough to score some pootang"

>>9641713
yeah, but I feel like I'm not worth. It's psychological not physical

>>9641775
if you can acknowledge that it's psychological, not physical, then you're ready to see a therapist. Explaining it as "Everyone thinks I'm really attractive but I just dont see it lol" obviously makes it seem ridiculous but body dysmorphia is not and you can get help. Just be glad you're not me >>9639808 my problems are physical. Good luck anon

>>9641790
Thanks a bunch. And this sounds crude, but please don't off yourself, you're worth more than that

>>9639734
it's like we're identical

>>9641676
lol, that sounds like some high school bullshit

(oddly enough, I feel like I replied to something like this 1 or 2 years ago....)

>>9641676
i have a daunting fear that this will happen to me tomorrow in class.

>>9641676
that sucks anon. that's such a shitty, petty "joke"

>>9639253
No, it's because you're a huge bitch.

>>9642669
>>9639253
rekt

>>9639150
Iove you :3

>tfw Dugan Ashley accepted my friend request

On the other hand

>gerbil has eye infection
>give him a bath every morning and dab at his eye with a qtip covered in a bit of Neosporin
>kind of don't want him but will keep taking care of him

>>9639144
i am asian girl at bus
i love you long time

sucky sucky for free for pleasure

take me on a trip i'd like to go some day

take me to new york i want to see LA

i really want to come kick it with you

you be my american boy american boy

>>9642935
>gerbil has eye infection
>jab it's eye with a cocktail stick dipped in hydrochloride acid
>and they say 'nam was a failure

>>9639848
the SUPREME gentleman strikes again

>>9643083

Well, that ain't awfully effective, friend.